it's possible that she already knew he was gonna say no. I've seen couples from previous seasons say they basically would decide not to get married and then one person would say yes nad the other would say no at the altar.
The way he cracked a joke and kissed her right after infuriated me! I’m glad he didn’t go through what it but his dad saying he was proud of him after Clay literally led her on and left her at the alter just explains what a role model he was to Clay.
I think after he heard her spill her heart out in her vows about how she felt about him and all he could say was "wow"...he was prob like 'yeah those are mature feelings, real love and emotion.... I definitely don't feel like that at all.'
Agreed, Jimmy did not know what he wanted the entire time, he told her he didn't want to go to the altar but kept saying she was the one and he loved her? Like my dude you clearly don't know what that mean😂😂
All of us knew Clay was saying no, except for AD, who decided to ignore every single red flag he had 😂 Clay's mom is a queen, though. Her convo with Clay's dad was cinematic beauty😭
AD definitely needs to work on realizing red flags she became interested in two of the biggest ones at the very beginning lol, to be fair tho if someone is on this show I'm not expecting them to have good dating/romance skills and practices ns
In fairness, Clay has been basically telling AD from the start that he's not ready for marriage. She was just deliberately ignoring all of his red flags
@@onyx081for real. He's just immature. Not ready for marraige at all. And he really was trying to tell her the entire time. She just didn't want to see the signs. She wanted him to lie and go through with it..she wanted to keep pushing him. That isn't the healthy way to do things. He still wants to be with her and so all the things, just not on that timeline. Maybe when she calms down, they'll end up together. But she was very "all or nothing" which is never fair to any partner- esp if you truly are saying you love them. Maybe she loves the idea of marraige more than she loves him.
When I tell y’all my mouth was on the floor when Clay said no! And when Clay’s mom was toasting his dad when she said “Yeah, but you met me, but you wasn't good to me” his dad’s face said it all!
@@Diiv_Tiid I think he genuinely thought he was ready and could change but once he left them pods, reality hit. Same for AD. She couldn’t leave her fix-a-hoe tendency at the door… and ended up with a man who couldn’t be fixed.
Once Clays dad started talking I understood more about who Clay is. They talk the same way a whole lot of words saying a whole lot of nothing. No true intimacy or self awareness as much as Clay tries to perform it
their contract states that once engaged they have to go to the altar. those who broke off the engagement and left early had a pretty hefty financial penalty. so in a way it makes him look worse because he humiliated a girl who was in love with him rather than take a paycut lol
@@ancientalien000it doesn’t make him look worse lol he’s doing what he signed up for and on the last episode she said she was ok with him saying No I think she just wanted the wedding
@Rachelle-cl6mn I'm saying the optics of bringing someone to the altar knowing you are going to crush them in front of their family and the entire audience so you can get your full paycheck is bad lol. I'm aware that he was doing what he signed on for. But people might not be having such a harsh reaction to him if he had ducked out earlier
I feel like I was so spot on with AD. She truly just NEEDED this to work, because no matter how many times he straight up tells her he is not a good fit for her and he so many red flags, she just took it as “what’s wrong with HER”. Like she didn’t give enough. These people in love is blind they truly just come with so much unresolved baggage. They are not ready to get married most of them. Because they are so unresolved themselves. lol
I feel like The first season people actually signed up to “the experiment” and all kind of seemed to be in the place where they have tried every method of dating, and are completely ready for marriage. And it felt like production actually chose people who they thought would be successful in the experiment itself, ie have the least emotional baffe. Now that we know in later seasons they hit up people on instagram to cast, it’s clear that whole “experiment” is gone. I feel like once they shortlist people from IG, they now choose the most emotionally baggaged people to put ON the show rather than leave them out. Hence why people like AD and Clay are on the show, bc NEITHER should be married rn. AD bc she needs to stand on business. And Clay because he clearly auditioned for too hot to handle
@@ngwesoI couldn’t have said it better myself that is 100% right and it’s sad to see bc man the show would be so interesting if they had kept their methods the same from the beginning
Tbf he HAS been saying it, since they were in the PODS. He was never ready for marriage, he kept warning her over and over he was afraid if they stayed together he would cheat on her (weird he treated cheating like a DISEASE instead of a conscious choice, but okay buddy…), she just stuck it out cuz she thought she could fix him. No hate to her, but poor girl was choosing between 2 red flags since the beginning, so she was doomed from the start 😭
@charmaineespeut4627 That's how most abusive/toxic/bad relationships start. They ignore the signs and the abuser takes advantage of that. The abuser takes advantage of their personality/vulnerability too. It starts off sweet then theyre lost in the sauce unfortunately.
Clay couldn’t be more narcissistic and selfish if he tried… Every single time he says something, it’s about, or for, himself. Like him asking “can I get a hug?” instead of asking if he could GIVE HER a hug, considering she’s the one hurting and crying…. He is actually such an awful person. Thank god for AD’s sake, that he said no, even if he did wait and make her walk down the aisle alone just to hurt her. Good riddance. ESPECIALLY after he said he wasn’t even deeply in love with her… just wild. can’t wait for the reunion! 😂
Yo I didn’t even think about the difference of Can I get a hug versus Can I give you a hug. That’s so crazy and just goes on to support AD’s statement about being the sacrifice. Even in the end he is still asking her to give give give and he takes to feel better.
@@sutandyYES!!!!! The way Clay and his dad were talking with each other before and after walking down the aisle showed just how narcissistic and unserious they both are. Disgusting.
Honestly, Clay saying no was the best thing to do FOR AD. She keeps ignoring the red flags and I’m thankful that someone pulled the plug on the relationship
I don’t believe Chelsea loved Jimmy she just wanted to be chosen. She literally talked him back into it after that other argument. Some women seem to think if they can just get a man to the other side of the altar everything will be fine. Can they imagine what it would be like to actually achieve that and be married to a man who really doesn’t want to be there and didn’t have the courage to say so?
You know what...I've actually been in Chelsea's situation before. I dated a girl who, looking back, CLEARLY was not that interested in me 😂. I'd never been in that situation before and just constantly felt confused. My instincts were telling me something was very wrong...but she consistently told me that it was in my head. Jimmy spent the entire time trying to hide his disappointment over choosing her, which is sooo obvious to us watching. And I think deep down Chelsea knew it too, but WANTED to believe him. And you get to a point where you don't trust yourself either. Even though we can all see he clearly never wanted her, he was never honest about it and made her feel it was because of an outburst she had. So yes she is probably arguing back because she feels it's HER fault and because of her reactions...not knowing that man neverrrrrr was going to marry her. Her behaviour is definitely cringe. But she could of been perfect and it wouldn't of mattered as he wasn't attracted to her physically.
As soon as I saw the awe in Clays eyes when looking at his dad, I knew he wasn’t going to marry AD, he’s not worried about becoming his dad, he aspires to be his dad. AD needs to run lol.
So true. And when his dad told his mom “I met you, Clay just needs to meet a woman like his mom” what he means is that he wants Clay to meet a woman who can provide the bedrock of support in his life, raise his children and do all the emotional and physical labour of maintaining the home and family, while Clay gets to sleep with other women and bring absolutely nothing to the table. It’s revolting.
Jimmy totally decided he was going to break up after she didn't look like Megan Fox, but he knew he couldn't just immediately break up with her or he'd look like a superficial jerk, so he was pushing her to break up. That's why he asked her after the roller coasters if she was sure. He was waiting for her to end it, and she just would not do it so he finally had to. It was the worst game of chicken ever.
Based on the bull she would say during her tantrums it’s only logical to assume she would be the one to end it. But that’s assuming her actions would match her words. If she didn’t believe he truly loved her then why would she walk down the aisle to him? She’s a child who wanted a Prince Charming to put up with her and pretend they can have a happily ever after despite her constantly terrible attitude.
AD couldn't even get a word in when Clay went to see her afterwards he just said his piece and asked for a hug it pissed me off like he's not the one that gets to ask for one 😭would've asked is it not more irresponsible to leave it til the altar to say no
this is why you don't play therapists with men like clay, if a player comes to you to change him just run, people should fix themselves BEFORE getting in a relationship not the other way around
The fact that he said body when she was walking down the aisle was diabolical! The dude’s an absolute menace! I feel bad for AD, but she ignored every red flag he waved in her face 😭
I wouldn't be so fooled by a TV show. They are going to be divorced in a year. We just see a few weeks of a honeymoon stage and that's it. Actual marriage is so much more work than that.
Not sure why people praise Clay's mom so much. The guy needed to be called out for this bullshit. He is just so callous toward women. You need to call that shit out in your child
Right, I’d find her actions praise worthy if she had talked to her son about his actions and stringing a girl along all the way down to the alter. No point in chastising the guy who has no remorse for cheating on you🤨
She stated that she had become aware of something’s she was clueless about and in that moment was starting to address problems she had ignored for years. She can’t teach her son something she is learning with him. I loved the transparency.
Aaron is right- so many times throughout this entire season Jimmy and Chelsea have argued, but right as they say, what's the relationship ending problem, backup. Its so frustrating because everything they've done is soooo miscalculated.
At first I thought he would say yes but he kept saying how committed she was but never mentioned how he would commit to her. Like AD was leading the relationship and he wasn’t as emotional when he saw her walk down the aisle like his mom explained to him how magical it should be. He wasn’t fazed or looked excited or emotional of how beautiful she was. That’s when I noticed he was going to say I do not. And also he kept mentioning how he is scared to be like his dad. Unfortunately he is proving himself right. He really hurt AD so much. I was tearing up for her.
Allegedly if couples do not follow through in answering at the alter, the person to not do it has to pay a fine for it or get part of their pay cut. Makes sense why Clay would think saying no wasn’t as big a deal, also means Jimmy was just DONE lmao he said I’m not inviting my friends and family to this nonsense💀
I feel like the men in this season's LIB are just going on the show and proposing to whoever just to go on an all-expense paid luxury vacation and becoming famous without the actual intention of finding a wife. 😅
I didn't think Clay was going to say yes. He kept giving signs he wasn't ready. When he told AD she told him if he didn't marry her she would end the relationship and so he dragged it on.
The way jimmy sets up his lines to hang yourself is so funny. “Tell me you want me to take a step back” “ I’m not willing to step back” then he does it again in the last convo asking if she wants to wed fr fr
Clay seemed like he had other motives from the start. When he told AD he watched the show for the "first time" while being on it made it obvious to me that he was playing games.
It's sad how Clay's mom had to find out the extent of his dad's infidelity through the LIB process. The dad showed up to the wedding all oblivious and bold as if he was father of year. It's a striking mirror for families with similar trauma. But to expose his family's faults like that on tv was so selfish. OR maybe him going on the show was a cry for help Clay had zero remorse leading AD to the altar just to dip.
AD has chosen to ignore every single red flag that Clay threw at her! I think if he had said yes, it would’ve been a disaster and he would’ve cheated in the end. That would’ve hurt a whole lot more than this. I hope she can move on and find a real man who will do right by her
Clay saying he wasn't deeply in love and that AD wasn't enough while battling his cheating demons is CRAZY. He makes my blood boil, AD did not deserve that embarrassment especially since he let it reach the alter.
I just finished the show and came straight to RUclips -- The way I SCREAMED when I saw you guys had already uploaded this! Shoutout to Aaron and Joe for the grind in getting this uploaded for us :D
Danggg you guys were FAST! So excited to hear your thoughts, all I could think about during the entire episode was how you both would react to certain parts 😆
I really did cry for AD. That shit broke my heart. Clay is crazy for saying no when he already felt this way… but I completely understand where he’s coming from. I would not be ready to get married either in the span of like a few months after only just having met someone??? I’d wanna keep growing with them and getting to know each other. But I also understand AD cause fuck no would I wanna stay with a man after he said no to me??? IN FRONT OF OUR FAMILIES??? Hell no I’d k!ll him! That must’ve been so mortifying 😭 seeing her cry so much though really broke me
even though ad is a bit (maybe a lot) blind to red flags, i understand her and dont blame her for not picking up on things. i was in a similar situation where i ended up being cheated on and to me it came out of NOWHERE. people who love genuinely and wholeheartedly should not have to be at the mercy of those who do these things and it sucks the only way to learn to mature is to go through something so emotionally crushing :(
This show is so much fun to watch. I knew Clay would say no - he was not ready and AD should have seen the signs. Glad I met my husband the natural way and dated for almost 2 years before we got married. Been married for 32 years now :)
I saw a comment that said every time Jimmy said he loved Chelsea he looked completely dead in the eyes like those characters in Get Out 😂😂😂 He was not into her.
No way, I just started watching your videos on love is blind two hours ago and now you drop the next one already. I am so here for it😁 Greetings from Europe, great way to end the day, will def. keep following you!
Aaron hitting the air guitar riff after Clay said “I’m rocking with you” had me cracking up! You guys are a goofy bunch. I’m constantly laughing watching your videos! Thanks for that!
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clay saying body when AD walked down the aisle was so crazy. that man was never serious
I cringed when he said “you got that shit on” as a compliment… on their wedding day 😣
I’m so over TikTok speak
@@nm0852Yeah, that was not romantic at all, tacky, and disrespectful.
@@nm0852ugh! I cringed so hard. "You got that shit on" and AD is acting like that's some type of high praise. Honestly he did her a favor saying no.
He never lied about who he is though
@@acd1168yes and she didn't listen. It happens. It was a lesson for her not just for him. I say be grateful for those.
clay is absolutely delusional for saying ‘just know that i’m rocking with you’ after embarrassing AD in front of her family at the altar 😐
Lmao I’m sorry but that’s kinda funny. I guess because of how out of touch with reality he sounded.
@@Meh4991z yes he did sound out of touch, lol
Yes he’s so immature and emotionally odd
He sounded a hot mess. Like what tf are you talking about.
I kinda think he thought if he did that in front of other people she’d be more likely to just go along with it
Clay smiling in AD's face after she said i do KNOWING he wasn't going through with it.... I would cause a riot right then and there
it's possible that she already knew he was gonna say no. I've seen couples from previous seasons say they basically would decide not to get married and then one person would say yes nad the other would say no at the altar.
The way he cracked a joke and kissed her right after infuriated me! I’m glad he didn’t go through what it but his dad saying he was proud of him after Clay literally led her on and left her at the alter just explains what a role model he was to Clay.
That's the delusion that blk women are in. The disrespect is OK, the lies are OK, the gaslighting is OK...she's sad and I'm sad for her.
I think after he heard her spill her heart out in her vows about how she felt about him and all he could say was "wow"...he was prob like 'yeah those are mature feelings, real love and emotion.... I definitely don't feel like that at all.'
Clays Dad is a complete narcissist and AD was totally led on by Clay.
Jimmy’s words: “I love you so much.” “I totally want to be married to you.”
Jimmy’s face: 😐😐😐😐😐
I must be going crazy because I heard him saying “I **loved** you so much”
@@rebelks88dude thought that too
Me too. Glad I’m not alone there. And Jimmy looks like that A LOT.
He’s just holding on to stay on tv. Most people who go on these shows just want their 15 minutes of fame.
Agreed, Jimmy did not know what he wanted the entire time, he told her he didn't want to go to the altar but kept saying she was the one and he loved her? Like my dude you clearly don't know what that mean😂😂
All of us knew Clay was saying no, except for AD, who decided to ignore every single red flag he had 😂 Clay's mom is a queen, though. Her convo with Clay's dad was cinematic beauty😭
AD definitely needs to work on realizing red flags she became interested in two of the biggest ones at the very beginning lol, to be fair tho if someone is on this show I'm not expecting them to have good dating/romance skills and practices ns
AD saying “not us getting married” was a bad omen.
Exactly! The fact that she’s surprised 😵💫
@@lexx1745 Im dead lmaooo
I didn’t! He was acting like he loved her all the way through he never brought up his reservations
Clay really said whole lot of nothing. Why he didn’t pull a Jimmy and told AD days before the altar that he’s not ready for marriage? 🤦♀️
He wanted his moment in his suit. On tv.
In fairness, Clay has been basically telling AD from the start that he's not ready for marriage. She was just deliberately ignoring all of his red flags
i heard that if you don’t come to the altar you get way less money for the show or you need to pay a fine so probably that’s why 💀
@@Jul_irewhoa wait they get paid to he on the show at all??
@@onyx081for real. He's just immature. Not ready for marraige at all. And he really was trying to tell her the entire time. She just didn't want to see the signs. She wanted him to lie and go through with it..she wanted to keep pushing him. That isn't the healthy way to do things. He still wants to be with her and so all the things, just not on that timeline. Maybe when she calms down, they'll end up together. But she was very "all or nothing" which is never fair to any partner- esp if you truly are saying you love them. Maybe she loves the idea of marraige more than she loves him.
When I tell y’all my mouth was on the floor when Clay said no! And when Clay’s mom was toasting his dad when she said “Yeah, but you met me, but you wasn't good to me” his dad’s face said it all!
He must have earned a ton of money for an alter refusal!
I’m not shocked one bit Clay said no. He repeatedly told us he was not ready for marriage 😭
Why even go on the show then?@VanshayMurdock
@@Diiv_Tiid I think he genuinely thought he was ready and could change but once he left them pods, reality hit.
Same for AD. She couldn’t leave her fix-a-hoe tendency at the door… and ended up with a man who couldn’t be fixed.
@@Diiv_Tiid they do make money from this right?
Johnny at the alter: Guess what. Chicken butt. Guess who. I do.
hahahaha
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I am cackling
Nooo 😂😂😂
Once Clays dad started talking I understood more about who Clay is. They talk the same way a whole lot of words saying a whole lot of nothing. No true intimacy or self awareness as much as Clay tries to perform it
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Agreed. And plus he just kept talking about himself, not saying anything pertaining to his freaking son getting married!
exactly, and his dad made the same excuse of using his upbringing to explain for his affair. the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree it seems
Clay know he’s diabolical for going all the way to alter just to say that 😭😭
their contract states that once engaged they have to go to the altar. those who broke off the engagement and left early had a pretty hefty financial penalty. so in a way it makes him look worse because he humiliated a girl who was in love with him rather than take a paycut lol
@@ancientalien000it doesn’t make him look worse lol he’s doing what he signed up for and on the last episode she said she was ok with him saying No I think she just wanted the wedding
I know, and then his father said I’m proud of you? For leading her on? Wtf
@Rachelle-cl6mn I'm saying the optics of bringing someone to the altar knowing you are going to crush them in front of their family and the entire audience so you can get your full paycheck is bad lol. I'm aware that he was doing what he signed on for. But people might not be having such a harsh reaction to him if he had ducked out earlier
@@ancientalien000 He could have prepared her for it off camera. He didn’t have to make a fool out of her.
Chelsea is delusional. If she really thought it was because of one argument? What a mess.
He didn’t like her from the get, and I’m tired of them pretending otherwise lol
I feel like I was so spot on with AD. She truly just NEEDED this to work, because no matter how many times he straight up tells her he is not a good fit for her and he so many red flags, she just took it as “what’s wrong with HER”. Like she didn’t give enough. These people in love is blind they truly just come with so much unresolved baggage. They are not ready to get married most of them. Because they are so unresolved themselves. lol
It’s true, but it’s also true for probably everyone who has ever been with bad matches and then tries to correct path.
I feel like The first season people actually signed up to “the experiment” and all kind of seemed to be in the place where they have tried every method of dating, and are completely ready for marriage. And it felt like production actually chose people who they thought would be successful in the experiment itself, ie have the least emotional baffe. Now that we know in later seasons they hit up people on instagram to cast, it’s clear that whole “experiment” is gone. I feel like once they shortlist people from IG, they now choose the most emotionally baggaged people to put ON the show rather than leave them out. Hence why people like AD and Clay are on the show, bc NEITHER should be married rn. AD bc she needs to stand on business. And Clay because he clearly auditioned for too hot to handle
@@ngweso very true
@@ngwesoI couldn’t have said it better myself that is 100% right and it’s sad to see bc man the show would be so interesting if they had kept their methods the same from the beginning
I'm pretty sure they're still dating too which is crazy how she'd give him another chance, I hope that man hasn't cheated on her yet.
Clay acting like he's being mature and responsible when he could have said this before literally being on the alter
I mean…he has been saying I’m not ready I’m afraid I’ll cheat for weeks😂
Tbf he HAS been saying it, since they were in the PODS. He was never ready for marriage, he kept warning her over and over he was afraid if they stayed together he would cheat on her (weird he treated cheating like a DISEASE instead of a conscious choice, but okay buddy…), she just stuck it out cuz she thought she could fix him. No hate to her, but poor girl was choosing between 2 red flags since the beginning, so she was doomed from the start 😭
AD being completely oblivious is kinda scary and sad
He showed all the signs. Sis was either clueless or she wanted sympathy clout
She has zero surviving intuition. She is gonna be the next Tik tok Reesa Teesa of " Who the fk did I marry"
AD needs therapy also. She doesn't know her worth.
@charmaineespeut4627 That's how most abusive/toxic/bad relationships start. They ignore the signs and the abuser takes advantage of that. The abuser takes advantage of their personality/vulnerability too. It starts off sweet then theyre lost in the sauce unfortunately.
Delusional
The most interesting part of this episode was the convo between Clay’s mom and dad . Everything else was predictable 😅
That was the realest thing ever on LIB
The true love was the love clay’s mom found in herself along the way
@@alicetoyou448girl I'm hollering! 😂
Yesss this was the plot we signed up for
@@dahliaherrod4301😂😂😂
Clay couldn’t be more narcissistic and selfish if he tried… Every single time he says something, it’s about, or for, himself. Like him asking “can I get a hug?” instead of asking if he could GIVE HER a hug, considering she’s the one hurting and crying…. He is actually such an awful person. Thank god for AD’s sake, that he said no, even if he did wait and make her walk down the aisle alone just to hurt her. Good riddance. ESPECIALLY after he said he wasn’t even deeply in love with her… just wild.
can’t wait for the reunion! 😂
He's just like his dad..
Yo I didn’t even think about the difference of Can I get a hug versus Can I give you a hug. That’s so crazy and just goes on to support AD’s statement about being the sacrifice. Even in the end he is still asking her to give give give and he takes to feel better.
@@sutandyExactly, narcissistic.
clay saying "will you take my lovely hand" i would have said "um no .... what about MY lovely hand"
@@sutandyYES!!!!! The way Clay and his dad were talking with each other before and after walking down the aisle showed just how narcissistic and unserious they both are. Disgusting.
Even the bartender had enough of Clay lol 😂
I have not seen Jimmy and Chelsea vibe NOT ONE TIME!
They are like the opposite of attraction fr
@@CocoLicious FR I know they say opposites attract but this is giving very much REPEL
They vibes really hard when he heard she looked like Megan Fox in the pods 👀
@@bunnihanni yeah sparks were crazy for that 30 minute period
I'm so glad they were on the show. Types of good disasters reality shows are made of. Especially the celebrity comparisons. Too funny
Clay: Goes on a show w the end result of marriage
Also Clay: I’m not ready to be married
Honestly, Clay saying no was the best thing to do FOR AD. She keeps ignoring the red flags and I’m thankful that someone pulled the plug on the relationship
They're still dating
@@iu.lia.na.how pathetic
@@sharonharris9782 unfortunately, yes
I guess she switched back to her Captain Save A Ho role again.
@@lorrainemounts2416 I'm just as stupid as her so I can't judge too much, but it is infuriating seeing someone else do it 😅
Chelsea felt like she was trying to argue him back into wanting to marry her it was so embarrassing
I don’t believe Chelsea loved Jimmy she just wanted to be chosen. She literally talked him back into it after that other argument. Some women seem to think if they can just get a man to the other side of the altar everything will be fine. Can they imagine what it would be like to actually achieve that and be married to a man who really doesn’t want to be there and didn’t have the courage to say so?
So good!
You know what...I've actually been in Chelsea's situation before. I dated a girl who, looking back, CLEARLY was not that interested in me 😂. I'd never been in that situation before and just constantly felt confused. My instincts were telling me something was very wrong...but she consistently told me that it was in my head. Jimmy spent the entire time trying to hide his disappointment over choosing her, which is sooo obvious to us watching. And I think deep down Chelsea knew it too, but WANTED to believe him. And you get to a point where you don't trust yourself either. Even though we can all see he clearly never wanted her, he was never honest about it and made her feel it was because of an outburst she had. So yes she is probably arguing back because she feels it's HER fault and because of her reactions...not knowing that man neverrrrrr was going to marry her. Her behaviour is definitely cringe. But she could of been perfect and it wouldn't of mattered as he wasn't attracted to her physically.
Why is Jimmy lying? 😭😭😭 “you are everything I want in a wife” 😭😭😭
And what's gonna happen to this world if Chelsea believes that??
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Lol Jimmy lie to me
Clay standing up there in his suit grinning saying “look like a husband?” 🥴
As soon as I saw the awe in Clays eyes when looking at his dad, I knew he wasn’t going to marry AD, he’s not worried about becoming his dad, he aspires to be his dad. AD needs to run lol.
So true. And when his dad told his mom “I met you, Clay just needs to meet a woman like his mom” what he means is that he wants Clay to meet a woman who can provide the bedrock of support in his life, raise his children and do all the emotional and physical labour of maintaining the home and family, while Clay gets to sleep with other women and bring absolutely nothing to the table. It’s revolting.
Jimmy totally decided he was going to break up after she didn't look like Megan Fox, but he knew he couldn't just immediately break up with her or he'd look like a superficial jerk, so he was pushing her to break up. That's why he asked her after the roller coasters if she was sure. He was waiting for her to end it, and she just would not do it so he finally had to. It was the worst game of chicken ever.
So TRUE!
Based on the bull she would say during her tantrums it’s only logical to assume she would be the one to end it. But that’s assuming her actions would match her words.
If she didn’t believe he truly loved her then why would she walk down the aisle to him?
She’s a child who wanted a Prince Charming to put up with her and pretend they can have a happily ever after despite her constantly terrible attitude.
I don't think Clay realizes he is NEVER going to do better than AD 😅
NEVER!!! Omg DUMB!!! AD is 🏆 10/10 mind body and spirit ❤️
@@Abracadabra1111lol it’s actually the opposite , except for her body, I don’t see anything else interesting in her. She is so fake
AD couldn't even get a word in when Clay went to see her afterwards he just said his piece and asked for a hug it pissed me off like he's not the one that gets to ask for one 😭would've asked is it not more irresponsible to leave it til the altar to say no
also not even a you look beautiful an 'ooh body' as she's walking down the aisle??? wishing blue balls upon him
Hes like I don’t like seeing you cry cuz it’s hurts me😀😀😀😀😀
@@andreamontiel2032 he couldn’t even fake a cry to make it seem like there was any emotional weight to his decision smh 😭
@@san_and fr he says he’s sorry but his body language is not acting it
can i get a hug after saying no at the altar is crazy
Clay feels stupid...because he is. What a fumble!
this is why you don't play therapists with men like clay, if a player comes to you to change him just run, people should fix themselves BEFORE getting in a relationship not the other way around
Clay’s mom was the star of the show! 👏
Yess!!! The way she spoke! I was like yesss, go off mama!! 👏
She did a public service by letting the world see her have that conversation. I hope seeing that brings so many women strength. I cried.
Yes. she is so emotionally intelligent and wise.
Petition for love is blind to hire Aaron & Jo subscribers as extras for the weddings!
Petition to have them host the reunion!
at least jimmy called it off before the wedding, for clay to lead ad on, only to say no is such a jerk move
Clay out here sounding like ChatGPT
Lmao😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣sick of his Azz
Am I tripping but Clay sounds like a deeper voice Will Smith. Like how he talks
Jimmy just wanted the free trip to Carowinds to ride the Fury without the lines. He was done right after that😂
Don’t blame him don’t know how he put up with that thing for so long
“You also don’t need a kid with him cause he’s a husband baby variant hybrid” was a crazy sentence 😭😭
If AD didnt have the best body ever no way they wouldve made it that far he was just hitting it as much as possible
100%. AD's body was the only thing keeping Clay in the process smh.
The fact that he said body when she was walking down the aisle was diabolical! The dude’s an absolute menace! I feel bad for AD, but she ignored every red flag he waved in her face 😭
@@isitoveryet9525 100%. Clay is a clown.
Unfortunately, I think this is true. Even after he proposed with the Bible.
AD picked up on he was different from the other guys before she even saw him but she went through with it anyways.
Johnny and Amy were the only ones who genuinely seemed in love the entire time. Their kindness and caring for one another never wavered. ❤❤
I wouldn't be so fooled by a TV show. They are going to be divorced in a year. We just see a few weeks of a honeymoon stage and that's it. Actual marriage is so much more work than that.
They’re my least fav couple so boring
I doubt they will last. She isn't into him at all and once he gets over her beauty and hitting it, they will be done
@@lynnd.5135 they're still married guys haha
“Not you having a body” will live rent free in my head all week 😂 you two are hilarious 😂 8:13
Not sure why people praise Clay's mom so much. The guy needed to be called out for this bullshit. He is just so callous toward women. You need to call that shit out in your child
Right, I’d find her actions praise worthy if she had talked to her son about his actions and stringing a girl along all the way down to the alter. No point in chastising the guy who has no remorse for cheating on you🤨
the bar is very low
Agree. We would have had a very serious problem. Because I feel like he disrespected his own damn family.
I'm hoping she had words with him once the camera left, not wanting to embarrass him on TV. even if that's what he deserves 😑
She stated that she had become aware of something’s she was clueless about and in that moment was starting to address problems she had ignored for years. She can’t teach her son something she is learning with him. I loved the transparency.
i clicked so fast
ong i been waiting for this😭
Sameeeeee
RIGHT
I know me too! 😃
Same!
Aaron is right- so many times throughout this entire season Jimmy and Chelsea have argued, but right as they say, what's the relationship ending problem, backup. Its so frustrating because everything they've done is soooo miscalculated.
Why is the comparison between jimmy and the dad from finding Nemo so spot on actually 😂
From Megan Fox to Nicholas Cage… 😮
😂
insanity😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Bahahhahahahahhahahahhahahahhahahhahahaa I do see the resemblance to nickius cafe
i forced my bf to watch the first episode and he’s hooked now, last night he was so mad that kenneth broke it off😭😭
I'm so glad that Clay said no to AD, the universe saved her big time.
After he said no I was like Shorty from Scary Movie "RUN BITCH RUUUUN!!!" lol
Baby he doesn’t want to go to the altar because he doesn’t even LIKE YOU, not because of some stupid argument- I want to scream
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None of these boys this season were ready for marriage. The women weren’t all perfect by any means, but they were set up for failure
Agree 100%. The quality of men wasn’t great. Especially in terms of maturity.
I'm so glad you all pointed out the sad violins for AD and Clay's wedding. That Ave Maria immediately creeped me out 😬
Someone paid for that string group that is WILD
Ave Maria?? I thought it was the song the violins were playing on the Titanic! 😅
Those musicians aren’t getting hired ever again 😭
I am shocked that Clay didn't say I do!! The way he was acting before, and all the shit he said after!😨😅
Clout is a drug
I expected him to say yes and just ruin her life after tbh
Nah anytime he’d mention marriage he would almost zone out like the thought of monogamy was that horrible
@@Serendipity989 that's so true haha didn't think of that. I guess just the build up threw me.
At first I thought he would say yes but he kept saying how committed she was but never mentioned how he would commit to her. Like AD was leading the relationship and he wasn’t as emotional when he saw her walk down the aisle like his mom explained to him how magical it should be. He wasn’t fazed or looked excited or emotional of how beautiful she was. That’s when I noticed he was going to say I do not. And also he kept mentioning how he is scared to be like his dad. Unfortunately he is proving himself right. He really hurt AD so much. I was tearing up for her.
Allegedly if couples do not follow through in answering at the alter, the person to not do it has to pay a fine for it or get part of their pay cut. Makes sense why Clay would think saying no wasn’t as big a deal, also means Jimmy was just DONE lmao he said I’m not inviting my friends and family to this nonsense💀
Clay's vows was like "you my boy" lol
I feel like the men in this season's LIB are just going on the show and proposing to whoever just to go on an all-expense paid luxury vacation and becoming famous without the actual intention of finding a wife. 😅
Exactly!
💯 agree
Yep.
My thoughts exactly
🎯 A bunch of narcissists.
I didn't think Clay was going to say yes. He kept giving signs he wasn't ready. When he told AD she told him if he didn't marry her she would end the relationship and so he dragged it on.
Apparently they’re dating so she didn’t even follow through with that
If you felt you weren’t ready and planned on saying no why would you drag her out like that.
I JUST WATCHED IT MYSELF AND HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS VIDEO SINCE THEN
The way jimmy sets up his lines to hang yourself is so funny. “Tell me you want me to take a step back” “ I’m not willing to step back” then he does it again in the last convo asking if she wants to wed fr fr
The best present for my birthday was for you guys to hit 400k🎉🎉I love you guys so much, you guys make me so happy😭😭🫶🏾🫶🏾
happy birthday!
Clay was giving sociopath , smiling in her face knowing he was gonna say no
Clay seemed like he had other motives from the start. When he told AD he watched the show for the "first time" while being on it made it obvious to me that he was playing games.
I KNEW that AD and Clay wouldn’t get married, they acted like friends trying to hype each other up all the time instead of a couple
It's sad how Clay's mom had to find out the extent of his dad's infidelity through the LIB process. The dad showed up to the wedding all oblivious and bold as if he was father of year.
It's a striking mirror for families with similar trauma. But to expose his family's faults like that on tv was so selfish. OR maybe him going on the show was a cry for help
Clay had zero remorse leading AD to the altar just to dip.
Waiting for a t-Rex runaway 😂
AD has chosen to ignore every single red flag that Clay threw at her! I think if he had said yes, it would’ve been a disaster and he would’ve cheated in the end. That would’ve hurt a whole lot more than this. I hope she can move on and find a real man who will do right by her
Clay did her dirty. How can he be fine with doing that to someone. You know the producers were like “trust us it’s fine bro”
My favorite thing about this season of Love is Blind is finding Aaron and Jo's channel
Johnny and Amy single handedly saved season 6 of LIB
I don't even know who they are lol.
Clay saying he wasn't deeply in love and that AD wasn't enough while battling his cheating demons is CRAZY. He makes my blood boil, AD did not deserve that embarrassment especially since he let it reach the alter.
“This is really exciting” I’m dead at Aaron’s impersonation 😂
“Getting called man at the alter” 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
WOW AARON AND JO 400K!!!!! I’ve been here since emo the musical and I’m so proud!! ❤❤🎉🎉🎉
401k now!
I don't watch this show. Never have, never will, I watch Aaron and Jo react to this show. Always have, always will.
Fair enough
I just finished the show and came straight to RUclips -- The way I SCREAMED when I saw you guys had already uploaded this! Shoutout to Aaron and Joe for the grind in getting this uploaded for us :D
thank you for your service. I cannot stand watching the full episodes. you guys play the highlights and are hilarious. much love
Give Clay's mom her own show.
Red table talk fasho
Danggg you guys were FAST! So excited to hear your thoughts, all I could think about during the entire episode was how you both would react to certain parts 😆
I LITERALLY HAD THE EXACT SAME REACTIONS this episode was everything and nothing i expected
Congratulations on 400K!!!!🎉
“I don’t even remember what happened, who gives a shit at this point” BAHAHAHAHAHAHAA 2 seconds in!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥
Seriously, he said what we were all thinking 😂
I really did cry for AD. That shit broke my heart. Clay is crazy for saying no when he already felt this way… but I completely understand where he’s coming from. I would not be ready to get married either in the span of like a few months after only just having met someone??? I’d wanna keep growing with them and getting to know each other. But I also understand AD cause fuck no would I wanna stay with a man after he said no to me??? IN FRONT OF OUR FAMILIES??? Hell no I’d k!ll him! That must’ve been so mortifying 😭 seeing her cry so much though really broke me
the physical reaction of jo after clay said no is so real
even though ad is a bit (maybe a lot) blind to red flags, i understand her and dont blame her for not picking up on things. i was in a similar situation where i ended up being cheated on and to me it came out of NOWHERE. people who love genuinely and wholeheartedly should not have to be at the mercy of those who do these things and it sucks the only way to learn to mature is to go through something so emotionally crushing :(
I just binged your whole backlog of Love is Blind videos today, really happy that I found your channel
Clay had no business being on the show. He really should’ve kept his ass at home. 😒
i only watch love is blind if aaron and jo are narrating
The gatekeeper was the barlady too omg
This show is so much fun to watch. I knew Clay would say no - he was not ready and AD should have seen the signs. Glad I met my husband the natural way and dated for almost 2 years before we got married. Been married for 32 years now :)
Well gee, good for you.
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❤❤
12:40 I literally fell out of my chair…Who would’ve thought that Clay had no decorum!11!1!?😱
I saw a comment that said every time Jimmy said he loved Chelsea he looked completely dead in the eyes like those characters in Get Out 😂😂😂 He was not into her.
He sounded like he was trying to convince himself every time he said it to her & told other people..
I’ve been refreshing for this ALL DAYYY
“Then he’s my husband.” 😳 you guys are hilarious 😂🤣
No way, I just started watching your videos on love is blind two hours ago and now you drop the next one already. I am so here for it😁 Greetings from Europe, great way to end the day, will def. keep following you!
I was going to watch this season but your commentary is way better then the actual show 😄 thank you algorithm for helping find yall
Aaron hitting the air guitar riff after Clay said “I’m rocking with you” had me cracking up!
You guys are a goofy bunch. I’m constantly laughing watching your videos! Thanks for that!
“I FELL IN LOVE WITH AN EMO GIRL 🤘🏻” every time they cut to Clays sister had me crying 😂😂😂
My absolute favorite youtubers ❤ laughing so hard...these are the best videos.
Also, damn Clay...really?
The “this is exciting” guy cutting in is hilarious
FINALLY! I kept refreshing my feed waiting for this video 😂
“He’s not a feelings.. he’s not an empath” as an empath i agree😂
I hope AD grows and realizes that this was a good thing for her.