INFJs & ENFPs Romantic Compatibility

Junon Macéus, author & creator of the "Truth & Empathy Personality Test", explores the INFJ & ENFP romantic compatibility.
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[@thomasclark405]

amazing video
junon, around the 3:50 mark you mention that enfps are not shy when it comes to showing their emotions. this is an interesting distinction from Fe users. We think of Fi users as wanting to be authentic in their relationship, as you mention around 4:00. yet, even though they are not extraverted feelers(Fe users), they seem to come across as very extraverted, in a sense, and without losing the "authenticity of an Fi user? do you think this has something to do with Ne being their dominant function?
you have made overall a great juxtaposition of the Fi user in this case and the Fe user. amazing video
and really great describing the infj, though i am not sure that i ever met an infj due to their rarity, i feel that you have made a comprehensive and trustworthy analysis.

[@practicalspirituality7447]

@thomasclark405,
I'm glad that you found this video very informative about the differences between Fi versus Fe users.
I'm also intrigued by ENFPs' emotional transparency compared to ESFPs (their Sensor counterparts). The former seems to view this personality trait as a strength and not a weakness. Even the few adult ENFP males that I've encountered are very comfortable with showing their feelings in real time.
ENFPs listen to the emotions (context) that is transmitted in a message (content). However, their facial expressions appear subdued compared to Fe-dominant individuals because they only allow the authentic emotions to come to the surface. It's the type of behaviour that we usually see in children who are 5 years old or younger. Also, even when they are angry, it's always mixed with a genuine gentleness. An observer senses a whole world of emotions and feelings brewing just beneath the surface.
By contrast, Fe-dominant personality types hide more their feelings to accomodate (or perform for) others and consequently come across as more engaging. There are two well-known celebrities that capture the difference between these types of NFs. I typed Michael Jackson as an ENFP and Oprah Winfrey as an ENFJ.
Perhaps, their Ne dominant function makes ENFPs less sensitive to negative crititism because they have an alpha brain wave dominance (more endorphins production than Sensors) combine with Te as their 3rd function. In other words, Feelers with a well-developed Thinking function tend to tolerate negative feedback better than the ones with a Thinking function as their 4th function. Consequently, ENFPs are more self-assured and willing to show their genuine feelings.
J.M.