Accepting the "he is just not that into you" is extremely hard... I am going through it and it hurts, but it is true if he is not interested is quite obvious
With the whole “he’s not confused, he’s just not interested” reminds me of the story of how Stephen Colbert met his wife. It’s so great, I’d def recommend to watch!
"Bad company corrupts good character." (Bible) Company is people, media, music, anything we surround ourselves with and listen and look at. Again, great show!!
@@gracereidy1811 One of two things usually. Either 1) He is trying to be nice and doesn't think there is a connection or 2) He doesn't believe he is in the position in his life that he can care for you the way he thinks you should be.
I’m married but I thoroughly enjoyed this episode! Jeanine chose great questions & Kaleb communicated SO well & gave clear, elaborate answers for every question. Anyone who listens will surely gain some wisdom here 🔥
This is one of the best episodes! I just love love hearing Kalebs perspective on dating from the guys mindset. It’s SO helpful! Thank you so much to you both ❤
"If you're not romantic, you're putting your energy in other things." Yes! A man will be romantic if he wants to pursue you. I only want a romantic husband who shows me his love through dinner dates, long phone calls, hand holding, flowers, trips, and acts of service. ❤🙏
Hey i really loved this episode! You guys really helped me seeing how men think, and i grew up with a father who was emotionally absent and abusive, so seeing you guys being so in love and supportive really gave me hope i might one day find true partnership as well. Thank you xxx
depends on age, how much u work on yourself and where u are looking... but chances are u can find someone. just remember that partnership does not mean the same... that's huge mistake that women make too often. men and women are not the same. u bring the feminine energy and let them bring the masculine
Oh my gosh! This was absolutely so good! This was the first podcast I have ever listened to by you guys, and it was definitely worth the listen! And I will be listening more often! God is so amazing and good 💗
As a man, men and women think so differently. A lot of women just need to learn how men function. Everytime I give a women game about men they are always suprised. It's almost engrained in men culture to learn about women.But, It doesn't seem the same vice versa. Nothing more amazing than a woman who understands men.
Amazingly insightful episode, truly! And let's be Honest: 1. Lies are Hurtful and confusing. Man up and tell the Truth. 2. You CAN go back and Apologize to the people you did wrong. And it DOES matter. 3. Men don't like to share weaknesses they Know are Harmful, but don't want to change. 4. Shame is an effective but Harmful control tactic. 5. Looks DO matter! And so does Attraction.
Even though I know you were joking a bit sometimes or maybe didn’t feel like you had the perfect words to describe something, I get what you’re saying about loving God first, being confident but not arrogant, being passionate/having a hobby, and basically being a wife before you are a wife. I think this is a mature outlook for a newly married couple to have. Thank you for sharing your honest thoughts!
Genuinely love you both! But I'll be honest, i can't miss a podcast where Kaleb is on it!!! He needs his own podcast! So much love from Canada, May God continue to bless you both :) also thank you for all this insight! hahah
Found you guys from the GGB episode. Interesting episode of good "Chad" tips with a religious tilt. This advice assumes attraction & is only useful for maybe 30% of men. So happy you two found each other and are married. Wish you all the best!!
I love you all so much! Y'all have helped me so much with these podcasts. I have watched you for a long time Jeanine and you have helped me so much you have no idea. Also Kaleb you are very wise and I always love hearing your advice!
Sound like me...I have been single almost eight years after my husband passed. My single life is so perfect but in some point I want to have someone be my good friend in life. Not so sure what I want, just let my life in way I want to be. Will see any guy in this earth fit in my energy , generous and kindness. what you give to me I will give back to you.
I love this and I feel like his answers were spot on with other research I’ve done and what I’ve spoken to my husband about as well. New subscriber here!
You should interview the one girl that used to be a model and is now doing movies and is dealing with cancer. Her name is Nicole Weider. She created Project Inspired. She’d be so good!
I loved this video. You guys are great together. I like how Kaleb is a good leader and not afraid to speak up for what is right and righteous. Everything you both talked about was very helpful. Thank you. Can't wait to hear more!
I am a stay at home mom happily married for 12 years. Not sure how I came across this podcast but I actually enjoyed it. Great solid advices from this guy. You guys are an adorable strong couple. May God continue to bless your marriage and your ministry. 🙏 Ps:If you're dating someone you're not attracted to, do both of you a favor and walk away. Attraction is really important in a long term relationship. Attraction goes beyond looks 🤍
The gym clothes segment was spot on. Even as a woman, sometimes i'm shocked looking at what other women wear, and have to do a double take. No judgement, but it is hard not to stare or an occasional glance if you're bouncing on a treadmill with a sport bra and shorts. Ppl will naturally look. Some girls like that external validation tho. Some don't. To each of their own, i guess.
Thank you so much for this episode 💕I really appreciated the conversation and the honesty with all the topics. I’m not personally a Christian myself, but I respect how well you offer your side of the conversation without shaming others. Much love ❤️ have added this to my favourites for future Becca 🥰
Gotta also have date nights or days even when u get married. Me and my husband have 2 days a week to just us. I learned that from my parents even if it's just a coffee date. It's still just you two.
This was one of my favorite podcasts. Thank you Jeanine and Kaleb. You guys are so wise and have such a good and healthy relationship with Jesus. You have heloed me get to spend time and have a deeoer relationship with Jesus. 🤗🤗🤗
OMG! Y’all just talked to me with the whole question if guys notice when we are interested, I’m am going through something like this. I’m just going to reach out to him I guess lol
42:10 Men dont share feelings because there are more consequences for men sharing them. It is a sign of weakness socially. Women can be emotional without great judgment socially speaking
i know men that share feelings but you are right its not everyone they are more careful and need to feel comfterble. but if you not vunnerble and have a good communication you cant have a long term relationship. maybe its an attachment people need to break. same as over sharing can also be an attachment from child hood that make people avioders, anxious and so on
Most need to face their truths to be able to open up and be genuinely vulnerable, instead of being manipulative through their emotions to get what they want! It's refreshing to see young men developing self-reflection, while growing up, to become responsible men with self-accountability! It's also pleasant to see young girls realizing the value in modesty, which is a highly underrated attribute, and much needed for having a family-friendly society, no matter which faith one belongs to. Afterall, God knows how His Creation functions, and therefore, sent a manual of life to operate our lives, despite all the attractions laid out by Satan as challenges that we either fall for or overcome for our individual and collective wellbeing.
Modesty isn’t “in” and that’s why you get backlash… lukewarm people and many of us are guilty of it… I don’t like to wear revealing clothing and have been mindful of the booty showing bc guys do look, and I don’t want it to be an issue, I don’t always wear a jacket around my waist lately but also I’m not gonna wear the wedgie scrunchy thong looking leggings I’ve seen trending, that’s just awful and vulgar in my humble opinion, I know not everyone will agree but that’s gonna be something the Lord will have to work on those hearts that think there’s nothing wrong with it, or nothing wrong with showing too much skin, being immodest in general… may God help them, Christians and non alike. Gym pet peeve and glad y’all mentioned it bc I thought it was just me for a while thinking about how rude it is to both genders really. As women we need to set a higher standard but I get 2024 is just different now
I think modesty does come with intention, but even if it’s not your intention, something such as yoga pants outside of gym and things can cause a man to be tempted so if a man tells you. I don’t want you wearing that or you wearing it causes me to stumble then don’t wear it. There is plenty of alternatives.
25:40 I know exactly what you're talking about. I am confused why chicks at the gymnasium wear the tightest fitting clothing when they don't want guys to look. I mean what is the rationale
Female, former gym goer here. Many ladies who are fit, toned, in good shape like to dress in figure hugging clothing at the gym. If you're confident and proud of your body, then you'd want to wear clothing that showcases that. There are bound to be some ladies that wear what they wear to attract the male gaze too. Me, on the other hand, I'm petite but have always had a solid build. When I used to go to the gym (in my early 30s), I would wear a long, usually baggy t-shirt and loose tracksuit pants. It's just what I felt comfortable wearing. Even if I had a six pack and super toned arms and legs, I would probably still exercise in a t-shirt and loose tracksuit pants as my style (and personality) is comfort and modesty.
My two cents on the shoulder topic, as a man, no men are not attracted to your shoulders literally, we arent attracted to them either at that young age. I cant quite put my finger on it either but the best way i can describe it is the allure of a more revealing and arguably more sensual piece of clothing than just a t shirt especially at that age because for many its the when teens are transistioning from all being children on the same playing field to masculine wnd feminine energy and attraction. Equivalent to the hot guy stretching and his shirt comes up a little and you can see his “abs”. Or maybe the hot athletic guy in high school or middle school just got off the football field, hes wearing the cut off crop top, sweaty, dirty, muscles popping, skin looking tan and vascular.
I go to the gym frequently and when I walk in I am modest, keep to myself, don't talk a lot and now I am known as the "mean" one because I don't entertain the guy .... it is such a stupid double edged sword because if I talk then I'm a flirt 😑
The video doesn’t start until after the 6 minute mark, so if you want to skip ahead to the Q&A, you’re welcome. In response to the question, do men really feel attracted to a woman’s bare shoulders? The short answer is that I have never, ever, heard a guy say that, “Wow! She’s got great shoulders! She’s hot!” No one looks at your shoulders. Having said that, the more bare skin that a woman shows makes guys think about seeing her bare naked, as in, he wonders what the rest of your body looks like without clothes. Showing large amounts of skin makes a guy think about seeing the rest of you without your clothes on.
“That pursuit is supposed to come naturally in the beginning and then after it’s a choice.” Loved that! It’s so true.
Accepting the "he is just not that into you" is extremely hard... I am going through it and it hurts, but it is true if he is not interested is quite obvious
You're obviously young. Don't waste precious time. There's plenty of fish in the sea.
then they should leave us alone period and go to brothels
With the whole “he’s not confused, he’s just not interested” reminds me of the story of how Stephen Colbert met his wife. It’s so great, I’d def recommend to watch!
Kaleb has tooo much wisdom on this topic 😭🙌🏽
For real 😂
"Bad company corrupts good character." (Bible) Company is people, media, music, anything we surround ourselves with and listen and look at. Again, great show!!
Also with the “you deserve better”, means you deserve a better connection, because I’m not feeling a true connection with you.
What if he says it after you breakup with him ?
@@gracereidy1811 One of two things usually. Either 1) He is trying to be nice and doesn't think there is a connection or 2) He doesn't believe he is in the position in his life that he can care for you the way he thinks you should be.
I’m married but I thoroughly enjoyed this episode! Jeanine chose great questions & Kaleb communicated SO well & gave clear, elaborate answers for every question. Anyone who listens will surely gain some wisdom here 🔥
This is one of the best episodes! I just love love hearing Kalebs perspective on dating from the guys mindset. It’s SO helpful! Thank you so much to you both ❤
“You are romantic, but you’re just prideful” PREACHHH
"I made an error" had me rolling 🤣🤣
Yes for part 2! And that wifey topic, Caleb slayed that one, was so needed to hear! LOVED this episode👏🏼👏🏼
I’ve had so many of these same questions so refreshing to hear the straight answers from a guy’s perspective. Gleaned a lot from this! Thank you!
"If you're not romantic, you're putting your energy in other things." Yes! A man will be romantic if he wants to pursue you. I only want a romantic husband who shows me his love through dinner dates, long phone calls, hand holding, flowers, trips, and acts of service. ❤🙏
What were last three romantic things you did for your man (and not because you liked them)? Do you even know what men like?
Why long phone calls when you live together? You meet and talk.
Hey i really loved this episode! You guys really helped me seeing how men think, and i grew up with a father who was emotionally absent and abusive, so seeing you guys being so in love and supportive really gave me hope i might one day find true partnership as well. Thank you xxx
depends on age, how much u work on yourself and where u are looking... but chances are u can find someone.
just remember that partnership does not mean the same... that's huge mistake that women make too often. men and women are not the same. u bring the feminine energy and let them bring the masculine
Oh my gosh! This was absolutely so good! This was the first podcast I have ever listened to by you guys, and it was definitely worth the listen! And I will be listening more often! God is so amazing and good 💗
Love to hear from Kaleb's pov always a treat to see both of y'all
the way they talk about and to each other just makes me smile
Y’all have no idea how much I needed this!!
I love the transparency and authenticity of you two!
Incredible the way Kaled answered every question, this episode was so incredible that I was watching it while I was training 🙏🔥
Pt 2 please 🙏
My fiancé said tone of voice can change how men interpret what women are saying to them
I feel like that applies to most people in general tho in relation to voice tone wen speaking
Sounds like a dog 🤣
This is very important, its can determine whether you argue or not.
As a man, men and women think so differently. A lot of women just need to learn how men function. Everytime I give a women game about men they are always suprised. It's almost engrained in men culture to learn about women.But, It doesn't seem the same vice versa. Nothing more amazing than a woman who understands men.
Amazingly insightful episode, truly!
And let's be Honest:
1. Lies are Hurtful and confusing. Man up and tell the Truth.
2. You CAN go back and Apologize to the people you did wrong. And it DOES matter.
3. Men don't like to share weaknesses they Know are Harmful, but don't want to change.
4. Shame is an effective but Harmful control tactic.
5. Looks DO matter! And so does Attraction.
Even though I know you were joking a bit sometimes or maybe didn’t feel like you had the perfect words to describe something, I get what you’re saying about loving God first, being confident but not arrogant, being passionate/having a hobby, and basically being a wife before you are a wife. I think this is a mature outlook for a newly married couple to have. Thank you for sharing your honest thoughts!
This might be the first podcast where I don’t mind that she brings her husband on . I truly enjoy their episodes together ❤
Genuinely love you both! But I'll be honest, i can't miss a podcast where Kaleb is on it!!! He needs his own podcast! So much love from Canada, May God continue to bless you both :) also thank you for all this insight! hahah
BEST EPISODE 🔥🔥 I love you both so much and it’s incredible to see how God uses you guys together for His kingdom ❤️
Found you guys from the GGB episode. Interesting episode of good "Chad" tips with a religious tilt. This advice assumes attraction & is only useful for maybe 30% of men.
So happy you two found each other and are married. Wish you all the best!!
How he related confidence to cup holders… I kind of love it 😂
I relate so much to the 'ick' feeling haha Sometimes I feel like I'm ending things too quickly but I just know deep down it ain't gunna work xD
this was such a nice video, you just gained a follower. thank you for your wisdom, have a blessed journey in your marriage ❤🎉
I love you all so much! Y'all have helped me so much with these podcasts. I have watched you for a long time Jeanine and you have helped me so much you have no idea. Also Kaleb you are very wise and I always love hearing your advice!
Sound like me...I have been single almost eight years after my husband passed. My single life is so perfect but in some point I want to have someone be my good friend in life. Not so sure what I want, just let my life in way I want to be. Will see any guy in this earth fit in my energy , generous and kindness. what you give to me I will give back to you.
I love this and I feel like his answers were spot on with other research I’ve done and what I’ve spoken to my husband about as well. New subscriber here!
You should interview the one girl that used to be a model and is now doing movies and is dealing with cancer. Her name is Nicole Weider. She created Project Inspired. She’d be so good!
I loved this video. You guys are great together. I like how Kaleb is a good leader and not afraid to speak up for what is right and righteous. Everything you both talked about was very helpful. Thank you. Can't wait to hear more!
I’m so glad I stumbled across this channel today ❤ new subscriber :)
Same
Really appreciate the straight forwardness!!😊❤️
I appreciate his vulnerability and yours y’all are a powerhouse couple ❤ so enjoyed this it helped me understand my husband more ❤
I am a stay at home mom happily married for 12 years. Not sure how I came across this podcast but I actually enjoyed it. Great solid advices from this guy. You guys are an adorable strong couple. May God continue to bless your marriage and your ministry. 🙏
Ps:If you're dating someone you're not attracted to, do both of you a favor and walk away. Attraction is really important in a long term relationship. Attraction goes beyond looks 🤍
The gym clothes segment was spot on. Even as a woman, sometimes i'm shocked looking at what other women wear, and have to do a double take. No judgement, but it is hard not to stare or an occasional glance if you're bouncing on a treadmill with a sport bra and shorts. Ppl will naturally look. Some girls like that external validation tho. Some don't. To each of their own, i guess.
I wear sports bra and shorts because I’m dripping in sweat at the end of my workout lol I have to hang them up to dry afterwards
Thank you so much for this episode 💕I really appreciated the conversation and the honesty with all the topics.
I’m not personally a Christian myself, but I respect how well you offer your side of the conversation without shaming others.
Much love ❤️ have added this to my favourites for future Becca 🥰
Woww Kaleb has a lot of wisdom!!
“For you..yeah” 😭😂😂
Ahahahhaha he’s the best
And another great podcast 🩷🩷🩷🙏🏼thankful for y’all!
Loved the depth in explaining
I agree with that hints stuff 😅😂 what's your hint. Smiling at him 😊
Hints can easily be misinterpreted and many men nowadays don’t just assume even if they are interested.
Gyms in muslim countries are often not mixed, which is wonderful because you can wear whatever you want around other women and workout in peace.
I loved this episode so much. Thank you Kaleb for the honest answers! Very much appreciated for us women who are wired so different from men! 😅
This is so good, you guys got a new listener!!♥️
I'd like to know about biblical finances in marriage :)
Stumbled upon this podcast and within the first 5 minutes I subscribed! Love your energy as a couple ! ♥️
I love this episode. Can’t wait for part 2
This was bombbbbbbb
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Thank you for this episode! 🔥
Loved this! Thanks Kaleb for the honestly 💯
Gotta also have date nights or days even when u get married. Me and my husband have 2 days a week to just us. I learned that from my parents even if it's just a coffee date. It's still just you two.
So much wisdom was shared here. I loved this. Thankyou
Kaleb spit fire on every question 🔥🔥🔥 loved this male perspective!
This was one of my favorite podcasts. Thank you Jeanine and Kaleb. You guys are so wise and have such a good and healthy relationship with Jesus. You have heloed me get to spend time and have a deeoer relationship with Jesus. 🤗🤗🤗
Wow I’ve never been so early🤪 can’t wait to listen!
Right up there with RC Blake’s. Bravo!
Oh my goodness, the romantic part makes sense😮😅😂
Sadly 😢
My heart 💓 hearing " you didnt say your last name" . 😄🤭😃
Yesss, this is so good!
OMG! Y’all just talked to me with the whole question if guys notice when we are interested, I’m am going through something like this. I’m just going to reach out to him I guess lol
How did it go?
Needed!! Love it!
31 minutes it gets REAL
So needed and wisdom
when he said he wants a woman with confidence but then goes on to describe a mom 🤨
yeah i thought that too ...
Women when Men have standards: 😡🤬
42:10 Men dont share feelings because there are more consequences for men sharing them. It is a sign of weakness socially. Women can be emotional without great judgment socially speaking
i know men that share feelings but you are right its not everyone they are more careful and need to feel comfterble. but if you not vunnerble and have a good communication you cant have a long term relationship. maybe its an attachment people need to break. same as over sharing can also be an attachment from child hood that make people avioders, anxious and so on
❤❤❤ Loving this podcast
Very good answers.
Great podcast…. Thank you for your knowledge
yall are so beautiful
You are so cute together!!😍 I can't wait to meet my person too❣️
46:05 I would open up, but I am afraid of judgment not necessarily from my Future spouse but from her friends after being told about my Emotional IQ
You guys are awesome, thank you for being an amazin role model couple
You guys are so cute. Absolutely loved hearing a man’s point of view. Congratulations on the marriage !
That was so good!! I like how real it was! Please do another one!! Thank you!! And GOD bless!!
Most need to face their truths to be able to open up and be genuinely vulnerable, instead of being manipulative through their emotions to get what they want! It's refreshing to see young men developing self-reflection, while growing up, to become responsible men with self-accountability!
It's also pleasant to see young girls realizing the value in modesty, which is a highly underrated attribute, and much needed for having a family-friendly society, no matter which faith one belongs to.
Afterall, God knows how His Creation functions, and therefore, sent a manual of life to operate our lives, despite all the attractions laid out by Satan as challenges that we either fall for or overcome for our individual and collective wellbeing.
I loved your intro 😊
This was so good, y'all!
Modesty isn’t “in” and that’s why you get backlash… lukewarm people and many of us are guilty of it… I don’t like to wear revealing clothing and have been mindful of the booty showing bc guys do look, and I don’t want it to be an issue, I don’t always wear a jacket around my waist lately but also I’m not gonna wear the wedgie scrunchy thong looking leggings I’ve seen trending, that’s just awful and vulgar in my humble opinion, I know not everyone will agree but that’s gonna be something the Lord will have to work on those hearts that think there’s nothing wrong with it, or nothing wrong with showing too much skin, being immodest in general… may God help them, Christians and non alike. Gym pet peeve and glad y’all mentioned it bc I thought it was just me for a while thinking about how rude it is to both genders really. As women we need to set a higher standard but I get 2024 is just different now
Confidence also shouldn’t come out outer appearance…🤍✨
PART 2 please!
Love timestamp 10:20 !
Fire. 🔥
I like your topics.
I think modesty does come with intention, but even if it’s not your intention, something such as yoga pants outside of gym and things can cause a man to be tempted so if a man tells you. I don’t want you wearing that or you wearing it causes me to stumble then don’t wear it. There is plenty of alternatives.
I need to go home and wash my feet 😂 relatable
Super curious what those quirks were that he’s talking about haha he was so serious
The modesty standards for gym/gym culture have gotten so bad!
😂😂 iv been happily married for 12 years and my husband says the same thing 33:06
25:40 I know exactly what you're talking about. I am confused why chicks at the gymnasium wear the tightest fitting clothing when they don't want guys to look. I mean what is the rationale
its possible that they want to spot check their progress, that’s just my assumption though
Female, former gym goer here. Many ladies who are fit, toned, in good shape like to dress in figure hugging clothing at the gym. If you're confident and proud of your body, then you'd want to wear clothing that showcases that. There are bound to be some ladies that wear what they wear to attract the male gaze too. Me, on the other hand, I'm petite but have always had a solid build. When I used to go to the gym (in my early 30s), I would wear a long, usually baggy t-shirt and loose tracksuit pants. It's just what I felt comfortable wearing. Even if I had a six pack and super toned arms and legs, I would probably still exercise in a t-shirt and loose tracksuit pants as my style (and personality) is comfort and modesty.
1- he is not confused he is just not interested
My two cents on the shoulder topic, as a man, no men are not attracted to your shoulders literally, we arent attracted to them either at that young age. I cant quite put my finger on it either but the best way i can describe it is the allure of a more revealing and arguably more sensual piece of clothing than just a t shirt especially at that age because for many its the when teens are transistioning from all being children on the same playing field to masculine wnd feminine energy and attraction. Equivalent to the hot guy stretching and his shirt comes up a little and you can see his “abs”. Or maybe the hot athletic guy in high school or middle school just got off the football field, hes wearing the cut off crop top, sweaty, dirty, muscles popping, skin looking tan and vascular.
I go to the gym frequently and when I walk in I am modest, keep to myself, don't talk a lot and now I am known as the "mean" one because I don't entertain the guy .... it is such a stupid double edged sword because if I talk then I'm a flirt 😑
Is it wrong for a girl to spoil a guy she likes?? Even though he may seem a little shy?
Why would it be wrong?
The video doesn’t start until after the 6 minute mark, so if you want to skip ahead to the Q&A, you’re welcome.
In response to the question, do men really feel attracted to a woman’s bare shoulders? The short answer is that I have never, ever, heard a guy say that, “Wow! She’s got great shoulders! She’s hot!” No one looks at your shoulders. Having said that, the more bare skin that a woman shows makes guys think about seeing her bare naked, as in, he wonders what the rest of your body looks like without clothes. Showing large amounts of skin makes a guy think about seeing the rest of you without your clothes on.