How to be FEMININE and SOFT even when you live a Stressful Life

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  • Опубликовано: 2 дек 2024

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  • @keturahnneka4171
    @keturahnneka4171 Год назад +93

    All you said on sexual immorality is so True and Godly!.

  • @debgilbert3206
    @debgilbert3206 Год назад +51

    Everything she says about morality and, for that matter, everything she advises is spot on. At 63, looking back, I wish I had someone in my life as wise as her.

    • @613Club
      @613Club 7 месяцев назад

      Thank you!

  • @ashleymccarter9980
    @ashleymccarter9980 Год назад +28

    A breath of fresh air, i adore this channel I'm a Christian woman this channel list up with God commandments example of woman of his Kingdom.❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @chrishanswann433
      @chrishanswann433 6 месяцев назад

      ❤ I Just Love Your Accent It Makes Everything You Say Sound Even More Elegant And Classy🎉🎉😊

  • @Doris86pl
    @Doris86pl Год назад +17

    Great advices, you look splendid in that royal blue velvet

  • @nadinemiller4446
    @nadinemiller4446 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you for addressing the downfalls of sleeping around.

  • @maryluw9915
    @maryluw9915 Год назад +15

    This is a FABULOUS video!!! My Lord… we need more of this type of healthy advice!! You are beautiful!

  • @EA-tf5jq
    @EA-tf5jq Год назад +51

    Your dress and hair look absolutely flawless and glamorous!✨
    Also, thank you for always providing us quality content! Your teachings have been making such a positive impact on my life.💖

  • @ronnieb9540
    @ronnieb9540 Год назад +45

    Such a timely video! I try to go by the motto 'we don't have to look like our problems'.

    • @maryluw9915
      @maryluw9915 Год назад +5

      I read once… “when we are born, we look like our parents and when we die we look like our habits.”

  • @megadonmaster
    @megadonmaster Год назад +167

    10 Ways You Can Be Feminine & Soft Even If You Live A Stressful Life
    1. If there’s an easy way [of doing something], follow that route.
    2. Have a positive mindset.
    3. Adopt a feminine physical appearance.
    4. Avoid casual sex.
    5. Casual sex makes you less feminine.
    6. Reset your priorities.
    7. Being vulnerable is not a weakness.
    8. Stop being aggressive and defensive.
    9. Find ways to relax and ease yourself.
    10. Cultivate a soft and feminine body language.

  • @crystalliving993
    @crystalliving993 Год назад +27

    Wow, I have dealt with so many of these mistakes. I just started taking back my femininity about a year ago and began to practice being more empathetic and vulnerable with my close loved ones. This last year I have felt more beautiful, confident, and I have garnered stronger relationships than ever before. The world does open up when you take this advice. I still have a long way to go, so I will definitely keep watching and learning from you and others. Thank you, Vivienne! ❤

  • @celeste7469
    @celeste7469 Год назад +130

    I needed this cause as a newly divorced single mom of 3 it’s been a struggle. Send help 😕

    • @crystalliving993
      @crystalliving993 Год назад +35

      Awww, I hope you're okay. If you are short on time please try to do a face mask whilst drinking tea at night. It is one of those super quick, easy, and affordable luxuries that may help you keep your sanity if you don't have time to really have full self care sessions. I'll pray for you! You will make it through the storm ❤

    • @celeste7469
      @celeste7469 Год назад +3

      @@crystalliving993 Thank you so much

    • @starrjohnson1327
      @starrjohnson1327 Год назад +13

      If you have a skill use it to make extra money. I do this. People appreciate my skills and send me more opportunities. I'm so sorry you are going through this.

    • @Chynawhite31
      @Chynawhite31 Год назад

      @@crystalliving993💯💯💯💯❤️

    • @Kapasa-en5sv
      @Kapasa-en5sv Год назад +4

      Same here dear

  • @KateTriumph
    @KateTriumph Год назад +13

    Hello Vivian, I don’t know you from Adam, but listening to you often makes me see a reflection of myself. Our views are not for the majority of women out there. Thank you so much for being authentic ❤

  • @marilynbroadaway6545
    @marilynbroadaway6545 Год назад +11

    Thank you for helping me to find myself after existing instead of living life. ❤

  • @lucasley20
    @lucasley20 Год назад +10

    Excellent message! I loved the being grateful even for the little things part!

  • @ohsostylish60
    @ohsostylish60 Год назад +41

    Thank you for having the courage to speak in detail about sexual immorality 🙏🏻❤️

  • @JesusTheMightyGodMinistries
    @JesusTheMightyGodMinistries Год назад +19

    You are walking in your anointing so gracefully and you radiate the light of God so beautifully setting an example for many women. God bless you.

  • @sandraokafor6184
    @sandraokafor6184 4 месяца назад

    Words fail me Vivian...i feel so proud of you especially for the courage to speak against sexual immorality. We all needed to hear that.

  • @jacquelinesmith-gaston2071
    @jacquelinesmith-gaston2071 Год назад +8

    Positive talk is something I do now on the regular. I remind myself that all the things I do for myself, is due to the fact that I'm worth it!

  • @melisshalindsey
    @melisshalindsey 11 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for helping women tap into their God-given feminine qualities. It’s never too late to become the best versions of ourselves, and you are helping to lead the way.
    Also, thank you for being unapologetic about moral issues such as casual sex. I wish that we had this kind of content years ago, even when technologically, advancements were not pervasive as they are now.
    However, you are a gift to young women and girls everywhere. Continue to make videos as God leads you to. You are helping tremendously!

  • @poisonedchalice
    @poisonedchalice Год назад +40

    Sexual perversion is a big problem in our society! Alhamdulillah for being Muslim. Thank you for your videos. You are the older sister I never had ❤

  • @natashamushitu1680
    @natashamushitu1680 11 месяцев назад +1

    You have played a big role in my life as a growing lady......

  • @annaidu5546
    @annaidu5546 Год назад +7

    Am the first to comments all the way from Nigeria, one Love 💕.

  • @winniekusasira7602
    @winniekusasira7602 Год назад +7

    Sending love from Dublin ,Ireland

  • @Ambs2023
    @Ambs2023 Год назад +2

    I love the soft kindness in your eyes

  • @monique.thenurse55
    @monique.thenurse55 10 месяцев назад +4

    safe sex is no sex😊practicing and maintaining celibacy is an amazing thing. it allows you to understand your body is your temple and you must take good care of your body and respect it make a choice to say no temptation. yes 🙌 to loving yourself 🥰

  •  10 месяцев назад +1

    I'll watch this video a thousand times because there's sooo impotant topics that maybe we (me) don't give the attention needed... Thank you Vivian, you're incredible necessary. ✨🥰

  • @sharonainembabazi454
    @sharonainembabazi454 Месяц назад

    Vivian. I love your channel and i love you. Your values are what we need and what every girl/woman needs to hear

  • @deegassaway6854
    @deegassaway6854 Год назад +8

    👍👍 and shared this amazing teaching 💗
    Thanks again, Ms. Vivienne!

  • @alexisbeeton5416
    @alexisbeeton5416 Год назад +6

    Loving these tips, all true and feeling good makes all the difference, but it is not easy to get all those things. I find this facial cleansing device to be interesting - I could start paying more attention to my skin (dullness is my problem). Ok, I'll invest in myself finally. Thank you

  • @JackieAnyangu
    @JackieAnyangu Год назад +3

    Your such beauty and an amazing woman with powerful wisdom
    Watching you from Kenya

  • @ninawestlake5005
    @ninawestlake5005 Год назад +1

    Some of the best things come easy. They need to stop applauding struggle. Practising gratitude is indeed a good strategy to attract more good to oneself.

  • @ValElsie1951
    @ValElsie1951 Год назад +5

    Thank you for your uplifting advice, you’re looking lovely as usual

  • @genevafacon3479
    @genevafacon3479 Год назад +1

    You are truly a Queen! This is a priceless word of insight and wisdom. Thank you.

  • @ToeKnife166
    @ToeKnife166 Год назад +2

    I was reading vogue and Harpers while on petrol on military development, it’s important to do even small things.

  • @ruthakers7524
    @ruthakers7524 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for the lovely message. It is very much needed since our society as a whole has deteriorated morally at an alarming rate. I wish every woman could hear your message and learn from it.

  • @michellesantos6706
    @michellesantos6706 Год назад +1

    Thank you for this. I actually do find that I am received so much more positively when im less stressed and feel relaxed & at ease. It does improve & makes my relationships so much easier to maintain on a positive note. I love your site & advice.

  • @annaidu5546
    @annaidu5546 Год назад +3

    Thank u very much Viva it looks as if u were talking to mine, this will go a long way.

  • @jowilliams2323
    @jowilliams2323 7 месяцев назад

    I appreciate that you talk the way I believe! Thank you for standing up for women being feminine and modest and not giving in to the hype of society. ❤❤❤

  • @judithemelife5713
    @judithemelife5713 Год назад +2

    Thanks Vivienne I loved this video specially. Your advice was spot on and you’re quite courageous to talk about Purity in this day and age when it’s not appreciated. Continue your good work.#I am a loyal subscriber

  • @Ositaukamakaschooloflife
    @Ositaukamakaschooloflife Год назад +4

    Thank you for all your teachings, it's been really helpful. I ❤ you

  • @maryryan
    @maryryan Год назад +6

    Thank you beautiful Vivienne for giving us such uplifting and motivation to shine at our best..... putting our best foot forward....
    Love your Channel...
    Love your content ✨️ 💕
    Greetings from South Africa 🇿🇦

  • @brendaleepierson2112
    @brendaleepierson2112 11 месяцев назад

    you really are talking to what i believe m ....thank you brenda

  • @Chubby_auntie
    @Chubby_auntie 4 месяца назад

    Take care of yourself
    Build mindful relationships
    Take it easy.
    I’ll take those. 🙏🏾

  • @helenchioma8953
    @helenchioma8953 Год назад +5

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤ love from Nigeria, thank you for all your content

  • @shashawnadaniel7844
    @shashawnadaniel7844 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for sharing.

  • @nicolemwamondwe9875
    @nicolemwamondwe9875 Год назад +2

    Exactly what I was looking for

  • @saracaudill2376
    @saracaudill2376 6 месяцев назад +1

    I totally agree with you about casual intercourses, I am 22 and I am still waiting for the right one and for marriage, maybe I would sound old fashioned but that's what I think is right❤

  • @princess895
    @princess895 Год назад +2

    God bless you for all you do.

  • @Nancytheredhead
    @Nancytheredhead Год назад +2

    2:43 How to maintain a Positive Mindset. Let me take NOTES 📝

  • @annasanoyan5255
    @annasanoyan5255 Год назад

    So thankful to you, it is so rare, that people dare to talk about morality. Bless you!!!

  • @briggsmaleakah
    @briggsmaleakah Год назад +3

    Sending love from the US 💘

  • @Debbie_Ayo
    @Debbie_Ayo Год назад

    Resetting our priorities makes all the difference 👍

  • @vereniedavis9755
    @vereniedavis9755 Год назад +2

    Thank you I truly enjoy this video.

  • @Laylayjj
    @Laylayjj 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you so so much you give me hope…I was adopted my adopted father was raising me elegant and my adopted mom was doing the opposite towards me so I am a walking confusion and I’ve developed a lot of negative traits to protect myself.

  • @jacquelinepenha3135
    @jacquelinepenha3135 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you for adding value to my feminine lifestyle.

  • @NkatekoBvuma-v6n
    @NkatekoBvuma-v6n Год назад +2

    God bless you, you're doing great job,we are learning to face life positively no matter what ❤❤

  • @user-fh6hv4eb56
    @user-fh6hv4eb56 8 месяцев назад

    Excellent video! Peace and blessings to all!

  • @Vickywhisper.
    @Vickywhisper. Год назад +1

    I always love your tone ma'am so soft ❤

  • @ShevetteJackson
    @ShevetteJackson Год назад +2

    Happy Thanksgiving and I would like to add I love your femininity channel you give very good advice.😊😊

  • @debbiedorsey2371
    @debbiedorsey2371 Год назад +1

    I love your videos! Thank you for sharing this one with us!

  • @ashmcdazzled
    @ashmcdazzled 11 месяцев назад

    This is exactly what I needed to hear

  • @melissahjuliet1545
    @melissahjuliet1545 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you for the words of encouragement and I like the fact that they align with the word of God and my beliefs as a Christian. God bless you The Elegant woman.

  • @rasta487
    @rasta487 9 месяцев назад

    God bless you for reminding women that their bodies aren't play grounds.

  • @shardefrazier3782
    @shardefrazier3782 Год назад

    Aww Vivian! Hey!! N u kno what ...I been feelin real down these past couple days. I watch u all the time😊. This was so sweet...Thanx!❤🎉

  • @crpwifey2562
    @crpwifey2562 9 месяцев назад

    I need this. I'm remote and married. A lil stressed so THANKS 👏🏾 👏🏾

  • @KateTriumph
    @KateTriumph Год назад +9

    Sexual immorality leave so many women losing their self esteem

  • @PrincesFairh
    @PrincesFairh Год назад

    Wow this is spot on am learning each day. Thank you for sharing...

  • @Fuzzy77993
    @Fuzzy77993 7 месяцев назад +1

    Life is really hard when you have no one. Friends who promise to help but never do even though I have been there for them. Sad, I can’t count on anyone, hard no t to be a hardass

  • @OfficialPageantPolice
    @OfficialPageantPolice Год назад

    connect and build meaningful relationship

  • @a_la_drinah
    @a_la_drinah Год назад

    Thanks for this information !

  • @marymaddy7450
    @marymaddy7450 Год назад +1

    Thank you for sharing these tips, my beautiful sister 🙏🏾❤.

  • @raymondandmelaniebolton3775
    @raymondandmelaniebolton3775 11 месяцев назад

    LOVE your channel; I just subscribed!

  • @maryadesanya2615
    @maryadesanya2615 Год назад +2

    I appreciate all your content is very useful to me❤

  • @Kate-qf4iv
    @Kate-qf4iv 11 месяцев назад

    There is a country song that says "if it doesnt come easy, you gotta let it go." Works for me when it comes to love, life, work, etc.

  • @yvonneglover8537
    @yvonneglover8537 Год назад

    Thank you Vivian, I feel better now that I’ve listened to your video. ❤ Von

  • @melodybwalya4495
    @melodybwalya4495 Год назад

    Wow! Thank you Vivienne for this.

  • @rebbie4255
    @rebbie4255 Год назад

    Thank you Viviane ❤️

  • @helenekele7185
    @helenekele7185 Год назад

    Thank you Vivienne

  • @MaggietheSubstituteTeacher
    @MaggietheSubstituteTeacher Год назад +1

    Thank you for the content!

  • @sarahdesimon5781
    @sarahdesimon5781 Год назад +1

    Vivienne please how do you groom your hair?

  • @reelmermaid8844
    @reelmermaid8844 Год назад +1

    Wonderful videos Vivienne. Hope you had an amazing Thanksgiving! Cheers from Canada!

  • @Dr.LaurenGuerra
    @Dr.LaurenGuerra Год назад

    Yes!! I really needed this video. thank you so much

  • @jacquelinesmith-gaston2071
    @jacquelinesmith-gaston2071 Год назад

    You look beautiful! Thank you so much for another great video.

  • @maipham4766
    @maipham4766 10 месяцев назад

    Your such a blessing to all women thank you 🙏🏼❤️😍

  • @thegardener8694
    @thegardener8694 Год назад

    Definitely one of your best videos.

  • @maameyaansiah3154
    @maameyaansiah3154 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you as always. Great information 🙏

  • @larrywakeman4371
    @larrywakeman4371 11 месяцев назад +1

    I Have an intriguing question, Vivienne: Is it proper to give business cards to ladies you are chattiing with at an afternoon tea hosted by a mansion in an historic town near you? Is that considered in good taste, or is it in bad taste? I thought it might be a positive way to avail them of my artistic finesse regarding my portrait painting, mural painiting services and expand my range. Thank you! Kimberly

  • @crystalliving993
    @crystalliving993 Год назад

    Yay, a new video! Thank you!

  • @chloewinfrey
    @chloewinfrey Год назад +1

    PractiCe gratitude 😊

  • @its_idonna
    @its_idonna Год назад

    Very much needed! Thank you so much you are such a queen 🌷🌸🌷🌸

  • @stargyalshabine1472
    @stargyalshabine1472 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you...I appreciate you

  • @annettepeters8890
    @annettepeters8890 Год назад

    Thank you for sharing. Great advice.

  • @joysben190
    @joysben190 11 месяцев назад

    Great topic & content. Thank you 😊

  • @poisonedchalice
    @poisonedchalice Год назад

    Perfectly timed…recently started a new job and it is so stressful! Also have 2 young children! 😔

  • @AsherManzinya
    @AsherManzinya Год назад

    Thank you this was very educative

  • @harrietn.4945
    @harrietn.4945 Год назад +1

    I love this

  • @ediewilson4043
    @ediewilson4043 11 месяцев назад

    Well said, impeccable lady.

  • @rosemaryonyango3173
    @rosemaryonyango3173 9 месяцев назад

    Perfect message

  • @azubogupamela9962
    @azubogupamela9962 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much

  • @bolurin
    @bolurin Год назад

    Thank you for this video