30 Life Lessons I've Learned in 30 Years 🎉

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  • @danielleb6064
    @danielleb6064 3 года назад +40

    This was a big one recently:
    Don't live each day as of it's your last. Live each day as if it is your FIRST. That just really resonated with me. I have anxiety and often find myself working from a place of fear. This lesson helped me to shift and come from a place of ... wonder. Good stuff.

  • @floatingthoughts
    @floatingthoughts 3 года назад

    so wise and mature for your age! thanks for sharing!

  • @myname7303
    @myname7303 3 года назад

    You are beautiful human being. I wish you happy birthday 🎉

  • @MariaM-qq6kv
    @MariaM-qq6kv 3 года назад

    ISTJ vibes

  • @jessicad7720
    @jessicad7720 3 года назад +40

    One of the best lessons I’ve been learning lately, is that you have to take responsibility for your life, because no one is going to do it for you. Sometimes the only person who can give you the kick up the butt you need is yourself :)

    • @rebeccaa9691
      @rebeccaa9691 3 года назад +1

      I love this lesson😅😅😅

  • @pocketfullofpetals6894
    @pocketfullofpetals6894 3 года назад +21

    The hardest lesson I've learned is to listen to myself and know my truth.

  • @monstyle1459
    @monstyle1459 3 года назад +4

    1. Nothing is as bad as your mind makes it out to be
    2. Nobody knows what's right for you but you
    3. If it doesn't fit, don't force it
    4. Gratitude is powerful
    5. Be patient
    6. There's never a perfect time
    7. Confidence comes from doing
    8. Growth comes from getting out of your comfort zone
    9. Listen to your intuition
    10. Honour your values
    11. Good communication is key
    12. This too shall pass
    13. Take the initiative
    14. Perfection does not exist
    15. You can have balance
    16. Life is full of nuances (nothing is ever black or white)
    17. Failure is a learning experience
    18. Self-compassion is life changing
    19. Self-worth is steadfast
    20. Think critically
    21. Lessons from childhood..
    22. It's ok to ask for help
    23. Listen mindfully
    24. We can't have all the answers but we can always keep learning
    25. Health/wellness can become obsessive
    26. Compare less
    27. "Unproductiveness is not laziness. It's either perfectionism, fear, not knowing where to start, feeling inadequate, or being stretched too thin."
    28. Say sorry when you're wrong
    29. When it all gets too much, take sth out.
    30. Trust the flow of life.

  • @am4nhays
    @am4nhays 3 года назад +10

    30 Life Lessons by Meghan Livingstone
    1.Nothing is as bad as your mind makes it out to be.
    2.Nobody knows what's right for you but you.
    3.If it doesn't fit, don't force it.
    4.Gratitude is powerful.
    5. Be patient.
    6. There's never a perfect time.
    7. Confidence comes from doing.
    8. Growth comes from getting out of your comfort zone.
    9. Listen to your intuition.
    10. Honour your values.
    11. Good communication is key.
    12. This too shall pass.
    13. Take the initiative.
    14. Perfection does not exist.
    15. You can have balance.
    16. Life is full of nuances (nothing is ever black and white).
    17. Failure is a learning experience.
    18. Self-compassion is life changing.
    19. My self-worth is steadfast.
    20. Think critically.
    21. Lessons from my childhood.
    22. It's ok to ask for help.
    23. Listen mindfully.
    24. I can't have all the answers, but I can always keep learning.
    25. Health/ Wellness can become obsessive.
    26. Compare less.
    27. Unproductiveness is not laziness. It's either perfectionism, fear, not knowing where to start, feeling inadequate or being stretched too thin. - anonymous
    28. Say sorry when you're wrong.
    29. When it all gets too much, take something out.
    30. Trust the flow of life.
    Just reading this teach me sooo much. Thank you and have a great day. Happy birthday Meghan 🎉

    • @avishigupta6049
      @avishigupta6049 2 года назад

      Thank you for taking out time and noting down the pointers. Helped me revise all that she said in the video and take a screenshot. Grateful. ❤️

  • @patyespinoza9037
    @patyespinoza9037 3 года назад +31

    A good lesson I have learned is that "theris always something better coming", because in many times I have felt so upset about losing something (a friend, a job, etc), but you need to know that there is a superior reson why that is not in your life anymore. Just trust 💫

    • @larae.5553
      @larae.5553 3 года назад +1

      Oh so there is a reason why I lost my childhood to illness? lmao
      Just joking you are right. always hold your head up high and believe that better times are coming. Hope is all we have after all :)
      I wish you a great day and a great life! Take care

    • @patyespinoza9037
      @patyespinoza9037 3 года назад

      @@larae.5553 i could say exactly the same anyway... illneses suck! 🙄 but we still going on! Have a nice day! 😊

    • @thunguyen3425
      @thunguyen3425 3 года назад +1

      Totally believe it because i went through it

  • @heathershand9083
    @heathershand9083 3 года назад +8

    Happy Birthday Meghan x You can't control others; how they behave, what they say or do. You can only control your own choices in life. Once you stop getting upset at the behaviour of others and focus on yourself things get so much easier. That's probably my biggest life lesson in 56 years on this planet.

  • @zaraxael1778
    @zaraxael1778 3 года назад +14

    Meghan, I just discovered your channel and let me tell you... I'm obsessed! I've been watching your videos whenever I have some free time, it's all I do lol!
    Congrats for your amazing youtube channel and your 30th!

    • @laurieanne3075
      @laurieanne3075 3 года назад +1

      i agree with this comment!! :)

    • @queenbhatari5171
      @queenbhatari5171 3 года назад +2

      This exactly me, I just found out her Chanel like one good day agooo , I feel like ts miracle to meet her.

  • @ms1295
    @ms1295 3 года назад +9

    So young and so wise! Thank you for such important lessons! Many blessings.

  • @eevaashley9367
    @eevaashley9367 3 года назад +8

    Happy Birthday, dear Meghan🥰❤❤❤ Love you so much!!!
    Btw! Whoever is reading this comment.. Buy a book called You are a badass❤❤❤

  • @darthfiende1
    @darthfiende1 3 года назад +8

    This may sound cynical, but I've learned that everyone can be relied upon to act on whatever they feel is in their best interest from their level of understanding and authenticity. It makes my and others' actions way more understandable.

  • @YehavHartman
    @YehavHartman 3 года назад +8

    my lesson: question the narratives the mind creates. it's his habit and way of work, and can be delusive.

  • @eloisematchbox5924
    @eloisematchbox5924 3 года назад +2

    Really appreciated this video, Meghan, thank you for making it! I think something I've learned/realised is you cannot please everyone and not everyone will like you - but that it's Ok and you have to be you and your genuine self. Your channel has brought me much comfort, especially during this difficult period of Covid. Much love! X

  • @ChrisGaultHealthyLiving
    @ChrisGaultHealthyLiving 3 года назад +9

    Awesome lessons, Meghan! Continue to learn & grow! Awesome video!

  • @andreiadias2600
    @andreiadias2600 3 года назад +4

    Hey Meghan! I guess one of the best lessons I've learned is simply accept our emotions as they are in the present moment. We often push emotions away or try to deny them, when the key is actually accept them. So, for example, when I'm sad I just accept the fact that I'm sad. And that's fine, because I know is temporary. It's something that definitely needs practice, but once you've done the work, it's honestly life changing.
    Thank you for inspire us!

  • @annarosalavecchia1910
    @annarosalavecchia1910 3 года назад +4

    One lesson I learned was from the wonderful and optimistic Dolly Patron "Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain".... So darn true!

  • @ActionPills
    @ActionPills Год назад +1

    💊 - Nothing is ever as bad as your mind makes it up to be
    💊 - We all have the answers within us
    💊 - If it doesn't fit, don't force it
    💊 - Gratitude is powerful
    💊 - Having patience
    💊 - Waiting for the perfect time can lead to waiting forever.
    💊 - Confidence comes from doing the thing, not just thinking about it.
    💊 - Growth comes from getting out of your comfort zone.
    💊 - Listening to your intuition and being honest with yourself are key.
    💊 - Living by your values enriches your life.
    💊 - Staying true to yourself is important.
    💊 - Good communication is vital in relationships.
    💊 - Express yourself openly and honestly.
    💊 - Remember that this too shall pass.
    💊 - Take initiative in life.
    💊 Perfection does not exist and balance is important
    💊 - Realizing that perfection doesn't exist is liberating
    💊 - Having balance is key to feeling joyful in life
    💊 - There is a lot of gray area and nuance in life
    💊 - Not oversimplifying things is important in understanding life's complexity
    💊 - Failure should be seen as a learning opportunity, not a loss
    💊 - Lessons from failure can be applied to future situations
    💊 - Thinking critically in an objective and analytical way helps in making good choices in life.
    💊 - Being open-minded and allowing beliefs to change fosters development of more sophisticated perspectives.
    💊 - Asking for help is more than okay and it is impossible to do everything alone.
    💊 - Practicing mindful listening leads to better conversations and learning from others.
    💊 - Accepting that we don't have all the answers and embracing continuous learning.
    💊 - Being aware of the dangers of disordered eating and diet culture in the health and wellness world.
    💊 Comparing your life less to others, especially what we see on social media
    💊 - Focus on your own real life
    💊 - Learned the importance of trusting the flow of life
    💊 - Everything will work out in the end

  • @patyespinoza9037
    @patyespinoza9037 3 года назад +6

    I love how passioned you express about all these things, thanks Meghan! 🤍

  • @ColleenChristensen
    @ColleenChristensen 3 года назад

    Happy late birthday!

  • @letsgrowtogetherr
    @letsgrowtogetherr 3 года назад +5

    Valuable lessons. Thank you for sharing and happy birthday ❤️

  • @trish-leigh3737
    @trish-leigh3737 3 года назад +2

    Happy Birthday. You are amazing. I wish I had learnt as much as you have about life by the time I turned 30. I have just turned 60 and some of these were eye openers for me - guess we never stop learning. Thanks for the inspiration xx

  • @anneandthebooks
    @anneandthebooks 3 года назад +3

    You're such an inspiration for me! It's the best channel I discovered last year! I wish you all the best!

  • @shaisortino2760
    @shaisortino2760 3 года назад +3

    Thank you for this wonderful video Meghan. This came at the perfect time.

  • @absorbnatureexploringkashm2304
    @absorbnatureexploringkashm2304 3 года назад +2

    Happy Birthday from Kashmir India 🎂 🎂

  • @wendyinvt802
    @wendyinvt802 3 года назад +3

    Happy birthday! Love that dress!

  • @joanmcmanus5320
    @joanmcmanus5320 3 года назад +3

    Great video, Meghan. To add to the reasons for unproductiveness, I would say that it could also be the feeling that you must do a job that is unfulfilling (which you may or may not want to consciously admit).

  • @1980frey
    @1980frey 3 года назад +2

    Happy birthday!! The quote i try to remember (it is kind of a lesson as one you mentioned) "Everything ends with an Happy End. If you are not happy it simply means it is not the end" - i heard it in an (awsome!!) movie "The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel". :)

    • @tashatipton1810
      @tashatipton1810 3 года назад +1

      Those movies are my favorite! So many good lessens and so uplifting. I love movies that have meaning and teach you something!

  • @scenepunk09
    @scenepunk09 3 года назад +1

    I'm turning 30 in a couple of months and I hate it but I accept it...your excitement makes me feel better about it too. An important lesson I learned is no one really cares that much what u do. Like if u embarrass yourself they might not even notice. And if they do they will forget it pretty fast. Alot of these things we have been told but must be learned with experience...

  • @neveenfbable
    @neveenfbable 2 месяца назад

    I loved all the lessons, Meghan, especially number 30. Trust God ( our Creator ) because everything is under His control and He is the most Loving and Caring.

  • @thinnthuzarhtet4823
    @thinnthuzarhtet4823 3 года назад +1

    oh my Happy Birthday 🥳 we are neighbours 😅 I turned 30 on 9th January 🥰

  • @orangeleaf2096
    @orangeleaf2096 3 года назад +1

    Happy birthday, although you are half my age but I learn a lot from you, good job and keep going

  • @noemihofer8847
    @noemihofer8847 3 года назад +2

    Happy birthday Meghan! 🥳

  • @yarayosf8664
    @yarayosf8664 3 года назад +1

    OMG, that's one of the most important and valuable videos I've ever watched on RUclips 😍😍 it's like I'm reading a book! Thanks for sharing this with us, we love you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @aniamroz-pacula9769
    @aniamroz-pacula9769 3 года назад +1

    Happy birthday, Meghan!🙌😘 Loving all the lessons, 21 just made me lol😁 thank you so much for sharing 🌞

  • @ifigeniapapadelli5688
    @ifigeniapapadelli5688 3 года назад +1

    A very important lesson that I've learned over the past couple of years is that... Healing takes time! 😏❤️

  • @TisaDiaries
    @TisaDiaries 3 года назад +1

    Happy birthday Meghan! You always inspire me. Stay blessed and keep safe. Much love 💕

  • @miensinaga4064
    @miensinaga4064 3 года назад +1

    "Live to the fullest, coz all we have is now" somehow this quote makes me calm from anxiety i have.. i really study hard about life has its own law..
    Thankyou for sharing tho..
    Happy birthday 🎉

  • @queenbhatari5171
    @queenbhatari5171 3 года назад +1

    Happy bday lov

  • @cynthiaotoole7996
    @cynthiaotoole7996 2 года назад

    My Mum's birthday is same as yours Megan!! I love your videos, started listening to them yesterday. Thank you 😊 💓 Cynthia

  • @DearDragonfly
    @DearDragonfly 2 года назад

    Related to what Meghan shared as her 29th lesson: Saying 'yes' to something, means you are saying 'no' to another priority/task etc. Useful reminder when you feel overwhelmed with lots to do. It's a reminder to prioritise and set boundaries.

  • @Autisticheather
    @Autisticheather 3 года назад

    If a prospective partner tells you their faults...LISTEN!! they will not lie about that!

  • @smartmom7758
    @smartmom7758 3 года назад +1

    Great tips great video I am over 30.. it's still good to hear all the tips

  • @Autisticheather
    @Autisticheather 3 года назад

    Touch people more. When you're talking to them lightly touching their shoulder or arm, goes such a long way in connecting and making people feel not so alone. Kids too!!

  • @helengeris3858
    @helengeris3858 3 года назад +1

    Lesson number 1 was exactly what I needed to hear right now. Thank you!

  • @nayabshaikh2521
    @nayabshaikh2521 3 года назад +1

    Happy Birthday Beautiful ❤️ 🎂

  • @tracyjasmine9180
    @tracyjasmine9180 3 года назад +1

    Happy Birthday 🎊! Continue to glow

  • @PrincessofErised
    @PrincessofErised 3 года назад

    I got my back. I trust myself that I will figure it out, that I will get it done, that no matter what... my self-worth is steadfast. You nailed it with that one. It is not about ego, but of trust ... in one self.

  • @lynflom125
    @lynflom125 3 года назад

    I was not a patient person either, but after having my 2 kids, patience is my best quality.

  • @rorosnookie
    @rorosnookie 2 года назад

    Not everyone is going to like you no matter what you do. Don’t try to win those people over and stray away from who you are just for their approval. It’s not worth it

  • @rorosnookie
    @rorosnookie 2 года назад

    How your body physically looks is the least interesting thing about you

  • @lyndreemalang6302
    @lyndreemalang6302 3 года назад

    What doesn’t kill you will only make you stronger. :)

  • @itsallaboutnothing2672
    @itsallaboutnothing2672 3 года назад

    Amazing Just THANK YOU💖💖💖💖👍👍👍

  • @rushmanzero
    @rushmanzero 3 года назад

    You are filled with all kinds of wisdom. Thanks for sharing this.

  • @sharonthepartyqueen5374
    @sharonthepartyqueen5374 Год назад

    Twat? 😂 Maybe you should’ve edited that one out. 😮

  • @joannefortman1979
    @joannefortman1979 3 года назад +1

    I used to think it was pea pot and human bean also. 😂🤣

  • @intentionaldes2654
    @intentionaldes2654 3 года назад

    Been enjoying your videos I aspire to create content as good as you haha

  • @robin231176
    @robin231176 3 года назад

    Anger does more harm to ourselves than to the object of our anger.

  • @self-loveandsanity3567
    @self-loveandsanity3567 3 года назад +1

    Ohh, I turn 30 this year too! 1991 babies!

  • @palakjain1099
    @palakjain1099 3 года назад

    listening to you feels like I'm talking to a friend

  • @Autisticheather
    @Autisticheather 3 года назад

    Don't always believe what you think

  • @hollylevey5889
    @hollylevey5889 3 года назад

    Happy belated 30th birthday 🎂🎉🎈

  • @bajan256
    @bajan256 3 года назад

    Don’t sweat the small stuff and it’s all small stuff

  • @natalie.louise
    @natalie.louise 3 года назад

    I absolutely love this.

  • @agnieszkaking4609
    @agnieszkaking4609 3 года назад

    Wow Megan you smashed it!!! Soooo amazing you and your videos!!! I love my 30s you too!! 💕 Happy Birthday 🎂 beautiful! Xxx

  • @fotinichristodoulou7326
    @fotinichristodoulou7326 3 года назад

    I love your calm, non judgemental and positive energy! So many great tips.. Personally I found no. 1, no. 18 and no.22 unbelievably helpful... Thank you! ❤️🙏
    P. s. Happy birthday!! 😊🎂🎉💐

  • @rubberdwellers3911
    @rubberdwellers3911 3 года назад

    Happy birthday. Mine was the 21st. I have not celebrated my birthday ever in my adult life. I'm 41 and my wife forgot it was my birthday again. LOL
    Maybe when I'm 70 I'll have a birthday party to celebrate that I made it to 70. 😂🤣😂
    and for people that are reading this thinking that my wife won't even celebrate my birthday means I'm a real mean person. No quite the opposite. My wife wants to work so I stay at home and be a stay-at-home dad. I worship the ground my wife walks upon. I say yes ma'am. I pick up my underwear off the floor and I put the toilet seat lid down. I do not drink smoke or have any interest in man things like hunting and cars.
    I said all this to say this. What I have learned in my 41 years of life, is everything that I have learned previously to this lesson was null and void. It is not about you. What I have learned it is always about somebody else. To live an honest life is to live to love. And when you truly love it is evident because Love is void of self.

  • @lamismostafa5653
    @lamismostafa5653 3 года назад +1

    Happy birthday 🎂 💐

  • @ursulamelia7136
    @ursulamelia7136 3 года назад

    Happy birthday!😊😊😊💕💕. All great lessons! Self-compassion and not taking too much on must be the top 2! Sending many good wishes your way!😊😊😊💕💕

  • @oromochic1993
    @oromochic1993 3 года назад +1

    Happy Birthday 😊

  • @siddeswaran8440
    @siddeswaran8440 3 года назад

    Wishing you a day filled with happiness and a year filled with joy. Happy birthday!”Have a wonderful time and a very happy birthday!” “Hope your special day brings you all that your heart desires!

  • @Ally-ug3nq
    @Ally-ug3nq 3 года назад

    Happy 😊 30th🎂✨🎊💃🌷🍾✨🎉 - my husband turned 30 on the 13th🍺 - I turn 30💃 in September🌻

  • @annicknicky3673
    @annicknicky3673 3 года назад

    If you can't do anything about it, don't worry about it.
    I read about this in a magazine and it just stuck with me. I'm still learning to live bij this, but I'm not as impatient anymore when I'm behind a slow driving vehicle and I can't overtake it, I just stay behind it and try to enjoy the view around me as long at it is safe.

  • @petitsjoujoux5011
    @petitsjoujoux5011 3 года назад

    Happy Birthday Meghan!!! I just turned 30 too about 10 days ago (January 16). It was an interesting video to watch! May you have many more joys in your life :)

  • @aditimahato1476
    @aditimahato1476 3 года назад

    Happy Birthday 🎂....and thank you for sharing...these tips are so so helpful ❤️❤️❤️

  • @melissashows7813
    @melissashows7813 3 года назад

    I have been working on self acceptance. My little mantra lately has been, "I am okay with myself." It's nothing profound, but for some reason the word "okay" is a much easier milestone for me.

  • @betsy3234
    @betsy3234 3 года назад

    To my favorite U tuber, Happy birthday 🥳 you have a great way with words, always putting everything into good perspective.
    Lots of love💗

  • @invlogn7943
    @invlogn7943 3 года назад

    Hi Meghan,my English is really bad but i learn English in University of Indonesian, I watched your vidio two days ago. I think your vidio's can help me to learn English and many ideas in this vidio's so i really like it😀

  • @eugenesanaaa
    @eugenesanaaa 3 года назад

    That lesson no. 21🤗😍

  • @feliciaadindar8842
    @feliciaadindar8842 3 года назад

    Life lesson that I learned very recently is, don't be too hard on yourself. We made mistakes, we had our messy human moments, and sometimes it makes me feel undeserving so I'm kinda punishing myself for it. But I actually did try my best and if it didn't work the way I wanted. Then so be it and It's okay. To try your best, admit that we make mistakes and try to do better next time is what is important.

  • @florachu5639
    @florachu5639 3 года назад

    I was born on the same day as you

  • @paulafeliciotti483
    @paulafeliciotti483 3 года назад

    Happy birthday!!! Thank you for these 2 or 3 years !! I love your channel !! You've been a great teacher for me and, going through my healing process was so much better with all the información You share and your company. I'm grateful for this! I hope more people discover your channel and follow you ❤️

  • @Autisticheather
    @Autisticheather 3 года назад

    Talk less, listen more

  • @8randomprettysecret8
    @8randomprettysecret8 3 года назад

    oh and twive is your new word lmao

  • @victoriar8668
    @victoriar8668 3 года назад

    So happy for you both!!! ❤️❤️❤️ i so believe in fate and everything that’s meant to be will be❤️

  • @carnellburgess6349
    @carnellburgess6349 3 года назад

    Happy Birthday 😊! Enjoy Your Special Day 😊

  • @athenagem17
    @athenagem17 3 года назад

    Happy Birthday, Meghan! I'm so happy I came across yong channel last year. 💖 whenever I watch your videos, you're like a mentor/big sister who reminds me to take care of myself or be at peace with myself. 💙 I wish you more happy, and healthy years to come! 💖💖

  • @josiemarty
    @josiemarty 3 года назад

    Happy Birthday!!!🎉

  • @pattycandle3596
    @pattycandle3596 3 года назад

    Hello from France ! Love this video really ! My favorite thought when I'm anxious : Don't worry everything is going to be ok. The best is yet to come.

  • @dinaemad3795
    @dinaemad3795 3 года назад

    Happy birthday to you

  • @dianatolop
    @dianatolop 3 года назад

    Happy birthday!! 🥳 Thank you for your content. I really enjoy watching your videos

  • @aniamroz-pacula9769
    @aniamroz-pacula9769 3 года назад

    Happy birthday, Meghan!🙌😘 Loving all the lessons, 21 just made me lol😁 thank you so much for sharing 🌞

  • @anadajevic3024
    @anadajevic3024 3 года назад

    Happy b-day! 🎉🎈Your thoughts on this topic were very interesting and wise, thank you for sharing! Lesson that I learnt this year was - try not to lie to yourself, especially when it comes to your values. Not being honest with yourself is making you unable to know your true self, your purpose and achieve true fulfillment.

  • @octoberfirefly
    @octoberfirefly 3 года назад

    Hi. What brand/type rollers do you use on your wrist? Thanks. :) 🌾🍃

  • @rebeccaa9691
    @rebeccaa9691 3 года назад

    Thank you for these beautiful lessons Meghan! 😊 They really coincide with what I'm learning as I'm studying the bible :) 💕

  • @niru4256
    @niru4256 3 года назад

    I am being more mindful about my thoughts how frequently it is flipping paper for me and demanding my views about it and depriving me from the reality or consciousnes.

  • @dbrown2890
    @dbrown2890 3 года назад

    Two lessons I have learned in life is :
    Do not continue to help people whom do no want to be helped . Let them go. Their failure can either teach them or detour them . But it is not your job to fix their issues especially when they fail to listen to well rounded advice .
    Also, do not expect much out of people . Understand the difference between the potential you see in someone versus they reality they present .

  • @CupCakesNKittyLitter
    @CupCakesNKittyLitter 3 года назад

    Thank you for this!