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  • Опубликовано: 2 авг 2024
  • One of the largest porn sites online gets nearly 2.5 million visitors per hour. A few years ago, that website logged 4.4 billion hours of viewing. That's half a million years, on one website! What is going on here? Why are we so attracted to pornography and why is it so addicting? In this video, we're gonna take a look.
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Комментарии • 191

  • @ArturoCabello
    @ArturoCabello 3 года назад +132

    It is a curse. Porn only takes and destroys.

    • @dandylion2837
      @dandylion2837 3 года назад +25

      Porn can’t hug you, kiss you, cry with you, start a family with you...
      yes I have realised this too, being 320 days free now by Jesus Grace, that is ...
      porn can do NOTHING for you, as you said it can only take and destroy.
      It breaks your identity and hurts your soul.

    • @marekauk3758
      @marekauk3758 Год назад +4

      if drugs and booz only took and destroyed why would anybody be interested in it ?? notice the title of the vid .... and now ask yourself if the author of the vid did answer the question. did he ?? I'm not justifying use of this or that .. but think for one moment: even if use of porn is a coping mechanism for so many people that means it "makes the job done" (at least for the time being) - not glorifying. just answering the main question for the author.

  • @thecatholiccorner
    @thecatholiccorner 3 года назад +57

    Porn is the definition of evil. I hope and pray one day it will be abolished completely...

  • @noahperri9167
    @noahperri9167 3 года назад +130

    I wish more young people knew about theology of the body.

    • @intedominesperavi6036
      @intedominesperavi6036 3 года назад +4

      Yes, that would have been great. But I'm so so thankful for the healing I can experience now.

    • @noahperri9167
      @noahperri9167 3 года назад +1

      @Jabari Cambridge Theology of the Body clears the confusion that teenagers face and allows them to avoid a lot of pain and suffering

    • @carlswindelliv2701
      @carlswindelliv2701 3 года назад +8

      The rosary will heal u of decades upon decades of sin!!!!!!!!!!

    • @maryelizabethhuber
      @maryelizabethhuber 3 года назад +6

      I’m 27 and I’m so glad I found this!

    • @noahperri9167
      @noahperri9167 3 года назад +1

      @@maryelizabethhuber I'm glad you found it too

  • @pietropanetta3329
    @pietropanetta3329 Год назад +25

    Thank you Christopher for this video. It helps me in my fight against my susceptibility to masturbation and porn. Oddly enough, when I refrain from these solitary activities, I find that my interactions with my wife and women generally are more positive. My appreciation of their sexual attractiveness rises from my genitals to my heart and the experience of lust is replaced by a strong experience of love and protectiveness. Having a woman's friendship is far more blissful than the lonely experience of personal gratification, either vicariously through porn or in real life, through one-night stands.

  • @RocknRoRose
    @RocknRoRose 3 года назад +28

    thank you for addressing this Christopher. Women deal with this same thing too. Not just men. Many women and men have dealt with this at such young ages. At my age I was definitely too young to view pornography and such similar magazines when I can remember cardboard covers in local small village shoppes in the 1990s. Even Mother Angelica spoke against pornography on EWTN mentioning this was a problem even 75 years ago. So it's not even our generation to blame. Not even Mother Angelica's generation but the generation before her. So of course we have been fighting against it. We must continue to fight against it. And continue to mentor the young and more adults to avoid such wrongful acts of love.

    • @RocknRoRose
      @RocknRoRose 3 года назад +2

      you are very right with the man's body but also the woman's body. as woman is image of motherhood. Fatherhood and motherhood whether it be for a new planet, a new earth, a new heaven continuously and eternal. Why we must also stop abortion and unwanted sex.

    • @dalelerette206
      @dalelerette206 Год назад

      Speaking literally, I don't think anyone reads the Song of Solomon these days. Many Scriptural phrases were inspired from the use of a double entendre that conflated spiritual salvation with sexual pleasures. This was developed in Hebrew thought and has been continued in Islamic thought. Many modern generations have made such an effort to 'sanitize' the Scriptures it often leaves the reader with a distorted view of sexuality that border's on the bizarre. #TheologyoftheBody 💝

    • @dalelerette206
      @dalelerette206 11 месяцев назад

      @@jamesmccloud7535 Thank you for asking.
      One Reddit user said, “The argument that it is only an extended metaphor for Christ's relationship with his church is too tortured to hold weight.” I too would argue that some erotica is acceptable, and even helpful, in fostering a healthy sexual life. Pornography could be good if it is used as a marital aid to bear children. The evil of pornography is when pornography leads to abortion. Pornography could be good when it is used to raise babies. The Song of Solomon is one of the most blessed books in a sexual sense.
      If you prayerfully meditate on the Samaritan woman Jesus spoke with at the well (as recorded in the Scriptures), we are reminded that everyone is a chosen person to God and that He first seeks each one of us, no matter where we are on our journey as He asks “Give me a drink,” He thirsts for our souls. Pope Benedict XVI says that this request “expresses the passion of God for every man and woman and wishes to awaken in our hearts the desire for a gift of a spring of water within welling up to eternal life.” In the Catechism of the Catholic Church the request is described in paragraph 2560 as, “It is He who first seeks us and asks us for a drink. Jesus thirsts; His asking arises from the depths of God’s desire [love] for us…God thirsts that we may thirst for Him.”
      The Church has always maintained that the symbolism of marriage exists throughout the Hebrew Scriptures. If I remember correctly, it was Bishop Fulton Sheen who described the water and blood that flowed out of Christ as "Seminal fluid."

  • @anthonytoujours9182
    @anthonytoujours9182 3 года назад +7

    Bring it into the light.
    Thank you for your work!

  • @kaistigerboy
    @kaistigerboy 3 года назад +16

    That was awesome thanks for your insight , definitely makes you self examine your conscience , sometimes as Christians we can be deceiving ourselves and not even realise how bound we are to something in our lives .
    Ave Maria from Australia

  • @mpopa5673
    @mpopa5673 Год назад +1

    Very profound explanation !
    GOD BLESS YOU !

  • @luis_techie
    @luis_techie 3 года назад

    Amazing video, thank you!

  • @MrJDadBlack
    @MrJDadBlack Год назад +18

    Please continue to pray and keep putting out the knowledge and truth about our sexuality in these videos!!!! I often find myself greatly overjoyed when I hear the truth about our sexual identity in God. Either I’m finding out what I’m missing, or I’m feeling a renewed and overwhelming sense of pure joy about my own sexuality and my marital relationship with my wife! I pray for the Holy Family to continue blessing this channel and your life! And thank you for all your work Mr. and Mrs. West!!! ❤ 🕊️

  • @christianfelcyn4159
    @christianfelcyn4159 11 месяцев назад

    Excellent teaching thank you and God bless.

  • @philipnavin7402
    @philipnavin7402 3 года назад

    Always awesome videos

  • @44joseantony75
    @44joseantony75 3 года назад +5

    Let lord help you in this venture.Great thanks for spreading the good news this message was released at correct time by the Lord.Let god bless you

  • @CuongLe-qm1uy
    @CuongLe-qm1uy 2 года назад +33

    Awesome Dr. West. Pornography almost destroyed my marriage 14 years ago if it wasn’t for the Blessed Mother who intervened during my pilgrimage to Medjugorje. All Catholics should know TOB.

    • @lavidaesbella_
      @lavidaesbella_ Год назад +1

      Please help me, I’m going thru that at this time, my husband is on the next step, he was texting and meeting with girls, I’m devastated

    • @juliusrendon5936
      @juliusrendon5936 Год назад +1

      ​@@lavidaesbella_all you can do is to pray the Rosary and its better if you INVITE HIM TO PRAY WITH YOU set a time a before sleep or in the dawn at 3am or in the morning GOD PROMISED MOTHER MARY WILL HELP US IF WE PRAY THE ROSARY

    • @lavidaesbella_
      @lavidaesbella_ Год назад +3

      @@juliusrendon5936 amen 🙏🏼
      Yes we pray the rosary daily
      On his way to work
      Thank God we are doing better

    • @michaellemmen
      @michaellemmen Год назад

      Satanic theology but glad your marriage wasn’t destroyed

    • @juliusrendon5936
      @juliusrendon5936 Год назад +2

      @@michaellemmen 🤣

  • @AquinasBased
    @AquinasBased 13 дней назад

    Great video

  • @aleksandarjovcic
    @aleksandarjovcic 6 месяцев назад

    I can’t believe that I am able to learn this for free, thank you so much Christopher.

  • @smokingcrab2290
    @smokingcrab2290 Год назад +20

    I just get so frustrated because I feel like my desires will never actually be fulfilled. Even in marriage. Idk what to do.

    • @DavyF
      @DavyF Год назад +11

      You need to ask yourself what these desires are and what place they are coming from. Are they desires that come from a place where God is present and his spirit unites love during the physical connection, or do they come from a place that only fulfills a rather fleshly desire as a commodity. A commodity that can be synonymous with other commodities like listening to music or watching movies. In this fleshly desire that commodifies sex, you focus on what you can take from the partner to "fulfill your desire", rather than what you can give to please them as an act of love. Sex is not a commodity because it's purpose is not to take for ones own gratification like a song, movie, or a snack. In the act of marital sex with the one that you love and vow your life to, you give yourself to them and they give themselves to you. You give yourself and expect nothing in return because you love your partner so much, and they give back to you because they love you back. This next point is the number one most important way to think of sex and remember this because it will help understand the difference between good sexual desire that comes from God and bad desire that needs to be forgotten. Every time you think about sex or see someone that you want to have sex with, ask yourself if you were to have sex with this person, would you still do it if it gave you no pleasure, sexual feeling and no other reward like money? If you would still have the sex, then you are in love with that person. You love that person so much that even though you have nothing to take from them through the sex, you have sex with them because they are receiving pleasure. You show your love for them by giving them pleasure. You will feel their love given to you and vice versa. Love is about what you are willing to give to someone else as an action that you deeply care for them. We have grown up in a culture that makes us misunderstand what sex is. The secular culture that tells us that the sexual desires we feel for spousal union need to be fulfilled by having as much sex as possible with as many different people as possible through porn or fornication. Wrong, the desire that we all have deep in our hearts is for love. The commodified sexual desire does not come from the place of God. Sex is just another way to express love, just like other ways of showing love to someone. An act of love like sacrificing your free time and hard earned money to go to the flower shop to buy flowers for your wife. Sex is just another instrument of love, but it is a very powerful one because you give your entire body to another. Step out of your own shoes and enter the shoes of a person who has vowed their life to chastity. A Priest, a Nun, a faithful Christian that only feels same sex attraction... Now understand that the people in these positions also have sexual desire but they also understand that they can love others with instruments other than sex. They are called to love differently and bear witness to fulfillment rid of sex. Rid your mind and soul of the desire to take, and fill it with the desire to give. In this you will find the way for your desire to be fulfilled. Love is not taking, its giving.

    • @Fatelvis2
      @Fatelvis2 Год назад +1

      why do you feel like they wouldnt be fulfilled in marriage ?

    • @yanm8633
      @yanm8633 Год назад +2

      @@DavyF Yeah but most women withhold sex to have more commodities too. Most of the time, after the mortgage and children, men are left jerking off for eternity if they don't divorce.
      Stop viewing us as pigs. Women are NO angels and are at fault too.

    • @loganblackwood2922
      @loganblackwood2922 Год назад +2

      Are your desires healthy?
      Are your desires something that will lead to psychological and spiritual fulfilment?
      Do your desires reflect aspirations upwards or interaction with Earthly depravity?

    • @loanicastillo3327
      @loanicastillo3327 8 месяцев назад

      But what desires? The desire to be loved? Recognized? Wanted? Desired? Don't you feel those emotions fulfilled on a daily basis?

  • @clara-christymrad
    @clara-christymrad Год назад +1

    Just mind blowing facts 😮😮😮😮😮 it’s really outstanding! Just wow 😯
    Amen, Hallelujah 🙏🏻 ❤

  • @RocknRoRose
    @RocknRoRose Год назад

    Thank you Christopher.

  • @samuelaffiah5981
    @samuelaffiah5981 10 месяцев назад

    Thanks so much for sharing.

  • @kathryn.wooldridge
    @kathryn.wooldridge 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for this. What icon is that behind you? It is beautiful, even though it's a bit blurred.

  • @lexuswhyte1949
    @lexuswhyte1949 Год назад +2

    Thank you lord Jesus, I needed this message 🙏

  • @luisfernandourangahernande2456
    @luisfernandourangahernande2456 3 года назад +10

    I'm all in on making RUclips share the gospel. God bless you.

  • @thelayprayloslaicosoran6390
    @thelayprayloslaicosoran6390 2 года назад

    Thank you for everything.

  • @richardsoderkvist6383
    @richardsoderkvist6383 Год назад

    Thankyou brother for your video message. Praise God everything you said is so right and true Amen. Thank and praise the Lord its so inspirational meaningful helpful possitive and very encouraging in the Lord Jesus Christ .Amen. God bless you nd thankyou keep up the good eork. Praise God Amen.

    • @richardsoderkvist6383
      @richardsoderkvist6383 Год назад

      God bless you and keep up the good work for the Lord and for all of us. Amen.

  • @TheologyoftheBodyInstitute
    @TheologyoftheBodyInstitute  5 месяцев назад

    Other videos that might be helpful to all those who are sincerely looking for healing:
    ruclips.net/video/vx_iMIqQPL4/видео.htmlsi=sbULlC7F0WBQpnvY
    ruclips.net/video/oMyK0A2hDUs/видео.htmlsi=aSYt1IqPLWKaSR-Q
    ruclips.net/video/ibgvvEm1Rok/видео.htmlsi=fKwggZ3gHmaRQ76V

  • @DuncanAndrewHaywood
    @DuncanAndrewHaywood 12 дней назад

    Wow. Good to know

  • @josephjackson1956
    @josephjackson1956 3 года назад +3

    I love that an ad to quit porn came up

  • @Casablancapc1
    @Casablancapc1 Год назад

    Thank you 🙏👁💛

  • @trommelbiel
    @trommelbiel Год назад

    Spot on.

  • @gazsilla
    @gazsilla 8 месяцев назад

    This is so crazy. The other day I was taking a walk and randomly began meditating on the part of the beatitudes - blessed are the pure in heart for they will see God.
    Then I come across this video where you mention it around 11:00.
    The heart is the seat of desire. The key to the beatitudes is that they are cause and effect. And parts A and B interlock together and tell you what the other one is.
    To be pure in heart is to want to see God. In other words, the seat of desire, if pure, being the desire to see God leads us to the possibility of seeing God! That's amazing.
    And it makes me think that our bodily sexual desires are a sort of picture of that, but we've twisted it around and lost sight of the real thing.

  • @rodneyhoupea3385
    @rodneyhoupea3385 11 месяцев назад

    I am convinced

  • @Lady_Bridgerton
    @Lady_Bridgerton Год назад +4

    Hi, I just wanted to ask if there will be any version of Strive for women in the future? i know that pornography addictions are mostly found with men, but there are women who struggle with this too. Do you have any suggestions on this?

  • @voyello
    @voyello 2 года назад

    Praise be to God !

  • @jcwt_pdx
    @jcwt_pdx 9 месяцев назад

    Amen 🙏🏻
    Hosea 4:6

  • @calebklingerman7902
    @calebklingerman7902 7 месяцев назад

    As a non-Catholic who has always struggled with porn and lust, these videos are very helpful. I don’t agree with all of the eschatology (this video especially, with all the Marian dogma) but it does help me view the sexual desire as a good thing, and lust as a misdirection of that good thing to a bad purpose

    • @TheologyoftheBodyInstitute
      @TheologyoftheBodyInstitute  7 месяцев назад

      Thank you for watching even if you don't agree with 100% of it! We truly believe that the principles of the Theology of the Body are at the core of what it means to be human; so every human being should resonate with them! Please pray for us.

  • @tammyblount3910
    @tammyblount3910 Год назад +3

    I Love Learning More about Christ and HIS LOVE Each Day! Marriage is the Most Sacred Unity. I’m not married but my Greatest Hope is that God will One Day bring a Man of Love for God into my life. I have been too abused for several years, and ended a 3 year relationship after he proved Not to Love God as Much as his Sex Sites. It makes me cry so hard some days. But I Truly Feel that when a Man can Truly give his Love to a Woman, then if God Wants us Together, This time I just Know that God will Show me along with the Man. ❤️🙏❤️

  • @johngilbertthomas4484
    @johngilbertthomas4484 Год назад

    God Bless

  • @pete86
    @pete86 Год назад +5

    This is so mind blowingly beautiful! I have never thought of our bodies in this way. Thank you for opening my mind and heart to this theology. Catholicism is truly the Church of Jesus Christ.

    • @jimfox5299
      @jimfox5299 Год назад +1

      Acts 11:26 in Antioch they were first called Christians. They weren't called Catholics but Christians.
      We have one mediator between God and man, and that is Jesus Christ!!! There is no hope in the pope. You are decived. Christians make up the true church of Jesus Christ, not Catholics. Come to Christ and leave the perverted teaching of the Catholic Church.

  • @2555Edu
    @2555Edu 2 года назад +8

    it's the worst vice ever produced, and it is the most difficult to face

    • @damianwhite504
      @damianwhite504 Год назад

      I am an alcoholic and I didn't find it much fun. It did more harm to other people as well.

    • @r.m5883
      @r.m5883 Год назад

      You got this !!! Confession >>>

  • @marypinakat8594
    @marypinakat8594 3 года назад +33

    Pornography is the enemy's dubious invention to destroy the human race.
    *"Mary, sweetest of mothers, bless and protect us as we look to you for help."*

    • @theTavis01
      @theTavis01 Год назад

      I believe it is the Jezebel spirit talked about in Revelation 2:20 "Nevertheless I have a few things against you, because you allow that woman Jezebel, who calls herself a prophetess, to teach and seduce My servants to commit sexual immorality"

    • @michaellemmen
      @michaellemmen Год назад

      She can’t help you.

    • @marypinakat8594
      @marypinakat8594 Год назад

      @@michaellemmen
      If you are humble you can experience I for yourself. Let not pride bar your parh to knowledge of truth and wisdom. Remember wisdom is to be prized above worldly/material gains. Hope you also know that "Fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom."
      You are the one who will be missing out.

  • @wordsbyruthie
    @wordsbyruthie 3 года назад

    Thank u Jesus

  • @eduardog9243
    @eduardog9243 Год назад +2

    Yep yep yep, i can go months eithout it without but it comes back like a roaring lion, sometimes the temptation is so great its like you lose sight of yourself, forget who you are, all i can do (as of lately) is to just pray/quote Scripture specifically for me im paraphrasing "i have hidden your word in my heart that i might not sin against you)
    I feel like im i really am guarding Gods word in my heart and it helps.not in a state of grace, id appreciate any prayers, thanks yall

  • @frankk.777
    @frankk.777 3 года назад

    I like your analogies.

  • @sharmaramtohul1415
    @sharmaramtohul1415 Год назад +2

    This is really a serious issue. I can't pray and wait for a transformation. I need the real method of handling my sexuality NOW, today. I don't have the qualities required for women to want to marry me. So, how do I turn off my sexuality?

    • @artbyrobot1
      @artbyrobot1 Год назад +2

      you have to surrender to God completely and ask Him to take over your whole life entirely. This comes by Godly sorrow and genuine repentance which leads to salvation.

  • @marekauk3758
    @marekauk3758 Год назад +1

    sooo.. what was the main question ?? and what is the answer ??

  • @DuncanAndrewHaywood
    @DuncanAndrewHaywood 12 дней назад

    How do you get purity and how does it differ from chastity?

  • @pyramid9530
    @pyramid9530 3 года назад +1

    beautiful

  • @lucianhodoboc1611
    @lucianhodoboc1611 3 года назад +7

    What about the disabled men who will never be able to have a family because of their physical disabilities, and are, therefore, left with unmet sexual urges? The apostle Paul seems to be pretty clear on the topic: if you can't abstain, get married, as it is better to marry than to burn. But he seems to assume, for some reason, that every man is able to find a Christian girl who will marry him, that every man is able to support a family, to be able to provide and lead a wife etc. All these things are not always possible for men who have physical disabilities. What does the theology of the body have to say about this issue?

    • @justastrawberrymonst
      @justastrawberrymonst 3 года назад +17

      Well I am no priest but I believe St Paul means that it is better to not marry than to marry, but if you can't help it then it is better to marry than risk failing into sin. By not marrying he means giving your life to God fully and maybe even being a monk. Married life, while beautiful, makes you more worldly, you have to worry about your spouse, your children and also the world they'll grow up in. But a monk doesn't have such worries and he can fully devote himself to God. A disabled man can still get married, given he finds the right person who accepts him. But if not I think that becomes his corss to carry. But if God sees his struggle to follow Him and respect His commands I think the disabled man will receive great rewards form God whether earthly or in heaven.

    • @kowens8504
      @kowens8504 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/oMyK0A2hDUs/видео.html

    • @lucianhodoboc1611
      @lucianhodoboc1611 3 года назад +4

      @@justastrawberrymonst, "unfulfilled biological desires" is not a cross to carry. Stating that is a cop out, and goes right in the face of the theology of the body that Dr. Christopher West has been explaining in these videos. If the inability to fulfill one's sexual desires is a cross to carry, and God will reward those who carry it well, then why even have theology about sexual desire? The entire thing could be summarized to "just be abstinent and you'll be rewarded". The apostle Paul doesn't mention anything of the like. Even Jesus states that celibacy is not something that everyone can handle. The Church should come up with solutions for the people who are unable to fulfill their sexual desires the right way, in marriage.

    • @josephjackson1956
      @josephjackson1956 3 года назад +2

      For the same reason priests remain celibate, so must these people with these illnesses abstain.

    • @lucianhodoboc1611
      @lucianhodoboc1611 3 года назад +2

      @@josephjackson1956, priests choose their path. No one is forced to become a priest. Also, priests are allowed to resign.

  • @clara-christymrad
    @clara-christymrad Год назад

    I want that mug your holding 😋 how can I get it?

  • @oambitiousone7100
    @oambitiousone7100 3 года назад +9

    Wish I could look in a mirror and see “ heaven on earth”🙄😆

  • @sabreenahrochelle3989
    @sabreenahrochelle3989 Год назад +3

    I don’t feel like porn is anything new. It’s just become easier to consume privately
    No peep shows, no buying dirty magazines or films in a shop.
    You can just open your laptop or find it on your phone. It just shows us what we should already know: “In man there is no good thing”
    I say all this to be gracious to this generation. Let’s not act like they’re somehow inherently more depraved or sinful than the rest of us.
    ALL have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God.

    • @user-br6ve4lz6n
      @user-br6ve4lz6n 8 месяцев назад

      Agreed. Likewise I know I'm not a chaste and virtuous man for not cheating on my wife. I simply don't have a "bus load of Swedish models" waiting for me after work, to quote Bill Burr talking about Tiger Woods.

  • @elipacheco2065
    @elipacheco2065 Год назад +5

    i’m gonna have to disagree with the point about Mary. catholic presuppositions are being read into that part of the text. reading that passage at face value indicates to me that Jesus is telling Mary she is no longer His mother for He has completed His task and will ascend to the Father. my two cents.

    • @damianwhite504
      @damianwhite504 Год назад +1

      I agree about presuppositions being read into the text. I heard a priest say once that Mary could be found on EVERY page of the old testament

    • @elipacheco2065
      @elipacheco2065 Год назад

      @@damianwhite504 did he even provide examples lol?

    • @lykorrus6802
      @lykorrus6802 Год назад +2

      The protestant presupposition is that there is no need for a prime authority in the church, in other words, any person can pick up a bible and interpret it for themselves. However, this cannot be true as it leads to thousands of different interpretations and by extension denominations to form. At the end of the day there is one truth, and god established a church beginning with Peter that we may have a church authority to refer to.

    • @elipacheco2065
      @elipacheco2065 Год назад

      @@lykorrus6802 you are arguing against a point that wasn’t even made and are still using a presupposition that has no basis. never said all the protestants have it right. was strictly speaking about the part he made up about Mary. the ultimate authority is the Lord and the Scriptures. the Holy Spirit testifies of the truth. that is how you discern. i agree that the protestant reformation led to many denominations and false theology but to not acknowledge that the roman catholic teaching has false doctrine is dishonest in the least or you are genuinely deceived. Christians preach Christ crucified and He is our Lord and Savior. the only way we are redeemed. there are no intercessors. there is no praying to anyone but God. there are no works that can save you. faith in Jesus Christ as Lord saves you. now to address your claim that Jesus instantiated the office of Pope with Peter. i still think you’re reading that into the text based upon your background of catholic theology. look at matt 16:13-23 in full context. when you read it plainly allowing the Holy Spirit to testify of the truth you will understand. The confession is the rock. not peter. don’t misconstrue what i’ve said into thinking i don’t believe in elder positions. i do. they’re laid out in paul’s letters as well as by peter and i believe someone else. if pope was to be a position or office then don’t you think it would’ve been explained when paul talks about the other roles?

    • @marcusaurelius4516
      @marcusaurelius4516 Год назад

      so... is it heretical? what are the catholic church's beliefs in this regard?

  • @user-br6ve4lz6n
    @user-br6ve4lz6n 8 месяцев назад +1

    I understand this on an intellectual level, but I have trouble on an "emotional" level. What I am hearing is that it's not sex with an attractive woman that I really want, it's instead a bloody crucifixion or simply a desire to enter into heave (which in my mind just seems like walking into a really pretty building).
    I know I am being reductionist and there are deeper things going on here but I just am not having the "aha!" moment that a lot of commenters seem to be having.

  • @chloedavis3457
    @chloedavis3457 2 года назад +11

    Why is this only for men? It’s something women struggle with and want to overcome too and it would be amazing there could be something for us to. And by us I mean me 😅

    • @josephbrandenburg4373
      @josephbrandenburg4373 Год назад +1

      Matt fradd (Pints with Aquinas) has a podcast episode about this, from a woman's perspective

    • @mattt.4395
      @mattt.4395 Год назад

      @@josephbrandenburg4373 matt fradd also joked about giving a "sideways hug" to a young woman who confessed her pornography addiction to him.
      I had a hard time taking him seriously after that.

    • @mickmash-5192
      @mickmash-5192 Год назад

      @@mattt.4395 That’s disappointing to hear. I’ll be more mindful of his content in future.

    • @saragriselda7393
      @saragriselda7393 Год назад +3

      ​@@mattt.4395 what's wrong with what Mr Fradd said? I am italian so I can't speak english properly and I was wondering what's wrong with the joke "sideways hug"? Could you please explain?

  • @emilytracy495
    @emilytracy495 7 месяцев назад

    I've never heard sex be talked about so spiritually

  • @carlorizzo827
    @carlorizzo827 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you, i think, not sure. Perplexed as to why we need a new Adam/Eve. I do think you are on to something in your fast-food analogy

  • @Dee-ur9zq
    @Dee-ur9zq 3 года назад +2

    Can women use. Strive 21?

    • @turbokiwi4838
      @turbokiwi4838 3 года назад +1

      I listen Pints with Aquinas so it’s how I know about Matt Fradd’s wife’s podcast:
      www.cameronfradd.com
      they said they may come out with a version for women a while ago. Not sure

  • @sird2333
    @sird2333 Год назад +2

    Woman’s body, Heaven on earth (well, some women….)
    Woman’s personally, hell on earth.

  • @nickyionta
    @nickyionta 3 года назад

  • @manulomba2439
    @manulomba2439 11 месяцев назад

    💟

  • @naits7457
    @naits7457 Год назад +3

    There is no sexual intercourse or romantic love in heaven, but there is intimate friendship, siblinghood, and the union with Jesus. Men and women will still enjoy each other's masculine and feminine character even without sexual intercourse.
    There is no childbearing in heaven, but there is a name and place better than sons and daughters and an enormous family in Jesus.
    The desire for sexual intercourse and childbearing will pass away and you will enjoy the other things of heaven without feelings of deprivation for the things you once had desires for.

  • @tropicalsavannah6484
    @tropicalsavannah6484 2 года назад +10

    It is difficult not see sexuality as dirty if fornication is considered a sin.

    • @steve01010
      @steve01010 Год назад +11

      Sexuality is not dirty. It's something to be enjoyed. It's wrong outside of the commitment of marriage because it devalues the experience into something casual. Inside of marriage, have all of it that you want.

    • @theTavis01
      @theTavis01 Год назад +1

      I think the focus should be that the primary function of sex is procreation. Fornication, or watching porn, or many other sexual outlets, is about putting pleasure over having kids. If having kids is the primary intention, you should be married. And then within marriage even sex which does not directly lead to pregnancy can still be enjoyed as part of the bigger picture of procreation, because the pleasure creates a bond between the parents and thus helping to maintain a strong family unit. There's nothing dirty about that. It just has it's proper place.

    • @r.m5883
      @r.m5883 Год назад +5

      Normalize marriage then

    • @markcobuzzi826
      @markcobuzzi826 8 месяцев назад

      In case someone else has not already described this to you, I wonder if this kind of analogy below could help you to not see the former as “dirty”, despite affirming the latter as a sin…
      Regarding our appetite for food and drink, truly fulfilling our hunger/thirst does not merely end at the part, where we put the food/drink in our mouths and enjoy the sensations of chewing/swallowing it. That part is just the tasty intermediate step in a wider process, which actually ends with the body absorbing the calories/nutrients/water into its own flesh. In turn, deliberate “binging-and-purging” is universally agreed to be an eating disorder and abuse of food. In that case, a person may be heavily indulging in the superficial pleasures of eating/drinking, yet is denying their own bodies the very nourishment that it actually hungers/thirsts for in the first place.
      Moving on to the physical appetite for sexual union, perhaps think of it not merely as an appetite for the act of sex itself (any more than one would say hunger/thirst is merely an appetite for the act of chewing on tasty things). Rather, think of that act as the intermediate “tasty” step in a wider process, which ultimately ends with the body becoming “one flesh” with a mate (similar to how literal hunger/thirst is about feeding your flesh with the food/drink you just chewed and swallowed), in order to maintain a lifelong bond with and possibly have children with (the body is even wired to undergo a rush of hormones like oxytocin during that activity, which promotes bonding). With habits like “hookup culture”, people are generally trying to enjoy the superficial sensations of that union on demand, only to then metaphorically “expel” their partner and potentially move on to another partner shortly afterwards to repeat the cycle (like someone with that eating disorder wanting to expel the meal they just ate, so they can immediately enjoy eating another meal in the same period, or at least not commit to the nourishment the previous meal would have provided for their bodies).
      With that in mind, I do not see how affirming the latter as a sin would automatically suggest the former is “dirty”. That is, any more than rightfully calling out “binging-and-purging” as an eating disorder would automatically suggest the enjoyment of food and drink at its core is “dirty”.

  • @ethanralph0
    @ethanralph0 2 года назад

    😇

  • @LogicAndMath
    @LogicAndMath Год назад

    You are preaching something that you probably yourself don't do. The answer on this question could've been so much easier.

  • @Steve-gn9nz
    @Steve-gn9nz Год назад +2

    Great video,I don’t agree with your interpretation about Mary tho.Catholics idolise her too much and need to repent of this ideology.Our eyes should be on Jesus and Him alone…
    Praise The Lord🙏

  • @giftsize5081
    @giftsize5081 Год назад +4

    porn is satanic

  • @RocknRoRose
    @RocknRoRose 3 года назад

    lack of knowledge or addiction?

    • @RocknRoRose
      @RocknRoRose 3 года назад

      not always a steady diet Christopher. But sadly can be a person to view this once a year or even twice a year. Which is still sad. This should be avoided at all times. Never to view pornography. We must try to rid of it.

  • @truthseekers1620
    @truthseekers1620 Год назад

    for one women are beautiful and 2 men are visual creatures

  • @visionar007
    @visionar007 3 года назад +2

    The grease and sodium isn't what's unhealthy about fast food. It's the wheat and seed oils.

  • @Neodreth
    @Neodreth Год назад +4

    In order for YOUR made up theory of the words testicles, testify, etc to be valid we have to assume that God's language is English, which i highly doubt since Jesus' language was Aramaic. My point is that if you take any other language, this connection does not exist and only applies to the English language. Stop using God's name in vain to present your theories as facts when most of what you are saying in your videos is nowhere mentioned in the Bible or any Scriptures.

  • @user-pz5lf5wt5x
    @user-pz5lf5wt5x 4 месяца назад

    The wrong with porn is that it has too much exagoration.

  • @RocknRoRose
    @RocknRoRose 3 года назад

    image of Mortal Man. Jesus is still immortal and still mortal. Jesus is always the image for me. So is asexuality wrong when someone is by themselves?

  • @SDsc0rch
    @SDsc0rch Год назад +2

    yeah no.. can't go there
    think you're reading wayyyyy too much into it bud

  • @tonyhayes9827
    @tonyhayes9827 Год назад +1

    blood and water from the side of Christ is consummation of a marriage. John becomes the mystical union of the new Adam (Christ) and the new Eve (Mary) and we are that offspring. This suggests Mary and Christ are married but that cant be because Mary is Christ mother not His spouse. She is the spouse of the Spirit???? Behold your son Jesus says to Mary but Jesus is also son. He is the bridegroom og all humanity including us blokes. It gets complicated!!!!

  • @thereisnopandemic
    @thereisnopandemic 10 месяцев назад

    Will I was listening it sounded like Roman Catholicism jargon, Yeah I’m out.

  • @richardosborne2067
    @richardosborne2067 Год назад

    You have an audience of one...GOD!! REMEMBER THAT

  • @marekauk3758
    @marekauk3758 Год назад

    so Jesus left his Father and Holy spirit and became Flash with a Woman and the whole mankind became Children of God/Jesus and his earthly Mother .. on the spiritual level of course .. yup, that makes sense .. some people believe that the Holy Trinity is God, His Son (God Human) and Mary (Human (almost) Goddess) .. with the Holy Spirit there would Be 4 Persons to whom we pray to .. it's like 4 arms of the holy cross and maybe we should make the Sign of the Cross with words: In the name of the Father and the Son, Holy Spirit and Holy Mary. Amen. .. and while saying Mary the hands should be on the bottom position because she was standing below the Cross while Jesus made her Mother of all Human Kind.

  • @abelchavez8786
    @abelchavez8786 Год назад

    We are the epitome of reproduction

  • @simonwinter8839
    @simonwinter8839 6 месяцев назад

    Some of the people viewing porn are pastors.

  • @gregorylatta8159
    @gregorylatta8159 Год назад

    It is just one more sin of the flesh.

  • @sweetweebygoodness8693
    @sweetweebygoodness8693 Год назад +5

    Jesus telling Mary that his disciple is her new son was part of a custom of the son having someone else take care of their parent when they could not since Jesus obviously could no longer do that since he was on the cross. Mary being depicted as having any kind of divinity is just a clever tactic for idolatry and to lead others to sin against God without knowing it. The best lies have a little bit of the truth in them.

    • @juliusrendon5936
      @juliusrendon5936 Год назад

      Nahh are you the person that believe that you will be saved by your faith alone? Read the LK 1:28:30, LK1:47, LK 1:48, LK 1:43, LK1:35. if you want proof of Mary As the Mother of God and how Blessed she is in the BIBLEP, plus Opps your bible lacks and misinterpreted by Martin Luther too. Sad

  • @DaGubah501
    @DaGubah501 3 года назад

    Why does god subject us to all this evil

  • @ziul.3124
    @ziul.3124 2 года назад

    Paul probably didnt write Ephesians,Bible scholars debate about this epistile authenticity,they are not sure If it is Paul or not, who is writing this.Dude mariage and sexual relatihionships dont have meaning Anyway,Jesus abolished them when he said;
    At the resurrection people will neither marry nor be given in marriage; they will be like the angels in heaven.
    No porn ,no Dick,no sex in Heaven 🤣Most of people are distresed,when they hear this.What was the point then.In heaven i dont think You will remember.how was sex anyway.Because in heaven IT is only friendzone for life,sex is.gay and You will burn in hell,If You gay.You waisted all your energy on nothing,If You want to talk to the homeless, go talk to the homeless,If You want to talk to somebody go talk to somebody,IT is that fucking simple.Apostle Paul was celibate so i will stick with that.

  • @olivierdomingue6312
    @olivierdomingue6312 10 месяцев назад

    Well the gates of heaven seem very and definitely closed, so... only the mediocre imitation remains, no one would chose it given the chance.

  • @paradiseb5950
    @paradiseb5950 8 месяцев назад

    But you only speak about mans attraction to women, women are also attracted to men it's not a one way street they also watch porn.

  • @diogoviveiros8132
    @diogoviveiros8132 10 месяцев назад

    porn leads your soul to hell

  • @heatherwhitehead3743
    @heatherwhitehead3743 3 года назад +2

    Speak for yourself. Porn looks like carnage to me and always has.

  • @dalelerette206
    @dalelerette206 Год назад

    I've asked other Christians if they understood the homosexual undertones in the Scriptures. Then they virtually accused me of heresy.
    When I talked about the 'virgin orgasm' they vehemently attacked me almost like sharks getting a sniff of blood. They never even listened to me when I explained a woman can orgasm in an 'unbloody manner' and retain the integrity of their hymen.
    My sketch hand moves with same graces as my tongue. I am speaking literally now with no guile intended. I'm that good and many people are jealous of me.
    I agree with others in that the Reformer Martin Luther seems to be sending very mixed messages -- earnest religiousness and crude imagery mixed together to present an unholy image of God. But this is a very firm aspect of the Scriptures that needs to be addressed.
    Saint John XXIII once said, “What unites us is much greater than what divides us.” And I firmly believe this to be true to the depths of my God given soul.
    St. Joseph, Terror of Demons, pray for us.💝

  • @chissstardestroyer
    @chissstardestroyer 2 года назад +1

    Me? Because of the state of undress in the pictures in the Sistine Chapel; I'd burn it to ashes, including the very stones, and absolutely the Consecrated Host; let there be no place for nudity at all- it is always sinful, especially in *church* for crying out loud!

    • @josephbrandenburg4373
      @josephbrandenburg4373 Год назад

      This man be in the shower with a bathing suit on smh

    • @chissstardestroyer
      @chissstardestroyer Год назад

      @@josephbrandenburg4373 Well, seeing as individuals shower *alone*; there'd be no need, nor is it any of *your* business, Sir.

    • @theTavis01
      @theTavis01 Год назад

      I agree and what is with that famous statue of David with his little wee wee sticking out for everyone to see - and I say this as an artist who greatly respects Michelangelo overall

    • @chissstardestroyer
      @chissstardestroyer Год назад

      @@theTavis01 Well, that does read as very wicked "art" at that, especially for a *church* for crying out loud!

  • @Isaiah-ft5nx
    @Isaiah-ft5nx Год назад +1

    Mary being the new Eve isn’t biblical, but by you making that claim you are claiming that Jesus married his mother because Jesus is called the second Adam.
    Sounds more like Semiramis and Tammuz worship to me. Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life. Mary is not.

  • @kbeetles
    @kbeetles Год назад

    Pardon? You might be attracted to porn - do not assume that everybody is. It was a devastating idea for me as a young teen. Absolutely devastating. Made me furious for taking away the way I was thinking about the world and other people.

  • @ronholfly
    @ronholfly Год назад

    Why all this religious chat? it's just a natural animal instinct for survival.

  • @Mr.Big-Gunz
    @Mr.Big-Gunz Год назад

    Cause it's in Man's Nature to Destroy Himself..From: Crazy Uncle 'B',,
    I.E. Theologist, Chronologist, Psychologist,& Dr., & D.D.S.S., & Part Time Lawyer, & Scholar,& Psychic Soothsayer, and Demonologist, Gourmet Chef, Artist, and Fashion Expert...Dig It....🤠