如果在香港有不錯入息,大可請個專人幫助小朋友学習。喺英國有特殊學校,但要小朋友重新用英語學習,恐怕困難更大,壓力更大,成功未知率更大。如學習更不理想,有何 plan B ? 大英帝國現时面臨重重困境,(5+1)年後政策係點,無人知,到時無得入籍,plan C 又點? 入到籍又係咪萬事順利? 英国本土人都心中無底,何妨外來人? 老公做工程師,學歷經驗喺英國受唔受承認係一個問題,就算成功搵返本行,然因稅率較重,落袋就差不多肯定会少咗。媽咪喺香港做 PA, 喺英國做返本行相信亦会有些困難,除非打唐人公司工,但女兒如讀特殊学校,如住處在學校附近,那区工作易揾嗎? 不確定因素的確頗多。如果想去英國的心愿放不下,可以嘗试带女兒去英國住半至一年喺吓生活如何,之後再作長遠打算,有老公喺香港工作有入息作支援,困難应該会較全家一齊移民要面對的少。總括来講,切勿想像英國係世外桃源,喺英國生活亦係困難重重,睇本土人有幾多要靠 benefits 去過基本生活就有個大概矣。
Must leave. I left HK in 1994 at age 44, daughter age 10. I owned a flat in Tai Hang Road, high income. No job when I landed. Work and study hard. Things will get better. Less luxury but no big deal.
黒人問號❓如果老公係HKIE、ICE、IstructE 工程師😅, 應該絕對可以transfer 執業資格😂。 電工或化學或電腦工程師英國周圍都缺。最好補返CSCS card 同 CITB site management certificate( for manager). 兩個禮拜一定有工見。😊 英國工程師 Cons:1)工地多數較偏遠50-70miles away,要識揸車。2)must have cscs card、SMST training、first aid training 3)畢業證書要third party background check 4) 有BNO護照不用work visa 以上ok ❤直接返工
@@cychan7862 : Why ? ICE and IStructE are quite high standards wor... FYI. This is the list of Chartered Professional qualifications and the related regulators... en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_professional_associations_in_the_United_Kingdom Most of them are "proven by your peers"... i.e. Somebody else to check your work, before they past you, kind of thing. Otherwise your peers won't past you. When you join as a member as well. They could, literally blackball you, and remove your membership as well. Regulators as well..... en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_regulators_in_the_United_Kingdom
Thanks for you guys always so helpful to hongkonger! Sky is limited. Better let them to give it a shot. They never tried they never got experience. Xoxo
In the present economy situation in UK,the government is rumoured to be seeking savings and reduced spending in all departments The children needs to attend special needs teaching and also have additional difficulty in communication
I suggest the mother should wait until her girls are aged about 9 and 12 when they are a little older and can take care of themselves better. There are morning breakfast and after school clubs run by schools that cater for parents who work. Obviously these clubs cost money but it won’t be that much and affordable. With regards to dyslexia and ADHD, schools will do their own assessments and even if the mum doesn’t tell the school about these learning problems, teachers will find out eventually when the girls struggle with learning. Special Educational Needs teacher and assistants will help and take them out of mainstream class if necessary. Schools that have a large proportion of SEN children will hold special classes for them. GP and Drs will not make these assessments and their primary role is to contact child social services if they find problems within a household ie abuse or violence against a minor.
I agree. If I was in their situation... and they are earning quite a decent amount of money right now. Just keep saving it. And then.. when they are a little bit older.. And both of them would also consider retirements too. Then at that point in time.. DO migrate over as an entire family. And then consider either using one income between the both of them.. Or for her husband.. to also consider to do some kind of consultancy work, in his same sector, or other. Since he works in construction.. there is the construction sector here. But because you are not necessarily qualified by this standards.. or maybe the building in HK are more commercial buildings, and in the UK, it is more domestic. (They have different regulations as well.) He can only join existing established companies. And I am sure that they would welcome him. Cos this area is always in demand ? There is no such a thing as an "unregulated one man band". Don't go down this route. Even if he works as a "sale agent" for one of the top 5 home building firms. He would still earn quite a good wage ? Like... I dunno... 30-40k per year... If along with their own savings. I think this is enough really. They must remember that. Everything that they earned in HK. They must sell up, and bank it. Then when they reach here, open a new bank account with the same company. An international one that does with international accounts is preferable. So.... Then treat your new life, as one that has to pay local taxation etc. Each time you leave a country. Clear that tax. Start a new start. Don't leave behind strings and strings. Clean it up after yourself. With this clear cut ties.. I think it would be better for you overall anyway. Cos then... for the children, even if they are a little bit behind as well.. it does not matter, cos the support and the standards are quite good. Also... by that time... your kids, might be able to enter the local process of education as well. e.g. Apprenticeships. Or colleges with heavy emphasis on uni level teaching. Cos some of the materials now... which was the old university materials have been pushed downwards now. After a teenager finishes this.. then they literally just... can enter the workforce asap. Without the heavy uni fees or whatever it is. So.. this is something to think about. Cos their kids can enter the UK's study + work programmes then... which is a different method of teaching altogether anyway. Of course, only migrate as a couple together.. cos I don't think that you could past Home Office to enter the UK alone like this. No way....
對小朋友來講,沒有什麼是比父母一起更加重要。如果先生實在唔同意去英國 我個人認為就唔好去。如果你係都強迫佢去,有什麼不順心在英國,佢會怪你的。香港唔係地獄,英國唔係天堂,在哪裡生活最重要都是自己的心態。
Well said.
即使唔迫佢而自己帶住兩個細佬過去,分開咗個家又有乜意思?香港真係唔咁差呀?依家又口罩又乜又七,又咁多人跟風走好似唔走唔得咁,其實遲啲回復返正常就會正常返㗎啦。到時再諗清楚係咪真係要走啦
小朋友成長於健全家庭大於一切,學校壓力大可以考慮轉校。
你一人承擔,你會爆煲,所有成員活在痛苦中
咁如果呢位女士因丈夫而心不甘,情不願留在香港,又是否可以什麼不順心也抱怨丈夫呢?
十分欣賞 Vincent & Chrissy 願意接受私訊為有疑慮/訴心事嘅網友解答難題/煩惱,真難得 👍👍💛
Vincent,你真心助香港同胞,真多謝你,而我也極同意你的貼地意見,加油!
主持人好中肯,不偏不倚,一家人齊整好重要,尤其係小朋友太細。
最欣賞你哋係會講英國個現實同事實出嚟,唔會一味收埋英國有的問題去誤導其他人,同好多RUclipsr唔同
Vincent&Chrissy真係好有愛心❤️和同理心,好喜歡睇你倆的頻道!
欣賞VincentChrissy真心地給網友意見和細心分析,你倆卻出於愛心,耐心地給予鼓勵,安慰和支援,難能可貴!讚👍🏻
其實我同佢嘅情況都相似,但係我建議我老公留係香港做嘢寄錢俾我係英國生活費,香港層樓就賣咗佢攞啲錢去英國買樓,如果你相信你老公就叫你老公租樓或者住係親人屋企囉!一個男人其實都好易安排,其實重要係小朋友讀書啫!萬一你喺英國唔啱住要回流,都有個老公仲喺香港,叫個老公一有假期就飛來英國搵你地,到小朋友暑假嘅時候又飛返香港未得囉😊但係你要相信你老公先可以做到,其實我老公都話會放棄香港陪我哋,但係我覺得如果佢嚟到英國做啲佢唔鍾意做嘅嘢或者搵唔到佢想要嘅收入,佢就會埋怨同鬧交所以我寧願佢喺香港搵錢畀我,只不過可能一年要搭幾次飛機見面麻煩D囉😊或者可以幫你老公喺英國搵工,搵到份工叫埋佢一齊喺英國都得,如果你老公都係想小朋友好就應該好好諗下💪
仔女仲細,一家人齊齊整整比較重要,我認同主持,儲下錢先,過兩年才考慮。
BTW,好多家庭情況一樣,兩公婆傾唔掂數,咁既話一動不如一靜,太空人家庭結局都係九成會散,我覺得。
仔女係香港可以入happy school龍校,貴學費個D,其實有既,再唔係入國際學校。
其實一切所謂壓力都係源於父母. 香港有冇適合有讀寫障碍既小朋友讀? 一定有, 但唔會係名校, 仲可以話3,4線學校. 問題係家長接唔接受到. 會唔會覺得同人地講會冇面.
所以唔好再用香港讀書壓力大做借口, 你要讀唔大壓力既學校一定有得你揀, 問題係你又想仔女入名校, 又想冇壓力真係唔可能會有.
去到英國讀State school梗係冇壓力, 但其實就等於係香港讀"鮮魚行"一樣. 係香港一定接受唔到但係英國就開心接受, 自欺欺人到冇野講.
Vincent, Chrissy 好好人👍👍帶給很多想來英國資訊.
你的意見很實際,現實與希望是有距離的,給家庭一兩年時間,找個共識才決定,家庭完整快樂才是重要。
如果淨係擔心小朋友係讀寫障礙嘅問題:咁我覺得冇需要咁大犧牲去移民。 香港有好多時候都可以support讀寫障礙的小朋友。 如果鍾意英文制度可以睇吓英基,而你兩公婆人工應該可以support到小朋友的學費。 香港真係好多機構可以支援讀寫障礙或Sen的小朋友. 正如有些網友所講小朋友可以同父母一齊係緊要的.
其實答案好簡單:係你自己覺得錢重要、還是仔女重要D, period. 如果兩夫妻分隔、離婚嘅可能性有80%.
子女大啲送外國讀書唔得咩
@@0_-EL 大到幾多歲?
其實,無人無物,孤伶伶喺外國讀書,好慘架,好多因為空虛無聊,大大下,又烟又酒....
對,仲有,係睇長遠,還是眼前利弊,爲仔女定爲自己。
男人多數爲自己,女人多數爲仔女。
@@cwso7030 驚太細咪中學畢業後囉,學自立都係時候,點會孤單又唔係斷絕來往,依家科技咁發達已經比以前留學果啲幸福好多啦,長途電話都唔敢打咁多呀咁貴
如果個細路係群腳仔,父母又怕佢哋走咗之後自己孤單又作別論
香港係精英制,對呢類有特殊需要既學生,係學校係唔會有任何既協助,唯有家長私下帶子女去睇專科做training, 但因為教育制度係好谷,會讀得好吃力,走唔到讀國際學校都係好選擇
Vincent 同 Chrissy 的分析頗為中肯,应予以考慮及参考。
如果在香港有不錯入息,大可請個專人幫助小朋友学習。喺英國有特殊學校,但要小朋友重新用英語學習,恐怕困難更大,壓力更大,成功未知率更大。如學習更不理想,有何 plan B ? 大英帝國現时面臨重重困境,(5+1)年後政策係點,無人知,到時無得入籍,plan C 又點? 入到籍又係咪萬事順利? 英国本土人都心中無底,何妨外來人? 老公做工程師,學歷經驗喺英國受唔受承認係一個問題,就算成功搵返本行,然因稅率較重,落袋就差不多肯定会少咗。媽咪喺香港做 PA, 喺英國做返本行相信亦会有些困難,除非打唐人公司工,但女兒如讀特殊学校,如住處在學校附近,那区工作易揾嗎? 不確定因素的確頗多。如果想去英國的心愿放不下,可以嘗试带女兒去英國住半至一年喺吓生活如何,之後再作長遠打算,有老公喺香港工作有入息作支援,困難应該会較全家一齊移民要面對的少。總括来講,切勿想像英國係世外桃源,喺英國生活亦係困難重重,睇本土人有幾多要靠 benefits 去過基本生活就有個大概矣。
Your comment is the best in this thread. I totally agreed
佢老公可以在財政上支持佢3母子生活。開車接送係小問題,揸車亦係必然要學會之事。年中,佢老公咪兩邊飛,大家共聚下囉,暑假/聖誕也可帶孩子回港相聚。平日可以日日zoom meeting, 另一邊要嘗試考英國專業試,揾Agent幫個男嘅揾英國工作。
最重要係大家有共識,向住同一個大目標進發。爲了下一代,自己願意去遷就。
呢個係考驗意志力的時候,當初的山盟海誓唔係發噏風架。成就一段婚姻/一個家庭,靠的是意志力,不單是可冷可熱的感情。
先去一去英國旅行考察下先, 不要先決定要移民, 探下朋友,打聽下先. 一個家一定要一齊的. 男的有男的考慮,女也有女的考慮,但唔駛咁快定案的. 都未出發.
有D朋友仲慘, 阿媽帶仔女黎左,阿爸未黎. 就算有錢可用,生活都係唔開心的。 在香港的也變左好似單身咁,在英國的又變左單親。 對細路都係唔好。家庭不全大家都唔開心。
良心說話,兩位主持說話中肯,幫助很多想移英的朋綱友
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我的女有同一問題,是來了才發覺,是讀普通學校,有一個course 比佢讀,教佢點樣溫書,比個電腦連特別program, 終於讀完大學,係讀music,都搵到工做。
兩位意見。非常宝貴
好鍾意睇呢一類嘅片
好中意聽你們中肯的分析!
過了去英國,如果有什麼生活的不滿/煩腦,就會後悔過去英國;留港,日後仔女繼續壓力大,又會後悔點解當初唔去英國。所以可能點做都好,9成都會怪自己做錯決。定。
她們可以在署假到英國其中1個城市渡假,看下是否適合自己才再打算。我的同事也到了英國試居形式暫住。香港也有特殊教育學校,另找補習姐姐幫手扶教,看看小孩進步。一家人分開生活,感情變谈不太好的。
讀寫障礙唔會入特殊學校。係會入主流學校考試時會加時俾佢10分鐘至20分鐘咁上下。
對有讀者障礙小朋友來說,學英文會否比中文容易?英文好靠聽力,講到出嚟就應該聘到串法,中文好靠視覺及影像
入得香港特殊學校的,起碼中度-重度,香港D專家係唔會輕易判你中度的,絕大部份話你輕度,輕度就要入普通學校,所謂融合教育,即是,將會成日見家長,孩子亦會面對很多比拼壓力,冷言冷語..... 呢D嘢,我見得太多了,香港教育,唔單止制度有問題,係連內裡的人都好有問題。
讀寫障礙係腦神經問題,補習係無用的。
多謝 Vincent & Chrissy 願意接受網友分享,另外我十分同意 Marg 意見
良心意见🙏👍👍👍
有冇提過兩個細路想唔想離開?佢地多唔多同學仔走?
今日睇另一條移英片,男片主話2019時,啱啱安排緊細路出國讀書,係細路提出話可唔可以安排移民,唔再返香港,一家人商量後決心離開做準備。片主嘅老細話俾佢轉到海外公司,但佢想融入英國,只搵本地人公司。倆公婆係白領,為咗移民做準備,一至五返工,六日去學水電點心之類希望多樣手藝旁身。去到英國做維修,考各式各樣牌。佢語重心長話,其實有決心走嘅人已經走曬。剩返響香港嘅,一係有好多錢、唔使做,last minute 走都冇問題;一係有自身條件或者屋企因素;然後就係十五十六放唔低香港擁有嘅嘢。要有自由係要付出,佢話唔走嘅人應該都唔會走啦,但係有決心呢,問題最後可以解決到。
現在英國已經是冬季. 我建議這位女士先行自己一個人到英國住上半年, 感受一下英國冬季的滋味. 英國冬季日短夜長, 又凍又濕氣重. 對患有濕疹的小朋友或成人來說極為不利. 如果這位女士住上一個冬季都覺得氣候對她可以接受, 她應該可以在英國生活下去.
你哋两位真係幫人諗得很貼地,很細節很用心,真係幫助到想走移民的香港人!谢谢!🙏😅💝💪💪
你們的片给我的感覺耳目一新值得追看!
Must leave. I left HK in 1994 at age 44, daughter age 10. I owned a flat in Tai Hang Road, high income. No job when I landed. Work and study hard. Things will get better. Less luxury but no big deal.
謝謝高質分享🙏
據我所知,英國有d工程師專業試係可以在香港考嘅,我有親戚就考咗electronics engineering。我唔知佢嗰瓣有無得考,可以嘅話,响香港考咗先,過到英國會容易d搵番本行。
一定要一家庭齊齊整整,如果缺一人,只是又一多個破碎家庭
黒人問號❓如果老公係HKIE、ICE、IstructE 工程師😅, 應該絕對可以transfer 執業資格😂。
電工或化學或電腦工程師英國周圍都缺。最好補返CSCS card 同 CITB site management certificate( for manager). 兩個禮拜一定有工見。😊
英國工程師 Cons:1)工地多數較偏遠50-70miles away,要識揸車。2)must have cscs card、SMST training、first aid training 3)畢業證書要third party background check 4) 有BNO護照不用work visa
以上ok ❤直接返工
除了學歷外,想找份工作,需要有當地的工作經驗和認識當地的文化.如果沒有這兩點,找工作是不可能.
香港讀得工程, 英文都差
@@cychan7862 : Why ? ICE and IStructE are quite high standards wor...
FYI. This is the list of Chartered Professional qualifications and the related regulators...
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_professional_associations_in_the_United_Kingdom
Most of them are "proven by your peers"... i.e. Somebody else to check your work, before they past you, kind of thing. Otherwise your peers won't past you. When you join as a member as well. They could, literally blackball you, and remove your membership as well.
Regulators as well.....
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_regulators_in_the_United_Kingdom
兩公婆揾到$ , 小朋友大個咪自己去外國讀書, 根本吾洗煩, 一家四口到時收入少咪又嘈, 佢老公思想正確實際.
小朋友係重點, 因為唔知幾時英國關門, 所以會好心急. 如果暫時小朋友上學ok, 不如又諗吓生活上嘅問題, 如太太識唔識駕車, 唔識就立即去學, 就算Uk 可以搭巴士都係有需要有車去買餸. 同先生定一個時間再作決定.
英國關門係一個問題,另一更大問題係,洗腦軍訓式教育,互相告發文化,已經在香港學校開始了,好快要孩子們自我否定,不准講粵語。
真係好意見,我欣賞你們説法
Thanks for you guys always so helpful to hongkonger! Sky is limited. Better let them to give it a shot. They never tried they never got experience. Xoxo
小小心得,請笑納
有學習障礙的兒童之家庭,必須依靠雙方配偶的永久承諾 - 承担《家庭崗位角色》責任。即是丈夫出財力資源而太太出心血照顧兒童直至其成完學業或培訓一項技能。
無論在任何地方生活,無錢就萬萬不能,必須有源源不絕的財政收入,真係要靠食腦,掌握各種渠道的運用,除了曉得揾錢,也要善於開源兼節流。
現時普遍《大難臨頭各自飛》,總之作最好準備兼最壞的打算。
不過,現代嘅香港父母思想比薄弱,因為無根,又吹毛求疵,不善經營家庭,以為賺錢大于一切,其實曉得協調與運用各方資源才會完善生活
真係最大難題係細路~~大人~點都係~可以慢慢嚟~(最好就係自己了解將會發生可能性~再去實踐去英國之行~~)謝謝分享幫助香港人之心~~
讲的好好👍👍
咁好收入,係香港讀國際學校都可以俾小朋友好嘅將來
老實講,勞燕分飛,一定散。而且兩頭家開支更大
同意,工種其實對一些人來說係好重要,可能是生命的全部都未定。
this type of video is interesting and also can help others. Well done!
小朋友除了前途,更需要完整家庭中成長,夫妻彼此要有共識,免强的話,日後只會互相埋怨,家無寧日。
人地家事,夫妻感情如何,小管為妙。
同意,完整家庭一樣重要
@@0_-EL 男人移民到外地,從零開始,要有勇气及尊严要放下,一般香港人是大男人,去到外地語言能力是挑战,年青男女是較容易適應,也比较容易放底身段,四十幾五十歲人士就是考驗,放下尊严,根本没勇气1接受。我90年移民加拿大,我在港時,在日本公司當訾業部经理,每月13500元/14個月糧,當年居屋四十幾五十萬港元。都三十二年了,今年退休。(在温哥华)
@@piusleung9390 大把藍領過咗去,佢哋話英文都唔識
移民去外地夫婦一定要一條心.一同面對困難.能過平淡生活就無問題.鬼婆周身無錢都得.香港人要過高質素生活.
其实只要一家齐齐整整,边度生活都可以,其实香港也有相关学校既。
很貼地的分析🙏
太空人及兩大人既所有問題跟本就吾係重要!大部份移民主因,大家自己好清楚!襯小朋友越細,咁家早移,英國小五及六入學,vicent你應講下比佢地知。既然佢兩大人之前揾咁多,上一代大空人係無視像架!啊媽應無須要去打工先,等小朋友上左中學四後,按情況最揀打工與否!越早越對小朋友未來好。人要變心,同床又如何?錢多又如何?事有急切、難易之序,咁大個人冷靜想想啦。邊個移民無問題呢!
Well said !
香港教育而家根本基本質素都無,再留落去,孩子遲早變哂政治工具。
其實香港也有一些學校專門負責讀書障礙的學生,不一定要在英國讀書。試試在香港找找,看看適不適合才決定
如果你喺香港揾到間咁嘅學校,請公告天下,功德無量🙏🏻
@清水太郎 你似乎唔知咩叫讀寫障礙,咩叫SEN兒童,亦不太了解香港的教育,尤其是香港的掛羊頭賣狗肉的所謂共融教育。
@清水太郎 問題係,SEN兒童在學校會受到好多壓力,來自教師的,同學的,其他家長的,一路身心受創地成長(這是我耳聞目見的),會造成很多心理問題,並非識幾多個字咁簡單。
喺歐美國家,單以讀寫問題爲例,好多考試係以選擇題爲主,就係遷就這些兒童。
其一例子,我朋友個仔喺美國成長,佢有表達機能問題,一路學校有課後小班教學,家長亦很明白佢情形,不會抗拒,老師無畀壓力,仲叫我朋友降低要求,去到大學,有一位教授願意畀機會佢,佢什至可以讀到碩士學位。
如果可以讓孩子好一點地成長,家長爲何不做呢?
工作可以再揾過,即使未盡如人意,亦會有收入。
人的一生,若少時蒙上了黑影,一生將揮之不去。
@清水太郎 父母能屈能伸,都係對子女一個很好的身教。🙏🏻
@清水太郎 讀寫不可以, 因為整個 coding n de coding 的過程,唔知邊一個點出事。ADHD 都還可以,但西藥有爭議性&副作用,supplements 則 見仁見智,case by case。
有機會走而唔就, 最好就作好一個最壞打算, 永遠都再無呢個機會走喇.
請個長假去英國住吓親身感覺吓,係當地同早排嚟到既傾吓,理解吓佢哋既生活。另外老公可以試吓係香港搵吓英國既工,試試水温。
👍🏻👏🏻🙏🏻thank you for your share
雙方有歧見就有問題,最重要你想點?及要付出的代價!你自己應該知!
一個女人要照顧兩個細路又要搵錢一腳踢,重要未必做老本行,如果銀彈唔充足,老公又話做太空人就有風險離婚兼隨時回流,無謂博啦!
聽兩位主持人講留在香港,勸掂你老公先啦。
對香港人而言,如果唔想子女將來
成為「國家機器」,
反過來將自己視為「仇敵」,
依家就帶子女離開。
我本人覺得子女將來非常重要,所以我已經帶佢哋離開
香港學校對SEN兒童的支援近乎O,請大家勿在此點上去批評當事人或其他相關家長了🙏🏻,這些家長已經一殻眼淚 !
兩個孩子一路成長在這些壓力之下,好多心理問題會陸續出現,一踏入中學(青春期,包括佢哋D同學)就好難攪,呢D問題可以纏繞好多年,什至影響孩子的一生。
齊齊整整留喺香港並不代表將來無家庭問題。
感覺好多兒童咯係真正SEN,學校 醫生有時誇大左
@@cocoyeung1291 好多marginal cases, 將佢當普通兒童盞仲難處理。
有真正相關知識的教師係會識分的,但問題係,攞正牌都仲要對個學生作不可能的要求先至係香港教育界的問題。
我朋友個仔,話明讀寫障礙,都一樣,功課無得減,成日見家長(家長已經係無要求嗰隻)。
(後記: 呢家人,一家五口,舊年已移民英國,有讀寫的細仔已入學(大約中三)一年,返學返得好開心)
In the present economy situation in UK,the government is rumoured to be seeking savings and reduced spending in all departments
The children needs to attend special needs teaching and also have additional difficulty in communication
先唔評論2公婆關係如何處理,我自己為例,單親11&13歲小朋友,full paid一間屋同一架車係倫敦,冇工作因為要日日接送,每個月最多洗£1.5K
I suggest the mother should wait until her girls are aged about 9 and 12 when they are a little older and can take care of themselves better. There are morning breakfast and after school clubs run by schools that cater for parents who work. Obviously these clubs cost money but it won’t be that much and affordable. With regards to dyslexia and ADHD, schools will do their own assessments and even if the mum doesn’t tell the school about these learning problems, teachers will find out eventually when the girls struggle with learning. Special Educational Needs teacher and assistants will help and take them out of mainstream class if necessary. Schools that have a large proportion of SEN children will hold special classes for them. GP and Drs will not make these assessments and their primary role is to contact child social services if they find problems within a household ie abuse or violence against a minor.
I agree. If I was in their situation... and they are earning quite a decent amount of money right now. Just keep saving it. And then.. when they are a little bit older.. And both of them would also consider retirements too. Then at that point in time.. DO migrate over as an entire family. And then consider either using one income between the both of them.. Or for her husband.. to also consider to do some kind of consultancy work, in his same sector, or other. Since he works in construction.. there is the construction sector here. But because you are not necessarily qualified by this standards.. or maybe the building in HK are more commercial buildings, and in the UK, it is more domestic. (They have different regulations as well.) He can only join existing established companies. And I am sure that they would welcome him. Cos this area is always in demand ? There is no such a thing as an "unregulated one man band". Don't go down this route. Even if he works as a "sale agent" for one of the top 5 home building firms. He would still earn quite a good wage ? Like... I dunno... 30-40k per year... If along with their own savings. I think this is enough really. They must remember that. Everything that they earned in HK. They must sell up, and bank it. Then when they reach here, open a new bank account with the same company. An international one that does with international accounts is preferable. So.... Then treat your new life, as one that has to pay local taxation etc. Each time you leave a country. Clear that tax. Start a new start. Don't leave behind strings and strings. Clean it up after yourself. With this clear cut ties.. I think it would be better for you overall anyway. Cos then... for the children, even if they are a little bit behind as well.. it does not matter, cos the support and the standards are quite good. Also... by that time... your kids, might be able to enter the local process of education as well. e.g. Apprenticeships. Or colleges with heavy emphasis on uni level teaching. Cos some of the materials now... which was the old university materials have been pushed downwards now. After a teenager finishes this.. then they literally just... can enter the workforce asap. Without the heavy uni fees or whatever it is. So.. this is something to think about. Cos their kids can enter the UK's study + work programmes then... which is a different method of teaching altogether anyway.
Of course, only migrate as a couple together.. cos I don't think that you could past Home Office to enter the UK alone like this. No way....
英國🇬🇧現在經濟不好, 通脹嚴重. 美國收割歐洲. 你要想清楚, 不如等多2年到2024全球穩定先再決定
Kind couples
真係要聽Vinsy講,遲多幾年先過嚟啦,否則果位事主好快回留,呢邊人工起碼少一半有多
既然收入唔錯就唔好走,過多廿年後再考慮吧!🤪
见过太多夫妻来美国后分开的例子了……早知如此何必当初呢……
現在移民英國,猶如百貨公司大減價,以前未減價前想買嘅貨品,未必能夠負擔,但減價後差不多人人都可以買,但係就算平咗買咗返嚟,係咪就一定啱用適合自己呢? 希望唔好諗住人人都買自己唔買就蝕底嘅心態去做就好了.
最多人過去就係呢種心態,香港人跟風者多過有腦者
英國樓可能再跌,不是平就可以買
象是媽媽想換環境多點,沒想後果,感覺到英國問題一定更嚴重
如果呢位女網友嘅先生係香港有份咁好嘅工……女網友帶兩個小朋友去英國……先生將家用撥過去英國就可以了❤❤
不過我絕對同意Vincent講……太空人絕對係一個最錯嘅選擇😢
其實呢類型嘅學校,香港同英國都有,問題係比例多唔多,能入讀機會大唔大,從另外一個角度第,需求大唔大。
其實睇你為理想(移民)可以去到幾盡啫,真係好想嘅,暫時放低老公,仔女買張單程機票就隻身去英國為頭家打頭陣探路啦,唔好成日諗住利用其他人幫你成就你嘅夢想,包括老公同呀哥都冇責任㗎!去到有本事settle down 再接對仔女過去,過到去搵到錢,再叫老公辭職去英國你養埋佢,一家團聚囉。
非常同意。
如果唔可以一次過起錨,咪逐步分件分批分階段走囉,最緊要大目標一致。
食軟飯🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@pangpriscilla9635 食軟飯啫,又唔係帶綠帽!
針冇兩頭利
Good video👍👍👍👍👍😍
一個人帶住二個小朋友, 又真係無法子的. 真係睇定D先, 不過佢老公都只係為左生活多過為自己的子女去想.
如果冇其他屋企朋友幫手,就絕對唔鼓勵當事人一個人帶仔女過嚟! 你完全冇支援嘅情況底下好多事情都做唔到,例如唔可以同時間返工同照顧小朋友。 所以當事人要慎重考慮。 另外好多人覺得去咗英國就解決到問題其實呢個唔係必然, 喺香港亦都有好多支援,你如果你有人工高,可以好多選擇比小朋友!
搵唔返就一定啦,問題係小朋友啲教育啫!
👍👍👍
香港樓市只會繼續插,要有共識同毅力,一係早走早著,一係將來送去留學算數。
越早越好👍👍👍
一個完整家庭重要啊❗️
外國的學校不一定會照顧每個學生的需要.好的學校很貴.很多新移民家庭都負擔不起.
真係百思不解,點解要分開?為什麼?大部分離開都話為孩子,有冇問孩子需要甚麼?一家人一起才是一頭家,孩子還小需要父母。
孩子在英国讀書實好過英國?孩子必定入讀英国著名大學?孩子日後在英國必揾到好工?(我有老友記的孩子畢業後都要回港工作),除非敢寫包单,否則以為孩子為由移英是最錯的決定!
仲有,你有問過孩子是否願意移英?當然他們不懂答,於是你們便把自己的意願強加孩子身上,難保孩子後不埋怨你!!
感觸良多,今年10月剛有親友的先生帶9歲兒子去英國,太太獨自在港搵錢,太太高薪厚職,香港搵錢,老公唔做嘢專注孩子讀書。英國真係重要過一個完整家庭?孩子大了,走不回從前。
我看了你們2年多了,謝謝你給我們UK的資訊
想請教下,有冇關於英國建造業的請人或求職網站介紹。thx so much
夫妻同心 其利斷金 😁
但, 相反就 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
其實, 過去專心抽仔女, 個老公每月人工運一半 都夠用。 問題是否比好多香港窮人更易解決!
已經有層樓,好過好多人,如果之後香港樓價向下插,係咪唔黎?過幾年,小朋友愈大咪仲愈難適應,覺得自己係走難定移民?😅
Hey, 留意一樣嘢,英國政府冇錢呀,要cut spending呀,首選就係cut教育同醫療,點解啲人會覺得過來英國係為小朋友將來???
小弟多事,照咁睇係 “唔應該黎英國“
如果接受唔到人工,唔駛諗,一定唔好黎。除非夠錢退休,如果要打工,一定要放得低。貧賤夫妻百事衰,就算揾到工揾少咗都,一定鬧交唔好過
一家人齊心,沒爸爸來英國,女人很難生活,因為遇到困難沒個男人在旁,恐怕攬著兩仔痛哭不停,日子難過,又怕男人變心,因為漁村大陸女人引誘太多,男人頂唔順,始早離婚悲劇。
樓市唔會好d,成交只會乾落去,如果有樓建議盡快劈價賣,唔信自己可以追反過去香港同美國個樓市,次次都無水花插到底
住在雷丁,所以想找附近或London建造業工作
講來講去,其實係你點估計香港未來……
最差:香港飯都冇得開,咪去英國lor
差:香港未來揾少一半,同去英國一樣揾咁少,咪又走去英國lor
不變: 咁自己計下去英國攞本passport值唔值你用揾少嘅錢去换
變好: 咁留响香港
太空人=送個老公比其他女人。男的是工程师,好獊手,大把女人猴住。公司秘书应该请本地人,所以过去都要做 warehouse
我十分十分想去英國(已有bno)
但老公及仔唔想去,
我很痛苦
當然為小朋友未來啦,佢老公都唔識諗,我係男人都X佢,太空人?唔係嚇你,幾十年前我好多朋友來英國,老公做太空人,幾年後的老婆最终離婚,的老婆係英國再搵到老公,多數係飲食業和髮型師
叫個網友來Sydney 吧!我老公做Engineer too!可能可幫下手
在RUclips 打 英國的特殊學校老師
有介紹
What point to go to UK for lower salary and so many uncertainty? What is so good of UK? Economy stable? Politic stable? No. I am out