This man tried to break into my apartment 4 times this week

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  • Опубликовано: 29 апр 2024

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  • @bethg8763
    @bethg8763 Месяц назад +5753

    Put up a photo of him with a message in the lobby to inform others and also on the inside of the door facing out (assuming it’s glass), so when he comes back he can see his face. It could scare him off if he knows everyone in the building is aware of who he is and what he’s doing. If others in the building are concerned, you could consider collectively hiring a security guard, even if it’s temporary.

    • @Imsortofnewhere
      @Imsortofnewhere Месяц назад +121

      Thats a good idea

    • @Hahaidkanything
      @Hahaidkanything Месяц назад +84

      That's a really good idea

    • @bellavita4048
      @bellavita4048 29 дней назад +227

      Yes and a large Photo on the front door with the words "Do NOT allow this criminal (stole package, Harassment) in the building and POLICE are notified and coming for you"

    • @Ariel-lol
      @Ariel-lol 29 дней назад

      @@bellavita4048agree

    • @yuhz1m1
      @yuhz1m1 29 дней назад +31

      This is actually a really good idea.

  • @iiselinq
    @iiselinq 26 дней назад +1510

    haley, please take this small advice: do NOT call a psychopath your ANYTHING, and certainly not your stalker. calling them that gives them a sense of ownership or possessiveness and makes them feel like they’re succeeding or whatever. it may encourage their behavior.

    • @therealmishkin
      @therealmishkin 26 дней назад

      I don’t think they are stalking her. There are at least two men involved. This is a pre-meditated robbery or kidnapping. They are trying to physically get to her to get access to her banking information or to traffic her. It’s not a crazy person thinking he loves Haley, this is a criminal enterprise coming after her.

    • @KateCarew
      @KateCarew 23 дня назад +88

      I was thinking that too
      People like this already suffer delusions that there’s a connection and now there’s an entire video
      He could potentially see/hear this and think she’s thinking about me, she made an entire video about me…she noticed me.
      Chilling.

    • @mandacantu
      @mandacantu 22 дня назад +41

      Came here to say this! I really hope she sees this. Informing us is great but for anyone dealing with this, do not call anyone "my stalker" as it can cause these creeps to feel special and continue stalking you. Refer to them as losers, creeps, scumbags, shitstains, but nothing with "my" attached. Also, as much as it sucks, don't go into detail publicly about feeling scared or unsafe. Some of these creeps feel power in being able to scare us and it sucks. Keeping you in my thoughts!

    • @stealthis
      @stealthis 20 дней назад +6

      Doing nothing also encourages their behavior

    • @amybishop666
      @amybishop666 20 дней назад +4

      Whattttttt 😮
      I've never heard this but it makes so much sense

  • @lolacookie453
    @lolacookie453 26 дней назад +1236

    The fact that you said “please stop, this is making me incredibly fearful” probably added fuel to his sick fire. Do not show fear, these sick stalkers thrive on feeling powerful over someone.
    Document every single thing: day/time/location/camera footage. Have your neighbors do the same. Get a restraining order.
    When leaving your building do not have earphones on, do not look at your phone, be alert of your surroundings and if possible, be accompanied.
    Ughhh I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I had a stalker at my gym, made my life a living hell. I’m South American so by nature I’m super friendly but during that time I became paranoid, distant and cold. Most torturous of all I didn’t even know what my stalker looked like, so could have been anyone. You are armed with knowing what this creep looks like, so feel empowered about that. Do not let him rob you of your power, joy or peace of mind.
    Praying you are promptly able to put a stop to this! 🙏❤️🙏❤️

    • @thundasc
      @thundasc 26 дней назад +15

      In all jurisdictions that I am aware of you need to have a name to get a restraining order. Which makes having the police ID the guy even more important.

    • @jacquigonzalez5447
      @jacquigonzalez5447 26 дней назад +15

      Sadly, this video was probably thrilling for him. Privacy is golden, people.

    • @jeriwoodrow5855
      @jeriwoodrow5855 24 дня назад +4

      She can’t get a restraining order because she would have to serve him the paperwork before court, it truly SUCKS!

    • @GingeRenee
      @GingeRenee 24 дня назад +6

      Solid advice. Documenting everything is super important.

    • @JohnJones-of5ze
      @JohnJones-of5ze 24 дня назад +1

      I know I feed off the tears of my daughter

  • @Apurwasp
    @Apurwasp 27 дней назад +457

    Anyone else feel that the stalker stole the package so that when he comes back again and Haley asks for the package he can show it as a cover and break in? Stay safe Haley.

    • @RayOSunshine98
      @RayOSunshine98 24 дня назад +35

      Or he could show anyone who lives there /staff the package and get let in…

    • @rosyapplekitchen635
      @rosyapplekitchen635 23 дня назад +4

      So true

    • @soulfulkat
      @soulfulkat 23 дня назад +9

      This needs to be upvoted

    • @EvilMadness666
      @EvilMadness666 23 дня назад +19

      even if he brings it back or places it in front of your door - DON'T OPEN IT. Bring it to the police immediately.

    • @justsummers1559
      @justsummers1559 20 дней назад +1

      ​@EvilMadness666 scary 😢

  • @TheMorganGibson
    @TheMorganGibson Месяц назад +5798

    Girl you NEED to carry pepper spray or some sort of defense tool when you leave your apartment EVERY TIME just in case!! I am so thankful your apartment has excellent security features because if it didn't I dont even want to imagine what would happen to you. Just please be careful and aware of your surroundings every time you leave your apartment💖

    • @Forevergreenclover
      @Forevergreenclover Месяц назад +206

      Also, I know you get a lot of private messages on social media. But dig through as much as you can, chances are he’s probably messaged you. You might find his identity or at least clues.

    • @NathanVlogzOfficial
      @NathanVlogzOfficial Месяц назад +16

      This is true

    • @emilia4_
      @emilia4_ Месяц назад +37

      I'm so sick of those people. why do they exist? why are they the way they are? also, in some places, bringing or using pepper spray is considered carrying a weapon and the person having it for self-defense can be fined. :"(

    • @user-pp1wm7ju4m
      @user-pp1wm7ju4m Месяц назад +6

      hey u forgot moms flying slipper

    • @JK-tl8ih
      @JK-tl8ih 29 дней назад

      She looks like a sexy Tomb Raider, she’d kick his ass. Joking aside, that is scary, women can’t even be safe in their apartments. As a heterosexual male it makes me sick

  • @Lulu-lt7ft
    @Lulu-lt7ft Месяц назад +5177

    I used to think Americans are crazy for carrying guns, but now I actually think I'd own one if I lived in America. So dangerous.

    • @Jsrxfo999
      @Jsrxfo999 Месяц назад +181

      that's the safest option you never know when you need it

    • @just42tube
      @just42tube Месяц назад

      ​@@Jsrxfo999The more cuns there are at people's hands the more they get used. Not a solution. More like escalation.
      But Americans don't understanding simple logic, they are believers of strange beliefs.

    • @Lulu-lt7ft
      @Lulu-lt7ft Месяц назад +88

      @@Jsrxfo999 with thugs like that around, definitely.

    • @garhent
      @garhent Месяц назад +111

      When I look at Paris and London I'm so glad I live in America and don't have to worry about getting shot, beat, stabbed and acid burned and be unable to defend myself and face charges for protecting myself.

    • @Lulu-lt7ft
      @Lulu-lt7ft Месяц назад +64

      @@garhent that is fair, I moved from London to one of the safest Catholic countries in the world. I didn’t want to raise my children in London. It is expensive and crime ridden.

  • @juliet1863
    @juliet1863 29 дней назад +560

    That’s not a stalker that’s someone with a plan to harm. Maybe you should move place for a while, that’s concerning for you to even be traveling to your home there. Keep safe ❤

    • @therealmishkin
      @therealmishkin 26 дней назад +48

      Yeah it’s pretty clear they are trying to access her physically, that’s why they came at night and didn’t run away when talking to her.

    • @jacquigonzalez5447
      @jacquigonzalez5447 26 дней назад +6

      Leave town, now.

    • @v.j.3029
      @v.j.3029 25 дней назад +8

      They look like they might be squatters. If you never answer, they think nobody lives there and break-in to take possession of the place. Unfortunately, the crazy laws give them that right.

    • @nightmode5000
      @nightmode5000 22 дня назад

      ​@@v.j.3029 can people squat in an apartment?

    • @AmmaLove24
      @AmmaLove24 22 дня назад +6

      Yes they definitely have a plan to harm.

  • @bakaichigo
    @bakaichigo 29 дней назад +135

    Stalker or human trafficking behavior... Whoever that is, they are not well and not safe to be around. The guy 1000000000% knew he was there for shady sh1t. IF its something else, it's likely a really stupid package thief hoping that repeated attempts to get in will net him some package that's worth money.... but my bet is on trafficking/kidnapping by the way the guy attempted to grab the other girl who came out. So sorry you're dealing with that but so glad you live somewhere secure enough to protect you! I can't imagine the fear that must give you to live with

    • @whos.mayy13
      @whos.mayy13 29 дней назад +6

      i bet the same thing. but i doubt its just a package thief if he tried to grab that girl

    • @samia6888
      @samia6888 27 дней назад +9

      Yes grabbing the girl is a major red flag

    • @taylorfrink1182
      @taylorfrink1182 26 дней назад +11

      that def isnt how human trafficking works generally. trafficking is more often than not a grooming situation by someone who knows the woman is vulnerable (from an abusive home, addicted to substances, etc) and take advantage of that- very very rarely would anyone try to traffick someone so recognizable and through forcible kidnapping. kidnapping for personal sick purposes is much more likely

    • @carolin2220
      @carolin2220 25 дней назад

      @@taylorfrink1182it may not be the most common method, but it still happens, especially since she is well known.

    • @KateCarew
      @KateCarew 23 дня назад +1

      Dude, it’s not always “human trafficking” ffs.
      This is a STALKER. And they are dangerous.
      Why do people just latch onto buzzwords.

  • @Abcdefghijk920
    @Abcdefghijk920 Месяц назад +4931

    I am so tired of us women dealing with this shit from crazy men!!

    • @Sandra-1wiq
      @Sandra-1wiq Месяц назад +224

      Exactly, then watch other men will complain that women have it easier.

    • @thErianxOscar
      @thErianxOscar Месяц назад +112

      It can go both ways but its creepy asf when u stalk someone..

    • @DannyMancheno
      @DannyMancheno Месяц назад +56

      I’m also tired of women dealing with this! I got family who im worried for.

    • @plipy101
      @plipy101 Месяц назад +18

      @@Sandra-1wiq so you're claiming that women have it harder?

    • @plipy101
      @plipy101 Месяц назад +57

      "crazy men" "us women" sounds pretty soloed out and sexist.

  • @MonserratWade
    @MonserratWade Месяц назад +2675

    I remembered in one of her videos she was talking about her favorite bagel or something, and someone commented that she should be more careful because she was saying that place was super close to her building. It’s not her fault but sadly right now, we have to be more careful with the information that we share on social media. Please be safe 💕

    • @goodrabbi7176
      @goodrabbi7176 Месяц назад +148

      Spoken like someone who wasn’t alive before FB.
      It is absolutely stupid and crazy to be putting any information about yourself on the internet, in general.
      “Look at me!!!! I’m on vacation in Cabo!”
      Aaaand come home to a house that has been robbed.

    • @themagicknightress7132
      @themagicknightress7132 Месяц назад +225

      And the big window in her apartment is probably pretty easy to spot

    • @CalamityCJ
      @CalamityCJ Месяц назад

      That was my thought 😩​@@themagicknightress7132

    • @Evilfairy188
      @Evilfairy188 Месяц назад +68

      @@goodrabbi7176 Hahah I was thinking the same thing. It's never been safe to put your information on the internet.

    • @sticcwithmeg
      @sticcwithmeg Месяц назад +130

      I commented on the bagel video! Between her tagging businesses that are close by, and the fact that she has a super distinct living room window, I’m sure a local could easily locate her building. Wouldn’t be hard to tell which unit # was hers based on that. Not to mention if it’s a rental, her floor plan is probably available online.

  • @danieia4029
    @danieia4029 20 дней назад +67

    Why doesn’t such an expensive building have a security concierge?

    • @Vineethajojo
      @Vineethajojo 14 дней назад

      She pays 17,000 for rent so she might be lying to gain sympathy because she lost so many followers

    • @fabiosabzevari1333
      @fabiosabzevari1333 6 дней назад +3

      The doorman was eating cake.

    • @Justice4JIMMY
      @Justice4JIMMY 4 дня назад

      @@fabiosabzevari1333 bro stfu your not funny at all, plus, yall r such crybabies. yall are acting like "IM MELTING, MELTING!!!!" witch from the wizard of oz movie over an audio? grow up damn.

  • @smeyer6960
    @smeyer6960 29 дней назад +84

    This is terrifying. I am worried for you! I am so glad that you are sharing the man's face with RUclips, because at least there is a public record of what is happening. More than anything, I hope he stops! Wishing you so much safety Haley!

  • @bellamin4549
    @bellamin4549 Месяц назад +1637

    Girl! I have had 3 stalkers, all men I don’t know (one when I was 8, one when I was 17 and one at 24). They only stop when they’re behind bars. Stay with someone else until they find him because he will be back. He knows the camera is there and he doesn’t care. You probably don’t wanna find out what was in that bag.

    • @doclinny
      @doclinny Месяц назад +167

      Oh my god 8?! What is with men :( I hope you're doing better now and stalker free

    • @Jia-po2uf
      @Jia-po2uf Месяц назад +98

      Girlll fr but w women i got stalked by 2 women when i was 6 and they SA'd me n everything but no1 took it serious bc they were women 💀

    • @Jia-po2uf
      @Jia-po2uf Месяц назад

      ​@@doclinny its a sh1t human thing not a man thing lmao

    • @heyhowboutnah7602
      @heyhowboutnah7602 Месяц назад +95

      After watching baby reindeer, I am now realizing I got stalked too by a woman ( I am a woman myself) and I distinctly remember my Dad telling me, ' You are so lucky she is a woman, if he was a man this would be stalking.' That shit hurts and has stayed with me for a very long time.

    • @Jia-po2uf
      @Jia-po2uf Месяц назад +72

      @@heyhowboutnah7602 omg same. Women being stalkers is NEVER taken seriously enough and its so exhausting

  • @TheMorganGibson
    @TheMorganGibson Месяц назад +4737

    That is extremely terrifying Haley!!! Please stay safe. We all love you and I am sending my thoughts and prayers to you during this time 😭❤

    • @OyLorelai
      @OyLorelai Месяц назад +57

      Why does he look like Brad 😭

    • @NathanVlogzOfficial
      @NathanVlogzOfficial Месяц назад +29

      @@OyLorelaiI thought he looked like the guy from up 💀

    • @strawberrysal910
      @strawberrysal910 Месяц назад +38

      Fr this is terrifying
      I would be scared for my life if I lived alone and someone kept trying to break in my apartment 😭

    • @julianne_highonfalsehope
      @julianne_highonfalsehope Месяц назад +10

      hi morgan!! love you :)

    • @TheMorganGibson
      @TheMorganGibson Месяц назад +3

      @@julianne_highonfalsehope hi julianne, ily2 :)

  • @jamesa5720
    @jamesa5720 29 дней назад +48

    Sad that the authorities cannot or will not help you and arrest this man. Here in the South, he still might break in, but only about two steps in before his breaking in days would rapidly come to an end.

    • @nunyabiz3557
      @nunyabiz3557 28 дней назад +8

      She waited until after the third time, they said CALL IMMEDIATELY- she didn’t- she waited until he was gone. If she’d called as soon as he showed up, they might’ve been able to catch him. This is not the fault of NYPD

    • @ASty09
      @ASty09 27 дней назад +4

      @@nunyabiz3557she literally mentioned that the 4th time he came, she called the police immediately

    • @nunyabiz3557
      @nunyabiz3557 27 дней назад +3

      @@ASty09 nope… immediately AFTER he left

    • @JesusWayTruthLife_King
      @JesusWayTruthLife_King 26 дней назад +6

      New York?? Serious criminals are being let out of prison in CA & likely it’s the same in Liberal NY.
      I’d move in with friends or family for a month & monitor the situation. Even if you had a Restraining Order, he would likely not stop. All action must be taken by you to protect yourself. Do not anticipate that Police will be there to protect you.

    • @vanessadunlap6931
      @vanessadunlap6931 26 дней назад

      On point!

  • @nessmarroquin5717
    @nessmarroquin5717 27 дней назад +22

    I've been stalked twice, its a horrifying experience. I am so sorry youre dealing with that. Hopefully it's resolved soon and it stops!

  • @securemindsetofficial
    @securemindsetofficial Месяц назад +498

    Miss, this is coming from a security professional and personal private security. Please contact someone from a private protection service. I'm in a different area of the world. But I can bring you in contact with a protection provider, I'm surprised that someone of your stature doesn't have protection yet. - Greetings, secure mindset.

    • @florencepierce1864
      @florencepierce1864 23 дня назад +25

      👍Good for you! Sad, today women & girls face the same stuff as the past. The difference: Ppl listen, laws help & we're challenging victim shaming.

    • @pure_white57
      @pure_white57 21 день назад +4

      Your right contacting for protection is good but I think the reason she doesn't have any guards or assistants is cause they would be freaked out by her TikTok video's😂

    • @mirofeya
      @mirofeya 18 дней назад +4

      She's so sure that building security is enough that she showed her full address and unique window of her apartment in the video. Everyone knows her location for a year now. She became more popular for the last 6 months and is still oblivious to the fact she's doxxed herself and continues to shoot videos in front of her house.

  • @Scarene
    @Scarene Месяц назад +1507

    Talk to that girlfriend and get info from her about the perp! Tell everyone that this a repeated offense so that they dont accidentally let him in again (have a buddy system going in/out). I would also have someone stay with you until this man is caught and taken in. Safty in numbers!

    • @sarbearr4
      @sarbearr4 Месяц назад +90

      THIS POST HIS PICTURE AT THE DOOR LABEL IT "DANGEROUS DO NOT LET IN"

    • @LailaShippy
      @LailaShippy Месяц назад +3

      @@sarbearr4YESSSSS

    • @tyriaxepheles7996
      @tyriaxepheles7996 28 дней назад +24

      Also take that screenshot of the man and make flyers that you put in and around the building saying this man is a stalker and potentially dangerous. Even if he is your stalker, he tried to grab another woman, so he's a security risk for everyone

    • @andromedaspark2241
      @andromedaspark2241 26 дней назад +8

      He also grabbed her. The girlfriend could press charges, give the police a better excuse to grab him. They can get weird about not deterring stalkers.

  • @thechels3454
    @thechels3454 29 дней назад +10

    I’m am so sorry this happened !! I’m glad you shared with your neighbors and everyone. You are not alone !!! God this all must feel so icky I’m sorry

  • @elisabeth73
    @elisabeth73 29 дней назад +10

    Sorry you have to go through this. You are strong and a beautiful human beeing. I will pray that he will go away.

  • @LauraRyanSays
    @LauraRyanSays Месяц назад +889

    Stalking laws need to be updated and more strict!! It’s absolutely terrible that ppl are allowed to stalk, and not be punished before they actually commit some act of violence.
    On a related note, the same goes for online stalking… such that people can start an online campaign against someone, release unauthorized, comprising photos, etc.
    Hope this gets resolved ASAP, Haley… this is terrible.

    • @Spikethepurpledragon-gr6rn
      @Spikethepurpledragon-gr6rn Месяц назад +6

      I agree

    • @aureliaavalon
      @aureliaavalon 27 дней назад +7

      What are these lawmakers doing, they're using their degrees and masters for nothing

    • @marymystery4427
      @marymystery4427 27 дней назад +5

      ​@aureliaavalon
      They're banning mobile apps

    • @Slasla1610
      @Slasla1610 27 дней назад

      You know what no one cares. You are viewed as a economic and labour than a human being to the society. Finally it all comes to our end when someone become a victim. We give these people chance to become criminal.

    • @parkchithung2672
      @parkchithung2672 26 дней назад

      But what if I start stalking the stalker I would be caught immediately lol 😆 😅 😂 🤔

  • @emb5091
    @emb5091 Месяц назад +809

    Damn! This person is a threat to everyone in the building! What worries me now is that this person may wait nearby for you or any woman who leaves that building! Please protect yourself....be ready with pepper spray, sharp pen, anything! Maybe everyone in the building can pitch in on getting a security guard to sit/stand inside or even in a car in front of building until this person is caught.

    • @LexiKapono
      @LexiKapono 26 дней назад +6

      MY FIRST THOUGHT!!! She needs a security guard! Not kidding! This is so fucking scary!!!!

  • @sarahlizk4852
    @sarahlizk4852 27 дней назад +6

    Please stay safe!!! I just watched your apartment tour video on facebook, which stated how easy it would be to locate your apartment… Then I googled you and found this video! Very scary! 😬 Please hire security and get these guys arrested ASAP!!!

  • @saileekalekar708
    @saileekalekar708 27 дней назад +3

    Damn girl
    Be safe
    You’re strong
    Love you🤍

  • @EllingtonBean
    @EllingtonBean Месяц назад +963

    Haley, please stay safe, it’s actually terrifying that you aren’t joking, please genuinely keep yourself safe

  • @LyneDayes
    @LyneDayes Месяц назад +326

    I'm so sorry this happened. Maybe you and the other tenants can hire a security guard for the lobby seeing as the man put his hands on someone exiting the building.

    • @medusawitchful
      @medusawitchful 27 дней назад +10

      Expensive apartment supposed to have one or two tho. My apartment don’t expensive but we have two security

  • @madisonkelley94
    @madisonkelley94 26 дней назад +1

    Omg I'm so sorry! This is terrifying! I hope that they are found amd held accountable! Everyone deserves to feel safe in their own home 😭♥️

  • @Alex_Seegull
    @Alex_Seegull 18 дней назад +2

    Haley, I’m so worried for you and I hope that man won’t come back again. Sending you thoughts and prayers ❤️

  • @Potatoesslayofc
    @Potatoesslayofc Месяц назад +235

    The fact like he’s just RIGHT AT THE DOOR is TERRIFYING imagine feeling trapped within your home because of some fucking weirdo with no integrity or manners

    • @minor1822
      @minor1822 26 дней назад +5

      surprised she doesn't have a lobby with a doorman, isn't her apartment huge

    • @Potatoesslayofc
      @Potatoesslayofc 26 дней назад

      @@minor1822 idk man either way it’s wild

  • @joannecraft9842
    @joannecraft9842 Месяц назад +432

    Get some wasp spray. It can shoot up to 25 yards away. Pepper spray, they have to be closer to spray. I would make absolutely sure the door after the elevator is always locked.

    • @bswezea
      @bswezea Месяц назад +13

      I was about to suggest the same thing to her.

    • @chillout1109
      @chillout1109 Месяц назад +1

      How does wasp spray stop people from knocking on your door?

    • @eraldadevole
      @eraldadevole Месяц назад +23

      It isn’t for that OBVIOUSLY 😓 he can attack when she’s trying to enter her home or leave for example, just like he did with her friend

    • @blub3260
      @blub3260 Месяц назад

      Tbf in NYC that might not be the best thing..

    • @TheRealCora
      @TheRealCora 29 дней назад +6

      You can get in trouble for this, if used on humans it can be considered assault. Self defense items have to be made for that and legal in your state. Bear spray is illegal to use on humans as well

  • @andsoNiasays
    @andsoNiasays 27 дней назад +5

    this is so scary. stay safe girl! i’m sorry that you are going through this and hopefully he is caught soon.

  • @ChristineMBond
    @ChristineMBond 28 дней назад +1

    So sorry you were going through this. I’m only liking it so that more people can see it. I do not like that you have someone behaving in a way that makes it feel unsafe to be in your own home. 😔

  • @sherryllynnminarik989
    @sherryllynnminarik989 Месяц назад +287

    You should stay with someone until the police sort this out. Press charges against these people.

    • @Bearedd
      @Bearedd Месяц назад

      Police in liberal states are useless. Even if they detain him, they’ll just release him back into the streets

    • @chillout1109
      @chillout1109 Месяц назад +1

      What charges?

    • @taiyabazaheer9492
      @taiyabazaheer9492 Месяц назад +16

      ​@@chillout1109stalking troll, stalking

    • @bellavita4048
      @bellavita4048 29 дней назад +33

      @@chillout1109 He STOLE a package on video, didn't you see that?? Also more serious is stalking and Harassment is a criminal violation and Assault if he grabbed that girl by the arm leaving the building. And Trespassing, so at least 4 Violations

    • @Jade_Li
      @Jade_Li 26 дней назад +2

      Yall do realize you have to know a persons name to press charges, right? If he comes agin she needs to call the police, they will obtain his name

  • @emmsya
    @emmsya Месяц назад +192

    Haley one of the things you should do right now is to have someone stay with you, this is genuinely concerning

    • @alfonzo7822
      @alfonzo7822 27 дней назад +17

      Or stay with someone so she's not around the apartment for a while. What a creep 😔

    • @marias.wainwright3481
      @marias.wainwright3481 27 дней назад +14

      Yeah I'd stay clear of the appartment altogether if I was her. This doesn't look like just stalking.

  • @Mitochondrialoi
    @Mitochondrialoi 27 дней назад +2

    I’m glad you are taking this so seriously. I hope you stay safe!

  • @TheBreechie
    @TheBreechie 27 дней назад +3

    This is utterly distressing to hear - Please be safe Hayley and don’t be afraid to speak or act on this should it happen again… You’re incredibly popular and beautiful, it’s not outside the realm of possibility that he could be a very unhealthy person who is stalking you…. Please stay safe, girl! I’ll be thinking of you and sending wishes of security and safety your way xox

  • @bubblegirl55
    @bubblegirl55 Месяц назад +353

    hi, i think this is a thought-out/pre-planned attempted kidnapping. You/anybody in your situation is lucky that nobody was in direct contact with those creeps and didn't *actually* get kidnapped. I would suggest buying more security items/safety gears. Snice you are a social media star/influencer(you are moving places due to collabing with other ppl, etc ) those weirdos are noticing your schedules/tracking your moves, its adds even more/ extra-layer of creppines. I am genuinely scared for your safety and well being. And pls call the cops right then and there, its better to be safe than to be sorry.

    • @primemover1416
      @primemover1416 28 дней назад +45

      OMG! After reading your post, what if this guy watched the shorts and thinks there really is a billionaire boyfriend and is trying to kidnap her for a hefty ransom? Weirder things have happened.

    • @therealmishkin
      @therealmishkin 26 дней назад

      I think it’s a robbery, but they are clearly intending to get to her physically. That’s why they are coming at night - they figured she’s more likely to be home and may open the door because she’s tired. They are also not running away when they realize she’s home, which means they want to get to Haley to probably make her empty her bank accounts and open the safe if she has one. Unless their intentions are worse than that…

    • @life_lived_well_8
      @life_lived_well_8 25 дней назад +12

      The fact that he was texting someone the first time he came by was very strange. This does feel a little bit beyond stalker.

    • @garydagg9112
      @garydagg9112 24 дня назад +6

      ⁠@@life_lived_well_8I’m not too sure. These seems like very typical stalker behaviour. It’s not well thought out if it was a kidnapping.
      In my mind tho stalkers are more dangerous. They are delusional. Like in my mind the stalker doesn’t see the skits about William (fake billionaire) and think kidnap, more like he sees the mistreatment and he can “save” her etc.
      Seriously get a gun (failing that a taser or pepper spray). If it’s kidnap attempt he’s failed 4 times so might as well give up, a stalker will more than likely be back.

    • @annabellakostic3653
      @annabellakostic3653 23 дня назад +1

      Haley u should read this ❤️

  • @BeccaReyn78
    @BeccaReyn78 Месяц назад +496

    I’m so sorry, that must’ve been scary. Glad you’re safe and hope they catch that man.❤️🫶🏾

  • @schadenfreudeegoism7485
    @schadenfreudeegoism7485 28 дней назад +5

    Please stay safe!!!! God will protect u! I’m praying

  • @rathasri4060
    @rathasri4060 27 дней назад

    Sending so much love and prayers 🥺🙏🏼❤️❤️ I apologize for just seeing this stay safe x

  • @theselfscourge
    @theselfscourge Месяц назад +217

    I thought the exaggerated title was another humorous video of yours but I see that unfortunately this is real so I hope this situation is resolved and that you are fine
    Greetings from a fan from another country

  • @LunarRisingFilms
    @LunarRisingFilms Месяц назад +221

    Get ANGRY about this and NOT SCARED. Take all precautions to not be alone and when you are walking outside of your building, stay vigilant. Have purpose when you walk and do NOT text while walking in the street. Focus, Haley!

    • @lelabell
      @lelabell 24 дня назад

      Bravo! That's the right advice!

  • @NotChloeRoblox666
    @NotChloeRoblox666 28 дней назад

    That’s crazy Haley! I hope nothing happens to you! We love youuuuuu

  • @fluffycat2728
    @fluffycat2728 29 дней назад

    I’m so very sorry that this has happened and you don’t feel safe. I hope this can be dealt with as quickly as possible and everything is okay.❤

  • @Yavi-UGH
    @Yavi-UGH Месяц назад +117

    I hope she has people with her so she’s not alone, well wishes.

    • @NathanVlogzOfficial
      @NathanVlogzOfficial Месяц назад +1

      She sadly doesn’t

    • @hannu933
      @hannu933 Месяц назад +5

      Yes I think Haley lives alone 😭😭

    • @sarathomas8499
      @sarathomas8499 27 дней назад +1

      ​@@hannu933i legot thought she was married

    • @hannu933
      @hannu933 27 дней назад

      @@sarathomas8499 she was!!! Now she’s divorced 😮

    • @sarathomas8499
      @sarathomas8499 27 дней назад

      @@hannu933 hold up when did this happen

  • @hollybrooke322
    @hollybrooke322 Месяц назад +59

    You are not safe. Please take all precautions possible. This is terrifying and very serious.

  • @ghostbusterindisguise7623
    @ghostbusterindisguise7623 17 дней назад +9

    Everyone is scared of getting cancelled so I doubt she knew what “ let them eat cake” meant and the meaning behind that phrase. I think she was just following the trend for that sound effect. I like to think the general population are not heartless swine over the plight of other humans.

    • @KewalinaVlogs
      @KewalinaVlogs 15 дней назад

      I think that must be the case. I just undershorts the meaning as I read your comment. Thanks for the clarification!

    • @princessmorebucks
      @princessmorebucks 11 дней назад

      She's an adult, intelligent woman. She knows what that phrase means. She's just out of touch. Telling us to eat cake from her penthouse.

  • @justtarandomnerd
    @justtarandomnerd 12 дней назад +1

    I HOPE YOUR FINE HALEY😭♥️ this is disgusting behaviour and im sure he doesn't jave amy good intentions you should file a case against him..and please look out sending prayers and love🥺💕

  • @Josie_Peters
    @Josie_Peters Месяц назад +18

    Praying and thinking of you through all of this Hayley. It's absolutely awful to be put in such an uncomfortable and scary situation. Just remember you have 6million subscribers and were all here with, and for you xx

  • @anmorgan3129
    @anmorgan3129 Месяц назад +52

    Please be careful! And carry something with you to ward him off. I know here in NYC its illegal but please...be safe 🙏🏾

  • @NewLeafGuitarist
    @NewLeafGuitarist 28 дней назад +13

    This is terrifying- but idk if anyone noticed that she said "the first time they came over was April 19" and then goes to say they come back 2 days later on april 1st 💀
    She probably just had a brain fart, but my timeline of this whole thing is confusing

    • @carissarcarrie9445
      @carissarcarrie9445 27 дней назад +6

      I think she meant the 21st because in a situation like this I would be nervous too and probably not think straight

    • @NewLeafGuitarist
      @NewLeafGuitarist 27 дней назад

      @carissarcarrie9445 most likely! Good way to connect it lol
      Like I said, brainfart XD hope they eventually get figured out tho

  • @katherinegibson1076
    @katherinegibson1076 29 дней назад +1

    Please be safe..
    This is a terrifying situation....😢
    PROTECT YOURSELF!!!..

  • @NS-fz1im
    @NS-fz1im Месяц назад +16

    Ugh you’re beautiful and funny and smart and there are evil people in this world who want to dim the light you shine! Protect yourself, I’m almost 40 and was stalked by a man I once dated and it wrecked me. Nobody should feel unsafe. Keep calling for help, keep showing his face, stay loud. Stay safe, you deserve to feel safe at home. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Pip29AGGGTM
    @Pip29AGGGTM Месяц назад +41

    This isn't even creepy, this is downright terrifying. Stay safe Haley❤❤❤ (Also, be very careful about what you post, who knows if that dude is watching it and recognizes the location, and goes there)

  • @RensinkRamblings
    @RensinkRamblings 28 дней назад

    Oh goodness. Please be so so safe. This is scary. I don’t think you should go out alone even. ❤

  • @PolishAndPoly
    @PolishAndPoly 23 дня назад

    Sending you all my love and strength. I’m so tired of us going through this, it’s creepy and disgusting and weird.
    I know this literally is so random and has nothing to do with the situation, but I’m hoping it can make you smile and distract you for a second. I run a small press on business to care for my mother and I wanted to send you a free set (I promise you, it’ll be unlike anything you’ve ever worn before). I’ve been trying to for over a year now and I feel like right now maybe that’s something that will make you smile. 😊

  • @Idonotknowwhattowriteheretbh
    @Idonotknowwhattowriteheretbh Месяц назад +113

    Im so sorry this is happening to you. Stay safe!

  • @TY-gj6fb
    @TY-gj6fb 28 дней назад +6

    HALEY
    They know its creepy and wrong
    THEY DONT CARE
    when he was at the door, instead of talking to him, you had the chance of calling the police at that moment!!!!
    THIS IS NOT TO SHAME YOU IN ANY WAY
    that’s just how i was taught growing up, NEVER MAKE CONTACT WITH THEM.
    THEY ARENT WORTH YOUR TIME.
    Jail is where they belong as to not hurt another person again

  • @Reidkathryn
    @Reidkathryn 24 дня назад +1

    Haley I’m praying for you. Stay safe. ❤

  • @keepingitrealalwaysdxb
    @keepingitrealalwaysdxb Месяц назад +24

    Get security for a while girl, protect yourself please! Praying for your safety 🙏🏽

  • @heyits_kat
    @heyits_kat Месяц назад +48

    I wonder if he took your package so he can “show” it to you as a ruse to get in the building, thinking you wouldn’t know it was him

    • @TinaNewtonArt
      @TinaNewtonArt 28 дней назад +8

      Oh yeah cause he said he was delivering something before.... Yeah that's creepy af

    • @tessarae9127
      @tessarae9127 26 дней назад +1

      Hahahah probably. It’s astounding to me how braindead people decide that somehow being a criminal would be a good idea, like no, committing crimes won’t save you from your own stupidity…

  • @Awelotsforever
    @Awelotsforever 29 дней назад +1

    Poor Haley! Everyone is hoping that the police find the man. Sending love everyday ❤ Chloe❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @lauren8135
    @lauren8135 19 дней назад

    I’m so sorry you have to deal with this Haley!! I hope they don’t come back. That would really scare me too, especially if they had done this multiple times!!

  • @KatyB1025
    @KatyB1025 Месяц назад +9

    I’m so sorry, I can’t imagine how scary that is for you.
    Please be aware of your surroundings and I’m happy to see you’re still smiling. 💕
    God bless.

  • @millennial_fairy
    @millennial_fairy Месяц назад +10

    That is absolutely terrifying, Haley! I am so sorry that you're going through this. Please prioritize your safety above all else. Stay safe🤍!

  • @sophiapelardis5064
    @sophiapelardis5064 26 дней назад

    Haley i hope your really safe and also you should take action quickly if this is constantly happening. STAY SAFE GIRL!!!🩷🩷🩷🩷

  • @marylovesss
    @marylovesss 24 дня назад +1

    I’m so sorry that you’re going through this, I’ve been stalked before and it’s no fun. I hope the police can find him.

  • @Caroline-ls1gz
    @Caroline-ls1gz Месяц назад +4

    I’m so sorry Haley to hear that you’re going through this! I’ll be praying that the man gets caught and will leave you alone! 🙏🏾

  • @PCB_2021
    @PCB_2021 Месяц назад +42

    Its insane seeing a video not being troll and it has to be such a serious situation. I hope you stay safe.

  • @lavender.hibiscus
    @lavender.hibiscus 26 дней назад

    omg that's terrifying!! take care wherever you go😢

  • @TheMariangel95
    @TheMariangel95 26 дней назад +13

    Omg he's a piece of work because when you showed his face, I felt my soul leave my body and simultaneously chills descending down to my toes. I've never had such a reaction to any human I have ever seen.

  • @Totallynot_Devon
    @Totallynot_Devon Месяц назад +17

    That is extremely terrifying!! I hope you feel safer and he never comes back. Wishing you well!

  • @carloscampo9119
    @carloscampo9119 Месяц назад +13

    Those two people seem dangerous. Hopefully measures are taken. Protect yourself Haley!

  • @Dogs_are_cute001
    @Dogs_are_cute001 13 дней назад +2

    Nobody deserves this to happen to them, Stay safe Haley ❤🤞

  • @cgilbert210
    @cgilbert210 27 дней назад

    That’s so scary. I hope they find him soon. Stay safe! 🩵

  • @Katherine_xs
    @Katherine_xs Месяц назад +26

    I have been in a similar experience with my ex and Hailey you made the right choice calling the cops early enough, do not underestimate the situation, there is nothing friendly about this man's face and his eyes are dead, they are not here bcz they are fans trust me.

  • @Phoebe907
    @Phoebe907 Месяц назад +20

    This is so scary. I would be terrified to come and go from my apartment. Going forward, please don't share what the outside of your apartment building looks like online!

  • @Alanatoocoolforu
    @Alanatoocoolforu 26 дней назад

    Haley stay safe!❤ we love u!

  • @moviegal6000
    @moviegal6000 27 дней назад

    I am so sorry Haley! Please stay safe. Definitely would invest in pepper spray or the like. ❤️

  • @KarinaBhatti2000
    @KarinaBhatti2000 Месяц назад +11

    That’s dangerous please stay safe and I will give prayers to youuuu!!❤️

  • @saimam13
    @saimam13 Месяц назад +5

    This is so terrifying Haley!! Please stay safe we all love you.

  • @skywardsoul747
    @skywardsoul747 26 дней назад

    I'm so sorry you are going through this.

  • @MichaelPowers7326
    @MichaelPowers7326 29 дней назад +1

    Omg, terrified. Glad your safe tho 😊

  • @caminte
    @caminte Месяц назад +71

    Something near identical happened to me a few months ago!! This random guy kept buzzing my door looking for a woman named Alice or something and no matter what he kept coming back and trying to look into my house and yard. He also kept flashing an Apple gift card at my door camera and even left it there once. Long story short he got arrested for trespassing and haven't seen him since 😬😬 He was almost 70 but the cops said he seemed completely lucid and had no prior record! People are so weird!!!

    • @samia6888
      @samia6888 27 дней назад +2

      If he is 70 he might have Alzheimer’s or Dementia, I have seen people with the condition mistake other people’s home as theirs but you did the thing of not opening the door, you never know these days, even 70 year olds can be criminals.

    • @caminte
      @caminte 27 дней назад +4

      @samia6888 He did not, as I mentioned, they said he was completely lucid.

    • @samia6888
      @samia6888 27 дней назад +4

      @@caminte I apologize I thought you meant the other type of lucid, like being in a dreamlike state.

    • @PersisP
      @PersisP 27 дней назад +1

      @@samia6888 lucid means awake or something. Thats why lucid dreaming is that you are extra aware that you are dreaming

    • @samia6888
      @samia6888 26 дней назад

      @@PersisP yes I know but I got confused because I didn’t know there was another meaning to it so I thought it meant he was in a lucid dreamlike state that he knew he was dreaming but sleep walking or something, I tried to make it make sense in my mind lol English isn’t my first language so I get confused sometimes with multiple meanings like in this case lucid would mean in his right mind.

  • @Walkingclowneliastreetagain
    @Walkingclowneliastreetagain Месяц назад +4

    Gurl I’m so sorry you don’t deserve that. Sending so much love 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻 I hope you’re okay queen, stay safe and stay cautious

  • @kellykell7871
    @kellykell7871 25 дней назад

    I’m sorry you have to go through this!!!

  • @whatever6455
    @whatever6455 27 дней назад +3

    Did you talk to the landlord? If he comes inside an apartment where multiple tenants are living, then it’s not only your problem. The landlord maybe able to hire bodyguards until he’s captured.

  • @happyseowon
    @happyseowon Месяц назад +10

    girl stay safe!!😭 that’s so scary, I’m so sorry

  • @ItsAlyssaGrace
    @ItsAlyssaGrace Месяц назад +3

    Haley that is so scary and very real. I’m so sorry you have to go through this! Stay strong and safe, and don’t hesitate to call the police to come if he does come back.

  • @scarlettfrancesca
    @scarlettfrancesca 27 дней назад

    I'm sorry you are going through this, it sounds absolutely scary, unnerving, overwhelming and challenging in so many ways.
    With that being said, i'm not sure that someone buzzing your apartment Is the same thing as them trying to break into your home but I hope that you are able to do whatever you need to, in order to feel safe in your space.

  • @watermelonfriends3005
    @watermelonfriends3005 23 дня назад

    That sounds awful but stay strong! You’ll make it through this!

  • @N_Midnight_N
    @N_Midnight_N Месяц назад +12

    Thats terrifying, Stay safe Haley!!

  • @Miles_Tails_Prower701
    @Miles_Tails_Prower701 Месяц назад +30

    I choked on my popsicle when she said "So the first time that he broke into my apartment, well that I know of" but I do the police arrest him

  • @Preppy.ducklings
    @Preppy.ducklings 22 дня назад

    Hope your safe haylee 💓

  • @Horselover27-sk2ki
    @Horselover27-sk2ki 28 дней назад

    Haley hope you are ok keep us posted and please be safe x❤❤❤

  • @ImRanastar
    @ImRanastar Месяц назад +7

    Please be safe Haley 🫶 Glad you are okay

  • @saimam13
    @saimam13 Месяц назад +4

    You're so brave Haley. If I were living alone and something like this happened, I'd never recover.
    Ps: I genuinely wish you stay safe. Please take care girlie

  • @rubiesofgold7698
    @rubiesofgold7698 20 дней назад +1

    Praying for you. Without getting into details, my family went through a situation that required us to move after we lived at our home for 20+ years. In reading through the comments, someone mentioned private security. 100% agree. Also, if you have the resources, counseling is good. The situation can get in your head a little. 🙏

  • @Desiree-Laine
    @Desiree-Laine 28 дней назад +1

    William needs to up the security!But fr, please, please, stay safe!!! We love you.❤

  • @kohakuusagi
    @kohakuusagi Месяц назад +49

    I'm really that you are going through this. And I agree about getting protective items like pepper spray or mace or even more serious weapons. However, I am wondering if there is a male friend or family member who can stay with you until these freaks are caught? Also, I understand the security features your building has, but does it have an actual security guard? I was a security guard at an apartment complex. If it doesn't, you might want to speak to management about getting one. Also, are you able to ask the police to do extra patrols in and around your building, or even just have an officer there for a little while? Especially since that b*stard tried to grab your neighbor's friend. There's no way he should've been able to just enter after she ran away. And then he stole your package?! Wth? I'm not trying to make you paranoid or anxious, and I'm sure you're already doing this, but just check even more when you're out to see if you spot one of them following you or someone else seemingly following you. I'm not sure if this is a targeted thing, but it's just weird that he came back the same day you got back. And make sure someone is with you wherever you're going. But posting and sharing their faces was a great move. And if either of them do come back, again please make sure a male friend or family member is with you in the apartment and have them answer and curse the pricks out. Sending so much love. I'll share this video too. 💖