I love how Gaz opens his eyes after Ollie brings him the tea, and just sleepily mutters "Hi Ol". Obviously he knew it was Ollie bringing him the tea. I'm sure no one else in the system calls him "Gaz Gaz". Also Ollie has his own voice/personality/mannerisms, so it was obviously Ollie.
True that, but sometimes the alts hide their presence. Does Ollie just not do that with Gaz to prevent other issues, or is it something Gaz has learned to be on his toes about?
@@BSpinoza210 if I remember right I think in a video it said that Ollie says the first time he fronted was when he was with Gaz looking at sweets ina store. I'd recommend watching the video about having a partner with DID since Gaz talks about how he met all the boys.
Belle Rose OH MY GOSH IT IS SO HARD! Our host tried to make us one time, and it was so hard because they dont have what I wear, and the hair never matches. It makes us all giggle but we never get an accrate us.😂
Really reminds me of the kid in them. You know, a wife would just casually explain they dropped the camera. A young kid will be all “nothing!!” To keep from getting in trouble lol
Molly Burke ah I know this was a year ago but it’s awesome to see you here Molly. I love your videos and I watch your videos and all sorts of chronic illness and mental illness channels, that’s what I want to start my channel on, plus lgbtq+ issues.
*ollie throws blanket towards camera knocking it down* “are you okay? What are you doing?” - Gaz “nothing” - Ollie lol I found this super cute for some reason 😂
Its like went you were younger and you knocked something down by doing something stupid or something you WEREN'T supposed to be doing and your mom or adult figure says "what are you doing" and you quickly say NOTHING!!! Like they actually believe you😂😂😂😂
This is my favorite video from jess's alters but can we talk about how amazing the architecture of the Sims house Ollie created?! All I ever built was rooms without doors and pools without ladders 😂
I was really appreciating that Ollie took the time to manifest that kind of space out here in a way for us to get an idea of their home life. "Sweet enough," indeed!
I really like Oliver. When I first started watching this it was mid morning and I thought to myself why isn't Oliver in school. I think that's because I'm a mom. Then I remembered he's an Alter. I really like that he plays the SIMS so do I even though I'm old. It really helps keep your imagination alive. I suffer from short term memory lost. So I loose time also. So I kind of can relate. Give Oliver a kiss and a hug for me and let him know I loved his video. Thanks.
Hey! :) I was wondering how your husband deals with the different personalities. Maybe you could film a video with him? That'd be really interesting :)
Yes! How he deal with the romantic attraction or what if he wants to kiss Jess and is Ollie present as an alter. Maybe it is too personal, but I feel it most be very difficult you know? To control yourself to touch someone when you love it and those kind of stuff
It's always a pleasure seeing Ollie! He's adorable, reminds me of my little alters. This channel has really been good for me and my personalities; there are only a few youtubers that showcase this illness and seeing all of you so happy together gives me hope for my system. Sending my love 💕💖💕
Do Ollie and Jess communicate with each other? I notice that Jess isn't part of his family. If they do communicate, what does Ollie consider Jess to be to him?
I love that, not only is Gaz super accepting of all this, but that his friends are also cool enough to invite his wife’s 13 year old alter along to the movies with them. Sounds like a really cool group of people.
If you haven't done one already. I would love to see a video of your husband explaining how he handles these different Alters and what its like living in this situation. Thanks
I'm just a casual onlooker, no disorders or mental health issues (besides some mild depression and anxiety). This video made me so happy! It's interesting to have a view into a DID person's life! I knew so little coming in and now I understand it so much more! Obviously, it's not ideal but I'm glad that people like you find a happy life living with your alters! Thank you Ollie and Jess!
I'm not sure I've seen anything more fascinating! I've never been so impressed with the human mind, and what it is capable of. Is Ollies inner world ALL of the alters world? Is the inner world where the alters live when not out? Thank you so much for sharing, who knew the Sims could be such an amazing tool!!
Rebecca Fraser I don't think they share inner worlds however it would make a lot of sense if they could or do. Because how else would ed and Jamie have met got married and have a kid? lol I have so many questions
we shares fareyland is with ally ands rissa ands alex and mummy serra n.n buts it only me ands april can go to fareyland from limbo n.n daisy ands daymen ands me ands april is livs in limbo n.n dragen cave is were dragen holly livs n.n non other hollys is livs owt sides n.n xoxox
My heart melted when Ollie was bringing the tea and said “coz I’m a good Oliver” awww I also felt sad when he said he didn’t understand he couldn’t have friends when he was younger
fantastic video. Ollie has really come into his own. so mature now. lovely to see you all working so well together. Jess should be proud of you Ollie. Your a lovely well rounded lad. Jess I admire you so much if you see this. having known a long time I was the same. recently having to confirmed has been a release for me. Thanks for making this natural. love ya xxxx
......it's kinda sad to think they were born from a traumatic experience....... they are all so wonderful.......im actually sad now ;-; And Jess is such sweetheart too.............i don't know if i say,"i hope you can be just yourself one day" or "don't erase them,because they are you and you are them"...........im reaaaaaally sorry if i sound insensitive or rude.........im kinda sad now.......i hope you can have a great lIfe Jess,Ollie,Jamie,Ed and Jake.........sorry again ;-;
Why would you be sad? They found a tremendous and joyful way to cope with a trauma... Mine was (is) chronic migraines, which have just ruined my life, love-life, professional-life, social-life... basically everything. Obviously you’d wish people would never experience trauma. But if they do... well I wish I had coped this way.
I can't stop watching this video, not only is Ollie a sweetheart and funny but it's also really nice to see Gaz's relationship with each of the boys. When Gaz showed the catstranaout bedding he got for Ollie (and probably him too cause they're awesome) it was just one of the many love moments I see in your relationship. It's little things like that that make Ollie feel very happy and loved. I love and adore every part of you, thank you for educating me so much on DID and for opening my mind further to truly understanding what it's like instead of what hollywood depicts it as.
I was surprised that ed was one of the parents, dont know why but maybe he just doesn't seem like being a dad kind if that makes sence. Jamie however I wasn't surprised by, cause he seems like somebody that would be the dad. Really interesting and cool video you guys :)
It's not likely his voice will get much lower as the host body being female doesn't allow for a deeper voice as it was born female, similar to other male VS female characteristics, such as Testosterone VS Estrogen
What's the transition between personalities like? Say for example Ollie transitions to Jess. Does Jess then ask "WHat happened" or does she smoothly continue on as if she has known whats been doing on the whole time? Does Ollie question why he has to sleep in bed with another man?
She doesn't, the note was left by Jamie for when Ollie next would come forth. The thing Ollie said about the owl, yo. The others are pretty much grown and most likely don't need a list of chores to do, most adults don't, unless they write the notes for themselves to just remember them.
Not sure if you want to talk about this, but this video made me curious about Jenny. Would you ever be open to talking about her? (What she is like, why she is no longer an alter, etc.) I don't want to upset you or make you uncomfortable, though, so of course don't feel obligated.
reminded This is generally called "integration," where one alter was created to help protect or shield the host (in this case Jess, the core personality who resides in the body) due to trauma, but now they are no longer necessary for the core personality to function and they usually "fade away," and they surface less frequently until they just never come back. When someone is in therapy when they do not wish to have these alters, this is seen as a good thing, as progress. That the core personality is coping with the results of the trauma better and does not need to rely on these aspects as much. In this case, since Jess seems to have such a good relationship with her alters, I have no idea how she feels about this, if it's like losing a friend. But in a lot of cases, first the alter will stop taking control of the physical body but still reside in the headspace. Sometimes they will fade after that and others times that's just where they prefer to be. So it's possible that Jenny is in the headspace and is stable, but just not physically accessible, if that makes sense. I'm new to this channel so I'm not sure about the specifics about this system and how their inner world or headspace is structured, but those are just some general points for anyone who's curious. It is so wonderful to see a group of personalities that interact so positively with each other. From what I've seen, a lot of the time there is at least one personality that causes drama and kind of leave messes the other aspects then have to deal with, a lot of aftermath. Perpetrator and avenger alters are examples of that, either modeled after the person who hurt them (the former) or a personality that really tends to hold all the negative emotions of the trauma that happened. They remember and they are angry about it and tend to act out toward the perpetrator or just in life, being sort of aggressive wild-child types. The protector personalities end up watching these very carefully and try to mitigate the influence of these aspects. Even with those types active, anyone with DID is far far more likely to be the victim of crime than to do anything to physically hurt anyone else, despite the Hollywood stereotype. But it does cause drama, so I'm really so thrilled to have come across Jess and her alters. Ollie specially is just so sweet, and adapting very fluidly. Your question was a great one, just one of many that come up in regards to this disorder. It seems there are as many answers to it as there are people who have experienced an alter fading, so only Jess knows her situation, but I thought I'd list a few things generally accepted in psychology (Which still needs to do a lot of work for it to fully understand this phenomenon and help do justice by those who have it).
I've only watched the "meet the alters" video before this one, and as I was watching it, my shipping senses were tingling with Jaimie and Ed and I was like "no, I can't do that; they're alters which means they're real people" (I have a policy on real people and shipping: don't do it, there is only pain there). And then I started watching this and I was like "I KNEW IT I WASN'T WRONG!". Anyway, this was really enlightening to watch. I love how these videos have a very light feel to them, because I've watched a lot of videos on mental disorder/mental health topics and they have a very down and dark tone to them, always. Not that one shouldn't be serious when talking about mental health, but it's not like "this is a depressing topic that everyone, myself included, doesn't want to talk about". It's like, no! Let's talk about it! It's not all sunshine and daisies but that doesn't mean it has to have such a downtrodden tone! Anyway, thanks for all of your guy's work on these videos.
Gaz has so much compassion and understanding, it's so lovely seeing him interact with each of the alters! Just wanted to say how much I respect him as a person :)
I was skeptical at first because I've seen videos of people who supposedly have DID but they always seemed forced or fake but your videos are so genuine. I love your videos. I think all of your alters are lovely and Ollie is adorable. I want to get to know all of you better! 😁
I cant tell you how happy I am to be watching videos from you. ALL of you have helped us so much after being told we have DID. There's a total of 7 of us, all girls though. They are Melinda (the host 37) Miranda (24) Lyndee (16) Penelope (15) Kassidy (7) Sophie (5) Baby Lyndee (3) and Sophie is Two. We always knew something was wrong but we were too scared to seek help until several months ago and after talking and switching in front of our psychologist. After we were scared because we didn't fully understand what DID was and worried we'd end up locked up because of it. Well we came across your videos and used so many of your tips to talk with each other, like leaving notes and using a notebook. I helped Mel, as we call her accept us. I know I don't know you and the boys but I honestly love each and every one of you for being brave enough to make these videos to show others that we are just like everyone else.. just with more in one body. Now Does Ollie also play the sims 3? I do and I've made all of us in one house like Ollie did. I've actually got some of the others playing it now too. Though we have some fun and mess with the others saved games from time to time, have a baby or change jobs, move houses just small funny things that wont really mess up our games. I'm also happy that you have a loving and supportive husband. I do too and it's great that he's accepted all of us like your husband has all of you. Okay we're not really married yet but soon. We've been together almost 2 years so close enough and he lives with me and takes care of the little ones and even us older ones when needed. Thank you for making videos again. I missed the first ones you all made. We're looking forward to seeing more!!
Reborn Mama & Sims Oh wow! Only 7?! We have like 20 :0)) I'm amazed to see many smaller systems!! Admittedly only around 8 or so of us front and do chores and things and the others tend to stick in headspace
Watching Ollie talk about their house made me smile and I laughed out loud and smiled the whole time Gaz and Ollie were talking to each other. You all have a charming family.
OLLIE I WISH I KNEW YOU IN REAL LIFE WE'RE THE SAME AGE (based on the most recent video, youve turned 14 since this video ; so have i !!) AND YOURE SO MUCH SWEETER THAN ANY GUY IVE EVER MET youre seriously the cutest oh my goodnessssssssssssss
I knew there was a reason I kinda “shipped” Jaime and Ed when they did the alters introduction video. They have this dynamic of a couple because they’re both fathers to Ollie.
Does Ollie ever wonder why he's wearing a wedding ring? Does your husband have to treat you differently and wait until you are your host self again? Thank you so much for showing us a glimpse into your life! :)
Ollie I loved seeing how you spend your days out! I am sorry for the feeling of not being able to have friends, especially when you were really little, not understand why you weren’t able to have friends your own age. I am so thrilled you have very supportive parents! Thank you so much for sharing bits of your life with all of us. Hope you’re having a wonderful day!!!
hi ollie my name is lainy I am 12 and an ' alter ' in Elaine's system. I can get stuck here for a long long time. and I have been 12 foreverrrrrrrrrrrrr. I love art and have a craft room. please let me know if you want a new friend because I don't have any my own age. I hope you are well from lainy
haiiiiis lainy !!!! n.n me is 7 n.n is cal hollykitty and is 7 for yeers n.n but leafie is 13 but say shes 14 becaus she owt when is hannah birth day n.n hehe buts she no reely 14 hehe xoxox
I can't describe how it feels to find someone who knows exactly how I feel. I'm in an odd situation where I'm in my teen years and just this year realised I have DID, and I'm slowly figuring out about my alters that I've unknowingly lived with for years. Thank you for all that you do, and I can't wait for more videos
This is probably too personal but I'm really curious so I thought I'd tentatively ask: do all the alters have the same level of attraction towards Gaz as you (Jess) do? Can Gaz easily tell which alter is in control in the morning when you wake up?
They've all got different voices, if you've watched other videos with the alters. Jake is solidly American, Ed is very London, Ollie has the vocal patterns of a thirteen-year-old, Jamie's tone is a lot lower than Jess'. Since he's met all the alters and knows them all quite well, I'm pretty sure Gaz can tell who's who from body language alone rather quickly (and if he can't, just asking would probably suffice).
Katie Marie Gaz said in a TV interview he knows who's going to be in the body upon waking because all of them sleep differently! They've been together so long, he knows the difference between them all. And someone else already commented about all the alters' relationships with Gaz. Of course Ollie isn't romantic with him lol, they actually refer to each other as their godfather/godson!
Craw Richter so confused because aren't ed and Jaime together and Ollie's parents, so how is Jaime okay with Ed being with gaz as well? I guess they aren't exclusive. This is so interesting
If you're still curious, Jess did a video on her pregnancy journey and what that was like for each of the alters. I can't remember the title but it should be easy to find
My birthday is February 8th, 2003. So I'm the same age as you Ollie! I could probably relate to Ollie the most 😂. I love video games also! If u ever wanna talk i'm here :)
Out of my own experience, the first month can sometimes be kind of wired. It's like, my GF goes to sleep beside me and when she wakes up, she's a 5 year old girl, that want me to play with her and her Barbie. After a while, it gets pretty normal. after more than 6 month, I still wake up and have to ask "Who am I talking to right now?", just because as longer they where out, as more they speak like my gf. Only two of them keep trying to talk in there own voice (The 5 year old girl and a 15 year old boy). That's only because of they have to talk like my gf, because not everybody should know about it. Long story short, it gets very fast normal. Hope you can read my weak English. And I hope it answers your question :)
I'd really be concerned about the whole sex life situation. o.o Like, what if she has an alter that's also an adult female that wants to score with you and you're not really sleeping with your girl?
I came back to one of my favorite videos by my puzzles and pieces family needing the goodness and happiness that is Ollie as my day and last night was mentally hard for me, and The bestest Oliver is always a mood lifter!!!
How would the alters feel if jess became pregnant, after a few months they couldn't create the illusion that they are male. Would all the alter have to agree to having a baby?
B Moore The concept of having children is addressed in the Q&A video Jake did on the channel recently, but he never talked about pregnancy, only raising a child!
We would like to say that Gaz is not admirable because of how he "deals with your disorder", but because you can see the true love in his eyes when he talks about you guys. Likewise, we can see love for him in your eyes, and believe fully that you all do just as much to enrich his life and support him through his tough times. Thank you for the beautiful videos.
All of your alters are the purest people I have ever witnessed (yourself included, jess) it's so cool that you all have developed a system for different things!
you guys (hhaha cause honestly it was a team effort between all of you alters) have really really changed my perspective on DID. I always thought it was something quite scary and mentally challenging :/ . But meeting Ollie, Jamie, Ed, Jake, you Jess it makes me realize that people with DID and their alters can be pretty normal. And Fun! It's like having this whole family to yourself. ^_^ I hope you guys continue to make these awesome vids and share to the world your experiences because it really is an eye-opener and can really end the stigma. ^_^ Do say hi to Ollie for Me, I enjoyed his video today.
"I dont have sugar because I'm already sweet." -The best thing Ollie has said on camera haha
"and now for the tea bringing because i'm a good oliver" SO CUTE
Arianna Mountain I loved that part so much haha
Arianna Mountain literally made my day.
My mom says that all the time😂😂😂 he made me happy saying that.
Ari Mountain my mums partner says that
"And now for the tea bringing. Because I am a good Oliver... Dun dun dun dun dun" Oh Ollie, you sweet adorable soul
I thought he said good alater lol
Unorthodox Cat He did. Or at least that’s what I heard.
Carly Thomas nah he definitely said oliver
Is Ollie’s full name Oliver I wonder
Sparklight 0 yes it is
I love how Gaz opens his eyes after Ollie brings him the tea, and just sleepily mutters "Hi Ol". Obviously he knew it was Ollie bringing him the tea. I'm sure no one else in the system calls him "Gaz Gaz". Also Ollie has his own voice/personality/mannerisms, so it was obviously Ollie.
no one said it wasn’t
True that, but sometimes the alts hide their presence. Does Ollie just not do that with Gaz to prevent other issues, or is it something Gaz has learned to be on his toes about?
@@BSpinoza210 the system probably feels safe and comfortable enough around Gaz to be themselves
@@BSpinoza210 if I remember right I think in a video it said that Ollie says the first time he fronted was when he was with Gaz looking at sweets ina store. I'd recommend watching the video about having a partner with DID since Gaz talks about how he met all the boys.
yes
*Ollie talking about how when he was younger he didn't understand why he couldn't have friends but he's fine with it now*
;-; I'm not crying ur crying
These ninjas cutting onions.
I know I was thinking "gosh all I want for this kid is for him to play in the park with friends"
I know that this is serious but...
To be fair I never really played in parks and I’m pretty sure every kid in my neighbourhood is an introvert.
Poor Ollie 😭
yeah
Gaz: are you ok?
Ollie: yeah!
Gaz: what're you doing?
Ollie: nothing!
Typical teen when they accidentally knock over something. 😆
That was the biggest teen energy
I love how Ollie made actual Sims characters and an actual house for all of his family, that’s cute.
Belle Rose OH MY GOSH IT IS SO HARD! Our host tried to make us one time, and it was so hard because they dont have what I wear, and the hair never matches. It makes us all giggle but we never get an accrate us.😂
@@glitterlover3244 lol
"Are you okay?" "Yes" "what are you doing?" "Nothing!" That cracked me up
me too! haha!
Really reminds me of the kid in them. You know, a wife would just casually explain they dropped the camera. A young kid will be all “nothing!!” To keep from getting in trouble lol
Literally like every one of us at 13 lmfao
Literally me :v
His voice genuinely sounds 13 it's so strange in a good way but so cool
I'd love a video on what marriage is like when you have DID! Maybe a Q&A with your partner?
Molly Burke ah I know this was a year ago but it’s awesome to see you here Molly. I love your videos and I watch your videos and all sorts of chronic illness and mental illness channels, that’s what I want to start my channel on, plus lgbtq+ issues.
I love you Molly!!!
Sup molly well she can see this so ....
Molly Burke I'm kinda surprised to see you here I love your channel
I came to comment on this cause I was thinking the same thing @Molly Burke and then I noticed it was you I’m a huge fan!!!
“Gaz gaz”
“Yeah?”
“I made you tea :3”
*ollie throws blanket towards camera knocking it down* “are you okay? What are you doing?” - Gaz “nothing” - Ollie lol I found this super cute for some reason 😂
Its like went you were younger and you knocked something down by doing something stupid or something you WEREN'T supposed to be doing and your mom or adult figure says "what are you doing" and you quickly say NOTHING!!! Like they actually believe you😂😂😂😂
This is my favorite video from jess's alters but can we talk about how amazing the architecture of the Sims house Ollie created?! All I ever built was rooms without doors and pools without ladders 😂
I was really appreciating that Ollie took the time to manifest that kind of space out here in a way for us to get an idea of their home life. "Sweet enough," indeed!
Can you imagine how long hes been planning that? Like, he didnt build that in one day. That took forever!
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Oh god xD
I love how Gaz is accepting of Jess and the others
I really like Oliver. When I first started watching this it was mid morning and I thought to myself why isn't Oliver in school. I think that's because I'm a mom. Then I remembered he's an Alter. I really like that he plays the SIMS so do I even though I'm old. It really helps keep your imagination alive. I suffer from short term memory lost. So I loose time also. So I kind of can relate. Give Oliver a kiss and a hug for me and let him know I loved his video. Thanks.
you, pal, are a good and wholesome person, dont let anyone tell u otherwise 💕
Smol Meow yeah she’s a great person
Also It's a Sunday!
awww ollie's little laugh is so cute + the owl system for the fridge is very smart!! did jamie come up with it?
His laugh is sooo cute dude aaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
dreamistar I know I love his laugh so much! it's great. Also, yeah that is very smart
dreamistar honestly it seems like Jamie comes up with most of these ideas
Yes!
it's so fascinating that Ollie, even in Jess's body, looks like a boy (just from his face) and obviously a teenage boy. How cool is that? !
Hey! :) I was wondering how your husband deals with the different personalities. Maybe you could film a video with him? That'd be really interesting :)
I agree that would be awesome!!
did you watch until the end?
yep^^
katti moon i
Yes! How he deal with the romantic attraction or what if he wants to kiss Jess and is Ollie present as an alter. Maybe it is too personal, but I feel it most be very difficult you know? To control yourself to touch someone when you love it and those kind of stuff
I love that Ollie points out that he wishes he had an aquarium like the one in his Sims game.
It feels like just yesterday that Ollie was 10. His voice is a little deeper too! I'm glad he's growing up so much and so well.
And now for the tea bringing. Because I am a good Oliver
yes yes, a very good Oliver indeed!!
It's always a pleasure seeing Ollie! He's adorable, reminds me of my little alters. This channel has really been good for me and my personalities; there are only a few youtubers that showcase this illness and seeing all of you so happy together gives me hope for my system. Sending my love 💕💖💕
The relationship between Ollie and Gaz is so sweet.
Do Ollie and Jess communicate with each other? I notice that Jess isn't part of his family. If they do communicate, what does Ollie consider Jess to be to him?
ssshikari23 from what I’ve gathered, Jess can’t enter the inner world, and the inner world versions of the alters don’t know that Jess exists.
In one of the videos when discussing food,I believe Jamie said he eats like a boy instead of a girl. "Poor Jess" he had said.
I love that, not only is Gaz super accepting of all this, but that his friends are also cool enough to invite his wife’s 13 year old alter along to the movies with them. Sounds like a really cool group of people.
If you haven't done one already. I would love to see a video of your husband explaining how he handles these different Alters and what its like living in this situation. Thanks
There is a larger documentory on her where Gaz is also talking about how he's dealing with it.
This “Disfunction “
Is the most functional family I’ve ever seen !! 🤯
Also, the fiance is just fantastic. Buying those covers for Ollie. Aaaadorable.
"And now for the tea bringing! Cause I'm a good Oliver!"
That made me giggle!
Hello me from a year ago
@@Mikachu1994 Hello you from 11 months ago
I'm just a casual onlooker, no disorders or mental health issues (besides some mild depression and anxiety). This video made me so happy! It's interesting to have a view into a DID person's life! I knew so little coming in and now I understand it so much more! Obviously, it's not ideal but I'm glad that people like you find a happy life living with your alters! Thank you Ollie and Jess!
Same except adhd
I would love another day with Ollie now that he's a bit older. This has been hilarious and fun!
"Haha. Cup is washed." 🤣
I'm not sure I've seen anything more fascinating! I've never been so impressed with the human mind, and what it is capable of. Is Ollies inner world ALL of the alters world? Is the inner world where the alters live when not out? Thank you so much for sharing, who knew the Sims could be such an amazing tool!!
Rebecca Fraser I would love to know that too!
Rebecca Fraser I don't think they share inner worlds however it would make a lot of sense if they could or do. Because how else would ed and Jamie have met got married and have a kid? lol I have so many questions
i think alters do share an inner world? i don't know for sure and its different for different systems but some do
we shares fareyland is with ally ands rissa ands alex and mummy serra n.n buts it only me ands april can go to fareyland from limbo n.n daisy ands daymen ands me ands april is livs in limbo n.n dragen cave is were dragen holly livs n.n non other hollys is livs owt sides n.n xoxox
Sorry for late reply // Yes, and yes. I have it myself so I can confirm
My heart melted when Ollie was bringing the tea and said “coz I’m a good Oliver” awww I also felt sad when he said he didn’t understand he couldn’t have friends when he was younger
fantastic video. Ollie has really come into his own. so mature now. lovely to see you all working so well together. Jess should be proud of you Ollie. Your a lovely well rounded lad. Jess I admire you so much if you see this. having known a long time I was the same. recently having to confirmed has been a release for me. Thanks for making this natural. love ya xxxx
Thank you so much dawn! That's so lovely 💕
OMG you replied. Thank you. Made my day. Im also a fellow Welshy who has a husband called Gareth lol. #twinning :) #welshandproud
ollie at 13: does house chores
me at 13: just one more episode of this anime...
Ollie's grown up so much!!
......it's kinda sad to think they were born from a traumatic experience....... they are all so wonderful.......im actually sad now ;-;
And Jess is such sweetheart too.............i don't know if i say,"i hope you can be just yourself one day" or "don't erase them,because they are you and you are them"...........im reaaaaaally sorry if i sound insensitive or rude.........im kinda sad now.......i hope you can have a great lIfe Jess,Ollie,Jamie,Ed and Jake.........sorry again ;-;
I think you did just fine :)
Why would you be sad? They found a tremendous and joyful way to cope with a trauma... Mine was (is) chronic migraines, which have just ruined my life, love-life, professional-life, social-life... basically everything. Obviously you’d wish people would never experience trauma. But if they do... well I wish I had coped this way.
Well, if it makes you feel better, in their 360° video we're told that Ollie is a trauma-free alter
Camille Givert, I think she is just sad that she had gone through trauma. thats what she meant.
They remember the trauma really all 5 of these consciousness protects them from the trauma
Tell Ollie thanks for sharing this. It was great!
I can't stop watching this video, not only is Ollie a sweetheart and funny but it's also really nice to see Gaz's relationship with each of the boys. When Gaz showed the catstranaout bedding he got for Ollie (and probably him too cause they're awesome) it was just one of the many love moments I see in your relationship. It's little things like that that make Ollie feel very happy and loved. I love and adore every part of you, thank you for educating me so much on DID and for opening my mind further to truly understanding what it's like instead of what hollywood depicts it as.
I was surprised that ed was one of the parents, dont know why but maybe he just doesn't seem like being a dad kind if that makes sence.
Jamie however I wasn't surprised by, cause he seems like somebody that would be the dad.
Really interesting and cool video you guys :)
Erik selin ed is still more feminine and more motherly-ish I'd think.
Erik selin plus ed and jamie have been dating for 12 years.
Erik selin Why don't Ollie consider Jess as his mother? Why two dads?
monjapuppy2009 bc Jamie is bi and Ed is gay.
monjapuppy2009 because alters basically all share the body. jess is just another alter to ollie, not a mom
As Ollie is an alter that ages up, will he go through "puberty" and have his voice go lower in the future? Do some alters go through that?
I mean Ed Jake and Jamie are in their 20s and they all have similar depths to their voices, just different tones and accents.
She said alters can be stuck in time. I believe meaning they don't age.
I commented too soon. I bet his voice will start to change
It's not likely his voice will get much lower as the host body being female doesn't allow for a deeper voice as it was born female, similar to other male VS female characteristics, such as Testosterone VS Estrogen
his voice has started to change though!! as he's gotten older, he's beginning to sound a lot more like jamie
wow seeing how your husband deals with personnalities is so interesting you should let him more in your vlog !!
The fridge thing is blowing my mind, "its how we tell each other things" with color coordinated owl magnets like woah
What's the transition between personalities like? Say for example Ollie transitions to Jess. Does Jess then ask "WHat happened" or does she smoothly continue on as if she has known whats been doing on the whole time? Does Ollie question why he has to sleep in bed with another man?
Candice R i've been wondering the same thing! pls answer :)
how does she know what alter she's going to wake up as? the note on the fridge was left for Ollie, but that if another alter had "woken up"?
Candice R they said in the meet the alters video that Jamie plans who will come out and when they will
She doesn't, the note was left by Jamie for when Ollie next would come forth. The thing Ollie said about the owl, yo. The others are pretty much grown and most likely don't need a list of chores to do, most adults don't, unless they write the notes for themselves to just remember them.
where does jess go when one comes out?
Oh no ollie is too precious
Not sure if you want to talk about this, but this video made me curious about Jenny. Would you ever be open to talking about her? (What she is like, why she is no longer an alter, etc.) I don't want to upset you or make you uncomfortable, though, so of course don't feel obligated.
reminded This is generally called "integration," where one alter was created to help protect or shield the host (in this case Jess, the core personality who resides in the body) due to trauma, but now they are no longer necessary for the core personality to function and they usually "fade away," and they surface less frequently until they just never come back. When someone is in therapy when they do not wish to have these alters, this is seen as a good thing, as progress. That the core personality is coping with the results of the trauma better and does not need to rely on these aspects as much. In this case, since Jess seems to have such a good relationship with her alters, I have no idea how she feels about this, if it's like losing a friend. But in a lot of cases, first the alter will stop taking control of the physical body but still reside in the headspace. Sometimes they will fade after that and others times that's just where they prefer to be. So it's possible that Jenny is in the headspace and is stable, but just not physically accessible, if that makes sense. I'm new to this channel so I'm not sure about the specifics about this system and how their inner world or headspace is structured, but those are just some general points for anyone who's curious. It is so wonderful to see a group of personalities that interact so positively with each other. From what I've seen, a lot of the time there is at least one personality that causes drama and kind of leave messes the other aspects then have to deal with, a lot of aftermath. Perpetrator and avenger alters are examples of that, either modeled after the person who hurt them (the former) or a personality that really tends to hold all the negative emotions of the trauma that happened. They remember and they are angry about it and tend to act out toward the perpetrator or just in life, being sort of aggressive wild-child types. The protector personalities end up watching these very carefully and try to mitigate the influence of these aspects. Even with those types active, anyone with DID is far far more likely to be the victim of crime than to do anything to physically hurt anyone else, despite the Hollywood stereotype. But it does cause drama, so I'm really so thrilled to have come across Jess and her alters. Ollie specially is just so sweet, and adapting very fluidly. Your question was a great one, just one of many that come up in regards to this disorder. It seems there are as many answers to it as there are people who have experienced an alter fading, so only Jess knows her situation, but I thought I'd list a few things generally accepted in psychology (Which still needs to do a lot of work for it to fully understand this phenomenon and help do justice by those who have it).
Chronically Curious Wow that's fascinating. Thanks so much for sharing!
It's so cute when ollie calls his fathers daddy and dad and jake as uncle jakee..... SO CUTE.. SO SOFTTTR
I've only watched the "meet the alters" video before this one, and as I was watching it, my shipping senses were tingling with Jaimie and Ed and I was like "no, I can't do that; they're alters which means they're real people" (I have a policy on real people and shipping: don't do it, there is only pain there). And then I started watching this and I was like "I KNEW IT I WASN'T WRONG!".
Anyway, this was really enlightening to watch. I love how these videos have a very light feel to them, because I've watched a lot of videos on mental disorder/mental health topics and they have a very down and dark tone to them, always. Not that one shouldn't be serious when talking about mental health, but it's not like "this is a depressing topic that everyone, myself included, doesn't want to talk about". It's like, no! Let's talk about it! It's not all sunshine and daisies but that doesn't mean it has to have such a downtrodden tone!
Anyway, thanks for all of your guy's work on these videos.
This is exactly how I feel too! There's enough negativity and bad times - so let's shine! 😊
Wtf is shipping!?
@@remmilayne6153 😂 Pairing two people together that you want in a romantic relationship typically done with fictional characters.
“I don’t have sugar cos I’m sweet enough!” Love it! You earned a subscriber 💕
i just noticed that jamie and ollie have different writing styles, it's so amazing!
Simona Nachname Most systems do that, its often finding notes in other hand writing that makes people realise the MPD/DID
Gaz has so much compassion and understanding, it's so lovely seeing him interact with each of the alters! Just wanted to say how much I respect him as a person :)
I was skeptical at first because I've seen videos of people who supposedly have DID but they always seemed forced or fake but your videos are so genuine. I love your videos. I think all of your alters are lovely and Ollie is adorable. I want to get to know all of you better! 😁
"But there's only 1 cup! hahaha!"
My younger brother use to laugh like that when there were hardly any dishes.
I love how Ollie was about to make the inner world with the Sims I think thats really cool ^_^
What an amazing husband! That's what true love is all about! God bless you two
I cant tell you how happy I am to be watching videos from you. ALL of you have helped us so much after being told we have DID. There's a total of 7 of us, all girls though. They are Melinda (the host 37) Miranda (24) Lyndee (16) Penelope (15) Kassidy (7) Sophie (5) Baby Lyndee (3) and Sophie is Two. We always knew something was wrong but we were too scared to seek help until several months ago and after talking and switching in front of our psychologist. After we were scared because we didn't fully understand what DID was and worried we'd end up locked up because of it. Well we came across your videos and used so many of your tips to talk with each other, like leaving notes and using a notebook. I helped Mel, as we call her accept us. I know I don't know you and the boys but I honestly love each and every one of you for being brave enough to make these videos to show others that we are just like everyone else.. just with more in one body.
Now Does Ollie also play the sims 3? I do and I've made all of us in one house like Ollie did. I've actually got some of the others playing it now too. Though we have some fun and mess with the others saved games from time to time, have a baby or change jobs, move houses just small funny things that wont really mess up our games. I'm also happy that you have a loving and supportive husband. I do too and it's great that he's accepted all of us like your husband has all of you. Okay we're not really married yet but soon. We've been together almost 2 years so close enough and he lives with me and takes care of the little ones and even us older ones when needed. Thank you for making videos again. I missed the first ones you all made. We're looking forward to seeing more!!
Reborn Mama & Sims my name is Kassidy with a K thats so cool
Yay more reborn mommies!!
Reborn Mama & Sims Oh wow! Only 7?! We have like 20 :0)) I'm amazed to see many smaller systems!! Admittedly only around 8 or so of us front and do chores and things and the others tend to stick in headspace
Ohhhh I didn’t realize the Sims house was his inner word house. That’s so cool!
I loved this!! I love how you created (the best you could) your inner world house for us to see on your game. I really appreciate that. So cool!
I also have DID and I had no idea there were youtubers with it, this makes me really happy! Hello there!
Hello fellow DID-er! 😊👋🏻
omg, hello! Instantly had to subscribe to you, fellow DID-er! your channel is amazing!
ollie seems like one cute alter. all of your alters are so kind and sweet people ❤
RJ Entities* not people, as they can't physically exist.
I love how Gas gaz hollers up to Ollie when he hears a noise just the same as I do with my son!!!
"Now for the tea bringing.... Cuz I'm a good Oliver." OMIGOD THAS ADORABLE
Watching Ollie talk about their house made me smile and I laughed out loud and smiled the whole time Gaz and Ollie were talking to each other. You all have a charming family.
Ollie you're absolutely adorable! this brightened my morning
OLLIE I WISH I KNEW YOU IN REAL LIFE
WE'RE THE SAME AGE (based on the most recent video, youve turned 14 since this video ; so have i !!) AND YOURE SO MUCH SWEETER THAN ANY GUY IVE EVER MET
youre seriously the cutest oh my goodnessssssssssssss
Lmao I was just about to comment basically this exact same thing 😂
Ollie's so sweet, fantastic video
I knew there was a reason I kinda “shipped” Jaime and Ed when they did the alters introduction video. They have this dynamic of a couple because they’re both fathers to Ollie.
Wow, Ollie has gotten so mature! It was a bit of a shock. He's such a striking and amazing lad, it's nice to see him begin to come into his own!
I love how Ollies accent is literally just a mix of his dads, its so cute
because I'm a good oliver
Whenever I think of your system, I think of that big house Ollie made.
I'm a 14 year old alter, my host is 21 and there's a 7 y/o alter too. I really loved watching this, Ollie!
I love how Ollie’s godfather is so caring to him and fun with him I just love there relationship with each other
Does Ollie ever wonder why he's wearing a wedding ring? Does your husband have to treat you differently and wait until you are your host self again? Thank you so much for showing us a glimpse into your life! :)
Ollie I loved seeing how you spend your days out! I am sorry for the feeling of not being able to have friends, especially when you were really little, not understand why you weren’t able to have friends your own age. I am so thrilled you have very supportive parents! Thank you so much for sharing bits of your life with all of us. Hope you’re having a wonderful day!!!
hi ollie my name is lainy I am 12 and an ' alter ' in Elaine's system. I can get stuck here for a long long time. and I have been 12 foreverrrrrrrrrrrrr. I love art and have a craft room. please let me know if you want a new friend because I don't have any my own age. I hope you are well from lainy
Elaine Fox I have a question, how old is the host
haiiiiis lainy !!!! n.n me is 7 n.n is cal hollykitty and is 7 for yeers n.n but leafie is 13 but say shes 14 becaus she owt when is hannah birth day n.n hehe buts she no reely 14 hehe xoxox
im curious too
"I'm a good Alter."
YES YOU ARE CHILD. YES. YOU. ARE. T_T
I can't describe how it feels to find someone who knows exactly how I feel. I'm in an odd situation where I'm in my teen years and just this year realised I have DID, and I'm slowly figuring out about my alters that I've unknowingly lived with for years. Thank you for all that you do, and I can't wait for more videos
"Now the bringing of the tea, because I am a good oliver" OMG I'M JUST IN LOVE I LOVE YOU OLLIE!!!
This is probably too personal but I'm really curious so I thought I'd tentatively ask: do all the alters have the same level of attraction towards Gaz as you (Jess) do? Can Gaz easily tell which alter is in control in the morning when you wake up?
yes i want to know how Gaz knows which alter is in control
They've all got different voices, if you've watched other videos with the alters. Jake is solidly American, Ed is very London, Ollie has the vocal patterns of a thirteen-year-old, Jamie's tone is a lot lower than Jess'. Since he's met all the alters and knows them all quite well, I'm pretty sure Gaz can tell who's who from body language alone rather quickly (and if he can't, just asking would probably suffice).
Honestly I was wondering the same thing.
Katie Marie Gaz said in a TV interview he knows who's going to be in the body upon waking because all of them sleep differently! They've been together so long, he knows the difference between them all. And someone else already commented about all the alters' relationships with Gaz. Of course Ollie isn't romantic with him lol, they actually refer to each other as their godfather/godson!
Craw Richter so confused because aren't ed and Jaime together and Ollie's parents, so how is Jaime okay with Ed being with gaz as well? I guess they aren't exclusive. This is so interesting
I’m curious of how the alters will react; if the host ( in this case a female) get pregnant.
Yeah, I know Jess and Gaz said they both want kids. I'm curious as to how that's going to work out.
Maybe they simply won't go out as often as before during the pregnancy... I really don't know. What I wonder is "who will give birth?"
She has a kid now
@@trekadouble757 I'd assume it would be Jess, but, I wouldn't know.
If you're still curious, Jess did a video on her pregnancy journey and what that was like for each of the alters. I can't remember the title but it should be easy to find
My birthday is February 8th, 2003. So I'm the same age as you Ollie! I could probably relate to Ollie the most 😂. I love video games also! If u ever wanna talk i'm here :)
I love Ollie’s laugh! It’s so natural and different!
That was f****** amazing! I cannot believe the clear distinction between the two personalities.
I absolutely adore Ollie!!! It feels like he's an absolutely adorable little brother 🥰
It must be weird for him being in a married woman's body and waking up to a grown man on his side.
He was probably told by Jamie and Ed about everything, so I doubt its weird. He also didn't seem weirded out when he woke up either.
Aetona in the interview he said that he can tell because they all sleep differently.
Out of my own experience, the first month can sometimes be kind of wired. It's like, my GF goes to sleep beside me and when she wakes up, she's a 5 year old girl, that want me to play with her and her Barbie. After a while, it gets pretty normal. after more than 6 month, I still wake up and have to ask "Who am I talking to right now?", just because as longer they where out, as more they speak like my gf. Only two of them keep trying to talk in there own voice (The 5 year old girl and a 15 year old boy). That's only because of they have to talk like my gf, because not everybody should know about it. Long story short, it gets very fast normal. Hope you can read my weak English. And I hope it answers your question :)
Well he's 13 so he's not really grown
I'd really be concerned about the whole sex life situation. o.o Like, what if she has an alter that's also an adult female that wants to score with you and you're not really sleeping with your girl?
Ollie seems to have the GREENEST eyes out of all of the alters and Jake’s appear more blue. This is definitely mind blowing.
"Now for the tea bringing, because I'm a good Oliver"
My heart melted ❤😍😭
I came back to one of my favorite videos by my puzzles and pieces family needing the goodness and happiness that is Ollie as my day and last night was mentally hard for me, and The bestest Oliver is always a mood lifter!!!
How would the alters feel if jess became pregnant, after a few months they couldn't create the illusion that they are male. Would all the alter have to agree to having a baby?
B Moore That's an interesting thing. And a question I would also like answered.
B Moore The concept of having children is addressed in the Q&A video Jake did on the channel recently, but he never talked about pregnancy, only raising a child!
Funny she has a baby now
And what would happen if one of the alters was in control when she went into labour?🤯
Awesome Person omg could you imagine Ollie during
labor?? How do you think that worked out?
We would like to say that Gaz is not admirable because of how he "deals with your disorder", but because you can see the true love in his eyes when he talks about you guys. Likewise, we can see love for him in your eyes, and believe fully that you all do just as much to enrich his life and support him through his tough times. Thank you for the beautiful videos.
OLLIE WAS SO LITTLE 😩 so cute!!!
I wanted to cry when Ollie showed his Sims family! It was so sweet, he is such a pure bean ❤
"I don't have sugar because I'm sweet enough." I love him omg
All of your alters are the purest people I have ever witnessed (yourself included, jess) it's so cool that you all have developed a system for different things!
.....now i think I can ship alters.....ED X JAMIE its the total package....I ship it LOL
saaame
YES!!!!!
otp! i wanna write a fanfiction about them and their kid Ollie now ^_^
Ed and Jamie are married and Ollie is their son
It's like the cutest thing ever!
My how this sweet little sprout has grown. His voice has always been silky smooth, but now that he’s 16, it’s so soft and deep. Just.. wow.
"I don't have sugar because I'm sweet enough" this is very true
Jamie writing notes for Ollie is the most mind blowing thing for me, it's like I'm watching memento all over again
you guys (hhaha cause honestly it was a team effort between all of you alters) have really really changed my perspective on DID. I always thought it was something quite scary and mentally challenging :/ . But meeting Ollie, Jamie, Ed, Jake, you Jess it makes me realize that people with DID and their alters can be pretty normal. And Fun! It's like having this whole family to yourself. ^_^ I hope you guys continue to make these awesome vids and share to the world your experiences because it really is an eye-opener and can really end the stigma. ^_^ Do say hi to Ollie for Me, I enjoyed his video today.
ollie’s relationship with the jamie and ed remind me of my relationship with my alter seto :)