Jim was willing to change himself for his marriage.....Willingness is important otherwise it's the spouse who has to accept it and move on in their life
I have been battling SA and PA with my boyfriend of 3 years whom I live with. He is a reformed alcoholic and tells me he doesn't need help that he knows the 12 steps. I try to explain how different this therapy is from Alcohism. Because he is not willing to do an intensive and he is very obviously in his addiction I feel I have options but to walk away. I cannot save him for himself but I can save myself from this horrible pain I experience.
I’m crying. I tried so hard and paid half for an intensive three years ago. Then my husband lost his job and it ruined everything. We have five daughters I don’t know how I can even do this anymore. This is what I wanted, this video
Usually addiction is based in trauma. Not knowing how to deal with difficult feelings. So we medicate through sex ...food...drugs 💉 💊 alcohol....self harm....shopping...gambling ...religion....work.....exercise....you name it and an addict will use it to mood alter.
Very encouraging story heart warming watching from Africa and learning alot my prayer i may attend this sessions and pass this knowledge to the youth and couples in my country..
I wish our church, or his parents would have helped us to go. Because we both needed to adress ourselves...instead it's a divorced family with 8 children.
You could check locally to see if there are any centers, groups, or counselors that do this. If not, you can use our materials (books, DVDs, online videos), join our support groups, do phone counseling, or even come in to do an intensive. You can call us at 719-278-3708 or email us at heart2heart@xc.org for more information www.drdougweiss.com/online-store/ www.drdougweiss.com/groups/ www.drdougweiss.com/facebook-groups/ aasat.org/find-therapist/
You would want to ask your pastor. There is not enough information for a proper response. If you have been traumatized by their choices, you might want to do a phone counseling session to start healing.
Did it take a long time for him to want real sex with you ? I’m finding my husband quit porn but can’t lust for me ... does it ever come back ? It hurts so very much 💔
Desire normally comes back, unless he is an intimacy anorexic not in recovery or other issues. The DVD Sexless and Married could be helpful. www.drdougweiss.com/product/sexless-married-dvd/
He was probably a closet cross dresser, with prolonged sex utube watcher of men in crossdressing addiction talking to other men and lesbians about pantyhose and sex
Jim was willing to change himself for his marriage.....Willingness is important otherwise it's the spouse who has to accept it and move on in their life
I have been battling SA and PA with my boyfriend of 3 years whom I live with. He is a reformed alcoholic and tells me he doesn't need help that he knows the 12 steps. I try to explain how different this therapy is from Alcohism. Because he is not willing to do an intensive and he is very obviously in his addiction I feel I have options but to walk away. I cannot save him for himself but I can save myself from this horrible pain I experience.
I’m crying. I tried so hard and paid half for an intensive three years ago. Then my husband lost his job and it ruined everything. We have five daughters I don’t know how I can even do this anymore. This is what I wanted, this video
Usually addiction is based in trauma. Not knowing how to deal with difficult feelings. So we medicate through sex ...food...drugs 💉 💊 alcohol....self harm....shopping...gambling
...religion....work.....exercise....you name it and an addict will use it to mood alter.
Very encouraging story heart warming watching from Africa and learning alot my prayer i may attend this sessions and pass this knowledge to the youth and couples in my country..
I wish our church, or his parents would have helped us to go. Because we both needed to adress ourselves...instead it's a divorced family with 8 children.
How do young men stop on their tracks before getting to the 35 years limits
How you can help someone that isn’t into religion ?
Therapy, meetings and strong reason why. Noah church is a great resource.
This is incredible.
Love you guys.,
God Bless you guys, hold unto God still.
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Is there a program like this in South Africa?
You could check locally to see if there are any centers, groups, or counselors that do this. If not, you can use our materials (books, DVDs, online videos), join our support groups, do phone counseling, or even come in to do an intensive.
You can call us at 719-278-3708 or email us at heart2heart@xc.org for more information
www.drdougweiss.com/online-store/
www.drdougweiss.com/groups/
www.drdougweiss.com/facebook-groups/
aasat.org/find-therapist/
A good recovery story
As long as the other has a willingness to continue the marriage, do we have a reason for divorce?
You would want to ask your pastor. There is not enough information for a proper response. If you have been traumatized by their choices, you might want to do a phone counseling session to start healing.
Did it take a long time for him to want real sex with you ? I’m finding my husband quit porn but can’t lust for me ... does it ever come back ? It hurts so very much 💔
Desire normally comes back, unless he is an intimacy anorexic not in recovery or other issues. The DVD Sexless and Married could be helpful. www.drdougweiss.com/product/sexless-married-dvd/
Horrible things?
He was probably a closet cross dresser, with prolonged sex utube watcher of men in crossdressing addiction talking to other men and lesbians about pantyhose and sex