Neo is Falling Behind in His Development… (Hearing Loss)

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  • Опубликовано: 3 ноя 2024

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  • @Atleastihavemydog
    @Atleastihavemydog 2 дня назад +107

    Your kid will turn out better than you can even imagine right now. You two are amazing parents.

  • @prernathapa007
    @prernathapa007 16 часов назад +4

    It's so amazing you think about both of your kids.

  • @michellehulsart8590
    @michellehulsart8590 2 дня назад +31

    Hey! My son was born completely and profoundly deaf on his left side and I resonate so much with having a race with speech and making sure he doesn’t fall behind. He was recently implanted and we’re waiting for activation. But what I would suggest is get a in home teacher once a week and stay home possibly one or two days out of the week for learning and speech. Don’t worry you’re not failing him. From one parent of a hard of hearing child to another, you got this❤️ neo is smart, neo is capable, and most of all neo is loved.

  • @jilltaylor6093
    @jilltaylor6093 19 часов назад +4

    Sending blessings and prayers that Neo's speech will become better every day!! You two are such loving parents and I'm sure you'll do what's best for Neo and your family!! ❤🙏🏼🫶🏼

  • @pemawangmosona9051
    @pemawangmosona9051 2 дня назад +61

    Neo has learned so many things and many more to learn, so please don't worry, I know it might be very hard for you two but never feel low. Our audience's prayers are always with your family ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @teresitadejesus3274
    @teresitadejesus3274 20 часов назад +5

    Please don’t feel you failure parent,Please don’t give up on Neo because Neo still have HOPE,I know what I’m talking my daughter is deaf,now she 42 years old and she a great TEACHER too. God be with you guys🙏🏽

  • @suecole5543
    @suecole5543 2 дня назад +30

    There is so much love in this family. It is hard trying to juggle everything with a young family but you are doing great. The children are happy and loved and that is so important . Lots of love to you all ❤

  • @ANGEENIEHUNMoe
    @ANGEENIEHUNMoe День назад +3

    NEO will learn more when you guys teach them all the best for him.

  • @trevormartinbutton5625
    @trevormartinbutton5625 День назад +3

    Don't worry guys. You doing your best and that's the most important thing ❤

  • @janetbishop120
    @janetbishop120 День назад +3

    Don’t look so sad guys. You are doing great work with Neo and he will progress well ❤

  • @donFai-v3d
    @donFai-v3d 23 часа назад +5

    My little brother is deaf on both sides. Dont worry its going to be alright. You both are amazing parents

  • @gratefulgram
    @gratefulgram 2 дня назад +22

    Cristal and Niko, you two are the most loving, caring wonderful people I know and this is just another little bump in the road. You’ve got this along with all of our support and love, I pray you feel surrounded by this. Much much love and many many blessings

  • @kathy7433
    @kathy7433 День назад +4

    I went to speech therapist from 3 years old until i was 17 and im now 49 and i look back and i thank god my parents did this for me. Also depending on his hearing loss might be best to keep him in sign language school and keep him in speech therapy but if his hearing loss isnt that bad then keep him oral hard of hearing school and speech therapy, i pray for you guys and good luck with whatever your decision is ❤

  • @keithmonast3043
    @keithmonast3043 День назад +3

    I think you are making a good decision. From what I've seen Neo has learned the most from you, Crystal, and Abella.

  • @jah1412
    @jah1412 2 дня назад +69

    I know that this must be hard for you guys and I hurt for your struggle. I am a future Deaf and Hard of Hearing teacher and current interpreter. This is so common for children who are being taught only through the oral method. I understand the choices that you have made, but it is so important to make sure that he has language that is fully accessible to him before he turns 5. I know this is so hard. My heart goes out to you. Neo truly may need American Sign Language and it will only aid his ability to gain speech. Much love! You all are doing amazing and loving him so well!! ❤🤟🏻

  • @juliosusycastaneda8141
    @juliosusycastaneda8141 2 дня назад +4

    U guys are great parents and he is a boy and he's at the age that everything and any lil thing distracts them from learning Neo is smart and you guys teach him so much love how patience you guys are many blessings 🙏🙏❤️🙏🙏

  • @chloemoran2150
    @chloemoran2150 День назад +4

    dear Cristal and Niko you guys are the best parents ever and i know Neo will grown up and be the cutest kid with loads of speech and hes already getting so much better at speaking like if you look back to a year ago or even a few months ago he only knew simple words like car and stuff and know he knows how to say pumpkin trust the process he'll get so much better i loved you guys so much

  • @frances840
    @frances840 День назад +4

    Cristal and Niko you are definitely not failing as parents. From your videos I can see how attentive and lioving you are with Neo and Abella. Sometimes we parents can be very critical of ourselves. You are amazing parents! I love your family and love your video's. 😍🙏🙏❤❤

  • @gohan7088
    @gohan7088 День назад +3

    Neo is going to grow up and wonder why is he such an amazing person and then he's going to remember that he has such amazing parents ❤

  • @souriyaevans7179
    @souriyaevans7179 2 дня назад +27

    Hey. Neo has done so well and speaking so well.One therapist 's opinion it's not the end. You guys have done so well. Do not be so hard on yourselves.

  • @mimo5709
    @mimo5709 День назад +6

    Please Stay strong you guys are doing the *best* you can for Neo and Abella❤ Everything is gonna be alright! ❤

  • @PorterBowman-xj1el
    @PorterBowman-xj1el 2 дня назад +10

    Niko, you may have given Neo hearing loss but you also have given him life and when I watch your vlogs he looks so happy and that’s because of you, that is the important thing. You keep the CAN family together, remember that. You gave him everything.
    I hope you have an amazing future,
    Porter
    (I was the one who got a shout out in the “Abellas first day of homeschool” vlog)

  • @DMC8707
    @DMC8707 День назад +3

    Don't worried, its your job encourage Neo to learned the improved himself for better future. Right now he's just kid and still working on learned. Teachers should not rush push him to learned fast. Its nothing wrong with Neo. 😊 I support you both parent do best for your children. 😊

  • @gouri.b
    @gouri.b 2 дня назад +23

    Dont worry. Its just a phase. You both will take it ahead beautifully.. stay blessed

  • @angelheaven4235
    @angelheaven4235 День назад +3

    Neo will be able to get to his goals. Prayers for you all. ❤

  • @さんワンちゃん
    @さんワンちゃん День назад +4

    I used to babysit 4 years old and the boy couldn't speak any word at time after 7 years I met him again he speaks no problem ☺️👍

  • @MarisolVillena-h7p
    @MarisolVillena-h7p День назад +1

    From a mom with a child that’s deaf, has 2 cochlear implants - you guys are doing amazing! You do have a long road ahead, you’ll have your up and downs but you have to trust the process. I didn’t find out until he was almost 2 that he has deaf, it’s a lot of work, a lot of time, but don’t be so hard on your self. He was main streamed since kinder, and he just got principal honor roll in all honor classes for the first time ever 🙌🏻. I promise it will get easier! Wish I can talk to you guys! Keep you in my prayer 🙏🏻

  • @ronaldhorton2438
    @ronaldhorton2438 День назад +4

    Don't get too far into the blues. Things will turn around quickly because you love him, he knows it, and he is very obviously a smart little guy. A few well thought out changes, and you are there.❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉😊

  • @Jaserah858
    @Jaserah858 День назад +4

    Don't lose hope neos development will slowly gradually start to get better with the help and support of his parents and family neos support system

  • @sakeenafida7095
    @sakeenafida7095 День назад +3

    Neo as i always & everytime say “ I Love You Baby Boy” ❤

  • @phantomphreak
    @phantomphreak День назад +4

    Hello, Cristal and Niko, I've been binge watching your channel and I must say I love the Vlogs. I am a Bimodal cochlear implant user and I was born hearing and later lost my hearing. I was profound deaf in my right ear and severe in my left. I know Neo and I has somewhat different experiences. I was given little chance of regaining and understanding speech again in my right ear from my audiologist and ENT doctor. I wore hearing aids even though they gave me little benefit. When I had my cohlear implants I was 0% before and now I am 88% 9 months after my surgery. I want to let you both know that you are giving both your children the best care, love and strength. I know it looks tough right now but you all will get through this. The sacifices you both are making show how much love you have as a family. Neo will prevail in life, he can't fail with parents like you both. I will be praying for you all and I look foward to more CAN Family Vlogs. Thank you, and you both got this.

  • @sherrybailey3766
    @sherrybailey3766 День назад +3

    God bless the lovely family

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    @Doucette-ju3hb День назад +171

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      @SlyDiggler-w7q День назад

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      @RubyAurora-s2o День назад

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      @AthensPatao День назад

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      @AthensPatao День назад

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  • @Oli-s4n
    @Oli-s4n 2 дня назад +7

    I love how you guys call her Mama, it's so sweet🥹

  • @pearldelacruz6188
    @pearldelacruz6188 2 дня назад +7

    Praying for the you guys. Hope you recognise all the efforts you've put in as parents. Praying that everything works out for the best for you guys. You are wonderful, blessed and loved by many. ❤

  • @hersheyybar
    @hersheyybar 2 дня назад +6

    You are such great parents. Sending warm and positive thoughts and prayers.

  • @2011gvs
    @2011gvs 2 дня назад +5

    Niko, Cristal its ok, Neo will pick up , sometimes some kids takes time to pick up , to learn but its not failure , he is pretty smart enough, yes you guys keep trying, doing best for Neo, for your kids , dont be disheartend or sad , Neo is Best 👍, anyways , tc , God Bless you all.

  • @devonieromero4612
    @devonieromero4612 2 дня назад +11

    I feel like Neo's speech is phenomenal! Don't be hard on your selfs. There is another content creater, and it's so hard for her because her son doesn't like wearing his cochlears and is behind in speach. And it's so sad because she's so hard on herself. It's a learning process! Everything will be OK 👍 keep your heads up and keep pushing forward! Your are doing AMAZING ❤

  • @cookieb5029
    @cookieb5029 2 дня назад +17

    Well if my opinion counts looking from the outside Neo is a intelligent child , you can see how far he's come already . I simply love him and as you both look for and find solutions you'll absolutely see him grow and develop more. Stay positive he's going to beat the odds against him because he a really smart and gifted child . Love you Can Family ❤❤💙💙🙏

  • @Vytrxjjifjlj
    @Vytrxjjifjlj 2 дня назад +6

    Dear niko and cristal Neo has made to very far along his hearing journey he will continue to progress don’t let anything bring you down.💪

  • @agatonicaararacap4917
    @agatonicaararacap4917 2 дня назад +11

    You both are great amazing parents,and Neo will come up in some ways,Princess Abella is so beautiful.

  • @allyg10
    @allyg10 2 дня назад +49

    We believe in you Neo🥺🇿🇦.. Love you chamily🩵✨️..

  • @Oli-s4n
    @Oli-s4n 2 дня назад +3

    I am always looking forward to watching your videos because you just have such an amazing family🥰

  • @spiritualtruth7777
    @spiritualtruth7777 2 дня назад +1

    You are amazing parents. I'm 100% sure you'll be fine. You guys are resilient

  • @carlosjose-x4d
    @carlosjose-x4d 2 дня назад +20

    Neo is fine.. he more proven than before..
    Pray for him ❤❤

  • @BellaFerreira-kv2iy
    @BellaFerreira-kv2iy 2 дня назад +3

    Sending love from London 🇬🇧
    Every child learns at different paces.. and if different ways, you will work it out in time 👊
    Stay strong guys 🌹
    🩵🩵💗💗🐾

  • @jeanmorgan5410
    @jeanmorgan5410 День назад +1

    You two are amazing parents don’t knock yourself out. You will do fine put it in Gods hands you got this.

  • @ivanamulovic1774
    @ivanamulovic1774 2 дня назад +3

    He is fine, we all listen to him talk so good 👍.

  • @lisaelliott7605
    @lisaelliott7605 2 дня назад +3

    Would be so awesome if you were able to have a specialist that would be willing to work with him one on one at home. Best of luck. I do understand the challenges of special need parenting and you guys are doing an awesome job!

  • @Tx.arii15
    @Tx.arii15 2 дня назад +5

    My favorite family posted❤❤

  • @Jaserah858
    @Jaserah858 День назад +2

    Abella is so adorable she gets her looks from her parents same with neo

  • @StephnieWms
    @StephnieWms 2 дня назад +6

    Sending prayers to you all.

  • @AnnabelleRaman
    @AnnabelleRaman 2 дня назад +4

    Hi just be strong and have faith...Neo will be OK.. Watching u guys from Fiji Island.❤

  • @karaQuetulio
    @karaQuetulio 2 дня назад +2

    God bless on Neo i hope he will be a good man when he grows up. Thank you the CAN family you always cheer me up

  • @zebrayellow4629
    @zebrayellow4629 2 дня назад +6

    Don’t look at the time being wasted, but look at his maturity and growth . Be patient and trust the process! As a teacher, just keep working with him to reinforce concepts and try having a private tutor. Kids always show ups and downs, so don’t panic !

  • @Piscesloves
    @Piscesloves День назад +1

    Sending you nothing but the best and good vibes 🤗

  • @valenciavellen413
    @valenciavellen413 2 дня назад +7

    Congrats Abella

  • @GuadalupeGarcia-cj1gy
    @GuadalupeGarcia-cj1gy День назад +2

    It's cool that y'all buy anything for y'all kids

  • @cesarsalgadosalgado2199
    @cesarsalgadosalgado2199 2 дня назад +4

    Bro y'all have done a great and fantastic job with neo on getting his speech better he's talking more and pronounces words Good sometimes it takes too long and too much time but sometimes it's way more difficult or it's easier for someone to learn things at a short paste or at longer time just give it more time and effort

  • @Leanah-playz
    @Leanah-playz 2 дня назад +6

    Wish the best for neo and I BELIEVE IN YOU NEO!!!❤❤❤

  • @LuizEduardo-el5ku
    @LuizEduardo-el5ku День назад +1

    Neo é muito esperto e a criança mais doce do mundo, vai dá tudo certo.

  • @UdegbunamChuks
    @UdegbunamChuks 2 дня назад +2

    Wohsing you guys the best as you push through this hurdle ❤❤❤

  • @rumbie-g7u
    @rumbie-g7u 2 дня назад +8

    The Lord is in control, Neo will be fine. Perhaps the teacher s assessment was not very correct, but just do the necessary changes. I'M praying for you and Neo ❤❤

  • @Roblox-wv5gd
    @Roblox-wv5gd День назад +1

    I will be praying I'm so sorry for that but no matter what you are a strong person and you will always be loved ❤

  • @ogoojonta4303
    @ogoojonta4303 2 дня назад +1

    You guys are going to pass this
    I believe in you
    One day we will hear Neo talking fluently and remember this video and thank GOD🙏🏽❤️

  • @DominicArrows
    @DominicArrows 19 часов назад +3

    You guys are the best and I subbed ❤

  • @realmmusic6915
    @realmmusic6915 2 дня назад

    You guys are just your family is just crazy love from Australia

  • @kornias8794
    @kornias8794 2 дня назад +2

    Done❤❤❤❤ wish you all the best.. in the family you're great parents...

  • @ashmitaadhikari2789
    @ashmitaadhikari2789 2 дня назад +1

    Hello
    Love from India
    My neighbours kid is also 3 yrs and with normal developmental milestones except a speech delay. Started speaking after 2. Currently going to school and still doesnt know his ABCs or counting for the matter and it is very hard for his parents to discipline him. On the contrary with a developmental anomaly Neo is doing great I would say. Do not be so hard on yourself just because of one person’s opinion.

  • @chatasandoval4892
    @chatasandoval4892 2 дня назад +3

    My prayers for you all especially Neo daily life is so hard but especially when your going in several different directions at once my advice is for you to pray to God to give you the answers you need and I will keep you all in my prayers also

  • @suecole5543
    @suecole5543 2 дня назад +6

    Abella is so funny bless her. Neo is an angel. Beautiful children .❤❤

  • @MandlaMsibi-i5j
    @MandlaMsibi-i5j 2 дня назад +2

    You guys are the best and my god bless you guys ❤

  • @mandisamagubane603
    @mandisamagubane603 2 дня назад +2

    Hi guys am proud of what you doing for your kids Niko just keep Neo at home do what you always do with him train him how do you know he doesn't like school that makes him to be reserved and not perform as expected expected also assign a therapist also🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤ don't beat your self I hav been watching you doing great

  • @SUIIIIIII.KO1234
    @SUIIIIIII.KO1234 2 дня назад +8

    4:47 the twee was soooooo cuteeeeeeeeee

  • @joannedoctor8215
    @joannedoctor8215 2 дня назад +2

    Keep working bu also keep the faith. It's going to be alright.

  • @mustam0
    @mustam0 2 дня назад +9

    I'm jealous for my love towards this family😢❤❤❤i love you

  • @vickiwalker3486
    @vickiwalker3486 День назад

    I agree: don’t take this too hard. Remember how gifted Neo is. (I’m a retired special ed teacher). You all 4 have got this!
    Also, I agree that Neo may benefit from 2 days/wk homeschooling with an inhome teacher one if those. Keep the faith, dear ones❤

  • @alexaykevin
    @alexaykevin 2 дня назад +2

    The commute is very exhausting mentally and physically. Still remember those days when I would work 12 hr night shifts run out the hospital get kids ready to take them to JTC and then sleep in the car for a few hours. You do what’s best for your family, I know it’s hard not having help. If you decide to stay I volunteer to help with Neo ❤. 😊

  • @BrianOchoa-y2x
    @BrianOchoa-y2x 2 дня назад +1

    The people who are in need of neo for us are a good thing to say about the fact of life is that you are so important to be one of our best friend 🙏 pray for him and Abella to ❤

  • @anu7997
    @anu7997 День назад +1

    Tbh neo is very very strong,, he's definitely be totally okkk in future ❤.. I love that lil warrior so much

  • @saifansharif-p7u
    @saifansharif-p7u 2 дня назад +3

    Best thing to do is keep him home because the same thing happened with my little brother and we found out he learns better from people he knows and loves

    • @rosaliomartinez849
      @rosaliomartinez849 22 часа назад +1

      Ok ✅ I’m ready and ready at home 🏠 so I’m going

  • @kaveeshadias6999
    @kaveeshadias6999 2 дня назад +7

    Neo is a happy pill ❤

  • @PrisTvv
    @PrisTvv 2 дня назад +5

    Nice one as always Beautiful family 👪

  • @jampathutop2750
    @jampathutop2750 2 дня назад +1

    Please don’t lose hope 😢be strong,Neo learn so many new things❤and I guess members of school don’t feel that because they spent much time with Neo but for us we see that Neo learn a lot..

  • @deborahannajoy
    @deborahannajoy 2 дня назад +1

    Neo is going to grow leaps and bounds. He is going to shock the world. He's doing great under the circumstances. He has great parents who are doing the best within their circumstance.

  • @aguabo
    @aguabo 2 дня назад +1

    Also at CA School for the Deaf, they helped many children with CI to thrive and succeed. Many are now employed, homeowners and very happy.

  • @AranxaRodriguez-o7m
    @AranxaRodriguez-o7m 2 дня назад +2

    Oh my God, the beginning of the video when you was sleeping and he was making that noise. I was so happy that that sound is so cute 🥰

    • @AranxaRodriguez-o7m
      @AranxaRodriguez-o7m 2 дня назад +1

      I mean neo not you don’t judge I was just typing fast 💨

  • @hiwrajpardhi2121
    @hiwrajpardhi2121 2 дня назад +5

    Done..!!!!🤩😄Wish u best for Neo..

  • @yamalcantara9897
    @yamalcantara9897 2 дня назад +6

    Congratulations Abella 🎉🎊👏

  • @dorothywright2743
    @dorothywright2743 День назад +1

    You guys are great parents ❤ Neo will come out of his "shell" he's only 3. He's 3 and deaf..I dont like Charts..they're not fair😮. No worries..❤❤

  • @irenegarcia1893
    @irenegarcia1893 День назад

    You’ll are amazing parents. Don’t. Lose faith.

  • @rogerthat8580
    @rogerthat8580 2 дня назад

    It must be very hard but u guys are doing so much for abella and neo they both are very bright kids.Its all your efforts for neo he is today this much good he is smart he replies to u and with some good clear words don't be hard on yourself take care guys we love u all❤

  • @yuliaimmajati
    @yuliaimmajati 2 дня назад

    You both have done such a great job as parents. Neo has done well so far. Somebody in the comments suggests to pay a closer attention on Neo's sign language along with the verbal training. This is important for any kids with hearing problem to support their cognitive development. Perhaps having a sign language tutor to come over to the house worth considering if you guys are too busy. Also, in terms of school, to my understanding, parents may consider different options of an inclusive school ( mainstream school that is equipped for accomodating children with sppecial needs,) or mixed approach in which you mainstream your child for a part of their schooling through inclusive school , but combine it with specific education such as residential Deaf school or training using an in house tutor.

  • @Sophiaslife-q4u
    @Sophiaslife-q4u 2 дня назад +5

    You can do it Neo We believe in you you CAN do it!

  • @MilaMillyGrace321
    @MilaMillyGrace321 2 дня назад +1

    Love you guys so much!💗

  • @dvillafane6477
    @dvillafane6477 День назад

    Done! Neo loves to be with his Dada.. Niko he works well with you. There is nothing wrong with him staying home 2 days like you said.. he is only 3 still a baby. Everything will be okay. Don't be hard on yourselves. He thrives with his family and speaks so much since he is in the school. Don't give up on baby Neo 💞🧿😇 he should learn sign language as he can interact with others . Love you all from Dacia in New York..and if the commute is tiring it could affect him too

  • @joleneannturner7785
    @joleneannturner7785 2 дня назад +1

    You are amazing parents ❤💙

  • @habibiesungkono
    @habibiesungkono 2 дня назад +6

    The best for Neo!

  • @AlejandraHernandez-bz8ep
    @AlejandraHernandez-bz8ep День назад

    🥺🥺🥺 HUGS to your family
    God is with you guys ❤

  • @meglavin5683
    @meglavin5683 День назад +1

    You guys have done amazing! We've all seen Neo's growth! Give yourself some credit you deserve it!