Just want to hug that girl. Just want to reassure all hurting children and young people. You are loved. I love you, you deserve love and please love yourself. Be a great friend to yourself, dear,♥️
I’m sitting in my room crying harder than a music video has ever been able to make me cry. Thank you so much for being such a voice for the community, for validating our lived experiences and sharing yourself in a way that’s ultimately cathartic. I always expect to be wowed by your work but this has moved me to my core... the video was absolutely perfect for the song I’ve cried watching you play this song live but I’m sitting on the floor snotty, there’s a beard of saltwater around my chin and I feel assaulted by my own emotions. This video and this song release were both well worth the wait. Thank you 😭🏳️🌈❤️
So I'm sitting in a freakin' Wahoo's in Tustin waiting for my to-go, and this song comes on their playlist they're broadcasting in the near empty (just opened up on a random Friday mid-morning) restaurant. I'm not paying attention to anything other than when is my food gonna be ready but then this song... and this refrain "Hey did you find..." that's repeating and it's sounding good and it's hitting me somewhere and I pay attention to it. The song ends and I catch this last bit of verbiage "I remember the first time..." and I scramble to open Google on my phone and that's all I typed was 'song lyric hey did you find I remember the first time' and man the miracle of Internet search worked and Becca Mancari came up as the top match. So now I get to hear the whole song and see the video and I love it.
Im amazed and im crying here . The genuine emotions i feel through this song and these lyrics are so hard to describe through words right now . i love u for this , this will remain so close to my heart x
BTW -- I hope that this song isn't 100% autobiographical -- because if so, that's **really** sad. :( (And: my best wishes to you.) In my teenage daughter's friendship group, she's only one who's het-cis: everyone else is some flavor of LGBTQI. Each with varying degrees of support from their parents -- but at least no one's been kicked out of their house or anything. /// Seems like there's an important cultural shift slowly occurring: when I was in high school (1980s), none of this was talked about; whereas now sexual and gender identity is something that's openly discussed among kids (in Brisbane, Australia, at least.).
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"Would the God you love take that love so easily back?" Wowwoowowowowwwww
Love you already Becca...
Just want to hug that girl. Just want to reassure all hurting children and young people. You are loved. I love you, you deserve love and please love yourself. Be a great friend to yourself, dear,♥️
I'm a survivor of familial abuse this hits i just watched the video now been listening to it on a loop since it came out.
i couldn't believe a supermarket would play a song this underrated, im soo glad to hear and discover it
What a beautiful song. ❤
I want “Hey, did you find your way out?” tattooed on me. Thank you for being truthful and vulnerable- and for making it okay to be ourselves.
I want this too lol
Yes! I LOVE YOU SISTER!
love you!!
I’m sitting in my room crying harder than a music video has ever been able to make me cry. Thank you so much for being such a voice for the community, for validating our lived experiences and sharing yourself in a way that’s ultimately cathartic. I always expect to be wowed by your work but this has moved me to my core... the video was absolutely perfect for the song I’ve cried watching you play this song live but I’m sitting on the floor snotty, there’s a beard of saltwater around my chin and I feel assaulted by my own emotions. This video and this song release were both well worth the wait. Thank you 😭🏳️🌈❤️
Thank you for being who you are!
Me too. Now I love my straight side 100%
I am sorry Becca ! I hope your heart grow stronger every day! And provide us with your wonderful music!
found out about Becca from NPR's tiny desk performance now I am a fan :-)
I just discovered her and I’m in love. Her aesthetic her voice her message and most of all her what makes her who she is as a person. Love 💗
This is such a beautiful video. Thank you Becca
✨ So Honored To Be Apart Of This Amazing Video... The Song Is So Heartfelt 💖💖💖💖💖💖
I was so happy to have you!!
💛
Heard your song in the store today and I tried to remember the lyrics so I could look it up later it’s really, really pretty
I love your way your style
I heard this playing at H&M... I literally downloaded shazam just to find out what song this was!!
lol that was i doing
HM plays such gorgeous music, sometimes i go there just to listen and use shazam as u lel
So I'm sitting in a freakin' Wahoo's in Tustin waiting for my to-go, and this song comes on their playlist they're broadcasting in the near empty (just opened up on a random Friday mid-morning) restaurant. I'm not paying attention to anything other than when is my food gonna be ready but then this song... and this refrain "Hey did you find..." that's repeating and it's sounding good and it's hitting me somewhere and I pay attention to it. The song ends and I catch this last bit of verbiage "I remember the first time..." and I scramble to open Google on my phone and that's all I typed was 'song lyric hey did you find I remember the first time' and man the miracle of Internet search worked and Becca Mancari came up as the top match. So now I get to hear the whole song and see the video and I love it.
wow! this is so beautiful. the end really hit me hard!
Ahhhhh😭❤️
this has been on repeat on my quarantine playlist!
Bro I love this song sm. Just brings so many good emotions to my body
I feel every line
Im amazed and im crying here . The genuine emotions i feel through this song and these lyrics are so hard to describe through words right now . i love u for this , this will remain so close to my heart x
💛💛
This hit me differently God damn🖤
Wow... no words!!! #😢
Your voice is angelic...
im bawling my eyes out this is so beautiful
❤️
I found this song from her interview with "them." and I'm so happy I found her! I love this song!!
Keep at it
This song is so catchy i just found out about it today in target and fell in luv with it and i luv listening to it while im roller skating💕
I loved the scenes of the video it happens in cool places ans cenarium too
Sweet voice and melody too
Thank you so much for this song, it means a lot 💙💙💙
From another queer who found her way out of a toxic religious space
This song is so perfect! I especially love the last half. Rly hits me in the feels. ❤️
Good lyrics, catchy melody; innovative arrangement. A friend recommended this song to me; will track down your other songs now. :)
Same here! I can’t wait to discover the rest. So goodness 🦋❤️🦋❤️🦋
Thanks so much!
BTW -- I hope that this song isn't 100% autobiographical -- because if so, that's **really** sad. :( (And: my best wishes to you.) In my teenage daughter's friendship group, she's only one who's het-cis: everyone else is some flavor of LGBTQI. Each with varying degrees of support from their parents -- but at least no one's been kicked out of their house or anything. /// Seems like there's an important cultural shift slowly occurring: when I was in high school (1980s), none of this was talked about; whereas now sexual and gender identity is something that's openly discussed among kids (in Brisbane, Australia, at least.).
LOVE IT
Ficou perfeito❤❤ amei!
Love this song, your voice is so comforting! X
f a n t a s t i c
LETS RIDE
This is master level. I love it ❤️🎸
Haven’t found my way out yet
keep going! You will!
beccamancari 💖💖
What genre is this kind of music?
heard this at uniqlo
Everything about you...
This has a girl in red type of vibe for some reason but I like this
its just so painful you know
i heard this playing in Burlington and searched it up so fast!!
You sound like someone Alessia cara would collab with?
Bro I love this song sm. Just brings so many good emotions to my body