I graduates college at 22. Got married at 23. Bought a house and had my first kid at 25 and my second at 27. I got diagnosed with an autoimmune disease of Celiac at 29. My 20s were stressful to say the least. I am 35 now and I am the healthiest and happiest I've been in my adult life. I just celebrated my 12 year wedding anniversary to the love of my life of life. Our kids are now at great ages! We take fun trips. My husband and I go on dates and when we do we stay up until 3 in the morning! I love my 30s!!!
Yes!!! My 20s were a tumultuous time of building my life, amid insecurity. Now I am 32, we have our own home and about to have our 3rd baby. 💖 It's great feeling settled & secure. Of course life is never normal; there's always gonna be a curveball!! But now I'm grown enough to know what to do with it. 😊
Celiac is difficult when you’re used to eating like usual and then have to be careful all the time with gluten. My sister has had it her whole life. Sounds like your staying strong tho ❤️
@HazardousBgirl yes! It was extremely hard at first! I had nearly 30 years of loving all things gluten under my belt. I still have times of self pity and certain events make having celiac really hard. But I was so sick before my diagnosis and feel so great now so I am grateful. I am sorry for your sister having celiac as a child has to be so challenging with all the birthday parties and activities.
I'm 44 and life is so much easier to handle as you get older! Even as things get more complicated, you're a lot better equipped to handle it when you have more experience.
Idk im 41, and I'm not liking it. This year, my skin got much worse, huge undereye bags, etc. Plus, my joints started to get artritis or something, my fingers are in pain as well as my knees. I wanna be 35 again...
@@sashal1493I am 48. I only gets better, but you have to take care of your body. The vast majority, perhaps 98%, fail in that department and problems start in their 50s or even 40s.
Lol I was gonna say wait until 40s.. I still feel like I'm in my twenties emotionally, however intelligence, and sex just gets better as you get older!!!
That, "you cant change people, they have to do it themself" hit deep because I used to always try to change people for the better but it never worked 😭❤
I'm 24. Aging has always been a big scary thing to me, but a lot of my fear went away in the wake of my grandma's cancer. When she first got her diagnosis, she told me not to be sad for her, because she's lived a long full life, and did all the things she wanted to do. She's been all over the world and raised three boys, one of whom is my father. I realized that aging is a gift, and I hope I'm lucky enough to experience for a long time.
I'm 32 and still struggling. Unfortunately finances suck in still in major debt and it's not going to be fixed, probably till my 50s at this rate of inflation. However I can and will agree with not caring about what others think.
I felt the same way when I turned 30. Now in my 40s, I realize that 40s is just like your 30s but double all the good things in your 30s-double the confidence, double the strength, etc. Enjoy this decade! It gets better 💕
This is great to hear. I'm 38, and so far my 30s have been a HUGE step up from my 20s. Can't wait to get to my 40s and lose the few fucks I have left to give. Hahaha
Turned 33 yesterday and while life doesn't magically get easier. I have felt a lot more confident in myself, while in my early twenties I was still finding myself and was insecure, I have a core group of friends now I know will be there for me through thick and thin, lost all those who either never cared or used me. I was someone afraid to grow old but now feel dumb for doing so.
THere was a study I read a few years ago (when I was about 35 and spiraling) that changed my life. They asked elderly men and women when they began to love themselves unconditionally and not care about what ppl thought. Men's answered averaged around 45 and women's averaged around 60. If it's going to happen anyway one day, why not start now? Get in early on the IDGAF train.
I'm at a point right now where I'm scared and excited to age. I'm super looking forward to the future but also terrified of how much time has already passed. I'm glad I believe in an afterlife, but the thought of dying leaving behind the people I love hurts me because I know that they're going to hurt. Being a human is complicated 👍👍 Also would love if you started working on a Smosh collab 😅😅
So true about the part about looking back on how I treated other people. All the times when I acted in a way that was rooted from a negative place (anger, pride, arrogance) are now all the things that replay in my mind - what the heck was I thinking.
Love this so much. these are things that have crossed my mind, but I feel like I’m still struggling to work through them/give them up. Especially the making people like you one. Needed to hear this all spoken out loud, I think it’s really gonna help me and a lot of other people. Amazing amazing amazing!! The “let’s talk about it” series is so refreshing and powerful and helpful!!
Ill be 30 in 2 months & im excited. I been learning more about myself & realizing alot of stuff doesnt matter. Stepping into this new chapter & just being grateful for what i do have and whats coming next🎉🎉🎉
100% correct! I am loving myself and enjoying my life so much more in my 30s. Now when i date, i dgaf. I am who i am. I still have challenges but i have more tools and confidence to handle them. And most importantly, i understand happiness. I am responsible for my own happiness. And I'm not waiting for perfection to be happy.
39 years old, it just keeps getting better ❤ we all live different lives, but I do feel like the 20’s for everyone has some pretty big challenges. Whether your path is to get married and have kids or to face childhood trauma and heal generational wounds, doing it freshly new to adulthood and on your own is hard no matter the path. By your 30s you’ve gotten to know yourself a bit more and hopefully fallen more in love with yourself so you can share that love with those around you ❤️
30, flirty and thriving! My mental health has gotten so much better almost on the day I turned 30. I feel free and powerful and I look better than ever
Same, girl! Same. I am 32 and I feel so young and full of life. When I was in my early 20s, I thought 30 was when you are a serious and older person. But we are still young and beautiful. I'm also not so obsessed with my weight anymore. I didn't weigh myself in over 6 months and I am a little bit scared to step on the scale, but I am ok. I love your videos. Stay amazing! ❤️
Honestly, I feel like being in your 20s is super stressful. Like, you go to college and have to establish a career at that time and you’re adjusting after being in school for over 12 years. And a lot of people get into relationships in their 20s and even might have kids! I feel like I would be happiest in my 30s. Though, I am a minor so I have no idea about anything like this. Love you Haley, and to all my ladies, you’re doing great
Omg haley i love u so much 😭 I am 25 and I am at the point where i am scared to go into thirties. Yea you are right. Compared to 5 years ago when I was 20, I grew a lot and I love how I have grown to be this person now!
i'm right now 16 and i've been having breakdowns left and right about turning 17 soon because I'm so afraid to grow up, because I've had to witness a lot of disturbing things at home that the adults in my family have to go through, but hearing this from you, I feel so much better about getting older and I'm actually feeling excited for once about getting older!
Just in my late 20s and i love hearing this from you ❤❤❤ any time I catch myslef being scared of entering the 30s i think of you and how fantastic and thriving you really are in every way, and it makes it more exciting than scary actually, so yeah you don't just make people laugh, you're really inspiring too, love youu ❤
the “ your 30s are the best years of your life” my parents always said that. I am 32 & I agree you- deff stop caring about a good amount of things you cared about in your 20s. But- I’m still not at the “ best years of my life” part yet lol.
I turned 30 in November so I know it hasn’t been long, but so far I’ve noticed how I feel way more comfortable in my own skin. Yes I still have insecurities, but it doesn’t feel as life ending if I get a pimple or my body isn’t the weight I want to be. Also, in my 20s I suffered a lot with my mental illness. In my late 20s to now I’ve learned how to manage my mental health better and actually enjoy the good times. 💜
can 100 % attest to that. I made a ton of mistakes in my 20s and when i was 29, i thought, enough is enough! I would say, i have turned my life around pretty much 180° and i couldn't be happier. I am also 31 and life has never been better, and i can say that without a shadow of a doubt. I can't wait the future holds :)
I'm now waaayyy past 30 (past 60...), but I clearly remember having a "deep and ponderable" (ha!) conversation with a buddy of mine when I was turning twenty-five. He said that a co-worker of his whose opinion he high valued had told him "you ain't shit until you're thirty". I scoffed at the time, but I didn't forget it and then when I turned thirty, I went "oooooohh, yeah..." And as the years roll by every decade has it's own ah-hah. You are a delightful woman at thirty-one, and I'm really enjoying these "let's talk about it" videos!
We need messages like this now with the Sephora kids lol, and in general anyone doing waaaay to much skin care to mask insecurities. Your life is gonna be ok!
I'm 29 now and have been saying a lot of this for about a year now, I'm so excited for 30! I'm still not psyched to be 30 before my fiancé! :'D but it's not actually a big deal obv :) Can't wait to see what 30's bring!
Wonderful words of wisdom! I feared hitting my 30s when I was in my 20s, but now I'm 35 and couldn't be happier.☺ You're so right - aging is growing. Every year is a new adventure and a new opportunity to become the best version of ourselves. Love your message!
We need more wholesome uplifting content like this in the world. Thank you Haylee for being brave enough to speak actual truth and not influencer moneymaking bs
I’ll be turning 41 this year. Lots of people say I’m finally confident & more me this year. So if it’s just hitting me at 40 & you’re 31, God help us with the confidence you’ll have at my age!
I’ll be 32 this year, and even though I’m still struggling with my mental health, I’m finding that my 30’s have been so freeing. I can be who I want to and if people don’t like that then they can leave. I don’t need people in my life telling me how to be, or who to be. We love you too!
I‘m 34 and i‘ve Never felt Stronger, better and the More beautiful than now . A Real Woman. We have so much power which is growing with us. Who run the world - Girls !😊
I graduates college at 22. Got married at 23. Bought a house and had my first kid at 25 and my second at 27. I got diagnosed with an autoimmune disease of Celiac at 29. My 20s were stressful to say the least. I am 35 now and I am the healthiest and happiest I've been in my adult life. I just celebrated my 12 year wedding anniversary to the love of my life of life. Our kids are now at great ages! We take fun trips. My husband and I go on dates and when we do we stay up until 3 in the morning! I love my 30s!!!
Yes!!! My 20s were a tumultuous time of building my life, amid insecurity. Now I am 32, we have our own home and about to have our 3rd baby. 💖 It's great feeling settled & secure. Of course life is never normal; there's always gonna be a curveball!! But now I'm grown enough to know what to do with it. 😊
i'm so happy for you ..i was stressed because i am 22 years old and i'm gonna start my first year of university next week
Congrats and keep livin and laughin mam
Celiac is difficult when you’re used to eating like usual and then have to be careful all the time with gluten. My sister has had it her whole life. Sounds like your staying strong tho ❤️
@HazardousBgirl yes! It was extremely hard at first! I had nearly 30 years of loving all things gluten under my belt. I still have times of self pity and certain events make having celiac really hard. But I was so sick before my diagnosis and feel so great now so I am grateful. I am sorry for your sister having celiac as a child has to be so challenging with all the birthday parties and activities.
This non-trolling “let’s talk about it”series, is so heartwarming
I'm 44 and life is so much easier to handle as you get older! Even as things get more complicated, you're a lot better equipped to handle it when you have more experience.
That’s so comforting to hear, thank you so much!
Idk im 41, and I'm not liking it. This year, my skin got much worse, huge undereye bags, etc. Plus, my joints started to get artritis or something, my fingers are in pain as well as my knees. I wanna be 35 again...
@@sashal1493I am 48. I only gets better, but you have to take care of your body. The vast majority, perhaps 98%, fail in that department and problems start in their 50s or even 40s.
Lol I was gonna say wait until 40s.. I still feel like I'm in my twenties emotionally, however intelligence, and sex just gets better as you get older!!!
❤same I feel I am the best me at 47
That, "you cant change people, they have to do it themself" hit deep because I used to always try to change people for the better but it never worked 😭❤
But what if both of them won't change at all?
I'm 24. Aging has always been a big scary thing to me, but a lot of my fear went away in the wake of my grandma's cancer. When she first got her diagnosis, she told me not to be sad for her, because she's lived a long full life, and did all the things she wanted to do. She's been all over the world and raised three boys, one of whom is my father. I realized that aging is a gift, and I hope I'm lucky enough to experience for a long time.
I'm 32 and still struggling. Unfortunately finances suck in still in major debt and it's not going to be fixed, probably till my 50s at this rate of inflation.
However I can and will agree with not caring about what others think.
This is pretty much my situation as well. We’ll get there! 👍🏼
I felt the same way when I turned 30. Now in my 40s, I realize that 40s is just like your 30s but double all the good things in your 30s-double the confidence, double the strength, etc. Enjoy this decade! It gets better 💕
This is great to hear. I'm 38, and so far my 30s have been a HUGE step up from my 20s. Can't wait to get to my 40s and lose the few fucks I have left to give. Hahaha
@@n.a.3071Just give them all to the most important things. Then there will be none left for the pointless shit.
@@n.a.3071 😅😅 so true, thr older I get the less I care. No time to maintain a bunch of shit
30s is prime time! I turned 50 last year. I feel like it keeps getting better. I love being 50.
Haley is having so much fun with these storytelling videos and I love them ❤
Haley inspires me.. My parents said if i get 70K followers They'd buy me a professional camera for recording..begging u guys , literally
Begging...
@@namantherockstar BRO STOP!!!
@namantherockstar OMG S-T-O-P
@@namantherockstar bruh when will you understand we know it’s a lieeeeee
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Turned 33 yesterday and while life doesn't magically get easier. I have felt a lot more confident in myself, while in my early twenties I was still finding myself and was insecure, I have a core group of friends now I know will be there for me through thick and thin, lost all those who either never cared or used me. I was someone afraid to grow old but now feel dumb for doing so.
THere was a study I read a few years ago (when I was about 35 and spiraling) that changed my life. They asked elderly men and women when they began to love themselves unconditionally and not care about what ppl thought. Men's answered averaged around 45 and women's averaged around 60. If it's going to happen anyway one day, why not start now? Get in early on the IDGAF train.
Are you single?
The older you get, the better life gets. You are definitely on the right track. Congratulations on all of your success!
Also 31 and I feel the same way! You're beautiful, witty, and amazing girl! Love this video 🥳
I'm at a point right now where I'm scared and excited to age. I'm super looking forward to the future but also terrified of how much time has already passed. I'm glad I believe in an afterlife, but the thought of dying leaving behind the people I love hurts me because I know that they're going to hurt. Being a human is complicated 👍👍
Also would love if you started working on a Smosh collab 😅😅
So true about the part about looking back on how I treated other people. All the times when I acted in a way that was rooted from a negative place (anger, pride, arrogance) are now all the things that replay in my mind - what the heck was I thinking.
Love this!! Thanks for the encouragement. 😊
Love this so much. these are things that have crossed my mind, but I feel like I’m still struggling to work through them/give them up. Especially the making people like you one. Needed to hear this all spoken out loud, I think it’s really gonna help me and a lot of other people. Amazing amazing amazing!! The “let’s talk about it” series is so refreshing and powerful and helpful!!
Ill be 30 in 2 months & im excited. I been learning more about myself & realizing alot of stuff doesnt matter. Stepping into this new chapter & just being grateful for what i do have and whats coming next🎉🎉🎉
1994 babies ftw
Queen shit was spoken today. Love you haley ❤️
100% correct! I am loving myself and enjoying my life so much more in my 30s.
Now when i date, i dgaf. I am who i am.
I still have challenges but i have more tools and confidence to handle them.
And most importantly, i understand happiness. I am responsible for my own happiness. And I'm not waiting for perfection to be happy.
Im obsessed with Haleys storytelling vids, LOVE YA GIRL
As a woman in my 20s, thank you!!! It's so nice to hear this ❤
I love everything about this video. Such a powerful and raw message ❤️
I NEEDED this. Thank you, babe. I’m 30 turning 31 this April and this made me feel so much better ❤❤
39 years old, it just keeps getting better ❤ we all live different lives, but I do feel like the 20’s for everyone has some pretty big challenges. Whether your path is to get married and have kids or to face childhood trauma and heal generational wounds, doing it freshly new to adulthood and on your own is hard no matter the path. By your 30s you’ve gotten to know yourself a bit more and hopefully fallen more in love with yourself so you can share that love with those around you ❤️
This was such a positive message. I love your content and your authenticity ❤
31 year old here, too. SO TRUE. I am more confident, happy, successful, loved, genuine, and content than I ever have been ❤
Are you available?
that sounds awesome. Good for you girl!
💯 true. I am 32 and I feel amazing beside my financial situation but other than that- spot on!
makes me feel validated in my excitement to turn 30! i’ve always heard the 30s are the best and i’m excited for it 🔥 just one more year to go 💪🏼✨
I needed to hear this ❤ thanks!
30, flirty and thriving! My mental health has gotten so much better almost on the day I turned 30. I feel free and powerful and I look better than ever
Same, girl! Same.
I am 32 and I feel so young and full of life. When I was in my early 20s, I thought 30 was when you are a serious and older person. But we are still young and beautiful.
I'm also not so obsessed with my weight anymore. I didn't weigh myself in over 6 months and I am a little bit scared to step on the scale, but I am ok.
I love your videos.
Stay amazing! ❤️
Where are you from?
@@ranger8435 I am from Serbia. :)
What about you?
Being 25 , I’m so happy you said that ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I’m ready ❤
Haley, you're so awesome, thank you for this ❤
Pleased continue this series I LOVE ITT
Honestly, I feel like being in your 20s is super stressful. Like, you go to college and have to establish a career at that time and you’re adjusting after being in school for over 12 years. And a lot of people get into relationships in their 20s and even might have kids! I feel like I would be happiest in my 30s. Though, I am a minor so I have no idea about anything like this.
Love you Haley, and to all my ladies, you’re doing great
I'm loving these let's talk about it videos
Omg haley i love u so much 😭
I am 25 and I am at the point where i am scared to go into thirties. Yea you are right. Compared to 5 years ago when I was 20, I grew a lot and I love how I have grown to be this person now!
I loveee loveee loveee these serious talks from yuhh...dk whyy ❤❤
you should continue this series :) you are such an inspiring and insightful person!!
WE LOVE YOU SO MUCHHH ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
STAY STRONG AS YOU ARE 💪 ✨️ 💓
i'm right now 16 and i've been having breakdowns left and right about turning 17 soon because I'm so afraid to grow up, because I've had to witness a lot of disturbing things at home that the adults in my family have to go through, but hearing this from you, I feel so much better about getting older and I'm actually feeling excited for once about getting older!
Just in my late 20s and i love hearing this from you ❤❤❤ any time I catch myslef being scared of entering the 30s i think of you and how fantastic and thriving you really are in every way, and it makes it more exciting than scary actually, so yeah you don't just make people laugh, you're really inspiring too, love youu ❤
the “ your 30s are the best years of your life” my parents always said that. I am 32 & I agree you- deff stop caring about a good amount of things you cared about in your 20s. But- I’m still not at the “ best years of my life” part yet lol.
I think you’re cute, are you available?
I had to rewatch the video like three times because I kept getting distracted by your beautiful hair haha -- thanks for the lovely advice!!
You are amazing and I love the confidence
You are simply amazing 😊❤.
Thank you for these words
So true!! Things are just clicking as I get older! Cheers to embracing aging!
This was very wholesome! Thanks :]
Ooh thanks i just turned 30! Looking forward to the future!
I hope I get to meet haley some day. She's so relatable, I think our personalities would go very well together.
With age comes maturity love this
Thank you for sharing this, Haley! I’m 29 and will be 30 this year. This really made me feel so much better 😭
You are drop dead gorgeous
I NEVER KNEW YOU WERE 31!!! your gorgeous babe❤ love you lots!
Perfect timing. People have literally asked me how I feel about my looks fading as I'm getting older, I'm 29.
Too true! 32 here and loving life! 🥳
As a 30-something year old, thank you for sharing, and for being here as an example for us on RUclips ❤❤❤
WE LOVE YOU HALEY❤️
I turned 30 in November so I know it hasn’t been long, but so far I’ve noticed how I feel way more comfortable in my own skin. Yes I still have insecurities, but it doesn’t feel as life ending if I get a pimple or my body isn’t the weight I want to be. Also, in my 20s I suffered a lot with my mental illness. In my late 20s to now I’ve learned how to manage my mental health better and actually enjoy the good times. 💜
I am 34 and life has never been better. Cheers from Warsaw/Poland - we love your sense of humour
i needed to hear this. i’m turning 30 this year and feel really bad about it.
I'm going through a break up. I believe he's nomore into me. And this time you came like a big sis
Thanks for your advice
Love this therapy Haley 💞🌟
You are so wise. I don’t mind being over 40 because I really don’t miss my clueless younger self lol
THANK YOU SO MUCH❤❤🎉
can 100 % attest to that. I made a ton of mistakes in my 20s and when i was 29, i thought, enough is enough! I would say, i have turned my life around pretty much 180° and i couldn't be happier. I am also 31 and life has never been better, and i can say that without a shadow of a doubt. I can't wait the future holds :)
Wait what
Womp womp
No clue🤣🤣
finally sum1 WHOS first
@@d1vine.. I’ve never been this early, it feels weird
@@d1vine.. also love the Nichelle pfp
Thank you! Really needed to hear this!
I'm now waaayyy past 30 (past 60...), but I clearly remember having a "deep and ponderable" (ha!) conversation with a buddy of mine when I was turning twenty-five. He said that a co-worker of his whose opinion he high valued had told him "you ain't shit until you're thirty". I scoffed at the time, but I didn't forget it and then when I turned thirty, I went "oooooohh, yeah..." And as the years roll by every decade has it's own ah-hah. You are a delightful woman at thirty-one, and I'm really enjoying these "let's talk about it" videos!
We need messages like this now with the Sephora kids lol, and in general anyone doing waaaay to much skin care to mask insecurities. Your life is gonna be ok!
I'm 29 now and have been saying a lot of this for about a year now, I'm so excited for 30! I'm still not psyched to be 30 before my fiancé! :'D but it's not actually a big deal obv :) Can't wait to see what 30's bring!
Wonderful words of wisdom! I feared hitting my 30s when I was in my 20s, but now I'm 35 and couldn't be happier.☺ You're so right - aging is growing. Every year is a new adventure and a new opportunity to become the best version of ourselves. Love your message!
Turning 25 soon and this is really comforting. Thank you Haley ❤ You’re the type of woman I want to be when I grow up. 😊
We need more wholesome uplifting content like this in the world. Thank you Haylee for being brave enough to speak actual truth and not influencer moneymaking bs
This is so generous of William, as he tolerates her process of aging so kindly ❤
I'm happy for you, you go girl 💘😘
I’ll be turning 41 this year. Lots of people say I’m finally confident & more me this year.
So if it’s just hitting me at 40 & you’re 31, God help us with the confidence you’ll have at my age!
I love being in my 30's. I call it leveling up! I'm about to be level 33!❤
✨Happy birthday✨☺️☺️
I’ll be 32 this year, and even though I’m still struggling with my mental health, I’m finding that my 30’s have been so freeing. I can be who I want to and if people don’t like that then they can leave. I don’t need people in my life telling me how to be, or who to be. We love you too!
I'm 33 and fully approve this message!
Love your Vids❤❤❤
You should make playlist "Let's Talk About It"
This side of you is cute, still your comedy is one of the best
Love you sm❤
“Every year older is a year smarter.”
-Haley
Love this!
I'm saving it and going to listen to it as morning affirmations...
46 , been though stage 3 cancer un 2020 , in remission 🎉 loving life at this age ...
Oh wow respect.... I have never known your name just the girl on Disney but I got to say. mad props. Awesome, the cute girl that actually got it.
It was so good Haley...
You never fail at making me feel better❤️
I’m 35 I felt this fr
I love this Haley 🤍🤍🤍
You literally so pretty I've always thought your in your early 20s
The best slaying youtuber in the world. Hiiii. I never know! Happy burthday
Honestly, Thank you ❤.
This might be my favorite video of her so far
I agree, everything is better after you are 30. I prefer it to my 20’s so far.❤
I‘m 34 and i‘ve Never felt Stronger, better and the More beautiful than now . A Real Woman. We have so much power which is growing with us.
Who run the world
- Girls !😊
OMG!!!! You look SOOOOOO good for a 30 year old, you my FAVVVVVVV🫢