Ariel is an adult though and should be treated as such. In my opinion, I don't feel like she needs to have a helicopter parent when she is a grown adult.
Ariel is awseome...she will have no problem finding the right man for her (and her family). Very happy her brother asked tough questions! I don't blame her family for being skeptical. I can imagine if she's the next Bachelorette (if she decides to go there and if it's after Charity's season)...I can see her brother being similar to Charity's brother (going undercover)!
Okay so I don’t watch this show and have no idea how this got in my recs. But I like this family! Don’t care for the guy too much. Ariel seems like sweet smart young woman.
9:52 “I’m going to let myself enjoy these emotions and be authentically happy.” Ariel’s ability to appreciate the present instead of fretting over the uncertainty of the future is such a healthy attitude. She embodies an excellent balance between showing and sharing love with your partner when together while still thriving and revelling in life when apart. She does not fall to pieces when they separate rather chooses to reflect back and cherish the time they banked together. It is not my place to say whether or not Zach and Ariel are a match or they belong together, but I can say, based on what Ariel has shown on-screen, her personality traits and approach to life lay an incredibly solid foundation for a healthy loving relationship as well as a fantastic exemplary mother (should she desire to become one).
She learned this from her parents. It comes from having a ‘secure’ attachment style vs. ‘insecure’ attachment style. The attachment style you describe in the beginning in known as Anxious-Preoccupied vs. the latter, which is Secure. It’s from attachment theory in psychology. People can re-pattern and heal their attachment style in adulthood as well to become secure. Our attachment styles are developed early in life from the way our primary caregivers respond to us, treat us, as well as what they do and don’t provide, and what they model for us.
Wait he didn't know her birthday, he doesn't know the women's birthdates? wow. Shame, Shame. He is something. I love this family - They were intense and perfect setting lol. whatever that restaurant was. Felt like a dungeon.
These were extremely insightful and thought-provoking questions. The answers, on the other hand...left much to be desired. Unrelated, the word “truly” has been used so much in excess that it has lost any meaning in the context of this show and, at this point, almost always signals a hint of deception on some level.
@@leafsleafsleafs2 Ariel is a very nice girl and seems very intelligent. Hopefully they can trust her to make wise decisions and not feel like they have to interfere.
3:13 The important question is, does Ariel agree with that, bro? I'd run, if yes. LOL I'm not marrying a family. Marrying is the end of that original family.
Anyone know if her mom is in the picture? Ariel seems reserved and sensitive and Zach seems goofy. Nothing’s wrong with being either one but the potential doesn’t seem to be there. He might have been scared off by the intensity of her family. I know they were in the right to question and be protective of her but no one wants potential in-law trouble.
What Ariel brother said was weird “Ariel does not only need to accept you the whole family does” . Zach’s job would not be to please her whole family just her. And if they don’t except him who cares thank-you next; Truthfully it’s families like these who like to drive people away and not let anyone find peace in their relationship.
I don't think they were aware of how much the family can affect who he chooses. The brother needs to be respectful, he knows what the shows about and his sister chose to go on. So be there if she needs you but this was a turn-off
Honestly, her family is kinda the problem. It seems based on her family's opinion she will either accept or reject a guy. This might make it more difficult for her to find someone.
I agree with you completely because they aren't treating her like an adult. I would be concerned that they would interfere with her marriage too much if she was married. I also get the feeling that they would never think anybody was good enough for Ariel.
I love her dad. So sensible in everything he’s saying and asking. While also being friendly, warm and supportive.
What!!! He was rude
Glad to see a family actually ask tough questions and be skeptical
"What's my sister's birthday?" Wow, so simple but extremely eye-opening that he doesn't know.
Listen he’s asking the right questions as any over protective big brother should
Ariel is an adult though and should be treated as such. In my opinion, I don't feel like she needs to have a helicopter parent when she is a grown adult.
@@jenniferhansen3622 exactly I had to get my mom to let me off her hip and trust me it wasn't easy lol 😂
The dad is so calm, loving, respectful, and supportive!
It gives mafia family vibes it’s the greatest thing ever
Felt it too 😂
She is so classy and poised. Zach is goofy and looking for someone he can be goofy with.
Agree
Ariel is the very rare woman whom the more I look at her, the more I like her.
In the end, people questioned the family but they were right and their reaction towards Zach is valid. He's a player and the Finale proved it all.
Ariel is awseome...she will have no problem finding the right man for her (and her family). Very happy her brother asked tough questions! I don't blame her family for being skeptical. I can imagine if she's the next Bachelorette (if she decides to go there and if it's after Charity's season)...I can see her brother being similar to Charity's brother (going undercover)!
“Great Answer”
That was brutal 😂
Good for her brother asking the questions
Hopefully it works the other way around too and Ariel can ask his date a bunch of questions.
@@jenniferhansen3622 don't be too sensitive, they are asking valid questions. Zach will be okay he's not weak your babying him
Okay so I don’t watch this show and have no idea how this got in my recs. But I like this family! Don’t care for the guy too much. Ariel seems like sweet smart young woman.
9:52 “I’m going to let myself enjoy these emotions and be authentically happy.” Ariel’s ability to appreciate the present instead of fretting over the uncertainty of the future is such a healthy attitude. She embodies an excellent balance between showing and sharing love with your partner when together while still thriving and revelling in life when apart. She does not fall to pieces when they separate rather chooses to reflect back and cherish the time they banked together. It is not my place to say whether or not Zach and Ariel are a match or they belong together, but I can say, based on what Ariel has shown on-screen, her personality traits and approach to life lay an incredibly solid foundation for a healthy loving relationship as well as a fantastic exemplary mother (should she desire to become one).
I believe so too. She is very calm, expresses her feelings in a unique way...best choice for bachelorette
She learned this from her parents. It comes from having a ‘secure’ attachment style vs. ‘insecure’ attachment style. The attachment style you describe in the beginning in known as Anxious-Preoccupied vs. the latter, which is Secure. It’s from attachment theory in psychology. People can re-pattern and heal their attachment style in adulthood as well to become secure. Our attachment styles are developed early in life from the way our primary caregivers respond to us, treat us, as well as what they do and don’t provide, and what they model for us.
I agree with the brother. I might wonder if Zack is just playing around. All this time and he does not know her birthday?
Then he would have a lot of birthdays to remember if he knew the birthdays of all the women.
Her brother ask the right questions Birthday and Middle name
Wait he didn't know her birthday, he doesn't know the women's birthdates? wow. Shame, Shame. He is something. I love this family - They were intense and perfect setting lol. whatever that restaurant was. Felt like a dungeon.
He likes her but not strong enough to propose in a week. He’s curious about her but not 100% comfortable I think.
Honestly, ariel deserves so much more
I think I see why Zack didn't want her. He got scared of her brother
These were extremely insightful and thought-provoking questions. The answers, on the other hand...left much to be desired.
Unrelated, the word “truly” has been used so much in excess that it has lost any meaning in the context of this show and, at this point, almost always signals a hint of deception on some level.
The brother is great. I loved his questions
Ariel would also make a good bach/rette as I believe Charity will be as well.
Uhh ... that interview wasn't great Zach. I wouldn't be too happy with answers if I were the family, either.
It's not up to the family though. Ariel and Zach are adults. It's their decision.
@@jenniferhansen3622 try telling that to the family
@@leafsleafsleafs2 Ariel is a very nice girl and seems very intelligent. Hopefully they can trust her to make wise decisions and not feel like they have to interfere.
@@leafsleafsleafs2It would be up to Ariel to tell them that. At some point maybe she will set boundaries.
3:13 The important question is, does Ariel agree with that, bro?
I'd run, if yes. LOL I'm not marrying a family. Marrying is the end of that original family.
I agree with you 100%.
Why did they not show the mother's perspective? Not a word. Odd.
And I thought Desiree's brother was difficult!
Anyone know if her mom is in the picture?
Ariel seems reserved and sensitive and Zach seems goofy. Nothing’s wrong with being either one but the potential doesn’t seem to be there. He might have been scared off by the intensity of her family. I know they were in the right to question and be protective of her but no one wants potential in-law trouble.
It always seems odd when they don't do this in the home. I assume some families don't want their home filmed. That did NOT go well!
That family is cold and I know he won’t pick her lol
not cold, supportive and protective
These are tough decisions of questions that Ariel’s family is hard and I don’t like this
Some of the audience don t get Russian Jews - she s open minded but a mismatch
100%
I like this family
Her family made him very uncomfortable.
Dawn this girl is gorgeous too...i feel like Zack has most beautiful ladies than other bachelor
Yeah for being an average dude. He doesn't deserve any of them
Does anyone know where is this place? It is so pretty
What Ariel brother said was weird “Ariel does not only need to accept you the whole family does” . Zach’s job would not be to please her whole family just her. And if they don’t except him who cares thank-you next; Truthfully it’s families like these who like to drive people away and not let anyone find peace in their relationship.
Too many differences…can’t work. Even N.Y.C.’s lifestyle is ok temporarily, but not his lifestyle.
well dam lol
What is the family background issue??? Sorry, I didn't watch the episode so I mightve missed something
I don't think they were aware of how much the family can affect who he chooses. The brother needs to be respectful, he knows what the shows about and his sister chose to go on. So be there if she needs you but this was a turn-off
Ariel you are so sweet i hope and pray you and Zach be together. He is a great men, i like him I wish both of you the best. Mimi
Another Tinos dad 😬
I knew pick charity as Bachelorette
Honestly, her family is kinda the problem. It seems based on her family's opinion she will either accept or reject a guy. This might make it more difficult for her to find someone.
Good this family has standards for her it doesn’t feel right for them the man the way they meet etc
I would not want a family like this. Are they perfect? I doubt it. Now I know why she is single.
I agree with you completely because they aren't treating her like an adult. I would be concerned that they would interfere with her marriage too much if she was married. I also get the feeling that they would never think anybody was good enough for Ariel.
Ariel is so stunning..😍😍🤩 wonder if her origin is Italian
Strange that this family didn’t invite to their home and cold questions didn’t make nice connection between them too.
there could be so many reasons - maybe because they dont want cameras in their home?
@@truenestpie can be . Who knows …