I’m 28 years old grown women and cried watching this. I thought it would be something comforting watching this like atachinshi or something. But it was very triggering to me, brought me back to childhood and how my mom treated me. I thought I healed but I guess I’ll never do. The mom is just like my mom so mean to her daughter for no reason! This is shouldn’t be normalized especially in a content for kids. Oldest kids are still kids.
진짜 너무하다. 물감 닦으라고 하는 것도 자기가 뒷처리하기 복잡하니까 "그냥 누나가 되서!!" 타령하면서 자두한테 맡긴 거잖아... 또 놀이공원에서 물 떠오라고 하는 것, 자두 먹을 것을 하나도 남겨두지 않았던 건 좀 심했다고 본다. 장녀지만 아직 3학년밖에 안 된 아이인데.... 그리고 거스름돈 남기지 않고 놀러다닌 것도 자기가 정말 폭발해서 한 행동인데 자두엄마는 단순한 반항이라고 생각하는 것 같아서 슬프다. 그럴만한 마땅한 이유가 있을 텐데도.... 그리고 자두 엄마는 애기나 미미가 놀이공원에서 없어졌어도 그랬을까? 그냥 자두를 소중하게 여기지를 않는 것 같은데...
honestly the mom is too much sometimes. sure jadoo can cause some trouble but she is also just a kid, they push too much responsibility to her just because shes the oldest.
I think the parents are overreacting. I know that the first child is required to be more mature for his younger siblings and also help take care of them. but they should also understand that jadoo is also still a child. Very sad when 3rd graders don't enjoy holidays with their families. Even though to take water can be done by the father, and they did not spare their food. If this continues, their relationship will not be sincere. The older sister will feel neglected while the siblings will also always take advantage of the older sister and disrespect her. Parents must be able to educate their children to love and help each other, of course according to their age.
어느정도 현실을 반영했겠지만.. 이번편은 좀 너무 마음 아픈 에피소드입니다. 차별이 너무 심하고 별것아닌것에 폭력을.. 자두는 어린이들이 주로 보는 만화인데, 옛날 배경을 잘 모른채 이런걸 보면 부정적인 영향이 있을것 같습니다..ㅠ 모든 에피소드를 다 봤고 너무나도 애정하는 만화인데, 이번편같은 소재는 너무나도 아쉽습니다. 디른 화에선 그래도 인간적이고 감동적이었는데, 이번화에선 엄마 캐릭터를 너무 속물로 그려놨네요. 옛날을 바탕으로 한 만화지만, 시대가 많이 바퀸만큼, 조금만 더 정도를 조절해주시면 좋겠습니다^^ 자두 만화 너무 좋아합니다.
In my opinion, her mother is too much in this episode and sometimes on other episodes too. I notice that most of the times she treated her children unequal especially when it comes to Jadoo. Like in this episode, they didn't even give Jadoo any food. I know that sometimes Jadoo is harsh towards to others, but I think it is because she always see it to her mother's behavior. I once was a child and I didn't like when my sister has a lot of attention more than me, I envy my older sister when she always their top priority etc. and because of that I become equal to all my groupmates when it comes of groupings, I always divided the task equally because I dislike the unequal treatment or something to others. There are a positive and negative impact on a children when you treat them unequally. For those mother/father pleaseee, don't make your children feel like you have a favorite or anything. Treat them equally!
I can definitely understand jadoo feeling towards her mom, being the oldest and also a girl it's not easy, especially when you have a siblings that is way younger than you, It feels like every pressure is on you and you have to be more responsible + you're the one who got scold at when your siblings cause something...
As an oldest, I only want 1 child. The more I grew older, the more I'm questioning why some parents decide to have more than one child if they cannot love and treat them equally.
Yup I totally agree, I'm also the first child and my other siblings were way younger than me (my first sibling is 7 years younger than me) so I can totally feel the pressure and that make me decide and realized that in the future I want just one or two kids but the age gap will not gonna be far...
I think that the problem is not the number of children, but the people themselves. I was an only child to my parents, but I was still basically used as a service person. And when it was a meeting of parents with their friends and there were also children: usually I alone did some work for the adults. And likewise, if these children broke something (I was not the oldest), or something happened to them, I was to blame. By the way, I was guilty of almost everything, so this was nothing new. The truth came out of course but no apologies to me, usually just avoiding me for a while.
this is so sad, parents need to realize that the oldest child is not the third parent, its just a child, if you cant be a parent properly dont have kids...
Turut bersimpati buat para oldest sister yg merasakan spt jadoo. Tp tidak semua spt itu. Ada yg kebalikannya, jd anak tertua justru semena-mena, dimanja dan dapat segalanya tp masih merasa kurang.
reminder that the oldest child is still a child :( ..... as a parent you should be treating all of your kids the same despite their age, jadoo is just a 10 year old girl, she shouldn't be responsible for her younger siblings actions, if they mess up they clean up themselves the oldest sibling is *not* their parent, their maid or their teacher, what's the point of being a parent if the oldest child is given the responsibility of acting like a parent to her younger ones. Parentified children are a real thing in psychology and most of them grow up with major trust issues, unhealthy coping mechanisms and the inability to form healthy normal relationships as adults.
I am glad that my mom isn't like her mom.... Jadoo is too much strong... If I have a mother like her... I think I will be devastated..by the thought that my mother gave priority to a washing machine more than me...
Well just because you thought of having a baby doesnt mean your other child also thought having to be responsible for a baby ... i am serioualy starting to get irritated about jadoos mother character .... what is wrong with her
I’m 28 years old grown women and cried watching this. I thought it would be something comforting watching this like atachinshi or something. But it was very triggering to me, brought me back to childhood and how my mom treated me. I thought I healed but I guess I’ll never do. The mom is just like my mom so mean to her daughter for no reason! This is shouldn’t be normalized especially in a content for kids. Oldest kids are still kids.
Ikr,put aside all the jokes, parents should treat their kids equally,and I'm so sorry Abt what happened to u
Fr brother 😔
I can understand...my mother just can't tolerate me
자두는 저런 부모한테 자란 거에 비해 성격이 진짜 좋은거임
ㄹㅇㄷㄷ
그렇네요
@@pinkprincess3 그렇네요
@@별님나나 그럿내요
ㅇㅈ..
진짜 너무하다.
물감 닦으라고 하는 것도 자기가 뒷처리하기 복잡하니까 "그냥 누나가 되서!!"
타령하면서 자두한테 맡긴 거잖아...
또 놀이공원에서 물 떠오라고 하는 것,
자두 먹을 것을 하나도 남겨두지 않았던 건 좀 심했다고 본다. 장녀지만 아직 3학년밖에 안 된 아이인데....
그리고 거스름돈 남기지 않고 놀러다닌 것도 자기가 정말 폭발해서 한 행동인데 자두엄마는 단순한 반항이라고 생각하는 것 같아서 슬프다. 그럴만한 마땅한 이유가 있을 텐데도....
그리고 자두 엄마는 애기나 미미가 놀이공원에서 없어졌어도 그랬을까?
그냥 자두를 소중하게 여기지를 않는 것 같은데...
💯 I agree.
동감입니다.이번 자두 엄마는 막장 부모였습니다...
돈도없고 첫째고 여자여서 그런거임 살림 하시기 힘드시겠죠
그놈의 언니고 누나
@@이이잉-p2f ㅈㄹ 그 놈의 언니 타령 자두가 ㄹㅇ 불쌍함
마음이 아픕니다. 어떻게 부모가 이럴 수 있나요? 두 아이를 동등하게 사랑할 수 없다면 두 아이를 낳지 않을 것입니다.
자두 엄마가 내 엄마였다면 나는 그냥 이미 뛰쳐나옴
honestly the mom is too much sometimes. sure jadoo can cause some trouble but she is also just a kid, they push too much responsibility to her just because shes the oldest.
Sadly it happens in reality in Asian family🥲
Well said I agree
@@lumubts5946 in everywhere of the world
Specially in Latin America
i don't know but in my country the mother be like that. She is quite strictly with older sister
@@lumubts5946in Korean society, they are like latín American people, because Japanese people Are like Americans
Came her to learn Korean peacefully coz I don't want to get sad from watching kdrama and now I'm sobbing haha
*Here
I think the parents are overreacting. I know that the first child is required to be more mature for his younger siblings and also help take care of them. but they should also understand that jadoo is also still a child. Very sad when 3rd graders don't enjoy holidays with their families. Even though to take water can be done by the father, and they did not spare their food. If this continues, their relationship will not be sincere. The older sister will feel neglected while the siblings will also always take advantage of the older sister and disrespect her. Parents must be able to educate their children to love and help each other, of course according to their age.
i feel bad for Jadoo, she doesn't deserve such treatment
same😕
어느정도 현실을 반영했겠지만.. 이번편은 좀 너무 마음 아픈 에피소드입니다. 차별이 너무 심하고 별것아닌것에 폭력을.. 자두는 어린이들이 주로 보는 만화인데, 옛날 배경을 잘 모른채 이런걸 보면 부정적인 영향이 있을것 같습니다..ㅠ 모든 에피소드를 다 봤고 너무나도 애정하는 만화인데, 이번편같은 소재는 너무나도 아쉽습니다. 디른 화에선 그래도 인간적이고 감동적이었는데, 이번화에선 엄마 캐릭터를 너무 속물로 그려놨네요. 옛날을 바탕으로 한 만화지만, 시대가 많이 바퀸만큼, 조금만 더 정도를 조절해주시면 좋겠습니다^^ 자두 만화 너무 좋아합니다.
jadoo will grow up with her inner child that hasn't been healed thanks to her mom 🙃
just like some of us are now
자두도 문제있지만
자두 엄마도 너무했다......
마지막에 자두엄마 자기 아이두고
세탁기 안은 장면....
참교육이면서 한심하다......
자두는 무슨 문제?
@@냥-r9b 사고 치고 다니자나용
그렇게요
@@서현공쥬-z2m 아..그러네여ㅎㅎ
Jadoo is troublemaker but a good girl
In my opinion, her mother is too much in this episode and sometimes on other episodes too. I notice that most of the times she treated her children unequal especially when it comes to Jadoo. Like in this episode, they didn't even give Jadoo any food. I know that sometimes Jadoo is harsh towards to others, but I think it is because she always see it to her mother's behavior.
I once was a child and I didn't like when my sister has a lot of attention more than me, I envy my older sister when she always their top priority etc. and because of that I become equal to all my groupmates when it comes of groupings, I always divided the task equally because I dislike the unequal treatment or something to others.
There are a positive and negative impact on a children when you treat them unequally.
For those mother/father pleaseee, don't make your children feel like you have a favorite or anything. Treat them equally!
Agreed!!
I can definitely understand jadoo feeling towards her mom, being the oldest and also a girl it's not easy, especially when you have a siblings that is way younger than you, It feels like every pressure is on you and you have to be more responsible + you're the one who got scold at when your siblings cause something...
자두 엄마 너무해요 첫째라는 이유로 동생과 다르게 대우했잖아요 제 생각엔 자두 엄마보다 은희가 몇 배는 나아요
ㅇㅈ
저도요
@@김남혁-b8t 저도
적어도 살기 어려운 님들 어머니 세대 정도 되는 시기라 힘들고
저때는 저런게 흔했음 솔직히 어린얘니깐 더 길 잃어버리기 쉽고 아무것도 거의 모르니깐 그만큼 금쪽 같이 키우기도하고 아들을 귀하게 여겨서 그런거임
@@Harry_Potter_Dog 지금은 오히려 반대인데 첫째편만 들죠 지금 제 상황이.. 그래요
Bad mother 😢 why she always make Jadoo cry. I wish I could give a hug to Jadoo ❤ , she is a little kid and very good kid
마지막 절대 출입금지 도장 콱 ~~ㅋㅋㅋ웃겼어
As an oldest, I only want 1 child. The more I grew older, the more I'm questioning why some parents decide to have more than one child if they cannot love and treat them equally.
Yup I totally agree, I'm also the first child and my other siblings were way younger than me (my first sibling is 7 years younger than me) so I can totally feel the pressure and that make me decide and realized that in the future I want just one or two kids but the age gap will not gonna be far...
I think that the problem is not the number of children, but the people themselves. I was an only child to my parents, but I was still basically used as a service person. And when it was a meeting of parents with their friends and there were also children: usually I alone did some work for the adults. And likewise, if these children broke something (I was not the oldest), or something happened to them, I was to blame. By the way, I was guilty of almost everything, so this was nothing new. The truth came out of course but no apologies to me, usually just avoiding me for a while.
.. . . . 자두엄마가 아무리그런 캐릭이어도 차별,아동학대,동물학대까지.......... 자두 힘들겠어유
항상 자두엄마 하고 자두아빠 하고 다를게 없네 자두한테 하는행동 보면 자두는 참 효녀네
한국의 K장녀의실상을 만화로 접하는 날이오다니ㆍ감격스럽다ㆍ좋은 메세지를주었다ㆍ
자두 너무 불쌍하다..ㅜ 너무하네 ㅠ
Jadoo's mom is not agood mother and they are treating jadoo as a maid
저 정도면 자두는 친자식 아닌 것 같은데 ? ㅋㅋ
자두는 그때그냥 미국으로 가지 진짜 부모나 동생들이나 너무하네 ㅠ
너무 비난하지 맙시다 저 화를 그린 작가 분이 실제로 작가분의 어머니께서 치매에 걸려 애기의 실제 인물인 작가의 남동생이자 막내 아들만 찾게 되서 서운한 마음을 풀기 위해 이 화를 그린거라네요
그짓말치네
새우튀김 하나 더 있는데ㅠㅠㅠ 자두가 먹을것만 뺏어서 불쌍해ㅠㅠㅠㅠ
this is so sad, parents need to realize that the oldest child is not the third parent, its just a child, if you cant be a parent properly dont have kids...
만화로 보기에는 현실과 겹치고 자두가 된 것마냥 감정이입되서 마음이 아픈 편이네. 정말 심했다
자두는 저론 부모한테 태어나서 갈굼당하는게 너무 불쌍함
자두는 역시 예뻐요 ❣❣❤❤🧡🧡💛💛💚💚💙💙💜💜🤎🤎🖤🖤🤍🤍💎💎💝💝💕💕💗💗💖💖💞💞💟💟😍😍
1000% ENFP 자두
00:31 왜 나한테만 그래!
00:36 난 그냥 물감 몇 개 섞어서 보라색 만든건데!
00:56 엄마 진짜 미워!!
01:10 동생들 씻겨 놔!
01:37 이걸 왜 내가 해?
02:31 승기가 없어졌어?
03:27 야? 최승기 넌 잠이오냐?
04:49 정말 너무한거 아니에요?
05:01 자두야~ 물 좀 받아와라
05:32 누나 솜사탕 사와~ 풍선도~
05:44 하.. 내가 콩쥐도 아니고
06:03 베프 아니랄까봐...
07:03 어? 기껏 물떠오니 다 먹었어?
07:16 나도 아직 10살인데!
07:27 뭐 좀 놀다가도 괜찮아~
08:07 한번 더!
08:17 더이상 못 놀아...
08:27 어....??..
09:02 그만 용서해 줍시다~
09:46 다~~ 공짜에요?
10:20 저도 이제 부모님 찾을 수 있어요~
10:29 장기자랑 타임
10:53 세탁기를 받을 수 없어요
11:04 안돼~
11:14 나 여기 있거든?
11:22 이제 잃어버릴 일 없어
자두시대에는 첫째이면서 장녀인 분들이 저렇게 살았죠😔위로는 딸들인데 막내가 아들인 집안도 알고보면 아들 낳으려고 딸 낳으려고 하신 거였고😔
누룽지 냥편안히 티비시청에 팝콘
묘 팔자가 쌍팔자네😻
they didn't even leave her food after all the chores 🤧 this is really not funny but it happens irl, this is so heartbreaking Jadoo is also a child
Honestly I love how this cartoon shows the harsh truth
Turut bersimpati buat para oldest sister yg merasakan spt jadoo. Tp tidak semua spt itu. Ada yg kebalikannya, jd anak tertua justru semena-mena, dimanja dan dapat segalanya tp masih merasa kurang.
내가 자두였으면 경찰에 신고함
저도 첫째라서 그런지 공감이 너무가네요. 동생이 사고치고 첫째만 욕먹고
짜증나요.
어이구 자두네는 놀이공원 에서
놀지도 못하겠네
출입금지 라서ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
내나이 만18세.....그동안 많은 자두를 봐왓지만 이번화는 도저히 이해가 안됏엇음...물론 난 막내라 이쁨독차지해서 비슷한 처지는 아니엇지만 도무지 이해가 안된 화엿음...
ㅋㅋㅋ누룽지 팝콘먹으면서 티비보는거 웃겨
자두 엄마 가 너무했다..🐙🥀🌊🤦🏻♀️
ㅇㅈ
How could the mom love the washing machine more than Jadoo 😭 So materialistic
역시 재밌다
4:58
이건 좀 너무하네요 자두가 먹으려던걸 뺏어서 애기주고 도시락에 하나 더 있더구만 그걸로 주면 되지ㅋㅋ
자두 엄마 너무해 내가 자두 보고 있었는데 엄마가 나한테 갑자기 엄마가 자두엄마였으면 어케 할거냐고 해서 내 엄마가 자두 엄마면 집 나간다고 함 ㅋㅎ
reminder that the oldest child is still a child :( ..... as a parent you should be treating all of your kids the same despite their age, jadoo is just a 10 year old girl, she shouldn't be responsible for her younger siblings actions, if they mess up they clean up themselves the oldest sibling is *not* their parent, their maid or their teacher, what's the point of being a parent if the oldest child is given the responsibility of acting like a parent to her younger ones.
Parentified children are a real thing in psychology and most of them grow up with major trust issues, unhealthy coping mechanisms and the inability to form healthy normal relationships as adults.
거 너무한거 아니에요 자두엄마
절대 출입 금지 🤣🤣🤣
Is there no English subtitles? It's quite difficult to understand for me, bcz I study Korean from this🥺
They have added english now
@@Cakehyderabad yeah! Thank you! Am watching 🌷
Im a new korean learner. Would u mind sharing 1 of ur best tips?
Dad wanted to help Jadoo, but he doesnt want that Jadoo mother hits him
I am glad that my mom isn't like her mom....
Jadoo is too much strong...
If I have a mother like her...
I think I will be devastated..by the thought that my mother gave priority to a washing machine more than me...
Thats true, in part i think that she hugs Jadoo as lie, because she wanted the Washing machine
엄마 때매 정말 힘들겟다 자두가오죽 힘들었으면 미국에 가서 살겟다고 했겟냐
But if this is season 1, obviously Jadoo dont still know about United States treat
The last scene was so funny 😂
자두엄마 진짜 너무하다.
애 때릴데가 어딨다고 자꾸 쥐박아 진짜 무식하기 짝이 없네;; 둘째 셋째도 시켜요 본인이 애기들 부둥부둥한다고 해서 그 애들이 나중에 부모한테 잘하나. 결국 늙어서는 자두가 부모님한테는 더 잘할 듯 내가 봐서 안다 진짜 자두한테 잘해요 어머님,,;;
Jadoo's mother is too much
왜 절대 출입금지라고 도장을 찍었죠?
자두가 이상한 성격이 아니라 그런 부모 밑에서 자란거 같음 자두 부모가 좀;; 차별대우 겁나 심함. 심지어 자두 이제 10살..
오빠 셋🎉 민지 공주가 되고싶구나😢~~~
이번편은 그냥 아동학대 수준인데? 애들 정서에도 안좋을듯
괜찮을거 같아요…
That was so cute
자두 이편에서 총 3대 맞음 ㅋㅋ0:35 맞았다 치고 0:46또 맞고 ㅋㅋ1:40 말 잘못해서 맞고 ㅋ
만화인데 이번편은 엄마가 너무 심했다 자두만 편해해 이런 자두가 진짜 나쁜짓안한것만해도 감사하지
오렌만이다
I learn Korean help with jadoo
자두 엄마 그건 너무했어요 자두를 찾아다니지 않고 동생들만 음식을 먹게 해서 자두도 좀 생각을 하세요!
그리고 자두를 차별 하는 것 같아요
ㅎㅎ.. 공감되넹
Selfish mom
Can you guys add korean and english subtitles for me
한국어를 배우시는 것이 더 좋은 방법입니다.
They added english
감사합니다
❤
No Eng sub ? Really?
Yes
@@기가지니-j1i 🥺😭
They added english
어린친구들은 이해가 잘 안되겠지만 안녕자두야 시대에서는 거의 모든집이 저랬어요.
우리나라는 남아선호사상이 진짜 심했던 나라여서 남자이고 막내인 애기만 엄청 어화둥둥 하는거예요
Dịch sang tiếng Việt đi
걍 마음 딱잡고 미국가라 .... 저런 대우받고 집에서 우째 산디
Wow tiếng trung
집에 물통 주전자 항아리 사과 지우개 그림이 있어요
9:39초~9:55초 웃김주의
자두엄마 장녀한테는 답이없네 툭하면 때리고 무시하고 나원참
으이구 자두엄마 꼴도보기 싫네 호돌씨 및 승기하고 미미하고 다 한패네
아니 자두엄마 자두를 빤히 봤으면서 왜 그냥 갔나 나원참
I like people
I felt bad for jadoo. This shouldn't be normalized.😢
진짜..ㅋㅋㅋ 자두는 다 재밌는데 저런 가족 관련 에피 너무 짜증나서 보기 싫음.. 자두 엄마 오은영 박사 한 번 만나야 됨
와 자두엄마 너무하네
엄마가 자두를 때리는 거는 아동학대인데 이거 아동학데로 신고해야 겠어 나: 여기 아동학대가 있어요 경찰관: 아 거기 주소가 어떻게 되시나요? 나: 아여기 자두시 ***** *****입니다 그리고 아동학대를 하는 사람은 자기 엄마라고 합니다 경찰관님 이건 신데렐라 효과 입니다 자기한테만 다 시킨데요 얼른 출동해 주세요 경찰관: 네 알겠습니다 바로 출동하겠습니다
지워라…딱 3년뒤에보면 흑역사일거다…
@@user-sq4ss7ls7w 냅둬 웃기잖앙ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
🧐
RUclips, please make my other birthday come so I can turn 100 years old to die
왜 절대 출입금지된건가요??????????????/
자두 엄마 진짜 너무하네요. 자두 맏언니도 챙겨야 하지??
아이큐테스트에는 고추 수저 포크 전구 행성이있어요
I hate mrs choi,she is treating jadoo badly and poorly,can't you guys do anything right.
I hate jaddoo 's mother..😐 literally giving trauma to jadoo...hope no one gets mother like...
I do not like jadoo’s mother she is super rude and mean to Jadoo. This is triggering.
Well just because you thought of having a baby doesnt mean your other child also thought having to be responsible for a baby ... i am serioualy starting to get irritated about jadoos mother character .... what is wrong with her
엄마대 아빠에는 김치랑 콩반찬 위치가 바꿨어요
자두야~
난 너엄마 무섭당 ㅎㅎ
네
캠핑할 때 자두가 빨간고추를 들고 있었는데 갑자기 초록색이 됐어요
🥰🥰🥰🥰😍😘
자두엄마 거 너무하네 왜 자두한테 뭐라하나!!!
거 정신차리게 자두엄마