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  • Опубликовано: 20 июн 2019
  • After Sne tells Mseleku about her ordeal with abuse as a young child, her father promises to fight it all together with her.
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  • @MillyMilkUbisi
    @MillyMilkUbisi 5 лет назад +164

    I think it also affected her mentally 😭😭😭😢

  • @perfectlyimperfect1095
    @perfectlyimperfect1095 5 лет назад +144

    She is like a small child recounting this trauma. She literally went back to the head space of that little girl who was abused. This is so very sad.

  • @ameliasithole4807
    @ameliasithole4807 5 лет назад +106

    Wen ubaba said we will win ezulwini that touched my heart

  • @thabsilemanana6484
    @thabsilemanana6484 5 лет назад +49

    I wish i had this support 😞

  • @nonoseobakeng1424
    @nonoseobakeng1424 5 лет назад +166

    Mseleku, could you atleast hug your daughter

    • @zamamgogo2070
      @zamamgogo2070 5 лет назад

      Nonofo Seobakeng 😭😭😭😭😭

    • @ceehleg5922
      @ceehleg5922 5 лет назад +18

      Some people are awkward in these situations. I can see the pain in both their eyes

    • @christinamsimanga-zondo8605
      @christinamsimanga-zondo8605 5 лет назад +20

      Its not all fathers who hug girls. He is a traditional man

    • @relaxationnetwork4509
      @relaxationnetwork4509 5 лет назад +3

      i was also waiting for the hug

    • @cebisilemabaso8445
      @cebisilemabaso8445 5 лет назад +7

      I think he is very traditional, huging someone does not mean that you love and support them. I really like how he handled this, he showed her so much love and support. I hope that Sne will change her behaviour as well after this and thay she will receive all the help that she needs. When he said "Ngiyakukholwa mina" that meant everything.

  • @noendlovu4788
    @noendlovu4788 5 лет назад +52

    It was good to see u Mseleku showing compassion towards u Sne and reassuring her. I wish he had hugged her as well coz she sure looked like she needed one. All the best Sne, daddy is going to take care of it and I thank God for his support.

  • @nompumelelomdluli4730
    @nompumelelomdluli4730 5 лет назад +85

    Sne needs a lot of therapy💔

  • @nicolesakwe1973
    @nicolesakwe1973 5 лет назад +35

    😭😭 this is a very hard thing to watch. Very heartbreaking for a father when he realised that he couldn't protect his daughter. 💔

  • @nthabisengnthabi51
    @nthabisengnthabi51 5 лет назад +42

    This is so painful, i know the feeling. And the most painful part is when you tell the truth no one believes you especially when that person is one of the family member.

  • @samkelosibiya2700
    @samkelosibiya2700 5 лет назад +68

    Poor Sne😢, eyii sorry nana, as a parent i dont want to lie im very angry for dis abusive man nxaaa

  • @udeohachimezie8003
    @udeohachimezie8003 5 лет назад +39

    Poor sne are faced the same thing growing pls baba stand for daughter

  • @kibalikamau3003
    @kibalikamau3003 4 года назад +18

    The guy didn't break her future, her future is still bright regardless of what she through in the past..

    • @lalauma1
      @lalauma1 3 года назад +4

      I hated when he said that. She still has a bright future she is still whole. That guy didn't take everything from her.🥺

    • @mangoanne2023
      @mangoanne2023 Год назад

      If her behaviour was caused by that incident and it isn't fixed then of course he has broken a bright future for her. She needs to do better to shame the devil. I do hope she wins.

  • @keamasinga3629
    @keamasinga3629 4 года назад +12

    I watched a show about this woman who was sexually assaulted at a very young age and she created different personalities to escape it. She had multiple personality disorder.
    I think this girl stopped growing mentally when the abuse started. It's really sad and I hope she gets help.

  • @phuthikhosa6847
    @phuthikhosa6847 5 лет назад +17

    I say no to sexual abuse. Fight for your daughter baba. Her heart will heal with time and God will restore her confidence again.

  • @thandekamazibuko1066
    @thandekamazibuko1066 4 года назад +18

    Hurt 😭😭😭😭I still go through depression even today

  • @thenjiwekubeka3834
    @thenjiwekubeka3834 5 лет назад +32

    "NGIYAKUKHOLWA" (Umelaphile umntanakho ngalelizwi nje Mthombeni)

  • @lindokuhlemamba4052
    @lindokuhlemamba4052 4 года назад +22

    This was so painful and somehow I feel healed because I went through the same ordeal and my justice will be in heaven.

    • @Bhinqi
      @Bhinqi 3 года назад +2

      Im so sorry, hope one day you find peace and justice ❤.

    • @ritamoyo8470
      @ritamoyo8470 3 года назад +2

      Sending you hugs

    • @ivoyageworldwide1872
      @ivoyageworldwide1872 3 года назад +2

      Sending you love lindo💔💓

  • @mangermagdeline1173
    @mangermagdeline1173 5 лет назад +10

    I understand why Mseleku is so hard on Sne coz it's his 1st born. May the good Lord bless uMamkhulu for always being there for her child and hopefully in time she will change her mind about the 2nd one.

  • @nomalungelolinda2281
    @nomalungelolinda2281 5 лет назад +35

    It's so sad when relatives are beefing, children became casualties of war and unfortunately that was Sne. This animal took advantage of Sne's strained relationship with Musa and abused her for years. Poor Sne! 😔😔😔

  • @norahdlokolo8914
    @norahdlokolo8914 5 лет назад +23

    That why I always tell my daughter not to trust any man baba bhuti malume the world is dangerous

  • @firandcurly84
    @firandcurly84 5 лет назад +21

    The best thing we can hear from parents is " I believe you." I'm glad Sne got to hear that from her dad. On the other hand please, please I'm rooting for you , turn your life around, pray ,seek God, He will give you wisdom, and strength. Take your lemons made lemonade and overcome. Don't use this as a excuse to ruin your destiny. What your dad said is true they have not taken your destiny. Profound.

  • @rosesimelane641
    @rosesimelane641 5 лет назад +8

    How i wish i can Hug Sne 💔😢

  • @nosifelicitymzalwana3772
    @nosifelicitymzalwana3772 4 года назад +3

    It touched my heart when baba said I will support you but uyiphathe kahle nawe as my child😥

  • @rufaromativenga5796
    @rufaromativenga5796 5 лет назад +5

    this explains it all why Sne is kinda dfnt from all the other kids.her inner soul was destroyed.she lost confidence,self esteem.poor Sne.

  • @kele.revelation945
    @kele.revelation945 5 лет назад +4

    I am glad they gave her a platform where she can tell her truth. She deserves to get justice. Sorry baby girl for going through such. Physical abuse is so much painful,so sad. I hope your father is there for you no mattter what. Remember your mistakes will never define as a person. Hope you heal so that you may get your life back,even if you don't get your childhood back but at least you owe you older self happiness and strength.

  • @rasrealitymacky3489
    @rasrealitymacky3489 3 года назад +6

    That definitely affected her psychology hence justifying her behaviour. This is sad

  • @hlehmamhlophe1259
    @hlehmamhlophe1259 5 лет назад +11

    Mmm jehovah God will deal with that man, enyukubeza ingane ncane 😭

  • @bohlokoaramoholo4986
    @bohlokoaramoholo4986 5 лет назад +24

    I know the pain. I'm so sorry , try to be strong

    • @djvaughn2367
      @djvaughn2367 5 лет назад +1

      💛🙏so sorry my dearest 😭 you didn't deserve it. We're standing with you

  • @sandisiwemlindazwe6667
    @sandisiwemlindazwe6667 5 лет назад +14

    Masingayi win nanga la emhlabeni,,eZulwini soyi win kuba iqiniso liyaziwa,,Heee babu wakhuluma njengo Mzali nyani yhooo 😢😢

  • @mmetinymotsumi7989
    @mmetinymotsumi7989 3 года назад +5

    Joooo Sne I understand fully what you went through she needs counseling and thank you Baba to support Sne Love so much Sne and ❤⚘👑

  • @noziphotshabalala569
    @noziphotshabalala569 5 лет назад +3

    Baba be a shield for your daughter protect her like you never did before love her like you never did before ... And to Sne stay stronger than before it will take time but one day you will heal and move on my dear make your father proud and Be the mother your kid will need

  • @shantellgeorge6391
    @shantellgeorge6391 5 лет назад +22

    This is so sad. I feel it for her. Eish

  • @lovenessnjambilo7365
    @lovenessnjambilo7365 5 лет назад +9

    Shame baby girl and daddy is on yo side he will help yu to fight

  • @kingmabaso1336
    @kingmabaso1336 4 года назад +5

    My heart is bleeding. . . 😢

  • @zaneledlamini3614
    @zaneledlamini3614 5 лет назад +1

    Wetfukile Sne shame and nawe Mseleku kumele ube friendly when dealing with the child,I liked it nawutsi if you don't win it on earth you'll definately win it in heaven,wow that was so touching.Kushode nje i hug bo babakhe.

  • @cleopatrahhazel9845
    @cleopatrahhazel9845 5 лет назад +5

    I'm soo hurt snee say no to any type of abuse women,, let's stand up for our rights... like it if u say no to women Abuse

    • @rosemotaung8520
      @rosemotaung8520 5 лет назад

      Thanks baba mseleku..i really feel ur pyn kubuhlungu sizowina ezulwini..snee unkulu nkulu akhe isimilo sakho..ngiya thandaza

  • @wonkemaqubela485
    @wonkemaqubela485 Месяц назад

    😢😢 she is telling the truth. Its showing in her body language. I wish he can give her a hug and tell her she is safe now...he is still a great dad with wise words.

  • @irisburch9863
    @irisburch9863 5 лет назад +2

    So sad. So many evil people in this world. I pray that God blesses her with a bright future.

  • @thapelomokgobelelo3722
    @thapelomokgobelelo3722 5 лет назад +4

    Ooh my God ths is heartbreaking😭😭😭😭

  • @carolinecaroline8167
    @carolinecaroline8167 5 лет назад +6

    This is soo sad 😢😢

  • @silentlessons4221
    @silentlessons4221 3 года назад +1

    if we dont win it on earth we will win it in heaven. wow. mark those words you who think u can get away with evil.

  • @ntombikayisendlovu4807
    @ntombikayisendlovu4807 5 лет назад +4

    But he is supporting her, at the end.

  • @gugumashiyane660
    @gugumashiyane660 4 года назад +18

    Sne is afraid of her father. They don’t really have a relationship

    • @mxolisimahlangu8599
      @mxolisimahlangu8599 4 года назад +3

      She has to be afraid of her Dad at the same time know to tell him anything.
      We have girls who are not afraid of their Dads and they end up disrespecting them.

    • @palesamogorosi8939
      @palesamogorosi8939 2 года назад +2

      @@mxolisimahlangu8599 nonsense, one shouldn't be afraid of their dad because that only builds a wall between the parent and child; which in turn leads to lack of openness and even affection. A child needs to respect their dad, not fear him. That doesn't help.

  • @thandomyeza76
    @thandomyeza76 5 лет назад +2

    😭😭😭Ey Mseleku mfethu kubi. Silwa izimpi nabantu esingazi ukuthi sabenzani. Indaba kaSne inzima kakhulu bafethu 😭😭😭

  • @zinhlegumede1698
    @zinhlegumede1698 3 года назад +3

    I also went thru the same.. Our stories are exactly the same Sne.. I know ur pain dear it's the scar u will olways have but life goes on

  • @dipoleloshirley4407
    @dipoleloshirley4407 3 года назад +1

    She's even scared to talk to the father he dnt even trust even the father bcz the person was sent by the father the person was lying hmmm

  • @happyngulube1871
    @happyngulube1871 3 года назад +2

    Trauma

  • @nothandonyoni4317
    @nothandonyoni4317 5 лет назад +6

    Sibaningi oSneh la ngaphandle but most i blame the tradition that saw freedom of speech as losing respect and this prevented younger generation to think telling is disrespect to elders...you keep secrets until you are older so you will be listened to....

  • @ncanepenny
    @ncanepenny 5 лет назад

    U derserve gold medal.

  • @ingridmanyapye9839
    @ingridmanyapye9839 5 лет назад +3

    But thus man instead of hugging his daughter he just ask questions

  • @nontethelelovilakazi580
    @nontethelelovilakazi580 4 года назад

    awu daddy show some love give her a hug she needs it from youuuu

  • @luvunoluvuno5907
    @luvunoluvuno5907 5 лет назад +1

    This is painful 😭😭😢

  • @nondumisohestertshabalala4074
    @nondumisohestertshabalala4074 5 лет назад

    Amen

  • @amandasibiya9461
    @amandasibiya9461 2 года назад +1

    Okubalulekile ukuth uyamkholwa💕💞

  • @nomavamangxola8077
    @nomavamangxola8077 3 года назад +1

    Woow Sne I feel hurt about this father help her

  • @bentleyboogyman9299
    @bentleyboogyman9299 5 лет назад

    Wow 😥😥

  • @fikilendlovu220
    @fikilendlovu220 4 года назад

    So sad 💔💔

  • @lathancube16
    @lathancube16 5 лет назад

    This is very painful sorry cc

  • @nomondenkuna6365
    @nomondenkuna6365 4 года назад

    So painful

  • @nombulelozulu602
    @nombulelozulu602 2 года назад +1

    Ngxesi Mthombeni 😢

  • @annahletsoalo4261
    @annahletsoalo4261 5 лет назад

    That's painful

  • @rachelmmanoka-fu9ez
    @rachelmmanoka-fu9ez 5 месяцев назад

    😭😭😭😭😭im so proud of that girl coz is painful and most of the girls endup in big hole of trauma ,,, depression,, suicide etc

  • @sthembilekhumalo1543
    @sthembilekhumalo1543 5 лет назад +1

    😿😿😿yaze yabuhlungu inhliziyo yami

  • @ladyjessmdolomba6527
    @ladyjessmdolomba6527 5 лет назад +1

    Ai poor child😢😢😢

  • @morongoakarabolekgathe2387
    @morongoakarabolekgathe2387 5 лет назад

    😭😭😭this is painful

  • @user-nt2vn7le7l
    @user-nt2vn7le7l 2 месяца назад

    But that man need to be punished serious because he affects sne mentally and physically 😢😢😢

  • @joemoja1panstulajoemoja1pa76
    @joemoja1panstulajoemoja1pa76 5 лет назад

    Kumele
    Ashiyiwe Nge profet kabo
    pastor loayenze okubi.

  • @nombulelozulu602
    @nombulelozulu602 2 года назад

    I feel your pain Mthombeni.

  • @nombulelozulu602
    @nombulelozulu602 2 года назад

    Amen. Ezulwini liyaziwa iqiniso

  • @judithndlovu9291
    @judithndlovu9291 5 лет назад +1

    Kwaze kwazwisa inhlungu lokhu.

  • @andiswadokolwana2041
    @andiswadokolwana2041 5 лет назад +1

    Uxolo cc

  • @user-tn9lo2cr5m
    @user-tn9lo2cr5m 2 месяца назад

    😢yoooo aychana, ay kubuhlungu ukuzwa umunt esebuhlungwini nkosi yam ey kwaz kwanzim but phephisa mfetu so much

  • @lilliannzondietofile3710
    @lilliannzondietofile3710 4 года назад

    A brave man mseleku

  • @babalwamaqukunya2253
    @babalwamaqukunya2253 5 лет назад

    This is soo painful Mseleku i trust you that you wont judge her n you will help her.....kudala ndayikrobela maaan lento uba there is something rong about Sneh......

  • @ellennthami6592
    @ellennthami6592 4 года назад +1

    Aw Sne i am also a victim of Rape from family member😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @anelisiwemququ4748
    @anelisiwemququ4748 5 лет назад

    Yhoooo Ibuhlungu lento kodwa Tatakhe why not give her a Hug

  • @avelagwabavu1837
    @avelagwabavu1837 3 года назад

    Oh Sneh😢😢💕💕

  • @ndabenis7830
    @ndabenis7830 5 лет назад +3

    Kunzima ukuba mncinci yokufihla izinto ekufuneka uzithethe

  • @user-kn5ql9mi1x
    @user-kn5ql9mi1x 12 дней назад +1

    😭😭😭

  • @judykups5817
    @judykups5817 2 года назад +1

    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 ndiyaxolisa Sne

  • @user-tm8pg5bp3w
    @user-tm8pg5bp3w 4 месяца назад

    Ooh maan Sne, ibuhlungu le nto, what makes it more painful is the fact tht nobody understands ibehaviour kaSne as if they dont kno tht a kid who was raped tends to b promiscuous later in life, its not her choice but the effects of what happened to her as a kid, bamsa khona kwi counselling?? Or they just reject her when she is pregnant bemenza ingane engakwazi ukuziqoqa?? Sne is hurting and nobody cares and if they care they r not handling it the right way

  • @bongiwejani6007
    @bongiwejani6007 5 лет назад

    😢😢😢😢😢

  • @ThembisaAphiweXulu
    @ThembisaAphiweXulu 3 дня назад

    It's pain full Sne😢

  • @peacerhadebe4616
    @peacerhadebe4616 5 лет назад

    😥😢😢😭ncese Sne dear ubestrong girl

  • @dineokekana4429
    @dineokekana4429 3 года назад

    Xhm she😭😭😭💔💔💔

  • @sehliemoyo1316
    @sehliemoyo1316 5 лет назад

    Kwaze kwanzima sorry cc kuzadlula 💔

  • @zithomajozi7357
    @zithomajozi7357 5 лет назад +12

    Why is he so impersonal? This is your daughter give her a hug at least

  • @lilsavio1
    @lilsavio1 4 года назад

    😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @judithmayeermayeer4632
    @judithmayeermayeer4632 4 года назад

    😭😭😭😭

  • @zsdinabantu4569
    @zsdinabantu4569 4 года назад

    Bad news! Sheim poor gal 💔! Traumertizing story to the whole family,Sorry to you all 🙌 There mst be a solution🙏

  • @sizohkamagodide1361
    @sizohkamagodide1361 3 года назад +1

    Hmmm still hurt me yayimb lento ezweni

  • @francinerolan3622
    @francinerolan3622 Месяц назад

    How is he still abusing her wth?!

  • @phililemhlongo2526
    @phililemhlongo2526 4 года назад

    Oh Sne kuzolunga cc

  • @lulekasakwe7381
    @lulekasakwe7381 Год назад

    😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @nomfundisomabuwa435
    @nomfundisomabuwa435 5 лет назад +1

    Eish, this conversation is disturbing

  • @constanceluhlanga198
    @constanceluhlanga198 7 месяцев назад

    Siyabonga kuthi use abhoboke mesekeni bo Msmseleku

  • @gladyssimelane830
    @gladyssimelane830 3 года назад

    That's what affected her mus😭😭💔

  • @keabetswesenwelomolema8773
    @keabetswesenwelomolema8773 5 лет назад

    saddened by this but its a good thing that he is standing by his daughter....

    • @modiehimaqhosha6415
      @modiehimaqhosha6415 5 лет назад

      You will win it in heaven pls baba help her to heal. Be prepared for a big storm of emotions through out the healing. Sne is time you take your Power back.

  • @gugumpanza3665
    @gugumpanza3665 5 лет назад

    Shame this child..😟😟

  • @tradermodjadji3191
    @tradermodjadji3191 4 года назад

    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭