happy holidays tyler! Amazing insights in the video. Fuck limitations! If some thing can be done, and you want to do it, then you can find a way, end of story.
Thank you for thanking us. Put more funny shit on RUclips. SHIT SHOW as they say. I would love to laugh my ass off. Let's watch Tyler for after party. That's my pull line. And then you are there making fun of like pretty much everything. Although The funniest combination is luke and jeff where Jeff throws some Crazy lines, and then luke laughs like a baby.
Love that the guy's Turkish. Representing the Turkish crowd lol Good on him. It's very easy to doubt yourself in the beginning when a girl gives you shit to test your strength. So a video like this to cover it is essential.
Tyler, you totally remind me of an ancient Greek philosopher, I can totally imagine you giving one of these speeches in a toga surrounded my marble pillars
HAPPY HOLIDAYS!! Off to San Diego for Free Tour on Thursday - see you there! Really excited about this video and hope it helps you with insecurities. I was VERY touched by the guy who came up to share his experience with being disabled and how he has transcended it. Super, super inspirational. Thank you to him if he's watching. Very excited about the click bait title as well lol. Hope you liked it :) Please engage in conversations with people who are here to learn - I occasionally troll back on trolls as well out of curiosity to their reaction, but for the most part it's predictable ("yup, still trolls..."). Create convos with who want to LEARN and GROW. And remember, INSECURITY is USELESS. Destroy your insecurities. Transcend as the guy in the video has done. Go beyond. See you in San Diego! And thanks! -Tyler
Happy holidays bro, thank you for your continued support! Saw Todd in London this year at the free tour - awesome! May God continue to bless you and your organisation.
rsdfreetour, Thank you for dedicating your life for the greater good of self expression. Giving everyone the right to be themselves and not apologize. Thank you, not just tyler - Every instructor and the unsung heros of assistants and supporting staff. 🙏
rsdfreetour how do you not be seen as the relationship type, and more as the hookup type girls (college age) look for. I'm 27 and going to college and getting stuck being labeled as a relationship type and not seen as a potential hook up partner.
rsdfreetour Amazing video ! It's funny how similar we are.. The guy is a very powerful person, I also had to overcome a big physical challenge. If he reads my comment I'd like to help him because everything is possible to overcome !
It's shocking to see how few views these videos receive compared to other crap channels that receive millions of views (prank channels mostly). This advice from the disabled dude is so much more valuable to each of us as we obsess over things that others don't even notice or take advantage of the disability because we have low self esteem. Thanks for sharing this video!
I'm sitting here as a white male who has grown up in western civilization. Good looking, in great health, above average height, and stifled to take action because I am scared to challenge my own ego. This video puts everything in perspective, I'll be working on letting go more after this. Thanks RSD & Tyler.
i remember this one time i felt like no matter what i did, people just didn’t notice me. i tried everything-confidence boosters, social tips, you name it-but nothing seemed to work. then i found this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it completely shifted how i saw myself. it’s not just about being noticed; it’s about understanding the energy you project. honestly, this book made all the difference for me. if you’ve ever felt invisible, you need to read it.
This is a weird video for me too because I have speech impediment. Yet this is no time to bitch about it! First time after 21 years of living, I finally embraced my insecurity which is stuttering and decided to join a motivational speech competition speaking infront of hundreds of people. All this time I always feel like my calling was to speak and empower other people. Actually got 5th out of 30 final contestants. Would say that is the biggest achievement in my life in 2016! Thanks Tyler.
You lucky bastard. :D I love the RSD videos, they have so many great concepts and (sometimes harsh but real) truths and it's amazing that they give us them for free. I don't know if I will ever be able to "pay back" the incredible value that I got from these videos. Happy holidays from Hungary!
This vídeo got me laid yesterday (heh), I was on a dry spell for so long and made me realize how little my problems are. Hugs to you tyler, Thank you so much for existing, got a new perpective for this new year! Onwards to victory!
Tyler, Now that you're going more into the self-development arena. You should make a convention in LA with self development speakers and RUclipsrs. Brandon Carter, RSD team, Elliot. Hell even invite Eckhart's old, wise pasty ass! Connections galore. I'd pay to go to that in a heartbeat.
That 40minutes literally flew by. Props to the guy who got up and shared his story. I like how Owen pushes guys to come to the front confront the anxiety and realize everyone's here just to share and nothing bad is gonna happen.
he might not be a spiritual teacher but hes my fav spiritual teacher cuz what he says actually helps people make a positive difference in their lives because he speaks from his own practical experience of reality
BTW this video is the seminar version of this video I shot in New York - if you liked this specific topic, check THIS out ruclips.net/video/aE9QSuSxIMY/видео.html -Tyler
rsdfreetour - This is exactly the video I thought about when you went into making 100k , 500k, 1 mil, 100 mil, to old money. This was eye opening back then, and a nice reminder now. Thanks again
Really inspirational Owen, thank you!! I have mild cerebal palsy from the hips down, and have always had to work that bit harder than the 'average' guy. I have good and bad days, but have never really let it effect me. Thanks again.
wow, amazing brotha! I was always unsecure cause i have carved scars on my head and missing a lot of hair from radiation therapy(had brain tumor surgery when i was 16). It was always hard for me to fully unstifle even to this day(22 years old) haven't fully accomplished it and wearing a hat everywhere I go, and I always get so uncomfortable when someone takes my hat off, for example girl in a club playfully and it kills the vibe between us, I wish I could totally let go of my demons inside it would change my life for sure. Thank you Tyler for everything, you alredy changed my life for sure, I hope we will meet some day!
Tyler I remember you used to be so cringy and creepy back in the PUA days. I never liked you back then, but nowadays you're great and full of charisma. The fact that you improved so much is proof that anyone can do it as long as they put in the work and the brains. Cheers!
Love the "I feel good about myself now" synaptic pathway mantra. I'll use that! ThankYou so much, this video was very moving. I too struggle from deep depression, loneliness and insecurities. I needed to hear this messsge. Greatly helpful! Thanks guys.
Think of your mind like a snowy hill, every thought pattern is a sled going down, over time some patterns are so deep into the snow that eventually your thoughts can’t sled down without going down those patterns. You gotta learn to accept yourself now, while you’re improving, so you can actually be happy when you get where you wanna be
One of your best videos, as someone's who's had a serve speech disorder (stuttering) since I was 6, this was a video I've wanted to see for a long time
Your videos have helped me immensely. My biggest issue is that when I speak, I usually feel the restriction you mentioned, like there's something holding me back. It's as if I'm afraid to show others my true self, my emotions. The only time I can truly express myself without limitations is when I'm alone, so I know I have the potential dwelling within me. That's why I love those screaming exercises you do with people... really resonates with me.
I have a stutter too and it fucks me up when i hide it, when i tell people up front about it and own it i feel 100 times better. Awesome video, thank you for this!
I had to comment after seeing this video. I'm a 21 y/o University student in the UK. I have a disability called cerebral palsy in both of my legs and 5'6". I was never brought up to believe I'm any less by my parents and always strived to be successful. I didnt realise I had the disability until I began to play sports in school and realised I wasn't as naturally gifted in sport. I still ran, cycled and swam amongst other things, albeit to a lower standard than average, but I worked out what I was good at that few others were. This included small things like being able to throw the furthest or play golf to a higher level than others. My brother is also disabled and has worse cerebral palsy than myself, almost to the point he would need a day chair to get around. I was always fearful because of my legs (and how skinny they are) and the muscles spazzing out during intimate moments and making it awkward. Little did I realise when I went to University (as a loner virgin) I came completely out of my shell and became a really fun slut for my first 2 years of University, what surprised me was that literally nobody gave a shit about my disability and judged me on my character and how I treated others. Even when I did have those spaz moments (mostly when on top ahah) it made us relax because then she had no pressure on her, which made it a better experience. I'm lucky to have this in some ways, like the guy in the video, I had to learn to accept that I am different in some ways, but I'm by no means less than anyone else and have arguably the best self confidence of all of my friends and people are always surprised how active, outgoing and talkative in social situations (I think I'm probably oblivious to the negativity) and just had a fun time above all else and just seemed to work. Don't be afraid to feature what you can't fix! I wear shorts exposing my non-existent calves and it doesn't bother me, and your insecurities shouldn't bother you either, we all have them! Peace x
22:35 ok that line hits different now cause when it comes down to it communication just input, output, and processing of information so the better you the throw it out the better they can catch and adjust and vice versa
It's ludicrous how society makes us bottle things up and be stifled. The normal thing is to just swallow your anger and not even acknowledge your own emotions. Society says that the only acceptable place to SCREAM YOUR FACE OFF is at a sports game or some other prior agreed upon place. I'm glad you are integrating more radical exercises into the free tours, like getting inside peoples' heads, pouring water on your head, and shedding light on the cultural hypnosis that we are all experiencing. I recommend RSD hold outdoors free tours, surrounded by nature and the woods. Get a big ass truck and fill it up with chairs. Imagine the benefits of having such a novel environment. Keep pushing the boundaries and thanks for everything Tyler.
I am actually glad you finally covered this the most important topic! (self)acceptance with who you are as a person! this is base for personal happines! Also the best thing here is that a lot of people ( in the room) share their insecurities with a laugher after and actually realize that this only exist in their head and it's actually a reason why they don't project selfworth/selflove! Great Tyler!
Great topic and great video. It's funny because I am (or was) the 5'5" "How dare he call 5'9" short" guy. The two things that helped me the most was one Billy Joel is a hero of mine, he's the same height as me and married Christie Brinkley and dated Elle MacPherson. The other was talking to my wing, friends, girls, etc. They all something and they all felt like everyone else's was silly, but their's was valid. "Yeah you're short I guess Tom, but that who cares? I'm Latino/Country/Bean-pole/etc"
Your thought about the holidays was incredible, not just because it's refreshing to hear how you feel about something so culturally effective, but bc I feel like you don't normally say things like that in the beginning of freetour videos.
Ironic that tyler is thanking us for watching at the start of the video: one of the most inspirational public speakers alive putting out life-changing content like this FOR FREE! thank you so much for everything you do tyler~ happy new year❤
I really love the evolution the company as a whole has gone through. Outer game was first, inner game was next, and now it seems to be heading in the direction of people reconnecting with their souls and their true selves, really incredible to see that you are the change that you want to see in all of us Tyler.
Thanks for the video! Great value! It is so important to know that every human being has a flaw and nobody is perfect. But we can start a journey to become the best versions of ourselves if we want to. Thanks RSD and everyone in the community for sharing that goal.
Am I like the only "shorter" guy that doesn't even give one single fuck or even notice it ? I'm 5 7 and until I kept hearing RSD guys complaining about there height I've never even noticed it . I'm taller than 95% of women so I've never had a problem or even considered it being negative. Now if I was smaller than 95% of women that'd turn my height into an insecurity. Great video like always !
Emmanuel Goldstein California. And I've been everywhere , never ran into that problem .You say average 6 ft ? The TALLEST race in the worlds women ( Sudan ) are on average 5 11. And who cares about dudes Lol . All I'm saying on average. Pretty much anywhere I go in the world im taller than MOST the women So I've never seen it as or had an issue .
StaticDreamsEntert Oh, really? I always heard people from those countries (never been outside my own) are huge and I got really insecure about it. I shouldn't be worried and be confident no matter what, but it makes me feel much better now. Thanks I'm 5'9 btw.
Never sacrifice your inner peace , " mighty is he who conquers himself" - Lao Tzu. Thank you guys for this its great and has helped me in my own life in immeasurable ways and not only with women but with everything i do. Asserting yourself against everything is both thrilling and challenging and in my humble opinion is the only true meaning in life.
I can relate David. Have Schizoaffective disorder myself we have to become so much emotionally stronger to deal with shit. You will get days when you feel like a gangster then others where you will struggle. There really should be a group somewhere for people with Schizophrenia learning game. I started deeply realising the benefits of meditation only recently. I started meditating daily on new years eve. Even though im only in the early stages I do believe it will be life changing. Until recently I was slipping into psychosis everyday. I tried giving up smoking yesterday then slipped back into it. Its so easy when you have the illness to want to destroy yourself. The book recommendation Tyler gave ''a first rate maddness'' is a good read for us. I recommend eating healthy/exercising/plus keeping your brain active. Cos if you let the illness destroy you it will. A great positive to having Schizophrenia though is the journey. Because if you got Schizophrenia and you're depressed you are the ultimate hard case newbie. Appreciate every little success you have with women.
it was just wonderful, really valuable. At first I didn't like You Tyler, but now I see you're a great guy. All the best to you and a Happy New Year :)
5,4 right here. I am not into PU but thanks for this vid. This was very helpfull and you can use this in all aspects of your life. The only one who can love you is yourself:)
i stutter. and i can clearly relate. Btw to the guy who said he's gotten over most of it, respect bro. Getting over stuttering is one of the hardest things ever. Not just becuase you cannot get the word out but there are a lot of toxic emotions involved. Im talking to the guys who dont know anything about stuttering. Im not trying to be a victim or anything, im struggling with it every day and gotten over most of, but still alot left. Just imagine not being able to talk properly, cause you're vocal chords just tense up and you physically cannot speak. Its like getting punched by an invisible fist, whenever you are trying to speak.
Tyler, I really like that you comment on the comments that ask good questions. A lot of the time I find myself asking the same questions that your commentators ask and your answers address those questions and often renew my confidence in you and the RSD brand. I'd like to encourage you to keep it up because it is super beneficial for both you and your viewers in my opinion, and gives me an incentive to both comment and read the comments. Teeth to the Wind! Blake N. Dickson
Fanx brova Owen. Always offering an effective means to expanding one's mind with these free-tours. Otherwise, I bet a lot of us would hardly have any opportunities in the day to day to explore new psychological venues.
Mind blowing ! Really intéresting work on negative frame destruction, to rebuild à new one. And un another level, it is Real gold for those (bold or not) who decide after that to own who they are! Amazing évolution booster!
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What I realized: It's not about how women (or people) look at you.
It's about how women (or people) see you looking at yourself.
Saman Asia Yes this is the gist.If you care everybody cares.
Saman Asia very well put bro
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Holy fuck . That's so good . I screen shotted it to remember lol .
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You are what you think other people think about you.
Thanks to everyone who was involved in RSD this year!!! Words can't express my appreciation. Happy holidays! -Tyler
happy holidays tyler! Amazing insights in the video. Fuck limitations! If some thing can be done, and you want to do it, then you can find a way, end of story.
Thank you for thanking us. Put more funny shit on RUclips. SHIT SHOW as they say. I would love to laugh my ass off. Let's watch Tyler for after party. That's my pull line. And then you are there making fun of like pretty much everything. Although The funniest combination is luke and jeff where Jeff throws some Crazy lines, and then luke laughs like a baby.
Happy Holidays, Tyler. Thanks for always bringing massive value to the table. Keep being the great human being that you are. You are appreciated.
Love that the guy's Turkish. Representing the Turkish crowd lol Good on him.
It's very easy to doubt yourself in the beginning when a girl gives you shit to test your strength. So a video like this to cover it is essential.
Tyler, you totally remind me of an ancient Greek philosopher, I can totally imagine you giving one of these speeches in a toga surrounded my marble pillars
Haha, what better way to destroy the old "looks and money" excuse ---> Amazing video!! ;)
JulienHimself I fkn love you man
Julien you actually were the person who inspired me to use the "laughing at you" line for clickbait in the title lol -Tyler
JulienHimself dude, gonna get shift in a week! Super excited, keep changing lives
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HAPPY HOLIDAYS!! Off to San Diego for Free Tour on Thursday - see you there! Really excited about this video and hope it helps you with insecurities. I was VERY touched by the guy who came up to share his experience with being disabled and how he has transcended it. Super, super inspirational. Thank you to him if he's watching. Very excited about the click bait title as well lol. Hope you liked it :) Please engage in conversations with people who are here to learn - I occasionally troll back on trolls as well out of curiosity to their reaction, but for the most part it's predictable ("yup, still trolls..."). Create convos with who want to LEARN and GROW. And remember, INSECURITY is USELESS. Destroy your insecurities. Transcend as the guy in the video has done. Go beyond. See you in San Diego! And thanks! -Tyler
rsdfreetour Merry Christmas guys!
Happy holidays bro, thank you for your continued support! Saw Todd in London this year at the free tour - awesome! May God continue to bless you and your organisation.
rsdfreetour, Thank you for dedicating your life for the greater good of self expression. Giving everyone the right to be themselves and not apologize.
Thank you, not just tyler - Every instructor and the unsung heros of assistants and supporting staff. 🙏
rsdfreetour how do you not be seen as the relationship type, and more as the hookup type girls (college age) look for. I'm 27 and going to college and getting stuck being labeled as a relationship type and not seen as a potential hook up partner.
rsdfreetour Amazing video ! It's funny how similar we are.. The guy is a very powerful person, I also had to overcome a big physical challenge. If he reads my comment I'd like to help him because everything is possible to overcome !
It's shocking to see how few views these videos receive compared to other crap channels that receive millions of views (prank channels mostly). This advice from the disabled dude is so much more valuable to each of us as we obsess over things that others don't even notice or take advantage of the disability because we have low self esteem. Thanks for sharing this video!
Adrian Frank - it's astounding where the average persons attention is. The wolves eat the sheep tho lol
They want to believe the opposite because it lets them cop and complain
Yeahh, imagine if rsd instructers create their prank channels for money
@@MayankSharma-kt7zs lol did actually love to see that😂
I'm sitting here as a white male who has grown up in western civilization. Good looking, in great health, above average height, and stifled to take action because I am scared to challenge my own ego.
This video puts everything in perspective, I'll be working on letting go more after this. Thanks RSD & Tyler.
Awesome, and thanks. Your situation is not uncommon, I see it every weekend. -Tyler
U can tell by the look in his eye that there was genuine GRATITUDE coming from Owen. I like to see that in someone in a position of success.
i remember this one time i felt like no matter what i did, people just didn’t notice me. i tried everything-confidence boosters, social tips, you name it-but nothing seemed to work. then i found this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it completely shifted how i saw myself. it’s not just about being noticed; it’s about understanding the energy you project. honestly, this book made all the difference for me. if you’ve ever felt invisible, you need to read it.
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This is a weird video for me too because I have speech impediment. Yet this is no time to bitch about it! First time after 21 years of living, I finally embraced my insecurity which is stuttering and decided to join a motivational speech competition speaking infront of hundreds of people. All this time I always feel like my calling was to speak and empower other people. Actually got 5th out of 30 final contestants. Would say that is the biggest achievement in my life in 2016! Thanks Tyler.
DawerDebully that's crazy, congrats
Congrats on facing your fear head on, it's the only way. Kill it.
DawerDebully Great work dude, that's impressive as shit man. Thanks for sharing
Got speech impediment as well. Wtf is this lol?
DawerDebully A motivational speaking competition?! There really is a lot of people interested in doing this out there.
Probably my favourite RSD video of all time.
"You wanna keep improving but you wanna accept yourself completely while your improving"
Gold right there
Thanks! -Tyler
"I'm already awesome; but I'm becoming more awesome. "
Brilliant!
Probably the first time I've ever watched an RSD vid straight after it dropped...but then again I just subscribed yesterday... Yo love the work Tyler!
Cool dude, tnx! -Tyler
RSDTyler Fuck yeah!! my life is complete, Tyler replied! haha
You lucky bastard. :D I love the RSD videos, they have so many great concepts and (sometimes harsh but real) truths and it's amazing that they give us them for free. I don't know if I will ever be able to "pay back" the incredible value that I got from these videos.
Happy holidays from Hungary!
Now you got permission to start approaching! no excuses
This vídeo got me laid yesterday (heh), I was on a dry spell for so long and made me realize how little my problems are. Hugs to you tyler, Thank you so much for existing, got a new perpective for this new year! Onwards to victory!
Tyler, Now that you're going more into the self-development arena. You should make a convention in LA with self development speakers and RUclipsrs.
Brandon Carter, RSD team, Elliot. Hell even invite Eckhart's old, wise pasty ass! Connections galore. I'd pay to go to that in a heartbeat.
Yessir!! Nice to see you here bro :)
also getting on podcasts. watching out for people virtue signaling against PUA and trying to make him look bad
Herniated my disc last month and decided to rewatch this one. Great vibes here, helped me recenter myself. Thanks a million.
That 40minutes literally flew by. Props to the guy who got up and shared his story. I like how Owen pushes guys to come to the front confront the anxiety and realize everyone's here just to share and nothing bad is gonna happen.
he might not be a spiritual teacher but hes my fav spiritual teacher cuz what he says actually helps people make a positive difference in their lives because he speaks from his own practical experience of reality
BTW this video is the seminar version of this video I shot in New York - if you liked this specific topic, check THIS out ruclips.net/video/aE9QSuSxIMY/видео.html -Tyler
rsdfreetour - This is exactly the video I thought about when you went into making 100k , 500k, 1 mil, 100 mil, to old money. This was eye opening back then, and a nice reminder now. Thanks again
Really inspirational Owen, thank you!! I have mild cerebal palsy from the hips down, and have always had to work that bit harder than the 'average' guy. I have good and bad days, but have never really let it effect me. Thanks again.
classic! think this was the first rsd video i saw. been hooked ever since. more power to you.
Oh, I remember this one. This one was badass af. I remember feeling different after watching like you said.
rsdfreetour z
wow, amazing brotha! I was always unsecure cause i have carved scars on my head and missing a lot of hair from radiation therapy(had brain tumor surgery when i was 16). It was always hard for me to fully unstifle even to this day(22 years old) haven't fully accomplished it and wearing a hat everywhere I go, and I always get so uncomfortable when someone takes my hat off, for example girl in a club playfully and it kills the vibe between us, I wish I could totally let go of my demons inside it would change my life for sure. Thank you Tyler for everything, you alredy changed my life for sure, I hope we will meet some day!
Own it my man.
Tyler I remember you used to be so cringy and creepy back in the PUA days. I never liked you back then, but nowadays you're great and full of charisma. The fact that you improved so much is proof that anyone can do it as long as they put in the work and the brains. Cheers!
Marco , lol that's an interesting way to complement
favorite comment on an rsd video lol
Tyler was always awesome. Just getting more awesome.
Owen it is amazing how you made that guys public speaking improve significantly in just a few minutes. You have a true talent to help people
Love the "I feel good about myself now" synaptic pathway mantra. I'll use that! ThankYou so much, this video was very moving. I too struggle from deep depression, loneliness and insecurities. I needed to hear this messsge. Greatly helpful! Thanks guys.
Always feel these videos are Taylor made for me. Love you Tyler. You are like a plumber for my soul dude. God bless you
SUGARCANEPAPI These videos are Tyler made for me.
Think of your mind like a snowy hill, every thought pattern is a sled going down, over time some patterns are so deep into the snow that eventually your thoughts can’t sled down without going down those patterns. You gotta learn to accept yourself now, while you’re improving, so you can actually be happy when you get where you wanna be
One of your best videos, as someone's who's had a serve speech disorder (stuttering) since I was 6, this was a video I've wanted to see for a long time
It's such a reality check to see someone overcome so much and make it so far.Thank you for the AWESOME content!
My goal in 2017 is to have women talk about me the way Owen talks about Elliot Hulse
You'll need high status for that
LOL
this is GOLD for the ears open enough to hear it :-D
Been combing through the videos I somehow missed for whatever reason. Great vid! Touched by the ending there.
I needed this video! Because I'm disabled as Well. Thanks for this video it is one hell of a wake-up!
Time for some brain re-programming! :)
Mario Tomic I found you through the comments section here - great fitness and mindset content on your channel 👍
bubba gump thanks bro!
Mario Tomic omg Mario, you watch rsd too wow 😁
9:20 elliott: the power of practice, repetition and awareness. love it
Your videos have helped me immensely. My biggest issue is that when I speak, I usually feel the restriction you mentioned, like there's something holding me back. It's as if I'm afraid to show others my true self, my emotions. The only time I can truly express myself without limitations is when I'm alone, so I know I have the potential dwelling within me. That's why I love those screaming exercises you do with people... really resonates with me.
I have a stutter too and it fucks me up when i hide it, when i tell people up front about it and own it i feel 100 times better. Awesome video, thank you for this!
Tyler I am really thankful,I found you on the internet,love you!
I had to comment after seeing this video. I'm a 21 y/o University student in the UK. I have a disability called cerebral palsy in both of my legs and 5'6". I was never brought up to believe I'm any less by my parents and always strived to be successful. I didnt realise I had the disability until I began to play sports in school and realised I wasn't as naturally gifted in sport. I still ran, cycled and swam amongst other things, albeit to a lower standard than average, but I worked out what I was good at that few others were. This included small things like being able to throw the furthest or play golf to a higher level than others. My brother is also disabled and has worse cerebral palsy than myself, almost to the point he would need a day chair to get around. I was always fearful because of my legs (and how skinny they are) and the muscles spazzing out during intimate moments and making it awkward. Little did I realise when I went to University (as a loner virgin) I came completely out of my shell and became a really fun slut for my first 2 years of University, what surprised me was that literally nobody gave a shit about my disability and judged me on my character and how I treated others. Even when I did have those spaz moments (mostly when on top ahah) it made us relax because then she had no pressure on her, which made it a better experience. I'm lucky to have this in some ways, like the guy in the video, I had to learn to accept that I am different in some ways, but I'm by no means less than anyone else and have arguably the best self confidence of all of my friends and people are always surprised how active, outgoing and talkative in social situations (I think I'm probably oblivious to the negativity) and just had a fun time above all else and just seemed to work.
Don't be afraid to feature what you can't fix! I wear shorts exposing my non-existent calves and it doesn't bother me, and your insecurities shouldn't bother you either, we all have them!
Peace x
I think Tyler is the most inspiring person I've ever seen. This shit goes directly in my soul it seems. So f###ing good!
Great video, great point! I see it and feel it, but then when I look into myself, still feel the same way about my insecurities.
Thank you tho, for this video!
Probably one of the best short - didactic RSD videos ! Thanks for the up Ty !
This is GOLD. So thankful for You... keep rocking it Owen. You are worth your weight in gold man
More gold from you Tyler, forever thankful
Holy shit, so happy to see another Turkish guy learning game and being the best version of himself. Awesome video Owen!
22:35 ok that line hits different now cause when it comes down to it communication just input, output, and processing of information so the better you the throw it out the better they can catch and adjust and vice versa
Owen today is my birthday and i have to thank you for this gift of a video
Happy birthday!! -Tyler
9:40 I was in that room in Orlando when Elliot got us all fired up. I'll never forget that day.
Awesome dude so crazy right lol -Tyler
It's ludicrous how society makes us bottle things up and be stifled. The normal thing is to just swallow your anger and not even acknowledge your own emotions. Society says that the only acceptable place to SCREAM YOUR FACE OFF is at a sports game or some other prior agreed upon place. I'm glad you are integrating more radical exercises into the free tours, like getting inside peoples' heads, pouring water on your head, and shedding light on the cultural hypnosis that we are all experiencing. I recommend RSD hold outdoors free tours, surrounded by nature and the woods. Get a big ass truck and fill it up with chairs. Imagine the benefits of having such a novel environment. Keep pushing the boundaries and thanks for everything Tyler.
Another good freetour vid on a really good topic! Nice job Ty Doggs! You're making the world a better place one guy at a time!
I am actually glad you finally covered this the most important topic! (self)acceptance with who you are as a person! this is base for personal happines! Also the best thing here is that a lot of people ( in the room) share their insecurities with a laugher after and actually realize that this only exist in their head and it's actually a reason why they don't project selfworth/selflove! Great Tyler!
ruclips.net/video/aE9QSuSxIMY/видео.html ... enjoy -Tyler
Great topic and great video. It's funny because I am (or was) the 5'5" "How dare he call 5'9" short" guy. The two things that helped me the most was one Billy Joel is a hero of mine, he's the same height as me and married Christie Brinkley and dated Elle MacPherson. The other was talking to my wing, friends, girls, etc. They all something and they all felt like everyone else's was silly, but their's was valid. "Yeah you're short I guess Tom, but that who cares? I'm Latino/Country/Bean-pole/etc"
Thanks Tyler! I was wondering if you ever made a vid on how to fix a stifled laugh?
blueprint decoded
Awesome video Tyler, as always! Thank you
Your thought about the holidays was incredible, not just because it's refreshing to hear how you feel about something so culturally effective, but bc I feel like you don't normally say things like that in the beginning of freetour videos.
Happy new year everyone, this video was actually very touching
Ironic that tyler is thanking us for watching at the start of the video: one of the most inspirational public speakers alive putting out life-changing content like this FOR FREE! thank you so much for everything you do tyler~ happy new year❤
He's proving vulnerability can be a gift!
That was an excellent video Tyler'!
Ngl I actually needed this, I feel a lot better.
Cheers Toilerr
Thanks for coming to Boston Owen. Shit was great. Thank you for still doing what you do.
17:59 felt that
I really needed to see this. Much love and blessings to the RSD establishment.
I love you Tyler, amazing video!!!
I really love the evolution the company as a whole has gone through. Outer game was first, inner game was next, and now it seems to be heading in the direction of people reconnecting with their souls and their true selves, really incredible to see that you are the change that you want to see in all of us Tyler.
Happy New Year RSD, Thanks for everything!
Thanks for the video!
Great value! It is so important to know that every human being has a flaw and nobody is perfect. But we can start a journey to become the best versions of ourselves if we want to. Thanks RSD and everyone in the community for sharing that goal.
This was abnoxiously amazing! Thank you Owen and thanks to the turkish guy for sharing! Respect!
Tyler, a Philosopher and a Legend
Am I like the only "shorter" guy that doesn't even give one single fuck or even notice it ?
I'm 5 7 and until I kept hearing RSD guys complaining about there height I've never even noticed it . I'm taller than 95% of women so I've never had a problem or even considered it being negative. Now if I was smaller than 95% of women that'd turn my height into an insecurity. Great video like always !
Depends where you're from. Some places have 6-6'2ft as standard, so you would feel shorter than everybody else, including women.
Emmanuel Goldstein
California. And I've been everywhere , never ran into that problem .You say average 6 ft ? The TALLEST race in the worlds women ( Sudan ) are on average 5 11. And who cares about dudes Lol . All I'm saying on average. Pretty much anywhere I go in the world im taller than MOST the women So I've never seen it as or had an issue .
StaticDreamsEntert Oh, really? I always heard people from those countries (never been outside my own) are huge and I got really insecure about it. I shouldn't be worried and be confident no matter what, but it makes me feel much better now. Thanks
I'm 5'9 btw.
im around 5'9 still pretty insecure lol
StaticDreamsEntert it really is fairly irrelevant. im 5'10 i dont really whine about not being 6. i date shorter anyway so...?
Thank You Tyler this was gold!
Thanks Tyler, enjoy the process; was my biggest takeaway. Great content!
Love you RsdTyler! You give hope to so many people out there!
Never sacrifice your inner peace , " mighty is he who conquers himself" - Lao Tzu. Thank you guys for this its great and has helped me in my own life in immeasurable ways and not only with women but with everything i do. Asserting yourself against everything is both thrilling and challenging and in my humble opinion is the only true meaning in life.
Once again, thank you for a very inspiring video! Keep video blogging and have a happy new year Owen!
this is a great video. merry chrsitmas and happy new years owen, maze and aaron!
Tyler. Thanks for these helpful videos. Your are amazing!!!
I really like these quick reprogramming you make Tyler... genius
wow one of the most mind blowing motivating video!!! thats awesome
Can’t resist your headlines, Tyler.
my only insecurity is my mental state. (i had schizophrenia) in my mid teens, still there but allot less due to meditation, great video tyler
DAVID FOSFORD That's great man, meditating changed my life, especially the deep breathing and breath holding
breathing is so fucking important, deep abdominal breathing is also good for sex
I can relate David. Have Schizoaffective disorder myself we have to become so much emotionally stronger to deal with shit. You will get days when you feel like a gangster then others where you will struggle. There really should be a group somewhere for people with Schizophrenia learning game. I started deeply realising the benefits of meditation only recently. I started meditating daily on new years eve. Even though im only in the early stages I do believe it will be life changing. Until recently I was slipping into psychosis everyday. I tried giving up smoking yesterday then slipped back into it. Its so easy when you have the illness to want to destroy yourself. The book recommendation Tyler gave ''a first rate maddness'' is a good read for us. I recommend eating healthy/exercising/plus keeping your brain active. Cos if you let the illness destroy you it will. A great positive to having Schizophrenia though is the journey. Because if you got Schizophrenia and you're depressed you are the ultimate hard case newbie. Appreciate every little success you have with women.
@@PulseWithLife u can loose that identity in 1 sec
Crazy how I’m accidentally rewatching this 4 years to the day!!!
2011-2017 Owen is the equivalent of Jordan in his prime!
Best video yet.
Yo that guy that got up there is a fucking legend!!
Yes. -Tyler
it was just wonderful, really valuable. At first I didn't like You Tyler, but now I see you're a great guy.
All the best to you and a Happy New Year :)
epicness. always LOVE and enjoy hearing Tyler speak on any aspect or topic.
Tyler you changed my life, I'm so damn grateful
5,4 right here. I am not into PU but thanks for this vid. This was very helpfull and you can use this in all aspects of your life. The only one who can love you is yourself:)
awesome video bro thanks alot.
Nice dude, another bomb video
Happy holidays Tyler.Keep killing it!
iam grateful that insecurities are fixable
THANK YOU! You are the guy, I love your content, this really resonated with me on a deeper level.
i stutter. and i can clearly relate. Btw to the guy who said he's gotten over most of it, respect bro. Getting over stuttering is one of the hardest things ever. Not just becuase you cannot get the word out but there are a lot of toxic emotions involved. Im talking to the guys who dont know anything about stuttering. Im not trying to be a victim or anything, im struggling with it every day and gotten over most of, but still alot left. Just imagine not being able to talk properly, cause you're vocal chords just tense up and you physically cannot speak. Its like getting punched by an invisible fist, whenever you are trying to speak.
Awesome Video! Very important topic - absolutely love it! :)
Favorite video by RSD. Can't even begin to describe how freeing this video was.
thanks for the wisdom
amazing content! I got good value out of it! Thanks Owen :)
Wow ..
This is indeed the special video
Tyler,
I really like that you comment on the comments that ask good questions. A lot of the time I find myself asking the same questions that your commentators ask and your answers address those questions and often renew my confidence in you and the RSD brand. I'd like to encourage you to keep it up because it is super beneficial for both you and your viewers in my opinion, and gives me an incentive to both comment and read the comments.
Teeth to the Wind!
Blake N. Dickson
Sweet dude I'll do it when I'm able!! Sometimes it's a choice between getting a new video done, or comments. So depends on time budgeting! -Tyler
Fanx brova Owen. Always offering an effective means to expanding one's mind with these free-tours. Otherwise, I bet a lot of us would hardly have any opportunities in the day to day to explore new psychological venues.
Mind blowing ! Really intéresting work on negative frame destruction, to rebuild à new one. And un another level, it is Real gold for those (bold or not) who decide after that to own who they are! Amazing évolution booster!