The 5 Biggest Red Flags in Lesbian Dating

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  • Опубликовано: 16 окт 2022
  • Have you ever seen a red flag when you were dating someone you wanted things to work out with?
    It’s a huge bummer when that happens, because red flags are evidence that the relationship you’re currently pursuing is doomed.
    And this means that the long-term emotional pain you will suffer from being with them is greater than any short term comfort and enjoyment you get out of the relationship.
    And there are 5 red flags that are so major that they should be automatic dealbreakers when they come up.
    I talk about all of them in this video.
    If any one of these 5 red flags comes up with someone you’re dating, it means the best thing you can do is end the relationship and start over.
    But if that happens, you really don’t have to worry.
    Because this world is full of beautiful, open-hearted queer women who are longing for love just as much as you are, and there is a huge number of those women who you would be extremely attracted to, who would feel just as attracted to you, if you were to meet.
    As long as you don’t self-sabotage or stay stuck in the wrong relationships, it’s only a matter of time before you cross paths with one of those women. And together you will be happy and build a life and get to experience all the things you want from love.
    And I will be so excited for you when that finally happens.
    Let me know what you think in the comments below!
    P.S. If you want lesbian dating advice from me more often, follow me on Instagram @jordana.michelle and subscribe to my podcast Women Wanting Women (anywhere you listen to podcasts).
    To book a one-on-one coaching session with me and get my personal support in finding the love you long for, go to womenwantingwomen.com/coaching/
    Want to find out what qualities the woman of your dreams will find most attractive about her when you meet? Go to lesbianattractionquiz.com
    Want my free guide to finding your lesbian soulmate? Go to attracther.net
    And if you want free access to some of what I teach in my online courses, go to WomenWantingWomen.com

Комментарии • 50

  • @Laffingrl
    @Laffingrl Год назад +37

    Being alone,is better than being with someone who is indifferent or a sneak and a liar.

  • @user-uo1xn7kv4r
    @user-uo1xn7kv4r 10 месяцев назад +12

    People don't change, so true. What you see is what you get.

  • @avaparkergray1983
    @avaparkergray1983 Год назад +30

    i feel like this advice is applicable for any kind of relationship :)

    • @jordanamichellegutman
      @jordanamichellegutman  Год назад +11

      I agree. I offer my advice from my own lesbian perspective, but if a broader group of people resonate with what I'm saying and find it useful, that's great. Not all dating videos offer advice that's fully applicable to lesbians, and that's why I try to speak from my own perspective and share what I've learned for others who are in a similar position. 🙏🏼🌈🙏🏼

    • @lyne3783
      @lyne3783 11 месяцев назад +4

      Yes but this Is a lesbian channel

  • @P.willow
    @P.willow Год назад +10

    I've had everything u said. Its horrible how 1 person can damage u in soo many ways.

    • @jordanamichellegutman
      @jordanamichellegutman  11 месяцев назад +3

      I'm so sorry this happened to you. It's truly horrible how one person can do so much damage, but also empowering to know that next time, if you see the red flags, you can protect yourself by drawing boundaries and not letting yourself get taken advantage of 💪🏻 🙏🏼 💪🏻

  • @simsim1293
    @simsim1293 Год назад +2

    Thank you for sharing this video. It kick two bird with one stone for me. Appreciate it. It would have been hard to seen this video a few weeks ago.

    • @jordanamichellegutman
      @jordanamichellegutman  Год назад +1

      Thanks for your comment. I know what you mean, that sometimes certain truths are hard to look at. I'm glad this helped you clarify. Good luck!!!

  • @jenniferliman6670
    @jenniferliman6670 2 месяца назад

    Great advice. Thanks Jordana

  • @retireddeloach
    @retireddeloach 10 месяцев назад +2

    OUTSTANDING videos. Great advice Jordana.

  • @elisegray6962
    @elisegray6962 17 дней назад +1

    Never believing in potentials ever again, I will now trust people when they show me who they are and what they have to offer right now, not in a week or a month time. I am not here to entertain anyone. If you cannot make the time and the effort to love me now, I will not stay because we're clearly not on the same page.

  • @stephaniedodt2389
    @stephaniedodt2389 Год назад +4

    This is all excellent advice!

  • @RiseofTaitoShirei
    @RiseofTaitoShirei Год назад +2

    I'm glad you're making videos. I like following you for the perspective.

  • @emilytreu2312
    @emilytreu2312 Год назад +4

    Please keep making videos!

  • @jitkasuarez
    @jitkasuarez Год назад +2

    Thanks Jordana!

  • @elissarios2195
    @elissarios2195 Год назад +3

    this was so good :)

  • @sarahwalters7701
    @sarahwalters7701 Год назад +1

    You look fantastic! Thanks for the upload :)

  • @folkeholtz6351
    @folkeholtz6351 Год назад +1

    Thanks vry much is so wise advice. Hope that many take hold of them.

  • @grahamcrackerjay
    @grahamcrackerjay Год назад +4

    This is so true!!!

  • @uscitizen3252
    @uscitizen3252 Год назад +1

    Great advice!

  • @marshmallow13585
    @marshmallow13585 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you!

  • @plworld5315
    @plworld5315 7 месяцев назад +1

    These are great. I’d also add avoiding women who suffer from untreated addiction.

  • @maxinethompson37
    @maxinethompson37 3 месяца назад

    3:30 That's an interesting take on affairs I've never heard of.

  • @brittneybrown4849
    @brittneybrown4849 2 месяца назад

    I feel like my partner is just "settling" when it comes to me and the relationship, but then she tells me she loves me and im just being insecure. Its so comfusing and it has literally caused so much pain in my life.

  • @Slx742
    @Slx742 18 дней назад

    Absolutely 100%

  • @crytalcrytal2517
    @crytalcrytal2517 Год назад +8

    This world is full of beautiful open-hearted queer women... Just not any in your city and/or state 💀 welcome to being a lesbian 💔

    • @jordanamichellegutman
      @jordanamichellegutman  Год назад +3

      Lol. I know how you feel, and I've felt that way too. But I promise they are there, walking the streets, circling the peripheries of your social network. Don't give up.

    • @sparkleskystorm2855
      @sparkleskystorm2855 Месяц назад

      Women are horrible ​@@jordanamichellegutman

  • @selenem3384
    @selenem3384 6 дней назад

    covert narcs are probably the most abusive

  • @Ariesstubbornbutt
    @Ariesstubbornbutt 4 месяца назад

    Stop using queer. When I was growing up it was an insult meaning also a molester etc. I suggest changing it.

    • @elisegray6962
      @elisegray6962 17 дней назад +1

      Your comment is the direct reflection of your pseudo 😂😂 Please evolve with our present time, past is past. Just heal your trauma.

    • @Ariesstubbornbutt
      @Ariesstubbornbutt 14 дней назад

      @elisegray6962 what trauma. You're the nutcase

  • @NAhuufeloo
    @NAhuufeloo 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you!