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  • Опубликовано: 12 ноя 2024

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  • @annaamileav626
    @annaamileav626 Год назад +2

    Me and my husband lost are baby boy 33 weeks 2 weeks ago he was our first worst pain ever but God is truly a healer I’m sorry for your lost and greatful for you sharing your story ! There should be like a website for woman to talk that are going through this

    • @siyamthandazitumane
      @siyamthandazitumane  Год назад +2

      I'm so sorry you guys are going through this 💔 it's a pain no parent should go through. Sending love and light to you and yours 🤗

  • @TheMillennialMom1
    @TheMillennialMom1 2 года назад +2

    Oh mommy. I’m so sorry you had to go through this. My heart is with you ❤

  • @nelzodee
    @nelzodee 2 года назад +3

    So sorry that you and your family lost Nala. That doctor deserved to be reported I am also sorry that you got such bad treatment at your worst time... May she continue to rest in peace🕊

  • @nomabalizitumane6074
    @nomabalizitumane6074 2 года назад +2

    Sharing your story is therapeutic Siya,don't worry the kids will understand one day we were not thinking straight on the day of a nightmare. As u say we should have ask for the ashes or something,everything happens for a reason. A special thanks Ms Nzima was the the first one to arrive at life and prayed. It feels like izolo nakum but yha life goes on hey.Oosis Lindy,Hluza and sis Thandiesthanks for your support.Sade ke is always there for u....thanks Dzubsie

  • @SummerMokoena
    @SummerMokoena 2 года назад +2

    Siya.. I am in tears. I am so sorry you had to go through this.. Thanks for sharing this.. You are strong hle!! This will definitely help others with the same experience.

  • @Chelle8847
    @Chelle8847 2 года назад +1

    Girllll, you're allowed to cry! It's okay, don't apologise. I'm so so sorry. And I'm sorry that they talked you out of getting her ashes. That's so wrong. You seem like such a strong woman, very admirable. She will be in a better place, much better than this awful world! Like you said, your guardian angel. And talking about her all the time I feel would be so much better than trying to forget all about her and pushing emotions down, like some people say! Thank you so much for sharing your story. I just randomly stumbled across this video and thought I'd watch it. Sending lots of love to you, and your lovely family and your guardian angel, from England 💖

    • @siyamthandazitumane
      @siyamthandazitumane  2 года назад +2

      Thank you so much Rachel I really do appreciate your kind words ❤️

    • @Chelle8847
      @Chelle8847 2 года назад +1

      @@siyamthandazitumane you're very welcome my love. I've just watched your first couple of vlogs! I've subscribed to you :) you're very sweet ♥️

    • @nomabalizitumane6074
      @nomabalizitumane6074 2 года назад +1

      Wow...thanks Rachel,greatly appreciated dear ❤

  • @simplysinovlogs
    @simplysinovlogs Год назад +1

    I'm so sorry for your loss and I'm so sorry that you had to experience such a painful thing and have the one person who was supposed to have a gentle approach be so mean💔😢. I pray one day you find healing and that baby Nala continues to rest in peace❤️. I know it was never going to bring her back but I hope you reported the doctor for the ill treatment

    • @siyamthandazitumane
      @siyamthandazitumane  Год назад +2

      Thank you sisi.. I'm alot better now, kodwa not a day goes by ndimcingi or talk about her. I think for me though it's therapy I smile when I think about her. She's our Guardian Angel 😇 💖

    • @simplysinovlogs
      @simplysinovlogs Год назад +1

      @@siyamthandazitumane she really is your guardian angel❤️

  • @joeydlaminivlogs
    @joeydlaminivlogs Год назад +1

    I am so sorry for your loss

    • @siyamthandazitumane
      @siyamthandazitumane  Год назад +1

      Thank you Joey ❤️ I do feel alot better the more I talk

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs Год назад +1

      This is so traumatic askies

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs Год назад +1

      Health professionals need to do better

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs Год назад +2

      May Nala's soul rest in peace

    • @siyamthandazitumane
      @siyamthandazitumane  Год назад +2

      @@joeydlaminivlogs thank you so much Joey I do appreciate it. I actually find comfort when someone talks about her and actually says her name. ❤️😍 Thank you

  • @nomabalizitumane6074
    @nomabalizitumane6074 2 года назад +2

    We should have asked...sorry! Your brothers oo Odwa, Thulani,Viwe were also so supportive .Thanks guys.May her little soul continue to rest in peace

  • @ThandyNomlala
    @ThandyNomlala Год назад +2

    I’m sorry for your loss sis🤗
    New subbie here

  • @mhizbenitaAngela
    @mhizbenitaAngela Год назад +1

    Oh my God, I'm so sorry dear, may her so continue to rest in peace Amen, new friend

  • @anelisamhlongo
    @anelisamhlongo 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for sharing your story , it will help someone . The morning sickness we are in the same boat

  • @Priscilla-ndigume
    @Priscilla-ndigume Год назад +1

    Really sorry for your loss sisi I also lost my boy august 2022 it was a stillbirth too I can feel your pain and the trauma you went through in the wards that the worst may her soul rest in peace 🕊

    • @siyamthandazitumane
      @siyamthandazitumane  Год назад +1

      im so sorry sis you are going through pain. all i can say is it does get better, doesnt go away just gets better. not a day goes by without me thinking about her or referencing her, but its so much better now and for me talking about her helps me heal. sending love and light to you ❤ and thank you for your love.

  • @siyaphawu
    @siyaphawu 2 года назад +1

    Oh Siya😢I’m so sorry that you had to through this. I know exactly how you feel. I also lost my daughter Awomi on the 1 Jun 2019 at 23 weeks due to incompetent cervix..
    Nala is in better place ❤️One thing about God he restores

    • @siyamthandazitumane
      @siyamthandazitumane  2 года назад +2

      Wow Siya hai sana yayingomnye unyaka lowa, but yes they are in Better places and are our angels.. ❤️
      jonga as we grow older we realize that everyone is going through something which is why we should always be kind ❤️❤️

    • @nomabalizitumane6074
      @nomabalizitumane6074 Год назад +1

      So sorry for your loss Siyanda
      God is watching over you guys.❤❤

  • @sanelenotutela3643
    @sanelenotutela3643 2 года назад +1

    I am so sorry for what you went through Sia. My heart goes out to you. Thank God you're such a strong person. Love you Sthandwasam you know moss.🥰

  • @polokontamehlo
    @polokontamehlo 6 месяцев назад +2

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @alicenxumalo
    @alicenxumalo 2 года назад +1

    Im so sorry sisi,this just broke 💔 my heart. No 1 deserves to go through what you went through. 🕊🕊🕊Nala the born sleeping Angel .she will remain forever in you

    • @siyamthandazitumane
      @siyamthandazitumane  2 года назад +2

      Thank you Alice ❤️ after going through the experience I found out that alot of people are going through it.

  • @mrsg5780
    @mrsg5780 2 года назад

    October is so bitter sweet for me as you know,I have 2 kids born during this time and one day I hope I have the strength to talk about my lost angel. But for today, you are strength friend ❤️ 💜

    • @siyamthandazitumane
      @siyamthandazitumane  2 года назад +1

      ❤️ ey friend.. ndilapha ke uyayazi.

    • @nomabalizitumane6074
      @nomabalizitumane6074 2 года назад +1

      So sorry guys yhoo💔people are going through a lot,let us be kind to one another

  • @nicolecanham3127
    @nicolecanham3127 2 года назад +1

    So sorry you had to experience such insensitivity from staff during such a fragile time🥺

  • @lee63149
    @lee63149 2 года назад

    Sending you Light and Love ❤

  • @mmapulahlompho92
    @mmapulahlompho92 Год назад +1

    ❤❤

  • @masenewschannel5606
    @masenewschannel5606 2 года назад +1

    New subscriber

  • @chwayitantintili130
    @chwayitantintili130 2 года назад +1

    Usekhona u Dr but he retired early this year.

  • @sisonkezitumane2046
    @sisonkezitumane2046 2 года назад

    ow mtase yhooo andalila askis mtase