This is so incredibly real. I feel very apathetic lately about life. I’m not putting my best into it. Like I feel like I’m just not living my best life.
One of my friends had the same issue where she was addicted to her phone. What she ended up doing was putting screen time locks on her phone and having her sibling or mom come up with the password so she couldn’t use certain apps. Idk if you’re looking for solutions or suggestions to help, but we support you either way❤️
thank you for this episode bailey, this really hit home, i really thought i was the only one struggling right now with feeling this certain way, i’m so unmotivated to do anything, i’ve been trying to fix this rut i’ve been in and it’s just not working, but i just graduated hs last year and i’m 19 and i have no idea what i want to do with my life and i struggle with it every day but everytime i watch your videos just seems like life gets a little better, i really appreciate your advice and everything you put out for us viewers, it’s very appreciated ilyy❤️❤️
i think you should do a video of not using your phone for 24 hours. like making one of ur parents keep it all day. it’s a video idea and you will be able to see how life is without ur phone
wow i genuinely did not believe anyone in the world ever felt like this ? pretending you’re ok when ur not, wanting to reset and change but not doing it, having no reason to be this way but still doing so. it’s INSANEEE I HATE THIS I JUST WANT TO FEEL LIKE ME AGAIN.
WOWWW ok this episode is actually so good i’m towards the end i thought it was just gonna be like a sad rant vent situation but the advice went hard as fucckk😭😭 why are u so right about all of it like go offfff
Bailey, thank you for being yourself in this episode and also being vulnerable about how you feel and about what you want to change. Life is about growth and moving forward in a positive light . I'm so sorry you're having a difficult time right now I myself have been going through mental health challenges. You have my support. You're not alone in feeling these things speaking from experience! Don't be hard on yourself and just set some healthy boundaries And it'll all be okay ❤ I believe in you dude, always here if you need anything!!
Bailey your not alone babygirl I have been feeling like this too my love I have been a fan of u since 2019 and I truly and deeply understand how you feel.. being not motivated enough to do anything feeling ... just so numb and lost I really get it but please know that your not alone and its completely normal we will eventually get to the point again to actually start to focus on ourselves more and be involve with ourselves more and more each day I really recommend you to go to therapy and start reading self improvement books that bring your energy up...I love you so much Bailey please keep goinggg
bailey, i have always been a silent viewer, but i just wanted to comment and say that i love you. i am so proud of you and i love every single one of your videos. you are not alone and life is so unbelievably hard. you are such a comfort person to me and i am so happy that you’re sharing your experience. you have no idea how many people this is helping, because it’s not seen as normal to feel this way, but it is. thank you for everything you have done for not only me, but all of your supporters. you are so genuine, and that makes you such a beautiful person no matter how you’re feeling. thank you for sharing, bailey❤️
bailey, you're not alone at all, i know exactly how you feel. just know that things will get better i promise you. we are all here for you. i am so thankful for you and i know you don't feel like its right but be gentle on yourself. everybody goes through rough patches and it does not in any way make you a bad person or a lazy person, you work so incredibly hard all the time for us and it makes so many people so happy. you have no idea how much you've done for me and i know other people feel the same. i wish i could just give you a hug and tell you its okay because you are so inspirational. your instagram stories last night made me so sad, i hate to know you're feeling this way because i've been there and it feels horrible but it will get better, i know it will. don't give up bailey we're all here for you. love you so much
i love you sm bailey you are actually the most comforting person ever, i feel so connected to you even so we don’t know each other personally i’m so so so grateful to have found your channel how ever many years ago, AND remember your name and come back a few years later! your amazing girl we’re here for you, i’m praying for you & everyone in this comment section we are/ all do go through hard times and it will get better. i believe in every single one of you, and i’m so grateful that you were so transparent and even the other people in the comments it is so comforting knowing we are not alone. 💖
I've never related to something more. I'm 18, graduated hs last year and chose to not go to college this year and while I still think that was the best choice I feel really lonely and unmotivated to do life. Just feeling like I'm not alone going through this right now makes me feel better. Please do whatever feels right for you and what's going to help you improve your life. Honestly taking the next month slow on social media and focusing on your personal life and health, and making the change of moving seems like a good idea for you if it's possible. Thank you for being honest and vulnerable, it's helping a lot of people who are also struggling. Sending love ❤️
I’m honestly so so so glad you posted this. I’ve watched your channel for like 3-4 years and you’ve always been my favorite but recently I have been able to tell you don’t seem like yourself. Not like your “old” self because you have grown so much and you’re such a wonderful person, but you have been seeming not honest/real recently and i hate saying that but i felt so bad seeing you like that bc i could tell that something was off and your energy wasn’t right but i hope you’re able to find what you need and make the best of life because you definitely deserve it
Alright Bailey, Im not actuallly sure if your going to see this but I just want to put it out there I love you so much I'm one of ur biggest fans like you helped me through the hardest times of life and tbh when you gave advice I was concerned about you because when I have the biggest smile on my face I am usually dealing with hurricanes actually no fucking tsunami's inside of me so when you smiling and stuff I was like nah she must be going through it and I know I get it life is so tough and can be draining like insane, but just so you know I believe in. you you got this I know you from a screen but I feel you in my heart and I know God will uplift you and place you in the happiest healthiest version of you, I know you know this because your very smart but everyone has battles, and I don't know if you believe in God or not like whatever you believe in in your heart will help guide you through life, and I know this message was all over the place but Also want you to know that I love when your tea in this video I can tell your kind of letting loose a little bit which good for you I love Real Bailey even if its negative.🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Omg girl you are not alone. I had a very similar realization a little while ago. Like what the psychologists call disassociate? lol But it is refreshing realizing that because then you can take the steps to fix it!
still watching and commenting again😭- i always say i hate routine but secretly find myself hating without routine and end up bawling 😭 but i think it’s more so that i HATE the repetitiveness of routine but i love the outline of doing the same type of things around the same time every day, i hate the exactly daily routine but i LOVE the daily set things that i do around the same time but also not the same if that makes sense at all🤦♀️
Hey Bailey- I LOVE this ep!! This is something everyone does to an extent, don’t beat yourself up too much!! I am trying to get better about putting the phone down and working on what matters as well, I would love if you keep up us to date on how your journey is going as we all work on bettering ourselves together 💕💕💕💕
i recommend a planner, ik it’s not for everyone but it will help you plan out when and what u need to post and giving yourself enough to film and edit and upload. or even using the reminders app in your phone. setting a reminder will help you as well or a calendar on your phone
At first I thought maybe you should try to stay at home and maybe look into a new hobby but now I feel like moving is the best thing for you. Not only you will have your own space and new refreshed ideas. But also moving have the potential of meeting new people and neighbors your own age. Which could lead to new friendships, and to me it seems that’s exactly what you may need right now. I truly hope the best for you on this next journey in life. Hope you find the happiness you are seeking, I’m rooting for you. Good luck ❀✿𑁍♡︎
you should try to put your phone on focus or sleep mode. also plug it in far away from you when you get into bed and instead keep a book or something else by your nightstand!
Hey Bailey, I literally love your videos and podcast sm! But i have a tip for screen time that I use, I got my friend to set my screentime passcode so I don't know it and know i can only spend 17mins on instagram and can't ask for more time I hope this helps, and you feel better soon x
This is going to sound really stupid but I would recommend going on a trip or camping because it works because a couple days with minimal phone use and people really really helps.
Hate to break it to you, but moving into your own apartment isn't going to magically make your problems go away! Even if you are feeling stuck which is totally valid, you can do something to get out of it because you have money. Which for people with traditional jobs, would solve A LOT of their problems. I feel stuck in my life but I make too little to be able to move out of state which would make me happier in some aspects. I know that sounds hypocritical but I mainly mean finding a job I am passionate about, new city, more experiences, etc. I can't find new jobs for the life of me and I feel like I really don't have anything going for me. Also it is OKAY to not be a morning person. You don't have to wake up at 4 am to be productive and you can blame that partially on social media. Like you mentioned, all those early morning routines are so fake because that life isn't realistic at all.
I’m pretty sure your pod cast is therapy for you. We listen to your struggles like a therapist was. I think if you got into actual therapy, it could REALLY REALLY HELP
I think you might regret not going to college. I think that is what you’re lacking. Falling behind your friends. People who take a gap year don’t understand if you’re not in school you need something. Get a job. Figure out your life.
the thing is she really really hated school and it just made her so miserable and she's said it before she just doesn't want to be in that kind of environment. also, this is her job, and it is extremely time consuming. filming a video takes a day, or sometimes multiple days, the she has to edit which takes over 4 hours and then the podcast is a whole different story, plus she has her own life on top of all that. (sorry if this came out aggressively)
@@aldcprincess she can’t be mad about not being with her friends. She shouldn’t go to college just for the social aspect of it. You’re at college for your education not to party, etc. I don’t think she’ll find happiness at her new apartment. All her problems won’t magically go away.
You need a complete REAL reset for a couple weeks. Come out to California and I will take you backpacking in Kings Canyon. After the snow up there starts to melt. After mid-May. Much of it off trail. There is NO CELL PHONE access here. Much of it will be off trail at around 9,000 ft. altitude. You'll need to be in better shape than you have ever been. Here is on place we would go that only a handful of people make it to every year: ruclips.net/video/OSLcyqA8eSQ/видео.html. I take people to the High Sierra evry year that have never been backpacking before. I've done over 120 trips up there. You can do videos p there and uplaod after you get back. Many people that hae channels I've taken do that.
This is so incredibly real. I feel very apathetic lately about life. I’m not putting my best into it. Like I feel like I’m just not living my best life.
One of my friends had the same issue where she was addicted to her phone. What she ended up doing was putting screen time locks on her phone and having her sibling or mom come up with the password so she couldn’t use certain apps. Idk if you’re looking for solutions or suggestions to help, but we support you either way❤️
thank you for this episode bailey, this really hit home, i really thought i was the only one struggling right now with feeling this certain way, i’m so unmotivated to do anything, i’ve been trying to fix this rut i’ve been in and it’s just not working, but i just graduated hs last year and i’m 19 and i have no idea what i want to do with my life and i struggle with it every day but everytime i watch your videos just seems like life gets a little better, i really appreciate your advice and everything you put out for us viewers, it’s very appreciated ilyy❤️❤️
i think you should do a video of not using your phone for 24 hours. like making one of ur parents keep it all day. it’s a video idea and you will be able to see how life is without ur phone
wow i genuinely did not believe anyone in the world ever felt like this ? pretending you’re ok when ur not, wanting to reset and change but not doing it, having no reason to be this way but still doing so. it’s INSANEEE I HATE THIS I JUST WANT TO FEEL LIKE ME AGAIN.
WOWWW ok this episode is actually so good i’m towards the end i thought it was just gonna be like a sad rant vent situation but the advice went hard as fucckk😭😭 why are u so right about all of it like go offfff
Bailey, thank you for being yourself in this episode and also being vulnerable about how you feel and about what you want to change. Life is about growth and moving forward in a positive light . I'm so sorry you're having a difficult time right now
I myself have been going through mental health challenges.
You have my support. You're not alone in feeling these things speaking from experience! Don't be hard on yourself and just set some healthy boundaries
And it'll all be okay ❤ I believe in you dude, always here if you need anything!!
Bailey your not alone babygirl I have been feeling like this too my love I have been a fan of u since 2019 and I truly and deeply understand how you feel.. being not motivated enough to do anything feeling ... just so numb and lost I really get it but please know that your not alone and its completely normal we will eventually get to the point again to actually start to focus on ourselves more and be involve with ourselves more and more each day I really recommend you to go to therapy and start reading self improvement books that bring your energy up...I love you so much Bailey please keep goinggg
bailey, i have always been a silent viewer, but i just wanted to comment and say that i love you. i am so proud of you and i love every single one of your videos. you are not alone and life is so unbelievably hard. you are such a comfort person to me and i am so happy that you’re sharing your experience. you have no idea how many people this is helping, because it’s not seen as normal to feel this way, but it is. thank you for everything you have done for not only me, but all of your supporters. you are so genuine, and that makes you such a beautiful person no matter how you’re feeling. thank you for sharing, bailey❤️
bailey, you're not alone at all, i know exactly how you feel. just know that things will get better i promise you. we are all here for you. i am so thankful for you and i know you don't feel like its right but be gentle on yourself. everybody goes through rough patches and it does not in any way make you a bad person or a lazy person, you work so incredibly hard all the time for us and it makes so many people so happy. you have no idea how much you've done for me and i know other people feel the same. i wish i could just give you a hug and tell you its okay because you are so inspirational. your instagram stories last night made me so sad, i hate to know you're feeling this way because i've been there and it feels horrible but it will get better, i know it will. don't give up bailey we're all here for you. love you so much
i love you sm bailey you are actually the most comforting person ever, i feel so connected to you even so we don’t know each other personally i’m so so so grateful to have found your channel how ever many years ago, AND remember your name and come back a few years later! your amazing girl we’re here for you, i’m praying for you & everyone in this comment section we are/ all do go through hard times and it will get better. i believe in every single one of you, and i’m so grateful that you were so transparent and even the other people in the comments it is so comforting knowing we are not alone. 💖
I've never related to something more. I'm 18, graduated hs last year and chose to not go to college this year and while I still think that was the best choice I feel really lonely and unmotivated to do life. Just feeling like I'm not alone going through this right now makes me feel better. Please do whatever feels right for you and what's going to help you improve your life. Honestly taking the next month slow on social media and focusing on your personal life and health, and making the change of moving seems like a good idea for you if it's possible. Thank you for being honest and vulnerable, it's helping a lot of people who are also struggling. Sending love ❤️
I’m honestly so so so glad you posted this. I’ve watched your channel for like 3-4 years and you’ve always been my favorite but recently I have been able to tell you don’t seem like yourself. Not like your “old” self because you have grown so much and you’re such a wonderful person, but you have been seeming not honest/real recently and i hate saying that but i felt so bad seeing you like that bc i could tell that something was off and your energy wasn’t right but i hope you’re able to find what you need and make the best of life because you definitely deserve it
Alright Bailey, Im not actuallly sure if your going to see this but I just want to put it out there I love you so much I'm one of ur biggest fans like you helped me through the hardest times of life and tbh when you gave advice I was concerned about you because when I have the biggest smile on my face I am usually dealing with hurricanes actually no fucking tsunami's inside of me so when you smiling and stuff I was like nah she must be going through it and I know I get it life is so tough and can be draining like insane, but just so you know I believe in. you you got this I know you from a screen but I feel you in my heart and I know God will uplift you and place you in the happiest healthiest version of you, I know you know this because your very smart but everyone has battles, and I don't know if you believe in God or not like whatever you believe in in your heart will help guide you through life, and I know this message was all over the place but Also want you to know that I love when your tea in this video I can tell your kind of letting loose a little bit which good for you I love Real Bailey even if its negative.🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
this is so depressing bc i feel the exact same way. i hate my habits and everything i do recently but idk why i’m not changing it ?.?.
Omg girl you are not alone. I had a very similar realization a little while ago. Like what the psychologists call disassociate? lol But it is refreshing realizing that because then you can take the steps to fix it!
still watching and commenting again😭- i always say i hate routine but secretly find myself hating without routine and end up bawling 😭 but i think it’s more so that i HATE the repetitiveness of routine but i love the outline of doing the same type of things around the same time every day, i hate the exactly daily routine but i LOVE the daily set things that i do around the same time but also not the same if that makes sense at all🤦♀️
Hey Bailey- I LOVE this ep!! This is something everyone does to an extent, don’t beat yourself up too much!! I am trying to get better about putting the phone down and working on what matters as well, I would love if you keep up us to date on how your journey is going as we all work on bettering ourselves together 💕💕💕💕
i recommend a planner, ik it’s not for everyone but it will help you plan out when and what u need to post and giving yourself enough to film and edit and upload. or even using the reminders app in your phone. setting a reminder will help you as well or a calendar on your phone
We’re always here for you Bailey! You take any time that you need and we appreciate you being real and raw and honest🫶🏻
The realest RUclipsr out there ilysm I’ve watched you for so long and I literally want to be you love you gorgeous❤
your so strong and amazing. your doing amazing
you’re incredible bailey ❤
At first I thought maybe you should try to stay at home and maybe look into a new hobby but now I feel like moving is the best thing for you. Not only you will have your own space and new refreshed ideas. But also moving have the potential of meeting new people and neighbors your own age. Which could lead to new friendships, and to me it seems that’s exactly what you may need right now. I truly hope the best for you on this next journey in life. Hope you find the happiness you are seeking, I’m rooting for you. Good luck ❀✿𑁍♡︎
U R SUCH AN INSPIRATION 💗💗💗💗💗
omg almost like every last word i relate so much this is lowkey terrifying
you should try to put your phone on focus or sleep mode. also plug it in far away from you when you get into bed and instead keep a book or something else by your nightstand!
I love you Bailey. I needed to hear this today. We got this. ❤️
Hey Bailey, I literally love your videos and podcast sm! But i have a tip for screen time that I use, I got my friend to set my screentime passcode so I don't know it and know i can only spend 17mins on instagram and can't ask for more time
I hope this helps, and you feel better soon x
This is going to sound really stupid but I would recommend going on a trip or camping because it works because a couple days with minimal phone use and people really really helps.
You are the best bailey keep shining girl you got this love you too Bailey ❤
love you bailey!
Hate to break it to you, but moving into your own apartment isn't going to magically make your problems go away! Even if you are feeling stuck which is totally valid, you can do something to get out of it because you have money. Which for people with traditional jobs, would solve A LOT of their problems.
I feel stuck in my life but I make too little to be able to move out of state which would make me happier in some aspects. I know that sounds hypocritical but I mainly mean finding a job I am passionate about, new city, more experiences, etc. I can't find new jobs for the life of me and I feel like I really don't have anything going for me.
Also it is OKAY to not be a morning person. You don't have to wake up at 4 am to be productive and you can blame that partially on social media. Like you mentioned, all those early morning routines are so fake because that life isn't realistic at all.
your so amazing and strong
You should bring your mom on the pod!
this episode was literally me listening to the little voice in my head but coming out of your mouth
I ❤your shirt!!!
3:40 I feel the EXACT same
3:40-3:55
Hi bailey 😊
LOVE U
I’m pretty sure your pod cast is therapy for you. We listen to your struggles like a therapist was. I think if you got into actual therapy, it could REALLY REALLY HELP
FIRST 💗💗
For your next episode, please put on a pair of LEOTARDS and workout!
I think you might regret not going to college. I think that is what you’re lacking. Falling behind your friends. People who take a gap year don’t understand if you’re not in school you need something. Get a job. Figure out your life.
the thing is she really really hated school and it just made her so miserable and she's said it before she just doesn't want to be in that kind of environment. also, this is her job, and it is extremely time consuming. filming a video takes a day, or sometimes multiple days, the she has to edit which takes over 4 hours and then the podcast is a whole different story, plus she has her own life on top of all that. (sorry if this came out aggressively)
@@aldcprincess she can’t be mad about not being with her friends. She shouldn’t go to college just for the social aspect of it. You’re at college for your education not to party, etc. I don’t think she’ll find happiness at her new apartment. All her problems won’t magically go away.
You need a complete REAL reset for a couple weeks. Come out to California and I will take you backpacking in Kings Canyon. After the snow up there starts to melt. After mid-May. Much of it off trail. There is NO CELL PHONE access here. Much of it will be off trail at around 9,000 ft. altitude. You'll need to be in better shape than you have ever been. Here is on place we would go that only a handful of people make it to every year: ruclips.net/video/OSLcyqA8eSQ/видео.html. I take people to the High Sierra evry year that have never been backpacking before. I've done over 120 trips up there. You can do videos p there and uplaod after you get back. Many people that hae channels I've taken do that.