Me!!! I can tell from the start, it’s the energy. But if I can’t and give them my number, I can tell by after the first date or not even a date. They wanna be pen pals too. That’s a nope. I’ve got enough friends I talk to. If they don’t ask me out on a date after a week, Bye!!! I usually say” what do you want because I don’t like hook up culture and I’m not sleeping with a random person.
Absolutely. I can’t believe women have and send “nudes”. Mind boggling. There’s no dating anymore. It’s just guys asking if you’ll come over to have sex. I do not give easy sex hook up vibes AT ALL.
I learned this during the four years of my first relationship: Sex for many men is like Tylenol for a headache, a beer while watching the game, coffee on his work break. It's nothing special, just a little something to take the edge off. They don't care if you're in a coma or ice cold in a state of rigor mortis. I mean, when funeral homes have to put up cameras in their prep rooms to keep an eye on female corpses because the attendants are male, says a lot.
I have it written and have made my family promise to not send my body to a funeral home where men can access my corpse. I know I’ll be gone but the thought of my corpse being violated does something to me mentally.
It also says a lot about the males, too. If he's able to sleep with a woman and has no feelings for her, then he's not the type of male that no woman should ever get involved with. What type of husband would he make if he didn't feel any love towards the women who gave their precious gift, which is their bodies to him? It honestly gives psychopath vibes.
@winning3329 there are videos on yt that actually acknowledge that men don't marry for love. They marry for what benefits they get as a result of marriage.
Its supply and demand, and it goes both ways. If U make Aman wait who's to say he doesn't have 5 others to choose from, not saying it's right but it's something I've noticed in some countries.
@@jessica.bartlett6352 True, but a man willing to wait will be of more quality than a man who rushes for sex. If he's planning on sticking around, he isn't in a hurry to the bedroom.
@@jessica.bartlett6352 Yes, in America as well. Can't trust any man, even if you were dating him for several months, a lot of men have back up play dates just in case you say no. It's sickening.
@@jessica.bartlett6352 Literally doesn't matter, no one cares. We just want them to not deal with us. Men are the easiest people with the lowest standards. They do it with anything and anyone. Not a flex if they chase you.
They ghost me when they find out my clothes aren't coming off. I don't go to anybody's home and I am not playing around. Being ghosted for not putting out is truly a blessing in disguise. My friends get so angry they have seggs, get played and ghosted anyways. I tell every woman ... Sleeping with a man isn't a requirement to date. Dating is for collecting data. You should not be thinking: "I hope he likes me." Instead you always ask yourself: "Do I like him?" I enjoy my company too much to put up with BULL S***t and game playing. My body & peace of mind is too valuable to me.
Women are too insecure and very competitive with her girlfriends life, so they get what they get for that competitive evil spirit toward their friends. Men don’t vindictively compete with their boys, we are vicious therefore we reap what we sow. Treat your girls better
Same so much!!! I always get ghosted or never asked my number it’s so sad. I don’t understand the pressure to do something right away when I say no . Time wasted again. It’s sad.
Sounds double faced as well That is a person that can fake a whole friendship so if I was a guy I wouldn't even be friends with that dude, or that woman as a woman. Ppl think it is about s*x only, but it affects the whole personality of a person. I wouldn't trust them
I don't EVEN have to watch the video to translate to any woman reading this: Ladies, you are a toilet for a man to relieve himself into until he sees different, okay? They do that to each other; do YOU think you are going to be treated any different? That is HOW they see you...an object, an appliance. Quit wasting your time trying to figure them out or taking care of them or loving them or having their children. STOP....just STOP...live your life for YOU. Leave them to themselves.
You men haters are disgustingly sick in the head. I need my husband and I love being his “toilet “ as you call it. No greater blessings on earth than becoming a wife and mother when I look at our children I know he’s needed and I thank God for him. We need men don’t listen to these hyenas.
There are some genuinely good men like my dad. But i have yet to find any within the dating pool. It's rough out here for us single ladies. The quality of men out here is daunting
It is psychotic. To use someone in the most intimate way a person can interact with another human being. It seems men don't show love in any way. Nothing they do is genuine.
My sister is a clinical family therapist and “corn” addiction or just the presence with men is a huge issue in relationships. Unrealistic expectations for regular women.
I can't agree with this. I think younger men 25-35 are wonderful. They treat you like a princess, are funny and not jaded. Many of them just want company. It's the gross men that are raised in the 80-90s and earlier that have NO RESPECT for women. The older ones that are losing their hair and beer guts who still think women are disposable.
It's so demonic for them to deceive these women by telling them that they love these women and that sex is love and then turn around and act confused as to why these women hold the belief that if a man wants to sleep with them it's because those men love them. That's nasty work. I feel sorry for these ladies. Nobody deserves for their minds to be toyed with like that. If I were you, I'd opt out.
It's even worse once you see this is more frequent than you think. Ladies, make him earn you!!! Make him spend on you and I promise you, men don't act the same because he put money on you
its predatory in nature.... I cant believe men speak openly about this like it isnt criminal. What about if they did this to a child? Some men do. They target abused kids with daddy issues (sound familiar) and then sxually abuse them and sometimes even sell them into human trafficking. Nothing to consider natural and be okay about guys. Men need to be jailed for this behaviour as its criminal. If they were it would happen much less i can tell you that.
No woman has ever become a man to understand how it feels. They want to help you get into the perppective of a man. This is all mother nature’s design both must understand so that humanity can properly reevaluate their views of relationship and sex
@@MaryElizabeth-g1b My celibacy is based on my religious beliefs. Yes, I agree if one wants marriage, then it is best to maintain virtue until then. However, men and women are not required to marry and have a family. "But those who marry will face many troubles in this life, and I want to spare you this." 1 Corinthians 7:28 ; "An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord's affairs. Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world-how she can please her husband. I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but that you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord." 1 Corinthians 7:32-35 It is the same for men as well. 1 Corinthians 7 Devotion to God is the prize🙏 It is better to be celibate❤️
I feel sorry for them. They hate themselves so much that they would take advantage of a person and run from what could potentially be a beautiful love affair, friendship and partnership until death. Such scared and unfulfilled cowards. 😞
Girlfriend is an imaginary status . Girlfriends do the same things as a wife ( mainly s.x ) yet gfs have no wife rights such as community income , spousal support , right to his pention and social security etc . Don't play the girlfriend role ladies .
@@puddincup9879 Girlfriend used to mean getting to know each other to see if we were compatible for marriage (no sex) also known as courtship. But the world changed for the worst and we see the tragic effects of living a promiscuous life, stds, unwanted pregnancies, abortions, people being used for sex and then thrown like trash. Men don’t want to be husbands and women don’t want to be wives and don’t want a forever family.
@@zulynava4059sorry to break it to you but you can’t marry a man with whom you didn’t try to live and share a household. They are changing into monsters even when you lived with them for 5+ years, imagine how drastically they will change when they were just courting you and now you live with them. It’s just not safe for us women.
Puddincup No I don’t like to be a gf first. Men know from the beginning if they want to marry or not . In my college I had a classmate who spent every holiday with her boyfriend. I had told her he will not marry her even then . He then went on to marry someone else . My classmate was just the best he could get for those yrs . Then an acquaintance of mine a beautiful Hispanic girl who lived in with a dustie as his gf for 5 yrs . Had a baby with the dustie . Dustie wouldn’t marry her and even fought for custody and took half the custody of their child. Dusty gives no child support . This beautiful girl could have picked far better .
Thats the big problem. Waiting 3 dates? Wtf. Remember back in the day ladies would wait months. Now everyone thinks you supposed to give it up fast. NO.
There are women who feel guilty when a man pays for dinner, and so they sleep with them. People are delusional and need therapy on dignity and self-worth
Meeting someone three times is still a stranger. I wouldn’t let a woman I know for only 6 months have my car keys without me in my car let alone a man have access to my life, even after a year. F that noise
I am a Christian and don’t believe in s*x before marriage for myself. That belief VERY QUICKLY has weeded out all the bad guys only interested in s*x with me. I thank God for my strong values every time I hear (bad) men speak about s*x the way it’s spoken about in this video by men. My values and beliefs have saved me, I am so grateful for that.
From age 18 to 28 I worked with all men and from everything they said between them in conversation this is exactly true. No wonder us ladies get so disillusioned by dating/ relationships. They talk about us like we're objects just to use and move on. Even the married ones we're like this!
it's about finding a man who RESPECTS women.... if they did that and were SECURE with themselves, they wouldn't feel the need to locker room talk like that...most of them are all talk in front of their "boys" anyway....again ..due to insecurity and the need to fit in. the ones that RESPECT women, and their woman will be less likely to talk like this
Love is just words. For them at least. Men don't even have the emotional capacity to truly love someone for who they are, they only pretend so they can benefit from women.
I am so sick of men saying there are “biological reasons” for this, that or any other thing that is treated differently in men and women in our society. None of that is biological, it’s all social conditioning, and it’s always to give men free reign to do what they want and to control women’s actions.
As a man, men's biological reasons are all excuses. The fact is that 95% of men are completely devoid of spirituality, ability to express genuine selfless love, have never made it past their teenage desire to bust 24/7, and never made it past their bitterness of not getting the partners they wanted in their youth. So they only use women to build their self esteem. Most men genuinely do not know that women can be used for things other than their body, have things about them more beneficial than their body. It's not just social conditioning, they really have no idea what women offer and see them only as objects.
Thank you, it's as if they are saying it's a normal occurrence and something within me is screaming NO Something ain't right about this thought process at all
Because its false information.. we have been programmed to THINK like that.. through TV movies music and disney. We are thesame woMAN We literally thesame without programming. God would not make sometjing that doenst go with the other. High libido goes with high and low goes with low
@Kathrin so true, I don't see the point of being in a relationship with a man if the bar is so low. I want someone with self-control, kindness, self-respect and who respects others.
Well, if it'll certainly be just sex for the man with whom she is cheating, then there's no problem is there? She means nothing to him so he won't be taking her away from her significant other. So her significant other should see the sex as meaningless. The hell he will!!! 🤣
The problem is not that men want sex and women want relationships. The problem is that men lie about loving a woman because they think women just want relationships. Sometimes women just want sex too and men should go for women like that and leave the other women alone. Men who just want sex are very convenient for women who just want sex. Just do it and leave with no drama and everyone is happy, but men need to be assholes about it.
Men who just want sex loveee women who want relationships. Knowing very well she wants a relationship and he knows very well he doesn't want to be in a relationship.They are rarely attracted by women who want the same thing as them Because then they will get hurt in the process. They want to be the villain 😅 Because In most cases men get attached to women who doesn't want anything to do with them!
I know a honest man who just wants sex. He has multiple play partners and he even gets references among girls. By being honest women respect him more and give him more too.
I work with all men and trust me this is 100% accurate. Even the married men talk horribly about their wives. The good men stay quit and say nothing. I would say out of the 20 men maybe 5 are good men.
The quiet ones are NOT good nem, they are cowards and profit from the "bad nem" since they keep the bar low. So when the good one does something decent it will count as "good" and "amazing"
I’ve been saying this ! My last date did not understand ! Had the audacity to say “ how long does it take for you to get intimate?” “ I said we just met today though? Give me a break you are a stranger?” Glad I stood on business . I never got asked for my # ladies after that. He said and I quote “well guess I’ll call it a night at jack off” weird date gone wrong That tells you right there he was only interested in seggs
Respect is earned. And girls and women should drill this into their head. Stop just respecting men, until they prove it they are deserving of it And stop the "love" BS that men created for women to believe in, just so they can manipulate them!!
It's not about being emotionally invested, those men are reckless, risking having babies with women they wouldn't even want to be seen with, but it don't matter to them bc the kids in their eyes, too, are only property. Some of these dudes won't learn even if their escapades result in stds and several lives ruined.
Whoever invented fwb has ruined dating. And if you're a very pretty girl a guy will automatically categorize you as the "fun time girl, don't take her seriously." I see a lot of women focusing on their own lives, legs closed, and I'm happy because that's the way it should be! A lot of these guys only want you for one thing. It's sad. There's more to life than this.
@@naranjamorena There is truth to it. Attractive women make some men insecure of constantly thinking she's going out when she's literally just staying at home. I've had that happen to me. It's a lack of trust. Trust is everything.
oh sorry to hear it. I think you are talking about a specific situation and a child (not a man) who is jealous and insecure. But when you deal with real men, you can be the prettiest and you won't necessarily be for a while. But I really like your idea of staying alone and focusing on yourself and your studies! @justicevibes1252
28F. Same boat. But I do have to say....the peace is PRICELESS! I'm not on birth control, my hormones are in check, I don't ever have to worry about pregnancy scares and I ESPECIALLY don't have to worry about STDs! My peace is PRICELESS 🎉
Don't worry, that why men must make your life better and easier, he should be paying your bills, make him earn you and always cheat on him whenever given the possibility. He will do it if he can. Don't get mad, get paid. Let's ladies come together
Modern society has groomed women to hate men and men to be gay. Hence why it seems the roles are changing. Women are becoming the wayen used to be and a lot of men are closet gays or hypersexual.
I tell every man that approaches me in that manner the exact same thing: I don't enter into physical relationships without emotional connection. That weeds them out immediately. Don't waste both of our times. If you want a hook up, go find one.
I cant wrap myind arround having sex with a person and not like the person. To me its like "if you dont like the person you are having sex with then you must also not like yourself/value yourself"
@@876beautyIf it was harder for them to access, then you’d think they’d treat those women better but they don’t. They do everything possible to ensure that these women (the women willing to sleep with them) just straight up HATE them. They call those women the worst names in the book, use dehumanizing language etc. then turn around and be shocked when the number of women(that are willing to sleep with them) go down drastically.
Bingo. Men loathe themselves and sex gives them an opportunity to offload that energy directly into someone else. They steal positive energy and replace it with death energy inside them. That's why women feel so disgusted after being with them.
@@jinhub2175wrong! Being a gold digger means you can be bought and I'm sure most men don't mind throwing change at you as long as they get what they want. Especially those men with money. Money can always be replaced, but your dignity and respect cannot.
@@Chommikenyamy boyfriend said a few days ago that "these guys have sex just for that dopamine rush and make it cruel thing, sex is supposed to be a loving experience and feel the Love, intimacy. Sex is a position in which you both are the most vulnerable to each other physically and maybe emotionally too in most cases. Hence it should be a loving experience" and it stuck to me
@@shrunali4928wait so why is this video saying like sex is not that emotionally important?? If they would sleep with someone they dont feel love.. wouldnt that be counterintuitive.. or idk
@@Celestials1auroraThat's because it actually only apply to some men, but not all men. If you don't want to have a bad relationship, you can do so many things, like meeting his parents and you inviting him to meet yours, telling him you want to have a family, etc. The more time you spend with him before the act, the more sure you will be about him. Only do it when your fears about him go away. But I would actually suggest leaving it to marriage. This way, it'll actually be something special and unique, that is almost impossible to believe it happens in today's society. He will value you above any girl if you leave it to marriage, and you'll be 100% sure he has good intentions in this regard :)
So funny how men will say sex means nothing to them and they can have sex with a woman they hate, it has nothing to do with love, etc. But let their wife or GF not want to have sex with them for a week and they will be acting like theyre being abused and "she doesn't love me" and so emotional about it. 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
Most of the time it’s physical entertainment for men. And in general I’ve found very few people who are having emotionally deep sex. I’m 54 & I’ve asked lots of women & men. It’s very sad that so many people only experience sex as a physical experience. I have a friend who has been married 3 times & had boyfriends & at almost 60 has never had deeply emotional sex with anyone 😢
I have brothers so i know this is true lol. Just don't put out until he matches your feeling. A lot of dudes will drop you but they are trash. A good man will respect it.
And this is why my battery operated boyfriend (BOB 😏) is all I need. I saw this in men from a young age. Honestly what made me pay attention was an episode of the fresh prince where, Will goes as far as marrying the girl to have sx with her because she wouldn't have sx without being married.
As if sex doens't create problems in a marriage...Anything that's a interaction between two people, there's space to problems. There's always a possibiity of problems, marriage is not gonna change that.
So funny how men will say sex means nothing to them and they can have sex with a woman they hate, it has nothing to do with love, etc. But let their wife or GF not want to have sex with them for a week and they will be acting like theyre being abused and "she doesn't love me" and so emotional about it. 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
As someone who has never slept with any men, I'm surprised women AND men say these things as if it's a GROUND BREAKING information. Its not hard to keep your legs closed or to keep it in your pants,a lot of people are weak-disciplined, that's all. Don't act out on your urges right away without thinking,we have a brain for a reason.
Men and women view sex different bc of the society we live in, boys are raised to see sex a certain way and a lot of them actually think that means it’s “biological”
It’s important to learn how the other sex operates and how our brain chemistry is affected by sex. If you know up front how they behave you can act accordingly
A close friend of mine used to ask the men she’d had sex with for a nude picture. They all got so excited and posed in front of the camera. When they asked to see the picture they all reacted on how their head wasn’t in the picture. She just replied “exactly”.
I stayed a virgin until I was married. I didn’t want a man that “ghosted” me the next day. Many men wouldn’t date me but I didn’t care. I met my husband and he tried to get me to sleep with him even when we got engaged. I told him no. Then we got married and then I gave up my virginity to him. Been married for a wonderful 16 years. We got engaged at 2 years and saved money to get married at 3 years. A man who is in a relationship with you for a while and you’re not married says he’s getting the milk from you so he doesn’t have to “buy” you! (If you know, you know) Do not live with men before you are married, if you play house there is no need to get married. I stayed a virgin because I am a Christian but anyone can have these boundaries and standards for themselves. It’s not too late to practice abstinence. 👍🏾
I don't allow Netflix and chill. I don't go to a man's home and i don't allow him in mine. The word No stays on repeat. When they think i owe them something i say "who yold you that?" Needless to say i stay single and it's justified
@@PreppyPrincess777perhaps you need a little lesson in reproductive biology...id have assumed you learned it in school. Clearly you didnt....... Off you go to do that then......
Men stand to lose so much less than women. It's "just an act". A handful of minutes of fun, pleasure, excitement. Women, we have to invest. The act, what it can lead to...is a massive life changing investment for us. Emotions necessarily are involved because we need to trust... have commitment, vulnerability. A man's five minutes of fun is a vulnerable, risky thing for women. It's reasonable for women to see it differently.
Even Phd Psychologist Jordan Peterson said that men shouldn’t be hard on women about being “picky” because it’s a lot of risk for us. Men only think about themselves sadly
This is why you should repent, put your faith in Jesus and focus on your relationship with God. You will feel so content and you will be in position for him to send you a Holy Spirit filled man who won’t cheat on you when the time is right.
@@Celestials1aurora the more you read God's word and get closer to him, you will be able to discern if that person is a true follower of Christ and has the Holy Spirit.
That’s why there is no need to give him sex no matter how badly he begs or gets horny or gets angry at you. Just don’t put out at all! Unless it’s what you want
If sex is nothing to you and you aren’t emotionally invested in it, then don’t get upset when your wife or girlfriend cheats on you! Cause you know sex is just like sleeping or eating for you🙄
They argue that women cheat with men they are emotionally invested in. Because we are not conditioned to use them for sex. Women that just use meme Or seggs are the exception not the rule.
Same girl, stayed a virgin until I got married to my husband. Been together 16 wonderful years. He treats me like a princess. Other guys dumped me or ignored me because I wouldn’t give it up. Their loss…my husband saw that I was worth the wait. I love him. 💛
The guy in the wardrobe, why is it the woman’s job to determine which guys are genuinely interested and which ones are just using them? Why is it not the job of the men to be honest and not play like little boys???
@@Chommikenya not all men are preying though and it’s detrimental to keep allowing and encouraging men to keep thinking this about themselves. Men are also designed to provide and protect. In all honesty I think a lot of men just don’t value themselves enough and don’t think they are worthy of stepping into their higher being (which has mastery of his sexual energy). They are slaves to their primal urges and that’s why they’ll put their d”£k in any hole. So many also secretly hate women due to their mother rejection wounds and past trauma. It’s way more complex than “men are predators”.
@@IfckedBrian What Nick said is ALL men are taught to mask. That's childless men, and men with children. They lie about having children, the number of children they DO have, or their intentions with you.
Please be careful who and what you listen to. Whether men or women view sex the same or not, it has a purpose. If you abuse that purpose you will suffer men and women. The purpose is not just to procreate neither just for pleasure. This is why sex is not just an act you participate when you become of age, it’s a weapon and if you don’t know how to use it you can hurt yourself and others.❤
You are not going find your person by sleeping randomly with people. People get soul ties that way and that makes them unfit for marriage. You will find your person by earnestly praying to God, for Him to lead you to that person.
Great comment, I tried to explain to others about soul ties, but it's above some people's pay grade. It's not healthy to fu*k any person without commitment and love and respect. Also there's so much adult content on the internet for free, and it's making young men addicted to porn and it destroys their ability to pair bond.
Why does it have to be so complicated? Imagine holding out for a man for months years, and then you learn he becomes emotionally unavailable or has small winkie.
Men can also have sex with their car, the oil canister, their bed etc. etc. So, women have to be very very cautious about with whom and why they are sleeping. This is simple logic.
The way you are portraying women who fall in love after having sex is totally unrealistic and is getting on my nerves. Men get hard just because is morning. They are always up for sex. But a women, especially an insecure one, will not enjoy sex.....would not even start, when the man might finish.....no oxytocin, orgasm, no pleasure, no nothing . As a matter of fact, the act might be even painful is she doesn't get wet. In my case, I really liked this one guy from the very beginning and everything went downhill once we became intimate. He doesn't last enough for me to even start. Now I think he's just not right for me.
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This is sad 😢Woman need to strike and stop the #hookup culture.
Me!!! I can tell from the start, it’s the energy. But if I can’t and give them my number, I can tell by after the first date or not even a date. They wanna be pen pals too. That’s a nope. I’ve got enough friends I talk to. If they don’t ask me out on a date after a week, Bye!!! I usually say” what do you want because I don’t like hook up culture and I’m not sleeping with a random person.
Absolutely. I can’t believe women have and send “nudes”. Mind boggling.
There’s no dating anymore. It’s just guys asking if you’ll come over to have sex. I do not give easy sex hook up vibes AT ALL.
That was never part of that culture. It does seem to be dying now, though. I hope all the dating apps will no longer be in use soon.
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I learned this during the four years of my first relationship: Sex for many men is like Tylenol for a headache, a beer while watching the game, coffee on his work break. It's nothing special, just a little something to take the edge off. They don't care if you're in a coma or ice cold in a state of rigor mortis. I mean, when funeral homes have to put up cameras in their prep rooms to keep an eye on female corpses because the attendants are male, says a lot.
I have it written and have made my family promise to not send my body to a funeral home where men can access my corpse. I know I’ll be gone but the thought of my corpse being violated does something to me mentally.
It also says a lot about the males, too.
If he's able to sleep with a woman and has no feelings for her, then he's not the type of male that no woman should ever get involved with.
What type of husband would he make if he didn't feel any love towards the women who gave their precious gift, which is their bodies to him?
It honestly gives psychopath vibes.
@winning3329 there are videos on yt that actually acknowledge that men don't marry for love. They marry for what benefits they get as a result of marriage.
Most of the men end up having sexual diseases.
Why are women giving more birth to them then? They're benefitting themselves from the sacrifice of women. What a shame to birth them
This is why is is no huge flex at all when you have a lot of men interested in you.
Its supply and demand, and it goes both ways. If U make Aman wait who's to say he doesn't have 5 others to choose from, not saying it's right but it's something I've noticed in some countries.
@@jessica.bartlett6352 True, but a man willing to wait will be of more quality than a man who rushes for sex. If he's planning on sticking around, he isn't in a hurry to the bedroom.
@@jessica.bartlett6352 Yes, in America as well. Can't trust any man, even if you were dating him for several months, a lot of men have back up play dates just in case you say no. It's sickening.
Exactly
@@jessica.bartlett6352 Literally doesn't matter, no one cares. We just want them to not deal with us. Men are the easiest people with the lowest standards. They do it with anything and anyone. Not a flex if they chase you.
They ghost me when they find out my clothes aren't coming off. I don't go to anybody's home and I am not playing around. Being ghosted for not putting out is truly a blessing in disguise. My friends get so angry they have seggs, get played and ghosted anyways. I tell every woman ... Sleeping with a man isn't a requirement to date. Dating is for collecting data. You should not be thinking: "I hope he likes me." Instead you always ask yourself: "Do I like him?" I enjoy my company too much to put up with BULL S***t and game playing. My body & peace of mind is too valuable to me.
@@MorrocanprincessSame!
Good for you
Women are too insecure and very competitive with her girlfriends life, so they get what they get for that competitive evil spirit toward their friends. Men don’t vindictively compete with their boys, we are vicious therefore we reap what we sow. Treat your girls better
Same so much!!! I always get ghosted or never asked my number it’s so sad. I don’t understand the pressure to do something right away when I say no . Time wasted again. It’s sad.
WoW..dating is for data, love this ❤
They complain women treat them like they have no feelings. Like, no wonder 😂
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EQ varies between men
Right. They kinda don't. They operate like they have no soul or any goal other than to destroy or take.
Yupppp that’s why I dont feel bad their suicide rates have skyrocketed. Look how we’ve been treated for so long.
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Same. They’re devils anyway, what does it matter if they return to hell early.
Sleeping with someone you don’t even like must be the most miserable, desperate, down bad experience i have ever heard of
Hey thank you for watching ❤️
Sounds double faced as well
That is a person that can fake a whole friendship so if I was a guy I wouldn't even be friends with that dude, or that woman as a woman.
Ppl think it is about s*x only, but it affects the whole personality of a person. I wouldn't trust them
I don't EVEN have to watch the video to translate to any woman reading this: Ladies, you are a toilet for a man to relieve himself into until he sees different, okay? They do that to each other; do YOU think you are going to be treated any different? That is HOW they see you...an object, an appliance. Quit wasting your time trying to figure them out or taking care of them or loving them or having their children. STOP....just STOP...live your life for YOU. Leave them to themselves.
@@heneverforesakesme4038 Whew! 👌🏽
Agreed, and watching that Po®n makes them ten times more detached from the fact that you're Actually another human.
You men haters are disgustingly sick in the head. I need my husband and I love being his “toilet “ as you call it. No greater blessings on earth than becoming a wife and mother when I look at our children I know he’s needed and I thank God for him. We need men don’t listen to these hyenas.
That's fine, you are absolutely right . The harsh truth is they are also toilets for some of the ladies to help relieve ourselves too. 🤣😂🤣🤯
There are some genuinely good men like my dad. But i have yet to find any within the dating pool. It's rough out here for us single ladies. The quality of men out here is daunting
It is psychotic. To use someone in the most intimate way a person can interact with another human being. It seems men don't show love in any way. Nothing they do is genuine.
Hence the reason women need to wake up and stop allowing men access to their bodies.
@@staceywilliams1863im not saying i dont agree but this is lowkey misogynistic. Youre holding women accountable for mens actions.
@@Alixir1228What did she say?
The are incable of love
They can have sex with a woman he hardly cares about. But will not kiss a woman because it's "too intimate". It makes no sense at all.
Especially men under 40 who grew up watching "corn".. They're completely detached, even from the "pleasure" of the act.
My sister is a clinical family therapist and “corn” addiction or just the presence with men is a huge issue in relationships. Unrealistic expectations for regular women.
Under40? It existed before the internet dear.
Corn damages the mind and soul of those who consume it.
I can't agree with this. I think younger men 25-35 are wonderful. They treat you like a princess, are funny and not jaded. Many of them just want company. It's the gross men that are raised in the 80-90s and earlier that have NO RESPECT for women. The older ones that are losing their hair and beer guts who still think women are disposable.
@@puddincup9879 it wasn’t as prolific nor as accessible.
It's so demonic for them to deceive these women by telling them that they love these women and that sex is love and then turn around and act confused as to why these women hold the belief that if a man wants to sleep with them it's because those men love them. That's nasty work. I feel sorry for these ladies. Nobody deserves for their minds to be toyed with like that. If I were you, I'd opt out.
It's even worse once you see this is more frequent than you think. Ladies, make him earn you!!! Make him spend on you and I promise you, men don't act the same because he put money on you
its predatory in nature....
I cant believe men speak openly about this like it isnt criminal. What about if they did this to a child? Some men do. They target abused kids with daddy issues (sound familiar) and then sxually abuse them and sometimes even sell them into human trafficking.
Nothing to consider natural and be okay about guys. Men need to be jailed for this behaviour as its criminal. If they were it would happen much less i can tell you that.
@@marte1376 They’re more likely to act right for what they’ve invested in. No guarantee!
@@staceywilliams1863 yes but at least you got something in return
Why do you think they become sereal rapists ? Didn't Trump say " most Hispanic are rapists ?"
Men: Sex means nothing to us
Also Men: Sex only becomes important to us when we use it to chastise women
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they’re so narcissistic that they’re willing to tell on themselves as long as it means they’ll get attention/views. The irony! 😅
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I love to see it! I want them to CONTINUE to tell on themselves! 🎉
No woman has ever become a man to understand how it feels. They want to help you get into the perppective of a man. This is all mother nature’s design both must understand so that humanity can properly reevaluate their views of relationship and sex
😂 True. That is men for you.
Mens view towards sex and intimacy, views like the men in these videos, is all the more reason to fly solo and be celibate. Its simply more peaceful.
@Anastasia_Desiree WHAT ABOUT STAYING A VIRGIN UNTIL MARRIAGE ?...
@@MaryElizabeth-g1b My celibacy is based on my religious beliefs. Yes, I agree if one wants marriage, then it is best to maintain virtue until then. However, men and women are not required to marry and have a family.
"But those who marry will face many troubles in this life, and I want to spare you this." 1 Corinthians 7:28 ; "An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord's affairs. Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world-how she can please her husband. I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but that you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord." 1 Corinthians 7:32-35
It is the same for men as well.
1 Corinthians 7
Devotion to God is the prize🙏 It is better to be celibate❤️
That’s because most men take seconds to minutes to 🌋 😂
Sex is something they do to women. It’s not something they do together. That’s why men think it’s okay for them to cheat and not for women to cheat.
If sex really was “nothing” to them why do they flip out if *their* girl does “nothing?”
@@SheilaPatterson…they claim it is because we are receivers and they know we only lay with who we care about.
CONTROL. They love to be the puppeteer. @@SheilaPatterson
@@vernita0216 yes, entering someone's body is all about control and feeling like they 'made a conquest'
@@SheilaPattersongreat point… men are using there tester one as an excuse to sleep with many women and be creeps.
But when women treat men sexually they way the treat women, and they become extremely emotional. Lol
I wouldn't suggest that. It's not the same for women.
You treat me like a bitch is what they say
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"Everything in this world is about sex. Except sex, sex is about power."
@@phenitagomes1292 no it actually can be.... its about who is into who MORE than the other...the one who likes the person less has the power
@@phenitagomes1292It is EXACTLY the same for women, shut up😂
I feel sorry for them. They hate themselves so much that they would take advantage of a person and run from what could potentially be a beautiful love affair, friendship and partnership until death. Such scared and unfulfilled cowards. 😞
Girlfriend is an imaginary status . Girlfriends do the same things as a wife ( mainly s.x ) yet gfs have no wife rights such as community income , spousal support , right to his pention and social security etc . Don't play the girlfriend role ladies .
Don't you have to be a girlfriend first? I get the point you're making, but the delivery is not good.
@@puddincup9879 Girlfriend used to mean getting to know each other to see if we were compatible for marriage (no sex) also known as courtship. But the world changed for the worst and we see the tragic effects of living a promiscuous life, stds, unwanted pregnancies, abortions, people being used for sex and then thrown like trash. Men don’t want to be husbands and women don’t want to be wives and don’t want a forever family.
@@zulynava4059sorry to break it to you but you can’t marry a man with whom you didn’t try to live and share a household. They are changing into monsters even when you lived with them for 5+ years, imagine how drastically they will change when they were just courting you and now you live with them. It’s just not safe for us women.
Puddincup No I don’t like to be a gf first. Men know from the beginning if they want to marry or not . In my college I had a classmate who spent every holiday with her boyfriend. I had told her he will not marry her even then . He then went on to marry someone else . My classmate was just the best he could get for those yrs . Then an acquaintance of mine a beautiful Hispanic girl who lived in with a dustie as his gf for 5 yrs . Had a baby with the dustie . Dustie wouldn’t marry her and even fought for custody and took half the custody of their child. Dusty gives no child support . This beautiful girl could have picked far better .
Many wives don’t even get anything anymore because these males are cheating them out of alimony and child support.
Thats the big problem. Waiting 3 dates? Wtf. Remember back in the day ladies would wait months. Now everyone thinks you supposed to give it up fast. NO.
There are women who feel guilty when a man pays for dinner, and so they sleep with them. People are delusional and need therapy on dignity and self-worth
Meeting someone three times is still a stranger. I wouldn’t let a woman I know for only 6 months have my car keys without me in my car let alone a man have access to my life, even after a year. F that noise
They used to wait until after marriage.
right like that’s insane.
Wait till marriage! 🙏❤
I am a Christian and don’t believe in s*x before marriage for myself.
That belief VERY QUICKLY has weeded out all the bad guys only interested in s*x with me.
I thank God for my strong values every time I hear (bad) men speak about s*x the way it’s spoken about in this video by men.
My values and beliefs have saved me, I am so grateful for that.
Good on you for putting the Christian faith and values first
Gotta watch out for the ones pretending to be straight tho
From age 18 to 28 I worked with all men and from everything they said between them in conversation this is exactly true. No wonder us ladies get so disillusioned by dating/ relationships. They talk about us like we're objects just to use and move on. Even the married ones we're like this!
Ultimate, it is our fault. Men should not get access to your body before marriage.
so do they think women are fools for believing their lies?
it's about finding a man who RESPECTS women.... if they did that and were SECURE with themselves, they wouldn't feel the need to locker room talk like that...most of them are all talk in front of their "boys" anyway....again ..due to insecurity and the need to fit in. the ones that RESPECT women, and their woman will be less likely to talk like this
@@rachelo8294
Maybe you don't believe them but a lot of women do
That’s Mother Nature’s design
It's been said for a very long time; women trade sex to get love. Men trade love to get sex. A very old story...
Except the men are trading lovebombing for sex is more factual which isn’t true love.
I had to realize when a man lays with a woman he is not intending to marrying her - sex comes after marriage for a reason
Love is just words. For them at least.
Men don't even have the emotional capacity to truly love someone for who they are, they only pretend so they can benefit from women.
I am so sick of men saying there are “biological reasons” for this, that or any other thing that is treated differently in men and women in our society. None of that is biological, it’s all social conditioning, and it’s always to give men free reign to do what they want and to control women’s actions.
As a man, men's biological reasons are all excuses. The fact is that 95% of men are completely devoid of spirituality, ability to express genuine selfless love, have never made it past their teenage desire to bust 24/7, and never made it past their bitterness of not getting the partners they wanted in their youth.
So they only use women to build their self esteem. Most men genuinely do not know that women can be used for things other than their body, have things about them more beneficial than their body. It's not just social conditioning, they really have no idea what women offer and see them only as objects.
Absolutely 💯.
Thank you, it's as if they are saying it's a normal occurrence and something within me is screaming NO
Something ain't right about this thought process at all
@@vykx88 Yup. Always listen when something inside you is screaming.
Correct.
These males are the beast we been running towards instead of running away
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LET'S KEEP OUR LEGS CLOSSED LADIES. LISTEN TO TONY GASKINS
Such a turn off. Nothing said here makes me see men as valuable in terms of romance. This makes men sound like ugly manipulative users. Yuk
Because its false information.. we have been programmed to THINK like that.. through TV movies music and disney. We are thesame woMAN We literally thesame without programming. God would not make sometjing that doenst go with the other. High libido goes with high and low goes with low
It’s the truth.
@Kathrin so true, I don't see the point of being in a relationship with a man if the bar is so low. I want someone with self-control, kindness, self-respect and who respects others.
@@springwood1331 I hope you can find that. I haven’t been able to.
So with this being said no man should be upset when his woman cheats it’s just sex
Men know what they tell women is 🐂💩. That's why all hell breaks loose when the tables are reversed.
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Hahahaha😅
Exactly 🎉
Well, if it'll certainly be just sex for the man with whom she is cheating, then there's no problem is there? She means nothing to him so he won't be taking her away from her significant other. So her significant other should see the sex as meaningless. The hell he will!!! 🤣
I'm so disgusted.
He's right, I heard someone I know physically say the same things. Men will sleep with anything and feel no way about it.
It’s disgusting and psychopathic.
They will use a jar of peanut butter if there's no one around 😂
They will use a hole in the wall😊
What about each other then they can deal with all their BS
The problem is not that men want sex and women want relationships. The problem is that men lie about loving a woman because they think women just want relationships. Sometimes women just want sex too and men should go for women like that and leave the other women alone. Men who just want sex are very convenient for women who just want sex. Just do it and leave with no drama and everyone is happy, but men need to be assholes about it.
Men who just want sex loveee women who want relationships. Knowing very well she wants a relationship and he knows very well he doesn't want to be in a relationship.They are rarely attracted by women who want the same thing as them
Because then they will get hurt in the process. They want to be the villain 😅
Because In most cases men get attached to women who doesn't want anything to do with them!
@@Chommikenya yup
I know a honest man who just wants sex. He has multiple play partners and he even gets references among girls. By being honest women respect him more and give him more too.
😂😂 so real and hard@@Chommikenya
A wise woman once said "Dating men means playing a game. Dont complain when you start losing."
@@ntombi-yensimbinarrates7297 !!!!!!
I’m the coach . They are the bench warmers , 🥰
I work with all men and trust me this is 100% accurate. Even the married men talk horribly about their wives. The good men stay quit and say nothing. I would say out of the 20 men maybe 5 are good men.
What can a good man say to another grown man that's already grown into being a fully developed arsehole? Even he can't change people.
The quiet ones are NOT good nem, they are cowards and profit from the "bad nem" since they keep the bar low. So when the good one does something decent it will count as "good" and "amazing"
@@ARS-fn6pxwauw. Well said
@@high.vibrational.collective I don't get it. Is this a channel where all the emotionally frustrated women vent out their anger?
@@CiskoLunar-mk3yw WE WOMEN ARE ALL ANGRY !!!!! IT'S ENOUGH OF YOU MEN BEING SO WICKED
Third date? He’s a stranger! Even six months is stranger.
RIGHT!!
I’ve been saying this ! My last date did not understand ! Had the audacity to say “ how long does it take for you to get intimate?” “ I said we just met today though? Give me a break you are a stranger?” Glad I stood on business . I never got asked for my # ladies after that. He said and I quote “well guess I’ll call it a night at jack off” weird date gone wrong
That tells you right there he was only interested in seggs
The second guy,”They beg you for it, then despise you when they get it”. This is so true, so move accordingly.
MOVE ACCORDINGLY!
THEY ARE DISGUSTING
Sex means nothing to them but they are 💯 obessed by it.
Call the ambulance.
😂😂😭 Right?!
It's how they want us to be. They want us to be invested in them 😂😂 such delusional creatures
good point!
This should be a pinned comment❤
Love this! so true!
It is unfortunate that we do not treat one another with respect and kindness.
Respect is earned. And girls and women should drill this into their head. Stop just respecting men, until they prove it they are deserving of it And stop the "love" BS that men created for women to believe in, just so they can manipulate them!!
It's not about being emotionally invested, those men are reckless, risking having babies with women they wouldn't even want to be seen with, but it don't matter to them bc the kids in their eyes, too, are only property. Some of these dudes won't learn even if their escapades result in stds and several lives ruined.
Men will say all this and unalive a woman for not giving him her phone number. Stop listening to men
That’s ego.
Whoever invented fwb has ruined dating. And if you're a very pretty girl a guy will automatically categorize you as the "fun time girl, don't take her seriously." I see a lot of women focusing on their own lives, legs closed, and I'm happy because that's the way it should be! A lot of these guys only want you for one thing. It's sad. There's more to life than this.
Thank you!!
@@Chommikenya you're welcome. I like your channel! You give ladies important insight so thank you!
Naaah isn't about beauty
@@naranjamorena There is truth to it. Attractive women make some men insecure of constantly thinking she's going out when she's literally just staying at home. I've had that happen to me. It's a lack of trust. Trust is everything.
oh sorry to hear it. I think you are talking about a specific situation and a child (not a man) who is jealous and insecure. But when you deal with real men, you can be the prettiest and you won't necessarily be for a while. But I really like your idea of staying alone and focusing on yourself and your studies! @justicevibes1252
The dude hiding in the clothes…I’m dead ☠️ 😂
Waiting doesn't mean anything. Some men are evil. Pray, wait and get married. Stay safe
Absolutely Pray about it !!
Ok at 22 I already know that I'm gonna be single for my entire life
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28F. Same boat. But I do have to say....the peace is PRICELESS! I'm not on birth control, my hormones are in check, I don't ever have to worry about pregnancy scares and I ESPECIALLY don't have to worry about STDs! My peace is PRICELESS 🎉
I clocked it young. I'm 28F, and I'm not having sex, kids, or getting married. Life is actually really interesting when you de-center men entirely.
Just wait until marriage
Same. I find them all gross. The ugly ones are just nice because they don't have options. It doesn't mean they're good men. Be careful with ugly men.
The fella in the wardrobe 😂😂😂😂
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Lol he looked like he was getting second-hand judgment and embarrassment
I got a kick out of him. And he wasn't saying anything we didn't already know.
😂😂 He is the one who spoke the truth.
That's sad. Use your toys ladies. No strings attached.
@mimit893 and at least with a toy you get to finish
Girls no toys practice celibacy so you attract the man you want.
Say that sisters. At least with the toys, YOU ARE ASSURED THE BIG O. 😂😂😂😂😂❤
Yep. And then you don't have to worry about getting up and making him a sammich either.
And no DISEASES!!
3 to 5 dates until sex??? Are you out of your mind?? You wait 3 to 5 months at least. Its a total stranger
Wait until marriage & even I won’t do it then unless he does 50% of the work and domestic responsibilities while treating me like a queen.
Single isnt so bad, its rather peaceful.
Yeah f** this I like to be single.
i truly despise them. i don't think most of them are even human at this point.
Most of them aren’t good people and I stand by this!
Animals
@@WeMustAllStandAsOne animals are kinder. We human as animals are just in another level because we can lie
Don't worry, that why men must make your life better and easier, he should be paying your bills, make him earn you and always cheat on him whenever given the possibility. He will do it if he can. Don't get mad, get paid. Let's ladies come together
Modern society has groomed women to hate men and men to be gay.
Hence why it seems the roles are changing. Women are becoming the wayen used to be and a lot of men are closet gays or hypersexual.
I tell every man that approaches me in that manner the exact same thing: I don't enter into physical relationships without emotional connection. That weeds them out immediately. Don't waste both of our times. If you want a hook up, go find one.
I cant wrap myind arround having sex with a person and not like the person. To me its like "if you dont like the person you are having sex with then you must also not like yourself/value yourself"
Desperation, accessing sex is not as easy for them as it is women... it's like half a loaf is better than none
..which is why the majority have community 🍆!
@@876beautyIf it was harder for them to access, then you’d think they’d treat those women better but they don’t. They do everything possible to ensure that these women (the women willing to sleep with them) just straight up HATE them. They call those women the worst names in the book, use dehumanizing language etc. then turn around and be shocked when the number of women(that are willing to sleep with them) go down drastically.
Bingo. Men loathe themselves and sex gives them an opportunity to offload that energy directly into someone else. They steal positive energy and replace it with death energy inside them. That's why women feel so disgusted after being with them.
@@HardCoverJacket They definitely don’t but they sadly won’t do the work and go to therapy.
Thanks for that useful info. I'm single and celibate, I will continue on this way until God says otherwise. It's for the best.
Thank you for watching ❤️
Glad you loved it
Because of this behavior is why alot of women have turned into gold diggers we know your going to leave us anyway.. it's a game
Being called a gold digger is honestly a compliment. You're telling me I have standards? And I don't settle for less? Thankyou
@@jinhub2175wrong! Being a gold digger means you can be bought and I'm sure most men don't mind throwing change at you as long as they get what they want. Especially those men with money. Money can always be replaced, but your dignity and respect cannot.
Ok, if this is true why do men get hurt and angry when their girl sleeps around? It's just an act, right? It doesn't mean anything, right?
Let the man in the comments answer us that actually!
Because men see women as property. Once they dick you down, they own you.
@@Chommikenyamy boyfriend said a few days ago that "these guys have sex just for that dopamine rush and make it cruel thing, sex is supposed to be a loving experience and feel the Love, intimacy. Sex is a position in which you both are the most vulnerable to each other physically and maybe emotionally too in most cases. Hence it should be a loving experience" and it stuck to me
@@shrunali4928wait so why is this video saying like sex is not that emotionally important?? If they would sleep with someone they dont feel love.. wouldnt that be counterintuitive.. or idk
@@Celestials1auroraThat's because it actually only apply to some men, but not all men. If you don't want to have a bad relationship, you can do so many things, like meeting his parents and you inviting him to meet yours, telling him you want to have a family, etc. The more time you spend with him before the act, the more sure you will be about him.
Only do it when your fears about him go away.
But I would actually suggest leaving it to marriage. This way, it'll actually be something special and unique, that is almost impossible to believe it happens in today's society. He will value you above any girl if you leave it to marriage, and you'll be 100% sure he has good intentions in this regard :)
So funny how men will say sex means nothing to them and they can have sex with a woman they hate, it has nothing to do with love, etc. But let their wife or GF not want to have sex with them for a week and they will be acting like theyre being abused and "she doesn't love me" and so emotional about it. 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
😂 Ask that again please!!!
Hey thank you for watching ❤️
True
Most of the time it’s physical entertainment for men.
And in general I’ve found very few people who are having emotionally deep sex.
I’m 54 & I’ve asked lots of women & men.
It’s very sad that so many people only experience sex as a physical experience.
I have a friend who has been married 3 times & had boyfriends & at almost 60 has never had deeply emotional sex with anyone 😢
Thank you 😊!
1:05 that’s not healthy. It’s actually very irresponsible and damaging and shows the lack of maturity from men
"It's like peeing for them" this line heart so bad imagine be with someone like that, married with kids 😢😢
Deep!!
I have brothers so i know this is true lol. Just don't put out until he matches your feeling. A lot of dudes will drop you but they are trash. A good man will respect it.
Thank you!
That's why you should use them for money
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This is hilarious
EXACTLY 🤣🙌🏼
So sprinkle sprinkle is right😂
@@alaziaklexos Nothing else to want!
And this is why my battery operated boyfriend (BOB 😏) is all I need. I saw this in men from a young age. Honestly what made me pay attention was an episode of the fresh prince where, Will goes as far as marrying the girl to have sx with her because she wouldn't have sx without being married.
I remember that. He was actually toxic as heck in hindsight! Like Zach Morris
lmao
lol wow never saw that episode. I’m going to look for it
Yes! Some men are just looking to pump and dump.
Solution?… don’t have sex before marriage. Sex in any other scenario, always creates problems. Immediately, or later on.
Not all the time
So your speaking out on your OWN experiences? 😂
Facts.
As if sex doens't create problems in a marriage...Anything that's a interaction between two people, there's space to problems. There's always a possibiity of problems, marriage is not gonna change that.
So funny how men will say sex means nothing to them and they can have sex with a woman they hate, it has nothing to do with love, etc. But let their wife or GF not want to have sex with them for a week and they will be acting like theyre being abused and "she doesn't love me" and so emotional about it. 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
As someone who has never slept with any men, I'm surprised women AND men say these things as if it's a GROUND BREAKING information.
Its not hard to keep your legs closed or to keep it in your pants,a lot of people are weak-disciplined, that's all.
Don't act out on your urges right away without thinking,we have a brain for a reason.
Exactly. Just use your fingers or toys if you must but try to not do that often.
Men and women view sex different bc of the society we live in, boys are raised to see sex a certain way and a lot of them actually think that means it’s “biological”
exactly this "men are just like that, women are just like that" is just an excuse to not grow as a person its frustrating
I absolutely DESPISE when people start using “biology” to make excuses and justify shitty behavior! It gets on my nerves.
It’s important to learn how the other sex operates and how our brain chemistry is affected by sex. If you know up front how they behave you can act accordingly
True. I don't know why women don't see this
Thank you for watching ❤️
so what good are they then
None
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Exactly 🤦🏽♀️
Making your life better and paying all your bills. Men are here to spoil you and see you their queen
@@marte1376but they won’t and don’t want to. They resent paying for you, then they resent you for giving yourself to them for free.
The guy in the closet had me in stitches 😂😂😂
Me two! 😅😅😅
He's a gd coward
A close friend of mine used to ask the men she’d had sex with for a nude picture.
They all got so excited and posed in front of the camera.
When they asked to see the picture they all reacted on how their head wasn’t in the picture.
She just replied “exactly”.
I stayed a virgin until I was married. I didn’t want a man that “ghosted” me the next day. Many men wouldn’t date me but I didn’t care. I met my husband and he tried to get me to sleep with him even when we got engaged. I told him no. Then we got married and then I gave up my virginity to him. Been married for a wonderful 16 years. We got engaged at 2 years and saved money to get married at 3 years. A man who is in a relationship with you for a while and you’re not married says he’s getting the milk from you so he doesn’t have to “buy” you! (If you know, you know) Do not live with men before you are married, if you play house there is no need to get married. I stayed a virgin because I am a Christian but anyone can have these boundaries and standards for themselves. It’s not too late to practice abstinence. 👍🏾
Thank you!
Im hoping he held himself up to the standards he held you too
Oh he def got some from someone else then for sure 😮💨🤣
That video just showed me that dating and hanging out with men is just a hell waste of time.
I don't allow Netflix and chill. I don't go to a man's home and i don't allow him in mine. The word No stays on repeat. When they think i owe them something i say "who yold you that?" Needless to say i stay single and it's justified
The guy in blue sweater providing advise and hiding from the closet😂😂😂😂
😂 Thank you for watching ❤️
4B ladies
Don't get mad, get paid
That’s why I stopped giving it up for free 🤫😜😉
😂I ain’t mad at it
I hope by that you mean you're waiting for a ring and some property
@@jayak8217 just don’t give it up for dinner and a compliment😭
@@eleganceevolved8328 right, so I must wait for a marriage contract and some property. At least that way if he cheats he'll regret it.
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Ok but the man who kept getting more and more hidden behind the clothes in the closet as he further revealed the info, got me lmao 😂
Me two!!!
LET'S KEEP OUR LEGS CLOSED LADIES!!!!!!! IT'S A MUST!!!!!! LISTEN TO TONY GASKINS.
!!!!!!!!!This one
And yall will still keep allowing them access then cry! 🤷🏽♀️
That’s what I’m trying to understand 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
@@PreppyPrincess777perhaps you need a little lesson in reproductive biology...id have assumed you learned it in school. Clearly you didnt.......
Off you go to do that then......
@@PreppyPrincess777 They keep looking for a unicorn! 🤷🏽♀️
@@staceywilliams1863 I do know why they do not want to remain virgins until after marriage.
Don’t matter how long you make them wait. They gonna dog you out like the dog they are😂😂😂 Single life is bliss!
Sorry what! 😂
Men stand to lose so much less than women. It's "just an act". A handful of minutes of fun, pleasure, excitement.
Women, we have to invest. The act, what it can lead to...is a massive life changing investment for us. Emotions necessarily are involved because we need to trust... have commitment, vulnerability.
A man's five minutes of fun is a vulnerable, risky thing for women. It's reasonable for women to see it differently.
Even Phd Psychologist Jordan Peterson said that men shouldn’t be hard on women about being “picky” because it’s a lot of risk for us. Men only think about themselves sadly
This is why you should repent, put your faith in Jesus and focus on your relationship with God. You will feel so content and you will be in position for him to send you a Holy Spirit filled man who won’t cheat on you when the time is right.
Don’t settle for a worldly man full of lust.
Thank you!!
After being betrayed its hard😭i seen it happen alot. Never thought someone so spiritual and kind would do you like that..
@@Celestials1aurora the more you read God's word and get closer to him, you will be able to discern if that person is a true follower of Christ and has the Holy Spirit.
I HAVE BEEN SAYING THE SAME THINGS ABOUT IT ……SEX IS NOT LOVE …..
That’s why there is no need to give him sex no matter how badly he begs or gets horny or gets angry at you. Just don’t put out at all! Unless it’s what you want
Men knowing the act is her being so attached to him yet they treat women the way they do, especially the ones they sleep with. Like that’s okay
If sex is nothing to you and you aren’t emotionally invested in it, then don’t get upset when your wife or girlfriend cheats on you! Cause you know sex is just like sleeping or eating for you🙄
They argue that women cheat with men they are emotionally invested in. Because we are not conditioned to use them for sex. Women that just use meme Or seggs are the exception not the rule.
Well said lolols
They can't handle that because they're all babies
agree! why being so upset in that case?
I waited till i got married with my hubby. He said there's more to sex 😊. Yes,he is consistent with me since he started pursuing me.
Now that's the mindset of a man with good intentions with you ❤️
Thank you for watching & sharing ❤️
Same girl, stayed a virgin until I got married to my husband. Been together 16 wonderful years. He treats me like a princess. Other guys dumped me or ignored me because I wouldn’t give it up. Their loss…my husband saw that I was worth the wait. I love him. 💛
congrats
The guy in the wardrobe, why is it the woman’s job to determine which guys are genuinely interested and which ones are just using them? Why is it not the job of the men to be honest and not play like little boys???
Because as a prey you have to know how to avoid and stay away from a predator!!
@@Chommikenya not all men are preying though and it’s detrimental to keep allowing and encouraging men to keep thinking this about themselves. Men are also designed to provide and protect. In all honesty I think a lot of men just don’t value themselves enough and don’t think they are worthy of stepping into their higher being (which has mastery of his sexual energy). They are slaves to their primal urges and that’s why they’ll put their d”£k in any hole. So many also secretly hate women due to their mother rejection wounds and past trauma. It’s way more complex than “men are predators”.
07:01 This is exactly what Nick Cannon admitted.
Yeah, but if youre going after Nick cannons thats on you too
@@IfckedBrian What Nick said is ALL men are taught to mask. That's childless men, and men with children. They lie about having children, the number of children they DO have, or their intentions with you.
Wait until marriage & even I won’t do it then unless he does 50% of the work and domestic responsibilities while treating me like a queen.
Thank you!!
Please be careful who and what you listen to. Whether men or women view sex the same or not, it has a purpose. If you abuse that purpose you will suffer men and women. The purpose is not just to procreate neither just for pleasure. This is why sex is not just an act you participate when you become of age, it’s a weapon and if you don’t know how to use it you can hurt yourself and others.❤
Okay so dont play victime when female reciprocate the energy stop
The guy in his wardrobe😁😁
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You are not going find your person by sleeping randomly with people. People get soul ties that way and that makes them unfit for marriage. You will find your person by earnestly praying to God, for Him to lead you to that person.
Great comment, I tried to explain to others about soul ties, but it's above some people's pay grade. It's not healthy to fu*k any person without commitment and love and respect. Also there's so much adult content on the internet for free, and it's making young men addicted to porn and it destroys their ability to pair bond.
Absolutely true 💯
"Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free?" End of story. 🤷🏼♀️
Why does it have to be so complicated? Imagine holding out for a man for months years, and then you learn he becomes emotionally unavailable or has small winkie.
If it’s just a physical act and no big deal why do guys cry so hard and sometimes even kill when a girl says no
Ego. For some guys it’s a *huge* deal to be turned down even if he doesn’t know the girl.
Men can also have sex with their car, the oil canister, their bed etc. etc. So, women have to be very very cautious about with whom and why they are sleeping. This is simple logic.
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Thats why if tour no joined together as one, do not have sex. Im talking to Ladies. Black woman for sure ❤
Thank you 😊
I've learned something useful from these guys. I'm trying to improve my english and now I know the meaning of "aloofness" 😂
Is this even news? But i'm happy for the women who didn't know. Thanks, guys
The way you are portraying women who fall in love after having sex is totally unrealistic and is getting on my nerves. Men get hard just because is morning. They are always up for sex. But a women, especially an insecure one, will not enjoy sex.....would not even start, when the man might finish.....no oxytocin, orgasm, no pleasure, no nothing . As a matter of fact, the act might be even painful is she doesn't get wet.
In my case, I really liked this one guy from the very beginning and everything went downhill once we became intimate. He doesn't last enough for me to even start. Now I think he's just not right for me.
Leave sister
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I don't think men understand how deeply unsatisfied women are. I'm 40 and not a single orgasm so far with a man. It makes the whole affair lopsided.
The guy hiding in the closet is so funny
Thank you for watching ❤️
He said sex is not a big deal to men…..HAHA!! That’s a bold face lie…
It's all they care about
This is all bs. lol. A narcissist will wait 10 years to sleep with you and still treat you as if you put out too quickly. Nice try though.
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💯 They will wait 20 years and if you still don’t put out…act like your asking for too much!!🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@healthiswealth7555 That’s why you should also be aware of some of the signs of narcissism so you can be better prepared in case you encounter one.
Also, narcissists pretty much always have multiple options, so even if it seems like they are waiting they are really getting it somewhere else.
Truth.
Hence, “vetting” being BS! They will play the long game just to deceive and traumatize a genuine Soul.