Friends have been telling me that they see me as a leader but i dont see it in me (Aries North Node). My Mom has dementia and I have to advocate for her. I am In a place where I have to make tough decisions, and take charge of situations. Now things are making more sense in my life. Thank you 👍
Thank you I’m Currently merging out my Libra south node and merging into my Aries north node and I just turned 36 October 6. I’ve always had people look after me even now I’m staying by a friend but I feel it’s time to fly solo and see where life takes me again . My mom wish for me is to be able to take care of myself and that’s the focus right . I’m growing my art business and sharing my journey on social media . I’ve always rooted for the underdog I use to be bullied and I I hate to see those who can’t fight for themselves be taken advantage of .
This is spot on for me. I work in advocacy now, but didn’t most of my career. Found my lane later in life. Have always been a defender of the underdog, but I assumed this was my Scorpio sun archetype coming out. It makes sense to me since I would tend to advocate for peace and harmony with difficult people, but would not include myself in the equation. Way too many times. Now I feel the opposite. People are drawn to that confidence and assume I have it together. The tables have completely turned, right around 40 as you said. Very cool and very validating reading.
For the ones that have NN Aries 7th house: Your ego and persona is to please others, to keep harmony at all costs, to the point that you are being selfish in doing that, Your ego loves to dissolve and distract itself in having a well manered indecisive persona, so, basically, you're a people pleaser in order to get what your ego wants (which is not a particular individualistic "me focused" pursuit what you want, your ego or impulse would be to rather keep harmony at all costs) so you go with whatever others tell You, charming them, without noticing that others need you to be strong and to the point (no sugar coating things) to say sometimes NO, and put some walls, no more giving other false expectations so that you can keep Your egotistical hyped up need for harmony, others think you are with them because you want it but You may be with them just to be seen as so-and-so's spouse, or member of so-and-so's charity, etc...that's the SN pull...so partnerships will teach You to not be afraid of asserting yourself in relationships without factoring your constant need to keep it all harmonious, the best partner Will be the one that teaches You the path of being independent without care of what others think, and not being afraid of confrontation and going for individual pursuits, Your relationships Will teach You How to be a self-serving individual like the majority of the population, not a people pleaser without pure individual goals that are taken impulsively and without your ego balancing and factoring in how to make it all palatable and harmonious to others to keep yourself looking as the person that is always "fair"...others will teach you how to be a self serving individual that takes care of his/her goals and impulses rather than being a hyper-collaborative "non-individual" that knows to a T how to survive working as a member of a team or a partner but that it's not active enough to handle street hassle situations of survival, or fighting for others the real battle without being hindered by being perceived as "wild" by others (because that is Your ego) fight for your relationships and on behalf of your one-on-one relationships! Find the courage to do that! Hope this finds You well.
Having the Aries NN in the 12th house, i've learned that mental independence, introspection, deep thinking and observation are vital for my spiritual growth, but these basic traits can only bring me so far. From this point onward i have to train my intuition and find a way to meditate that fits an Aries NN (standing still and trying to not think is pretty much impossible for me). Going into a state of flow might be the answer, since it happened to me in the past, but i still have to research the tricks behind it, so i can use it more often.
WOW... this was a stunning interpretation. You nailed it with me. My N. Node is in Aries in my 4th (as is Saturn, though they're not conjunct) and I did, in fact, find myself having to do a Power of Attorney overnight for a father who was diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease. I was completely alone, without any other family help, at that time, as well. It's amazing that you literally got the entire scenario I lived through in 2013.
Wait, do I have another cycle to look forward to at 40? 😮… Life, as I knew it, crumbled at 33 when I was forced to stand on my own. I’ve always been fiercely independent, but for some reason I never wanted to fully assert myself in any situation. Whenever I’d enter a relationship, for whatever foolish reason, I expected my partner to take the lead (and completely tossed my independent streak out of the window). I always ran from confrontation and taking initiative consistently. At 33 I was thrown to the wolves and at 34, I realized I HAVE TO FIGHT for every little thing. I literally need to be ready to whoop ass at any given moment. No more easy breezy. No more laid back approaches. No more letting people step over my boundaries. Stepping into 35 in a few days, I’ve accepted who I need to be going forward. Thus far, I’ve only worked on fending for myself, but I’m sure a time will come when I’ll be responsible for others as well.
Spot on. I had to be my parents advocate a couple years ago because of their illnesses. Always struggled with my jobs because I felt like I needed a leadership position. Always got stuck in a follower position, partly because of my marriage. I have a tat on my back that stands for balance. I must have always had an inner knowing. I love learning from you. Thank you.
Wow! Something I'm struggling with as well, stuck in a followers position, always wanted a leadership position.....have you gotten that leadership position???
Oh my, MJ. Everything you said has been spot on with how my life has gone. My younger years I took care of everyone else first. At 40 I separated from my husband. I had to put my my in a care facility. I went out on my own with my 9 yr old daughter. I learned that I needed to help me first. Now I have taken responsibility of my younger brother who is special needs. My life has gone exactly as you layed out with my Libra and Aires coming together. Thanks so much for your insight. God bless you!! :)
Wow just wow i was scared to be alone my dad left when i was 12 and never seen him again I got married at 25 and my husband took that role for me he loved me unconditionally 20 years later my husband passed away and I had to take a different role take care of the house and two kids I been doing it alone for 10 years now and I feel more comfortable with being alone you had helped me on this journey ty 💕🌷
Dear MJ i watch this video again and again and realized that the most difficult part in my life is to be there for me !!! There was a time back to my 40s where i fell do strong for my other half , though so then , but i wasn't strong enough to leave my comfort zone , my marriage .... sometimes i wonder what could ,would had happened if i choose to live with the other man with whom i was do crazy in love about , but after a couple of minutes i come back to reality which is my comfort zone, my family. Libra girl libra south .....
I just found out that I had a North Node in Aries but what's crazy is I always close to Aries people before I even knew they were Aries so I guess it was helping me with something
great explanation video, i’m only 18 now and i wish i could feel more confident but i feel like no matter what i do i’m stuck with these south mode libra traits and situations where i am made to continue acting like that even if my soul feels against it.
Thank you for making this video! I have Aries NN and Aries Moon. Very helpful to remind myself, BE BOLD. What’s right for me, boundaries boundaries boundaries!!
north node kicks in after 40..SHUT THE FRONT DOOR!🤯 that explains ALOT! 40 i started to get upset about things. 50 I VOWED to myself not to be doormat anymore..and now I speak up for myself.
I should have researched my north node sooner. That's me!!!! I did that. Proud of myself for standing up and doing what needed to be done, regardless of some consequences. Great job description!!! Ty
I found your video and I’m a Aries north node Libra south node. I’m in my 30s and I feel that I’m living in my north node already. We’ll sort of. I’m independent and I don’t rely on others to get things done. I can do better at asking for what I want, asset boundaries and embrace leadership. My teenage son is a Aries north Node Libra south node as well and he is literally the leader in everything he does at school. I’m very proud of him. He can do better at expressing what he needs though.
I was excited when I saw u had done one in Aries . This resonates on so many levels in all areas . I am in HR at a long term care facility and my partner is a Taurus . I take charge when I have to . Many people have taken advantage over the years of my kindness and generosity . In my 50 now and I am taking care of me and expressive of my needs 🦋 thank you MJ
Perfect timing the video has 11k view been posted 1 year ago with 1k likes so 1111!this resonate perfectly with what I’m going through! Thank you my dear🙏🏽
Definitely need to advocate for my Mom suffering from Alzheimer’s & Dementia now for 18 yrs! 2nd H Libra, Aries NN in the 8th! Thank you for those insights & validation can always use the extra encouragement 🙏💜😇😘
I'm an Aries north node with two young children who are Autisic, one non verbal. I am their voice. I am 37 this year and I can feel as I get older I'm becoming less of a doormat... Especially for my children. I'm also a cancer Leo cusp so I am mama bear. Cancer sun, Capricorn moon, Sagittarius rising. Learning to be assertive has been hard for me but I am getting there and growing every day
Wow 💜 I took my mom off life support a few days before Thanksgiving. Didn't even know I had a north node before you, I'm learning so much! I'm also a Taurus with a Libra moon, Scorpio rising
you are telling the truth about it showing up in your 40s... I am a ARIES SUN AND AN AQUARIUS NORTH NODE. I JUST WANTED TO HEAR WHAT YOU HAD TO SAY. THANK YOU.
Thanks. You have completely described my life… always put in a situation to make decisions, started own business using the Libra lessons, counseling, working as a child advocate and women’s advocate in the legal system, helping a life partner deal with the Alzheimer’s devastation…
Thank you for doing this video! I appreciated having these little reminders on things to be mindful of. One a day to day basis, it's very easy for me to slip into that south node energy. I'm very interested in seeing how everything I'm doing now will shift in my 40s. 😀
This is really insightful and rang very true for me. I'm 36 now. I took care of my beautiful mother for over 8 years through her journey with dementia. She transitioned last year. 🤍 Now I'm focusing more on being more self-advocating and independent. Thank you for sharing 😊
North node Aries 12th house and Jupiter 12th house Aries. Leo Sun, Mars, Mercury and Venus. Been strong willed since I was a kid, but always scared. I always hated responsibility too. I am always worried about my facial structure too, so being in the spotlight here on RUclips has been rather difficult, but im working on it. I get it now. Thank you for this 💜 Wow, both of my children are non verbal Autistic. Feels like the weight of the world is on my shoulders.
Thank you for this. I have definitely (and deliberately) faded into the background for most things of my life. Have been very uncomfortable with being centre of attention. Working my way out fo that though, bit by bit over the past couple of years. I’m currently being toe-punted into my north node that is with my stellium in aries including my sun, Mercury, Jupiter, MC, part of fortune and few other placements. My nodal return is next year. Finding my path and my footing has felt rough and I’m not even certain it’s the right one. But not taking action is tougher. So I’m going to see where I land and hope the next steps show themselves to n the way. Much appreciated ✨☀️✨
Dead on. I am a Sag sun with an Aries North Node. My mother was an Aries sun with exactly the characteristics you described and I am becoming more and more like her everyday.
Depending on whether I use placid us or whole sign houses means my north node in Aries is either in my 1st or 12th house. I’m currently 36 almost 37 and I’m feeling all this hard core. Boundaries and putting myself first has been a massive theme the past year. Honestly not ironic at all bc the north node is currently transiting through Aries. I’ve been a lot better about asserting myself too. Even quit a job that offered great financial security. But I had to bc my boss was lying and gaslighting me and I couldn’t take it. Ended a relationship with a guy recently too. He ticked a lot of boxes but when it came to effort in communication it wasn’t there. Asserted this twice to see if change would occur. It didn’t. So not bye 👋 I have no idea what path I’m on in terms of my career, currently living off my savings, yet I KNOW I’m going to get alright. I even finally asserted myself to my toxic, overly negative mother. Told her I well not allow anyone to mess with my peace. I already cut out all the negative people that were so called friends, all that was left was her. I love her and always well, just like my old best friend, and I will love you from afar bc no one will f with my happiness and positivity.
I am always afraid to sleep alone I wish my aries north node help me to overcome this fear. I am afraid of ghost or.dark.energies. I wish my aries and Libra will balance inside of. Me.
I didn't mention that i was his banker not a soulmate and at the end at the most difficult time for me with problems with my teen daughter he left me brutally just like that ...and that was the biggest lesson of my life 🙃....
Thank you MJ for this and your other videos! This sounded really familiar and I'm happy/relieved to hear it also sounded really natural/descriptive of my inner world as well. I'm 34 but have felt nudges towards this Aries energy especially in the past years, increasingly now as intuition that I followed in stepping away from a team environment and starting to go it on my own as an entrepreneur (I've got Aries NN in my 10th house which amplifies that career focus). Learning about the NN/SN has really helped me embrace who I am instead of guilt-tripping myself about 'selfish' tendencies especially like you mention in the video. I've got my Sun, Mercury, Mars & Venus in Leo so I think all that familiar fire energy is a grande support in stepping into Aries as my NN haha 😂 🔥Super excited to see what unfolds next. Sending everyone else lots of light & inspiration ✨
Great vid, thank you. My NN is in Aries ♈️ 8th house w/Jupiter. My 10th house is Taurus ♉️ w/ Venus and moon, I’m trying to figure out my purpose feel so lost in life. I’m sun cancer ♋️ who wants to work behind the scenes but my Leo ♌️ rising wants to be front in center at same time lol
I am a paralegal and I'm studying for the lsat. I feel like I am supposed to be a leader in the legal political realm to advocate for humanitarian rights
Thank you 🙏🏻. Got divorced at 49 while beïng in a very comfortable marriage but I did not feel happy anymore. But now my 23 year old daughter got diagnosed with cancer last august 😥. I take care of her 24/7 because of really tough chemo’s. Is this also part of my north node purpose???
Wow …amazing video. In last 3 years (im now 53 and started feeling “uncomfortable” after 40. I have been working on exactly these issues (voice, self love, and boundaries) I divorced at 50, trying to deal with a non-loving mother, advocated all my life for my son and advocated for a bipolar brother. Towards the end of my marriage, ego set in. I knew it wasnt me and was going down the wrong road and filed. Thank you MJ
I had to decide for my mom last year as her cancer (she was battling it for 5 years) eventually spread to her brain and after she had radiation of the entire brain she really started going down hill really quickly and ended up in a hospital. It was a horrible month full of so much darkness and tough decisions that I was the only one left in charge of making. I had to put her on hospice as her insurance (even though she was a nurse!!) Didn't cover long term care and hospice was the only option left even though she didn't want to go on it. It was not a pleasant experience. I definitely don't recommend it. Should have picked a different north node I guess.. lol...
@@SoulfulRevolution I noticed throughout life my worst lessons have been at work. I'll ask for a position and tend to not get it, stand up for myself and get more pressure put on me. At this time I wonder what gives?
Funny the emperor is aries & the empress is Taurus & libra… my sun sign is Taurus, my north node is aries my south is libra (obviously lol) & my 2 year old son is a libra sun!!! This is fascinating to me
I'm so happy you did these videos. It explains a lot about my life. I do still have a question though. I'm NN Aries 7th house. In researching briefly it seems as though those two things contradict each other, can you clarify for me?
I am curious, I am Aries north node and my partner is a libra north node which is the opposite. I am curious how that effects the relationship if it would at all.
Your ego and persona is to please others, to keep harmony at all costs, to the point that you are being selfish in doing that, Your ego loves to dissolve and distract itself in having a well manered indecisive persona, so, basically, you're a people pleaser in order to get what your ego wants (which is not a particular individualistic "me focused" pursuit what you want, your ego or impulse would be to rather keep harmony at all costs) so you go with whatever others tell You, charming them, without noticing that others need you to be strong and to the point (no sugar coating things) to say sometimes NO, and put some walls, no more giving other false expectations so that you can keep Your egotistical hyped up need for harmony, others think you are with them because you want it but may be wity them just to be seen as so and so spouse, or member of so and so charity, etc...that's the SN pull...so partnerships will teach You to not be afraid of asserting yourself in relationships without factoring your constant need to keep it all harmonious, they Best partner Will be the one that teaches You the path of being independent without care of what others think, and not being afraid of confrontation and going for individual pursuits, Your relationships Will teach You How to be a self-serving individual like the majority of the population, not a people pleaser without pure individual goals that are taken impulsively and without your ego balancing and factoring in How to make it all palatable and harmonious to others to keep yourself looking as the person that is always "fair"...others will teach you how to be a self serving individual that takes care of his goals and impulses rather than being a hyper-collaborative "non-individual" that knows to a T how to survive working as a member of a team or a partner but that it's not active enough to handle street hassle situations of survival, or fighting for others the real battle without being hindered by being perceived as "wild" by others (because that is Your ego) fight for your relationships and on behalf of your one on one relationships! Find the courage to do that! Hope this finds You well.
Friends have been telling me that they see me as a leader but i dont see it in me (Aries North Node). My Mom has dementia and I have to advocate for her. I am In a place where I have to make tough decisions, and take charge of situations. Now things are making more sense in my life. Thank you 👍
Thank you I’m
Currently merging out my Libra south node and merging into my Aries north node and I just turned 36 October 6. I’ve always had people look after me even now I’m staying by a friend but I feel it’s time to fly solo and see where life takes me again . My mom wish for me is to be able to take care of myself and that’s the focus right . I’m growing my art business and sharing my journey on social media . I’ve always rooted for the underdog I use to be bullied and I I hate to see those who can’t fight for themselves be taken advantage of .
This is spot on for me. I work in advocacy now, but didn’t most of my career. Found my lane later in life. Have always been a defender of the underdog, but I assumed this was my Scorpio sun archetype coming out. It makes sense to me since I would tend to advocate for peace and harmony with difficult people, but would not include myself in the equation. Way too many times. Now I feel the opposite. People are drawn to that confidence and assume I have it together. The tables have completely turned, right around 40 as you said. Very cool and very validating reading.
OMG me exactly! Scorpio sun🥹
For the ones that have NN Aries 7th house:
Your ego and persona is to please others, to keep harmony at all costs, to the point that you are being selfish in doing that, Your ego loves to dissolve and distract itself in having a well manered indecisive persona, so, basically, you're a people pleaser in order to get what your ego wants (which is not a particular individualistic "me focused" pursuit what you want, your ego or impulse would be to rather keep harmony at all costs) so you go with whatever others tell You, charming them, without noticing that others need you to be strong and to the point (no sugar coating things) to say sometimes NO, and put some walls, no more giving other false expectations so that you can keep Your egotistical hyped up need for harmony, others think you are with them because you want it but You may be with them just to be seen as so-and-so's spouse, or member of so-and-so's charity, etc...that's the SN pull...so partnerships will teach You to not be afraid of asserting yourself in relationships without factoring your constant need to keep it all harmonious, the best partner Will be the one that teaches You the path of being independent without care of what others think, and not being afraid of confrontation and going for individual pursuits, Your relationships Will teach You How to be a self-serving individual like the majority of the population, not a people pleaser without pure individual goals that are taken impulsively and without your ego balancing and factoring in how to make it all palatable and harmonious to others to keep yourself looking as the person that is always "fair"...others will teach you how to be a self serving individual that takes care of his/her goals and impulses rather than being a hyper-collaborative "non-individual" that knows to a T how to survive working as a member of a team or a partner but that it's not active enough to handle street hassle situations of survival, or fighting for others the real battle without being hindered by being perceived as "wild" by others (because that is Your ego) fight for your relationships and on behalf of your one-on-one relationships! Find the courage to do that! Hope this finds You well.
I’m 36 and I’m going through this too.
Having the Aries NN in the 12th house, i've learned that mental independence, introspection, deep thinking and observation are vital for my spiritual growth, but these basic traits can only bring me so far. From this point onward i have to train my intuition and find a way to meditate that fits an Aries NN (standing still and trying to not think is pretty much impossible for me). Going into a state of flow might be the answer, since it happened to me in the past, but i still have to research the tricks behind it, so i can use it more often.
WOW... this was a stunning interpretation. You nailed it with me. My N. Node is in Aries in my 4th (as is Saturn, though they're not conjunct) and I did, in fact, find myself having to do a Power of Attorney overnight for a father who was diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease. I was completely alone, without any other family help, at that time, as well. It's amazing that you literally got the entire scenario I lived through in 2013.
As a teacher .. I have a deep passion in regards to bullying
Actually, I'm 36 and experiencing this kind of shift
Wait, do I have another cycle to look forward to at 40? 😮… Life, as I knew it, crumbled at 33 when I was forced to stand on my own. I’ve always been fiercely independent, but for some reason I never wanted to fully assert myself in any situation. Whenever I’d enter a relationship, for whatever foolish reason, I expected my partner to take the lead (and completely tossed my independent streak out of the window). I always ran from confrontation and taking initiative consistently. At 33 I was thrown to the wolves and at 34, I realized I HAVE TO FIGHT for every little thing. I literally need to be ready to whoop ass at any given moment. No more easy breezy. No more laid back approaches. No more letting people step over my boundaries. Stepping into 35 in a few days, I’ve accepted who I need to be going forward. Thus far, I’ve only worked on fending for myself, but I’m sure a time will come when I’ll be responsible for others as well.
Great Video!!! I have NORTH NODE in Aries ♈️🔥
Spot on. I had to be my parents advocate a couple years ago because of their illnesses. Always struggled with my jobs because I felt like I needed a leadership position. Always got stuck in a follower position, partly because of my marriage. I have a tat on my back that stands for balance. I must have always had an inner knowing. I love learning from you. Thank you.
Wow! Something I'm struggling with as well, stuck in a followers position, always wanted a leadership position.....have you gotten that leadership position???
Oh my, MJ. Everything you said has been spot on with how my life has gone. My younger years I took care of everyone else first. At 40 I separated from my husband. I had to put my my in a care facility. I went out on my own with my 9 yr old daughter. I learned that I needed to help me first. Now I have taken responsibility of my younger brother who is special needs. My life has gone exactly as you layed out with my Libra and Aires coming together. Thanks so much for your insight. God bless you!! :)
Wow just wow i was scared to be alone my dad left when i was 12 and never seen him again I got married at 25 and my husband took that role for me he loved me unconditionally 20 years later my husband passed away and I had to take a different role take care of the house and two kids I been doing it alone for 10 years now and I feel more comfortable with being alone you had helped me on this journey ty 💕🌷
Dear MJ i watch this video again and again and realized that the most difficult part in my life is to be there for me !!! There was a time back to my 40s where i fell do strong for my other half , though so then , but i wasn't strong enough to leave my comfort zone , my marriage .... sometimes i wonder what could ,would had happened if i choose to live with the other man with whom i was do crazy in love about , but after a couple of minutes i come back to reality which is my comfort zone, my family. Libra girl libra south .....
I can do both lol
Gemini ♊️ run 🏃♀️
Super helpful. Been trying to understand this better/deeper for years.
I just found out that I had a North Node in Aries but what's crazy is I always close to Aries people before I even knew they were Aries so I guess it was helping me with something
great explanation video, i’m only 18 now and i wish i could feel more confident but i feel like no matter what i do i’m stuck with these south mode libra traits and situations where i am made to continue acting like that even if my soul feels against it.
On MBTI, I am INFJ/The Advocate. Wow to how everything is intertwined!
Thank you for making this video! I have Aries NN and Aries Moon. Very helpful to remind myself, BE BOLD. What’s right for me, boundaries boundaries boundaries!!
north node kicks in after 40..SHUT THE FRONT DOOR!🤯 that explains ALOT! 40 i started to get upset about things. 50 I VOWED to myself not to be doormat anymore..and now I speak up for myself.
I should have researched my north node sooner. That's me!!!! I did that. Proud of myself for standing up and doing what needed to be done, regardless of some consequences. Great job description!!! Ty
Thank u ❤ I have known for a long time I’m a born leader and have been in management position fit last 30 yrs of my life n I enjoy it that is me.
Im north node in arise… I’ll be 35 in April Taurus but I feel like this is exactly where I am and what I have been through
North node in Aries and April Aries sun I’m 35 too ✨🌻
Watching right after my 36 birthday feeling the same
Thank you! Im an Aries north node. Im glad I came across your chanel this morning
Leaders make leaders 💜
I'm a Libra North Node Aries, and this resonates with me in a lot of ways.
I found your video and I’m a Aries north node Libra south node. I’m in my 30s and I feel that I’m living in my north node already. We’ll sort of. I’m independent and I don’t rely on others to get things done. I can do better at asking for what I want, asset boundaries and embrace leadership. My teenage son is a Aries north Node Libra south node as well and he is literally the leader in everything he does at school. I’m very proud of him. He can do better at expressing what he needs though.
I am definitely learning to stand alone. Thank you for this. It’s very informative. I took your class several months ago. It was great! 👍🏻
Beautifully put ❤❤❤❤
Thanks, very accurate! 🎉❤
I was excited when I saw u had done one in Aries . This resonates on so many levels in all areas . I am in HR at a long term care facility and my partner is a Taurus . I take charge when I have to . Many people have taken advantage over the years of my kindness and generosity . In my 50 now and I am taking care of me and expressive of my needs 🦋 thank you MJ
Perfect timing the video has 11k view been posted 1 year ago with 1k likes so 1111!this resonate perfectly with what I’m going through!
Thank you my dear🙏🏽
Wow thank you so much! Exactly what I am experiencing now!
Omg! So true 😭😭😭😭 thank you for your amazing reading ❤😊
This was so very helpful! I have definitely started functioning in my north node yay!
I love that you’re doing this. I’ve always been curious about my Aries north node
Definitely need to advocate for my Mom suffering from Alzheimer’s & Dementia now for 18 yrs! 2nd H Libra, Aries NN in the 8th! Thank you for those insights & validation can always use the extra encouragement 🙏💜😇😘
Thank you so much for this. And you broke this down so quickly.
I'm an Aries north node with two young children who are Autisic, one non verbal. I am their voice. I am 37 this year and I can feel as I get older I'm becoming less of a doormat... Especially for my children. I'm also a cancer Leo cusp so I am mama bear. Cancer sun, Capricorn moon, Sagittarius rising. Learning to be assertive has been hard for me but I am getting there and growing every day
Wow 💜 I took my mom off life support a few days before Thanksgiving. Didn't even know I had a north node before you, I'm learning so much! I'm also a Taurus with a Libra moon, Scorpio rising
MJ your so freaking Awesome Girl
Definitely past life energy had a dream about making the decision to switch off machines for life support.
you are telling the truth about it showing up in your 40s... I am a ARIES SUN AND AN AQUARIUS NORTH NODE. I JUST WANTED TO HEAR WHAT YOU HAD TO SAY. THANK YOU.
Wow! Thank you for this, very interesting and at 53 I am in this mode with a new job and working thru with family.👍🌻
thank you so much for sharing
Thanks. You have completely described my life… always put in a situation to make decisions, started own business using the Libra lessons, counseling, working as a child advocate and women’s advocate in the legal system, helping a life partner deal with the Alzheimer’s devastation…
Thank you for doing this video! I appreciated having these little reminders on things to be mindful of. One a day to day basis, it's very easy for me to slip into that south node energy. I'm very interested in seeing how everything I'm doing now will shift in my 40s. 😀
Thank you for posting this Mary Jo!❤️
SPOT ON! Thank you for doing these north node videos. Valuable information 💟
Thank you so much, MJ! This was clarifying.
Spot on! ✨❤️
This is really insightful and rang very true for me. I'm 36 now. I took care of my beautiful mother for over 8 years through her journey with dementia. She transitioned last year. 🤍 Now I'm focusing more on being more self-advocating and independent. Thank you for sharing 😊
Thank you for the astrological translation into words for our 3D life.
Exactly what I needed to hear!
How I resisted leadership till I no longer could. Thank you for your content ❤
North node Aries 12th house and Jupiter 12th house Aries. Leo Sun, Mars, Mercury and Venus. Been strong willed since I was a kid, but always scared. I always hated responsibility too. I am always worried about my facial structure too, so being in the spotlight here on RUclips has been rather difficult, but im working on it. I get it now. Thank you for this 💜 Wow, both of my children are non verbal Autistic. Feels like the weight of the world is on my shoulders.
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Thank you🙏
Thank you for this. I have definitely (and deliberately) faded into the background for most things of my life. Have been very uncomfortable with being centre of attention. Working my way out fo that though, bit by bit over the past couple of years.
I’m currently being toe-punted into my north node that is with my stellium in aries including my sun, Mercury, Jupiter, MC, part of fortune and few other placements. My nodal return is next year. Finding my path and my footing has felt rough and I’m not even certain it’s the right one. But not taking action is tougher. So I’m going to see where I land and hope the next steps show themselves to n the way.
Much appreciated ✨☀️✨
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This was very informative! I learned a lot! Thank you!❤️
My goodness this is spot on ❤️ thank you MJ.
Thank you - makes a lot of sense! ❤️
Dead on. I am a Sag sun with an Aries North Node. My mother was an Aries sun with exactly the characteristics you described and I am becoming more and more like her everyday.
I feel like its almost like embracing the masculine energy traits after 38 years of dominant feminine venusian energy in my life..
Virgo Sun & 5 placements, Aries Mars and North Node. Thank you for this. 🙏🕉️🙏
Not 40 yet, but definitely experiencing a heavy push towards this already
This is so much me I'm working on it for sure!! I'm north node Aries sun Sagittarius moon Libra
Very informative
Depending on whether I use placid us or whole sign houses means my north node in Aries is either in my 1st or 12th house.
I’m currently 36 almost 37 and I’m feeling all this hard core. Boundaries and putting myself first has been a massive theme the past year. Honestly not ironic at all bc the north node is currently transiting through Aries. I’ve been a lot better about asserting myself too. Even quit a job that offered great financial security. But I had to bc my boss was lying and gaslighting me and I couldn’t take it. Ended a relationship with a guy recently too. He ticked a lot of boxes but when it came to effort in communication it wasn’t there. Asserted this twice to see if change would occur. It didn’t. So not bye 👋 I have no idea what path I’m on in terms of my career, currently living off my savings, yet I KNOW I’m going to get alright. I even finally asserted myself to my toxic, overly negative mother. Told her I well not allow anyone to mess with my peace. I already cut out all the negative people that were so called friends, all that was left was her. I love her and always well, just like my old best friend, and I will love you from afar bc no one will f with my happiness and positivity.
Hello cross watcher here
Gemini NNode ♊️
I am always afraid to sleep alone I wish my aries north node help me to overcome this fear. I am afraid of ghost or.dark.energies. I wish my aries and Libra will balance inside of. Me.
Very accurate. I have an adult autistic daughter and am her conservator. She is not capable of making adult decisions.
I didn't mention that i was his banker not a soulmate and at the end at the most difficult time for me with problems with my teen daughter he left me brutally just like that ...and that was the biggest lesson of my life 🙃....
Thank you MJ for this and your other videos! This sounded really familiar and I'm happy/relieved to hear it also sounded really natural/descriptive of my inner world as well. I'm 34 but have felt nudges towards this Aries energy especially in the past years, increasingly now as intuition that I followed in stepping away from a team environment and starting to go it on my own as an entrepreneur (I've got Aries NN in my 10th house which amplifies that career focus). Learning about the NN/SN has really helped me embrace who I am instead of guilt-tripping myself about 'selfish' tendencies especially like you mention in the video. I've got my Sun, Mercury, Mars & Venus in Leo so I think all that familiar fire energy is a grande support in stepping into Aries as my NN haha 😂 🔥Super excited to see what unfolds next. Sending everyone else lots of light & inspiration ✨
Waheguru
Finally !!
Great vid, thank you. My NN is in Aries ♈️ 8th house w/Jupiter. My 10th house is Taurus ♉️ w/ Venus and moon, I’m trying to figure out my purpose feel so lost in life. I’m sun cancer ♋️ who wants to work behind the scenes but my Leo ♌️ rising wants to be front in center at same time lol
Aries Nn, Mars in Capricorn. Capricorn rising
I am a paralegal and I'm studying for the lsat. I feel like I am supposed to be a leader in the legal political realm to advocate for humanitarian rights
Thank you 🙏🏻. Got divorced at 49 while beïng in a very comfortable marriage but I did not feel happy anymore. But now my 23 year old daughter got diagnosed with cancer last august 😥. I take care of her 24/7 because of really tough chemo’s. Is this also part of my north node purpose???
Wow …amazing video. In last 3 years (im now 53 and started feeling “uncomfortable” after 40. I have been working on exactly these issues (voice, self love, and boundaries)
I divorced at 50, trying to deal with a non-loving mother, advocated all my life for my son and advocated for a bipolar brother. Towards the end of my marriage, ego set in. I knew it wasnt me and was going down the wrong road and filed.
Thank you MJ
I am 36...and covid has allowed me the space to loose some dead plants already.... So I am looking forward to 40 and onwards 🙏💜
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So interesting… I have mars in Gemini (11th) but I have a lot in aries… north node, Jupiter, & Venus! (9th house)💫
I had to decide for my mom last year as her cancer (she was battling it for 5 years) eventually spread to her brain and after she had radiation of the entire brain she really started going down hill really quickly and ended up in a hospital. It was a horrible month full of so much darkness and tough decisions that I was the only one left in charge of making. I had to put her on hospice as her insurance (even though she was a nurse!!) Didn't cover long term care and hospice was the only option left even though she didn't want to go on it.
It was not a pleasant experience. I definitely don't recommend it. Should have picked a different north node I guess.. lol...
Nn aries 4th house. Seems contradicting ego vs humble
Family vs self,
Emotion vs instinct?
Always contradicting. Yes, that’s kind of the point. The pathway is urging you to learn both sides of circumstances so you can be balanced.
@@SoulfulRevolution I noticed throughout life my worst lessons have been at work. I'll ask for a position and tend to not get it, stand up for myself and get more pressure put on me. At this time I wonder what gives?
Funny the emperor is aries & the empress is Taurus & libra… my sun sign is Taurus, my north node is aries my south is libra (obviously lol) & my 2 year old son is a libra sun!!! This is fascinating to me
My south node is in Sagittarius.
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Can you apply these videos to houses too?
I'm so happy you did these videos. It explains a lot about my life. I do still have a question though. I'm NN Aries 7th house. In researching briefly it seems as though those two things contradict each other, can you clarify for me?
I’m trying to be like this at 18😂 forty too late for me. It’s just so hard
Hahahah 40..I wish...mine started shoving me when I turned 30. It's been 5 years 😭😭😭😭
Likely your Saturn return was the catalyst! Happens when you’re 29 or so….
Nn aires 29 degrees 11th house
Do i have to be in the north to be in my north node.
Whatever happened to the pastor wearing a robe on Sundays?
I am curious, I am Aries north node and my partner is a libra north node which is the opposite. I am curious how that effects the relationship if it would at all.
You are here to learn what your partner already has mastered and vice versa. You’re leading each other ❤️😘☀️
Your ego and persona is to please others, to keep harmony at all costs, to the point that you are being selfish in doing that, Your ego loves to dissolve and distract itself in having a well manered indecisive persona, so, basically, you're a people pleaser in order to get what your ego wants (which is not a particular individualistic "me focused" pursuit what you want, your ego or impulse would be to rather keep harmony at all costs) so you go with whatever others tell You, charming them, without noticing that others need you to be strong and to the point (no sugar coating things) to say sometimes NO, and put some walls, no more giving other false expectations so that you can keep Your egotistical hyped up need for harmony, others think you are with them because you want it but may be wity them just to be seen as so and so spouse, or member of so and so charity, etc...that's the SN pull...so partnerships will teach You to not be afraid of asserting yourself in relationships without factoring your constant need to keep it all harmonious, they Best partner Will be the one that teaches You the path of being independent without care of what others think, and not being afraid of confrontation and going for individual pursuits, Your relationships Will teach You How to be a self-serving individual like the majority of the population, not a people pleaser without pure individual goals that are taken impulsively and without your ego balancing and factoring in How to make it all palatable and harmonious to others to keep yourself looking as the person that is always "fair"...others will teach you how to be a self serving individual that takes care of his goals and impulses rather than being a hyper-collaborative "non-individual" that knows to a T how to survive working as a member of a team or a partner but that it's not active enough to handle street hassle situations of survival, or fighting for others the real battle without being hindered by being perceived as "wild" by others (because that is Your ego) fight for your relationships and on behalf of your one on one relationships! Find the courage to do that! Hope this finds You well.
I still get accused of being up it d 🙃
Hello 👋
Not aries nn
Aquarius sun, Aries north node ..it's weird
Sun sign is a bit…surface. Check out your progressed sun (secondary progressions) - we all mature and so do our core signs.
Speak or blow horn
Don't get me started lol
Just kidding lol 😆 🤣
All in love 🥰
After 40??? I thought it was after 30... Ok, so im not late 😅
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