SG: Melyssa Ford "Thirst-ology" Compromising for your relationship VS. Compromising yourself"

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  • Опубликовано: 15 сен 2024
  • On this Friday’s Zo Williams'
    Voice of a reason show (VOR) on DashRadio.com
    "HotButton-Radio
    (323) 230-4610
    12-9-16
    5-7pm PST
    HOT TOPIC: "Thirst-ology"
    Compromising for your relationship VS. Compromising yourself:
    "When Compromising for your Relationship causes you to Compromise yourself"With Special Guest:
    The Melyssa Ford
    You're Playing yourself!!!
    True or False? You shouldn't set yourself on 🔥🔥🔥in order to keep your partner/spouse warm?
    How is compromise and sacrifice related? Is Denzel Washington's wife a perfect example of both?
    When should you compromise your beliefs and values for the sake of your relationship?
    Questions:
    Is the real conflict within our relationship the battle we wage against our partner to protect our egoic self-interests?
    True or False?
    Cooperation, Not Compromise, Builds Relationships?
    True Or False?
    Compromise, within the context of relationships, may become problematic because it implies that someone is giving something up?
    Do you know someone who has compromised their hyper sexual nature, in order to maintain a relationship with their significant other?
    When couples mutually over compromise, is the relationship healthy or unhealthy?
    Can you give a few examples of over compromising in intimate relationships?
    Which Gender Compromises the most most, Men Or Women?
    True Or False?
    Cooperation unlike compromise strengthens the underlying fabric of relationship through balanced interchange?
    True Of False?
    A healthy relationship should affirm who each partner is and allow each person to meet his or her needs together with the other?
    How Much Should You Compromise for Your Relationship?
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Комментарии • 223

  • @RobWill5864
    @RobWill5864 7 лет назад +40

    I love when "single for a long time" chicks give relationship advice....

  • @Jay-AL
    @Jay-AL 7 лет назад +21

    Good Show! I heard a OG once say, A mans curse is to forever lust for women and a womans curse is to want to control him. Im sure he was speaking in general about relationships. But i think about tht shyt every now and then.

    • @Jay-AL
      @Jay-AL 7 лет назад

      Oh yeah Zo, we comin fa YOU nigga lol

  • @robertnelson2057
    @robertnelson2057 7 лет назад +7

    The main problem is wit our group mainly the economic reality as far as racism. The black male is economically excluded so thats the extra weapon against us basically theirs a third party in our relationship's

  • @Ceemoore3000
    @Ceemoore3000 7 лет назад +6

    "Big Momma was scorpio, I threw rocks at her..." that mess was hysterical.

    • @appetite4chic878
      @appetite4chic878 6 лет назад

      Ceemoore67 lmao right like how he throw rocks at big mamma tho 😂😂

  • @cherylvaughn2215
    @cherylvaughn2215 5 лет назад +4

    A wise man once said, compromise is two wolves and a sheep trying to figure out what's for dinner.
    Patrice O'Neal...

  • @daeslist
    @daeslist 7 лет назад +21

    you need ya man to meet you halfway....car note $500....give me $200.... ?????????????? not quite halfway! lol!!!

  • @SirRobinson510
    @SirRobinson510 7 лет назад +8

    Miss Ford is drop dead gorgeous... But very intelligent, and wise #Respect
    MissLips is da shit!! Nice show

  • @Realigndadjmusic
    @Realigndadjmusic 7 лет назад +2

    Most success guys are surrounded by plenty of females, not jus any females but those women/ladies who are truly inspirational, these women/ladies do exist

  • @lamar8701
    @lamar8701 7 лет назад +5

    Zo this by far the best show info 100% helpful I've pass this on to all my folks

  • @willstaywinning
    @willstaywinning 7 лет назад +56

    Idk I feel like when women are picky they end up like melyssa ford in they 40s still single

    • @Khadijah459
      @Khadijah459 7 лет назад +3

      picky???? SMDH

    • @RobWill5864
      @RobWill5864 7 лет назад +3

      single and loss

    • @Khadijah459
      @Khadijah459 7 лет назад +3

      illmatic826 Be a man and lift your OWN COTDAM aza

    • @Ceemoore3000
      @Ceemoore3000 7 лет назад +6

      Is it better to be in your 40s and in a marriage where you are unfulfilled and unhappy?

    • @Max-gn9tg
      @Max-gn9tg 7 лет назад +3

      wisewilltcp Very true..a lot of black women mask or hide their fucked up motives behind "Im not compromising guuurrl" bitch will have a fucked personality, three kids by three diff dudes, bad credit...but will say its compromising if she dates a man thats not paying her way through life FOH

  • @augustknight3483
    @augustknight3483 7 лет назад +11

    This right here is a classic example of why black women are the most single ppl on the planet, always searching for some higher echelon in society. Afraid of taking chances and making true commitments. Most of these type of women scramble by the age of 40 plus to try to have some sort of relationship, by then the haggardness has started to set in. Nah, I'm good fam.

    • @soofreshgirll
      @soofreshgirll 7 лет назад

      August Knight you can not categorize all black women and subject them to something that is not proven because of three black women stated there opinions regarding men...not everyone has that same mentality or mindset....

    • @augustknight3483
      @augustknight3483 7 лет назад +1

      ***** No doubt, this is a huge problem in the back community. Social media is making it even worse.

  • @BlackLight_VA
    @BlackLight_VA 7 лет назад +5

    I love Miss Lips and her perspective.

  • @JoshuaPsalms
    @JoshuaPsalms 7 лет назад +40

    How is it that the women that know the most about relationships are single??? How can a woman give relationship advice when she can't hold down one herself??

    • @VisionOfThePhoenix
      @VisionOfThePhoenix 7 лет назад +6

      yes, these panels should have ppl that have been in a relationship for x amt of yrs at least. advice from the wise/ successful

    • @JoshuaPsalms
      @JoshuaPsalms 7 лет назад +1

      Spirit Driven, I agree that we should be selective and that we need to do a much better job with communication. When it comes to giving dating advice though, there's only so much I would heed from a single woman. For example, a single woman that gives advice on things to avoid/what not to do in a relationship/marriage is cool. I'd heed her advice, but when it comes to maintaining a long term relationship, I'd be wary. I personally prefer coupled that have been holding it down for 20+ years so I could learn/get advice on how to deal with issues that comes with longevity.

    • @VisionOfThePhoenix
      @VisionOfThePhoenix 7 лет назад +3

      Spirit Driven
      that "sounds good" but it is not logical. You go to elders for advice. You wouldn't get financial advice from someone who is broke. It just isn't logical. People say things like that to boost their confidence in the face of something they feel inadequate at.

    • @JoshuaPsalms
      @JoshuaPsalms 7 лет назад +5

      Spirit Driven, so are you against marriage? You're addressing a married man by the way. People put up with BS in all relationships, so it's not like a non-traditional relationship is better, nor does it mean people vibrate on a higher frequency. Relationships depend on the people involved in them.

    • @Coilykinkchick
      @Coilykinkchick 7 лет назад +2

      Spirit Driven you said that!

  • @sj2kprojects
    @sj2kprojects 7 лет назад +10

    If you are always thinking about what you don't want in life, the universe will give you that. It has no Rules. Melyssa is likely still single because of this reason... She will never gravitate what she wants in a man because she's thinking about what she doesn't want.... She also turned what Veronica said in the beginning as ammo and didn't realize that a woman can leak a man's testosterone when she is constantly convey masculine behavior (demanding, aggressive, controlling, resistant, combativeness) towards him. That's the Scorpio in her. LMAO!

  • @neelysgoldmine6674
    @neelysgoldmine6674 7 лет назад +6

    Kinda broads I love, 50% of $500 is $200. You'll never be alone.

  • @JR-sh8xu
    @JR-sh8xu 5 лет назад +1

    It’s difficult for women to tell the truth Zoe on point

  • @TribeOfGadAkaMrOx
    @TribeOfGadAkaMrOx 7 лет назад +3

    I Love Miss Lipps And Melyssa Ford On The Show With You Zo You The Man!!!!

  • @Playawithapassport
    @Playawithapassport 7 лет назад +3

    If women minds are so complexed than men. How come through time and in the social structure men rule?

    • @jaredjames1989
      @jaredjames1989 5 лет назад +4

      yeah she had that analogy completely backwards lol women are one track minded and mistake their ADHD and bipolarity for a 6 lane highway.

  • @Sincere529
    @Sincere529 7 лет назад +3

    Our society is so "fem centric" and some women won't fess up to that reality. Women are steady dictating the terms of masculinity, sex, and relationships. Some women thrive on being the single source of sex for a man in a marriage/relationship while dictating the terms of what that man has to do to even be considered viable.

  • @ThatshowIfeel
    @ThatshowIfeel 7 лет назад +11

    lipps looks like coery with a wig 😂😂😂

    • @MegaOhhboy
      @MegaOhhboy 7 лет назад +1

      TIno3Times hell yeah lmaoooo

    • @anzwarthegreat9489
      @anzwarthegreat9489 7 лет назад

      TIno3Times nigga like damn, Corey done slid up in here

  • @shansalesman10
    @shansalesman10 7 лет назад +8

    I can't believe he got Melissa Ford that fine thickem.

  • @chucknastyness
    @chucknastyness 7 лет назад +22

    Corey need to do something like this. Get on his Charlamagne tha God/Joe Rogan shit. He's just as and more talented. 5150 Nation.

    • @dannyhoffer1621
      @dannyhoffer1621 7 лет назад +4

      corey is a professional and successful comedian, he doesnt take that Radio shit too serious

    • @tommybrown187
      @tommybrown187 7 лет назад +2

      corey don't know how to pump fake it like charlamagne. he just gonna call everybody bitchea

    • @nolikesorcommentsneeded8910
      @nolikesorcommentsneeded8910 7 лет назад +1

      chucknastyness Corey has no filter. #tooreal

    • @rctecopyright
      @rctecopyright 7 лет назад +2

      true he's very talented and does a decent job of moderating. thing is think he had enough of the any means necessary attitude to make it really big. by any means I include selling himself out at the corporations behest.

    • @latrealpollard9413
      @latrealpollard9413 7 лет назад

      chucknastyness exactly what I'll been thinking, change the women up and in his way tell them why their single. Hell keep Dee ass there if he wants too, but change the women up.

  • @sunrah4469
    @sunrah4469 7 лет назад +5

    miss lips is a 5 on a 10 scale garden variety base model side piece...she got a face made for radio.

  • @grannationalboy
    @grannationalboy 7 лет назад +2

    i feel like compromise is coming to a common point or middle. sacrifice is giving up something completely. People need to be the spouse that someone is down to sacrifice things for.

  • @tryp_da_ghost
    @tryp_da_ghost 7 лет назад +3

    selfishness kills community and how can a society grow with this " selfishness"

  • @laj4186
    @laj4186 7 лет назад

    Zo Yes!! You hit exactly what relationships are about. Only when we know and accept this can we expand and love unconditionally

  • @TribeOfGadAkaMrOx
    @TribeOfGadAkaMrOx 7 лет назад +3

    Classic Show Brilliant Zo

  • @imserious2187
    @imserious2187 7 лет назад +1

    Melyssa is still one of the baddest

  • @kudabeen
    @kudabeen 7 лет назад +3

    Math is not Miss Lips forte I see...I like the look and production of the show thus far...

  • @lucianthompson5842
    @lucianthompson5842 7 лет назад +2

    this was very dope and the beats were fire

  • @cherylvaughn2215
    @cherylvaughn2215 4 года назад

    Melissa laughed but, I think what Ms Lips was saying was there are WAAY more women who make on average 28-41k per yr than women who have an income like Melissa's. Those are the women who are listening and thinking...If I try to be this "strong woman", I may end up homeless!

  • @zerotolerance5019
    @zerotolerance5019 7 лет назад +2

    Man O ManAChevous* ...that was a classic 😃 😃 😃 😃

  • @istudysuccess
    @istudysuccess 7 лет назад

    I loved the story time session about Big Mamma. Thank you for sharing, Zo.

  • @JOMARLARSTUDIOSLLC
    @JOMARLARSTUDIOSLLC 7 лет назад +1

    HEY ZO I WOULD LIKE TO REASON WITH YOU IN DETAIL WITH YOUR UNDERSTANDING ON WHY YOU SAY FORGET THE BIBLE AND YOU STILL QUOTE THE BIBLE. I AM NOT WANTING TO BRING ARGUMENT TO YOU BUT JUST TO CONVERSE WITH YOU SO I CAN GATHER YOUR MIND SET ON THAT BIBLE ISSUE. THANKS

  • @aarinhoberson4615
    @aarinhoberson4615 3 года назад

    Good Word!!!!

  • @chosenelite762
    @chosenelite762 7 лет назад +2

    hmm... I wonder if she still drives a Honda accord

  • @onemochancegetbacc9861
    @onemochancegetbacc9861 5 лет назад

    One of the best zo shows Eva!!! 💯💯💯💯💯

  • @naynay0179
    @naynay0179 7 лет назад +1

    I love Veronica. Yes lawd. She brings it all into perspective. Hot damn.

  • @demarquesls
    @demarquesls 7 лет назад +4

    Melissa and Miss lips on the 5150 show would be fire.

    • @cmikeg8614
      @cmikeg8614 7 лет назад +2

      illmatic826 I was just thinking that and the chat room goons lmao

    • @latrealpollard9413
      @latrealpollard9413 7 лет назад

      illmatic826 but that would be a fire show.

    • @spoonwillsakaniggleetheus2096
      @spoonwillsakaniggleetheus2096 7 лет назад +1

      Tank d nah the chat room goons will run them out they don't care how pretty u are LMAO

  • @calkhemist
    @calkhemist 7 лет назад

    Dope show, Zo. Seems like the women brought more honesty to the table this time.

  • @balance007
    @balance007 7 лет назад +2

    The Big Homie does it again...... #MyGuy

  • @cedyced9715
    @cedyced9715 7 лет назад +2

    The kind of women that need to be on 5150

  • @menelik201
    @menelik201 7 лет назад +15

    Zo, Miss Lips is a good addition to the panel, but drop whitney, she is embarrassing and delusional, she's so confused on so many levels it's far from funny. Counsel her off air in private and spare us the agony of listening to her mentality. I wish her well but I'm sure a lot of listeners feel this way.

    • @cmikeg8614
      @cmikeg8614 7 лет назад +2

      the one Whitney ain't on that bullshit all the time she just has a tit for tat personality.

    • @geraldos9094
      @geraldos9094 7 лет назад +3

      There is no reason Whitney should be that old and still talking like a 13 year old. She dilutes the conversation down to a elementary level, but she doesn't even know that she's idiotic because nobody will tell her because of fear of hurting her feelings.

    • @lovinthis02
      @lovinthis02 7 лет назад +1

      Forever MCFC 😂😂

    • @lovinthis02
      @lovinthis02 7 лет назад +1

      Geraldo S 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

  • @brandonbrune7990
    @brandonbrune7990 7 лет назад +1

    great show as usual zo

  • @rctecopyright
    @rctecopyright 7 лет назад +4

    good show. great to hear some females breaking it down from their perspective.

  • @kelceyburrissr
    @kelceyburrissr 7 лет назад +4

    Shitney Houston..lol @1:16:53

  • @tonyparka78
    @tonyparka78 7 лет назад +2

    Good show

  • @eurichcleaningservicesllc4914
    @eurichcleaningservicesllc4914 6 лет назад +1

    Rest in paradise.Miss Ford

  • @chrisstiff2914
    @chrisstiff2914 7 лет назад +1

    Was she talking about FLO-RIDA??

  • @Lemmec412
    @Lemmec412 7 лет назад +2

    zo mighta hit melyssa... she look willing lol

  • @coreysmalls4259
    @coreysmalls4259 5 лет назад

    July 2019 and we up in these comments still..#ZoThatDude

  • @keithwitcher5130
    @keithwitcher5130 2 года назад

    I love Melyssa Ford. Melyssa Ford, Grace Gealey, Beyonce Knowles, Caryn Ward, Zaza Ali, Karrine Steffans, Lauren London, Olivia Alexa, Jamie Valentine, Aaliyah(RIP)are hottest black women.

  • @jusamakeover
    @jusamakeover 7 лет назад +2

    new subbie

  • @IvanValdezx19
    @IvanValdezx19 3 года назад

    HBD, in advance followed me in the restroom.....

  • @goddessaayanna3839
    @goddessaayanna3839 7 лет назад +4

    Veronica be on point though!

    • @cherylvaughn2215
      @cherylvaughn2215 4 года назад

      I know I'm late on this video, but one of the things I disagree with Veronica on is this notion that women might be better off if they had two men. One for sexual gratification. First off, where do you find a SINGLE man with great dick? If he has it, then plz believe he's already taken. Now we're talking about sleeping with another woman's man. Isn't that very thing that women are pissed at men for doing??
      Second, women aren't strong enough for that because if you ask any woman how many dicks she's had. Her response is none of your business! Meaning... she's kinda ashamed of her history. You can't be grown if you can't own it! We're asking men to be more like women, which goes against who they are. The best thing to do is find a man who truly loves you and hang in there. You'll come out on the other side of his BS and have a good relationship. Stop running when there's a sign of trouble! Good luck to everyone..... PEACE!

  • @djaxrus1017
    @djaxrus1017 7 лет назад +1

    Ladies need to understand nowadays that the ass that you're sitting on shouldn't represent your heart, because if you do? It will make an ass out of you. And she used to be on my baby momma list.

  • @woabeatz9717
    @woabeatz9717 6 лет назад +2

    She went with flo rida.....😅

  • @GetWhittIt11
    @GetWhittIt11 7 лет назад +1

    Shit I compromised so much.. I know I deserve more overall

  • @jotivated
    @jotivated 7 лет назад

    Salute to Zo Great guest.

  • @2.T00T
    @2.T00T 7 лет назад +8

    Melyssa's time has been expired.

  • @ThatshowIfeel
    @ThatshowIfeel 7 лет назад +2

    mannnn what is she talking about ?

  • @appetite4chic878
    @appetite4chic878 6 лет назад

    I’m mad that in today’s society we view compromising as thirst smh 🤦🏾‍♀️ I feel as tho when you’re growing in a relationship with someone you both will have differences, so there is gonna have to be some form of you both learning from each other and having to find common ground. However, I understand you working on your craft, but do that while having a different way to provide. A woman will get tired of supporting everything 100%. Bring something to the table

  • @sunrah4469
    @sunrah4469 7 лет назад

    tariq nasheed jacked this format and it ain't working. Zo mastered this shit with the legendary line up of ashanti ford and whiteney tabor with veronica coming thru the side door . bring the original line up back.

  • @shansalesman10
    @shansalesman10 7 лет назад +2

    Melissa Ford would be enough for me, she wouldn't have to share.

  • @VisionOfThePhoenix
    @VisionOfThePhoenix 7 лет назад +10

    fire the camera man. lol

    • @Ianisatool
      @Ianisatool 7 лет назад +1

      I know right? Camera was just all over the place. He only had one job.

  • @loloxoxo175
    @loloxoxo175 7 лет назад

    God let it be so for Her.

  • @latrealpollard9413
    @latrealpollard9413 7 лет назад

    At 40:20 min Zo was using Veronica to run game on Ford so it be easier for him later, that why he was dancing while she was talking.

  • @janoywilliams7450
    @janoywilliams7450 7 лет назад

    Melyssa Ford is a beautiful woman.

  • @petroglyph79
    @petroglyph79 7 лет назад +2

    she pretty and old👍😀

  • @DAROCK-wc2uq
    @DAROCK-wc2uq 7 лет назад +2

    Who is this woman Veronica they had speaking?

    • @Khadijah459
      @Khadijah459 7 лет назад +6

      The "unicorn" of brilliance and light......Lol

    • @Ianisatool
      @Ianisatool 7 лет назад +2

      I know right? who was just talking non sense.

  • @supremeshoneycombhideout821
    @supremeshoneycombhideout821 7 лет назад

    Where's Whitney Taber?

  • @IvanValdezx19
    @IvanValdezx19 3 года назад

    Lemon drop

  • @michaelmci7778
    @michaelmci7778 5 лет назад

    Camara man messing up 3 min in smh

  • @lighthousemaccabee8133
    @lighthousemaccabee8133 7 лет назад

    so simple

  • @alcovington4183
    @alcovington4183 7 лет назад +1

    she look like nell carter

  • @jemiahjackson2508
    @jemiahjackson2508 7 лет назад

    SG: shooting guard?

  • @dvstatingman
    @dvstatingman 7 лет назад

    Veronica

  • @lilmobop
    @lilmobop 7 лет назад +2

    ms lips... naw

  • @Ran_Ryaz
    @Ran_Ryaz 6 лет назад +1

    Is Veronica white?

  • @robertnelson2057
    @robertnelson2057 7 лет назад

    Come on Zo you're consigning black men not building defending and fighting for their children.

  • @James-rd8lg
    @James-rd8lg Год назад

    300 lbs talking about meet you half way

  • @loloxoxo175
    @loloxoxo175 7 лет назад

    xoxo2lolo@gmail
    Always have loved the Woman Ms M. Ford when she first step to the entertainment stage. She has represented Black Women as some other black has also however She's flying high (to me now) with the Greats Lena Horn & many others to come; fly high Angle. lol

  • @tonybrown3783
    @tonybrown3783 7 лет назад +1

    Wrong on sooooo many levels.

  • @bamnation6882
    @bamnation6882 7 лет назад

    if you're reading this check out the music on my page and tell me what u think rapper out of FL Luckyy BAM #usher #pressure #250 #pippen

  • @ThatshowIfeel
    @ThatshowIfeel 7 лет назад +2

    lipps looks like coery with a wig 😂😂😂