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If you want to know what is really wrong with a person ask these questions:
What is that you couldn't do if you where different than you identify as.
What is it you can't do if you are a man/women?
What challenges would this pose for you?
Is it the way of dressing, interests, or anything. Get to what "need" is not being met and in what way are they trying to get this need met with what they are doing.
Why does she identify as a dol?, a lifeless puppet without any real personality, only to be used by others (which could be big indication and major red flag).
Or a self denying form of existence, as it's too much to bear and using this as a way to distance from the harshness of reality.
@@sebastiaanstok absolutely a result of childhood trauma.. identity seems to be (in these cases). Based on feelings.. she was made to feel like an inanimate object as a child and therefore adopted that persona as an adult.. just as some people when abused by members of the same sex sometimes go trans or repeat the behavior.. Bottom line she's s mess and the clown makeup is what she hides behind
She doesn’t want to be “associated with gender” but it’s all she talks about 😒
😂 lol that's EXACTLY what is going on here. They are OBSESSED with gender. Like beyond obsessed.
Exactly she should just get on with it and just be herself without going on about it every 30 seconds
How weird, right?
How weird, right?
@LmBaynham yes they are extremely gender stereotyped as they're basically saying that if you don't fit into the stereotypical image of a male or female then there has to be something wrong with you - it's just so ironic how they don't understand that their behavior is just endorsing male/female gender stereotypes even more so and its not moving forward its going backwards 🤦♀️😬
"I'm built different" gurl really pulled the "not like other girls" card 💀💀
bro it's literally the meme too
i mean… she’s not wrong LMAO
If my misgendering a person causes them traumatic existential angst, I'm not the one with the problem.
Preach 😌✊🏻
THIS!!!
I got called “it” sometimes in school for being flamboyant and clearly gay despite being in the closet. Also got asked if I wanted to be a woman or told I WAS a woman. It seriously messed with me. But you know what I did? I went to therapy. I can’t think of anything more dehumanizing than being called it. This is sick.
I'm so glad you are so strong, got help, and are here as your authentic self ❤
I'm sorry that happened to you. High school kids are jerks and bullying sucks. I hope you're doing better. ❤
I graduated HS in 2011. I know of gay kids in my class that were called “it” because of being gay, in order to demean and dehumanize them. I met someone who used it as a preferred pronoun and I honestly felt offended that they would want me to call them that. It also made me feel like “girl are you ok?”
She must be inspired by the movie with the clown theme.
@@HollieMoodie thank you! Yeah things are great now.
This girl is so ill. So sad.
Somehow, the term “gender” has begun to mean something that has nothing to do with actual gender. It’s sad because so many young people who are simply nonconformists now believe extreme body modification is necessary to their mental well being.
I think that's the case with so many of these people, what they're really saying is 'I'm confused, I don't like myself, I am sad and ill, please take notice'. Why else do they need to tell us everything about themselves and their vast confusion on these ridiculous little ticktock videos?
Very sad 😔 I feel their pain
I do not.
@@Sonnenkind33At least Lady Gaga can sing and play the piano, she's a different persona for her shows. I bet that on regular days she goes without makeup and will not get recognized. But this clownish indivudual here seems to live like that daily?Looks like a reject from Cirque du Soleil. Mardi Gras as a way of life? Help is needed, quickly.
Yes, we use "it" before learning the sex of an animal. We also use "they" when speaking of a person whose sex we can't be sure of. If the Amazon driver wasn't seen, "oh, they delivered my package." If they WERE seen, "oh, he or she delivered my package." Same goes with the animal. "Oh, this dog. It's so cute" becomes "he is so cute" once we see him lift his leg to pee.
""Oh, this dog (...) leg to pee."
Assuming that bitches doesn't do the same...
Also, "they delivered my package" is colloquial. It's being used as an impersonal pronoun, not as a gender-neutral personal pronoun.
@@ghenuloThat's a very good point.
We don't use they when the subject is a known singular person.
Welcome to Germany, where all dogs are he, all cats are she and all girls are it....and absolutely nobody is they, because that Sounds as dumb as it gets.
But culture is obviously Non existent. It's evil and everyone Please adapt to the American standard of thinking and feeling about pronouns...evetythinv else is sick and needs to be Attacked and mocked.
Imagine your entire identity revolving around what other people call you.
I'm pretty sure thats how identity works?? It's what others call you??
@@borderline_sunshine No, that’s not how identity works. I don’t give two shits what others call me, my identity is the same regardless.
This
It's not my obligation to validate anyone about anything.
Some people ask an awful lot from the society they wish to help destroy.
right
I love this comment 🎉🎉🎉
THIS
Dude, not to patronize you, but you really are wise beyond your years. People need to REALLY LISTEN to your message. There also is a lot of compassion here. Keep up the good work.
I've commented a a few times on different vids by Marcus that he's one of the rare young people that gives me hope (I'm 63) for the future, for having sense & empathy, being reasonable & sane & intelligent, etc. I don't think you were patronizing by saying "beyond your years," but then....I'm older, so there's a lot about what used to called communication that utterly mystifies me these days. But I do agree with your attitude toward Marcus for sure.
@@kellyhoward6941 Oh, come on, we have LOTS of fabulously intelligent wonderful young people. There's plenty of hope! We are living in an incredible age.
@@NYCResident543 I think my major problem is having had fewer opportunities in the last few years to interact with young people in person. That nearly always leaves me feeling optimistic & excited. I just get disgruntled when I run across too many idiotic wackjobs on the internet, so I'm delightedly surprised when I run across someone terrific. You're right, it is a pretty incredible age. Best to you!
@@NYCResident543 I don’t know about that I’m pretty scared in this day and age. There’s so much going on , on top of this mess right here. We didn’t have that in the 80s. Now, that was amazing time to grow up in but it’s not like that anymore it’s dangerous now. I feel sorry for the young generation having to grow up in this mess. But you’re right, there’s still is hope, but I find that hope to be less than less when I see some of these youngster that feel they can dress up as a clown full on clown, and demand to be respected. I find that very hard to do. And having to deal with a lot of angry people in public places as somebody that is in their 50s, I am just really confused on this ever-changing label/merry-go-round. So glad that you are upbeat and optimistic. So thank you..
Right I agree they all need to listen
I'm biologically a woman, I'm twenty years old and I've lived so much of my life thinking I was transgender. I am in fact not. In the past year I've come to know and accept that I am a woman. As a child I saw how my household (primarily men) treated women, there was a pattern of s*xual and violent behaviors that at a young age got directed at me. Being a woman made me a target. I came out as trans in my early teens and I'm blessed I couldn't transition because I would've ruined my life. I now know that I needed to do that to protect myself. I've met and am now marrying the love of my life (a man) who created that safe space I so desperately needed all my life. Never been happier.
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This is an incredible point and needs to be brought up more often.
You are so wise. I'm so glad you weren't able to transition back then. ❤❤
Yay! I wish you the best
I went thru something similar as a teen also. I'm very grateful that I waited to act on those impulses.
I'm glad you waited to get to know yourself better before making a decision that could have negatively impacted your entire life.
I imagine thinking your trans when you are not..would be very similar to how a trans person feels before transitioning.
“I dont want to be associated with gender but im gonna make an entire slideshow presentation to explain exactly what my gender is”
I think these are just very impressionable teenagers who watched the movie IT...
@@Sonnenkind33 exactly! :D
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In Finnish, "it" is a casual way to say he/she (we also only have one gender neutral word for he/she). When we learn English, we have to consciously learn to never say "it" when referring to people. We also need to learn to use he/she (we know the difference, but using two separate words when you're used to using just one is challenging and even a fluent speaker will sometimes accidentally use the wrong one). These weirdoes are making things harder for non-native English speakers.
Despite the whole Woke language stuff, "They" acts as a good neutral until you know for sure.
It needs taught in English too, because "it" is technically the proper neuter pronoun; however, it has cultural association with objects and therefore consider dehumanizing. Consider too that these subversion also don't understand English uses "he" as the neuter pronoun despite being the masculine one (only to "feminist" objection and upholding the implication as base to extortion) -- that subversion extorts an an overwriting of pronoun with a referential adjective version. (Things such as "he's a he"/"she's a she" or partially the couple "his/hers" nonsense. "It" basically has the same problem of an erroneous implication; an inanimate object rather than sex.) Non-gendered languages usually fall into that neuter "he" as do machine translations for lack of context to add relevant pronoun (and can't use "it" and can't use singular "they" either as that also requires context to not be plural).
How much that cultural association is in relation to the lack/lose of gender usage and limited sexing in "modern" English is probably debatable.
Also, the single use of "they" while not proper is technically correct. I bring that up to mention that the single use colloquially in speak has nothing to do with this imposition. Or explained shortly; peoples use of the possessive singular "their" and "theirs" rather than "his" or "hers" developed independently as a different change. (May be worth considering how that correlates with such 'casual' use of the singular "they" in speak.)
English being all mixed up is both powerful, but also is what's being leveraged arbitrarily.
Yes! I’m sorry for these difficulties. it also makes it harder for people who have had brain injury, stroke, dementia, and language learning disabilities
-a speech language pathologist
In real life, people don't care about the pronoun crap. Well, sane people don't care about it. Its mostly just an online thing. I have not seen anyone in real life yet freak out about pronouns. If you get a blue hair try to correct you just say "my bad" and give them the pronouns they want and end the conversation as quick as you can and get away from them as quick as possible. Yes, in real life the neo-pronouns are very rare, they are still very toxic and need to be avoided at all costs.
That's pretty cool! In cantonese it's similar. We use 佢 (pronounced: keoi5) for it/she/he. So it's the same for humans, animals, and objects
'i enjoy looking like a clown' GURL WE CAN TELL
I wonder if these people have ever read the book "a child called it" they might rethink their choices
I was just thinking of this !
Oh wow that book was rough. It was so bad. It kept me awake so many nights. I find it really difficult to see stories on the news about kids being harmed without thinking of that story.
And I agree with your take.
People really tend to take things for granted. Whenever I find myself feeling offended or frustrated or slighted, i try to take a minute and truly be grateful for the things that I have. I wish these people would put their time and energy into actually helping people, like in real life.
I was thinking of this book aswell
This hits so close. Incredibly well said Marcus. My daughter was SA’d and suddenly (truly out of the blue) decided she hated her body (typical and understandable after that experience) and that she was supposed to be a man. I won’t go along with it. I will not call her a man or by this new name. She needs therapy to face what happened to her, not people who affirm her in denying her trauma.
This happened exactly too me. You shouldn’t really be like “no this is wrong” because that might feel like you’re trying to blame or aggravate her. Please just try to support her right now because I promise you she will get over it. It’s extremely traumatic to go through SA offer her comfort maybe go to therapy so she can find healthy ways to cope
Side note I bet you’re a great parent, please keep supporting your daughter❤️ (coming from teenager that this exact scenario happened too)
I wish you well in the journey with your daughter. You are a great parent. Just be careful when trying to get therapy. Provided you can get her to, they can be very trans oriented. Blessings
@@ch-br8xu I’m sorry you went through that. I did as well. It’s very disturbing how common that is. 🥺 I try my best to make sure I don’t give any message that she’s to blame in anyway. We remain very close and see each other often.
@@annamossity8879 thank you. She wouldn’t go to any therapist other than one who was very pro transition at the first meeting.
I refuse this. Nothing within the law compels me to validate anyone else's emotional needs or private fantasies, delusions or demands . I will not infantalise others, use words of worship, deification , authority, sexuality. Human rights are already contained within the law .
* Hi Marcus - I am a licensed psychotherapist, I wanted to compliment you on your line of thinking/questioning. It is 100% possible that an individual could be "running away" from trauma experienced, looking to disassociate themselves from the pain that their "previous self" encountered. These are things that should be addressed, finding understanding & meaning, thereby eliminating the need to divorce ourselves from our past difficulties.
So like, disassociate an integral part of yourself from a past trauma so you can continue on with that part without the added baggage?
No. What I am suggesting is that a person DEAL with their difficulty not simply disassociate, or try to ignore it. @@wierdgamer3067
I know this probably isn’t the right place. But I’ve been looking for I think psychotherapy maybe?
Benthewildchild... You probably want specifically a psychologist and not just a psychotherapist. I'd look into that avenue mate. Psychotherapist is too much of a broad term in my opinion, whereas a decent psychologist can help you really become the person you are or need to be. I've had both and my psychologist fixed me half a decade ago. The therapist I saw recently was useless. Just my thoughts
As a Christian, I want to say you are amazing and so loved. Your words come from a place of caring, reason, and love for others.
In this weeks episode of "I'm not like other girls" ...
I'm sorry but this is nothing but Emo in color
Kodak Emos or Technicolor emo
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Hell no. My daughter was emo/goth in highschool (and she still is) but didn't and doesn't look bizarre like these people. Neither did her friends. This is fake emo. I'm still gothic myself and goth and emo are so much more than the attire and makeup. We are unusual people but most of us are within the reasonably sane category.
"Emo in colour"... Hahahaha, class comment!!
Haha I miss read Emo as Elmo and suddenly thought there’s someone out there tryin to be the next emo by pretending to be Elmo sexual 😂
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"I'm different!" She says, as she has fallen victim to exactly what is trendy right now.
Ironically, since I think "it" isn't even a neutral pronoun in English, it's relegated for inanimate objects (and calling people by that pronoun is pretty bad, potentially harmful to an individual).
'It' is for object, animals and complete unkowns. ie getting woken up in the night and asking "what is it now?". it is technicly for all objects but tools,weapons and vehicles will often be anthromorphised and gain he or she (usually she in english).
If it wants to be called it, it's a hate crime to call it anything else, don't get me wrong these crazy woke ideals aren't my own I'm repeating what other psycho pronoun people have said.
Actually one can call an unborn baby and an animal "it" if you don't know the sex.
@@aeh3253Would be better to call a baby they or them or simply just ask for their name/what their sex is. Calling a baby ”it” is dehumanizing.
@Luciferianlavender I think more people will use they/them for babies, but I can see "it" for unborn babies (especially when the sex isnt know), not out of disregard or disrespect but just because it's not a tangible just yet. Sometimes in the early stages it could even be a way of disassociation because sometimes there are miscarriages. That's my two cents anyway.
Demanding people to use "it" pronounce for you is like demanding someone use the n-word or some other slur for you as well. People are going to be uncomfortable of the idea and hell, people are going to outright reject the idea.
How ridiculous that it’s seen as disrespectful that you don’t want to dehumanize people by calling them It.
I mean im not against calling her " it" if thats what she wants to be called. Her persona and image fits the name. She is indeed an oddity of nature. But shes also Narcissitic, especially if she thinks shes " built different" as a human being. Thats essentially the mindet of every neo pronoun freak on tik tok.
@@loisen Welcome to Germany, where all dogs are he, all cats are she and all girls are it....and absolutely nobody is they, because that Sounds as dumb as it gets.
But culture is obviously Non existent. It's evil and everyone Please adapt to the American standard of thinking and feeling about pronouns...everything else is sick and needs to be Attacked and mocked.
That poor girl. I didn't see the before pictures and I sincerely hope that she gets the mental health care that she so desperately needs.
I will never understand why someone would want to be called 'it'
I appreciate that you stand your ground and hold the line on certain things, but I truly love that at the same time there is a thread of kindness and concern running through your message.
Once upon a time if you saw someone on the street like this, you'd give them a wide berth. Now you're expected to fawn and go along with WHATEVER they say or _you're_ the one with issues. Maybe there's a better option than the way it used to be, but following someone down the rabbit hole that exists only in their head is damaging to everyone involved - I personally don't want to lie, and I also don't want to encourage the idea that ignoring reality is mentally healthy.
Oooooo, I am so glad you are talking about it/its pronouns because I hate it when people have that in their bio! When someone on my discord called their partner "it" and they allowed that because it was their "pronoun", I was so uncomfortable! I find that disgusting and dehumanizing! How much of their humanity are they willing to sacrifice to be validated?!
Welcome to Germany, where all dogs are he, all cats are she and all girls are it....and absolutely nobody is they, because that Sounds as dumb as it gets.
But culture is obviously Non existent. It's evil and everyone Please adapt to the American standard of thinking and feeling about pronouns...everything else is sick and needs to be Attacked and mocked.
Oh, she's DEFINITELY 'it". I look at her , and can't stop thinking about Pennywise!
😂😂😂
I thought I'm the only one 🤣
What hurts these people most is that they are upset they cannot control you. The sad thing is, they cannot even control themselves. If they could control themselves, they would not feel the need to try to control others. It is their lack of self-control making them irrational, pushing others away with their overbearing abusive personalities, and again because they refuse to control themselves (poor impulse control) they seek to force legal control of you.
To me, it's like someone demanding that everyone calls them a vegetable. Well, no, you are human being and facts matter. To do otherwise, negatively affects MY mental health.
Thank you for being so real and sympathetic. It's true, it is tragic to so these people abandon humanity for a sense of identity.
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This is a prine example of why we NEED to keep reality separate from fantasy.
I remember when people said that using It It’s for people was rightly seen as offensive and derogatory. We need to start making the use of “neo pronouns” as unpopular etc.
cant rlly say much becuz i do prefer to be called it/its but if u prefer to be called by "bun/buns" or some shit like that, youre really damn weird 😭
I think you're right about Clown Girl. She's an attractive girl, and I immediately thought something must have happened to her. I hope she gets the help she needs, so she can get on with living her life.
This is called the halo effect. I’m not saying anything about you as a person, mate. Just that we humans tend to give conventionally attractive people a pass that we wouldn’t give to more plain folks. I know I did/do it. I know I’ll probably do it again.
I hope she gets help too. I hope they all do.
@lf.with.Internet.Access I have a degree in psychology. I know perfectly well what the halo effect is. In this case, I don't think that is relevant. As Marcus points out, this girl is going out of her way to make herself unattractive, and she does not show any of the emotional affect that would indicate she is happy about it. Indeed, she looks decidedly unhappy. That's why I suspect that something unpleasant, an incident of some kind, is motivating her behavior.
@@HandgunSafeCan you please explain more on that? Why do victims of trauma of sorts go out of their way to change their appearance? Wouldn't that make it worse?
@@anniesolomon4876 I'm not going to do your homework for you. There are clinical psychologists out there who have described this kind of behavior at length. I'm also not suggesting this is a good coping strategy for having been mistreated, but victims do sometimes try to make themselves less attractive. Some decide to become gun owners, and I've met more than a few of these women. There are a lot of things people will try as a means of coping with abuse.
You can choose to call yourself whatever you want and i can choose to not call you whatever you you want. You can make demands, i can ignore those demands. These people are so mentally disturbed its heartbreaking to watch. Thank you Marcus for your empathy and kindness
I agree to it all beeing Voluntary. I certainly disagree with Marcus beeing respectful...or empathetic and Kind. He's clearly not.
Welcome to Germany, where all dogs are he, all cats are she and all girls are it....and absolutely nobody is they, because that Sounds as dumb as it gets.
But culture is obviously Non existent. It's evil and everyone Please adapt to the American standard of thinking and feeling about pronouns...everything else is sick and needs to be Attacked and mocked.
Everything comes down to unhealed trauma it seems. When I see people like this I feel like every tattoo and crazy piercings and crazy hair represents unhealed trauma. Before I started my healing process I was really drawn to tattoos, crazy colored hair and piercings, since I've done the healing I have found I am no longer so attracted to these things...so they're hurting and that's so obvious, they need healing...
Yes, they need healing, but the cult they belong to is actively (at least in the UK) trying to put actual laws on the books to stop "trans" people from being able to access mental health therapy. Why? Because they're saying anything other than blindly affirming these people is conversion therapy. They claim offering them therapy to understand why they feel the need to do this to themselves is conversion therapy. And they want to outlaw it. It's insane.
Please don't use your personal journey of internalized self hate to diagnose everybody else. I liked the modified look way before i ever had the trauma that changed my personality. I went through the opposite, removing my piercings and wanting to be boring like everybody else. I've been through the therapy and the love of bodily adornment has not gone away, its back and i live my best life now.
But you know what i didn't do? Something as dumb as thinking my experience is the only valid one, and instead of thinking in complex thoughts, just make blanket statements for everybody else. You have so much more therapy to go through if this is where you are.
@@ophilianecr wow you really took this the wrong way... I am speaking of my personal experience and how it has affected me... I don't have internalized hate for myself or anyone... In fact I've learned to tap into unity consciousness and unconditional love... I'm sorry you feel so offended by my experience... I wish you love and healing and many blessings....
@@squirrelgirl1853 you literally stated that whenever you see an alternative person with piercings or tattoos, you think everything they do is expression of unresolved trauma. Te first couple of lines is this statement. That came from you.
@@ophilianecr I have tattoos that I still plan on making nicer and I plan on getting my nose pierced again soon.... But yes when I see someone tattooed and pierced and w crazy hair colors, especially if they're acting out the way the people highlighted in this video were, then yes I'd think to myself that they likely have a lot of unhealed trauma... Of course there's exceptions... There's no one thing that fits everyone... But I do think that tattoos and lots of piercings and the crazy hair colors do attract people w unhealed trauma and I was far more attracted to these things before I did the healing work.... Of course it's possible to still like these things after healing, and not every person w these things have unhealed trauma, but for the most part it does seem to fit... I don't mean to offend anyone w my theory... It's just my personal experience and what I've witnessed time and time again....
In England cats, dogs and horses are referenced as he and she because they're considered part of the family. Even freaking boats are references as she so these people want to be considered lower than pets and boats... it makes no sense.
She's not built different, she's just a Juggalo who hasn't discovered ICP 😂😂
Id like to thank her and people like her for making us real Juggalos look normal by comparison 🎉 woop woop
I'm old enough to remember a time when a LOT of folks, young and old alike, especially in small town America, called gays and lesbians "it", among other hateful words, and it was in an anything but a term of endearment. Many moons ago while still in high school, I almost got my butt stomped by a bunch of young men who were picking on my gay friend. They were calling him "it" and "Boy George", endlessly tormenting him. It infuriated me. Everywhere that kid went he was called those things. He was a bit flamboyant in a time when most kids didn't want to stand out, especially in advertising a different sexuality, but he was still a human being and a very kind one. He stayed depressed and I worried about him so much and still do on occasion, even though we lost touch decades ago. I just don't understand why people today are embracing these demeaning things. It's like the world is stuck in a neverending opposite day.
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if someone asks to be called "it" i'm going to take that as a cry for help.
I will never understand why some people want to be called “he/they, or she/they, she/it, he/it, etc.”
Like cmon! Even if I were to call you by these stupid pronouns configurations, just make a decision! 💀
I can't explain the other pronouns, but for he/they, for me I don't mind those pronouns for myself because in my everyday life I present as male, but if someone was too referred to me as they/them, I wouldn't be offended.
@@cole5669Cringe bro
Because its demonic
@@cole5669"if someone was too referred to me"
That doesn't make any sense. Did you, perchance, mean "if someone was to refer to me"?
@@knrdvmmlbkkn If someone was talking about me or getting ready to introduce me to someone new who don't know me and I don't know them, they can use they/them pronouns.
ex. Cole is good guy, you're going to like them.
ex. They are really good at science, if you ever need help with your work, you should think about asking them.
We had goth, then emo and now we have nonbinary. When someone doesn’t feel seen they will go out of their way to be different.
Difference between the first two and the last…control. Now the “outcast” not only care how others see them but forces people to think the same way.
Goth and emo are music subculture
This is completely different
It's esoteric
This
I’m Gen X in the new wave era of the 80’s it became chic to want to be gay.
@@mertechnightcore4098It’s not only music. As a child I was emo because of the way I behaved.
Thankyou, you described me perfectly as a teenager I couldn't face my past and thought that if I changed my gender then the past never happened. Today I'm a woman the gender I was born. It takes time, hard work and courage but some of these people can start to heal. Thankyou so much for your honesty and your courage, for putting yourself out here every week. 😊
Remenber the book "The Child Called It"? It was a book about child abuse and the title was so horrifying because the child was so dehumanized he's relegated to an "it" in his family. The "it" pronoun, when used on actual human beings, has a horrific connotation and I refuse to play along with this.
Takes me back to the book about child abuse, "A Child Called 'It'" by Dave Pelzer. I will only ever use 'it' as a way to dehumanize certain types of monsters (groomers, abusers, torturers), and it will be intentional. I will not use 'it' as a pronoun to affirm someone in avoiding their gender.
Marcus, it is such a blessing to have you speaking up online for these people. Hopefully, if they see your content, they will begin to see the truth of their situation and begin to address their real needs.
Buck Angel and Blair White has done this for years, these people just think they're transphobic.
@@Hannah-Kathrine01 Blaire White and transphobia are antonyms haha
@@killherqueen wat
It's quite sad that a lot of these folk are so aggressive. Personally, I have no interest in what they believe in. What I take issue with, as you've alluded to, is their wish to control me and how I think and feel. Life, however we wish to live it, is a question of live and let live. So, dress as you like, call yourself what you like, even deceive yourself. But outside of yourself are the parameters of others, which you have absolutely no control over. Live and let live. Who knows the latter might catch on?
Live and let live? Even if that means that they are hurting themselves?
But most of the times, they won’t leave you alone, because they can’t. Like they need you to agree or else their bubble will burst and they’ll have a mental breakdown of something. But it’s not a stranger’s duty to keep ill people sane.
@@reneep.1978 I have no control over the person. That’s a situation that he/she/it has to address themselves. If asked for advice, i would give some, perhaps. A lot of this stuff is people living in an imaginary world. Sooner or later reality has to be addressed. I feel for people and would love to help. But it seems to me, that that person, and indeed others, would like to tell me what to do and think. So, in effect, you reap what you sow. You’ve decided what you want now you have to deliver on it.
@@donnydarko2100“it“😭
@@taki7546 One has to allow for some of the avenues of self perception available. Ultimately the person is an adult. It’s time to grow up. In the scheme of things, this isn’t very important, when you see what’s happening in the world right now. It’s a comfort when you are little and have imaginary worlds and friends. Often people attack when they are frightened. And the world is a frightening place. If you seek help, remember to try to meet people half way. Not something that of these people acknowledge or even desire.
When dehumanizing people becomes acceptable, that hasn't faired well in history.
That’s exactly my thought! I’m pretty sure people who have actually been through a dehumanizing situation might find this fad offensive.
Thank you for being clear on mental distress and how to deal with it. Just had a similar discussion with a friend. We're both ftm, but he feels discriminated a lot while I'm just grateful for all the accomodations that are made for us and never felt discriminated against once. He's a lot younger than me. I could see him grow out this pubescent rage. Yet I think "safe spaces" are really doing a disservice to a lot of people. A safe space actually means that a bunch of anxious people lock themselves in together and tell each other spooky tales about the evil world, never going back to check and figure or give that world a second chance. So they just downspiral each other in their anxiety until they become completely dysfunctional. It's so sad.
people REALLY need to start listening to you
I think that if they don't want to a human, then they don't need human rights, human food, human money, or human benefits. I bet if they lost basic human rights they would change there tune.
it's spot on: identifying as a depersonalized item is messed up. self deception needs care..
"It rubs the lotion on its skin, or else it gets the hose again. [to his dog, Precious] Yes, it will, Precious, won't it? It will get the hose!" Buffalo Bill - Silence of the Lambs
When I worked with the general public, I had a client ask me to call her 'it'. I refused. When she asked me why, I explained that, for me, calling her by that pronoun would be denying her humanity, and that it would make me extremely uncomfortable to do that. I explained that, whilst I respected her right to use whatever pronouns she wanted for her mental health, I chose to honour my mental health first, in order to be able to do my job to the best of my ability first, rather than my brain being distracted by my internal dialogue over a pronoun that dehumanises. She accepted that and it was never mentioned again.
When I was a child my father usted to say to me that I didn't exist, that my leg was his leg, my hand was his hand, so in his opinion he wasn't hurting me, but hurting himself, since I didn't exist. He also addressed me as "it", which took me years of therapy and self work to overcome.
It's sickening to me to know what this people are doing to themselves and justifying their craziness.
The septum piercings are indicative of their cattle-like mindset, I'm glad they at least got that right.
And they pierce like cattles 🐄
i was gonna write that!!!!!
They're posers in alt culture. Makes me cringe. Most don't even have the right nose type to pull off the look and instead look terrible lmao.
Is this some extreme "im not like other girls" level
Ok, wait wait wait. I just don’t get how people say they insist on the use of 3rd person pronouns. Anyone using a 3rd person pronoun in conversation when referring to another person, generally are doing so when that person isn’t around. So, how would someone know if people are using their preferred pronoun? If a person is in front of you, you don’t use a 3rd person pronoun when speaking to them. You use 2nd person (you). So, if you’re talking about an acquaintance with another person, that acquaintance is not a part of the conversation if you are using 3rd person pronouns. They are generally not even present. If they were present, you would include that person and use “you”. So, these people are trying to dictate to others about how they should be speaking when they’re not even present.
exactly, these living beings(?) are fr trying to change the English language's pronouns conjugations .... and for what?
I remember seeing that girl in another video a while back. You could tell by her tone of voice she was hurting and sad, and in this one it seems to me that she is moving to anger. And that's not surprising, but is sadder. I see the psyche as like a trash can, you can only stuff so much bad shit ( sadness, depression, fear) in it before it starts to spill over (anger, hate, acting in harmful ways against others). I honestly hope she finds help. Its bad enough to see older people suffering, but it feels worse when it's a young person who has barely even started life.
This may seem corny, but Yoda was right,"Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering."
Nothing has been the same since 2015. After 2015, we stepped into something that's not normal anymore.
"Nothing has been (...) not normal anymore."
Why 2015? I'd say 2019.
The septum piercing strikes again…
it’s their uniform. along with the stupid hair colors and tats.
Painting, reading, sculpting, baking… all great hobbies. I like putting those little dots on big pics- working on a herd of horses splashing about. Get and enjoy a hobby. Do some real deep thinking. It’s so much better than getting on tiktok. Take a bubble bath if you don’t want to “do” anything. Or volunteer at your local animal shelter. Cuddle some animals that need it.
We look like we are so dilulu in the USA. 😂
My skin nearly crawled when that girl gave the example "It just ran to the store..." It sounds like those horrific stories of dehumanizing abuse.
Didn't Ayn Rand say something along the lines of, "You can ignore reality, but you can't ignore the consequences of ignoring reality."?
That's paraphrasing what she said when delivering a paper at a talk at a symposium titled “Ethics in Our Time” at the University of Wisconsin (Madison) in 1961:
"He is free to make the wrong choice, but not free to succeed with it. He is free to evade reality, he is free to unfocus his mind and stumble blindly down any road he pleases, but not free to avoid the abyss he refuses to see. Knowledge, for any conscious organism, is the means of survival; to a living consciousness, every “is” implies an “ought.” Man is free to choose not to be conscious, but not free to escape the penalty of unconsciousness: destruction."
Personally, I prefer the paraphrase. The actual quote is quite the mouthful!
And then she learned the truth of her own words, after ignoring reality for herself. A very complex woman. I disagree with much of her dogma, but I find her fascinating and complex, and I greatly dislike the way she was treated publicly (ie, in interviews etc). She was so very intelligent, but also so misguided and rigid. I think we would have treated her very differently today, knowing what we do about neurodivergence, particularly in women.
I wanted to brush her off, because some of her stances are repugnant and illogical to me. Instead, I found an enigmatic, unique brain inside a woman trapped in the time she was living in. (Note: this does not equate to “liking” Rand, but what a character!)
@@ArachnerdGC oh cool, thanks!
@creatrixZBD I don't know anything about her other than the paraphrased quote, but that's pretty cool too.
How do they not see this as dehumanizing? My cousin is trans and someone called them it because they don't view him as a person. He is a person though and calling him or anyone else it is in fact dehumanizing. Does anyone remember the book, Child Called It? This is just mind boggling
It’s like that one SpongeBob episode where Patrick makes him accept that he’s ugly (even though his breath just stinks) and Patrick is running around yelling “LOOK AT IT!”
When I was in elementary school, the other kids bullied me and called me "it." It was very dehumanizing, and even though I was young it deeply upset me.
“It” is dehumanizing. I’m not an object or an unrecognized creature.
Whenever I see sh.t like this, I’m reminded of how much of a failure these present day parents are as it is clearly reflected in these screwed up kids.
Man...that segue from content to ad was sooooo smooth Marcus❤❤❤Love your channel.
These are the same people who cry about trigger warnings and completely dismiss the therapy that could actually help them.
There’s a beautiful stray black cat who hangs around my apartment building. A lot of us put food out everyday. We don’t know the kitty’s sex but we hate saying “it” because it sounds so uncaring. So we made up the name “Whodat Baby.” I certainly refuse to call any human being “it” or “they.” Ridiculous.
The funny thing about @3:00 is that we call animals “it” because we can’t easily tell their gender, plot twist, we can all tell the trans activists real genders.
I have not met any of these people yet. I doubt I will. I can't imagine what these people must do for a living. How do you get a job looking like that and being this entitled?
Brilliant video Marcus 🙏✨
This is funny. As a Finnish person we use it to describe people and we dont have gendered pronouns, only one that goes for everyone
Child from a wealthy family. Will jettison this nonsense when it no longer serves her and/or parents cut off her funds.
“It/its” pronouns are not as sad as “they/them”. The spirits of lakes, mountains, and valleys have existed for the longest. I hope they’re doing well. It is a human body, and they should treat it with care. Sometimes a spirit that comes from above doesn’t have necessary energy to meet the criteria of independent soul. They are fractions of a soul, a plasmoid being of sorts. A lot of mental, emotional and physiological disturbances come from people with a fraction of a soul a healthy human has.
I'm sad for this poor kid. It's just screams lack of self-worth. No one should willingly accept that FOR themselves or FROM others.
I just think it's a massive slap in the face to those with actual gender dysphoria when all these people start saying "I'm a fox, I'm a cat, I'm an it" because it is essentially making a mockery of it.
If someone uses dehumanizing language to refer to a person, even if it's just that with no harmful words, no cheering for harm, nothing else... RUclips will suspend you.
That is also considered hate speech and in places like Ireland you can have a 70.000 pouns fine and face a life in prison for hate speech.
Sorry GIRL, your madness make it illegal for everybody else to call you by your preferred pronuns!
that living being is doing that on purpose to get everyone to jail frr
I think I can say that openly here: I am a Christian and I had a youth group (2022) with a Christian sister. Just girls in it. Of course with the consent of the legal guardians. Otherwise I wouldn't be able to have any contact. Because I want everything to be in order. Two of the girls also described themselves as an "it". They were on their way to this path I think. I haven't confirmed that. I told them, you are girls and not an it. I also prayed for these girls. And they both, now live as the girls they are born as. Emily likes to wear tops with flowers..and has a crush on a boy..Lisa, is dating a boy..they both are now just going through their puperty and I hope they will be just fine 🤍..praise the Lord.
I hope you all will be fine..I am grateful, that you all are still here. Life is not easy 🤍. I hope this girl will be fine 🥺🤍.
Delusion is the devil’s delight
HIS HAIR LOOKS AMAZING
You saying that girl may have had problems with her gender, resonates with me. I don't consider myself queer or anything at all. I'm a straight woman. But when I was a preteen, I was very tomboyish. And I think that may have happened because, everytime I felt cute and feminine, the boys would tell me "Oh so you brought that dress/accesory/whatever today so you can be pretty? You'll never be pretty, stop trying" (and stuff like that) While all the other girls "were allowed to be cute". (You know how being pretty/beautiful/cute is tied with being a woman) I really hated that. Eventually I allowed myself to be feminine again and stopped caring about what the boys said. But think I went through this during my 11-15 years. It's a very tender age. I wished so bad I was a boy instead I remember. I hated feeling like I was treated like an inferior being, just because I was a girl. (My dad also told me how I'd never be pretty, and that I'd end up onlycleaning my house and cooking for a random husband, IF I was lucky enough to marry.) I mean, being told all kind of horrible things, related to my gender, of course I wasn't gonna want to grow into a woman. So people that went through a trauma regarding their appearance and/or gender, makes sense to me.
I can say I still struggle with some of my trauma, but I'm no longer unconfortable with being a woman. I never had gender dysphoria, but I hated feeling a part of the "inferior sex" (and bing treated like sh*t for it), a good part of my young life.
It’s so sad because she says she doesn’t want to associate herself with gender and yet she says she likes to dress feminine 🫠
She is obviously a very confused person, how can you go through life without knowing who you are, very sad
They just look to me like a women dressed up as a punk rocker or a goth! That's what I would assume if I saw them in the street so not sure where the issue of gender comes in here!
“IT THEY NONE” Dude can we not? Someone who held up a line yesterday got rude to me for addressing her as “Miss” so I said I’m sorry sir! And the poor innocent clerk she was also bullying laughed.
I was at the psychiatric facility and there were a LOT of it and they pronouns. One person even had a mental breakdown because someone misgendered “them.” And then their friend defended them while misgendering them the entire time and it’s just a darkly funny little memory I have. 😂 I also got told I look like an “it” in school…I am a feminine girl. The boy said, “You look like an it,” and I said, “You look like you shouldn’t be sitting here.” The moment a short boy tries messing with a tall girl, it’s over, he left ☠️.
I believe this was one of your most compassionate and touching videos. THank you for sharing such kind words of understanding for them all.
I might have entertained her if she said she identified as Pennywise. Pennywise can also appear as anything and any gender so that would at least make more sense.
I feel sorry for this girl, I hope that she gets the help that she needs and is able to heal from what happened to her
"I enjoy looking like a clown" said in the flattest most non-ironic way ever...Jesus Christ these people lack any kind of awareness...