This moved my heart today. My husband wouldn’t allow me to work when I was younger. I saw it as oppression until I became a mother. Because of what he’s provided, I have been able to raise & homeschool 3 babies. I had graduated and the other 2 are on the way! We didn’t have much, but we never went hungry, & never didn’t have what we needed. I don’t completely agree with that lifestyle now, but when it works, it works. And I wouldn’t trade being able to stay home and BE a mother to my children (especially when they were very young and vulnerable) for anything. Thank you for this post.
Amen. I know too many men looking for women with low self esteem to take care of them so they don’t have to step up. It jus be harder to be a man that what I understand so I won’t disrespect them with criticism but I’ll wish them the strength they lack so they can fulfill their duties as a man to make sure his woman is comfortable and if she has to work to make sure she doesn’t have to work too hard. ❤❤❤
I respect the Minister. I dated a FOI for 6 years that ended up being a covert narcissistic sociopath. He tried to unalive me by strangulation and he was also physically, emotionally psychologically and financially abusive. He doesn't follow the restrictive laws of NOI.
Oh... So when I tutored my exGF from her 1st semester in JuCo until she graduated from a State University... I was treating her like My Momma.... Stuff like that is why I'm still single at 57, make $105,000 yearly and own my home where I live by myself.. Got it 😎👍
You would’ve thought that he said your first, middle, last name and Social Security number. Why do you feel called out? If you were genuinely happy, you would not be online crying to us and I’m sure you are doing every woman a favor by not dating. Who wants a geriatric crybaby?
Sorry Minister, its 50/50 or 60/40. According to your Mom analogy if i provide everything for a woman she becomes the child in the relationship. Cleaning and taking care of a house is both people's responsibility also - a man should live on his own first and the woman comes in as a helper and compliment
I do agree with being a provider and that’s no issue for me, but being a provider by buying into the idea of money, turns me away. Globally I think we need to realizes money isn’t worth our time or efforts and the way the economy works isn’t what we need as humans moving forward.
There’s some truth to what he’s saying, but this is a very antiquated and partially chauvinistic perspective. In this day and time, one of the only ways to tell if a woman is truly interested in you and not the things you provide is by her willingness to help. If she never offers and constantly asks, odds are she sees you as a meal ticket. I definitely believe men should be responsible for the lion share of the finances, but with women earning more education than men and experiencing tons of success in a multitude of fields, the “my money is her money and her money is her money” mindset should no longer be the norm.
Maybe bc the type of men you speak of, mothers did not rear them with love and etc.. those practices are great in theory BUT in this days time, this message has lost its power
@@DreX-8810 cute fam 😂 but that comment was in general…and what he spoke of is LOST! Where do you see it being applied? It’s cute to disagree but today’s man isn’t of our grandparents era! And economically, you could feed your family off of $2 a day… to do as he spoke of 40 years ago would actually make you better than him.
@@OpaLockaOutlaw305 you can continue to make excuses, while those of us who don’t, thrive. Blaming women for you not having the ability to be a provider is embarrassing.
@@beeblu5043 did you say “you”? 😂 cute… I provide for more than mine.. OILFIELD $$$!! You need some? I’m speaking from what is witnessed! Men and women have failed as parents to rear children properly… and women share the blunt of the blame… men have been out of those homes for 50 years and what’s been the results? Since you want to have a real conversation…
That's not truly how Christianity is supposed to be. You stick to the word of GOD , find a new church or if need be no church at all but stay in the word of GOD ,TRUST IN Jesus Christ , repent call to the father in his son's name ask for guidance.
I agree with everything you said but it feels like I only wanted to get better and ended up getting worse. I know there's a verse about waxing worse and worse but I thought I had done and was doing what I was supposed to. Now I just feel messed up, defeated and like a wreck. I get angry everytime I think about it. But thank you for the encouragement and for listening. ❤❤
@@LOVEandKINDNESS-PEACEandREST I was feeling like that about 2weeks ago , I was under attack by the enemy because a break through was on the horizon, so I remembered who's I was , remembering JESUS is my savior I have authority in his name over these attacks . So today I stand here in victory over those situations. Just remember once you call upon the the LORD you are worth more and the evil will try to kill-steal-destory you . Stay strong keep the faith. I will pray for you
@barryharrissz4748 Thank you!! I know some of the stuff I go through I bring on myself but other times I'm like what is this why are there always so many problems one after another but everything you said is correct and I'm glad you're doing better!!!! 😁😁🤗🤗😌😌
Call it what you want 50/50 or whatever, but because my wife and I work together (pooled our resources), it has made life easier for both of us, at the beginning of our successful 26 yr marriage we had less early on, but were never felt financially strained, from 2 young people growing in the housing projects to thriving home owners in the suburbs who've traveled the world, " team work makes the dream work" a man is not a "mule" MOST men don't earn enough to "THRIVE" on their own STATISTICALLY saying something should be a certain way doesn't change reality a person making $50,000 $28 per hour is struggling in today's economy. My wife and I earn considerably more than this individually. But to expect the average earning man to thrive or pay all the bills on this amount is delusional and selfish, but 2 people earning $50,000 equals $100,000 then they'd be doing "okay" if they manage that well.
I agree with most of Farakan's talking points, but has hardly if ever had to work for a living like most many who proclaim to be ministers of God that lTHRIVE off their flock while some of that flock struggles while still supporting them which is not supported in the Bible.
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This moved my heart today. My husband wouldn’t allow me to work when I was younger. I saw it as oppression until I became a mother. Because of what he’s provided, I have been able to raise & homeschool 3 babies. I had graduated and the other 2 are on the way! We didn’t have much, but we never went hungry, & never didn’t have what we needed. I don’t completely agree with that lifestyle now, but when it works, it works. And I wouldn’t trade being able to stay home and BE a mother to my children (especially when they were very young and vulnerable) for anything. Thank you for this post.
He is so on point!!! Can every black man hear this...
Amen. I know too many men looking for women with low self esteem to take care of them so they don’t have to step up. It jus be harder to be a man that what I understand so I won’t disrespect them with criticism but I’ll wish them the strength they lack so they can fulfill their duties as a man to make sure his woman is comfortable and if she has to work to make sure she doesn’t have to work too hard. ❤❤❤
I don't agree with some of the stuff Minister Farakhan talks about, but I respect and agree with most of the things he talks about
He is talking right! I'm a Christian and I approve this message! ❤
Wow!
As a black Christian woman, I agree with these statements.
Amen.
As a Christian, I agree with a lot of the principles of the Minister as he SPEAKS TRUTH TO POWER!!!! FACTS!!!!
Amen where there is a will there is a way real men handle there business amen
The truth well spoken. Real men don't ask or expect money from a woman.
🔥🔥Yes Indeed
This is what the Black Manosphere needs to here
Old school BM didn't expect their wives to work.
ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL ❤🔥👏🏽❤🔥👏🏽💯
Amen. Honor your covenant if you can.🙏🙏
This is a great speech...my husband doesn't take from me and I don't work...he takes care of his family
PREACH!! No excuse!! ❤
Amen. Preach brother, preach!🙏🙏
It's the man job 2 provide.
I respect the Minister. I dated a FOI for 6 years that ended up being a covert narcissistic sociopath. He tried to unalive me by strangulation and he was also physically, emotionally psychologically and financially abusive. He doesn't follow the restrictive laws of NOI.
You dated an FOI? They are not supposed to date.
TEACH!!!!!! 👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿
I agree with everything this man says❤
ALL PRAISES ARE DO TO ALLAH FOR THE MOST HONORABLE ELIJAH MUHAMMAD AND THE HONORABLE MINISTER LOUIS FARRAKHAN 🤲🏿
I agree a real man and a real woman standing together🤭
He is speaking the truth here.
We need a good economy for men to be in a position to provide
The economy wasn't better back then it's about principles.
That’s an excuse n carnal in nature. We real men make it happen outta nothing!
Economy has nothing to do with it. Live within your means.
@@2452deeExactly!
@@DreX-8810👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
Say that 🙏🏾❤️👍🏿
Oh... So when I tutored my exGF from her 1st semester in JuCo until she graduated from a State University... I was treating her like My Momma.... Stuff like that is why I'm still single at 57, make $105,000 yearly and own my home where I live by myself.. Got it 😎👍
You would’ve thought that he said your first, middle, last name and Social Security number. Why do you feel called out? If you were genuinely happy, you would not be online crying to us and I’m sure you are doing every woman a favor by not dating. Who wants a geriatric crybaby?
That HIT!🖤🇱🇷
Long live the teachings of the Most Honorable Eljah Muhammad taught by his Supreme Student.Min Farrakhan 2 26 1877 MFM
Sorry Minister, its 50/50 or 60/40.
According to your Mom analogy if i provide everything for a woman she becomes the child in the relationship. Cleaning and taking care of a house is both people's responsibility also - a man should live on his own first and the woman comes in as a helper and compliment
❤❤❤🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯Apdta
I do agree with being a provider and that’s no issue for me, but being a provider by buying into the idea of money, turns me away. Globally I think we need to realizes money isn’t worth our time or efforts and the way the economy works isn’t what we need as humans moving forward.
Sayit Farrakhan I like the power you have in allah
Fuckin Facts !
There’s some truth to what he’s saying, but this is a very antiquated and partially chauvinistic perspective. In this day and time, one of the only ways to tell if a woman is truly interested in you and not the things you provide is by her willingness to help. If she never offers and constantly asks, odds are she sees you as a meal ticket. I definitely believe men should be responsible for the lion share of the finances, but with women earning more education than men and experiencing tons of success in a multitude of fields, the “my money is her money and her money is her money” mindset should no longer be the norm.
Speak ✔️honorable
Replay✋🏾
You not my mama goddamnnit😅
But it is told he liked little girls old grateful one who you give praises to
Maybe bc the type of men you speak of, mothers did not rear them with love and etc.. those practices are great in theory BUT in this days time, this message has lost its power
No power lost, but you have plenty of excuses….do better
@@DreX-8810 cute fam 😂 but that comment was in general…and what he spoke of is LOST! Where do you see it being applied? It’s cute to disagree but today’s man isn’t of our grandparents era! And economically, you could feed your family off of $2 a day… to do as he spoke of 40 years ago would actually make you better than him.
@@OpaLockaOutlaw305 you can continue to make excuses, while those of us who don’t, thrive. Blaming women for you not having the ability to be a provider is embarrassing.
@@beeblu5043 did you say “you”? 😂 cute… I provide for more than mine.. OILFIELD $$$!! You need some? I’m speaking from what is witnessed! Men and women have failed as parents to rear children properly… and women share the blunt of the blame… men have been out of those homes for 50 years and what’s been the results? Since you want to have a real conversation…
I may have to convert. Christianity is a curse and only brought out more evil. Hurt me more than it helped me.
That's not truly how Christianity is supposed to be. You stick to the word of GOD , find a new church or if need be no church at all but stay in the word of GOD ,TRUST IN Jesus Christ , repent call to the father in his son's name ask for guidance.
I agree with everything you said but it feels like I only wanted to get better and ended up getting worse. I know there's a verse about waxing worse and worse but I thought I had done and was doing what I was supposed to. Now I just feel messed up, defeated and like a wreck. I get angry everytime I think about it. But thank you for the encouragement and for listening. ❤❤
@@LOVEandKINDNESS-PEACEandREST I was feeling like that about 2weeks ago , I was under attack by the enemy because a break through was on the horizon, so I remembered who's I was , remembering JESUS is my savior I have authority in his name over these attacks . So today I stand here in victory over those situations. Just remember once you call upon the the LORD you are worth more and the evil will try to kill-steal-destory you . Stay strong keep the faith. I will pray for you
@barryharrissz4748 Thank you!! I know some of the stuff I go through I bring on myself but other times I'm like what is this why are there always so many problems one after another but everything you said is correct and I'm glad you're doing better!!!! 😁😁🤗🤗😌😌
@@barryharrissz4748 Please pray for me! Thank you. 😇
Mr Mohammed left a lot of black single women with babies while in isolation as though they did something wrong.😂😂
THAT IS YOOOOOO BUSINESS!!! 😎🎯🎯🎯
*shout out to the NOI, MGT, FOI 🫡 **#MellDuney616** 🫡 - MELL DUNEY 616*
All of these men talking about 5050 need to understand this and grow up
This has nothing to do with 50/50
Call it what you want 50/50 or whatever, but because my wife and I work together (pooled our resources), it has made life easier for both of us, at the beginning of our successful 26 yr marriage we had less early on, but were never felt financially strained, from 2 young people growing in the housing projects to thriving home owners in the suburbs who've traveled the world, " team work makes the dream work" a man is not a "mule" MOST men don't earn enough to "THRIVE" on their own STATISTICALLY saying something should be a certain way doesn't change reality a person making $50,000 $28 per hour is struggling in today's economy. My wife and I earn considerably more than this individually. But to expect the average earning man to thrive or pay all the bills on this amount is delusional and selfish, but 2 people earning $50,000 equals $100,000 then they'd be doing "okay" if they manage that well.
I agree with most of Farakan's talking points, but has hardly if ever had to work for a living like most many who proclaim to be ministers of God that lTHRIVE off their flock while some of that flock struggles while still supporting them which is not supported in the Bible.
@@vellman1128 you’re an exception to the rule and women should not be dating based on unicorn men.
@@HairGrease I don’t see why it doesn’t maybe you should watch it again and listen more because that’s exactly what it’s about