Exactly! He knew she was working. Did he fail to ask when she plans on retiring? They had enough time to go over all the "hurdles" before marrying. It makes no sense.
@@alswonderlandTheresa was a fan of Dear Shandy. She listened to it when the show was airing (I think that’s what she said). Though if the issue was this big then they still should’ve just said “maybe now isn’t a good time”
This whole interview was a big red flag to me and I'm shocked y'all didn't see it. His 3 words to describe Theresa were "organized, productive, and forward-thinking." How romantic! 🙄
I had watched their Love Fest. I thought about this exact commentary at the time. Seemed to me neither of them (more Theresa) were willing to give up their current home/life/work AND that Gary wanted to travel but Theresa couldn’t or she’d have to give up her job. I kinda think she wasn’t willing to do what she said she’d do and he wouldn’t wait for her to be ready. NOT that I blame her-if Gerry is the type of guy that his ex described he was to her then I can see why Teresa would want to wait it out before making any big life changes for him.
Teresa is smart. ßhe feels secure in her job. Gerry is not trustworthy. If she quits her job for him and he's a tightwad which we've already heard about from his ex girlfriend and how he treated her. Maybe she doesn't feel financially secure if she quits. I think she's starting to see red flags with Gerry.
@@Daisy-xl4xu I don’t assume one relationship is exactly like another. I haven’t seen anywhere saying that Gerry was having Theresa pay for everything. I need evidence on that to believe it’s a reason they would break up
@@alswonderland she spoke out that he threw her out when she broke her leg and was on crutches and right before he was chosen for show. She said she was expected to pay half when he took her to dinners. Why did abc try to act like Gerry was a lonely widow and led us to believe he wasn’t dating since his wife died. He moved that ex gf in soon after she passed. I saw it on RUclips and on shows where she spoke out. I have no reason to make this up just posting what I heard from the ex girlfriend, but again, ABC made it sound like he was such a lonely man since his wife died.
@@Daisy-xl4xu I know all about the ex and the articles. And that might be true. But that still doesn’t mean that his relationship w/Teresa is in any way the same and that’s what I’m talking about. Believe me I’m not sticking up for Gerry. I think ABC just wanted him to look like a better man than he actually was. When will they learn we will always find out so it’s better to be honest!?!?
People don’t realize that seniors are actually more attached than young people. They are often rooted in family homes and very attached to grandchildren especially.. and while they may think initially they can work these things out.. it’s not always easy to resolve. Also even though Gerry and Theresa may be in the same decade of life it doesn’t sound as though they are in the same place as far as work and retirement are concerned. Everyone who keeps saying there must be MORE… are obviously too young to look at this from a senior prospective. The only mistake they made was allowing their excitement to permit them to become swept away with the show’s agenda of a quick wedding. Many many bachelor couples have realized quite quickly that their relationship wasn’t going to work outside the show. Gerry and Theresa are different ONLY because they agreed to the quick wedding…which we all know the show pushed for ratings. Give them some grace please.
The good morning America statement makes about as much sense as him picking Theresa to begin with. Hardly anyone was able to see her as his final pick. The statement about having to go and do is definitely not Theresa. Those statements about the wedding "We're in our 70's, shouldn't be waiting too long" The statement about the divorce, same thing "We're in our 70's, don't want to delay honesty. The whole season with all the tears and commitment talk with several women and the time to follow, was a joke involving a collosal word salad.
He picked her for her career/assumed wealth, but wasn’t willing to move to enable her to keep earning. Where was he going to get the money to travel on a whim anyway?
Dear Gerry, you can enjoy life without having to go to different places. The joy comes from inside. Unless you feel hollow on the inside, then that's something you need to work on before anything because you will never find that "freedom to enjoy life." Especially with the right woman beside you, which if you thought you had that, you would work through it because she's worth it. Go hiking together, on road trips etc. adventurous things start right at home.
Really enjoyed this LoveFest and yes this was the writing on the wall! Shandy, I hope you consider adding some "logistics" questions to your lovefests in which you ask about this: if they were long distance, how did they decide who would move, when and where? And how they talk about finances because that supposedly is the no. 1 reason why couples break up. And how they talk about doing chores because we know most it falls to the woman. Maybe not as interesting as the other questions about first impressions, how you fight, etc. but I'm very curious about these logistics and less so the romantic stuff lol. You can have people who seem very emotionally compatible like Gerry and Theresa (?) but then their life realities of location/work/families aren't.
Giving up after 3 months! I guess the relationship was not worth unraveling their lives. If they truly were in love, they would work out this hurdle. It seems, not moving is more important than the relationship.
Unless you’re in your senior years and looking to completely relocate your life and leave your children and grandchildren you’ve always been close to… you really can’t judge them as to what love is worth.
@@sharonthorne6451 because he wanted a prenup and she wanted to use him for his money. She didn't want to relocate because she knew once her plan of marrying him and divorcing him for all his money wasn't going to work. She had to keep working. She is just another run of the mill gold digger
I still to this day don't know why people apply for these types of shows if they aren't willing to relocate. It becomes such a huge deal breaker for people (which I understand), but it's also a given that someone will have to when they are casting from all over the US (and sometimes from Canada.) But, I hope they find their peace with the decision and I hope the best for them both.
Especially when you're in your seventies. At that age you're are most likely in your forever home. You've put down stakes and you don't to pick up and move to another state or country.
But when Faith and Leslie both said they were not willing to move to hos remote dream home if they get engaged, Theresa pretty much catfished him and sold him the carefree dream. I feel so bad for Gerry...he is such a treasure
let’s bffr Gerry never really worked - he operated a burger joint and then was a handyman around his neighborhood he doesn’t understand people who have a real job
Im sorry but she literally threw herself at him. Like what did she think would happen if she did get to the end???? And still working at 70 and you go on a reality show to find a partner who doesn’t even live in your state. She’s too much…she would’ve been my last choice. I’m sorry I don’t want to be mean but just felt she was desperate to get to the end and she did and look what happened
Didn't they think of this BEFORE going on show?! 🤔 Also, when you start saying "We'll figure it out," usually means "we don't wanna deal with it right now.....or ever."
When they do the interviewing, they should ask the people if they’re willing to relocate to move to another state and that would save a lot of money on the franchise for the bachelor nation
She's caught on to him and now believes all the devastating things he did to his last girlfriend only one month after his wife died! He needed a retired woman to help pay the bills with his wife deceased he's lost his wife's social security income! He did this for her money, and she's lying about not wanting to retire. She can't stand him anymore.Teresa woke up to see he's a lier, conniving player, all he wanted was her money, but hes not what she expected! Good for you Teresa! She hates him so much she wont even go on a free honeymoon with the man! Three months shes thinking shell never get back! Sayonara Gerri! Lol
I rewatched episode 8 and Theresa told Gerry that she loved her job, but if he gave her a reason to stop working she would. He was impressed with her accomplishments, but wondered when she wouldn’t want to work anymore. I’m guessing her job just took too much time away from them as a newlywed couple.
Didn’t they realize, or work out all the possible living arrangements when they went on the show? Did they have discussions about all of that before a proposal was made and accepted? Just goes to show how one/people can get set in their ways as they get older. Though I can understand and appreciate the dilemma of such arrangements. But did it have to result in a divorce a mere 3 months after the marriage? Gary was free, retired. Why couldn’t/didn’t he come and stay at his wife’s place part time? He didn’t have to sell his house. I’ve watched the Bachelor/Bachelorette in all its incarnations since the very first episode. And though a proposal is expected by the end of a season, an actual marriage can and should take more time. They didn’t have to get married so soon. As an engaged couple, they could have enjoyed each other’s company, taken time to get to know each other better and gradually worked out the logistics of their eventual living arrangements over time. Their actual marriage, maybe all of it now seems more like a PR stunt than an actual love connection. And now, they’re on the Divorce lap of the tour 🙄
BS Gerry you wanted a meal ticket Theresa finally caught it. Your previous friend you moved in to your home had to pay half. Stop the BS … Takes money to be a Player … RUN Theresa RUN !!!
Yole should have got that straight before you got married. When a woman marry a man she should follow her husband. And those children live there lives so you all live yours . Do what you had to to do if you rilly love each other you will make it work.If he had picked that other lady he would be living the life he dream of.
If you’re not carefree at that age when will you be? If having fun and retirement was that important to him, why did he choose women that still worked? And why doesn’t she hang it up now and just enjoy life with her new man? Who she clearly wanted, even sparring with other contestants for. Why is this a newsflash now? They knew all this before going on the show. If anything this just further demonstrates the phoniness of this whole ‘bachelor’franchise.
I really thought they were ready to enjoy one another. one wants to travel and the other one is still trying to make money. I would of thought all of this would of been discussed before the wedding. one lives by his children and the other one doesn't want to leave her family. you both would of needed to compromise with what is most important in it together and I've always thought Theresa was the kind of person that it's either my way and no other way. They both need to just find someone else who is going to make them happy for the years they both have left. life is way to short. Enjoy it! I wish them both the very best of both worlds 🙏.
People y'all old enough to have thought all these things before saying I do" I'm not buying it! I think it's just after a few weeks the spark and newness was over just admit it people and stop the non sense.
This is a huge hurdle. In the promos, Gerry seemed set on bringing the woman to his lake home. And him wanting to travel. And if money was no object, Theresa wouldn't work and they would keep both homes and travel to both and travel put of the country too.
How sad that two people who should have the life experience to make a sensible decision just didn't. 😂 It was obviously just about the attention and money. I can't imagine putting yourself on display like this. Pathetic.
If I went on the show and found love. I would find a place between both families and when you want to see your family either take a road trip or get on a plane. When there's a will there's a way. The great thing I work from home so the flexibility is great! My kids are grown up so, now it's my turn to find love. I would never give up I would mKe it work or die trying.
I’m not surprised about any of this! I’m starting to really get sick of putting in my time watching bachelor nation and most of these relationships do not work out! It is like it is all fake. I would love to believe in happily ever after, but I seriously don’t think that most of these people have much common sense. This show really knows how to pick ‘em. All the show cares about his ratings. I don’t think they fully intend on the best outcome for every season. I’ve watched it from the beginning and I missed two seasons after they got rid of Chris Harrison, even after he apologized. I am seriously thinking of not watching this BS anymore. Also, all these women are getting way worse with the fakeness. Everyone has fake lips and it’s so annoying.
If you think he guys don't have botox and fillers too, then you are giving them way too much credit. Couples broke up even more in the first 10 seasons of this show than now. After Trista we didn't get another marriage until Jason and Molly and Molly wasn't even his final rose recipient. I think the modern era has had a few dust bowl seasons (couples not even making it 1 year), but the majority of Bach Nation couples that are still together are from after Chris Harrison's departure, with a lot coming from BIP season 6 (Serena and Joe, Becca and Thomas, Mari and Kenny, Abigail and Noah, Chris and Alanna). So far the last 3 flagship show couples are still together and even Matt and Rachel are still together. I think the franchise gives us enough love stories to follow if we want to focus on them.
Why did this conversation not take place prior to saying I do.. Theresa you both need to pull up your big kid pants & follow through with your path under God. I knew from the get go you were not a match.
This guy is sadly a loser. I will never watch another of these fake shows again. It’s lost his way. They do not vent these people enough. Everyone should be willing to move for the other person. Everybody should have their own income or retirement. Her continuing to work when he wants to go on adventures, shows you right there. This had no hope from the get-go. The fact that they think they can still find love was almost a joke is there telling others to not love? If older people can’t communicate and share how they feel, knowing they have less time in life, I would say there is not much hope. I saw them on a podcast two weeks before what a BS show that turned out to be. Dear Shandy was so respectful of them, too, and all they did was lie on the show. Honestly I’ve that podcast I was like yeah I think I’ll give them about three more months.
Gerry picked the wrong women because she’s not fitting into his life style. Seems like they would have talked about these matters before getting married or him choosing her. I didn’t watch it. They seem so chill about it all. Wishing them both the best.
I suggested these thoughts during the season when Gerry was deciding between Theresa and Lesley .....Theresa would be losing a great deal financially since she draws Social Security on her deceased husband's income. It is obvious to me that the possibility of Gary's work history could not could qualify for an equivalent amount. Difficulty with finances put a great deal of strain on a marriage.
@@karmad4491 You can work and receive SS but you forfeit a percentage of you SS. You can receive either SS or your spouse's not both. Most people pick the highest SS income.
Then it's the fault of the bachelor show They should only pair up these eligible bachelorettes and bachelor's with people that are within one state of the state that they live in so there's more of a chance that the relationship will truly work
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Hmm maybe these things shoulda been discussed before picking her and at very lest before marriage?
It’s odd…Gerry seems like a great communicator, but he doesn’t have the best judgment. Something’s missing….
Yea, he thought she would do what he wanted with her money. She said no thanks.
Exactly. Duh. Why not think this through before even going on the show Theresa?
I didn't think it would work from the start.
Exactly! He knew she was working. Did he fail to ask when she plans on retiring? They had enough time to go over all the "hurdles" before marrying. It makes no sense.
I thought trouble in paradise when I watched this podcast when it first came out.
Same here
She couldn’t rely on him financially. Smart lady for high tailing it out of there.
Was she the one who initiated the breakup?
@@Amy-oj6ludon’t buy that for a minute..think it was HER that wanted it!
Yeah, not surprised. There was some tension there - in general.
Maybe he was planning on a meal ticket, but the meal ticket woke up quickly! Glad she's getting out of it.
No meal ticket with the prenup. Maybe that’s what happened.
That is totally it!
@@Kathleenpoorsu know it..😂
You all didn't think about this!? If he is your dream man, quit your job. You dont have much time left. Live in 2 places.
Wild!! When the news came out right after your love fest I couldn’t help but think- why are they doing/did interviews
Yeah like why did they agree to do lovefest in the first place lol
@@alswonderlandTheresa was a fan of Dear Shandy. She listened to it when the show was airing (I think that’s what she said). Though if the issue was this big then they still should’ve just said “maybe now isn’t a good time”
Unfortunately I thought the same thing when I was watching it.
This whole interview was a big red flag to me and I'm shocked y'all didn't see it. His 3 words to describe Theresa were "organized, productive, and forward-thinking." How romantic! 🙄
I had watched their Love Fest. I thought about this exact commentary at the time. Seemed to me neither of them (more Theresa) were willing to give up their current home/life/work AND that Gary wanted to travel but Theresa couldn’t or she’d have to give up her job. I kinda think she wasn’t willing to do what she said she’d do and he wouldn’t wait for her to be ready. NOT that I blame her-if Gerry is the type of guy that his ex described he was to her then I can see why Teresa would want to wait it out before making any big life changes for him.
Teresa is smart. ßhe feels secure in her job. Gerry is not trustworthy. If she quits her job for him and he's a tightwad which we've already heard about from his ex girlfriend and how he treated her. Maybe she doesn't feel financially secure if she quits. I think she's starting to see red flags with Gerry.
She saw he expects her to pay for everything. His ex gf spilled the tea on this. She dodged a bullet as did Leslie!!
@@Daisy-xl4xu I don’t assume one relationship is exactly like another. I haven’t seen anywhere saying that Gerry was having Theresa pay for everything. I need evidence on that to believe it’s a reason they would break up
@@alswonderland she spoke out that he threw her out when she broke her leg and was on crutches and right before he was chosen for show. She said she was expected to pay half when he took her to dinners. Why did abc try to act like Gerry was a lonely widow and led us to believe he wasn’t dating since his wife died. He moved that ex gf in soon after she passed. I saw it on RUclips and on shows where she spoke out. I have no reason to make this up just posting what I heard from the ex girlfriend, but again, ABC made it sound like he was such a lonely man since his wife died.
@@Daisy-xl4xu I know all about the ex and the articles. And that might be true. But that still doesn’t mean that his relationship w/Teresa is in any way the same and that’s what I’m talking about. Believe me I’m not sticking up for Gerry. I think ABC just wanted him to look like a better man than he actually was. When will they learn we will always find out so it’s better to be honest!?!?
People don’t realize that seniors are actually more attached than young people. They are often rooted in family homes and very attached to grandchildren especially.. and while they may think initially they can work these things out.. it’s not always easy to resolve. Also even though Gerry and Theresa may be in the same decade of life it doesn’t sound as though they are in the same place as far as work and retirement are concerned. Everyone who keeps saying there must be MORE… are obviously too young to look at this from a senior prospective. The only mistake they made was allowing their excitement to permit them to become swept away with the show’s agenda of a quick wedding. Many many bachelor couples have realized quite quickly that their relationship wasn’t going to work outside the show. Gerry and Theresa are different ONLY because they agreed to the quick wedding…which we all know the show pushed for ratings. Give them some grace please.
Beautifully said❤
The good morning America statement makes about as much sense as him picking Theresa to begin with. Hardly anyone was able to see her as his final pick.
The statement about having to go and do is definitely not Theresa. Those statements about the wedding "We're in our 70's, shouldn't be waiting too long"
The statement about the divorce, same thing "We're in our 70's, don't want to delay honesty. The whole season with all the tears and commitment talk with several women and the time to follow, was a joke involving a collosal word salad.
He picked her for her career/assumed wealth, but wasn’t willing to move to enable her to keep earning. Where was he going to get the money to travel on a whim anyway?
I thought about you guys when I saw the announcement! I actually went back to see if I could see any signs! This was a big one. 🚩
Dear Gerry, you can enjoy life without having to go to different places. The joy comes from inside. Unless you feel hollow on the inside, then that's something you need to work on before anything because you will never find that "freedom to enjoy life." Especially with the right woman beside you, which if you thought you had that, you would work through it because she's worth it. Go hiking together, on road trips etc. adventurous things start right at home.
Well said
@@faithdomster5081 thank you
Really enjoyed this LoveFest and yes this was the writing on the wall! Shandy, I hope you consider adding some "logistics" questions to your lovefests in which you ask about this: if they were long distance, how did they decide who would move, when and where? And how they talk about finances because that supposedly is the no. 1 reason why couples break up. And how they talk about doing chores because we know most it falls to the woman. Maybe not as interesting as the other questions about first impressions, how you fight, etc. but I'm very curious about these logistics and less so the romantic stuff lol. You can have people who seem very emotionally compatible like Gerry and Theresa (?) but then their life realities of location/work/families aren't.
Giving up after 3 months! I guess the relationship was not worth unraveling their lives. If they truly were in love, they would work out this hurdle. It seems, not moving is more important than the relationship.
Unless you’re in your senior years and looking to completely relocate your life and leave your children and grandchildren you’ve always been close to… you really can’t judge them as to what love is worth.
They could have worked it out to me too.
They barely know each other. They're more in infatuation than in love. It's just a high at this point. It seems the high has just worn off.
Theresa said she would give up her job and stop working. Said it to him right before fantasy suites. Why the back pedal?
@@sharonthorne6451 because he wanted a prenup and she wanted to use him for his money. She didn't want to relocate because she knew once her plan of marrying him and divorcing him for all his money wasn't going to work. She had to keep working. She is just another run of the mill gold digger
I still to this day don't know why people apply for these types of shows if they aren't willing to relocate. It becomes such a huge deal breaker for people (which I understand), but it's also a given that someone will have to when they are casting from all over the US (and sometimes from Canada.)
But, I hope they find their peace with the decision and I hope the best for them both.
Especially when you're in your seventies. At that age you're are most likely in your forever home. You've put down stakes and you don't to pick up and move to another state or country.
I agree. Almost all these types of shows no one wants to relocate, so why do it?!
Yes. I thought they were very distant on your show!
But when Faith and Leslie both said they were not willing to move to hos remote dream home if they get engaged, Theresa pretty much catfished him and sold him the carefree dream. I feel so bad for Gerry...he is such a treasure
I was thinking the same thing.
Tbh i wouldnt want my partner to work at 70 and not have time for us to enjoy retirement.. 🤷🤷
Sounds like she’s obsessed w/ making money at that age u ain’t taking it w/you so don’t get it 🤔
she's got to pay for all that botox and fillers
@@marciahundley5733 🤣🤣
@@marciahundley5733 tbh you're right, someone has to pay for it 😱
Theresa is a workaholic.
She wasn’t IN LOVE w/him…
He hasn't really been retired. He has no money. He is a fraud.
let’s bffr Gerry never really worked - he operated a burger joint and then was a handyman around his neighborhood he doesn’t understand people who have a real job
Fr he just wanted her money, didn’t want to cope with her having to work to earn it. Delulu
It did sound like a deal breaker for sure
These are things to think about before getting engaged!
Im sorry but she literally threw herself at him. Like what did she think would happen if she did get to the end???? And still working at 70 and you go on a reality show to find a partner who doesn’t even live in your state. She’s too much…she would’ve been my last choice. I’m sorry I don’t want to be mean but just felt she was desperate to get to the end and she did and look what happened
Didn't they think of this BEFORE going on show?! 🤔 Also, when you start saying "We'll figure it out," usually means "we don't wanna deal with it right now.....or ever."
He wants the life he had on the show!!!! Travel, women, everything done for you and paid for!!
This is very relatable if you're over 60 and still enjoy working-but your partner is retired.
I actually agree with Gerry. He made it very clear he wanted to fall in love & travel. There is nothing wrong with that.
When they do the interviewing, they should ask the people if they’re willing to relocate to move to another state and that would save a lot of money on the franchise for the bachelor nation
I knew it was over the second he said this
She ruined his experience. Shame on her
Ain't no mountain high enough 🎵🎵🎵 Ain't no river wide enough...to keep me away from you!
She's caught on to him and now believes all the devastating things he did to his last girlfriend only one month after his wife died!
He needed a retired woman to help pay the bills with his wife deceased he's lost his wife's social security income! He did this for her money, and she's lying about not wanting to retire. She can't stand him anymore.Teresa woke up to see he's a lier, conniving player, all he wanted was her money, but hes not what she expected! Good for you Teresa! She hates him so much she wont even go on a free honeymoon with the man!
Three months shes thinking shell never get back! Sayonara Gerri! Lol
He's full of it!! He seemed thrilled to know that she had a job and was bringing in money creep
So they don’t love each other enough to get over the hurdles. Life is short.
On her money, you wants to enjoy his life.
Spoiler alert : it didn’t work
Was he gonna support her if she quit working??? He KNEW she worked! What a joke!
I would hope so most husbands do support their wives !
Well, it doesn't sound like he was going to.
@@christinewilliams9654 well there was plenty of red flags abt him the goofy old woman should of seen instead of being all star stuck!🤦🏻♀️
Therese looks pretty here. Her eyes are beautiful, she has Bambi eyes.
If they were truly in love they would have figured it out
It starts when you make your own money G.
They should’ve known this before they decided to commit to each other. That’s a lot of BS.
I rewatched episode 8 and Theresa told Gerry that she loved her job, but if he gave her a reason to stop working she would. He was impressed with her accomplishments, but wondered when she wouldn’t want to work anymore. I’m guessing her job just took too much time away from them as a newlywed couple.
Yeah big hurdle with a divorce.
You didn't have this conversation before?
i never thought he should have picked her shouldn't that been discussed before .
Excuses excuses. They knew all this before they got married. Nothing about that couple spells compatibility. It was a ride on the network’s dime.
Not worth listening to anymore move on
Uhhh, didn't they know all this going in? And all through the show? So crazy.
They should have talked about this before.. not after , how stupid,. I’m on Gerry’s side,
Scanned us
I bet the Mpls Fitness business owner is grateful. I was on her team.
Didn’t they realize, or work out all the possible living arrangements when they went on the show? Did they have discussions about all of that before a proposal was made and accepted? Just goes to show how one/people can get set in their ways as they get older. Though I can understand and appreciate the dilemma of such arrangements. But did it have to result in a divorce a mere 3 months after the marriage? Gary was free, retired. Why couldn’t/didn’t he come and stay at his wife’s place part time? He didn’t have to sell his house.
I’ve watched the Bachelor/Bachelorette in all its incarnations since the very first episode. And though a proposal is expected by the end of a season, an actual marriage can and should take more time. They didn’t have to get married so soon. As an engaged couple, they could have enjoyed each other’s company, taken time to get to know each other better and gradually worked out the logistics of their eventual living arrangements over time. Their actual marriage, maybe all of it now seems more like a PR stunt than an actual love connection. And now, they’re on the Divorce lap of the tour 🙄
BS Gerry you wanted a meal ticket
Theresa finally caught it. Your previous friend you moved in to your home had to pay half. Stop the BS … Takes money to be a
Player … RUN Theresa RUN !!!
POOR RICH PEOPLE 😢😢😢
Go Theresa and enjoy your life with your family. You work as long as you want to work.
Let him go travel with his own money….❤
A scam wedding!
Yole should have got that straight before you got married.
When a woman marry a man she should follow her husband.
And those children live there lives so you all live yours . Do what you had to to do if you rilly
love each other you will make it work.If he had picked that other lady he would be living the life he dream of.
Theresa was not ready 😔
No, he's a 50-50 partner and wanted her to pay dutch for everything. That's not love!
Why did you pick her then?
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If you’re not carefree at that age when will you be? If having fun and retirement was that important to him, why did he choose women that still worked? And why doesn’t she hang it up now and just enjoy life with her new man? Who she clearly wanted, even sparring with other contestants for. Why is this a newsflash now? They knew all this before going on the show. If anything this just further demonstrates the phoniness of this whole ‘bachelor’franchise.
You should have thought of this before you got married.
I really thought they were ready to enjoy one another. one wants to travel and the other one is still trying to make money. I would of thought all of this would of been discussed before the wedding. one lives by his children and the other one doesn't want to leave her family.
you both would of needed to compromise with what is most important in it together
and I've always thought Theresa was the kind of person that it's either my way and no other way.
They both need to just find someone else who is going to make them happy for the years they both have left. life is way to short. Enjoy it!
I wish them both the very best of both worlds 🙏.
People y'all old enough to have thought all these things before saying I do" I'm not buying it! I think it's just after a few weeks the spark and newness was over just admit it people and stop the non sense.
He’s just soooooo selfish🤮
His choice of music is 🤢
Why the heck didn't you talk about this before you had your sham wedding?
Good decision Theresa LOL.
Hey those are all factors that should have been discussed before taking the plunge - duh! I thought as old folks you had the smarts!!
This is a huge hurdle. In the promos, Gerry seemed set on bringing the woman to his lake home. And him wanting to travel. And if money was no object, Theresa wouldn't work and they would keep both homes and travel to both and travel put of the country too.
You guys should have discussed all that before marriage.. don't ya think?
How sad that two people who should have the life experience to make a sensible decision just didn't. 😂 It was obviously just about the attention and money. I can't imagine putting yourself on display like this. Pathetic.
I would think - U both would have talked about those “Big” issues ahead of time……🤔🤔🧐🙄🙄!!
If I went on the show and found love. I would find a place between both families and when you want to see your family either take a road trip or get on a plane. When there's a will there's a way. The great thing I work from home so the flexibility is great! My kids are grown up so, now it's my turn to find love. I would never give up I would mKe it work or die trying.
these are things to discuss before getting married. How dump for supposed wise people.
I’m not surprised about any of this! I’m starting to really get sick of putting in my time watching bachelor nation and most of these relationships do not work out! It is like it is all fake. I would love to believe in happily ever after, but I seriously don’t think that most of these people have much common sense. This show really knows how to pick ‘em. All the show cares about his ratings. I don’t think they fully intend on the best outcome for every season. I’ve watched it from the beginning and I missed two seasons after they got rid of Chris Harrison, even after he apologized. I am seriously thinking of not watching this BS anymore. Also, all these women are getting way worse with the fakeness. Everyone has fake lips and it’s so annoying.
If you think he guys don't have botox and fillers too, then you are giving them way too much credit.
Couples broke up even more in the first 10 seasons of this show than now. After Trista we didn't get another marriage until Jason and Molly and Molly wasn't even his final rose recipient. I think the modern era has had a few dust bowl seasons (couples not even making it 1 year), but the majority of Bach Nation couples that are still together are from after Chris Harrison's departure, with a lot coming from BIP season 6 (Serena and Joe, Becca and Thomas, Mari and Kenny, Abigail and Noah, Chris and Alanna). So far the last 3 flagship show couples are still together and even Matt and Rachel are still together. I think the franchise gives us enough love stories to follow if we want to focus on them.
She looks more masculine than him - stop the Botox and fillers
Jerry has lost his Hollywood Glow…. What were these Seniors thinking?
Why did this conversation not take place prior to saying I do..
Theresa you both need to pull up your big kid pants & follow through with your path under God. I knew from the get go you were not a match.
You knew all that going in that you might have to move or quit your job and retire early so all that should be thought of ahead of time
This guy is sadly a loser. I will never watch another of these fake shows again. It’s lost his way. They do not vent these people enough. Everyone should be willing to move for the other person. Everybody should have their own income or retirement. Her continuing to work when he wants to go on adventures, shows you right there. This had no hope from the get-go. The fact that they think they can still find love was almost a joke is there telling others to not love? If older people can’t communicate and share how they feel, knowing they have less time in life, I would say there is not much hope.
I saw them on a podcast two weeks before what a BS show that turned out to be. Dear Shandy was so respectful of them, too, and all they did was lie on the show. Honestly I’ve that podcast I was like yeah I think I’ll give them about three more months.
Who cares! What a waste of time & money!
Full of crap…
Gerry picked the wrong women because she’s not fitting into his life style. Seems like they would have talked about these matters before getting married or him choosing her. I didn’t watch it. They seem so chill about it all. Wishing them both the best.
I suggested these thoughts during the season when Gerry was deciding between Theresa and Lesley .....Theresa would be losing a great deal financially since she draws Social Security on her deceased husband's income. It is obvious to me that the possibility of Gary's work history could not could qualify for an equivalent amount. Difficulty with finances put a great deal of strain on a marriage.
Theresa is working and drawing an income. Her social security would have been reduced or forfeited anyway. He SS or her husband's same thing.
@@pattyduke3079 You can work and receive SS both - at the same time. She was entitled to her OWN SS income - as well as her work income.
@@karmad4491 You can work and receive SS but you forfeit a percentage of you SS. You can receive either SS or your spouse's not both. Most people pick the highest SS income.
Then it's the fault of the bachelor show They should only pair up these eligible bachelorettes and bachelor's with people that are within one state of the state that they live in so there's more of a chance that the relationship will truly work
Fake fake fake
What’s up w her lips 👄
Her lips look good 🤷♀️
They looked over lined!😂
I think he is selish.