Yeah if you're thinking that, then most probably either the problem lies with you, or you're looking in the wrong places. The fantasy of the grass is always greener is just that.
You speak the truth. As an American woman, I feel out of place. I’m a homely girl and this video really spoke to my heart as well as cracked me up. We need to bring back traditional dating etiquette.
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I like the way Russian guys taking girls seriously , they seem so gentlemen Update 😂 I changed my mind after i broke up with the Russian guy 😂, now engaged to a black man ❤️ taking me seriously & perfect gentleman ✊🏿 good luck everyone .
Dam 93 that is not the case. Fedor and Victoria are just talking about their personal experience, and those can be very different from reality. Sure, some Russian guys are respectful and nice, but it’s not super common. And another thing is that a lot of Russian guys are nice in the beginning to attract the girl and then when the relationship gets serious, they go back to being assholes and the complete opposite of gentlemen. Including emotional and physical abuse. It’s very common in Russia, unfortunately.
@@Shotisspuri I'm thinking you talk about immature dick-wads, who you can find everywhere, not just in Russia. And you should emphasize than the same goes for girls. Even more so in US. It's nice and lovely at the beginning, but after a short-while you'd better strap yourself. The key to avoid the drama is to know a person better, before committing to anything. To see if a guy/girl is mature enough for relationship. Fedor and Victoria represents a good example of mature couple.
Valeria Vagapova it’s not tinder that’s the problem. It’s just that Russians are more conservative, cultural, loving, and family oriented. Unlike most people in the West with no cultural values. In Russia its traditional to get married in your prime (18-25 for female) unlike here where people sleep around in their prime because it’s “liberating” and then marry desperately in their 30s and 40s which explains why marriages are so unhappy and the high divorce rate in the US.
As an American woman I have denied men who have asked or insinuated to have casual hook-ups with me and as a result have been called prude or lame. It's really upsetting when I am choosing to value myself and a potential future relationship but only get shamed for it. So I completely relate to the part where you talk about creepy dudes taking you out and then expecting a "favor" in return. I will never understand or respect a man who has that mentality.
I might be different from other russian dudes, but I don't usually text a girl almost ever lol I approach, get to know her, if I like her, get her number, then only call to invite her on a date. :)
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I am Russian girl. And my husband texted me about a year, and than we go for date many times. And only after, we became a couple . now we married. It’s crazy for me to sleep with a stranger.
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My BookBlog Exactly! I was born in the USA but have always held a traditional mindset, and am a person who needs to see a man's actions prove his words to me over a long period of time. I do not date just to date, but rather only for the purpose of marriage. It disgusts me what all I was exposed to all thatl I saw growing up in America how so many girls get taken advantage of by guys here and allow themselves to be taken for granted and used just because the guy said he loves you. It's worse though, that the society here and the culture ENCOURAGES young girls to be easy for guys. Absolutely disgusting. I have even had fellow Slavic men tell me my mindset is too old-fashioned and one even used the word "Victorian" since I was not willing to have sex early on when we just began dating and I hardly knew them. NO WAY, EVER.
It's true. In Russia we text/or call out for a date, then few dates, only then kiss etc. Of course there is always exceptions etc. but usually, if you aim for dating you have some "get to know each other" period.
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My boyfriend didn’t kiss me until like our third or fourth date. At the time I thought it was weird but looking back, it was sweet and now we’re still together, a year and a half later and our relationship is more than sex, which is rare 😂😂
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luceee Noup! Serbs when see a black man they take a pic with him and pay drink to him, because he is new guy in their towns. And official index says that we are first in Europe with less racism. Goodbye
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Well, I am a Bulgarian, and listening to this Russian boy, I am like "Oh my God. We have soo much in common." I loove what he said:"C'moon we all know that we are on our phones 24/7". It is so True. Life is too short to play games. If you genuinely like someone, you want to talk with this person. Like all the time. To know this person better. I also do prefer sending voice messages. I love the fact that in this aspect, in a way, personality is muuuch more appreciated in Eastern Europe and in Russia. One culture, one love 😍😍😍
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This is really nice to see.. I live in the US, I was raised in Puerto Rico and until recently I was in a beautiful serious relationship with a guy from east Ukraine. I had met his family and him mine. He broke things off because he was a 6th generation pure Russian and I am not ukranian or Russian. The relationship lasted a year. Sorry for the rant, it's still very raw, and I really do care extremely for him still.
Sorry to say, but that is not the reason, that is a ridiculously stupid lie he told you in order to hide the real reason. Pure Russian/Ukrainian already sounds funny. And counting generations? What a nonsense.
@@sashacooke263 It's possible in theory I guess, but honestly that would be a very unique and unusual case. I never heard of anybody in Russia being so obsessed with being "pure Russian" and counting generations. Not to mention that most people only really know their ancestors maaaybe 3 generations back and no one cares much about being "pure Russian" anyway, especially considering all the mixing that went on during the Soviet times. There are certain ethnic backgrounds that I think Russian parents might be likely to be against, but honestly being from Puerto RIco/US doesn't seem like it would cause issues. So it seems odd to me, but idk... Either way, Mia, I hope you're doing better these days and that you'll find a better person for yourself!
What a liar! For a whole year he didn't know that and now suddenly he remembers that he wants a Ukranian woman. If it's not another woman that caused it then it's him being afraid of commitment and getting cold feet. Either way no good. You'll get someone else who is just for you and who is not afraid to marry you.
OMG... LA is WAY more sexually aggressive than the rest of the country...all the"'sliding in" isn't necessarily happening through texting in my part of the country😕
Yeah, in rural Washington state (anywhere outside of Seattle metro) dating is much more traditional, many couples will date for years before getting physically intimate.
I don't think that LA is a good representation of the whole USA. I live in Florida, (basically it's the south but not the deep/rural south) Where I am from if you have sex on the first date that usually means you don't want an actual relationship. And the sex thing, I think is true but where I am from its not encouraged to have sex even before your marriage (but we know most people do). In my experience virgins get praised (if you're a girl)
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Men are men all over the world. Your blessed if you find a great guy who takes his time with a woman. I dated a Russian guy and trust he was not that great of a guy. I very jealous person
meg so? Are you trying to tell me that there aren’t other people who thug and jump others for no reason? What you saw on the internet isn’t a representation of the whole population, be smarter than that!
@@reneeknight1028 sorry you had such a bad experience. Where in Russia was the jealous guy from? Men from different regions of Russia speak the same language but have different ethnicities and mentalities.
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Thank you for that video. I really enjoyed the frankness of your conversation. I also appreciate how I was able to listen, agree and learn some things, and not feel put down, as a person with conservative values. Kudos to you both.
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Keeping in mind you are comparing “America” for Los Angeles. LA is most liberal city and there are more traditional places in America although we are more sexed in general. This city created Tinder
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Fedor is wrong about “people having sex before 18 is a very rare occasion in Russia”. In reality, the average age of Russian people having sex for the first time is about 16 years nowadays. So Fedor either grew up in a certain environment where people tended to have their first time later on, or just wasn’t very informed about the personal life of people around him.
Definitely. When he said that I was like - are we sure we're talking about the same Russia? Lol. When I was in school most kids started having sex between 14 and 16. At 18 pretty much everyone I knew had some experience already, I felt like an odd one out for sure. I wonder what kind of environment he grew up in.
It's nice to know that the Russian dating scene is very respectful. It's kind of similar in my home country, although my country is slowly getting infected by American dating way .
I've been to Ohio for a year and am back in Germany. Dating there is really different than here and really conservative. But I think it's funny what you said about the voice messages, cause it's really America vs. the rest of the world 😁 Good video, keeping me from sleeping tho.
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I love this video! You guys make a beautiful couple!! I’m 99% almost ready to date again after I got out of a narcissistic and abusive relationship with my ex bf of 8 years. It’s been 2 years and I’m almost ready to start dating again. Plus, as an American woman I too would love to date and marry a Russian man! 😍💖 I just love how they take dating and relationships so seriously!! Plus, I love their culture and language!! 😍💖
The mentality of Russian men may not suit you. As a rule, Russian men form a cult of the alpha male, the head of the family, a sexist, homophobic, strength and aggression are welcomed and respected. But at the same time, Russian mothers try to raise their sons in a chivalrous spirit towards a woman
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lol It took me over a month to go on a date with my girl, we met on Facebook, and the first time we talked for hours eating Indian food. IDK, I'm not religious but I am blessed. Maybe straight people should be more like lesbians? We held hands in the movie we saw together. @.@ Like it was straight-up romantic movie shit. Now, I can't see me without her. IDK I'm old fashioned when it comes to giving my heart away. She's the first person who... I'm so happy I love her.
Actually, the proper spelling of his name should be "Feodor". Which equals "Theodor". Fedor comes from Russian, where they spell it with "ё", which combines two vowels "io" or "eo" into one.
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Lol it’s tough in the U.S. I constantly get harassed at my work place for being a virgin - I’m 20 yrs old. Why do they know that? Bc my work place is made up mostly of women and naturally us women talk and my lack of “experience” quickly became obvious. My coworkers for some reason found it necessary to tell my male bosses- who for months would come up with ridiculous reasons for my virginity. One time they had a running joke that I was abused as a child ......To not be sexually active nowadays in the states is tough, not necessarily in refraining but in dealing with the strong opinion of others - it’s ironic how sexual freedom is a running theme in the U.S but it does not apply to those who prefer the liberty in keeping their virginity
it's really terrible. I also wear virgins for my 19 years, but my surroundings don't care about that. or the difference in mentalities.(I'm sorry for my bad English, I'm from Russia)
Hello guys I think this may make a great future video for ya and although I know its way far in the future , but parenting styles from the way Americans raise their children compared to the way Russians raise their kids maybe a bit different in ways and the same in others. It might be fun to see how your styles might differ. Some of these questions would relate to being helicopter parents or a free-range approach when parenting • How were you two raised as children and when you get married how would you raise your kids ? • Were you in daycare or did your mom or dad stay at home with you until you were of school age? • Do you think daycare is healthier for a child than staying at home with a parent? • Would you let your child run errands with their older sibling say siblings a 10 and 11 some may feel that helps a child to be independent? • Your topic today was dating and I know the nudity part may be off topic but what are your thoughts on bathing with your kids when they are younger. Do you prefer your kids to be embarrassed when it comes to nudity or comfortable about it , some cultures don’t have issues with fathers and sons showering together and mothers and daughters doing that ? • When raising your child will you teach them that they can stay with you as long as they want are will you encourage them to go off to college and make a life of their own? at 30 if they havent gone on their own how would you handle that? • Would you encourage your child with sports, theatre, musical instruments etc. or would you prefer them to find that on their own. • At what age would you have he “talk” with your child about the birds and the bees and would you encourage birth control (the pill or condoms) if you let them go on dates before they are 18 or would you just let whatever happen happen. • Would you encourage gender fluidity or teach your child the same way you were taught about gender. • Without actually talking about religion how would you raise your kids and morals. • How much parental involvement would you give your child when growing up, would you help them with school projects or would you like for them to do it on their own then come to you for guidance? • Would you o to every dance practice and softball or tennis or hockey game? • You get the line of questioning I am going for there are many topics you could discuss. I know it hasn’t happened but if it did tomorrow or next year what would you do then?
I'm a South Asian girl living in the USA. I'm from a conservative culture where we don't have sex with strangers and do casual sex casual dating like many Americans. It was much easier for me to be with a European man. I met my German husband 5 years ago and I instantly fell in love with his authentic, genuine talk and behavior. He was so cold but so genuine and honest at first and as he opened up, there was no fake talk and so cheese like American men, just honest emotions and I began to trust him. And he respected me and my boundaries. We got married two years ago. We are expecting our first child this December. He is the love of my life and I would die for him. My entire family thinks he's amazing and are glad I didn't end up with an American man.
Thank you both for this interesting video! Fedor, when Russians do text, do they abbreviate like Americans do? For example, "R u going?" Instead of "Are you going?" Thanks again.
Yes, there are some common abbreviations! It's mostly things like: очень - оч(very), может быть - мб(maybe), день рождения - др(birthday), новый год - нг(new year), хрен знает - хз(idk)... Kids/teens use more slang of course, and it's generally considered to be poor taste to use abbreviations excessively, it's mostly used in casual texting with close friends/family.
People tend to do it, some to the crazy degree so you can barely understand. But it depends on your circle. I myself never use abbreviations and even employ proper punctuation (in Russian, I’m not that good at English) which sometimes even sets people off, when they think I’m being condensending. Overall I’d guess it’s pretty much the same though
Now I'm not saying all Russian s are alike. The Russians I met are very proud of their family name sake. They don't just date like we do in America. Now guys are guys, no matter what part of the map. Just Russians are kind of old school with the approval of parents. Especially, when they pass the just talking phase. My best friend from Russia. His parents sent for him and his girlfriend and purchased plane ticket s just to meet her. To me it was odd because I'm like, ok y'all are just dating not getting married.
I definitely would say this isn't necessarily the norm in the US - at least hookup culture is a subculture in the American dating world. Even in terms of the speed of it. I personally have never had experiences like what she speaks about above. Maybe it's the norm in LA - I can believe that, and in a lot of places but it will always depend. Though I will say Russians do tend to have more of a procedure ; in the US I can agree it is more haphazard
The Captain feels like you guys left a very important topic out. The exclusivity talk. We almost NEVER have that talk in Russia. Maybe some ppl do, but it's extremely uncommon. Exclusivity is kind of pre-assumed if you're dating. It's like - you better only date me if you even ask me out. If I find out that you're not - well... A trainwreck awaits thee)))... Let's just put it this way: dating 2 or more ppl at the same time is frowned upon and not even almost considered normal. No matter what stage of a relationship you're at. Even if you're just on a first date - most russians will expect to be the only one you're dating at the time and will expect you to break it off with them before you date someone else. Or else)) It's pretty serious. Ppl do get their jawbones broken for breaking that rule here ))
I'll go there myself and meet Russian men in person... I don't wanna rely on dating apps because meeting them and actually being able to spend time with them can get you to know them more.
@livinglife Off topic. Do you guys speak Russian to each other. I’m black American and my ex is Mexican. We would speak Spanglish (meaning we would kinda switch form English to Spanish mid conversation or use Spanish words while talking in English). Just wondering if you guys did the same.
@@AndreTJones Maybe you should give it a try. Listen to this American guy Phil who is in Russia i think in the same town where Fedor is from and what he is telling about Russian girls ruclips.net/video/b0Rwy1gkjaw/видео.html
I don't think that LA is a good representation of the whole USA. I live in Florida, (basically it's the south but not the deep/rural south) Where I am from if you have sex on the first date that usually means you don't want an actual relationship. And the sex thing, I think is true but where I am from its not encouraged to have sex even before your marriage (but we know most people do). In my experience virgins get praised (if you're a girl)
I agree with the high standards thing, girls here take one look at me and don't give me a chance they just assume I'm like mentally disabled or that I'm not alpha enough and let me just say that this type of mentality is why I'm considering other countries, here it's not even limited to race either like I've seen just American born women from immigrant families behave this way too... I want a serious relationship and not just a one time fling, and don't get me wrong I am totally going to work on becoming muscular but it's more for me as a person and not to attract a girl, here I feel guys just get in shape because they think it's the fastest way to just get in and get out, and like they treat women so terribly from everything I've seen, I'm young too this is my age I'm talking about I don't know about people who are older, I may want to consider Russian women although I don't think it would go well because I used to have the courage to ask out girls but I was rejected, sometimes coldly, I don't think I'd be man enough for a Russian girl, can anyone help me with this?
Starting to think if I want a decent guy I need to go out of the country
OMG same!
Yeah if you're thinking that, then most probably either the problem lies with you, or you're looking in the wrong places. The fantasy of the grass is always greener is just that.
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You speak the truth.
As an American woman,
I feel out of place. I’m a homely girl and this video really spoke to my heart as well as cracked me up.
We need to bring back traditional dating etiquette.
Where are you from? In you live in places like LA, NYC, ATL, you can't expect really traditional
Feminism killed traditional families and dating, it's all sort of screwd up now.
Aysiah Examines: Did you mean to say " homely"? Anyway, I agree, traditional values are not very common in the USA. However, there are still some people who firmly believe in and stick to that standard of living. It is not completely dead. If you are looking for someone with those values, don't give up. Keep seeking and you will eventually find what you are looking for. It will all be worth your efforts .
Homely? That's a euphemism for ugly lol. Do you mean that you're a homebody?
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I like the way Russian guys taking girls seriously , they seem so gentlemen
Update 😂
I changed my mind after i broke up with the Russian guy 😂, now engaged to a black man ❤️ taking me seriously & perfect gentleman ✊🏿 good luck everyone .
Dam 93 that is not the case. Fedor and Victoria are just talking about their personal experience, and those can be very different from reality. Sure, some Russian guys are respectful and nice, but it’s not super common. And another thing is that a lot of Russian guys are nice in the beginning to attract the girl and then when the relationship gets serious, they go back to being assholes and the complete opposite of gentlemen. Including emotional and physical abuse. It’s very common in Russia, unfortunately.
VG yeah it’s common for guys from all around the world to be nice in the beginning 😂 it’s in their genes
@@Shotisspuri I'm thinking you talk about immature dick-wads, who you can find everywhere, not just in Russia. And you should emphasize than the same goes for girls. Even more so in US. It's nice and lovely at the beginning, but after a short-while you'd better strap yourself. The key to avoid the drama is to know a person better, before committing to anything. To see if a guy/girl is mature enough for relationship.
Fedor and Victoria represents a good example of mature couple.
This is all envy of education. My parents brought me up well. But unfortunately in Russia live bad people: (
@@yuripopov87 Different people live in Russia. I'm sorry there were only bad people around you.
I blame Tinder.
Just to be fair, there's Tinder in Russia too and it's fairly popular
Why. The tinder don't do anything.
I met my russian dude through tinder 😂😂😂
armarie p same
Valeria Vagapova it’s not tinder that’s the problem. It’s just that Russians are more conservative, cultural, loving, and family oriented. Unlike most people in the West with no cultural values.
In Russia its traditional to get married in your prime (18-25 for female) unlike here where people sleep around in their prime because it’s “liberating” and then marry desperately in their 30s and 40s which explains why marriages are so unhappy and the high divorce rate in the US.
As an American woman I have denied men who have asked or insinuated to have casual hook-ups with me and as a result have been called prude or lame. It's really upsetting when I am choosing to value myself and a potential future relationship but only get shamed for it. So I completely relate to the part where you talk about creepy dudes taking you out and then expecting a "favor" in return. I will never understand or respect a man who has that mentality.
I might be different from other russian dudes, but I don't usually text a girl almost ever lol
I approach, get to know her, if I like her, get her number, then only call to invite her on a date. :)
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The Russian guy I am dating is like this.
I am Russian girl. And my husband texted me about a year, and than we go for date many times. And only after, we became a couple . now we married. It’s crazy for me to sleep with a stranger.
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My BookBlog Exactly! I was born in the USA but have always held a traditional mindset, and am a person who needs to see a man's actions prove his words to me over a long period of time. I do not date just to date, but rather only for the purpose of marriage. It disgusts me what all I was exposed to all thatl I saw growing up in America how so many girls get taken advantage of by guys here and allow themselves to be taken for granted and used just because the guy said he loves you. It's worse though, that the society here and the culture ENCOURAGES young girls to be easy for guys. Absolutely disgusting. I have even had fellow Slavic men tell me my mindset is too old-fashioned and one even used the word "Victorian" since I was not willing to have sex early on when we just began dating and I hardly knew them. NO WAY, EVER.
Do you know why we love Russian men? Because they're old fashioned. I love my Russian man!
Girls do love russian men?
Too bad he doesnt love Russian women
Lol
It's true. In Russia we text/or call out for a date, then few dates, only then kiss etc. Of course there is always exceptions etc. but usually, if you aim for dating you have some "get to know each other" period.
Alex L By us Slavs it’s generally!!!!! :)))))
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My boyfriend didn’t kiss me until like our third or fourth date. At the time I thought it was weird but looking back, it was sweet and now we’re still together, a year and a half later and our relationship is more than sex, which is rare 😂😂
How’s your head game ?
Oscar Manzano I can’t breathe 🤣😂🤣😂🤣
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I do voice mail with my girlfriend 😂 Russian born and I have gotten used to most of the culture of America except for the dating, my parents made sure I keep some of my Russian values (as in dating)
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If they have American passports
That's very noble of you Ruslan
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From Haiti? Nice! I tend to see many smart people from there.
Why don't you shoot a video about you and your lady? That'd be dope!
Los Angeles is the worst place to date 🤦🏾♀️
Atlanta
Houston
It’s liberal go somewhere conservative and you’ll find more compatible males (as in real men).
Moscow, go to date? Go to meeting?)
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Lol when you said people taking you out, paying for the $10 meal...and then expecting sex oh my god
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You guys look so beautiful.. Man.. Black and white.. So glorious.. Keep going strong
You said a quite good words. I'm just kidding
Nobukhosi Dube By Slavs countries don’t exist that colour racism!!!!But that’s national prejudice (from wich country you are, or religion are you) and that’s more normal to see our man and with black girl, than our man with girl from nation with we have not good relations!!!!! :)))))
@@ivam342 balkans are extremely racist especially serbs
luceee Noup! Serbs when see a black man they take a pic with him and pay drink to him, because he is new guy in their towns. And official index says that we are first in Europe with less racism. Goodbye
@@ivam342 ok if you say so. but they are extremely racist to turks
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I'm Japanese...single as f, but loved this so much. Keep it coming! Sending love from Tokyooooo
Marry me and take me over tokyo
Have you guys ever tried making a whole video in Russian?🤔 Might be a good challenge haha
Maybe
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Well, I am a Bulgarian, and listening to this Russian boy, I am like "Oh my God. We have soo much in common." I loove what he said:"C'moon we all know that we are on our phones 24/7". It is so True. Life is too short to play games. If you genuinely like someone, you want to talk with this person. Like all the time. To know this person better. I also do prefer sending voice messages. I love the fact that in this aspect, in a way, personality is muuuch more appreciated in Eastern Europe and in Russia.
One culture, one love 😍😍😍
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I met and dated a Russian girl then found out she had a boyfriend for the past 6 months, from my experience Russian women are more manipulative.
“That’s how you catch diseases”🤣🤣🤣👏👏👏
Well said guys. Keep up the good work!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Какие же вы хорошие :о) Отличный диалог, потрясающий, просто прослезиться. Не верю!
This is really nice to see.. I live in the US, I was raised in Puerto Rico and until recently I was in a beautiful serious relationship with a guy from east Ukraine. I had met his family and him mine. He broke things off because he was a 6th generation pure Russian and I am not ukranian or Russian. The relationship lasted a year. Sorry for the rant, it's still very raw, and I really do care extremely for him still.
Sorry to say, but that is not the reason, that is a ridiculously stupid lie he told you in order to hide the real reason. Pure Russian/Ukrainian already sounds funny. And counting generations? What a nonsense.
@@Needmoremars Maybe his parents disapproved?
@@sashacooke263 It's possible in theory I guess, but honestly that would be a very unique and unusual case. I never heard of anybody in Russia being so obsessed with being "pure Russian" and counting generations. Not to mention that most people only really know their ancestors maaaybe 3 generations back and no one cares much about being "pure Russian" anyway, especially considering all the mixing that went on during the Soviet times.
There are certain ethnic backgrounds that I think Russian parents might be likely to be against, but honestly being from Puerto RIco/US doesn't seem like it would cause issues. So it seems odd to me, but idk...
Either way, Mia, I hope you're doing better these days and that you'll find a better person for yourself!
What a liar! For a whole year he didn't know that and now suddenly he remembers that he wants a Ukranian woman. If it's not another woman that caused it then it's him being afraid of commitment and getting cold feet. Either way no good. You'll get someone else who is just for you and who is not afraid to marry you.
@Niso Stannard mixed kids aren't the most beautiful..... Stop being stereotypical
OMG... LA is WAY more sexually aggressive than the rest of the country...all the"'sliding in" isn't necessarily happening through texting in my part of the country😕
Yeah, in rural Washington state (anywhere outside of Seattle metro) dating is much more traditional, many couples will date for years before getting physically intimate.
@@nydelisortiz3767 I can say the same for women. I live in Florida as well
Take a little time to get to know a person...love yourself first most of all☺
I don't think that LA is a good representation of the whole USA. I live in Florida, (basically it's the south but not the deep/rural south) Where I am from if you have sex on the first date that usually means you don't want an actual relationship. And the sex thing, I think is true but where I am from its not encouraged to have sex even before your marriage (but we know most people do). In my experience virgins get praised (if you're a girl)
Lynn Carter No worries, South Beach/ Miami right up there w/ LA 😩.
This is so true! My boyfriend is Russian-American and I'm 100% American and all of this is spot on. Love the inter-cultural love!
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U r European
The way he looks at you! You’re lucky girl!
Russians are just overall more decent people with better values.
Men are men all over the world. Your blessed if you find a great guy who takes his time with a woman. I dated a Russian guy and trust he was not that great of a guy. I very jealous person
Niso Stannard I’m a russian woman who grew up in the states, I know what I’m comparing!
keepinitreal just watched a video of Russian men attacking two guys for holding hands on a street
meg so? Are you trying to tell me that there aren’t other people who thug and jump others for no reason? What you saw on the internet isn’t a representation of the whole population, be smarter than that!
@@reneeknight1028 sorry you had such a bad experience. Where in Russia was the jealous guy from?
Men from different regions of Russia speak the same language but have different ethnicities and mentalities.
You two are so cute! Love your videos!
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You forgot to mention about guys paying for ladies in Russia. In America I think couples mostly go 50/50 on dates.
I will never pay for myself on a date. If the girl pays for her own date, that's not a date
@@omgfinally4340 True! And if a man does not pay for a lady he is not a real man
VERY happy to see a Russian Bro with a Sister. AWESOME! Thank you for your wonderful videos.
Thank you for that video. I really enjoyed the frankness of your conversation. I also appreciate how I was able to listen, agree and learn some things, and not feel put down, as a person with conservative values. Kudos to you both.
I gotta find myself a russian guy 😭
Theres a place in Philippines where tou can find vegan and fruitarians whichbare all Russians and they live in a paradise called KAPUTIAN. Thank me later
Theres a place in Philippines where tou can find vegan and fruitarians whichbare all Russians and they live in a paradise called KAPUTIAN. Thank me later
I am here!
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@@arieDing wait really their here in the Philippines??
Im so done with dating in LA. I've given up completely here.
same. gave up a few years ago. fuck it.
Trust me when I tell you dating in a liberal city is the worst.
Beautiful couple.
Thanks for the video. You're a charming couple. I wish you happiness and strong love.
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Another interesting topic! Love you both 😊❤
These two are super cute
Keeping in mind you are comparing “America” for Los Angeles. LA is most liberal city and there are more traditional places in America although we are more sexed in general. This city created Tinder
Great video I love how you guys have grown! I see how much you love each other.
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I need to move to russia then
Greetings from Russia!
come over
Yes bb i am Russian man 39 like to have black skin wife lol contact me on telegram @DDBBRR
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She is really pretty like a barbie and He looks very handsome! Thank you for the video ♥️♥️♥️ I pray to find same relationship you really look good together :)
боже мой, ребята, вы такие милые т.т успехов вам и любви
Fedor is wrong about “people having sex before 18 is a very rare occasion in Russia”. In reality, the average age of Russian people having sex for the first time is about 16 years nowadays. So Fedor either grew up in a certain environment where people tended to have their first time later on, or just wasn’t very informed about the personal life of people around him.
I agree, it's a diverse thing, I know people who lost virginity at 12yo, and people who lost it in their late 20.
in the USA the average age nowadays is 10-11 years go age
@@cecelila5844 that's false, googled stats, it's around 16-17 yo
Definitely. When he said that I was like - are we sure we're talking about the same Russia? Lol. When I was in school most kids started having sex between 14 and 16. At 18 pretty much everyone I knew had some experience already, I felt like an odd one out for sure. I wonder what kind of environment he grew up in.
Russia is big. I was a virgin until I was 19 &it's normal. Maybe you're from a different region?
Lol he is right here in the Netherlands people send voice messages a lot but in America they just type
It's nice to know that the Russian dating scene is very respectful. It's kind of similar in my home country, although my country is slowly getting infected by American dating way .
My voicemail isn’t even set up on my cellphone - that’s how much I hate voice messages. If I miss your call and you don’t text me...oh well!! 😂
It's voice messages through an app.
Why do you need to set it up though? It generally only takes pressing one button in pretty much every texting app that I know of, I think(?)
Me as german guy we germans have so much in common with Russians were both direct and we say it how it is
so pleasant to see and hear you both
I've been to Ohio for a year and am back in Germany. Dating there is really different than here and really conservative. But I think it's funny what you said about the voice messages, cause it's really America vs. the rest of the world 😁 Good video, keeping me from sleeping tho.
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I love this video! You guys make a beautiful couple!! I’m 99% almost ready to date again after I got out of a narcissistic and abusive relationship with my ex bf of 8 years. It’s been 2 years and I’m almost ready to start dating again. Plus, as an American woman I too would love to date and marry a Russian man! 😍💖 I just love how they take dating and relationships so seriously!! Plus, I love their culture and language!! 😍💖
The mentality of Russian men may not suit you. As a rule, Russian men form a cult of the alpha male, the head of the family, a sexist, homophobic, strength and aggression are welcomed and respected. But at the same time, Russian mothers try to raise their sons in a chivalrous spirit towards a woman
@@ВадимТорн That may be some Russian men, but not all of them. I may sound naïve, but I like seeing the good in people just like my Heavenly Father does in all of us! Thank you for your input, and God bless you my friend! 🤍🤍🤍🤍
@@ВадимТорн Lol, don't generalize, not all Russian men are insensitive homophobes with caveman behavior. Do not intimidate foreigners with this
Wow this is a great video. An honest and very insightful conversation! Thank you :)
Internet dating killed dating for real.
Какие вы классные 👍!!!!😉🤗
lol It took me over a month to go on a date with my girl, we met on Facebook, and the first time we talked for hours eating Indian food. IDK, I'm not religious but I am blessed. Maybe straight people should be more like lesbians? We held hands in the movie we saw together. @.@ Like it was straight-up romantic movie shit. Now, I can't see me without her. IDK I'm old fashioned when it comes to giving my heart away. She's the first person who... I'm so happy I love her.
I just wanted to say that "Fedor" literally means "Stink" in my language (Portuguese) lmaoo😂😂😂 I'm so immature
Oof!
Actually, the proper spelling of his name should be "Feodor". Which equals "Theodor". Fedor comes from Russian, where they spell it with "ё", which combines two vowels "io" or "eo" into one.
Делайте русские субтитры,я понимаю немного,но хочется понимать всё,тем патче русских подписчиков будет больше :)
Во всех роликах есть авто перевод, в нижнем правом углу значок сс
Your 2 are so beautiful together and give me hope for my evolving relationship with my Russian Prince ♥️
Girl please do a skin care routine video 🤯
I'm so excited to see your video, i love watching mixed couples {so far i Subscribe to mixed families/couples that are mixed with Finland/Indian Hindu, Korean/Black, British/Black, White/Black, also Asian/Black, asian/white, white/hispanic, Arabic/White} an now i have a new culture to learn about an see two people from different cultures love each other an embrace each other thank you so much for making videos
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It was very very interesting about Russian dating ! Nice .
Lol it’s tough in the U.S. I constantly get harassed at my work place for being a virgin - I’m 20 yrs old. Why do they know that? Bc my work place is made up mostly of women and naturally us women talk and my lack of “experience” quickly became obvious. My coworkers for some reason found it necessary to tell my male bosses- who for months would come up with ridiculous reasons for my virginity. One time they had a running joke that I was abused as a child ......To not be sexually active nowadays in the states is tough, not necessarily in refraining but in dealing with the strong opinion of others - it’s ironic how sexual freedom is a running theme in the U.S but it does not apply to those who prefer the liberty in keeping their virginity
That's so crazy... And those people are toxic. I'm so sorry. Maybe stop talking to anyone about your private life unless it's your one best friend.
it's really terrible. I also wear virgins for my 19 years, but my surroundings don't care about that. or the difference in mentalities.(I'm sorry for my bad English, I'm from Russia)
You two are so blessed. Maybe I should find me Russian guy. But how do I do it in Los Angeles?
Hello guys I think this may make a great future video for ya and although I know its way far in the future , but parenting styles from the way Americans raise their children compared to the way Russians raise their kids maybe a bit different in ways and the same in others. It might be fun to see how your styles might differ.
Some of these questions would relate to being helicopter parents or a free-range approach when parenting
• How were you two raised as children and when you get married how would you raise your kids ?
• Were you in daycare or did your mom or dad stay at home with you until you were of school age?
• Do you think daycare is healthier for a child than staying at home with a parent?
• Would you let your child run errands with their older sibling say siblings a 10 and 11 some may feel that helps a child to be independent?
• Your topic today was dating and I know the nudity part may be off topic but what are your thoughts on bathing with your kids when they are younger. Do you prefer your kids to be embarrassed when it comes to nudity or comfortable about it , some cultures don’t have issues with fathers and sons showering together and mothers and daughters doing that ?
• When raising your child will you teach them that they can stay with you as long as they want are will you encourage them to go off to college and make a life of their own?
at 30 if they havent gone on their own how would you handle that?
• Would you encourage your child with sports, theatre, musical instruments etc. or would you prefer them to find that on their own.
• At what age would you have he “talk” with your child about the birds and the bees and would you encourage birth control (the pill or condoms) if you let them go on dates before they are 18 or would you just let whatever happen happen.
• Would you encourage gender fluidity or teach your child the same way you were taught about gender.
• Without actually talking about religion how would you raise your kids and morals.
• How much parental involvement would you give your child when growing up, would you help them with school projects or would you like for them to do it on their own then come to you for guidance?
• Would you o to every dance practice and softball or tennis or hockey game?
• You get the line of questioning I am going for there are many topics you could discuss. I know it hasn’t happened but if it did tomorrow or next year what would you do then?
I can tell your parents did a great job raising the both of you so I am sure their parenting styles ill be a combination of what you would do.
Helicopter parents vs strategic bomber parents 😂😂😂
One more comment! To me Fedor is sounding more American now with his accent.
I like black girls. I'm a Russian guy.
Nice nice
Guy's Big support to ya. I'm Ukrainian man who moved to the United States 10 years ago and I only date black women!!! also have RUclips channel
I'm a South Asian girl living in the USA. I'm from a conservative culture where we don't have sex with strangers and do casual sex casual dating like many Americans. It was much easier for me to be with a European man. I met my German husband 5 years ago and I instantly fell in love with his authentic, genuine talk and behavior. He was so cold but so genuine and honest at first and as he opened up, there was no fake talk and so cheese like American men, just honest emotions and I began to trust him. And he respected me and my boundaries. We got married two years ago. We are expecting our first child this December. He is the love of my life and I would die for him. My entire family thinks he's amazing and are glad I didn't end up with an American man.
Thank you both for this interesting video!
Fedor, when Russians do text, do they abbreviate like Americans do? For example, "R u going?" Instead of "Are you going?" Thanks again.
Yes, there are some common abbreviations! It's mostly things like: очень - оч(very), может быть - мб(maybe), день рождения - др(birthday), новый год - нг(new year), хрен знает - хз(idk)... Kids/teens use more slang of course, and it's generally considered to be poor taste to use abbreviations excessively, it's mostly used in casual texting with close friends/family.
@@valeriavagapova Thank you so much! Your detailed response was very informative and fascinating to me!
People tend to do it, some to the crazy degree so you can barely understand. But it depends on your circle. I myself never use abbreviations and even employ proper punctuation (in Russian, I’m not that good at English) which sometimes even sets people off, when they think I’m being condensending. Overall I’d guess it’s pretty much the same though
Yup! Russian men are quite something else XX
I’m African American, Native American , Nicaraguan, and Filipino and I’m engaged to a Russian woman ❤️
You guys are so cute together!!
Now I'm not saying all Russian s are alike. The Russians I met are very proud of their family name sake. They don't just date like we do in America. Now guys are guys, no matter what part of the map. Just Russians are kind of old school with the approval of parents. Especially, when they pass the just talking phase. My best friend from Russia. His parents sent for him and his girlfriend and purchased plane ticket s just to meet her. To me it was odd because I'm like, ok y'all are just dating not getting married.
I definitely would say this isn't necessarily the norm in the US - at least hookup culture is a subculture in the American dating world. Even in terms of the speed of it. I personally have never had experiences like what she speaks about above. Maybe it's the norm in LA - I can believe that, and in a lot of places but it will always depend. Though I will say Russians do tend to have more of a procedure ; in the US I can agree it is more haphazard
The Captain feels like you guys left a very important topic out. The exclusivity talk. We almost NEVER have that talk in Russia. Maybe some ppl do, but it's extremely uncommon. Exclusivity is kind of pre-assumed if you're dating. It's like - you better only date me if you even ask me out. If I find out that you're not - well... A trainwreck awaits thee)))...
Let's just put it this way: dating 2 or more ppl at the same time is frowned upon and not even almost considered normal. No matter what stage of a relationship you're at.
Even if you're just on a first date - most russians will expect to be the only one you're dating at the time and will expect you to break it off with them before you date someone else. Or else))
It's pretty serious. Ppl do get their jawbones broken for breaking that rule here ))
Thats why both parts pay their own bill on the first date here in north-western europe. They dont want to feel obliged to have sex with a creep.
I'll go there myself and meet Russian men in person... I don't wanna rely on dating apps because meeting them and actually being able to spend time with them can get you to know them more.
Cute!! I want to date a Russian or Italian guy. ☺️💁🏽♀️
Since you two have been together for these years, are you thinking about marriage?
Why? They are together, they are wife and husband.
Wyatt?? Means I'm never finding my true love in America? That's sad.
7:24, 7:33 these guys are adorable, and Chick-fil-A _is_ expensive
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Geeze I wouldn't know how to react. I've never had a guy pay for a date. I guess because I'm so assertive or maybe they weren't assertive enough?
Awwwe beautiful 😍 ❤ ohh my gosh you both are sooo beautiful. I would like to see youre kids🥰🥰🥰🥰
HOW are Russian men SO beautiful? fucking perfect
@livinglife Off topic. Do you guys speak Russian to each other. I’m black American and my ex is Mexican. We would speak Spanglish (meaning we would kinda switch form English to Spanish mid conversation or use Spanish words while talking in English). Just wondering if you guys did the same.
Sorry it didn't work out for both of you. Have you ever dated a Russian girl?
No. Not yet
@@AndreTJones Maybe you should give it a try. Listen to this American guy Phil who is in Russia i think in the same town where Fedor is from and what he is telling about Russian girls
ruclips.net/video/b0Rwy1gkjaw/видео.html
My fiancé is Russian. This was a good video
I don't think that LA is a good representation of the whole USA. I live in Florida, (basically it's the south but not the deep/rural south) Where I am from if you have sex on the first date that usually means you don't want an actual relationship. And the sex thing, I think is true but where I am from its not encouraged to have sex even before your marriage (but we know most people do). In my experience virgins get praised (if you're a girl)
A lot of Russian people send audio message
Beautiful couple!
Youngsters! Y’all are sooo cute... back when I met my Russian man ... you had to actually tell him yes or No & this is black American woman
& we have kids
Watching of this man i can say that Russian man cares women in general...
"I like to record messages"
Me: because your messanger is telegram 😄
I agree with the high standards thing, girls here take one look at me and don't give me a chance they just assume I'm like mentally disabled or that I'm not alpha enough and let me just say that this type of mentality is why I'm considering other countries, here it's not even limited to race either like I've seen just American born women from immigrant families behave this way too... I want a serious relationship and not just a one time fling, and don't get me wrong I am totally going to work on becoming muscular but it's more for me as a person and not to attract a girl, here I feel guys just get in shape because they think it's the fastest way to just get in and get out, and like they treat women so terribly from everything I've seen, I'm young too this is my age I'm talking about I don't know about people who are older, I may want to consider Russian women although I don't think it would go well because I used to have the courage to ask out girls but I was rejected, sometimes coldly, I don't think I'd be man enough for a Russian girl, can anyone help me with this?
You guys you're so funny
A young Dirk Nowitzki
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hearing about Russia you guys have gotta raise you kids there { especially daughters } have romance in their lives an the respect they deserve
He is the most Russian man I've ever seen. Love this couple! ❤