The hospital should have probably called CPS. Threatening a minor child with homelessness for any reason is abuse, people who do this don't deserve to be parents.
She isn't a minor though. She is living with roommates. That's how her parents didn't know she was pregnant. I saw it in another clip. These parents still suck, of course. There is nothing my child could ever do to make me disown him. Period.
@@crystalandrews8393 thank you. I thought she was cause she looks so young. But i agree and while i don't have kids i am the oldest of 13 and there's nothing and i mean nothing that would ever cause me to do that tot hem
Win-win for both men AND this soon to be mum. Bub will have the best of all these people, no judgement and a lifetime of knowing she was wanted and LOVED. ❤
They can't until either the parents sign away their parental rights willingly or Tina starts the emancipation process which takes months and has to be dealt with in court for a judge to decide, and the judge will ultimately rule with whatever biases and opinions they have as an individual (which *does* affect court outcome). It may not be a viable option anyways as the parents don't want their grandchild growing up with homosexual parents let alone allowing their daughter to live with them or allowing the men to gain guardianship over her.
@michaela1796 - Legally, no. Only through marriage, joining the military, or legal proceedings does a minor become emancipated. Much is expected of one asking to be emancipated. They have to be able to provide income, housing, and personal needs for themselves before many judges will even start to consider the option.
Everyone is commenting on the parents which i agree with everyone, but what got my lil heart was, "Our babys still out there. We just dont know who he or she is yet." That is the type of love that everyone should have no matter what you believe in. I have not seen this movie or TV show episode. I am just basing what I see from this short clip.
Yes and no, they had a chance at a family. They could have offered to help both once they were kicked out. They don't care who the baby comes from they only want a womb wet baby meaning they won't care about the trauma or pain of an adopted child wanting and needed to know about their birth family or about the person who actually gave their child life, and kept them safe at the sacrifice of her own body for 9 months
@@LittleBrittixoyethat is not at all what happened. SHE chose to give the baby up to an adoption agency because she didn’t want to get kicked out of her home. They didn’t chose anything. People would much rather put a child in a home than give them to a loving same sex home. They were so busy forcing their religion their teaching their hatred down that girls throat that she was SCARED. They literally fear manipulated her into giving the baby up for adoption. And yes they could have taken her in and right after get arrested for kidnapping… because the police are going to believe the parents.
These are the same parents that sit at home and wonder "Why doesn't my kid talk to me?" This is why! I love my children and they know I might not love something they do/have done but I will ALWAYS love them. Shame on the parents. "Dishonor on you! Dishonor on your cow." 😁
@wendybarber4269 you and my mom probably would have gotten along swimmingly. She pulled a Mrs. Winchester by insisting on building 4 extra rooms onto our house themselves over the years because they took in 6 of our friends who were thrown out for absolutely deplorable reasons. They really went above and beyond not just for us but for our friends who didn't have that kind of support from their own parents.
I know a gay couple who had that calling. They adopted children whom the parents had abandoned at birth. All of them, every one, had "difficulties" Too sick....the parents walked away, and they adopted....SEVEN of them. They wiped snotty noses, sat through dialysis, changed diapers and made sure everyone got fed, on the table, or through a feeding tube. Those kids were and are LOVED and HAPPY and getting all the care they need. So....what's different? What is different with love and care? I've seen their kids graduate, walking across that stage to get their diploma. I couldn't be more proud of them, and of their two dads.
What's worse is a difference there is that same sex couples have to choose to have kids. It's not really something that happens by accident. Hetero couples don't always choose when they have a baby, sometimes they don't even get to choose if their ready. It's such a shame that we live in a society where someone who is willing to make the sacrifices to be a good parent isn't allowed to, but someone who doesn't even want the child could be forced into keeping it.
What disgraceful parents could threaten to disown a child, just because she gives a child up 4 adoption to a loving family that simply doesn't match the parents idea of normal. People like that make me sick.
AGREED. Tina picked a LOVING and happy couple to adopt her daughter, and then they were told they couldn’t adopt her, because they’re gay. They were even going to DISOWN their own child, which makes my blood BOIL! Even though it’s a TV show (which I’m really glad it’s a TV show and it didn’t happen in real life), this kind of scenario MOST LIKELY has happened in real life, which is really really sad.
@@Rabidsmurf312 So are juries not allowed to convict murderers? Are we not allowed to condemn terrorists? The Lord’s commandment doesn’t apply to cases like these where there is a clear moral answer; don’t misconstrue His word.
Treating a baby like a piece of property. This is so disgusting. That "traditional family" will never be the same. That daughter will never look at her parents the same. I would leave those awful awful people first chance I got.
@@glintongordon6811 a choice between being homeless and not allowed back within their family or give the baby to a random couple she doesn't know but are Christian? Not much of a choice is it.
Traditional family where love comes after judgment from hypocrites. They are willing to discard their daughter. You are not God, so called Traditional parents.
Yeah... no You dont have to be super accepting, it is your choice But dont say youll love someone no matter what and then change your mind because they have different values that you dont agree with. And dont say "it hurts us more than it hurts her to kick her out" Because it doesn't, you arent being forced to kick her out, you're choosing to, which shows you never loved her as much as she loved you.
Love has zero to do with interacting with people.Respect is leaving people to their free will while not waivering on our own boundaries.If your family member doesn't align with you you're not a bad person for telling them they'll have to keep their distance.
@sdoncam5491 the daughter that just gave birth is a minor, how else would her parents be able to control her choice of who adopts the baby? She was a teen, that makes her a minor. You are legally obligated fo provide shelter, food, clothes, and medical care for any minor under your guardianship.
Her parents didn't "control her choice" @@Celeste_Stellar_Night They told her THEIR beliefs & comfort level then gave her the option to either respect them or they wouldn't be in an active relationship with her.She chose to stay a apart of her family & let another couple adopt her baby.
It's so sad that she can't really rely on her parents because if something they don't approve or she didn't do as they told they can disown her What a poor child
@Trix897 if she was living with roommates and willing to give the baby up it should be her choice, nor the parents. Seems like they didn't want the baby, so why interfere?
@@freespirit3891 ummm…read my statement again. THE PARENTS ARE BEHAVING IN A WAY THAT IS ALIENATING THEIR DAUGHTER SO THAT SHE WILL NOT WANT TO BE A PART OF THEIR LIVES WHEN SHE IS ABLE TO BREAK FREE OF THEM. Is it really hard to read such simple words, or are you part of the 54% who can’t read past a 6th grade reading level? 🤦♀️
@@lindah3803 there is, but *some people* are incapable of it, so they pretend it is impossible. They are simply too lazy, selfish, vain or cruel. Their failure to love is shameful, and evidence of deep inferiority or selfishness.
@Unknown69874 no, no, and no. A child needs functional parents and LOVE. Children from gay couples can thrive, while children from some straight couples are terribly abused and / or neglected. You just don't want to believe it because of your prejudice. But prejudice are more often than not false and stupid.
@@Unknown69874😂 That's a good one considering your's probably didn't hug you enough. At least in this scenario the baby would be loved by both parents.
@@Unknown69874 That may be your opinion, but the fact of the matter is there are many different types of families who are living full, happy, and thriving lives! It’s a beautiful thing!! ❤️
If I were them and they kicked out their daughter for giving me the baby, I would’ve had two extra children… because now the mother is coming to live with me❤😊
100% I'd love to be a grandma!! If I had the resources I'd do it in a heartbeat for pregnant young girl to be able to be the mom she wants to be but feel she can't do on her own.
After seeing the last clip, I just wanna say SHAME EVERYONE BUT THE DAUGHTER -Shame on the doctor for not listening to the daughter when she said the parents are going to be very mad and didn't keep them out of the room -Shame on the couple for staying in the room and admitting the truth when the daughter fully knew her parents would freak out. If one or both of them stepped out, they'd have had the baby -Shame on the parents for being so hard-headed that they basically say to their daughter "our love for you IS CONDITIONAL" you do NOT deserve to have kids and you don't deserve heaven Dishonor on all of you
@ That's the thing, it wasn't the hospital that contacted the parents in the previous clip, it was the daughter's ROOMATE, meaning she currently isn't living at home and may be 18-21 by this point. If the parents weren't summoned in the first place by the hospital but the roomate, it's safe to assume she isn't a minor It was a good thought that would've changed the scenario though
Absolutely disgusted with the "parents". Giving your child an ultimatum and holding homelessness over their head just to force them to conform to your own narrow minded beliefs? Using manipulation to control who they give THEIR baby to? The fact that their love for their child is completely conditional on how obedient she is to them? Absolutely vile.
A situation like this is how my neice came to live with me for a few months until she left for college. Baby was a girl, and her dads love her dearly. She'll be 4 soon.
I believe the mother passed and the child goes to the parents! Soooooo messed up - the child was rewarded on principle and the caregiving decision was not based on love. The child was awarded based on genetics! She and the he’s loved their child and they never took her home!
No. The mother did not die. Just her parents threatened to disown her if she gave the baby to some pervert fa**ots. (No, they didn’t say that but that’s what they were thinking). A “traditional “ family ended up adopting her child.
if the parents can't/won't raise said baby then wtf r they saying anything at the end of the day it's the mother in this situation that gets the last say. She knows these ppl r stable and loving adults who r ready for a child. Also technically there's nothing traditional in giving up a baby for adoption in the first place
A child needs unconditional love and support, to know that they can always come to their parents for anything without judgement. It makes no damn difference if the parent is a man or a woman. None.
I can’t stand people like those parents. They love their daughter so much they’ll kick her out of the house because of who she’s allowing to adopt her baby. That’s a love most people can do without.
I don’t agree with the parents to kick their daughter out, but I know that that baby deserves to have two loving parents, a father and a mother, like our Creator created it to be. If He wanted a child to grow up with two same gender people then He would have them birth babies.
I believe it's the mother's choice. That's a pretty sad day when you hold strings over your daughter to live in your house being a pregnant teen. They live by traditional values.. news flash ..your teen daughter had sex ?? Wow .
@@mariah4531 The baby would most likely not ever meet the bio grandparents so like either way what ever they think that baby is gonna grow up w/ different values to them
@@moneylover318She was 19, and they threatened her with disownment if she let the pervert f**ots (likely what the parents were thinking) adopt the baby.
Maybe everyone should have listened to the girl who is a part of the family. Everything she warned them was true. They messed around and they left with no baby. I agree truth is important but was it more important to them then the love they claimed to have for Lucy?
Man, if anyone in my family ever threatened to stop talking to me over some thing that was important to me… So stop talking to me see if I care. That actually kind of happen to me w my grandparents i'm realizing now as an adult, but at the time I didn't notice.
Fr man never understood people who HAVE to do something because they feel the alternative is lying? And so what if it is? You lied that baby's in a loving household, the girl, you, and your husband are happy 🤷🏻♀️ seems simple. Just wait until the paperwork is finished.
My Family is Irish Catholic when I was pregnant at 16 I was married off two weeks later. No Child should be given no choices. That Child now has a college degree and been married for over 20yrs with Children of her own❤
Those poor dads 😢 they deserve that baby. I, personally, would have offered to adopt the teenager as well. There are witnesses to the fact that the parents said they would disown the teen if she let that loving couple adopt the baby.
Yeah I really hope she walked away from them when she turned 18 they showed her and no uncertain terms that their love is very conditional and I hope she realizes that she deserves better than that.
I feel sad for the couple, and it just happened a few days ago on the news, here in Thailand. And I feel so bad for the gay couple for being called "mentally abnormal." And that's the reason the girl's family said when they refused to give them the newborn baby. 😢
If a religion paints a no tolerance policy picture on anything that hurts no one, that religion is corrupt. My son is a conservative who had much influence from his very religious grandparents, so he is very hateful. Our daughter refused to go with them for a long time, we finally knew once the grandparents took ill, and she told us she was gay, and she didn't want them to hate her. Her brother had gotten slightly more understanding, but it crushes my daughter, my husband and I when he gets angry and throws such ugly slurs. We have told him he is his own man, he can be anything he wants to be, but under our roof... He is to abide by our rules. His sister still has issues because of him, and only her grandfather ever found out the truth before he died, I was grateful when they spoke the once over the phone he didn't bring it up. He just told her he loved her. Life should be filled with support and understanding. I am so heart broken that it is a rarity to find such, especially if it's family that fails you.
The daughter told them how her parents would react and tried to get them, not show they were the couple adopting her baby. They didn't want to live a lie, and Dr told girls' parents when they were all in the room that they were the couple adopting the baby. Thats what happened in another short
@ her roommate told her parents…at the youngest she’s gotta be 18, assuming it’s a college roommate. Not saying 18 isn’t young, but legally she’s an adult and then it wouldn’t be her parents decision. She said they’re traditional, in this case hinting towards homophobia. That’s my takeaway.
That horrible. 😢 Making her choose them or the couple because they'll throw her out. 😢 I would have been like pack your bags you can help us raise this baby.
And thats why the mother asked them to pretend to be straight. I get not wanting to lie, but you get the paperwork done first and then be loud & proud.
Exactly !! This is the comment I was looking for. Like I understand that they wanted to be proud of who they were but ultimately was the pride really worth the cost that it came at? Like everyone’s getting mad at this girl’s parents for having their beliefs, but no one’s mad at the gay couple who was literally warned that this would happen and decided that their pride was more important than privacy and respecting the peace of the vulnerable teenager who was about to give birth to a baby that they wanted so badly? obviously that doesn’t justify what the parents did. I think they were wrong but at the end of the day, people are entitled to their beliefs, even if their beliefs don’t align with our own. The girl gave the couple the opportunity to respect her parents’s beliefs and give them the baby they wanted, but ultimately they decided that jeopardizing this girl’s living situation so they could be proud of who they are was obviously the better option. Also, I’m just gonna make the point part of being a parent is understanding the importance of sacrifice. Respectfully, I think they could’ve sacrificed their pride for the two minutes of meeting the parents of this girl and started the life that they wanted. Now I understand that to some people the idea of sacrificing their identity for even a second is hard for them to do. But I can just say that for myself that I wanted nothing more than to give birth to my daughter naturally, but unfortunately, the situation didn’t work out that way in that moment, I sacrificed my mental well-being for the safety of my child as any parent would do. So seeing these people who are so desperate to have a child we’re not really willing to make that sacrifice knowing good and well that this was going to be the end result as they were warned. I think that the parents still have a shitty take, but looking at this from outsider perspective. I also feel like the gay couple has some accountability that needs to be taken out their end. It’s important to be proud of who we are, but we shouldn’t allow our pride and who we are to interfere with the reality of the world that we live in.
@@DiniBrum Try to think that some people may just be too tired of continuing to lie about who they really are. The "world we live in" also changes when people stop lying and put others in front of the reality of things. Otherwise then you hear bigots say "before there weren't all these gays" when in reality they were there but they were hiding, just like you said this couple should have done.
If I were the girl I would go with the lovely couple and live them with the baby. Because obviously they were willing to let their grandchild go to another family. Their love is conditional which is not love at all. Also they were willing to disown their daughter. They suck as people and parents.
8:27 the judgment is more about Misty blatantly LYING about what she said to the kid. Bad enough she said what she did-if she “needed help learning how to talk to a disabled kid” that is one thing. But she was awful, verbally abusive AND lied directly to the OP’s face! He cannot choose her!
Wait so unless she breaks their hearts and deprives her child of a loving and stable home their gonna make their daughter homeless? In which scenario are they being good parents? I have no problems with religion but some people just need to admit their terrible human beings and stop using it as an excuse
Do they think once the baby goes off to a “traditional and structured” home, their daughter will joyfully come home with them and have a better relationship with them than ever before, even after finding out their love is conditional?
I feel so sorry for that girl. Yeah she got pregnant but there are so many worse things she could've done. And she was willing to give her baby to that couple who obviously very much wanted her and loved her, so that child could have a better life than she could provide. And I feel sorry for that couple who were so ready to love and care for that baby, who would've given her a loving home where she would've thrived and been her best self. Because of two people's ignorance and beliefs that they insisted on pushing on to others, even to threatening their own child with homelessness. How heartbreaking.
And as a Christian man here I still have to say in this situation it should have been up to the girl. The parents didn’t want her to keep the baby so.. kinda a patient right thing
For what?!?! Disregarding her fears and going directly against her wishes to tell her parents ANYTHING. He thought this would go one heart warming way and she KNEW BETTER. Pretty sure he broke HIPAA by telling them anything when she didn’t want him too. Bad doctor. He should have shut up and listened to her. Typical male😤
@@anglicalchemist oh I see what you ment there now and your right it is good to stand up to bigotry but this wasn’t that fight right now. They’re stable established adults that don’t need protection like this venerable young woman who is losing her support system. There is a world of difference from being in your 30s and being in your late teens early 20s. Nice that the doctor was LGBTQ friendly but he didn’t see who the truly vulnerable person was in this situation who needed protecting. Too many men see women as just human incubators and don’t care about their needs beyond making babies. She dissevered so much more than what we saw in these clips.
I wonder if Tina’s mom works or not. They say they believe in “traditional values”… well that means that the wife stays home and handles all the household things as well as raises the children, cooks, takes the kids to appointments, etc. while the husband is the one who works outside of the home.
This girl my last nerves. All of he had to do was walk out of the room instead of insisting on meeting the little girl's parents. If they had just walked out they would have still had the baby. I understand sticking out for yourself. I really do. But they didn't know these people. It lost them their child because they had to make a stand against strangers who held power over the child who was the birth mother.
Grandparents clearly 4get th@ say have No Say in w@ happens 2 the baby they didn't even want their daughter 2 have. The baby's mother has the final say in everything 2 do w/ her baby th@'s the law.
Honestly I would go be with the adoptive fathers cause they are part of the family again it doesn’t matter what sexuality you are if u help us or we helped u getting pregnant giving u a baby and if u accepted us both ways I would be happy knowing you did something amazing for both sides Yet your parents are like no u can’t have the baby etc like bruh I can understand traditional and values but at the same time it’s just sigh not fair and yes life isn’t fair ik but still I feel devastated if this has happened to a lot of folks 😭😭😭😭
The choice belongs to Tina. The threat to kick her out of the family is horrible. I don't agree with the lifestyle they chose either. But I'd respect Tinas decision or I'd help her raise the baby in her real family.
You can't chose who you love and who you don't, how is that so hard to understand? Being straight is not a lifestyle choice so how is being gay a lifestyle choice?
I'm so happy my family wasn't like this when I came out. I thought my brother, who was more like a father sometimes, would be the most judgemental about it, but his response was, "It's about f**king time you came out."
I’ve grown up Christain and I’m still Christian and yes, I believe in the traditional values, but this pisses me off. Those guys worked so hard that her daughter had worked so hard for them. They got to hold little girl for the first time as their own parents decided to rip her away you could tell that the baby would’ve been in a loving home where she got everything she needed
That is some major BS!!! A loving home for a child is never a sin or a crime no matter what the parental structure looks like. If a couple or even a single person can provide a loving and stable home then that child should be adopted by said couple/person.
That poor girl not only will her parents treat her worse because theyre not who she wants them to be but her own baby doesnt get to go with the family she wants and they risk being in a situation just like her essentially since its a girl. I cant imagine how that poor girl is feeling. Likely trapped
Those dads were idiots. In the scene before this one, that girl was begging them to leave to cover for her, but they were like "we're not gonna begin our family with a lie." There wasnt any consideration for that girl whatsoever. 😒
Why shut down the adoption agency? What did they do wrong? This girl, I believe, is sn adult in the previous clip said the girls roommate told her parents she was in hospital. The girl warned Dr. and gay couple how her parents would react, and no one listened to her
I am to be a yoga instructpr fpr preagnant woman and 'this' ,which many women go through leaves a scar. Having a support system is very important. And for your own family to turn your back on you like that is horrible. Not to mention adopting parents who are completely capable, are regected because narrow minded people. When 'traditional' familiesmay not be the best option since the baby will grow in an environment that is their way or the high way, feeling fear of making a mistake and being judged
Wonder how many of the Littles being forced to live like this will be leaving their parents forever. I grew up under boomers (the last time "traditional" values took over common decency) and most of us hate our parents. Just remember that while doing the hateful raising. Cause it turns into lonely confusion in the future.
Those parents (Tina’s) are horrible Christians. Jesus and God both loved everyone, even sinners. They welcomed sinners with open arms and loved them wholeheartedly. Don’t speak of religion if you’re not going to follow your religious teachings, completely. You can’t pick and choose what teachings work and which ones don’t for your personal gain (control over Tina).
I saw the clip preceding this one. The pregnant girl tells the doctor and the dads that her parents would not support this, and instead of empathising, the doctor immediately outs the situation to the parents. The dads couldve had the babdy if the doctor had listened to the girl.
If I was Tina and I was given that choice, then I would tell my "parents" to make sure my bags are packed and ready to go by the time I'm out and back at the house. If someone forces you to make a choice between them and doing the right thing they disapprove of cuz its not what THEY want, that aint love and you get as far away as you can if you're able.
My eldest child got adopted by a same sex couple and I’m happy that they love my child just as much as I do (as the birth mother) my child was more comfortable around men than he was around women so he fit perfect in the adoptive parents life. I don’t know how long it took for them to finally get my baby but I never once thought bad things towards my child’s parents, I even met them before the adoption was finalized and I loved them, my child and the parents were a perfect match.
what a fun way of telling your terrified daughter that your love is, in fact, VERY conditional
They still would love her, put they are unwilling to sacrifice their morality that in their eyes she spits on.
Christians love to go on about how Christ's love is unconditional, but their actions scream the opposite.
@@WorgenGrrl "There's no hate like Christian love"
Womp womp
All love is conditional. There is no such thing as unconditional love.
The hospital should have probably called CPS. Threatening a minor child with homelessness for any reason is abuse, people who do this don't deserve to be parents.
No probably they should have 100% called cps and the 2 men should have also called because that poor teen girl deserves better then those parents
She isn't a minor though. She is living with roommates. That's how her parents didn't know she was pregnant. I saw it in another clip. These parents still suck, of course. There is nothing my child could ever do to make me disown him. Period.
@@crystalandrews8393 thank you. I thought she was cause she looks so young. But i agree and while i don't have kids i am the oldest of 13 and there's nothing and i mean nothing that would ever cause me to do that tot hem
Almost certain in California they could have done that since they were threatening a minor
😂😂😂😂😂😂@@crystalandrews8393
The men should have said "we will take both of you" and then what would the parents have?
Win-win for both men AND this soon to be mum.
Bub will have the best of all these people, no judgement and a lifetime of knowing she was wanted and LOVED.
❤
First thing that popped in my head as well.
They can't until either the parents sign away their parental rights willingly or Tina starts the emancipation process which takes months and has to be dealt with in court for a judge to decide, and the judge will ultimately rule with whatever biases and opinions they have as an individual (which *does* affect court outcome). It may not be a viable option anyways as the parents don't want their grandchild growing up with homosexual parents let alone allowing their daughter to live with them or allowing the men to gain guardianship over her.
@@unknownperson2553idk where this takes place, but in the U.S. you are legally emancipated once you give birth if I remember correctly
@michaela1796 - Legally, no. Only through marriage, joining the military, or legal proceedings does a minor become emancipated.
Much is expected of one asking to be emancipated. They have to be able to provide income, housing, and personal needs for themselves before many judges will even start to consider the option.
Everyone is commenting on the parents which i agree with everyone, but what got my lil heart was, "Our babys still out there. We just dont know who he or she is yet." That is the type of love that everyone should have no matter what you believe in.
I have not seen this movie or TV show episode. I am just basing what I see from this short clip.
Yes and no, they had a chance at a family. They could have offered to help both once they were kicked out. They don't care who the baby comes from they only want a womb wet baby meaning they won't care about the trauma or pain of an adopted child wanting and needed to know about their birth family or about the person who actually gave their child life, and kept them safe at the sacrifice of her own body for 9 months
Why can the adoption agency over rule the birth mother?
@@LittleBrittixoyethat is not at all what happened. SHE chose to give the baby up to an adoption agency because she didn’t want to get kicked out of her home. They didn’t chose anything. People would much rather put a child in a home than give them to a loving same sex home. They were so busy forcing their religion their teaching their hatred down that girls throat that she was SCARED. They literally fear manipulated her into giving the baby up for adoption. And yes they could have taken her in and right after get arrested for kidnapping… because the police are going to believe the parents.
Two men have no business renting out a woman’s body so they can have a baby. Children are not commodities.
@@LittleBrittixoyeBullshit. The girl dind't want to lose the connection to her parents, as horrible as they are. And in the end it is her desicion.
These are the same parents that sit at home and wonder "Why doesn't my kid talk to me?" This is why! I love my children and they know I might not love something they do/have done but I will ALWAYS love them. Shame on the parents. "Dishonor on you! Dishonor on your cow." 😁
Love the Milan reference
That Part!
Yaas ty.
@wendybarber4269 you and my mom probably would have gotten along swimmingly. She pulled a Mrs. Winchester by insisting on building 4 extra rooms onto our house themselves over the years because they took in 6 of our friends who were thrown out for absolutely deplorable reasons. They really went above and beyond not just for us but for our friends who didn't have that kind of support from their own parents.
Insta 👍🏽 for the Mushu reference 😂
I know a gay couple who had that calling. They adopted children whom the parents had abandoned at birth. All of them, every one, had "difficulties" Too sick....the parents walked away, and they adopted....SEVEN of them. They wiped snotty noses, sat through dialysis, changed diapers and made sure everyone got fed, on the table, or through a feeding tube. Those kids were and are LOVED and HAPPY and getting all the care they need. So....what's different? What is different with love and care? I've seen their kids graduate, walking across that stage to get their diploma. I couldn't be more proud of them, and of their two dads.
So beautifully said! I see it exactly the same way.
What's worse is a difference there is that same sex couples have to choose to have kids. It's not really something that happens by accident. Hetero couples don't always choose when they have a baby, sometimes they don't even get to choose if their ready. It's such a shame that we live in a society where someone who is willing to make the sacrifices to be a good parent isn't allowed to, but someone who doesn't even want the child could be forced into keeping it.
@@TheGrossDemonespecially in the political climate that we're going into now.
What disgraceful parents could threaten to disown a child, just because she gives a child up 4 adoption to a loving family that simply doesn't match the parents idea of normal. People like that make me sick.
AGREED. Tina picked a LOVING and happy couple to adopt her daughter, and then they were told they couldn’t adopt her, because they’re gay. They were even going to DISOWN their own child, which makes my blood BOIL! Even though it’s a TV show (which I’m really glad it’s a TV show and it didn’t happen in real life), this kind of scenario MOST LIKELY has happened in real life, which is really really sad.
@QuinnSchickedanz Also, now, instead of the baby going to loving parents who want her and loved her now, she may end up getting abused
Though shall not judge….why is that always the forgotten commandment?
@@Rabidsmurf312 So are juries not allowed to convict murderers? Are we not allowed to condemn terrorists? The Lord’s commandment doesn’t apply to cases like these where there is a clear moral answer; don’t misconstrue His word.
@@5percent409 How convenient. You jump to law breaking when I say judge. The clip was about homosexuality. Don’t twist it.
Treating a baby like a piece of property. This is so disgusting. That "traditional family" will never be the same. That daughter will never look at her parents the same. I would leave those awful awful people first chance I got.
😂😂😂 They gave her the choice
@@glintongordon6811 a choice between being homeless and not allowed back within their family or give the baby to a random couple she doesn't know but are Christian? Not much of a choice is it.
Traditional family where love comes after judgment from hypocrites. They are willing to discard their daughter. You are not God, so called Traditional parents.
@beverleyallison8527 no love is unconstitutional the baby may grow up to not like gay parents just the same or is into something the gays don't like..
Bet as soon as she was legal she bailed out.
Yeah... no
You dont have to be super accepting, it is your choice
But dont say youll love someone no matter what and then change your mind because they have different values that you dont agree with.
And dont say "it hurts us more than it hurts her to kick her out"
Because it doesn't, you arent being forced to kick her out, you're choosing to, which shows you never loved her as much as she loved you.
Love has zero to do with interacting with people.Respect is leaving people to their free will while not waivering on our own boundaries.If your family member doesn't align with you you're not a bad person for telling them they'll have to keep their distance.
@@ho_dontdoityou are if they are a minor child that is still in your care. That's abandonment.
@@Celeste_Stellar_Nightshe’s not a minor child. You can love someone and still not like the choices they make or accept them.
@sdoncam5491 the daughter that just gave birth is a minor, how else would her parents be able to control her choice of who adopts the baby? She was a teen, that makes her a minor. You are legally obligated fo provide shelter, food, clothes, and medical care for any minor under your guardianship.
Her parents didn't "control her choice" @@Celeste_Stellar_Night They told her THEIR beliefs & comfort level then gave her the option to either respect them or they wouldn't be in an active relationship with her.She chose to stay a apart of her family & let another couple adopt her baby.
Lets nornalize putting the name of the show in the short ...The Resident.. incase anyone was curious
It's in the description though
Right! Thank you! They post these things for views to make a check but can't include one simple tag of the actual show 😕
Thank you
I loved the show. Hate that they cancelled it
If we’re going to normalize anything, we should normalize the proper use of the English language.
It's so sad that she can't really rely on her parents because if something they don't approve or she didn't do as they told they can disown her
What a poor child
I hope a girl and her baby are finally adopted by a group of tender-hearted, fun loving and wild spirited people
This is the kind of behavior that ensures that they will never see their daughter again once she can free herself of them.
@Trix897 if she was living with roommates and willing to give the baby up it should be her choice, nor the parents. Seems like they didn't want the baby, so why interfere?
@@freespirit3891 ummm…read my statement again.
THE PARENTS ARE BEHAVING IN A WAY THAT IS ALIENATING THEIR DAUGHTER SO THAT SHE WILL NOT WANT TO BE A PART OF THEIR LIVES WHEN SHE IS ABLE TO BREAK FREE OF THEM.
Is it really hard to read such simple words, or are you part of the 54% who can’t read past a 6th grade reading level? 🤦♀️
@@freespirit3891it is her choice. She chose her parents
Parent's love should be UNCONDITIONAL
People like these parents use that word a lot. I do not think it means what they think it means.
There is no such thing as Unconditional.
@@lindah3803yes there is and if you're a good parent you'd know that
@@lindah3803 there is, but *some people* are incapable of it, so they pretend it is impossible.
They are simply too lazy, selfish, vain or cruel.
Their failure to love is shameful, and evidence of deep inferiority or selfishness.
@breannadeal8610 There isn't anything In life that is unconditional.
Awful and disgusting adoption agency. Love is love.
A child needs a mother and a father
@Unknown69874 no, no, and no. A child needs functional parents and LOVE. Children from gay couples can thrive, while children from some straight couples are terribly abused and / or neglected. You just don't want to believe it because of your prejudice. But prejudice are more often than not false and stupid.
@@Unknown69874no
@@Unknown69874😂 That's a good one considering your's probably didn't hug you enough. At least in this scenario the baby would be loved by both parents.
@@Unknown69874 That may be your opinion, but the fact of the matter is there are many different types of families who are living full, happy, and thriving lives!
It’s a beautiful thing!! ❤️
If I were them and they kicked out their daughter for giving me the baby, I would’ve had two extra children… because now the mother is coming to live with me❤😊
👍💯💯💯❤️
Same.
Yep
100% I'd love to be a grandma!! If I had the resources I'd do it in a heartbeat for pregnant young girl to be able to be the mom she wants to be but feel she can't do on her own.
After seeing the last clip, I just wanna say SHAME EVERYONE BUT THE DAUGHTER
-Shame on the doctor for not listening to the daughter when she said the parents are going to be very mad and didn't keep them out of the room
-Shame on the couple for staying in the room and admitting the truth when the daughter fully knew her parents would freak out. If one or both of them stepped out, they'd have had the baby
-Shame on the parents for being so hard-headed that they basically say to their daughter "our love for you IS CONDITIONAL" you do NOT deserve to have kids and you don't deserve heaven
Dishonor on all of you
The couple stood up for the girl and the baby, choked on your shame
Agreed! Dishonor on your ancestors, dishonor on your cow!
@@roosakallio1303I love Mushu!! Red dragon 🐉
If the daughter is still a minor and not a state of the ward, then they would have contacted the parents because who the eff is gonna hospital bills?
@ That's the thing, it wasn't the hospital that contacted the parents in the previous clip, it was the daughter's ROOMATE, meaning she currently isn't living at home and may be 18-21 by this point. If the parents weren't summoned in the first place by the hospital but the roomate, it's safe to assume she isn't a minor
It was a good thought that would've changed the scenario though
Absolutely disgusted with the "parents". Giving your child an ultimatum and holding homelessness over their head just to force them to conform to your own narrow minded beliefs? Using manipulation to control who they give THEIR baby to? The fact that their love for their child is completely conditional on how obedient she is to them? Absolutely vile.
A situation like this is how my neice came to live with me for a few months until she left for college. Baby was a girl, and her dads love her dearly. She'll be 4 soon.
Good on you for giving your niece unconditional love and the help she needed.
These men could’ve taken the baby but chose not to in order for this girl to go back home to her parents. That’s love.
Considering this child is being put up for ADOPTION, I don’t think he should be blackmailing anyone into going with his worldview.
Those men deserve a chance to be Daddies, they’d probably be better at it than most straight couples!
I believe the mother passed and the child goes to the parents! Soooooo messed up - the child was rewarded on principle and the caregiving decision was not based on love. The child was awarded based on genetics! She and the he’s loved their child and they never took her home!
Whats the name of the show?
No. The mother did not die. Just her parents threatened to disown her if she gave the baby to some pervert fa**ots. (No, they didn’t say that but that’s what they were thinking). A “traditional “ family ended up adopting her child.
if the parents can't/won't raise said baby then wtf r they saying anything at the end of the day it's the mother in this situation that gets the last say. She knows these ppl r stable and loving adults who r ready for a child. Also technically there's nothing traditional in giving up a baby for adoption in the first place
A child needs unconditional love and support, to know that they can always come to their parents for anything without judgement. It makes no damn difference if the parent is a man or a woman. None.
JUDGMENT.
Public adoptions can't discriminate on adoptive parents; private adoptions should be held to the same standards!!
I can’t stand people like those parents. They love their daughter so much they’ll kick her out of the house because of who she’s allowing to adopt her baby. That’s a love most people can do without.
She doesn’t live with them. She’s an adult who lives on her own
she doesn't live with them anymore they said they would disown her as a daughter if she let them have the baby.
I don’t agree with the parents to kick their daughter out, but I know that that baby deserves to have two loving parents, a father and a mother, like our Creator created it to be.
If He wanted a child to grow up with two same gender people then He would have them birth babies.
I believe it's the mother's choice. That's a pretty sad day when you hold strings over your daughter to live in your house being a pregnant teen. They live by traditional values.. news flash ..your teen daughter had sex ?? Wow .
I would understand if they wanted to keep and raise the baby, but they just wanted to give her to someone else???
It was heterosexual sex. Also, it's their house their rules. Also I don't agree with the parents..
@@mariah4531 The baby would most likely not ever meet the bio grandparents so like either way what ever they think that baby is gonna grow up w/ different values to them
It gets worse with the fact. She wasn't a teenager and she wasn't even living with them
@@moneylover318She was 19, and they threatened her with disownment if she let the pervert f**ots (likely what the parents were thinking) adopt the baby.
The saddest part of all is that there are so many people out there that feel this way. It's sickening 😪
I would never kick my daughter out of the family. I'd find a better solution for the baby....like *_me_* adopting it.❤
Maybe everyone should have listened to the girl who is a part of the family. Everything she warned them was true. They messed around and they left with no baby. I agree truth is important but was it more important to them then the love they claimed to have for Lucy?
Love with conditions is NOT TRULY LOVE; it is just caregiving that pretends it is.
Man, if anyone in my family ever threatened to stop talking to me over some thing that was important to me… So stop talking to me see if I care. That actually kind of happen to me w my grandparents i'm realizing now as an adult, but at the time I didn't notice.
If she's of age , the parents have no say
Except emotional blackmail. Give your baby to those perverts and you will cease to be our daughter.
Dude is so sad because there’s some parents that will never let their child have a decision for themselves
They don’t understand the position they put that girl in. They should’ve shut up and went along with her
Fr man never understood people who HAVE to do something because they feel the alternative is lying? And so what if it is? You lied that baby's in a loving household, the girl, you, and your husband are happy 🤷🏻♀️ seems simple. Just wait until the paperwork is finished.
Agreed. They had no idea of her parents were violent, or what her situation was.
@ she quite literally told them. And her parents weren’t violent, they were intolerant and threatened to disown her
What the parents did not understand ?
They don't support the lifestyle, it doesn't matter, there is nothing to understand @@nickislade5533
My Family is Irish Catholic when I was pregnant at 16 I was married off two weeks later. No Child should be given no choices. That Child now has a college degree and been married for over 20yrs with Children of her own❤
Spoken like parents that are gonna end up dumped in the cheapest home and forgotten until they die alone.
Those poor dads 😢 they deserve that baby. I, personally, would have offered to adopt the teenager as well. There are witnesses to the fact that the parents said they would disown the teen if she let that loving couple adopt the baby.
That's so messed up. Tell your daughter she basically can't keep the baby, but still want to control who can adopt the baby. Not okay
Adopt the baby's mother, she looks about 16.
This is why I will not allow my parents to be grandparents. I refuse to allow them that. I want to love who I love, no matter if they agree.
Wish the couple could've adopted them both.
If it helps the couple end up adopting an Asian daughter who has a medical condition that the Asian man was called in to help with.
Tina tried to tell them
Those parents are horrible people. A good, loving home should be more important
Parents: Oh! we are going to kick you out if you give up your baby to a gay couple!
So she was never family to you then?
Yeah I really hope she walked away from them when she turned 18 they showed her and no uncertain terms that their love is very conditional and I hope she realizes that she deserves better than that.
For anyone who feels bad a little spoiler they do end up getting their child
In this episode or another?
@bellarmire another
I feel sad for the couple, and it just happened a few days ago on the news, here in Thailand.
And I feel so bad for the gay couple for being called "mentally abnormal."
And that's the reason the girl's family said when they refused to give them the newborn baby. 😢
If a religion paints a no tolerance policy picture on anything that hurts no one, that religion is corrupt. My son is a conservative who had much influence from his very religious grandparents, so he is very hateful. Our daughter refused to go with them for a long time, we finally knew once the grandparents took ill, and she told us she was gay, and she didn't want them to hate her. Her brother had gotten slightly more understanding, but it crushes my daughter, my husband and I when he gets angry and throws such ugly slurs. We have told him he is his own man, he can be anything he wants to be, but under our roof... He is to abide by our rules. His sister still has issues because of him, and only her grandfather ever found out the truth before he died, I was grateful when they spoke the once over the phone he didn't bring it up. He just told her he loved her. Life should be filled with support and understanding. I am so heart broken that it is a rarity to find such, especially if it's family that fails you.
We've got traditional values, like traditional conditional love.
No, you did the WRONG thing, by not respecting her wishes in the beginning of this mess
To even threaten to abandon your child in general….
"These men have the same love for this baby that you have for your daughter"
God i hope not since her parents are threatening to disown her.
I wish I had gone to anyone but my real parents. They were monsters
The daughter told them how her parents would react and tried to get them, not show they were the couple adopting her baby. They didn't want to live a lie, and Dr told girls' parents when they were all in the room that they were the couple adopting the baby. Thats what happened in another short
If the love you have for your child is conditional, then you are not a parent
It’s not her parent’s decision. Yikes
It is she is a minor
@ her roommate told her parents…at the youngest she’s gotta be 18, assuming it’s a college roommate.
Not saying 18 isn’t young, but legally she’s an adult and then it wouldn’t be her parents decision.
She said they’re traditional, in this case hinting towards homophobia. That’s my takeaway.
@@glintongordon6811no, it's not, she is the legal guardian of the baby, that means it's her decision.
People who woudk rather a child go into the adoption services rather then two good men or women who would love them is mind boggling
That horrible. 😢 Making her choose them or the couple because they'll throw her out. 😢 I would have been like pack your bags you can help us raise this baby.
If you love your child contitionly you don't deserve the title of Mom or Dad
And thats why the mother asked them to pretend to be straight. I get not wanting to lie, but you get the paperwork done first and then be loud & proud.
Exactly !! This is the comment I was looking for. Like I understand that they wanted to be proud of who they were but ultimately was the pride really worth the cost that it came at? Like everyone’s getting mad at this girl’s parents for having their beliefs, but no one’s mad at the gay couple who was literally warned that this would happen and decided that their pride was more important than privacy and respecting the peace of the vulnerable teenager who was about to give birth to a baby that they wanted so badly?
obviously that doesn’t justify what the parents did. I think they were wrong but at the end of the day, people are entitled to their beliefs, even if their beliefs don’t align with our own.
The girl gave the couple the opportunity to respect her parents’s beliefs and give them the baby they wanted, but ultimately they decided that jeopardizing this girl’s living situation so they could be proud of who they are was obviously the better option.
Also, I’m just gonna make the point part of being a parent is understanding the importance of sacrifice. Respectfully, I think they could’ve sacrificed their pride for the two minutes of meeting the parents of this girl and started the life that they wanted. Now I understand that to some people the idea of sacrificing their identity for even a second is hard for them to do. But I can just say that for myself that I wanted nothing more than to give birth to my daughter naturally, but unfortunately, the situation didn’t work out that way in that moment, I sacrificed my mental well-being for the safety of my child as any parent would do. So seeing these people who are so desperate to have a child we’re not really willing to make that sacrifice knowing good and well that this was going to be the end result as they were warned.
I think that the parents still have a shitty take, but looking at this from outsider perspective. I also feel like the gay couple has some accountability that needs to be taken out their end. It’s important to be proud of who we are, but we shouldn’t allow our pride and who we are to interfere with the reality of the world that we live in.
@@DiniBrum Try to think that some people may just be too tired of continuing to lie about who they really are. The "world we live in" also changes when people stop lying and put others in front of the reality of things. Otherwise then you hear bigots say "before there weren't all these gays" when in reality they were there but they were hiding, just like you said this couple should have done.
If I were the girl I would go with the lovely couple and live them with the baby.
Because obviously they were willing to let their grandchild go to another family.
Their love is conditional which is not love at all.
Also they were willing to disown their daughter.
They suck as people and parents.
The gay couple should have adopted mother and child. Clearly their love is deeper than the "traditional" parents
8:27 the judgment is more about Misty blatantly LYING about what she said to the kid. Bad enough she said what she did-if she “needed help learning how to talk to a disabled kid” that is one thing. But she was awful, verbally abusive AND lied directly to the OP’s face! He cannot choose her!
Wait so unless she breaks their hearts and deprives her child of a loving and stable home their gonna make their daughter homeless? In which scenario are they being good parents? I have no problems with religion but some people just need to admit their terrible human beings and stop using it as an excuse
Do they think once the baby goes off to a “traditional and structured” home, their daughter will joyfully come home with them and have a better relationship with them than ever before, even after finding out their love is conditional?
Why would she want a relationship with such unmitigated 455holes?
I feel so sorry for that girl. Yeah she got pregnant but there are so many worse things she could've done. And she was willing to give her baby to that couple who obviously very much wanted her and loved her, so that child could have a better life than she could provide. And I feel sorry for that couple who were so ready to love and care for that baby, who would've given her a loving home where she would've thrived and been her best self. Because of two people's ignorance and beliefs that they insisted on pushing on to others, even to threatening their own child with homelessness. How heartbreaking.
And as a Christian man here I still have to say in this situation it should have been up to the girl. The parents didn’t want her to keep the baby so.. kinda a patient right thing
Good on the doctor
For what?!?! Disregarding her fears and going directly against her wishes to tell her parents ANYTHING. He thought this would go one heart warming way and she KNEW BETTER. Pretty sure he broke HIPAA by telling them anything when she didn’t want him too. Bad doctor. He should have shut up and listened to her. Typical male😤
@sheleavitt06 I meant good on him for trying to stand up for the adoptive father's
@@anglicalchemist oh I see what you ment there now and your right it is good to stand up to bigotry but this wasn’t that fight right now. They’re stable established adults that don’t need protection like this venerable young woman who is losing her support system. There is a world of difference from being in your 30s and being in your late teens early 20s. Nice that the doctor was LGBTQ friendly but he didn’t see who the truly vulnerable person was in this situation who needed protecting. Too many men see women as just human incubators and don’t care about their needs beyond making babies. She dissevered so much more than what we saw in these clips.
I wonder if Tina’s mom works or not. They say they believe in “traditional values”… well that means that the wife stays home and handles all the household things as well as raises the children, cooks, takes the kids to appointments, etc. while the husband is the one who works outside of the home.
Bastards. Horrible parents. I wish the guys had said we’ll take her as well. There’s also no guarantee that the child will go to a loving home
Ephesians 6:4: "Fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath..."
This girl my last nerves. All of he had to do was walk out of the room instead of insisting on meeting the little girl's parents. If they had just walked out they would have still had the baby. I understand sticking out for yourself. I really do. But they didn't know these people. It lost them their child because they had to make a stand against strangers who held power over the child who was the birth mother.
Grandparents clearly 4get th@ say have No Say in w@ happens 2 the baby they didn't even want their daughter 2 have.
The baby's mother has the final say in everything 2 do w/ her baby th@'s the law.
She’s a minor so that’s not the law.
How about the guys get the baby Lucy and they adopt Tina too?
That’s what I was hoping for too!
Honestly I would go be with the adoptive fathers cause they are part of the family again it doesn’t matter what sexuality you are if u help us or we helped u getting pregnant giving u a baby and if u accepted us both ways I would be happy knowing you did something amazing for both sides
Yet your parents are like no u can’t have the baby etc like bruh I can understand traditional and values but at the same time it’s just sigh not fair and yes life isn’t fair ik but still I feel devastated if this has happened to a lot of folks 😭😭😭😭
The fact she was told they will only love her if she did what they say, it sick
The parents shouldn't have a say. At all. Private adoptions are legal and are SOLEY he birth mothers choice.
The choice belongs to Tina. The threat to kick her out of the family is horrible. I don't agree with the lifestyle they chose either. But I'd respect Tinas decision or I'd help her raise the baby in her real family.
Only life style that's repulsive is yours.
You can't chose who you love and who you don't, how is that so hard to understand? Being straight is not a lifestyle choice so how is being gay a lifestyle choice?
I'm so happy my family wasn't like this when I came out. I thought my brother, who was more like a father sometimes, would be the most judgemental about it, but his response was, "It's about f**king time you came out."
I’ve grown up Christain and I’m still Christian and yes, I believe in the traditional values, but this pisses me off. Those guys worked so hard that her daughter had worked so hard for them. They got to hold little girl for the first time as their own parents decided to rip her away you could tell that the baby would’ve been in a loving home where she got everything she needed
That is some major BS!!! A loving home for a child is never a sin or a crime no matter what the parental structure looks like. If a couple or even a single person can provide a loving and stable home then that child should be adopted by said couple/person.
That poor girl not only will her parents treat her worse because theyre not who she wants them to be but her own baby doesnt get to go with the family she wants and they risk being in a situation just like her essentially since its a girl. I cant imagine how that poor girl is feeling. Likely trapped
Sue the parents for breech of contract. It wasn't their decision to make. They should pay back all the money since they want to force their daughter.
Annnnnd I'm calling cps for threatening a minor with homelessness.
I dont think she was a minor. She had a roommate who told her parents she was in the hospital
Those dads were idiots. In the scene before this one, that girl was begging them to leave to cover for her, but they were like "we're not gonna begin our family with a lie." There wasnt any consideration for that girl whatsoever. 😒
Those parents are horrible people. There’s no love there within them for their daughter.
The adoption agency should be shut down too.
Before being shut down they should be sued for discrimination.
Why shut down the adoption agency? What did they do wrong? This girl, I believe, is sn adult in the previous clip said the girls roommate told her parents she was in hospital. The girl warned Dr. and gay couple how her parents would react, and no one listened to her
@@merricat3025 Please see the previous reply to my comment^^^
@@merricat3025 Discrimination.
I am to be a yoga instructpr fpr preagnant woman and 'this' ,which many women go through leaves a scar. Having a support system is very important. And for your own family to turn your back on you like that is horrible.
Not to mention adopting parents who are completely capable, are regected because narrow minded people. When 'traditional' familiesmay not be the best option since the baby will grow in an environment that is their way or the high way, feeling fear of making a mistake and being judged
Wonder how many of the Littles being forced to live like this will be leaving their parents forever.
I grew up under boomers (the last time "traditional" values took over common decency) and most of us hate our parents.
Just remember that while doing the hateful raising. Cause it turns into lonely confusion in the future.
I thought it was going to end with Jake and Greg adopting both kids.
It's a TV programme don't forget.
But IT still Shows what Happens in reality all too often
Reflecting how loving Christians are in real life
I miss The Residents it was an amazing show.
If the couple had been willing to engage in just a little lie like she'd asked, they'd probably have got to keep the baby.
As much as I disagree, it tells a valiant point. Love is love. I just hat the way this ended
Omg I finally found the second part to this
Clearly he didn’t love her that much is he is so fuckin willing to kick her out
Those parents (Tina’s) are horrible Christians. Jesus and God both loved everyone, even sinners. They welcomed sinners with open arms and loved them wholeheartedly. Don’t speak of religion if you’re not going to follow your religious teachings, completely. You can’t pick and choose what teachings work and which ones don’t for your personal gain (control over Tina).
I saw the clip preceding this one. The pregnant girl tells the doctor and the dads that her parents would not support this, and instead of empathising, the doctor immediately outs the situation to the parents. The dads couldve had the babdy if the doctor had listened to the girl.
If I was Tina and I was given that choice, then I would tell my "parents" to make sure my bags are packed and ready to go by the time I'm out and back at the house.
If someone forces you to make a choice between them and doing the right thing they disapprove of cuz its not what THEY want, that aint love and you get as far away as you can if you're able.
Easier said than done.
Thank you for including where this clip is from
Not their choice
@NobodySpesh-1 homophobia isn’t a thing because not liking homosexuality is normal because homosexuality is a sin
My eldest child got adopted by a same sex couple and I’m happy that they love my child just as much as I do (as the birth mother) my child was more comfortable around men than he was around women so he fit perfect in the adoptive parents life. I don’t know how long it took for them to finally get my baby but I never once thought bad things towards my child’s parents, I even met them before the adoption was finalized and I loved them, my child and the parents were a perfect match.