It's so they won't feel like the cheating scum bags they are. Tell them they are liars and cheats, and nothing will ever change that. If you go, you are a fool. Nothing will ever make up for what they did. Yes, their marriage is doomed because if they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you. Tell them to go to a very hot climate. They don't deserve any consideration.
All she had to do was put her foot down and get a lawyer to draft a cease and desist order. Make a public post about the truth, you having NEVER made their betrayal public let them write the narrative and that’s only on you. Cheaters don’t deserve grace, you go for the jugular so everyone knows how immoral they are.
OP should have wrote, "Freindship RIP" on the pictures. She should get a new number. If their marriage is doomed because OP won't go, it wasn't good in the first place. If OP was petty, she should post a picture of herself on her trip in a white dress. That would be funny.
Let's be real here. The only ones that are to blame here are Josh and Ana. The only reason why they want you to go to their wedding is because their guilt is getting to them. Tell everyone (and I mean EVERYONE) they need to BUTT OUT and MIND THEIR BUSINESS. Also, let them know if the harassment continues, legal action will be taken!
They want to convince everyone present at the wedding that you're cool with their betrayal. Block them and anyone who hounds you about your decision. 🚫 Block 🚫
I'd threaten to make a speech during the wedding party, remembering how their love story begun all those years ago in excruciating detail. Seriously, what the cheaters want is to remove the stain of betrayal from their relationship using OP as the methaphorical bleach with her presence and implicit blessing. Bygones are bygones, she left and doesn't think of them anymore, but they don't gt to pretend they are not crappy individuals who lie and cheat to achieve what they want. That's the very first Main Character Syndrome happening to a couple I ever saw!
But the end is the wedding. She doesn't go, they marry and stop the whole lunacy. ALL this crapshow is for her to go to the wedding and pretend to bless their lack of character, if she forfeits, it's over.
If you wanna let bygones be bygones then LEAVE THEM ALONE don’t invite someone to your wedding because you legit cheated with their ex it’s like inviting the person you murdered your brother to come to his funeral like wtf
Now I'm not the sort of man who needs closure, come on! Finish the story! Write something truly mad, like the pastor explaining he can expiate all the bad karma if he gets to ravish the bride on an ancient stone at the full moon while the groom is forced to watch. Or have the protagonist say she's consulted a shaman who says if she goes to the wedding all their children will be born deformed, so regrettably, she cannot make it that day.
First change your phone number. Second they want to rub it in your face that they made a fool of you and still have you under their thumb to make fun of...that simple.
More updates please! If they kept bugging me, I would say are you sure really really sure you want me there? I'm going to give a speech you sure it's ok? Then I would say congratulations to the couple who stabbed me in the back. Joshy here was cheating on me with Anna, we obviously broke up, I moved on with my life have a great job great boyfriend minding my own business when out of the blue a wedding invitation to their wedding I said no at first I mean why would you invite your ex? But, apparently everyone and their dog wanted me there, calling, texting, people showing up at my door, going to my parents house with a priest is what Josh's parents did, her mom came to see me. Josh sending me a photo album of all of "best friends", with a note of wanting me to be their child's godmother, all of their friends bugging me. You do know all of you sounded deragged right. And Josh, what made you think I wasn't over you. I haven't stocked you called you looked you up on Facebook nothing because I didn't care to. I asked you two to leave me alone, this is why. Now, I am going none of you call, text, show up at my door or write or send priest, or anyone for you. Goodbye! Mic drop.
Look you said congratulations after the slimy thing they did to you you said no you did not want to be at the wedding I don't know why they would be so insistent other than in my opinion to rub it in your face and no I don't want to be friends I want you to go on with your lives you and Josh and I'll go on with mine!! As far as her mother calling and berating you saying can't you be happy for her daughter and let bygones be bygones I like your answer to her that come back was beautiful but I would also tell her I don't have no hard feelings towards your daughter or Josh I'm over that I'm over them!! And for anybody and everybody that will keep texting me or calling me and sending me email saying I should let backwards be back on at make one person one post only and directed at any and everyone that has to do with Anna and Josh and their future marriage I am over Josh I have no hard feelings towards him and honor I wish them nothing but happiness I'm not holding on the old feelings I'm moving on!! why should I support them they're doing just fine without me they were supporting each other behind my back now I'm over it and I don't want to hear no more about it let me go on with my life and let them enjoy a happy prosperous life together!! Look I told Josh's mother ma'am I have nothing against Josh and Anna's happiness I want them to be happy but I want you people to back up off me and leave me alone let's keep it real you one of those real ladies so am I I don't want nothing to do with the wedding I'm not angry!! I don't know how me not coming to the wedding is going to ruin their marriage or their wedding they love each other they wanted to be together go through with it be happy but leave me alone!! And if Anna's falling apart that has nothing to do with me I did nothing to her!! If the energy is dirty surrounding Josh and Anna's wedding as Josh's mother is trying to say and you're the only one that can cleanse it then I tell her she needs some more bleach and cleaning detergents I said no I wasn't coming and I wish to be left alone let me live my life and God bless them let them go live there life!!! oh now the truth comes out they are so guilty that they need you to come to the wedding and say I forgive you live happily ever because Josh promised her he could get you to do that and if not then they feel bad I tell him to go fly a kite to West hell!!
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OP should hire a lawyer to get a restraining order and also hire a PI to do some digging as to why they are so desperate to have her at the wedding
It's so they won't feel like the cheating scum bags they are. Tell them they are liars and cheats, and nothing will ever change that. If you go, you are a fool. Nothing will ever make up for what they did. Yes, their marriage is doomed because if they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you. Tell them to go to a very hot climate. They don't deserve any consideration.
I agree with you
All she had to do was put her foot down and get a lawyer to draft a cease and desist order.
Make a public post about the truth, you having NEVER made their betrayal public let them write the narrative and that’s only on you.
Cheaters don’t deserve grace, you go for the jugular so everyone knows how immoral they are.
“They’re heartbroken.” Ummm I don’t CARE. That’s all you need to say.
It's giving obssesion They are delusional karma will get them both hope OP doing better now
That was the slowest "here's the kicker" in history :-)
OP should have wrote, "Freindship RIP" on the pictures. She should get a new number. If their marriage is doomed because OP won't go, it wasn't good in the first place. If OP was petty, she should post a picture of herself on her trip in a white dress. That would be funny.
SHE SAID NO! DON’T TELL HER HOW TO FEEL! BOTHERING HER CONSTANTLY IS JUST MORE REASON FOR HER NOT TO GO
Let's be real here. The only ones that are to blame here are Josh and Ana. The only reason why they want you to go to their wedding is because their guilt is getting to them.
Tell everyone (and I mean EVERYONE) they need to BUTT OUT and MIND THEIR BUSINESS. Also, let them know if the harassment continues, legal action will be taken!
Why? They are not even friends.
They want to convince everyone present at the wedding that you're cool with their betrayal. Block them and anyone who hounds you about your decision. 🚫 Block 🚫
I'd threaten to make a speech during the wedding party, remembering how their love story begun all those years ago in excruciating detail.
Seriously, what the cheaters want is to remove the stain of betrayal from their relationship using OP as the methaphorical bleach with her presence and implicit blessing. Bygones are bygones, she left and doesn't think of them anymore, but they don't gt to pretend they are not crappy individuals who lie and cheat to achieve what they want. That's the very first Main Character Syndrome happening to a couple I ever saw!
Does everyone even know about the cheating, or not?
No ending? Booooo.
But the end is the wedding. She doesn't go, they marry and stop the whole lunacy. ALL this crapshow is for her to go to the wedding and pretend to bless their lack of character, if she forfeits, it's over.
go to the wedding. don't miss the opportunity to blow up the cerimony. they picture you as petty, so be petty for real.
We need the full story there’s no telling what else happened after she allegedly moved out of town
If you wanna let bygones be bygones then LEAVE THEM ALONE don’t invite someone to your wedding because you legit cheated with their ex it’s like inviting the person you murdered your brother to come to his funeral like wtf
I want to know what happened at the wedding, it's like Josh wants an excuse not to marry Anna
And then?what happened? Did they go ahead with the wedding. Did she enjoy her trip? So many questions but sadly no answers 😢
They must be limber with all these gymnastics they are doing.
I cant comprehend how people just let shit slide🤯 like im a petty,vindictive asshole who loves violence and drama and i always have bail money😂.
Do you know why you are driven in a narrative? Because you didn't take narration for yourself and let others dictate the terms.
YOU OP, opened your heart and your legs to this man. You’re the only one to blame in this story for giving him your energy.
I think that’s Ava you’re talking about the only mistake op made was not seeing his true colors till his admitted to cheating.
I would just move out of town
Now I'm not the sort of man who needs closure, come on! Finish the story! Write something truly mad, like the pastor explaining he can expiate all the bad karma if he gets to ravish the bride on an ancient stone at the full moon while the groom is forced to watch.
Or have the protagonist say she's consulted a shaman who says if she goes to the wedding all their children will be born deformed, so regrettably, she cannot make it that day.
First change your phone number. Second they want to rub it in your face that they made a fool of you and still have you under their thumb to make fun of...that simple.
More updates please! If they kept bugging me, I would say are you sure really really sure you want me there? I'm going to give a speech you sure it's ok? Then I would say congratulations to the couple who stabbed me in the back. Joshy here was cheating on me with Anna, we obviously broke up, I moved on with my life have a great job great boyfriend minding my own business when out of the blue a wedding invitation to their wedding I said no at first I mean why would you invite your ex? But, apparently everyone and their dog wanted me there, calling, texting, people showing up at my door, going to my parents house with a priest is what Josh's parents did, her mom came to see me. Josh sending me a photo album of all of "best friends", with a note of wanting me to be their child's godmother, all of their friends bugging me. You do know all of you sounded deragged right. And Josh, what made you think I wasn't over you. I haven't stocked you called you looked you up on Facebook nothing because I didn't care to. I asked you two to leave me alone, this is why. Now, I am going none of you call, text, show up at my door or write or send priest, or anyone for you. Goodbye! Mic drop.
Look you said congratulations after the slimy thing they did to you you said no you did not want to be at the wedding I don't know why they would be so insistent other than in my opinion to rub it in your face and no I don't want to be friends I want you to go on with your lives you and Josh and I'll go on with mine!! As far as her mother calling and berating you saying can't you be happy for her daughter and let bygones be bygones I like your answer to her that come back was beautiful but I would also tell her I don't have no hard feelings towards your daughter or Josh I'm over that I'm over them!! And for anybody and everybody that will keep texting me or calling me and sending me email saying I should let backwards be back on at make one person one post only and directed at any and everyone that has to do with Anna and Josh and their future marriage I am over Josh I have no hard feelings towards him and honor I wish them nothing but happiness I'm not holding on the old feelings I'm moving on!! why should I support them they're doing just fine without me they were supporting each other behind my back now I'm over it and I don't want to hear no more about it let me go on with my life and let them enjoy a happy prosperous life together!! Look I told Josh's mother ma'am I have nothing against Josh and Anna's happiness I want them to be happy but I want you people to back up off me and leave me alone let's keep it real you one of those real ladies so am I I don't want nothing to do with the wedding I'm not angry!! I don't know how me not coming to the wedding is going to ruin their marriage or their wedding they love each other they wanted to be together go through with it be happy but leave me alone!! And if Anna's falling apart that has nothing to do with me I did nothing to her!! If the energy is dirty surrounding Josh and Anna's wedding as Josh's mother is trying to say and you're the only one that can cleanse it then I tell her she needs some more bleach and cleaning detergents I said no I wasn't coming and I wish to be left alone let me live my life and God bless them let them go live there life!!! oh now the truth comes out they are so guilty that they need you to come to the wedding and say I forgive you live happily ever because Josh promised her he could get you to do that and if not then they feel bad I tell him to go fly a kite to West hell!!