Why Teen Refuses To Take A Polygraph Exam Following Boyfriend’s Fatal Fall

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  • Опубликовано: 21 фев 2016
  • A 19-year-old says she is not responsible for her boyfriend falling over the staircase railing of a three-story apartment building. So why is she refusing to take a polygraph exam?
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  • @drphil
    @drphil  3 года назад +69

    Subscribe and ring the bell for notifications 🔔

    • @quonomonna8126
      @quonomonna8126 3 года назад +4

      there is no scientific consensus for the validity of polygraphs, its like going to a witch doctor, you might as well hold a seance and ask the spirits

    • @ada1
      @ada1 3 года назад +2

      Hi Dr. Phil

    • @fransmith8992
      @fransmith8992 2 года назад +2

      @@quonomonna8126 and is phil a dr?

    • @fransmith8992
      @fransmith8992 2 года назад +1

      why do you want everyone to call you "dr"?

    • @sandrafrancis7457
      @sandrafrancis7457 2 года назад +2

      As someone who can walk a mile I'm the mothers shoes, I still side with the girl. I wouldn't take one.

  • @scarlettroger1508
    @scarlettroger1508 3 года назад +565

    She’s damned if she does, and damned if she doesn’t.

    • @honeytesta2429
      @honeytesta2429 3 года назад +17

      There a good reason, why polygraph tests are not admissible in a court of law, so it is simply against her best interests, to take the test, and doing so would do absolutely nothing for the mother, her son is gone and she wants to assign blame, which is understandable.

    • @bige8496
      @bige8496 2 года назад +2

      I wouldn't take one either at this point in the game......With Age Comes Wisdom on her Grandfather's part.

    • @KingJackson11355
      @KingJackson11355 2 года назад +5

      Yeah that mother is a horrible person

    • @GhastlyRapidash
      @GhastlyRapidash 2 года назад +2

      Exactly 💯

    • @ericgamino478
      @ericgamino478 2 года назад +2

      Yeah, that Mom is just looking for a reason to blame her. Mom will always see her as guilty.

  • @alannashaw
    @alannashaw 3 года назад +1523

    I don't think I would ever take one regardless of whether I was innocent or not. I have anxiety too and they're sooo prone to false positives I wouldn't want to risk it...

    • @chilliecheesecake
      @chilliecheesecake 3 года назад +75

      They're not admissible in a court of law anyways so theres really no reason to ever take one

    • @08starheart
      @08starheart 3 года назад +28

      I have anxiety disorder and i wouldn't take it either. Think certain issues can trigger overdrive emotions, very sensitive if it's that sensitive for certain people. I can understand what the girlfriend is getting at 'even if she were too, even if though passed; could be looked into further'. Then again, it's unknown if she meant it or not as far as intent.

    • @OfeliaYeghiyan1
      @OfeliaYeghiyan1 3 года назад +24

      same here, i have anxiety and a situation like a polygraph would trigger it even if i was innocent. it's a little like feeling guilty or nervous around a cop even when you've done absolutely nothing, i wouldn't risk a false positive

    • @youngbr0ken187
      @youngbr0ken187 3 года назад +2

      polygraphs are used to determine if ur lying or not the method they use is obscured but in most cases it works in sum it doesn’t

    • @diogenes5127
      @diogenes5127 3 года назад +7

      I wouldn't either. If it can't be used in court why do they even have them?

  • @Bobby-cn8km
    @Bobby-cn8km 3 года назад +593

    “We will never be cool no matter what” so in other words even if she takes the test and she passes she still won’t believe her? I wouldn’t take it either if that’s how it is

    • @eleanoraquitaine2966
      @eleanoraquitaine2966 3 года назад +19

      Really. Why bother?

    • @corberus3119
      @corberus3119 3 года назад +5

      thats not what she meant, she said that even if it was proven that the girl didn't push him the mother would still hold her PARTIALLY responsible see dr phill at 1:46

    • @HELLOkitty90210
      @HELLOkitty90210 3 года назад +6

      No, listening is key. She wants to know if she truly did not push/nudge/touch him or it was just pure argument and he tripped. For her own peace, she wants to know the difference.
      As for not being cool ever, I get that. She VERBALLY STATES that if it comes to light that the gf didn’t put any hands on her then fine, she’ll let that part go. But they can’t be cool because it takes two people to argue. If the gf had just let in him go, taken the argument inside (because why would you wanna be yelling at your partner in public looking crazy) all of this could’ve been avoided.
      Maybe a different outcome would or would’ve have happened. This mother is grieving and can’t accept that accidents happen so she’s trying to grasp at every minute detail.
      This gf needs to move states and move on because until that mother gets something, no one will be at peace in her presence.

    • @samadams2575
      @samadams2575 3 года назад +10

      I don’t agree with that lady. I feel she’s pointing fingers without real evidence. I wish they had an update

    • @KingJackson11355
      @KingJackson11355 2 года назад +3

      What a nasty lady

  • @joehayward2631
    @joehayward2631 3 года назад +145

    The grandfather should have advised STAY OFF SHOWS , KEEP YOUR MOUTH CLOSED, STAY AWAY FROM HIS FAMILY.

    • @KingJackson11355
      @KingJackson11355 2 года назад +8

      Yes. His family seems very toxic

    • @kathconserv
      @kathconserv 2 года назад

      @@KingJackson11355 why did she even go to the show?

  • @none-gu4gf
    @none-gu4gf 3 года назад +759

    What disturb me the most is the constant pushing and guilt tripping of the mother on a young adult, saying what her son would have wanted. She NEEDS her to be guilty so badly. I really hope the mother got a lot of help because she needed it

    • @daniellehamilton6216
      @daniellehamilton6216 3 года назад +4

      fr

    • @ecm84ee
      @ecm84ee 3 года назад +19

      Because she can then hate which is easier then pain.

    • @gabemarcus7926
      @gabemarcus7926 3 года назад +7

      If the genders were reversed, would you say the same?

    • @none-gu4gf
      @none-gu4gf 3 года назад +11

      @@gabemarcus7926 considering the whole episode, I'd say yes, but you're right, there are many situations where if the roles were reversed the case would have ended differently

    • @samadams2575
      @samadams2575 3 года назад +9

      She’s pointing fingers without real evidence. I wish they had an update

  • @joewiggins2905
    @joewiggins2905 3 года назад +1011

    I'm with the teenage girl on this issue. In our criminal justice system, a person does not have to prove their innocence. It is up to her accusers to prove that she is guilty. That is the foundation of our rights.

    • @janedoe7229
      @janedoe7229 3 года назад +19

      Very very good point.

    • @zelle8351
      @zelle8351 3 года назад +27

      It’s true. Lately it does seem like we live in a society of “guilty until proven innocent”. Also polygraphs measure heart rate and I feel like if you get asked “did you kill someone” your heart rate is going to go up either way. Like, anxiety? Idk it doesn’t seem fair

    • @wioi
      @wioi 3 года назад +4

      Exactly

    • @joewiggins2905
      @joewiggins2905 3 года назад +12

      She doesn't have to prove her innocence. It's the job of a district attorney or law enforcement to collect enough evidence to charge her with a crime. Then, a jury & judge must be convinced of her guilt. If we start expecting suspects to prove their innocence, then anyone could accuse anyone else of anything with no evidence.

    • @annelouisespam
      @annelouisespam 3 года назад +12

      I also don't like the language the mother is using, she is being very manipulative in my opinion. Saying things like "you'd think if you cared so much you would do it for me". The girl clearly isn't comfortable doing it, respect snd care run both ways.

  • @brucesmith9092
    @brucesmith9092 3 года назад +256

    *The mother said that she WOULDN'T ACCEPT the results of the lie detector test if she passed.* Then WHY would the mother suggest that she should take the test? She will ONLY accept ONE outcome. Also, this means that there is ZERO benefit for the girl to take the test. Zero.

    • @corberus3119
      @corberus3119 3 года назад +3

      thats not what she said at all. she said that even if it was proven that the girl didn't push him the mother would still hold her PARTIALLY responsible see 1:46 2:03 and 2:24

    • @90sdaycoreaudios
      @90sdaycoreaudios 2 года назад +2

      @@corberus3119 And That’s better because ?

  • @brittneylove95
    @brittneylove95 3 года назад +234

    Even if she did pass a polygraph test, this mom would still resent her.

    • @corberus3119
      @corberus3119 3 года назад +7

      her son is dead and the girl caused a fight that could have contributed to his death, of course she won't like her

    • @samadams2575
      @samadams2575 3 года назад +4

      Honestly she’s pointing fingers without real evidence. I wish they had an update

    • @Stings2pee
      @Stings2pee 3 года назад +5

      Exactly. So what's the point?

    • @CarisstaRashele
      @CarisstaRashele 2 года назад +1

      Corberus her son caused his own death by being intoxicated and not sober minded

    • @KingJackson11355
      @KingJackson11355 2 года назад +1

      What a nasty lady

  • @ccandcoffee
    @ccandcoffee 3 года назад +511

    I'm just going to leave this here. I cannot imagine the grief and pain of a mother losing their child. I am certain that you would want answers and will do anything to get it. However in this case, I unfortunately have a feeling that no matter what the mother is told she will always hold resentment and blame this young woman.

    • @kai-janafarrar9984
      @kai-janafarrar9984 3 года назад +19

      Exactly. Plus polygraph should not be used as a reason to subside your grief. They are so unreliable

    • @dylanclay2741
      @dylanclay2741 3 года назад +2

      @@kai-janafarrar9984 says every liar ever

    • @ssilverlink7117
      @ssilverlink7117 3 года назад +17

      @@dylanclay2741 no bro it’s a fact

    • @dylanclay2741
      @dylanclay2741 3 года назад +2

      @@ssilverlink7117 it's a fact that every liar says that yes it is !

    • @simplypaul8681
      @simplypaul8681 3 года назад +10

      @@dylanclay2741 they're not admissible in court for a reason fool

  • @amberwhalen4791
    @amberwhalen4791 3 года назад +217

    I wouldn't take the test. The mother was contradicting herself the whole time she said I get it you wanna look out for yourself but than kept saying if you loved me you'd take the test for me. And she even said no matter what we wont be cool so why even bother taking the test if no matter what you'll feel salty towards her .

    • @Diana-zm5fy
      @Diana-zm5fy 3 года назад +3

      That's true, but you are thinking without the emotional distruction this mother is in. I would say the same as you, but when a person is going through such a big loss, they become very subjective, the thought process is so complicated so, on all that, when someone says they don't want to take the polygraph, no matter the reason, if she had these feelings of doubt in the first place it just makes things worse for her, but yeah, I don't know..maybe I'm wrong

    • @KingJackson11355
      @KingJackson11355 2 года назад +4

      She’s a nasty lady. We all go through losses in life but that doesn’t give her the right to act that way

  • @lainedelfelder4283
    @lainedelfelder4283 3 года назад +225

    Is DrPhil really letting that crazy woman emotionally blackmail that young girl? If you can’t work, go get counseling. You are in charge of you.

    • @diasavia246
      @diasavia246 3 года назад +8

      PERIOD, shes just lookin for someone to blame for it n not bein rational or reasonable; Ik her pain is severe but IDK how thats bein put up with

    • @samadams2575
      @samadams2575 3 года назад +6

      She’s pointing fingers without real evidence. I wish they had an update

  • @diogenes5127
    @diogenes5127 3 года назад +66

    Didn't she just say she couldn't move on because she will always think she contributed to her son's death?

    • @samadams2575
      @samadams2575 3 года назад +6

      She’s pointing fingers without real evidence. Even with what she’s going through I don’t agree with her. I wish their was an update

    • @rainydays9967
      @rainydays9967 3 года назад +1

      She contradicted herself about 4 times in one sentence

    • @hizgrase
      @hizgrase 3 года назад

      This mom is a trip. I don’t know if the girl did it or not but she’s like emotionally blackmailing her when she is straight out told her she won’t except her either way or believe her answer so why would the girl take the test? Are usually think they’re guilty if they refuse to take it but I’m on this girls side right now

    • @samadams2575
      @samadams2575 3 года назад +2

      @@hizgrase yeah I agree. I know what the mom is going through but if she didn’t do it it’s stupid of the mom not to accept her

    • @KingJackson11355
      @KingJackson11355 2 года назад +1

      Yeah she’s a nasty lady

  • @jacryan2004
    @jacryan2004 3 года назад +80

    That woman is gaslighting that poor young girl and trying to emotionally blackmail here into taking a test she will fail due to anxiety. The mother NEEDS her to be guilty to ease her grief, it cant be an accident for her

    • @samadams2575
      @samadams2575 3 года назад +2

      Yeah she’s pointing fingers without real evidence

  • @allimckoy6815
    @allimckoy6815 3 года назад +247

    I'm sorry but the mother and the aunt are convinced that she did it so they can find someone to blame. She is heartbroken. She wasnt allowed to grieve she wasnt allowed to mourn because people who were not there spread rumors during their grief. That mother wants to blame the person who loved him.

    • @zachwalton3544
      @zachwalton3544 3 года назад +1

      Did you watch the video? The mother said she was angry and abusive... she absolutely did it. It was an “accident” and she didn’t mean to kill him, sure. But she did it.

    • @allimckoy6815
      @allimckoy6815 3 года назад +6

      I dont care what race someone is never have never will. Not every single white person has an issue with someone who isn't white. I'm allowed to have my opinion without it being racially charged. If you cant think of another reason I'd have this opinion that's on you.

    • @samadams2575
      @samadams2575 3 года назад +3

      Yeah that lady is pointing fingers without real evidence

    • @bowenfeng9750
      @bowenfeng9750 2 года назад +2

      @@allimckoy6815 Ok let me pose a scenario for you.
      Let's say there was a guy, who has previous history of domestic abuse on his partner. He was arguing with his GF one day, and as they were arguing she fell over the stairs and died. How likely would you say that he was guilty? 70%? 80%? 100%?
      Now change the word "guy" and "his", with "girl" and "her", and you have the above episode. So, what makes this case different?
      Oh right, because she is a cute little girl and it is logically impossible for cute little girls to push a big bad man like him to his death.

    • @AndreNDP
      @AndreNDP 2 года назад

      @@bowenfeng9750 It wouldn't be my job to assess that. And clearly there was no compelling evidence of it.

  • @madturtle8826
    @madturtle8826 2 года назад +3

    Polygraphs are always a terrible idea. They can’t help, but can hurt

  • @AuDHD99
    @AuDHD99 3 года назад +66

    I've always thought it was disgusting how this mother treated that girl. That isn't okay, using Malcolm's hypothetical wishes to emotionally manipulate that girl and pressure her and shame her. It's just wrong. I don't care if you're grieving. You don't take it out on other people like that. And the way she’s wearing her wig is ridiculous, I’m just going to say it.

    • @KingJackson11355
      @KingJackson11355 2 года назад +6

      Exactly. What if she is innocent. We all go through losses in life. That doesn’t give you a right to be a you know what!!

  • @priscilla_garcia
    @priscilla_garcia 3 года назад +47

    Being 100% innocent, I'd never take a polygraph. They're unreliable, inadmissible in court, & an inconclusive result will basically seen as a fail. She needs to let go of the anger and grieve properly.

  • @vasacomereso2584
    @vasacomereso2584 3 года назад +897

    that wig was a choice.

  • @harrisshob5819
    @harrisshob5819 3 года назад +22

    if the results of the test wont help her then why would she take it for her for no reason.

    • @l.austin2371
      @l.austin2371 3 года назад +2

      Whether mom believes or not her name is cleared thats why

    • @samadams2575
      @samadams2575 3 года назад +1

      Honestly she’s pointing fingers without real evidence

  • @allglassnobrakes
    @allglassnobrakes 3 года назад +27

    "if you love me or him you'd do something you're not comfortable with" dr Phil, you're gonna let that happen? really?

  • @johnfairweather9188
    @johnfairweather9188 3 года назад +8

    The mom says that she will never be “cool” with the girl. Why should the girl care about that? She will never have a connection with them again.

  • @bellajones4652
    @bellajones4652 3 года назад +26

    i get the mom is going through a lot of stuff and it’s hard in her but i personally feel like it is so toxic and manipulative to say if you don’t take it you’ve never loved me or my son. she’s hurting to.

  • @haileyjean7081
    @haileyjean7081 3 года назад +17

    girl i wouldnt want to take one either i have terrible anxiety and you could fail so easily

  • @chauncie3431
    @chauncie3431 3 года назад +13

    If it was her that was dead and the young man refused a polygraph, I doubt everyone would be as understanding to him.

    • @KingJackson11355
      @KingJackson11355 2 года назад +1

      True

    • @courtnocase
      @courtnocase Год назад

      Exactly it’s cuz she’s yt. Read more about this case a lot of people believe she did it,

  • @masterleon40
    @masterleon40 3 года назад +40

    THE POLYGRAPH IS PSEUDOSCIENCE

    • @jaybayer3670
      @jaybayer3670 3 года назад +4

      It's not pseudoscience lol. It's just not an exact, 100% accurate tool.

    • @JustAnotherBuckyLover
      @JustAnotherBuckyLover 3 года назад +9

      @@jaybayer3670 No, it's pseudoscience. All it shows are signs that may be associated with stress. Do you not understand that isn't the same thing as lying? There's a reason it's not admissible in court. It's so easy to get false results and ambiguous results, you may as well toss a coin. It's like the idea there's some magical "tell" in body language and microexpressions that makes it clear someone is lying - that's not how it works either.

    • @jaybayer3670
      @jaybayer3670 3 года назад +2

      @@JustAnotherBuckyLover you're confused. You're thinking of "lie detector". A polygraph is just a tool to obtain data. Now the science of the polygraph analysis to determine deceitfulness can be debated for sure. But a polygraph is not pseudoscience.

    • @JustAnotherBuckyLover
      @JustAnotherBuckyLover 3 года назад +3

      @@jaybayer3670 I am not in the least bit confused but thanks for demonstrating you can read my mind as well as a polygraph. LOL, You're splitting hairs about the polygraph and whether the fact that it measures actual physiological data makes it scientific. Yes, it reads physiological data. But suggesting that can interpret anything beyond that is pure pseudoscience and you know FULL well that's what a polygraph is about, nothing more, nothing less. I'm sure you're also fully aware that "polygraph" as in "I'll take a polygraph" is short for "a polygraph test" - which is purely meant in the context of the attempt to detect deceit. Your playing semantics is disingenuous.

    • @spec_wasted
      @spec_wasted 3 года назад

      There's a competition to polygraph, I just don't remember the name

  • @joshjones7471
    @joshjones7471 3 года назад +40

    What I don’t get is why the mother wants her to be guilty so bad? My mother loves my girlfriend and wouldn’t even think she was capable of that.

    • @Idkdude50
      @Idkdude50 3 года назад +2

      Your mom would probably turn on your girlfriend if she stupidly wanted someone to blame for your death.

    • @joshjones7471
      @joshjones7471 3 года назад +4

      But blaming people doesn’t solve anything.. sticking together helps unless you have proof on the other person

    • @nickyhoward
      @nickyhoward 3 года назад +3

      Because she was already abusing her son, it gave her even more of a reason to believe it was the girlfriend.

    • @MySweetAriane
      @MySweetAriane 2 года назад

      Because she doesn't trust her

  • @TCSkiFilms
    @TCSkiFilms 3 года назад +50

    Soooo "I want her to take the test so she (mom) can get over it and move on".... BS If the girl fails the test she will not be over it and will demand prosecution. Grandfather is right. Much like your Miranda rights; anything you say can and WILL be used AGAINST you. Tons of videos by detectives and FBI agents saying never talk to the police and ask for a lawyer.

    • @TCSkiFilms
      @TCSkiFilms 3 года назад +1

      @@johnlucas4884 No lawyer would tell their client to take a lie detector test especially if they might be guilty.
      The mother says she just wants to know so she can move on and says that even if she passed she would still blame her for her son being gone. If she really just wants to know the truth from the lie detector with the girl should say is sign a paper that says all lawsuits and everything will be dropped no matter what the results are.
      Whether she is guilty or not guilty she cannot be convicted unless she wants to confess and I think you're being disingenuous because if you are involved in a crime or accident and you knew it was your fault but they don't know that and they can't prove it that you would come forward and say no it was my fault.
      I can imagine that the next issue is a civil case where the burden of proof isn't beyond a shadow of doubt.

    • @DantesInferno96
      @DantesInferno96 2 года назад

      But if she fails then she's a criminal

  • @RndZApprox
    @RndZApprox 3 года назад +39

    I can guarantee you if she took the test you wont move on.

    • @janedoe7229
      @janedoe7229 3 года назад +1

      Exactly

    • @hizgrase
      @hizgrase 3 года назад

      I agree. She wants to have an issue Right now. She said she won’t believe it either way so why should the girl take it

    • @KingJackson11355
      @KingJackson11355 2 года назад +1

      That lady is a piece of work. We all go through major losses in life but we have to move on. Hers is no worse

  • @shamaliwije4872
    @shamaliwije4872 3 года назад +23

    I don’t know why the audience is clapping for the Mom’s emotional manipulation. If they were in the girl’s shoes, they’d do the same thing as the girlfriend. The Mom is grieving, which I can understand, and I’m very sorry for her loss and her anguish. But it seems like she’s looking to just blame someone and not hold her dead son accountable for his behavior, which seems to be bordering on, or outright, harassment of the girlfriend. I think she needs grief counseling and therapy.

    • @Goldiegirl2009
      @Goldiegirl2009 2 года назад +2

      Because many of Dr. Phil’s shows turn into Jerry Springer shows is why the audience clapped!

  • @jaimefialkowski2219
    @jaimefialkowski2219 2 года назад +14

    I’m not taking a lie detector test, I’m not putting my life in the hands of faulty equipment or the interpretation of an alleged expert

  • @Sad.pookie
    @Sad.pookie 3 года назад +39

    The audience can stop clapping lmao

  • @ryanorielly5617
    @ryanorielly5617 2 года назад +4

    This mother is a monster with the constant guilt trips, you don’t have to prove ur innocence if you aren’t charged with something it just seems like the mother was mad with grief and looking for someone to blame

  • @heavenphillips3867
    @heavenphillips3867 3 года назад +16

    Every relationship involves arguments, it's not her fault that he died unless she really did do it on purpose.

  • @Orion227
    @Orion227 3 года назад +16

    It won’t be over with, you are grieving, you will find something else to blame her for. What the girlfriend does will never know satisfy a grieving mother.

    • @samadams2575
      @samadams2575 3 года назад +2

      I understand what the mother is going through but she’s pointing fingers without real evidence

    • @KingJackson11355
      @KingJackson11355 2 года назад +1

      This lady is a piece of work. We all go through major losses but we have to move on. Hers is no different

  • @cats.m.2853
    @cats.m.2853 3 года назад +6

    A teenager should not be forced and manipulated like this into a polygraph. Polygraphs are absolutely faulty and her grandpa is correct there is a ton of room for false implication there. It doesn’t mean she’s guilty when she refuses it means she’s smart.

  • @rodneyrobinson4346
    @rodneyrobinson4346 3 года назад +14

    How you fall side ways over a railing with out being push

    • @l.austin2371
      @l.austin2371 3 года назад +1

      That part

    • @missloco5914
      @missloco5914 3 года назад +8

      He was drunk dummy

    • @duds5538
      @duds5538 3 года назад +1

      Being drunk , trust me I felt in some ridiculous ways and the handle of the staircase was just way to low

    • @CarisstaRashele
      @CarisstaRashele 2 года назад +1

      Easily, lose footing because you’re intoxicated. You’re asking a pro because I’ve did it twice and thank god it wasn’t too far and I hit grass.

  • @HarlieHarlot
    @HarlieHarlot 3 года назад +74

    I am not saying I believe the gf but it is true that the polygraph can give false results. I read a report that stated a person can honestly reply no but they can feel guilty (i.e. if i didnt meet up with the person this incident would not have happened, i feel i am the reason this happened i think when i did this this what caused that incident). Any thoughts of trying to hold yourself accountable can be detected by polygraph making results false negative or inconclusive.

    • @08starheart
      @08starheart 3 года назад +3

      I have anxiety as well, and can see both sides of it. The real question is 'did she mean it', it's a matter of intent (gf seems really nice). In this case, yes it's unfortunate that it happened in front of the girlfriend (be traumatized for sure) and sure it was just an accident.

  • @imalionimaqueen7234
    @imalionimaqueen7234 3 года назад +8

    If I was asked to take a polygraph test I wouldn't cause I have anxiety, so even if I wasn't guilty they would think I was.

    • @jonathandevereaux298
      @jonathandevereaux298 4 месяца назад

      Not how they work. They ask unrelated questions to set a baseline so it would adjust for your anxiety. The people who get false positives are the types who blame themselves for everything and the types who get false negatives are the opposite.

  • @hadassah356
    @hadassah356 3 года назад +3

    She doesn’t need that girl to take a polygraph test. She wouldn’t accept the results, unless she failed, and that wouldn’t bring her son back. I hope she can learn to deal with her grief.

  • @outsidersongs2682
    @outsidersongs2682 2 года назад +15

    Seeing as lie detector tests are legally inadmissable (because they cannot reliably detect guilt or innocence), a good lawyer would advise not to take one in any and every circumstance.
    It's a test that the law, scientists and the courts would ignore, but sadly the public are completely convinced by.
    Dr Phil needs to stop doing these tests. They tell audiences nothing but are presented as informative.

  • @thecuriousgamingwarlock5026
    @thecuriousgamingwarlock5026 3 года назад +31

    First impressions are the girl is innocent

    • @StefanTheCannon
      @StefanTheCannon 3 года назад +1

      The whites in the comment section agree with you

    • @thecuriousgamingwarlock5026
      @thecuriousgamingwarlock5026 3 года назад +12

      @@StefanTheCannon whats race got to do with it? I can't tell if your being facetious

    • @samadams2575
      @samadams2575 3 года назад +7

      For me race has nothing to do with it. But I feel like that lady is pointing fingers at her without real evidence. I do wish they had an update

    • @KingJackson11355
      @KingJackson11355 2 года назад +1

      @@samadams2575 I agree with that

  • @ronyagpd
    @ronyagpd 2 года назад +2

    The mother will never move on and never forgive whatever the result so the girl is on a hiding to nothing.

  • @northeastjerk6381
    @northeastjerk6381 2 года назад +2

    Never incriminate yourself. Guilty or innocent

  • @basukisugito3275
    @basukisugito3275 3 года назад +2

    There is a huge problem if she is innocent and that test showing positive. What will rest of the world and the young woman's family think??

    • @samadams2575
      @samadams2575 3 года назад +2

      I don’t agree with the mother. She’s pointing fingers without real evidence

  • @yesleksmith
    @yesleksmith 2 года назад +5

    I'd fail. Even if I was innocent I'd be freaking out. Feel like those tests don't work properly for a lot of people.

  • @stingsbaseball1
    @stingsbaseball1 3 года назад +3

    “I just wanna go to work” yeah right....

    • @samadams2575
      @samadams2575 3 года назад +2

      I don’t agree with the mother. She’s pointing fingers without real evidence

  • @leehogg6248
    @leehogg6248 3 года назад +6

    A test might pick up on her feelings of guilt about his death as anybody would have if they felt they could have done more to prevent an accident.

  • @Deathlobster137
    @Deathlobster137 3 года назад +3

    Polygraphs are very unreliable and I wouldn’t take one either

  • @autumnfatale
    @autumnfatale 3 года назад +3

    She probably wouldn't take the polygraph because it's bunk science.

  • @urfavsh1teditor
    @urfavsh1teditor 2 года назад +6

    I actually can't believe the audience were clapping for the mum. My heart aches for her but if Malcom had ever loved Chloe, he wouldn't want her to take that test. He would want his mum to accept he's gone because of himself and for her to stop being in denial because of grief 😔 ☹️

    • @addorsubtract650
      @addorsubtract650 11 дней назад

      but u don't know that he was gone because of himself. U are ASSUMING that she's innocent simply cuz she's a white chick. Girlfriends kill their boyfriends/husbands all the fukin time. It's nothing new. If she did kill, the guy would want her to be brought to justice and for his mom to know the truth

  • @Lave_cake
    @Lave_cake 2 года назад +3

    Idk this girl just give me bad vibes maybe she was just being a bratty girlfriend and it was a stupid accident but there's something about her that just rubs me the wrong way and let me tell u there is nothing stronger then a mother's gut instinct and if u feel that someone has harmed your child it's a feeling that is incredibly hard to shake so I feel for her immensely.

  • @tyreseforren8043
    @tyreseforren8043 3 года назад +5

    In my opinion this young lady is innocent because she's never said anything bad about him and most guilty girls would play the victim card and gaslight that person.

  • @thecuriousgamingwarlock5026
    @thecuriousgamingwarlock5026 3 года назад +17

    Actually on second thought..

  • @DanielRodriguez-nj5ji
    @DanielRodriguez-nj5ji 2 года назад +6

    At first when I read the title I thought to myself wow she won't take it cause she knows she's guilty but after listening to her reasons why she doesn'twant to, I'm taking her side on not to and I think she's in a really hard position between doing so or not doing it.

  • @beautycrossing5584
    @beautycrossing5584 3 года назад +4

    Mother is in the wrong I understand she lost her baby and she’s devastated but she said whether she’s telling the truth or not she’ll have a problem with her. That girl can’t win

    • @samadams2575
      @samadams2575 3 года назад +2

      I agree. I understand what she’s going through but she’s pointing fingers without real evidence. I wish their was an update

    • @KingJackson11355
      @KingJackson11355 2 года назад +1

      Exactly. She’s a nasty lady

  • @cuzzotrillo5305
    @cuzzotrillo5305 3 года назад +5

    My attorney/grandfather 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @divinity176
    @divinity176 3 года назад +2

    I wouldn't have taken one either... but then I wouldn't have gone on national TV about it...

  • @KeithChestnut
    @KeithChestnut 3 года назад +14

    Naw, she looking someone to blame, irregardless of facts or a test, she still is going to look someone to blame, and the girl is right, not to take the test !

    • @samadams2575
      @samadams2575 3 года назад +2

      Exactly she’s pointing fingers without real evidence

  • @ghostie4223
    @ghostie4223 3 года назад +3

    So basically the mom claims she would never leave him but then accuses her of killing him .. yes makes PERFECT sense

  • @haileycorrea5421
    @haileycorrea5421 Год назад +1

    “that will give me closer” i get she’s grieving but she’s trying to pin that grief on someone, and it’s chloe she’s putting it on.

  • @myracassady3430
    @myracassady3430 3 года назад +4

    Bro this is my brothers baby mama and I never knew she made it to dr Phil

    • @KingJackson11355
      @KingJackson11355 2 года назад +1

      She’s acting like a nasty lady the mother

  • @missloco5914
    @missloco5914 3 года назад +18

    Mamas wig needs settling down.

    • @bugsbunnypoo
      @bugsbunnypoo 3 года назад +2

      ikr LOL

    • @missloco5914
      @missloco5914 3 года назад

      @Sarah White loser

    • @alexusramsey4894
      @alexusramsey4894 3 года назад +1

      Her son just died and your makeup looks horrendous

    • @scarlettroger1508
      @scarlettroger1508 3 года назад +5

      So it’s ok to insult a woman (whose son passed away) about her wig, but when someone insults you about your makeup you call them a loser? I think the term I’m looking for here is ‘hypocrite’.

    • @wioi
      @wioi 3 года назад +3

      @@missloco5914 you look more like loser actually. The mother is grieving because her son is dead and you worry about her hair

  • @royadartube
    @royadartube 2 года назад +1

    Listen to your lawyer. Don't do something that you are highly advised against by a lawyer.

  • @megopheim5228
    @megopheim5228 2 года назад +1

    How dare the audience start clapping on this sort of situation. This is too traumatic for any outsiders (audience) to start picking sides.

  • @abcz4770
    @abcz4770 3 года назад +10

    The mom just looking for someone to blame

  • @zehtroid
    @zehtroid 2 года назад

    She outright said the polygraph would do nothing. She would still indirectly putting the blame on her.

  • @Ma007rk
    @Ma007rk 2 года назад +5

    My heart goes out to the mother but the Teenager is right about not wanting to take a polygraph. Even if she was to take it, and she passed with flying colors the Mother has already indicated that they will never be "Cool" and that there will always be something between them.

  • @bokua5684
    @bokua5684 3 года назад +91

    The moms hair is just.....horrible. like the style is fine but my god it's floating 4 feet above her head! 😳

    • @kurapika6905
      @kurapika6905 3 года назад +12

      Ok emily

    • @Soyouareseparated
      @Soyouareseparated 3 года назад +9

      That ur comment..mother is greuvung over her son and the girl directly across from her is probably guilty..and you are talking about her hair???

    • @Fsnoreen
      @Fsnoreen 3 года назад

      @@Soyouareseparated u

    • @kai-janafarrar9984
      @kai-janafarrar9984 3 года назад

      @@Soyouareseparated yes LMFAO. Twas hilarious as well

    • @Naturally3m0
      @Naturally3m0 3 года назад +4

      Literally what I was thinking!! Like wtfffff.....

  • @WallaceDunn
    @WallaceDunn 3 года назад +8

    Mama got issues...

    • @tessallon4355
      @tessallon4355 3 года назад +2

      duh she lost her son

    • @samadams2575
      @samadams2575 3 года назад +2

      I understand what she’s going through but she’s pointing fingers without real evidence

    • @KingJackson11355
      @KingJackson11355 2 года назад +1

      She’s a nasty lady

  • @mindymiljour4672
    @mindymiljour4672 3 года назад +4

    Her grandfather is right. Anyone who disagrees is dumb. You need to listen to your attorney even moreso if innocent than guilty. You have rights for a reason.

  • @theatremutiny
    @theatremutiny 3 года назад +4

    If she was black, they would locked her up anyways, no test even needed. Privileged. Lying gives me anxiety too. She ain't special.

    • @butterflybeauty615
      @butterflybeauty615 3 года назад +2

      We can’t help it that our ethnicity or skin color gives us advantages😘

    • @samadams2575
      @samadams2575 3 года назад +2

      Honestly the mother is pointing fingers without real evidence. I wish their was an update on this

    • @KingJackson11355
      @KingJackson11355 2 года назад +1

      That mother is so nasty

    • @mitonrocha3351
      @mitonrocha3351 2 года назад

      @@butterflybeauty615 im glad you admit it

  • @brendaparker3825
    @brendaparker3825 2 года назад +1

    Accidents happen. Especially if you are intoxicated. The mother is a bully!

  • @williamhufnagel7327
    @williamhufnagel7327 2 года назад +1

    " We will never be cool " , but if you care about me you will take the test...

    • @KingJackson11355
      @KingJackson11355 2 года назад +1

      As sad as the situation is she really doesn’t owe the family anything and it makes no sense for them to be in contact

  • @0r0r0
    @0r0r0 3 года назад +2

    His mother just wants some place to put the blame. She already has put it on the young woman, but if she fails the polygraph she'll have every reason to blame her and no push back.

  • @brandy6603
    @brandy6603 2 года назад +3

    I don’t think this girl was the cause for this young man’s unfortunate death. She seems to be genuinely sad and sorry that he’s gone. I get that the mother is grieving and she misses her son dearly. But the truth is, she’ll probably always blame the girlfriend, no matter what a polygraph test would say.

  • @antoniobiancaniello7047
    @antoniobiancaniello7047 3 года назад +6

    “You think you know everything don’t you? You’re like a black woman in hindsight!”
    -for anyone who gets the reference

  • @stephaniehall5095
    @stephaniehall5095 3 года назад +2

    Really she doesn't owe the mother anything. As sad as that situation would be, she doesn't owe the mother anything.

  • @teabaggervance8
    @teabaggervance8 3 года назад +1

    My knee jerk reaction is not going to work....wtf

  • @TearsPlays
    @TearsPlays 2 года назад +1

    because she didnt prove shes innocent, does not make her guilty

    • @KingJackson11355
      @KingJackson11355 2 года назад

      Exactly. That nasty lady is assuming without real evidence

  • @user-rx2uz4kq9x
    @user-rx2uz4kq9x 2 года назад +1

    If your innocent, you have nothing to hide.....so take the poly if your innocent!!!

  • @sidewalksurf800
    @sidewalksurf800 2 года назад

    Polygraphs aren’t admissible in court, what she scared of

  • @tmac6904
    @tmac6904 3 года назад +3

    the mother is acting like a you know what ...

  • @mariabailon129
    @mariabailon129 2 года назад +1

    The mom saying that she wouldn’t like her and they would never be cool no matter what so why take the test if the mom still isn’t gonna like her and still gonna blame her?

    • @KingJackson11355
      @KingJackson11355 2 года назад +1

      She really doesn’t owe the family anything if she wasn’t proven guilty. As sad as it is she really doesn’t

  • @jambutty2218
    @jambutty2218 2 года назад +1

    The mum wants someone to blame. She’s taking out her grief on the girl. The mum needs to grow up.

    • @KingJackson11355
      @KingJackson11355 2 года назад +2

      I agree

    • @mitonrocha3351
      @mitonrocha3351 2 года назад

      you obviously dont have kids

    • @KingJackson11355
      @KingJackson11355 2 года назад

      @@mitonrocha3351 ok and? We have also been through other major losses and didn’t act like this accusing people

  • @atcred3
    @atcred3 3 года назад +7

    SHE CAN GET HER HAIR AND NAILS DONE....BUT GOING TO WORK...NAAAAAW

  • @jonathonedwardmiller
    @jonathonedwardmiller 3 года назад +3

    The boyfriends mom is horrible

    • @samadams2575
      @samadams2575 3 года назад +2

      I agree. I understand what she’s going through but she’s pointing fingers at her without real evidence. I wish they had an update

    • @KingJackson11355
      @KingJackson11355 2 года назад +1

      Yes she is

  • @lilshmurda5832
    @lilshmurda5832 3 года назад +4

    I don't trust her any more

  • @TheGGH25
    @TheGGH25 3 года назад +5

    i’m sorry but this kinda blows my mind. the mom admitted that even if she passed the test, she’d still blame her. why would you push her to take it then? how would it help you move on if you’re still going to blame her either way?

    • @corberus3119
      @corberus3119 3 года назад

      she said that even if it was proven that the girl didn't push him the mother would still hold her PARTIALLY responsible because the girl caused a fight with her son that may have contributed to his death 1:46 to 2:27

    • @samadams2575
      @samadams2575 3 года назад +1

      I don’t agree with the mom either. She’s pointing fingers without real evidence. I wish they had an update

    • @KingJackson11355
      @KingJackson11355 2 года назад +1

      Yeah what a nasty lady

  • @cbel888
    @cbel888 2 года назад +1

    Do not take the test. How many times does she have to say no. No is an answer.

  • @yarnpower
    @yarnpower 3 года назад +1

    As a long time hiker, I have seen so many people taking risks near edges. Same with stair cases, especially when drinking!

  • @markmaclean4130
    @markmaclean4130 3 года назад +7

    Karla is right "I loved him" (past tense) and the mother says "if you love my family like you say you do" present tense.

    • @itsnottimetostop4462
      @itsnottimetostop4462 3 года назад +20

      Well yh, people speak in past tense for dead people ffs

    • @brettstaley8386
      @brettstaley8386 3 года назад +8

      Because he is no longer in the present bud

    • @KingJackson11355
      @KingJackson11355 2 года назад

      She really doesn’t owe the family anything. As sad as the situation is she really doesn’t

  • @CryotoWolf
    @CryotoWolf 2 года назад +1

    There is a reason they ain't used in courtrooms...

  • @graceramey4443
    @graceramey4443 2 года назад +1

    How dare that mother guilt that girl

  • @chayacarney5873
    @chayacarney5873 3 года назад +14

    maybe she feels guilty. coz in a way she did cause it. maybe by picking a fight with him when he's walking up the stairs

    • @lannabryanna
      @lannabryanna 3 года назад +4

      WTF? his death still wouldn't be her fault though. If you watch the full episode....it says he was intoxicated.

    • @ravenclawhouse9616
      @ravenclawhouse9616 3 года назад +7

      @@lannabryanna I think they're saying that even though she didnt cause it she may still feel guilty bc they were fighting and then he tripped so if maybe she feels a little guilty about what happened the lie detector test might show that and say shes lieing

  • @thelimey351
    @thelimey351 2 года назад +1

    The polygraph is unreliable, it fails too often - so I don’t blame her.

  • @randalfavs6638
    @randalfavs6638 2 года назад +1

    Nobody will ever know except her

  • @horsegirl07
    @horsegirl07 2 года назад +2

    I don’t blame her at all. She and her grandpa are exactly right, they are easy to fail. She could just be nervous regardless and tell the truth but, still show a “lie”. I think the mom just wants someone to blame, I hope she gets some help. Don’t try to guilt her into it.

  • @user-rx2uz4kq9x
    @user-rx2uz4kq9x 2 года назад +1

    "Were never going to be cool."
    💯💯💯💯💯💯

    • @KingJackson11355
      @KingJackson11355 2 года назад +1

      But if she did not do it she should have nothing against her though

  • @myjeanification
    @myjeanification 2 года назад

    Theres a reason polygraphs can’t be used in court and I’d never take one.