People who haven't gone through DEPRESSION/Anxiety/OCD are nowhere to understand the feeling of a person going through this Problem. Depressed people need EMPATHY not sympathy. They are depressed because they had the courage to achieve large or get bigger than life.. But somewhere they have lost the race. Depression may enter on loosing that race for LOVE/Profession/Parents etc... Reason may be any or nothing but I assure that this is curable and the only problem lies in "TAKING THE FIRST STEP TO DOCTOR"... Thanks
sirf dobara nai, bar bar lagatar poocho.... poocho tab tak jab tak vo jo diwar hai, voh baandh hai, voh dah na jaaye... poocho... kyunki poochna zaroori hai, sun na zaroori hai. antar mann mein jo kala saya ghus ke baith gaya hai usey zubah ka rasta dikhana zaroori hai Usne kothari karr li, Toh ujale dhul jayenge Sab hansi, khushi, shayad zindagi bhi le jayenge. Hence #Dobarapoocho Thanks The Live love Laugh foundation for making this video :)
The guy is the car says "batane se dil halka hota hai", but it kills you if you share with a wrong person, and almost everyone around you is a wrong person. So I guess I would rather die without having my thoughts shared.
the part they didn't show was after the son tells his father why he is depressed and the father is like "ye sabh internet ki vajah se hai, padhai pe dhyan do. beta 98 me I was fired from job and your mother had you in her stomach, daddy didn't get depressed daddy always had a do or die spirit "
+Atanu Bhuyan Consider consulting someone who has been through similar states before, through online forums etc. You could also consult a psychiatrist!
There was a time when I got into depression at the beginning stage. When I was child my parents used to fought a lot... And sometimes I break into tears.. After I enter in my professional career my management used to blame me all the time.... I cried all the time when I came home... I was just 23yr old... But people used to tell me that you look more elder... They don't know the real cause. I'm still suffering from it. But now I became stronger and ability to fight against it... I am still into depression stage. But one day EVERY THINGS GONNA BE OKAY. I know, I believe. If nothing goes right then it's not the end. For those who are suffering with this disease I want to say that you are awesome.. Plus Don't give up.
Amar Mulani bro always believe that there is other side of life where you would have enjoyed a lot. in order to fight these situations, you have to think about others things around the world that you have never seen but imagined to do so. try to engage youself in stuff which you always wanted to do or wanted to happen.
+VansHTHeONE ty my brother.. I'm engaging myself to something that makes me happy... Thnx for the support... U know the worst part of depression? The people who don't have it they just don't get it... They will never ever understand the pain of mental pressure :(
Man I was your age when I used to get bullied by my boss. Things get better over time. No one understood what I was going through but I managed to get better. Hang in there
Amar Mulani brother I have facial deformation since my birth which has played major role in my life to make me less confident, less social, alone than others. Which was not enough I guess coz my college life was worse becoz of bullying, ragging in hostel. I asked my parents to bring me back home but constant reminder of 'the career chosen by you' made me keep going through all those years. I am under treatment right now, after 4 years since I left the college. I finally spoke it out. Though it's not everything but at Least I am feeling lighter than before. It's never too late. Consult, Speak Out, Assess, get busy, don't over think. Improvise yourself. Just don't let depression take control of you.
brother i knw how it feels when you bullied by someone.I've been through that too. I feel sorry for you .but hey dont give up.there will be a light at the end of the tunnel .You just keep going as i m .
I'm in my late 20s and I was diagnosed with depression 2 months ago. For the last 10 years, I've had the symptoms of depression, but never knew about it. I would often tell everyone I feel very dull in my head, don't feel motivated to do anything and feel a lack of energy. All these years, I brushed aside these feelings thinking, that I'm just a lazy, uninteresting or an unmotivated person. Very recently the feeling of depression got extremely bad, after a failed attempt to make a relationship workout. I would feel sad and dejected throughout the day, whether it was at home, work, at the gym or even when hanging out with friends. I had this feeling right away when I would wake up or just before I would go to sleep. To make myself feel better, I even took a 3 week trip to Europe, but nothing changed. I had absolutely no clue why I would feel like this throughout the day. The worst part was that the more I tried talking about "this feeling" with my family and friends, I didn't feel any better. However, opening up to my family and friends was the first step in getting help. My mom and close friends convinced me that I need to start seeing a psychologist/therapist. All these years, I've had several panic attacks, felt hopeless, questioned my existence and been very pessimistic in general. I'm currently going through sessions of psychotherapy to change the way I view things and to build my self esteem. Along with the therapy sessions, on my therapist's recommendation, I've also been reading the book "Feeling Good" by David D Burns. Long story short, if you feel you need help, please get it sooner. You have no clue how many people like me have suffered for years or ended their lives because they felt there was no hope. There is absolutely nothing wrong in seeing a psychologist/therapist. In our country we have this taboo that only crazy people go for therapy, but trust me that is not true. I am so grateful that I am going through therapy once a week. I've already started seeing some changes and I know I will only get better. My only regret is that I should have started getting help sooner. I really wish that I didn't wait for my depression to get severe due to a failed relationship for me to realise that I need therapy.
no one cares about our anxiety or depression they are just curious and after listening to the whole story they'll say hota hai bhul jao hm hain na... then suddenly no one is there for you...We depressed ones are so unlucky :'(
hey hey not everyone are like that.. there will definitely be someone who will be with you ..stand by you and support you..but you gotta trust and be hopeful that the some one will be with you . trust me better days and people are coming:)the world is not too bad after all:))there are souls out there who will stand by you and be with you. trust them:))
Perpetua Kolandasamy it's not like k i haven't tried.. but it hurts when your own parents don't stand by your side..I am a shoulder to cry for all of my friends and i often cry listening to what they have been through..But when i need someone to share with i am all alone..they might listen to me but they just take it as a bedtime story...
btw thanks for sharing your thoughts and ideas :') ..ill just say in short " my life is not a story but a book full of chapters and every chapter is based on a different and complicated story..
It's hard. I've tried opening up to multiple people, but either get shut right out or become subject to apathy. It's even worse when you try to share and the other person presents their own issues, making it seem like your problems are insignificant. It's not what they say that matters, it's the way it is said.
Moved after seeing this clip. I have deep passion for academics, somehow things did not turn well. I slipped into latent sadness, in an unconscious manner. It effected me the way I was, broke a good relationship with a dear friend. Though, it may seem funny but the only therapist who helped me is my child, my dog, Raven. I pray that may everyone's dreams come true and may everybody relish the beautiful gift of friendship and bliss of unconditional love.
I teared up. Something similar happened to me. But I chose to seek help immediately. There were counselling done, medications prescribed. I'm on my road to recovery. But it still makes me sad when I remember that awful feeling and lived with it for a few weeks.
I too have been through the same bro. Looking back, it is a weird feeling but with time, there is a change in our perspective and we need to reassure ourselves of the same, always.
Gone are the days when people used to talk face to face, watch the feelings of the other person while speaking to them, there are lot of people who are going through a rough patch & need help right now, our responsibility is to reach out to them, check if they are okay and be there and support them if we feel they are not.
Shruthi Nyamathkhana but when you don't even tell anything, how can you say they will be judgemental? you are already judging them even without telling them. Make a person friend who is not much related to you so that you will not be scared of judging thing. Especially with a person who is different from your surrounding people. Hope it helps :)
Try to know your relatives because sometimes you search for a friend every where to share your feelings but you get your real friend in your relatives so try to know them, maybe they understand you better than any friend. Talk to many people as possible so that yoi could understand how they tackle these situations then might be you get solution for your depression . And though it's hard to know what is causing depression but still if you can then speak to yourself to get the solution for that. Talk to yourself like there is a personal friend inside you, that might help you. But it all depends what is making you depressed best o luck for future but if you want any advise do let me know. I have been in this situation and i can't depressed now the way i made myself. I can't even demotivate. I hope you understand that you letting this depression bigger so in order to stop them you have to think differently
Oh, the feels. I'm depressed too. Itna depression h ki college me teachers bhi puchte h ki "why are you so silent nowadays?" *Sigh* Parwah hai to #DobaraPoocho
Friend, I am pretty sure that you are a good hearted man, else you'll steal your will or happiness by force. So, just broke all inner barriers and talk about what is bothering you that much, that you can't even smile and talk with anyone. There is always a solution, just explore it, use togetherness. #togetherness
This is exactly how its feels.. even if you want to shout out loud what you feel.. you just can't. People wouldn't understand what exactly you feel unless they're experiencing the same thing. There's one thing you can only do.. cry alone.
Just seeing this video makes me cry... i know.. i knw i have depression.. n i can admit it.. just because i knw .. there is no one here who knows me.. i cant tell people about it.. people who know me.. i cant tell them.. people cal it nautanki.. drama shuru ho gaya firse.. aisa kuch ni hota yeh bas tera vehem hai.. i have heard this sooo many times.. i feel ... i dnt know.. i dnt even know if i shud post this over hear.... i dnt knw what m doing... i dnt knw who can help me.. or how can i help myself.. m not even asking for help.. all m asking is.. PEOPLE PLEASE DO UNDERSTAND THIS.. please atleast try to.. coz depression isnt just nautanki.. it is there.. it is real.. n it is happening..
One thing wrong about this video is that people are asking if they are okay or not. Actually they think of those people as simple sad being or mostly nobody gives a damn. That's the reality of this robotic world, they don't care at all because humans are never capable of truly understanding each other. Just want to say to all the depressed people out there that the only person who can get you out of this darkness is "YOU". You are the only light and show everyone how bright is your light so that nobody can dare to turn a blind eye away from you
Raj Kamal Roy Baro : Yes, absolutely. Depression is not mere sadness. There needs to be more awareness about it. Also, people should not be afraid to seek treatment for it. Doesn't make you a 'mad' person.
Yes people who know you don't think of you as a mad person, but strangers do think so. That's why I was unable to make any friends when I got into the college because of my 'strange mental' behaviour.
Some people can't get out of depression on just their own . I was one of them . It was all thanks to the support of my family and the people i shared my problems with , that i have finally overcome depression . Sure , there will be some people who will pretend to listen to your problems or those who will talk shit about you behind your back but its never worth it to keep your problems to yourself in fear of those small percentage of people . Share your problems and you just might find the wonderful people who will get you out of that hell before you even know it .
***** U were fortunate to have people around who understood your problem. But nobody ever understood me, even I was unable to comprehended my situation until i researched it on google and that too after 2 years of darkness.
sometimes people just don't understand...laugh at you...at your stage we did this that...blah and blah...nobody gives an ear. it is really difficult to find a person who would listen...just listen.
poochana is enough? uske baad kaya. who has time to give support in times of need! neither time nor patience! we r common people nor celebrities who can endure life full of selfish souls😊
Sudha people who r gone through this will always help people who r into it.. im ready to render all my support which i experienced and learnt from anxiety and depression.. contact me on shaikhrahuf@yahoo.com am ready to give my contact number too.. not a doctor neither a therapist..
Can y'all please upload a version of this full video with English subtitles? The smaller 1 min videos have subtitles, but the full video doesn't. I'd appreciate it if y'all could share the full video with subtitles. Thanks.
Nice video and foundation. But sometimes there is no reason for depression. So asking someone again and again why they're sad is going to make it worse.
Some times i don't know what i am doing and what i want to do, what is better for me but i am not doing that, sometimes i like darkness, i want to live in a dark room... don't want to say any thing from anybody.. only headache... headache... headache....
I know how it seems in depression. I know how it feels to be lonely. I know how it feels not to be loved. I know how it feels to be heart broken. But I m still alive n facing the situation.
leading a normal life, having everything which is necessary, in fact, more than what one could desire for.. but still, there are times when there is darkness, there is no will to live, nothing attracts and nothing makes me smile.. i become highly anti-social.. just want to stay alone, cry, and just cry for no reasons.. these are the toughest times, because the easiest thing is to break into tears. depression is heavy.. seriously heavy! because it doesn't need any reason, hence can't be cured. but yes, the phase passes and i become ok. but why does it happen to me? i can't answer this. i can't even share what is happening to me in that very moment.. to phir dil halka kaise ho? :(
Dear tilloo, things can be cured. ................ see the history of mankind. triumph over many diseases and misfortunes .................... may be you are on a journey of knowing yourself better. I should not sound preachy. I just share what I read when I feel sad and heavy ,"Your joy is your sorrow unmasked. And the selfsame well from which your laughter rises was oftentimes filled with your tears. And how else can it be? The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain. Is not the cup that holds your wine the very cup that was burned in the potter's oven? And is not the lute that soothes your spirit, the very wood that was hollowed with knives? When you are joyous, look deep into your heart and you shall find it is only that which has given you sorrow that is giving you joy. When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight. "(Kahlil Gibran.)
Being an ARMY I would love to carry on our BTS's motto Whenever you feel depressed You can come to us You can come to me Black_swan.7 on insta Shubhangi on fb I'll listen to you Kyuki India me ladkio k maa baap unki ni sunte Unko daba ke rakhe hai Unke sapne ka gala ghot dete hai Jiyo aur jeene do I'll wait for you Let's not be depressed anymore Let's share our problems and find a solution #loveyourself
It pains me to see that people are commenting here about their issues instead of talking them out with someone who could help them. I know its difficult, but please let it out. Scream it out. Ek nahi, dusra nahi... Koi to sunega. Aur koi na bhi sune... Apni kahani bayan to karo. Koi to hoga jo kahega arre 'me too'. I know you're hurting. But plse for this one moment.... Be brave. Zindagi hi to hai.
sorry i also dnt kwn how to succes in our lyf i want to feel bettr. #alone i cnt share anthg wid my besty fmly evn my gf..plzz try to undrsntd my feels i want to die i relly dnt kwn wot i do in futer......... :-(
Mradul Soni die?? mradul, you are way too great to make such silly choice. You are letting depression take control of you. First of all you are a separate identity which can make impact on your own life so think carefully. Some events might have affected you in ill way but they are gone, they are over. New day, new sun shine my friend. Talk to someone or write it down. But make one thing sure that you go and consult to some doctor, give it a shot.
Yes, talking about it is the first step. But truth be told, people couldn't care less about someone's depression. It takes a lot of courage to come out and when you know people will laugh it off, there's no point talking about it. Their indifference makes it even worse. People are generally bad at identifying depression in others. Nevertheless, this is a great step towards mental health awareness. Don't you think visiting a psychologist is a better option?
Honestly, depression isn't something that you can just solve by talking. Its a medical condition and needs medical assistance. You need a clinical psychiatrist with an MBBS degree and an adequate dosage of anti - depressants to get through it (sometimes even that doesn't help much). Being really sad and being depressed are two completely different things.
Ananya Yoda actually it can by sharing your problem. though it can't be solved by talking but if you share your feelings or condition to a person who is more forward to understand people than judge them then it can be solved.
Setul Mishra bro you don't need only GIRLS to share your feelings. Try to share with friend or relative who is not judgemental instead listen to what you say.
But speaking doesn't helps if there is nobody to listen. Especially when its too hard to speak and one does. When everything is grey but still you hope that maybe somewhere you ll find a spot of colour but that is a mirage for you because there is only grey. When all you can do is watch your life fall apart in the most unimaginable and horrific way and you can just watch it shatter. When you have lost hope and motivation and becoming more duller because life is just worth living for the people you promised to live it for when actually you want to end it everyday and every millisecond and the one person who loves you you dont want them to be hurt so you dont say about your pain but nothing seems to help you cuz all the years of your life gave you pain so you want to let it go from you but you dont know to live without it too so everything in life is messed up but you act like you are the most perfect person to ever be let down and everybody knows you as the best you as a happiest person you can act yourself to! How do you get help when you think there is no help and its better to keep falling than to try to rise and fall drastically again to never be uplifted again?
I have stopped liking people. I don't want to see anyone, don't wanna hear anything..I like to live in a dark where no o e could see me..even my daughter, my wife or anyone
Every morning when I wake up,the thought of going to office, seeing the faces of colleagues, listening their voices haunts me..every second passed is like a year..its come to this. I m 32 and I don't wanna live anymore..wish life could be shorter
Raya Banerjee actually it depends on person to person. a depressed person never tells his/her situation because of this tag "kisko parwah h" Share with a person who is open towards everything and who listens the most because when you become good listen, you get an idea of his/her situation. you get to understand them.
Depression, the fancy disease of rich people. Hey, there is nothing physically wrong with me, but i really want to feel bad about myself. Rite, i am depressed, plz talk to me. Wuss......
I'll suggest you something. Walk into a psychiatry OPD of a government hospital where treatment charges are minimal. You will be surprised as to how huge the magnitude of the problem is, amongst the poor as well. The fact is the rich, especially the population in developed nations often have better access to healthcare and thus, cases are more easily detected. Unlike that in many poor, whose problem is ridiculed by those around, as they cannot possibly imagine its magnitude and interpret it as mere sadness.
It is a minor issue as compared to people not getting jobs, or required nutrition, or women dying on the way to childbirth, or a large number of relevant issues facing the people of the country. But we have to talk about depression coz Deepika Padukone talked about it. Lets forget about real issues, and talk about fancy issues..
There are multiple issues that exist in the society. For a person who is facing it on a personal level, that particular problem is the biggest problem possible. Societal problems cannot be solved one at a time. Because the problems wont end. There has to be a multi pronged approach. In fact the governmental expenditure on mental health related issues is minimal compared to the population that is affected by it.
The government needs to put all its focus and resources on actual diseases, not on pretend ones like depression. Resources are finite and should be put to their optimum use, not after some fancy self inflicted pretend ones. Depression is only in people head, but other diseases actually affect your body. So, a depressed person can choose to be depressed to go out and do some actual wok. Choice should be theirs, but we shoudnt be devoting any more resources in fighting this so called ailment. We have enough real ones..
Kuch nahi hota sab haste hai..nahi tao kahenge humne tumse jayada jhela hai...tum bahut acchi condition mai ho..log depression hi tao dete hai..tabhi hum society se cut hote hai..majaak banta hai..kuch nahi hota..humre apne hi humare jeene ka rasta band kar dete hai..tu socitey karna chahata hai le beta kar..saala sympathy gain karne ke liye chillata hai ki mai suicite kar lunga..hahahaha..sab bakwaas hai..
This is exactly how its feels.. even if you want to shout out loud what you feel.. you just can't. People wouldn't understand what exactly you feel unless they're experiencing the same thing. There's one thing you can only do.. cry alone.
People who haven't gone through DEPRESSION/Anxiety/OCD are nowhere to understand the feeling of a person going through this Problem. Depressed people need EMPATHY not sympathy. They are depressed because they had the courage to achieve large or get bigger than life.. But somewhere they have lost the race. Depression may enter on loosing that race for LOVE/Profession/Parents etc... Reason may be any or nothing but I assure that this is curable and the only problem lies in "TAKING THE FIRST STEP TO DOCTOR"... Thanks
sirf dobara nai, bar bar lagatar poocho....
poocho tab tak jab tak vo jo diwar hai, voh baandh hai,
voh dah na jaaye...
poocho... kyunki poochna zaroori hai, sun na zaroori hai.
antar mann mein jo kala saya ghus ke baith gaya hai
usey zubah ka rasta dikhana zaroori hai
Usne kothari karr li,
Toh ujale dhul jayenge
Sab hansi, khushi, shayad zindagi bhi le jayenge.
Hence #Dobarapoocho
Thanks The Live love Laugh foundation for making this video :)
kanupriya Agarwal best..
The guy is the car says "batane se dil halka hota hai", but it kills you if you share with a wrong person, and almost everyone around you is a wrong person. So I guess I would rather die without having my thoughts shared.
Shobhit Gosain after you
Atanu Bhuyan haha
the part they didn't show was after the son tells his father why he is depressed and the father is like "ye sabh internet ki vajah se hai, padhai pe dhyan do. beta 98 me I was fired from job and your mother had you in her stomach, daddy didn't get depressed daddy always had a do or die spirit "
+Atanu Bhuyan Consider consulting someone who has been through similar states before, through online forums etc. You could also consult a psychiatrist!
but yk the person sitting next to you and asking you might be the kind you need at the time the most..
I cried endlessly couldn't speak a word, I can completely understand how it feels!!
vimal jani we all are on the same boat.
yes
Me too
Happens with me too..it's so bad that when someone asks..I can't do anything except crying..
It's been 3 years now
How are you now?
Are you living a happy life?
There was a time when I got into depression at the beginning stage. When I was child my parents used to fought a lot... And sometimes I break into tears.. After I enter in my professional career my management used to blame me all the time.... I cried all the time when I came home... I was just 23yr old... But people used to tell me that you look more elder... They don't know the real cause. I'm still suffering from it. But now I became stronger and ability to fight against it... I am still into depression stage. But one day EVERY THINGS GONNA BE OKAY. I know, I believe. If nothing goes right then it's not the end. For those who are suffering with this disease I want to say that you are awesome.. Plus Don't give up.
Amar Mulani bro always believe that there is other side of life where you would have enjoyed a lot. in order to fight these situations, you have to think about others things around the world that you have never seen but imagined to do so. try to engage youself in stuff which you always wanted to do or wanted to happen.
+VansHTHeONE ty my brother.. I'm engaging myself to something that makes me happy... Thnx for the support... U know the worst part of depression? The people who don't have it they just don't get it... They will never ever understand the pain of mental pressure :(
Man I was your age when I used to get bullied by my boss. Things get better over time. No one understood what I was going through but I managed to get better. Hang in there
Amar Mulani brother I have facial deformation since my birth which has played major role in my life to make me less confident, less social, alone than others. Which was not enough I guess coz my college life was worse becoz of bullying, ragging in hostel. I asked my parents to bring me back home but constant reminder of 'the career chosen by you' made me keep going through all those years. I am under treatment right now, after 4 years since I left the college. I finally spoke it out. Though it's not everything but at Least I am feeling lighter than before. It's never too late. Consult, Speak Out, Assess, get busy, don't over think. Improvise yourself. Just don't let depression take control of you.
brother i knw how it feels when you bullied by someone.I've been through that too. I feel sorry for you .but hey dont give up.there will be a light at the end of the tunnel .You just keep going as i m .
I'm in my late 20s and I was diagnosed with depression 2 months ago. For the last 10 years, I've had the symptoms of depression, but never knew about it. I would often tell everyone I feel very dull in my head, don't feel motivated to do anything and feel a lack of energy. All these years, I brushed aside these feelings thinking, that I'm just a lazy, uninteresting or an unmotivated person.
Very recently the feeling of depression got extremely bad, after a failed attempt to make a relationship workout. I would feel sad and dejected throughout the day, whether it was at home, work, at the gym or even when hanging out with friends. I had this feeling right away when I would wake up or just before I would go to sleep. To make myself feel better, I even took a 3 week trip to Europe, but nothing changed. I had absolutely no clue why I would feel like this throughout the day.
The worst part was that the more I tried talking about "this feeling" with my family and friends, I didn't feel any better. However, opening up to my family and friends was the first step in getting help. My mom and close friends convinced me that I need to start seeing a psychologist/therapist.
All these years, I've had several panic attacks, felt hopeless, questioned my existence and been very pessimistic in general.
I'm currently going through sessions of psychotherapy to change the way I view things and to build my self esteem. Along with the therapy sessions, on my therapist's recommendation, I've also been reading the book "Feeling Good" by David D Burns.
Long story short, if you feel you need help, please get it sooner. You have no clue how many people like me have suffered for years or ended their lives because they felt there was no hope. There is absolutely nothing wrong in seeing a psychologist/therapist. In our country we have this taboo that only crazy people go for therapy, but trust me that is not true.
I am so grateful that I am going through therapy once a week. I've already started seeing some changes and I know I will only get better. My only regret is that I should have started getting help sooner. I really wish that I didn't wait for my depression to get severe due to a failed relationship for me to realise that I need therapy.
Rajeev Kapoor
did u take anti depressants ? Because my therapist said in the first meeting that I need medicines
It's been 3 years
How are you now?
no one cares about our anxiety or depression they are just curious and after listening to the whole story they'll say hota hai bhul jao hm hain na... then suddenly no one is there for you...We depressed ones are so unlucky :'(
hey hey not everyone are like that.. there will definitely be someone who will be with you ..stand by you and support you..but you gotta trust and be hopeful that the some one will be with you . trust me better days and people are coming:)the world is not too bad after all:))there are souls out there who will stand by you and be with you. trust them:))
and try to be the light in someone else's darkness,you can relieve yourself from your own darkness :) give it a try!
Perpetua Kolandasamy it's not like k i haven't tried.. but it hurts when your own parents don't stand by your side..I am a shoulder to cry for all of my friends and i often cry listening to what they have been through..But when i need someone to share with i am all alone..they might listen to me but they just take it as a bedtime story...
btw thanks for sharing your thoughts and ideas :') ..ill just say in short " my life is not a story but a book full of chapters and every chapter is based on a different and
complicated story..
i am going through the same thing now... there is no one by my side yet and i dont know what to do...
It's hard. I've tried opening up to multiple people, but either get shut right out or become subject to apathy. It's even worse when you try to share and the other person presents their own issues, making it seem like your problems are insignificant. It's not what they say that matters, it's the way it is said.
+Tirth Bhatt lol
Consider consulting a psychiatrist. Talking out makes one feel extremely light and that is how a proper search for a long term solution begins!
Moved after seeing this clip. I have deep passion for academics, somehow things did not turn well. I slipped into latent sadness, in an unconscious manner. It effected me the way I was, broke a good relationship with a dear friend. Though, it may seem funny but the only therapist who helped me is my child, my dog, Raven. I pray that may everyone's dreams come true and may everybody relish the beautiful gift of friendship and bliss of unconditional love.
I teared up. Something similar happened to me. But I chose to seek help immediately. There were counselling done, medications prescribed. I'm on my road to recovery.
But it still makes me sad when I remember that awful feeling and lived with it for a few weeks.
I too have been through the same bro. Looking back, it is a weird feeling but with time, there is a change in our perspective and we need to reassure ourselves of the same, always.
Gone are the days when people used to talk face to face, watch the feelings of the other person while speaking to them, there are lot of people who are going through a rough patch & need help right now, our responsibility is to reach out to them, check if they are okay and be there and support them if we feel they are not.
The sole reason why I don't share my problems with people is beacsuse they are judgemental
I'm a girl, bro
Shruthi Nyamathkhana but when you don't even tell anything, how can you say they will be judgemental? you are already judging them even without telling them. Make a person friend who is not much related to you so that you will not be scared of judging thing. Especially with a person who is different from your surrounding people. Hope it helps :)
+VansHTHeONE lol depressed flirt
@VansHTHeONE I did share my problems with people in my life but no one never really understood me and instead made fun of my weaknesses
Try to know your relatives because sometimes you search for a friend every where to share your feelings but you get your real friend in your relatives so try to know them, maybe they understand you better than any friend. Talk to many people as possible so that yoi could understand how they tackle these situations then might be you get solution for your depression . And though it's hard to know what is causing depression but still if you can then speak to yourself to get the solution for that. Talk to yourself like there is a personal friend inside you, that might help you. But it all depends what is making you depressed best o luck for future but if you want any advise do let me know. I have been in this situation and i can't depressed now the way i made myself. I can't even demotivate. I hope you understand that you letting this depression bigger so in order to stop them you have to think differently
Many like me out there..... splendid video, when will people understand....
If this doesn't make you cry, I don't know what will. This is truer than the love Jack had for Rose.
this helped so much more than you could possibly imagine 💓
Nice video 👍🏻 perfectly convey the message 👌🏻❤
'DEPRESSION' I know how it feels!
A smile - a withered smile and suppressed Untold words. 🙂
I'm proud of you Deepika ma'am love you stay safe stay healthy
Oh, the feels. I'm depressed too. Itna depression h ki college me teachers bhi puchte h ki "why are you so silent nowadays?" *Sigh* Parwah hai to #DobaraPoocho
What's wrong Ashish ? If you wanna talk about it you can direct message me...
ignore everyone
Friend, I am pretty sure that you are a good hearted man, else you'll steal your will or happiness by force. So, just broke all inner barriers and talk about what is bothering you that much, that you can't even smile and talk with anyone.
There is always a solution, just explore it, use togetherness.
#togetherness
Same here.. I still struggle some days.. I will soon see a psychiatrist :) no stigma in it. It is my life :) I want to make the most of it :)
This is exactly how its feels.. even if you want to shout out loud what you feel.. you just can't. People wouldn't understand what exactly you feel unless they're experiencing the same thing. There's one thing you can only do.. cry alone.
kaash kisi ko bata pate
kash koi mazak na udate
Bani Roy kashhhh...!!!
How are you bani didi ?
Are you ok now?
Just seeing this video makes me cry... i know.. i knw i have depression.. n i can admit it.. just because i knw .. there is no one here who knows me.. i cant tell people about it.. people who know me.. i cant tell them.. people cal it nautanki.. drama shuru ho gaya firse.. aisa kuch ni hota yeh bas tera vehem hai.. i have heard this sooo many times.. i feel ... i dnt know.. i dnt even know if i shud post this over hear.... i dnt knw what m doing... i dnt knw who can help me.. or how can i help myself.. m not even asking for help.. all m asking is.. PEOPLE PLEASE DO UNDERSTAND THIS.. please atleast try to.. coz depression isnt just nautanki.. it is there.. it is real.. n it is happening..
One thing wrong about this video is that people are asking if they are okay or not. Actually they think of those people as simple sad being or mostly nobody gives a damn. That's the reality of this robotic world, they don't care at all because humans are never capable of truly understanding each other. Just want to say to all the depressed people out there that the only person who can get you out of this darkness is "YOU". You are the only light and show everyone how bright is your light so that nobody can dare to turn a blind eye away from you
Raj Kamal Roy Baro : Yes, absolutely. Depression is not mere sadness. There needs to be more awareness about it. Also, people should not be afraid to seek treatment for it. Doesn't make you a 'mad' person.
Yes people who know you don't think of you as a mad person, but strangers do think so. That's why I was unable to make any friends when I got into the college because of my 'strange mental' behaviour.
Some people can't get out of depression on just their own . I was one of them . It was all thanks to the support of my family and the people i shared my problems with , that i have finally overcome depression . Sure , there will be some people who will pretend to listen to your problems or those who will talk shit about you behind your back but its never worth it to keep your problems to yourself in fear of those small percentage of people . Share your problems and you just might find the wonderful people who will get you out of that hell before you even know it .
Very true....
***** U were fortunate to have people around who understood your problem. But nobody ever understood me, even I was unable to comprehended my situation until i researched it on google and that too after 2 years of darkness.
It bring tears😢I passed through this badly phase..pr koi puchne vala hi nai tha😢😢very helpful video...Thank u deepika mam nd foundation team
nice effort in starting a website,came here soon after i saw the first add in tv
This small video will change many lives!
#deep #dobarapoocho
I just signed in to like this video & like the channel. Great work
sometimes people just don't understand...laugh at you...at your stage we did this that...blah and blah...nobody gives an ear. it is really difficult to find a person who would listen...just listen.
Yes exactly people can't understand one who suffers can only understand and every time you feel low is not because of a reason
Very true...sometimes there are no reasons at all...and you are in the worst low.
philomel chowdhury touching...same happened to me.
''Meri likhi hui baat ko koi samaj nahi pata.....
Kyunki mai ehsaas likhta hu aur log alfaaz padte hai.....''
wah
the story of my life....
"kyunki mai ehsas likhta hun, aur log alfaaz smjhte hain "
Shoaib Chikate same here brthr
been into this for 3 long years.. got out of depression since 2 yrs now.. surely me too in for help if anyone needs.. #livelovelaugh
poochana is enough? uske baad kaya. who has time to give support in times of need! neither time nor patience! we r common people nor celebrities who can endure life full of selfish souls😊
Sudha people who r gone through this will always help people who r into it.. im ready to render all my support which i experienced and learnt from anxiety and depression.. contact me on shaikhrahuf@yahoo.com am ready to give my contact number too.. not a doctor neither a therapist..
leave me your contact no please
saurabh pokharkar pls drop me a mail on shaikhrahuf@yahoo.com will share the details.. sorry for late reply was on a office trip..
Can y'all please upload a version of this full video with English subtitles? The smaller 1 min videos have subtitles, but the full video doesn't. I'd appreciate it if y'all could share the full video with subtitles. Thanks.
very beautifully shot! Depression is an actual problem and we should not take it lightly
Great initiative :)
Lovely .lovely.
Compilatiion
Best Take on this issue.
#TLLLF
This made me cry badly. Wish there was someone to whom I can share with
Never nurture depression. Sometimes it triggers serious health issues.
Nice video and foundation. But sometimes there is no reason for depression. So asking someone again and again why they're sad is going to make it worse.
true,its unsharable
many times, we can't share anything with anyone, even the closest friends because they feel ,"ye toh rota hi rehta hai". life sucks at that point.
Some times i don't know what i am doing and what i want to do, what is better for me but i am not doing that, sometimes i like darkness, i want to live in a dark room... don't want to say any thing from anybody.. only headache... headache... headache....
this vedio really is too emotional... made me cry
Nice.. Concept...thanw
I know how it seems in depression. I know how it feels to be lonely. I know how it feels not to be loved. I know how it feels to be heart broken. But I m still alive n facing the situation.
Very helpful
there r too many things which we can't share wid our parents
for their safety ofcource😂
this pops up as an add when even RUclips knows you are depressed.
we r 90kid ,m 25 now,still not decide what m doing wid my life
+Kunal Swain depressed? suicidal?
+Kunal Swain so true bro. everyday is passing and it looks like what am i doing?? where is all this going??? sometimes just creeps me out.
What is the name of background music
Brilliant
I want to join your foundation.
leading a normal life, having everything which is necessary, in fact, more than what one could desire for.. but still, there are times when there is darkness, there is no will to live, nothing attracts and nothing makes me smile.. i become highly anti-social.. just want to stay alone, cry, and just cry for no reasons..
these are the toughest times, because the easiest thing is to break into tears. depression is heavy.. seriously heavy! because it doesn't need any reason, hence can't be cured. but yes, the phase passes and i become ok. but why does it happen to me? i can't answer this. i can't even share what is happening to me in that very moment.. to phir dil halka kaise ho? :(
wtf? apni bakwas apne pas rakho.
jab pata na ho k samnay larki hai ya larka, to apni gandi zehniyat dikhana zaroori nahi.
+tilloo kharrgosh sorry bro/bahen
+tilloo kharrgosh just trying to lighten ze mood.....check out onission 👻
Dear tilloo, things can be cured. ................ see the history of mankind. triumph over many diseases and misfortunes .................... may be you are on a journey of knowing yourself better. I should not sound preachy. I just share what I read when I feel sad and heavy ,"Your joy is your sorrow unmasked.
And the selfsame well from which your laughter rises was oftentimes filled with your tears.
And how else can it be?
The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain.
Is not the cup that holds your wine the very cup that was burned in the potter's oven?
And is not the lute that soothes your spirit, the very wood that was hollowed with knives?
When you are joyous, look deep into your heart and you shall find it is only that which has given you sorrow that is giving you joy.
When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.
"(Kahlil Gibran.)
the problem is everybody say they are just fine
❤❤❤❤❤❤
thank you
Not everyone does have similar surroundings or people to share & care 💔
Being an ARMY
I would love to carry on our BTS's motto
Whenever you feel depressed
You can come to us
You can come to me
Black_swan.7 on insta
Shubhangi on fb
I'll listen to you
Kyuki India me ladkio k maa baap unki ni sunte
Unko daba ke rakhe hai
Unke sapne ka gala ghot dete hai
Jiyo aur jeene do
I'll wait for you
Let's not be depressed anymore
Let's share our problems and find a solution
#loveyourself
i dont see society asking me how to overcome depression like shown in this advt
It pains me to see that people are commenting here about their issues instead of talking them out with someone who could help them. I know its difficult, but please let it out. Scream it out. Ek nahi, dusra nahi... Koi to sunega. Aur koi na bhi sune... Apni kahani bayan to karo. Koi to hoga jo kahega arre 'me too'. I know you're hurting. But plse for this one moment.... Be brave. Zindagi hi to hai.
Actually u know what.. Koi puchhne wala hi nhi hai....
Me 2.. u r not alone
sorry i also dnt kwn how to succes in our lyf i want to feel bettr. #alone i cnt share anthg wid my besty fmly evn my gf..plzz try to undrsntd my feels i want to die i relly dnt kwn wot i do in futer......... :-(
Mradul Soni die?? mradul, you are way too great to make such silly choice. You are letting depression take control of you. First of all you are a separate identity which can make impact on your own life so think carefully. Some events might have affected you in ill way but they are gone, they are over. New day, new sun shine my friend. Talk to someone or write it down. But make one thing sure that you go and consult to some doctor, give it a shot.
Yes, talking about it is the first step. But truth be told, people couldn't care less about someone's depression. It takes a lot of courage to come out and when you know people will laugh it off, there's no point talking about it. Their indifference makes it even worse. People are generally bad at identifying depression in others. Nevertheless, this is a great step towards mental health awareness.
Don't you think visiting a psychologist is a better option?
nice video
have some shame..ur website says Ask again. When you know “I’m fine, thank you” isn’t true. and dis leads to dis video...click krne k baad..kare kya..
ye video dekhe...koi no toh available hai nahi avi..kyu kya mazak kkre
ykw if you'll go and tell your so called 'friends' that you're depressed, they will laugh their a*s and will end up saying "laiiiiirrrrrrr"
No one can understand, that's why I don't say anything to anyone 😔😔😔😔😔
Honestly, depression isn't something that you can just solve by talking. Its a medical condition and needs medical assistance. You need a clinical psychiatrist with an MBBS degree and an adequate dosage of anti - depressants to get through it (sometimes even that doesn't help much). Being really sad and being depressed are two completely different things.
Ananya Yoda actually it can by sharing your problem. though it can't be solved by talking but if you share your feelings or condition to a person who is more forward to understand people than judge them then it can be solved.
Save Water Drink Beer
Nah, whiskey's more effective x)
don't have anyone to share problem with....
Setul Mishra bro you don't need only GIRLS to share your feelings. Try to share with friend or relative who is not judgemental instead listen to what you say.
But speaking doesn't helps if there is nobody to listen. Especially when its too hard to speak and one does. When everything is grey but still you hope that maybe somewhere you ll find a spot of colour but that is a mirage for you because there is only grey. When all you can do is watch your life fall apart in the most unimaginable and horrific way and you can just watch it shatter. When you have lost hope and motivation and becoming more duller because life is just worth living for the people you promised to live it for when actually you want to end it everyday and every millisecond and the one person who loves you you dont want them to be hurt so you dont say about your pain but nothing seems to help you cuz all the years of your life gave you pain so you want to let it go from you but you dont know to live without it too so everything in life is messed up but you act like you are the most perfect person to ever be let down and everybody knows you as the best you as a happiest person you can act yourself to! How do you get help when you think there is no help and its better to keep falling than to try to rise and fall drastically again to never be uplifted again?
depression is shit.. :( its torture.
I have stopped liking people. I don't want to see anyone, don't wanna hear anything..I like to live in a dark where no o e could see me..even my daughter, my wife or anyone
Every morning when I wake up,the thought of going to office, seeing the faces of colleagues, listening their voices haunts me..every second passed is like a year..its come to this.
I m 32 and I don't wanna live anymore..wish life could be shorter
Kisi ne dobara pucha hi nahi
lekin parwah kisko hai?
Raya Banerjee actually it depends on person to person. a depressed person never tells his/her situation because of this tag "kisko parwah h" Share with a person who is open towards everything and who listens the most because when you become good listen, you get an idea of his/her situation. you get to understand them.
Depression, the fancy disease of rich people. Hey, there is nothing physically wrong with me, but i really want to feel bad about myself. Rite, i am depressed, plz talk to me. Wuss......
I'll suggest you something.
Walk into a psychiatry OPD of a government hospital where treatment charges are minimal.
You will be surprised as to how huge the magnitude of the problem is, amongst the poor as well.
The fact is the rich, especially the population in developed nations often have better access to healthcare and thus, cases are more easily detected. Unlike that in many poor, whose problem is ridiculed by those around, as they cannot possibly imagine its magnitude and interpret it as mere sadness.
It is a minor issue as compared to people not getting jobs, or required nutrition, or women dying on the way to childbirth, or a large number of relevant issues facing the people of the country. But we have to talk about depression coz Deepika Padukone talked about it. Lets forget about real issues, and talk about fancy issues..
There are multiple issues that exist in the society.
For a person who is facing it on a personal level, that particular problem is the biggest problem possible.
Societal problems cannot be solved one at a time.
Because the problems wont end.
There has to be a multi pronged approach.
In fact the governmental expenditure on mental health related issues is minimal compared to the population that is affected by it.
The government needs to put all its focus and resources on actual diseases, not on pretend ones like depression. Resources are finite and should be put to their optimum use, not after some fancy self inflicted pretend ones. Depression is only in people head, but other diseases actually affect your body. So, a depressed person can choose to be depressed to go out and do some actual wok. Choice should be theirs, but we shoudnt be devoting any more resources in fighting this so called ailment. We have enough real ones..
I hope you get this disease of the rich.
bt der should at least be a person to hold you back as shown in this video... in reality der is no such person
Kuch nahi hota sab haste hai..nahi tao kahenge humne tumse jayada jhela hai...tum bahut acchi condition mai ho..log depression hi tao dete hai..tabhi hum society se cut hote hai..majaak banta hai..kuch nahi hota..humre apne hi humare jeene ka rasta band kar dete hai..tu socitey karna chahata hai le beta kar..saala sympathy gain karne ke liye chillata hai ki mai suicite kar lunga..hahahaha..sab bakwaas hai..
filmy...so failed
This is exactly how its feels.. even if you want to shout out loud what you feel.. you just can't. People wouldn't understand what exactly you feel unless they're experiencing the same thing. There's one thing you can only do.. cry alone.
Talk out
Talk to strangers
They can't make fun of you