its time to change my life
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- Опубликовано: 8 янв 2025
- I need to change my life 😁
ya know just some adulting things need to be learnt: cooking, cleaning, working out, changing my last name, socializing, getting active in my community, blossoming as a human being.
I'm loosely referring to this series as "in my 20s" - since I feel like it encapsulates the experience I'm having, learning and navigating life in my 20s!
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“Confidence comes from doing what you actually say you’re going to do” oof this just spoke to my SOUL! I have fallen so far from my goals I set at the beginning of the year and I’m not gonna lie I’m kind of ashamed. Everyone always wants to do better and be better but we don’t make a solid game plan for how to get there. I love that you’re restarting with the new season and just trying to get back on track. this is the perfect motivation I need to do the same. good luck everyone 💜
Oh, you're everywhere in now a day's...🙄
The same me 😞
Girl!!!! I see you literally everywhere.... !!!
I feel this, change is a slow process too so don’t get down on yourself if you’re not immediately hitting all your goals. ❤️one goal at a time and you’ll start to see your life changing in small ways :) u got it girl!
RAVON WOW HEYYY
You’re amazing!!! I recently got a 1:1 Pilates trainer and it’s been a game changer. I don’t have to worry about others staring at me (except my instructor who’s sooo sweet), i get to SOCIALIZE with someone (!!! Big win for someone who works from home haha) and I don’t feel exhausted after each class (compared to how some other workouts make me feel). Honestly I’ve been feeling similar as you lately and this video was so refreshing to watch and served as a reminder that we allll go through these things unfortunately. We’re all routing for you girl 👏🏻💓
Ooo that sounds like such a good plan!
@@haleypham I used to have a personal trainer at the gym but I felt too much pressure with what he expected me to eat and diet etc. the whole Pilates thing feels like it’s given me much more of a relaxed and not so high-mental pressure fitness schedule
Aweee, what an awesome comment.
Very cool you shared this
Wow I haven’t seen your videos for YEARS!
Such a wholesome vlog. I was struggling to create habits for a while, one thing that helped was accountability. I started going to the gym with my friends and we’d all text each other to stay accountable, I also hired a life coach who helps me sort through my goals weekly. That was great and refreshing and made me feel less alone and overwhelmed by how to tackle things. I also just asked for help. I asked dennis to help me with meals and my in law to help me understand nutrition.
Since then I go to the gym about 4x a week without including my walks and rock climbing days. I wake up at 8am most days and 6am gym days. And I just feel all around happy.
One thing I found was the more I looked into the topic of “how to build habits” the more overwhelmed and stagnant I became. You just need accountability buddies
Omg hii nat
NATALIE (one of my fav RUclipsrs) IS COMMENTING ON HAYLEY’S POST?! (She’s my other fav youtuber)
i did this this past month and it feels so good to be out of a guilt cycle of not following through with promises in myself! ALSO get an instant pot it’s soooo easy to make food quickly, healthy, and you feel accomplished!
yes!
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Ok intro is me. Changing is hard but we’ve got this!!
I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS OMG!!❤️
I really adore how real this video is. Yes I enjoy aesthetic life style videos big RUclipsrs do but THIS? This is encouraging and makes me feel more motivated than any of those “aesthetic” videos ever have. Thank you!
been struggling with the same thing girl - this inspired me thank u
I just cried, life has been so hard and this video was so relatable. Haley- you are such a consistent inspiration in my life and have a really good spiritual impact on me as well. Thank you Haley
What perfect timing!! I literally said yesterday that I was going to get my life together again Mentally, physically , and spiritually. I woke up earlier this morning, and I am taking baby steps. Because progress takes time. I'm so excited to go on this journey with you. Good luck Girly, you got this. "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me" Philippians 4:13🌸
Doing these things out of self compassion rather than self criticism is so crucial! Being constantly kind and loving to myself, and treating myself as a friend and partner has helped me set new routines and healthy habits :)
Bby I swear you just made my day 10% better. I sorta woke up in a bad mood and I’m feeling a little bit down, and you acaully made me feel better. I’m only a couple minutes into this video and I can already tell how much work and effort you put into this video. Your upload schedule is amazing too. Ily so much!!!
Hope your day turns around 🤎
Couldn’t agree more 💜
@@sabrinamarques9354 thank you so much!!!!!!!
This video was super relatable… down to the last name thing. 7 years and technicallyyyyy I haven’t legally changed mine either hahaha
Hahaha no way! It’s so difficult!
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Yall we got religiously married 2 years ago and still haven’t registered our marriage like legally 🥲 the government has no idea im married
@@haleypham Love you so much babe
As a girl who's been watching you since middle school and is turning 20 very soon, this was so comforting
Girl i totally feel you when it comes to being productive/prioritizing. I used to be super lazy at working out, cleaning, etc. so I prayed to God to give me the desire and energy to be productive and healthy. Small steps are still steps. Keep your head up and one day it’ll be a habit you dont even notice!
This video came just in time, it’s nice to see that we’re not alone and we can all motivate each other to improve ourselves!
When you said you needed to do this out of appreciation for your life I started tearing up. I needed to hear that and can’t wait to start my own habit-changing journey with you
The way that this video manages to be so inspiring in a genuine way that doesn’t feel forced or fake literally makes me so happy
This has been me as well, fast food for every meal, waking up late :(, and just not doing well, thank you for sharing this Haley❤️
I'm 26 this year and I need to learn some adult things too (Y) also, I was JUST at that JuiceLand in barton - would love to socialise with you x
Doing what you actually saying you’re going to do!!!!!!!! Praying over this. I have so many dreams and goals and Lord WILLING they all come true. Because I am tired of being here I am, I am tired of my “routine,” I don’t have anything keeping me here, and I want to move and travel. Praying praying praying
I am 23 and I really needed this video! So thank you! :)
Haley please keep doing this series, it’s so inspirational! I’ve also been trying to really transform my life recently, and just went to my first adult small group at my church a few weeks ago. It was so nice and all I could think was “why did I wait so long to do this”. I hope you can keep posting and we can feel like we’re doing this together!
Girl I feel you, I’m turning 21 this year too and I feel like there’s some things I need to finally do instead of saying I’m going to and then not. I’ve accomplished several things I didn’t think I could do this year already and I want to keep that energy and put it into other areas in my life!
I’m 19 going on 20 and I can’t relate more honestly needed to see this video I’ve watched it twice thank youuuu so much
"show appreciation for my life by living it" oh my goodness
the algorithm really hit me in the heart with this one. i needed this video so bad right now, let’s get into routine girlll
Seeing this video made me realized that I'm not the only one who feels like I'm being lost in track. I'm 22, and I do feel like I don't have a life because I don't trust myself with the things I want to do. It's true that, we're young and don't need to rush things, but it's important that we also learn and improve while we're young. Thank u Haley! You're the only youtuber I watch here because I feel do related to your vlogs. 🥰
i need a series of getting life together again, learning, achieving goals and motivation. i would totally watch every video.
haley is literally my comfort youtuber everytime she uploads i get so happy :’)
this is one of my fave videos i've ever seen. i really really loved how you said you want to do this out appreciation for your life, not hatred. that is such beautiful advice. thank you.
I had to read Atomic Habits for my psychology class and it has been one of the only required books through school that I have genuinely enjoyed and would pick up again! Can't wait to watch you grow and see what you achieve on this journey
I didn't get my shit together until my 30s so you're doing great, and you'll feel sooo much better.
How can't u have self-confidence while you're pretty! i know beauty is not everything but come on you're gorgeous gurlll ❤️
Since the past 5 months, I have become a shadow of my past self. You're so relatable man.
I NEEDED THIS WAKE-UP CALL!! Let's do this together Haley
You do what you need to do girl! LOVE your honesty and just how real and relatable you are ❤️ it’s so tough being an adult and so many people struggle with these things. Thank you for bringing light to this and having the confidence to share this with us. You go girl! 😁
So excited for you! I’m in my second week of my big lifestyle change and I already feel so much more confident and motivated to do things. Staying consistent in the Word and forcing myself to go to Bible Study has been a game changer for me!
It’s crazy how much overthinking hinders activities you want to do/overall progress. I’ve leant that introducing things as habits to be way more effective at following a routine
WOWOWOWOWOW the production level on this video !!!!!! so proud of u haley love the videos ⭐️⭐️
Haley please stay encouraged! Thank you for being open enough, confident in the Lord enough to be honest with your viewers abt where you’re at! This serious idea of bring us along in your journey of accepting+ learning responsibility is so wonderful!! You might not realize how many people will benefit from this!! Love you sis
I swear that you help me so much in my life Haley ! You’ve already helped me start to read again and now I’m motivated to be more confident 🙌🏼 Thanks bestie
The video that I need the most right now .This is so inspiring! I am also going through some changes in my life especially with people around me and I think I just need to be real with myself through changes. Only we can control the way we feel and act. Goodluck to everyone who also are making changes in their life ✨
For learning how to cook, honestly meal kits like hello fresh really made me learn how to cook, without the need for grocery store logistics. Also, start with small goals and implement the habits one at a time, all or nothing thinking is what makes people give up when they try to change everything at once!
YES!! I am reading Atomic Habits as well, I’m so glad you picked it up! I’m learning so much and trying to change my habits and that book is a great place to start! So I am on this journey with you!
i’m 24! and my advice to you would be give yourself grace along the way. the most important part is to make sure you’re taking care of you! so exciting :-)
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my RUclips channel 2 months ago about self development. Now I have 196 subs and almost 82 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place.
The fact that i was just crying to my husband last night about being 21 and life passing me by because i don’t have these healthy habits.. and then you post this today. Ugh like just what i needed man 😭😭😭💜💜💜
I definitely have to make changes to my life. I've been in such a funk recently, no motivation, no confidence, I have so many things I want to do but I can't seem to make myself get up and accomplish these things. I have so many goals for myself this year like hitting 20k on RUclips, reading a certain amount of books, finding a full time job...but I can't get my life together enough to make these things happen. I will for sure be taking inspiration from you and this video to try and help me pick myself back up and reach my goals!
this series has been so helpful in making me feel motivated and not so alone in this stuff
I feel this too! I was working full time for about 2-3 years and then decided to go into real estate, and so recently I quit my job to study full time. And omgggg it’s a struggle to switch up your ENTIRE routine and stay motivated while doing it🥲
I’m gonna write this comment so it sticks. I’ve been trying to glow up and change my life for sooo long but I never commit. Well I do for a day, and I’m like “huh that was fun, I’m so productive and amazing” and then I let myself off the hook and don’t discipline myself. SO I’m really excited to go on this journey with the coolest RUclipsr ever. WISH ME LUCK
YOU GOT THIS!! 💗💗💗
@ THANK YOU SO MUCH! 💕I WROTE THAT COMMENT A MONTH AGO AND I CAN DEFINITELY SEE IMPROVEMENT!
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Ive been on this journey too i turned 20 last December and yesterday i realised how easy some things that i used to be so scared of doing is now! You just jave to keep doing them and tell yourself that its really not that big of a deal and you eventually dont even get that anxious about doing these things it just becomes natural. You got this! I know youll make good progress.
Also for learning how to cook, well aside from my parents teaching me, i watched a lot of cooking basics from Gordan ramsay anf a few of his recipes and kitchen tricks and that has helped me a lot
Changing because of appreciation and not hatred is exactly what I needed to hear
Haley I love you ❤️ your videos are literally what keep me going. I love seeing you go through all these changes and watching you grow because I’m right there along with you. I’m 22 just trying to go along and figure it out. This helps to show I am not alone in doing so! Keep it going girly! 💕
Loving the Bible verse at the end so happy you’re not afraid to share your faith 😊especially being in the public eye.
Here is an advice from someone who goes to the gym pretty often: broo literally people there dont care like i swear gym community is the best they are all supportive and nice also they all know that everybody starts at some point so never feel uncomfortable cause you dont know how to do something or ask for help :)
Don’t forget that this is a long process, one step at a time. So don’t plan changing all the things at once, you will fail as everyone. It’s more like a long journey, as you repeat stuff over a long time you adapt and stay consistent. But I LOVE that you are showing us that, I am also turning 21 and it’s so refreshing to see that we all go through this.
Im so glad you’re making these types of video’s because it motivates the people watching them aswell
Something I found helpful for a morning routine or really any habit is make them stackable. Make yourself excited for the routine. So personally I know brushing my teeth only takes 2 minutes but for whatever reason I hate doing it. However I love doing my daily devotional so before I allow myself to do the devotional I brush my teeth. Then every other task in te morning or so is something you aren’t that stoked about. When you are excited to do it it makes it easier to follow through
Love how honest this is, it makes it SO RELATABLE! Wishing you best of luck on your new journey! As for the anxiety, saying hi or smiling at someone at the gym can make their day too just as much as yours!
I think it’s amazing that you saw all these things you want to change and shared them - not easy. Like you, I’m trying to adjust my sleep so I’m getting up and going to sleep at reasonable times. Thanks for sharing.
Haley, you make my sad days into good days. I woke up in a tired and sad mood for no reason at all and I just feel really down like i'm going to cry. I saw that you posted a new video on your story so I immidientally started watching it. Right from the beginning, you made my day 20% better. Thank you so much Haley, love you
haley, i’m actually so proud of you. and grateful that you were open and honest with us. that means a lot. i’m encouraged.
"i think confidence comes from saying you're gonna do something, and then like actually following through" LITERAL ICON THANK YOU THAT IS THE DEFINITION FOR CONFIDENCE WE HAVE ALWAYS NEEDED
One of my favorite methods for pushing myself to do something when I’m feeling nervous is counting. 1,2,3,4,5 and then I go. It’s so good if you’re always procrastinating
This is SO relatable. By far my new fav video of yours. I’ve been on a similar journey right now too so this is super motivating. Thank you!!!
about cooking haley-- honestly no one 'knows' how to cook! we all just follow recipes and are constantly learning. if we make a specific one often then we might memorize it but you can be a cook for 20 years and still look at recipes while you do it :)
Girl!!!! I love this and needed to see this today. Woke up thinking the exact same thing and glad I’m not the only one.
Love that you show the real you♥️
Haley, when you said you were turning 21 I started to cry because I have watched you sine you were like 16! Doing you dance competitions, before Ryan. I am so proud of you! I have also watched you grow so strong in your and Ryan’s faith. I am so proud of you. ✝️💗
I’m so proud of you queen!!!! You’re going to change and be that woman that you’ve always wanted to be!!!
so proud of you for wanting to start a new chapter and do what’s best for you! just remember to give yourself grace on this journey too. sending you love and prayers always!!
I’m so proud of you Haley! I’ve been watching since the beginning. Thank you for being such an inspiration. I hope you are having an amazing day/night🥰 I love you
this video came into my life at the perfect time. i have been stuggling with confidence in my body image and just myself overall. im so excited to go on this journey with you and take small steps to get to the better place. thanks haley love you!!
I love this, and I’ve loved watching you grow up, and I love the Bible verses at the end. I’m 28 and I feel like I’m still learning things, like having a routine, sticking to a work out plan, and a healthy sleep schedule! It’s cool that you’re starting young! Trust me you’re fine! It took me like 2 years to change my name. So don’t feel too bad.
When you spoke about the gym it was the most relatable thing. I still struggle going and it’s always an accomplishment when I go.
This vlog was great! Anyone in their 20/ feeling like this is a lot for them it’s okay… adulting is hard in your 30s too. I love your maturity Haley lol.
oh geez i've been needing a life change for what feels like forever now and i might honestly take this as a sign, it's gonna feel so big and intimidating, but small wins are so important and i feel so inspired knowing that someone is doing it with me
So cool! That inspires me. Here‘s an idea for the car: you could pick one day of the week where you don’t have much to do and that is going to be the car cleaning day. Then you just take half an hour or hour to take the trash out, clean it from the inside and outside etc.
this vlog was actually so motivating i loved to see you get more confident and proud of yourself. Love you
i think one of the most admiral things we can do is to be honest about where we fall short and create habits to help ourselves grow. there’s a reason that many people don’t do that, and it’s because it’s fucking difficult. so you should be so proud of yourself
sometimes we have to just say fuck it and do what’s best for us, eat healthier, work out, do more self care, etc. sometimes when we overthink to do tasks it tastes us longer to do them in the end. so if we just got up and did them without thinking it they would get done faster. I’ll realized that over time when I just get up and clean or get up and workout and don’t think about it or complain it gets done way faster and I feel 10x better after it’s been completed. hang in there though u will get through this girl! everyone is going through changes especially since summer is coming up.
love how you’re not afraid to talk about your faith!! this vid is inspiring and i love ur ring! i want one now loll
ur video actually came in a perfect timing! because i’ve honestly been feeling the same and just recently i’m also trying to change things in my life. Even if its just the smallest things like building a routine and changing my mindset and it definitely helps sm! so thank u for sharing this, u actually inspire me so much 🤍
The second you said “change my last name cause I’ve been married over a year and haven’t done it” I subscribed because SAME !!!
i've been watching ryan for around 3-4 years now, and just started getting into your videos, and found that they are so comforting and relatable!! thank you for being so cool haha :)
I'm so happy seeing you include bible study on your Goals. I know you're studying it but "Consistency is the key" so proud of u sisterr!
Haley, so excited that you joined a bible study! Ive joined an adult one not to long ago and it’s completely changed my life. Gaining wisdom from other believers while also sharing wisdom is such a great way of feeling productive/filled up. I also recommend volunteering for things! (for example food drives or even nursery at your church). I’ve found that giving back to people and using your extra time to be productive for your community is so fulfilling. Can’t wait to see your journey. :)
YES TO ATOMIC HABITS. I don’t even like reading but I could read that book repeatedly it’s so good and helpful! Especially in situations like this where you need to realign your goals and habits. Love this video!
haley!! i genuinely enjoyed this video! thank you for being so transparent about how life and phones can consume one's life productivity. I have definitely been feeling this way where I have been really lazy and unproductive because of my lack of sleep and always on my phone. this video definitely helped me feel more motivated to change the way I live my life currently. can't wait for an update! also love the Bible verse at the end
this is one of my fav vids of u I've seen in a while
Wow, I really love how Haley is being productive and energetic person. Wow, so cool.
I'm 22 and just married and you make me feel so much better about where Im at right now haha thank you for sharing and I'm excited for the rest of this series!!!
Bro. I'm 27. And it's so me. Duh.
Love you Girl. Keep making it a lifestyle.
Dude, we need more of it. Okay?
And also, another thing I've learnt: just don't damn give up. Just keep on standing up, you can take a break, but do not quit. It's the little wins that make it somewhere in the end.
Good luck!!
I hope u get to make yourself a happy and confident life!
you actually have no idea how much i needed this! even the intro resonated with me very strongly, thank you
I feel like we grow up together cause we’re the same age. Thank you for always being my friend ❤️
This video couldn't have come more at a perfect time. Two days ago I was just journaling about this, how I didn't have any goals and really needed to make some (lol) and hoe I had no routine, no structure to my day, stoped working out, eating healthy, and my skin is starting to get acne again as a result. Starting today (I take the beginning of every month kind of as a new months resolution type beat) I'm going to actually start going thru with my goals, and you just motivated me even more, knowing we're both like on the same journey together. Tysm for that!
Every since this year your videos have helped me through a very bad time. Also with all your book videos you have gave me sooo many recommendations. :)
awe you’re so self aware and that’s the first step, proud of you and thank you for being so open and honest 🤍