As an aromantic person who feels ZERO romantic attraction, I LOVE romance. I think couples are cute, I love to see people being happy and in love but I would never in a million years ever want to be in a relationship of my own.
@@ostyne5523That's a wonderful attitude. I know a few aromantic people who make it firmly known that romance isn't their thing. Which isn't very polite. I really appreciate your attitude, both of you. ❤
Evaluator, THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEO! As an aromantic asexual person myself this is so important to me as us folks on the aromantic and asexual spectrums try so damn hard to tell people that we’re not broken and that we don’t need to be looking for the right person!
Skidibi skidibi🤫 hawk tuah hawk🦅💦 skidibi king👑 who gives out blumpkins💵 edging🔥 and gooning🤪 and learing👨🎓 to munt🌈 dripping💧 cheese🧀 all over my lunch(ly)🤤
they can all be labeled under the Aromantic label :) you can have more than one of these, and thats enough to count as being on the Aro spectrum. You dont have to have it down to a list of labels if you dont want to ♡
there's another thing with being aromantic where you think you have a crush on someone, you get all the same feelings as having a crush but with some slight differences, but you really just want to be their best friend... this has happened so much to me and it's so confusing lmao it's kinda like quoiromantic but a bit different
Yeah i had a "crush" on a boy once that was in my class, but i realized i wanted to be his friend after i found out i was aroace, but hes no longer in my class 😢
Yes, it is very strange when you enter a romantic relationship after thinking you are in love but you just want the person around, not as a romantic partner, but as a friend, all you want is for it to be over as quickly as possible. Doesn't help that you don't know the difference between romance and platonic.
WOOOOO ARO REPRESENTATION!!!! i'm demiromantic and aroflux (which is under the greyromantic umbrella), and now also discovered that i'm fictoromantic as well
definitely cupio lol. Idk if I experience romantic attraction rarely or never, but I know that regardless of that I love the idea of romance and romantic gestures. I will absolutely bring my friends flowers, go on romantic Picknicks, kiss, etc (as long as they're fine w/ it) I just don''t fall in love.
I am asexual aromantic and honestly, I just can't get romantic attraction, it's not even that I don't know what it is, I've seen enough media to know what it should feel like, I just don't get it. The closest thing I've gotten to even a hint of a romantic feeling was for a fictional character, but even that was because he was one of my hyperfixation characters, and honestly, I'm perfectly happy with how I am.
Yet you might not fall in any of this categories. It's fine to classify, but remember that to define is to limit. Live and love however and whoever makes you happy, as long as you don't hurt others and act responsibly.
@Odd-w3y I'm not even trying anymore. All the years of stress is starting to affect my heart. One of my coworkers is trying to play matchmaker with me. I'll go along with it, but considering my past, I won't hold my breath
Ah, I'm pretty much Caedromantic, but with a partner currently that understands that he will be my last relationship. I didn't know that it had a clearer and more precise name. But I'm not digging the color scheme of white/grey/more grey. But I get it.
im not a big fan of this style of video trending but the evaluator makes it work more than any other youtuber. You own this style more than any other youtuber!
ight, just found out i am literally WTFromantic, THANKKK YOUUUUUU i was about to have a goddamn mental breakdown about this whole world of romance, so... damn you saved me one breakdown thx thx
My only personal edit would be that I can get that butterflies/anxious/jealous crush feeling for people I'm sexually attracted to and/or people I really want to be friends with. I've never gotten that feeling for someone and felt the desire to start a romantic relationship and be lovey-dovey with them. It makes it kind of complicated because I'll be getting that butterflies/crush feeling for people that I just want to bang and/or befriend. And let me make it clear, platonic love is one of my favorite feelings in the world, I'm committed to my friends and I treat them like royalty
I really dont know what I am. I literally go crazy for him. But the next day, I hate him. But that evening, I fall madly in love with him again. Sometimes I say love is nonsense, sometimes I do everything for love.
0:46 THANK YOU for mentioning that aro people can still date, as an aro person myself im in a relationship even though i feel little romantic attraction
I've actually been very confused about my romantic attraction for a while. It's always been weird and inconsistent and stuff, but this video actually helped sooooo yea thanks
i think that as well as the fluxes are more specific forms of greyromantic, i know it's kind of an umbrella term for identities based around unstable romantic attraction (i'm aroflux myself)
0:00 thats not normal?- OOP 😂😂 0:46 lmao, yeaaah i do get a few crushes lol they are very very rare 2:58 OOPP THAT SOUND A BIT LIKE ME 😂😂😂 BUT NOT EXACTLY 😂😂😂 3:47 WTF ROMANTIC 😂😂😂😂😂 3:57 Relatable 😌 4:33 VERY. RELATABLE. 8:50 hold up.. wait a second.. that sounds like me a bit.. 10:47 OOP- *COUGH* SOUNDS LIEK ME A LOT- NORMALY > FEEL THE ROMANTIC FEELINGS FOR BEETWINE A WEEK-MONTH 😂😂😂 but i never want to do anything or act on it
i am demiromantic. took me four years to figure it out until after i started dating my friend that i had a crush on. i really appreciate a video featuring demiromantic bc its so unknown
Your fliping chanle dude :3 you've actualy helped me figure out who i am.. like alot- I'm variosexual and genderfluid and i leaened this becuase of your chanle. Thank-you so much
So many spectrums I’m terrified of pissing ppl off because I don’t label them correctly. Of course, no one in my area ever calls themselves any of these
As a cupioromantic, I always tell my friends how being in a relationship would totally cure my loneliness, and I always find myself fantasising about romantic company. But the moment someone asks me if I have a crush, it’s an instant “no”.
Yup. Never been in a relationship at all, never had any romantic interests, and when I've had people display interest in me, its felt... Wrong. That is the only way I can describe it. Very, very, fundamentally wrong somehow. Like on an instinctive level I just know that its not something I should engage with. After a lot of introspection and seeing how other people in my life interact on a romantic level, I've come to the conclusion that I'm simply not built for it. My brain operates in a way that does not allow for things like this. People often feel pity for me, or give me the classic "You just haven't found anyone who interests you yet" argument, but the truth is that in terms of my lack of a love life, I'm completely content.
Okay, this was informative, and i realized im likely fictoromantic. You see im a furry and can't understand how people fall on love with IRL people yet give me anthropomorphic character, and i will obsesses over it for a long time.
Personally I feel I want a platonic relationship where we cuddle and kiss and stuff like that but without the whole romantic commitment, if that makes sense. I feel like the older I got the more detached I became when it comes to developing romantic feelings. The whole commitment just feels overwhelming and I like it being just *me*
I never knew this stuff! it makes so much sense! 14:27 i can relate fictoromantic. I love musicals and have a habit of stepping into the storys i read. I want a real person by the way. I can separate fictional people and reality. Its just that fake people are a lot easyer and "cheaper" than real people. No wasted time, no arguing unless you want to 😂, and people wont ask you about your relationship becouse your not in one.
I dont know what I am, I have NEVER had a crush ,but I still ship people together in movies or in real life, I want a crush but im pyscicaly / emotionaly unable too. And when people ask my sexuality i never know what to say. p.s Also i love your vids and some other one's have been helpful to me.
As an aromantic person who feels ZERO romantic attraction, I LOVE romance. I think couples are cute, I love to see people being happy and in love but I would never in a million years ever want to be in a relationship of my own.
Same here, I guess!😐
@@ostyne5523That's a wonderful attitude. I know a few aromantic people who make it firmly known that romance isn't their thing. Which isn't very polite. I really appreciate your attitude, both of you. ❤
same aaaaaaaaa i think its cute but i would absolutely never get into a relationship lol!! i think its called “bellusromantic”
That's literally me but I make excuses
Yuhs, it's freaking ADORABLE but for me? Nah nope, noooo thanks
POV: you click on a ‘the evaluator’ vid not knowing what it is about but just watching it for the sake of it
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Heh.. Why yes!
Exactly!!! Love this channel!!!😁😁😁
How'd you know 😰
I LOVE THE AROMANTIC STICKFIGURES AND THE ICONS IN THIS VIDEO BRUHH THEIR DESIGNS ARE SO CUTEEE
Aw man the stickfigures stop appearing cupioromantic :(
AROMANTIC SPECTRUM MENTION‼️‼️ WHAT IS ROMANTIC ATTRACTION‼️🔥🔥🔥🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
REAL 🔥🔥‼️🔥‼️🔥‼️🗣🗣
YES‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
ts shit is so incredibly unfunny it makes me want to cry, js leave it to the americans
YESSIR ‼️‼️‼️🗣️🗣️🔥🔥🔥🔥
@@eyeslanderer ???
Evaluator,
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEO! As an aromantic asexual person myself this is so important to me as us folks on the aromantic and asexual spectrums try so damn hard to tell people that we’re not broken and that we don’t need to be looking for the right person!
Yes! I'm not aro, but i understand the irritation you go through^ ^
Why do i feel like all of these 😭
Skidibi skidibi🤫 hawk tuah hawk🦅💦 skidibi king👑 who gives out blumpkins💵 edging🔥 and gooning🤪 and learing👨🎓 to munt🌈 dripping💧 cheese🧀 all over my lunch(ly)🤤
Cause you are none of them
they can all be labeled under the Aromantic label :) you can have more than one of these, and thats enough to count as being on the Aro spectrum. You dont have to have it down to a list of labels if you dont want to ♡
Kinda same but not ALL of them tho
If your all of them you could be myr romantic
Ty for bringing this up and explaining it for many others! It's so hard for me to explain myself sometimes!! 😭
bro will download this on their phone in case of aro emergencies
@@pq44animations56 aromengancies is wild
there's another thing with being aromantic where you think you have a crush on someone, you get all the same feelings as having a crush but with some slight differences, but you really just want to be their best friend... this has happened so much to me and it's so confusing lmao it's kinda like quoiromantic but a bit different
A friend of mine recently informed me that it might be called a "Squish" instead of a crush! and boy do we have squishes 😔
@@powergm7524 yeah, I think that's what they're called! I couldn't remember lmao, they're so confusing 😂
Yeah i had a "crush" on a boy once that was in my class, but i realized i wanted to be his friend after i found out i was aroace, but hes no longer in my class 😢
Yes, it is very strange when you enter a romantic relationship after thinking you are in love but you just want the person around, not as a romantic partner, but as a friend, all you want is for it to be over as quickly as possible.
Doesn't help that you don't know the difference between romance and platonic.
I’m a gecko
WOOOOO ARO REPRESENTATION!!!! i'm demiromantic and aroflux (which is under the greyromantic umbrella), and now also discovered that i'm fictoromantic as well
same! but not aroflux
definitely cupio lol. Idk if I experience romantic attraction rarely or never, but I know that regardless of that I love the idea of romance and romantic gestures. I will absolutely bring my friends flowers, go on romantic Picknicks, kiss, etc (as long as they're fine w/ it) I just don''t fall in love.
Omg I'm also cupio never actually heard anyone else that is also one :00
I’m comfortable saying most people don’t know what “aromantic” even is, glad you made a video on this topic :)
I am asexual aromantic and honestly, I just can't get romantic attraction, it's not even that I don't know what it is, I've seen enough media to know what it should feel like, I just don't get it. The closest thing I've gotten to even a hint of a romantic feeling was for a fictional character, but even that was because he was one of my hyperfixation characters, and honestly, I'm perfectly happy with how I am.
tbh as a demi I've felt like this for a long time but ive had a million fictional crushes lmao
@@tabz906Hey, no judgement. Fictional crushes are great fun!
I would just like to say, these characters all look so good! I love how you made their clothes look like the corresponding flag
Chat I might be WTFromantic
CHAT IM RECIPRO-ROMANTIC HELP--
Yet you might not fall in any of this categories. It's fine to classify, but remember that to define is to limit. Live and love however and whoever makes you happy, as long as you don't hurt others and act responsibly.
As a demiromantic person, this little explanation explains it VERY well, nothing more complicated, I love it 💕💕
YOURE POUTING IN YOUR SLEEP IM WAKING STILL YAWNING
PROVING TO EACH OTHER THAT ROMANCE IS BORING
SURE THERE ARE THINGS I CAN DO, IF I WAS HALF PERPARED TO
5:04 two recipro-romantics be in the stalemate of the century frfr /j
Srs tho this vid actually explains things pretty well and I appreciate that!!
4:04 WOAH QUOIROMANTIC IS SO... GUYS HEAR ME OUT.... 😳
Wowza… same…
I'm listening-
@@457R4L_xX yeah, I’d let him hit…
im all ears
Yess!! Cupiormantic mentioned!!!!
For me I don’t feel anything but desire it
At first I misread aromantic as "aromatic" and thought this was going to be about different fragrances. I thought it was kind of weird, lol.
so happy that lithro is mentioned
10:24 🇮🇹 I also identify as sideways Italian
I'm demiromantic and demisexual. Since there has been no one who has gotten to a point where I feel deeply connected with them is why I'm still single
If I spot thou in thy tavern thy shall clapt the cheeks untill they reach blue color
It sucks, everyone I am close to is in a relationship.
@Odd-w3y I'm not even trying anymore. All the years of stress is starting to affect my heart. One of my coworkers is trying to play matchmaker with me. I'll go along with it, but considering my past, I won't hold my breath
same it feels super lonely when you wanna be with someone but have no friends or when u actually like someone but they can't like you back
Don't give up! I'm demiromantic and asexual, but I've been married a long time, so you're not struck out yet.
As a demiromantic person I love romance and when people are in love however for myself I want a relationship one day but not so fast!
IVE BEEN WAITING AND DREAMING ABOUT A VIDEO LIKE THIS FOR SO LONG, THANK YOU SO MUCH YOU JUST MADE MY DAY!
Tysm I finally managed to understand who I am exactly (smthn between caedromantic and fictoromantic)
WOOHOO AROMANTIC SPECTRUM REPRESENTATION 🔥🔥🔥
Absolutely love this and it help me explain aromatic to my best friend
Ah, I'm pretty much Caedromantic, but with a partner currently that understands that he will be my last relationship. I didn't know that it had a clearer and more precise name. But I'm not digging the color scheme of white/grey/more grey. But I get it.
i love how the first artist creates characters using the colors of the flag omg (quoiromantic is mine)
yeah ngl i wanted to see the designs for the other attractions especially platoniromantic, first artist was cooking
He doesn't want you. He is quoriomantic.
what a wonderful video, im sure the comments will be nice and wholesome
actually theyre not bad.
Yayy! So glad you did this one, did a really great job explaining the different identities. Im Demiromantic myself :)
im not a big fan of this style of video trending but the evaluator makes it work more than any other youtuber. You own this style more than any other youtuber!
You should do a video on every romantic trope
ight, just found out i am literally WTFromantic, THANKKK YOUUUUUU i was about to have a goddamn mental breakdown about this whole world of romance, so... damn you saved me one breakdown thx thx
Quoiromantic sounds like me, probably because of my Autism/Asperger’s
Bisexual aromantic trans man here 🫡🫡🫡 This is a very good video for our representation in my opinion, thank you Mr. Evaluator
My only personal edit would be that I can get that butterflies/anxious/jealous crush feeling for people I'm sexually attracted to and/or people I really want to be friends with. I've never gotten that feeling for someone and felt the desire to start a romantic relationship and be lovey-dovey with them. It makes it kind of complicated because I'll be getting that butterflies/crush feeling for people that I just want to bang and/or befriend. And let me make it clear, platonic love is one of my favorite feelings in the world, I'm committed to my friends and I treat them like royalty
Im in a QPR and never had a word for what the hell I even am, finding what Platoniromantic is, is so helpful!!!
I like the little flag drawings, I hope you do the ace spectrum next!🫶🏽🤍🩶🖤💜
I really dont know what I am. I literally go crazy for him. But the next day, I hate him. But that evening, I fall madly in love with him again. Sometimes I say love is nonsense, sometimes I do everything for love.
0:46 THANK YOU for mentioning that aro people can still date, as an aro person myself im in a relationship even though i feel little romantic attraction
Got a aroace friend, can confirm she doesn’t like any romance or sexual stuff! (I constantly make the ‘garlic bread’ joke to her)
Garlic bread is my favourite food there’s a joke about it? I wanna hear it
@ garlic bread is just something aroace people like, I don’t fully know why they like it but it’s fun
@@sadgirl7321Bit of a stereotype? I'm demiromantic and demisexual to asexual. I love garlic bread and in fact garlic in general.
I love your videos i just love them for some reason 😂😊
I've actually been very confused about my romantic attraction for a while. It's always been weird and inconsistent and stuff, but this video actually helped sooooo yea thanks
4:10 baby don't hurt me 🗣️
No more
This is how I find out I'm Quoiromantic??? 😭
LITHROMANTIC AND DEMIROMANTIC MENTION HELL YEAH!!
Hello! Litho here! THANK YOU FOR MENTIONING USSS!! We are so underrated, I cant even find any Merch of the flag!
I think i might be fictoromantic 😌😌
I get you buddy
And fictosexual exists, fictoromantic is the non sexual version of that
isnt that a form of mental illness?
Great video for understanding others! Are you able to try the bi spectrum too? Thx!
I think you forgot one... "AroAllo" but that's okay. It's not like it's something that's too well known anyway.
aroaceflux here I can relate lol
i think that as well as the fluxes are more specific forms of greyromantic, i know it's kind of an umbrella term for identities based around unstable romantic attraction (i'm aroflux myself)
Demiromantic here, ive had 3 crushes ever‼️‼️‼️‼️
Finally after years I have cracked my aromantic type. Fictoromantic and probably greyromantic!
AROMANTIC SPECTRUM MENTION!!!!
i am lithromantic and fictoromantic and I'm glad that not everyone forgets about us ^_^
Yay! As someone who's so sure that they're on the aro spectrum but can't figure out if I'm demiro or greyro, this is sure to help me!!
Amazing video, hope you make more videos like these.
fun fact: as of now, no one has finished the video
I did
@@AstroAuthor1 at the time i sent the comment no one did
0:00 thats not normal?- OOP 😂😂
0:46 lmao, yeaaah i do get a few crushes lol they are very very rare
2:58 OOPP THAT SOUND A BIT LIKE ME 😂😂😂 BUT NOT EXACTLY 😂😂😂
3:47 WTF ROMANTIC 😂😂😂😂😂
3:57 Relatable 😌
4:33 VERY. RELATABLE.
8:50 hold up.. wait a second.. that sounds like me a bit..
10:47 OOP- *COUGH* SOUNDS LIEK ME A LOT- NORMALY > FEEL THE ROMANTIC FEELINGS FOR BEETWINE A WEEK-MONTH 😂😂😂 but i never want to do anything or act on it
Interesting colours all of those variations have ^^ 😊
i am demiromantic. took me four years to figure it out until after i started dating my friend that i had a crush on.
i really appreciate a video featuring demiromantic bc its so unknown
Well the evalouter hasn't made a video about Aromantic Asexaul Aro Ace yet
Yes yep
That's a single orientation, why make a whole video on it?
@@StrawberryMilk-hf4wr
Imagine responding to your own comment to agree with yourself 💀
He should do Asexual next
I would like to mention that Platoniromantic is basically just what is called Queer-Platonic crushes or relationships.
As someone who’s aro, this is the perfect description how aromantic people feel all the time
thank you - i think im most likely aromantic
Your fliping chanle dude :3 you've actualy helped me figure out who i am.. like alot-
I'm variosexual and genderfluid and i leaened this becuase of your chanle. Thank-you so much
i really enjoy your videos, i wonder if you could do a philosophy topic? thanks.
As an asexual , Do asexual next please.
finally the guy who always comments about it has his wish granted (but my god 2:29 is TERRIFYING)
I AM DEMI ROMANTIC 🤟
I’m like if platoniromamtic and lithromamtic had a baby (plus throw in some greysexual and fictosexual combo too)
So many spectrums I’m terrified of pissing ppl off because I don’t label them correctly.
Of course, no one in my area ever calls themselves any of these
Fcking god , how the fck did i just found out that i demiromantic lol
i've always loved how the aro-spectrum flags look.
As a cupioromantic, I always tell my friends how being in a relationship would totally cure my loneliness, and I always find myself fantasising about romantic company.
But the moment someone asks me if I have a crush, it’s an instant “no”.
Fun fact: im none of these
Fun fact: FELLOW GEOMETRY DASH PLAYER SPOTTED
@@1waitwhat2 geometry dash
I feel like i can be put in more than 3 of these categories.
i DO NOT fear this is my type
Guys, does this guy have gyatt??
IM AROMANTIC YAAAYYYY
YAY MY FIRST UPLOAD AS A SUB
Yup. Never been in a relationship at all, never had any romantic interests, and when I've had people display interest in me, its felt... Wrong. That is the only way I can describe it. Very, very, fundamentally wrong somehow. Like on an instinctive level I just know that its not something I should engage with. After a lot of introspection and seeing how other people in my life interact on a romantic level, I've come to the conclusion that I'm simply not built for it. My brain operates in a way that does not allow for things like this. People often feel pity for me, or give me the classic "You just haven't found anyone who interests you yet" argument, but the truth is that in terms of my lack of a love life, I'm completely content.
Okay, this was informative, and i realized im likely fictoromantic. You see im a furry and can't understand how people fall on love with IRL people yet give me anthropomorphic character, and i will obsesses over it for a long time.
THEY CALLED ME- I'M A FICTOROMANTIC! IN MANY WAYS THAN ONE!
Personally I feel I want a platonic relationship where we cuddle and kiss and stuff like that but without the whole romantic commitment, if that makes sense. I feel like the older I got the more detached I became when it comes to developing romantic feelings. The whole commitment just feels overwhelming and I like it being just *me*
Wait until they learn that fictoromantic is real
I never knew this stuff!
it makes so much sense!
14:27 i can relate fictoromantic. I love musicals and have a habit of stepping into the storys i read.
I want a real person by the way. I can separate fictional people and reality.
Its just that fake people are a lot easyer and "cheaper" than real people. No wasted time, no arguing unless you want to 😂, and people wont ask you about your relationship becouse your not in one.
same tbh
So real, never knew this vid until I found it and now I know that I'm Fictoromantic now 😭😭😭
Why not try actually writing?
Even I didn’t know the aromantic spectrum was that big. And I AM AROMANTIC ASEXUAL
This explains my aromantic spectrum identity and I am glad to know it now, I'm lithromantic probably.
DAD, IM GREY🗣🔥🔥
I'm ether demi or fictoromantic.(maybe aro)
3:47 wtf wait what
Ty man i finally realized im fictoromantic‼️
Got any reccs?
AROMANTIC REPRESENTATION YOOO 💯 🗣🗣
Tfw im a sex repulsed aromantic. 🎉
DemiRomantic here 😈🔥🔥🔥
I GOT MENTIONED AT 00:00
this video helped me out ^^
Pookie I missed you. I haven’t seen you in 2 days🙁
I dont know what I am, I have NEVER had a crush ,but I still ship people together in movies or in real life, I want a crush but im pyscicaly / emotionaly unable too. And when people ask my sexuality i never know what to say.
p.s
Also i love your vids and some other one's have been helpful to me.