MY PARTNER CHOOSES WHAT I EAT | Anorexia recovery

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  • Опубликовано: 15 сен 2024
  • My partner chooses what I eat for the day. It was a big challenge where I had to give up complete control and face a lot of fears. So grab yourself something to eat and join me!
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    Music: Another time
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Комментарии • 44

  • @mirchen01
    @mirchen01 Год назад +5

    Wow, you did amazing! We can see that you are really struggeling with thoughts and stuff but you are stronger 🙏🏻❤️ keep going and take care of yourself

  • @Animalsprints
    @Animalsprints Год назад +4

    Amazing job Alyce! YOU ARE SMASHING THIS!! I am so proud of you and I am so proud of you for YOU being proud of yourself! You absolutely should be!
    Please do not worry about your lack of videos. Recovery comes first and I am glad you got to have a small break. Have all the breaks you need. We will be here for you whenever you have time to post. But we do not want you to be stressed about posting frequently. That kind of defeats the purpose of helping others in their recovery if it’s hurting your own. We all care about you and we will be here no matter what.
    I am so happy to finally “meet” your partner! Your Jessy(ie) sounds so supportive and kind! I can imagine he was really grateful and touched that you trusted him enough to let him control your food for the whole day. Not only was this challenge great for your anorexia, but also great for him too! You showed him that you trust him completely with something incredibly challenging such as this. The important words you said where, “My partner matters more to me than my ED.” That is big words and so incredibly important in your recovery. I hope he knows that. It sounds small, but for those who have gone through anorexia and know how hard it is, that is so important and it makes me so happy for you.
    You are smashing recovery Alyce and remember, you can smash recovery even with meltdowns and crying. Those times actually make you succeed at recovery even more because you let out your feelings and keep on going.
    Remember: You are Beautiful. You are Worthy. You are Loved. You are Enough. 💗

    • @BecomingSunshine
      @BecomingSunshine  Год назад +2

      Oh Nora your comments are always so beautiful ❤ so glad to have connected with you

    • @Animalsprints
      @Animalsprints Год назад +1

      @@BecomingSunshine I am so blessed to have connected with you as well 💗

    • @ljosadis1831
      @ljosadis1831 Год назад +1

      I could not sum it up in a better way! So true!♥️

  • @soniaperez9269
    @soniaperez9269 Год назад +2

    Jessy seems really nice and encouraging 🙂 good that he doesn't force feed and tell you off etc when it's difficult xx😘

  • @lorenspath6538
    @lorenspath6538 Год назад +2

    Huge challenge!You did great. I would have freaked out,especially afterwards. you are a huge inspiration to me. You should be very proud of what youve accomplished. i know how scary it can be. keep going!

    • @BecomingSunshine
      @BecomingSunshine  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much!! We’re doing this together ❤

    • @lorenspath6538
      @lorenspath6538 Год назад

      @@BecomingSunshine Its nice to know Im not alone!

  • @ppp-bc9it
    @ppp-bc9it Год назад +2

    Eating while watching this

  • @StephH-ie4bx
    @StephH-ie4bx Год назад +1

    Smashed it my darling! That was hard AND you did it brilliantly. Love you

  • @ljosadis1831
    @ljosadis1831 Год назад

    And in addition to that , I really love your sweater with the little dinosaurs! So cute🙈

  • @actgirl1234567
    @actgirl1234567 Год назад +1

    I ❤ your green sweater, and you did well despite the fear and challenges...your partner is a chef ☺

  • @ljosadis1831
    @ljosadis1831 Год назад

    I think the fact that you want to have a beautiful life with your partner and being able to have kids is the most beautiful and strongest reason to recover for you! And I believe that you will get there!♥️🌞🌱

  • @4emmelie11
    @4emmelie11 Год назад +1

    You did so good, and jessy(ie) made such delicious choices! You motivated me to try the same with my partner. I know it will mean so much to him and i trust no one more than him. But still anorexia has held me back from him preparing food for me, let alone choose. But your strength has inspired me to do it

    • @BecomingSunshine
      @BecomingSunshine  Год назад

      I’m so glad you’re going to try this too, it was so good for both of us and I’ll know you’ll smash it ❤

  • @kiki-oh7hi
    @kiki-oh7hi Год назад +1

    Way to smash it Alyce!! You are a superstar.

  • @YasminA-jm9zs
    @YasminA-jm9zs Год назад

    I'm happy to see you're still going strong. You're amazing! I don't know you personally but I see you smiling more in the latest videos. I hope this reflects how you feel inside. 🌞

  • @eb9436
    @eb9436 Год назад

    Haha how come you didnt hsve mashed potatoes?
    You are doing amazing and I see how motivated you are! Keep going. Keep challenging. Perhaps you could do a week of letting someone else cook and prepare EVERYTHING for you. Or a week/couple days of eating like your BF. (so yup! Having 2 kieves and mash etc. Challenge the ed!!! Eat more than you are used to. Plus your body needs more and more ss you recover. We shouldn't be eating the same amount the whole way through. Haha, or else we wouldn't get better! Meal plans are supposed to increase regularly. Perhaps you already know this? )
    Awesome job girl!!! Xxx ❤❤all the best. Looking forward to more challenges.

  • @bearclaire
    @bearclaire Год назад

    Maybe you could do a q and a together with you boyfriend, would be interested to hear his experience being in a relationship with someone with an eating disorder. And how he deals with things, how it effects the relationship. If he noticed things before you told him about having Ed. Etc. And also to get to know him, what he does for a living, what kind of things you guys like doing etc ❤

  • @rachaelduff2372
    @rachaelduff2372 Год назад

    Girl! Those legs under the table! Hehehe🤭 but me too! 😔 I’m really trying to work on that, it’s SO HARD isn’t it?! You’re doing so well with these challenging days! Keep it up! WE CAN DO HARD THINGS! And we WILL recover! xxxxx

    • @BecomingSunshine
      @BecomingSunshine  Год назад +2

      Yes I’m sorry! It’s such a bad habit I’m trying to kick thank you for reminding me ❤

    • @rachaelduff2372
      @rachaelduff2372 Год назад

      @@BecomingSunshine no need to say sorry! (Haha that’s another thing I’m trying to stop doing! 🤦🏼‍♀️) …it’s SO automatic isn’t it? I’m forever being told to stop moving them, but I never even realise I’m doing it! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @teainortakoy
    @teainortakoy Год назад

    You did great! Well done on smashing this challenge! ❤

  • @RazKhoz
    @RazKhoz Год назад +1

    Boyfriend’s got taste, specially that Weetbix bowl!! Recipe method plz? Shredded Weetbix? Need the consistency tip

    • @BecomingSunshine
      @BecomingSunshine  Год назад +1

      It was weetbix, milk, apple, chia seeds, biscoff!

    • @BecomingSunshine
      @BecomingSunshine  Год назад +1

      Just enough to make the weetbix soggy so it’s more like porridge

  • @grahammedlycott1711
    @grahammedlycott1711 Год назад

    Well done sweetheart keep it going proud of you

  • @andreakletz5705
    @andreakletz5705 Год назад +1

    I think I'm missing out, I've never seen Biscoff in Canada (Not where I live anyway) WTF? 🤔

  • @mirchen01
    @mirchen01 Год назад +2

    Did you read the book of tabitha Farrah?

    • @BecomingSunshine
      @BecomingSunshine  Год назад +2

      Yep such a good book highly recommend!

    • @mirchen01
      @mirchen01 Год назад +1

      @@BecomingSunshine oh yes 😅

  • @bearclaire
    @bearclaire Год назад

    Is jese also vegan?

  • @winstonmcfinston
    @winstonmcfinston Год назад +1

    Oh she's got a bf. Unsubbed, unlike, unfollow

  • @leahbaer11
    @leahbaer11 Год назад +1

    Good for you!!! You absolutely smashed that. Your partner seems so lovely. I really admire your sense of perseverance.
    By the way, what is your Instagram?