5 Signs Your Ex Will Come Back - Will Your Ex Come Back?

Clay Andrews shares 5 signs your ex will come back to you based off of his years of experience helping people get back together.
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There are really 5 signs your ex will come back that I’d like to share with you in this video.
The first is that you are out of damage control mode. Damage control mode is that state of mind you often find yourself in after a breakup where you are panicking and doing a lot of things that you probably later found out aren’t going to help you much.
If you are not out of damage control mode, it should be the first thing that you focus on since being in damage control mode is going to make everything much, much harder.
Secondly, you want to detach yourself from stories. We all have a part of our mind that fills in the blanks to try to make sense out of what is happening. Why didn’t your ex text you back? Why did they flake on the meet up that they originally agreed to?
Your mind will try to make meaning out of these event.
And if you can stop trying to make meaning out of them, then you are in a good spot.
The reason why is because your mind will often fill in these blanks with worst case scenario concerns, anxieties, and fears.
These sorts of fears will not help you get back together with your ex. In fact, they will often cause you to overreact and push your ex away from you.
Third, you want to let go of looking for hope or chances or odds of getting back together. If you want to know what it take s to save your relationship, it is making your own odds and luck.
Hope is not part of the equation.
You have to know what you want and go for it, without needing some sort of external validation to back you up.
All the successful people I’ve worked with have not cared about chances or hope. They just went after the relationship that they wanted.
Fourth, you are making some degree of progress.
So many people want to get back together with their ex right away, but they are also quick to give up if they don’t hit the finish line on their own timeframe.
The thing though is that as long as you are making any degree of progress, that should not be discounted in the slightest.
And the fifth sign your ex will come back is that you are having positive interactions with them that are causing the two of you to come closer together on an emotional level and bond and connect.
Positive interactions are the foundation of getting back together with your ex because they make interacting feel good.