Can you date your current self????

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  • Опубликовано: 7 фев 2025
  • TokeMoments - This week is all out Financial Freedom, Ladies it is 2021, you need to watch the Vlog of week and rearrange your lives, these days everyone is looking to date up, you need to ask yourself, If you were not yourself, will you date you? The highest level of investment is in one's self and however nice it is to marry a rich man, I` love to see women also become extremely wealthy. Watch, Like, Share, Comment and pls Subscribe too

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  • @Samzymira
    @Samzymira 4 года назад +66

    While you are praying to God for a rich man, pray for your pocket too.

  • @ileribyisemini
    @ileribyisemini 4 года назад +72

    Summary of the matter: there is dignity in labour and financial independence.

  • @Juney_lov
    @Juney_lov 4 года назад +65

    “Imagine your life now being the one that has cash, Imagine if somebody is now trying to waste your time”😆😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 That laugh!!! I will have it this year

  • @j.n.8153
    @j.n.8153 4 года назад +32

    I believe my husband married me for his own financial freedom. My husband told people before he married me that he doesn't want to marry from Nigeria. After marrying him I could fish out his reason. I never wanted a liability but that's almost what he has become to me. I think he didn't want to marry a Nigerian woman because he's already taking care of his family and though his sisters are married he even helps their husbands in some capacity so he didn't marry Nigerian because he didn't want to take care of her family also.. Honestly, I am angry because his shadow was better than his reality. I married his shadow. After we married he started trying to control my income. That was the day I was like "Oh, hell to the naw!" I defined to him my version of a man. Let's just say that being a man is more than just having a penis and being chosen by God.

    • @Debby9710
      @Debby9710 4 года назад

      Chai.

    • @sheeats4019
      @sheeats4019 4 года назад +2

      You’ve hit the nail on the head. Tell him to stop that now or you’ll be committing to a life of misery. It’s hard for Africans to escape that responsibility and it’s known to throw marriages into a frying
      pan.

    • @j.n.8153
      @j.n.8153 4 года назад

      @@sheeats4019 Thank you for your reply.

    • @joyandpeacefullaughter5307
      @joyandpeacefullaughter5307 4 года назад +3

      Honestly, darling, I told myself long ago, if a man tells me "I love you because you are so industrious, I open my eyes wider". It's not flattering to tell me you love me for my hard work because most men see women they can use when looking for a hardworking lady. Some will even spend your money on a woman who does nothing. I'll rather you tell me you love my femininity, the peace I bring to your life, my PERSONALITY, and that YOU THINK I'M SEXY and that I'm fun
      to be around because that's what gets a man horny and when his body he's horny he can sell his property to have you as his.
      Connive with your parents and tell your husband you are sending money to them cause their pension isn't enough. It doesn't have to be a solid lie. Just insist you must take care of your family and guilt-trip him with the fact he takes care of his family too.

    • @j.n.8153
      @j.n.8153 4 года назад

      @@joyandpeacefullaughter5307 You've made some valid points. I really thought we'd bring together what we have. That's not the case. He wants me to save for the family while he invests his money into fruitless businesses. If I get money from him then it comes with the expectation to pay him back but when he gets money from me he sees it as a right. It's just discouraging and sometimes I wonder what damn planet he fell from. Thank you for taking the time to read my comment and reply. And yes, if a man touts how much a woman is industrious they'll need to shine there eyes well.

  • @adaezeobi9182
    @adaezeobi9182 4 года назад +19

    Vex cash is freakiiiinnnggg important!!!

  • @Mediocre2Great
    @Mediocre2Great 4 года назад +2

    “You didn’t pick me from the fucking gutter” 😂😂😂 I love you TM

  • @derinwiththevibes3303
    @derinwiththevibes3303 4 года назад +20

    This red hair is fire on you toks!! More please 😍

  • @thebloomplatinumtv
    @thebloomplatinumtv 4 года назад +6

    It’s that long laugh after “imagine someone trying to waste your time” for me 🤣🤣🤣

  • @BDLwithNG
    @BDLwithNG 4 года назад +26

    Yes! TOKE you’re speaking facts! Totally agree babe!

  • @derinwiththevibes3303
    @derinwiththevibes3303 4 года назад +20

    That laugh omgggg 🤣🤣🤣
    But true financial freedom is very important, invest financially, invest in your self.

  • @gracewambui8787
    @gracewambui8787 4 года назад +12

    It's nice to know that I actually think like Toke, I never depend on a man's money for shit... I make my own and if I'm depressed and want to take a break from working I still won't ask a man for shit because I have an understanding family that will stand by me no matter what. Never do I ever want to marry a poor man, ever but I also have to make sure I have several streams of income before I can even think of being in a serious relationship that will lead to marriage. God help my hustle and my future husband's hustle... Amen!!! 🙏🏽

  • @MaryMoe
    @MaryMoe 4 года назад +23

    Toke moment, my favorite TV show, periodtttttttt

  • @JacquieAnyanwu
    @JacquieAnyanwu 4 года назад +8

    That part where she said "I'll still spend your money, but just know that I have my own"...soooo apt!!!😂

  • @moneyandwealthconverstaion8550
    @moneyandwealthconverstaion8550 4 года назад +8

    Yes
    Booked, busy, big bank account and investment portfolio !!!

  • @Thee_POPE
    @Thee_POPE 4 года назад +3

    "I will still collect your own, but don't get it twisted, I HAVE". Baby girl got me blushing..❤️

  • @chiomachinwendu2454
    @chiomachinwendu2454 4 года назад +41

    No I can’t date myself 😩 I need a job 😩😩

  • @Samzymira
    @Samzymira 4 года назад +13

    We move! This video hits differently.

    • @lastbaby222
      @lastbaby222 4 года назад +1

      I see you Mira!! Rich Aunty has spoken.!!!

  • @rufinandongo5518
    @rufinandongo5518 4 года назад +27

    Toke, red looks 🤩on you. Why not brown weaves with slight tints of red, or wine colours? Rusty red definitely fits you😍

    • @rhodaquayson2187
      @rhodaquayson2187 4 года назад +1

      I wanted to say that too... suits her so well

  • @KayKay-sc9uo
    @KayKay-sc9uo 4 года назад +8

    Toke's hair is so nice? Didn't even remember I also have one.

  • @DrjoyceRX
    @DrjoyceRX 4 года назад +8

    Toke you stating the fact😍😂me with 1K in my acct I worked for I always feel like a boss😊😍

  • @betseyochai9190
    @betseyochai9190 4 года назад

    Lol is the laughter for me 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @dberrys
    @dberrys 4 года назад +9

    Baby girl for life. This video is just amazing. I tell women to level up for them selves. I really love this video

  • @tinnuola
    @tinnuola 3 года назад

    I love the way you laugh. It's wicked but funny🤣🤣🤣

  • @kelechinelson8907
    @kelechinelson8907 4 года назад +5

    Damnn!!!!!!! Financial freedom, my biggest want. I have always wanted to be that rich/well to do one. Scratch that, imma f**king be that🥂.

  • @annamayyy9771
    @annamayyy9771 4 года назад +7

    Nothing but the truth!! That's why I haven't been dating and working on my Hustle!!!
    You should see the way guys with no goals try to convince you to date them 🤣

  • @temitopechristiana86
    @temitopechristiana86 4 года назад +5

    HAVE NEVER REGRETS WATCHING THIS SHOW. TOKSTAR YOU ARE DOING WELL.

  • @StrivingUkht
    @StrivingUkht 4 года назад +2

    See ba toke constantly slaps sense into me whenever I need it. Her words are like gospel!!!!

  • @justice4283
    @justice4283 4 года назад +1

    You know you are there when u tell men, “if you cheat on me or misbehave , it’s your loss..”
    When you are an asset you do not need to beg a man to behave himself !

  • @inangothomas5983
    @inangothomas5983 4 года назад +2

    Aunty Toke's laugh sha
    Very necessary topic Aunty Tokstarrr⚡❤

  • @annieesunge2960
    @annieesunge2960 3 года назад

    i just so love this lady Toke Makinwa , she always says it the way it has to be said.

  • @rubyochei1492
    @rubyochei1492 4 года назад +2

    90k🎉🎉😍💃🏻💃🏻❤️

  • @gladehimegbe349
    @gladehimegbe349 4 года назад

    Love the earing

  • @oluchiosakwe
    @oluchiosakwe 4 года назад

    Really nice vid

  • @claudiaaigbedo375
    @claudiaaigbedo375 4 года назад +2

    ITS THE LAUGHTER FOR ME plix 🌚🌝🤣

  • @jenifacoco
    @jenifacoco 4 года назад

    Word🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @suzanobehi6147
    @suzanobehi6147 4 года назад +2

    I love this message 👌👌👌❤️❤️.

  • @TABA-so5hp
    @TABA-so5hp 4 года назад +3

    Hey Toke, looking great! Lady in Red😍

  • @nwakipearl9452
    @nwakipearl9452 4 года назад +2

    This wicked laugh🤣🤣🤣

  • @AWokeafricanstv
    @AWokeafricanstv 2 года назад

    I just tapped into your ginger and call my credit union. A girl has to put things in check. Thanks sis toke😘

  • @Anjolina211
    @Anjolina211 4 года назад +1

    Truth be told 😊

  • @joynwabueze9654
    @joynwabueze9654 4 года назад

    So so true Toke

  • @rabeccamwale4279
    @rabeccamwale4279 4 года назад

    Wow i love it.thank you Toke!

  • @queenausta
    @queenausta 4 года назад

    I love Toke😍

  • @Thetemiloluwa.adegboye
    @Thetemiloluwa.adegboye 3 года назад

    TM with wisdom 📌

  • @vivienneninsiima843
    @vivienneninsiima843 4 года назад +1

    Love the hair colour!! Love you😍😍😍😍

  • @babalolafoyinsayemi5452
    @babalolafoyinsayemi5452 4 года назад

    I love you aunty Toke❤❤❤❤

  • @girllilio8026
    @girllilio8026 2 года назад

    Love 💕

  • @sweetcaramel3905
    @sweetcaramel3905 4 года назад

    I love you toke...

  • @lovemarkoforiattah915
    @lovemarkoforiattah915 4 года назад

    Hard Truth sis

  • @sarahalaiye4809
    @sarahalaiye4809 4 года назад

    I sadly can't date myself but i know things will get better this year

  • @shetu_agidi
    @shetu_agidi 4 года назад

    Your messages and impact never gets old Tokstarr. Love you for always saying it as it is.

  • @_blackwildways_
    @_blackwildways_ 4 года назад +1

    Thank you for this message Toke. Really need this because I can't currently date myself, I have work to do

  • @estherelufowoju3166
    @estherelufowoju3166 4 года назад

    Happy new month🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Well said darling 👍🏽👌💃🏽

  • @violahyginus4514
    @violahyginus4514 4 года назад

    Financial freedom is important.

  • @omoa5735
    @omoa5735 4 года назад

    Pls make more videos like this. Very educative

  • @lydia__2621
    @lydia__2621 4 года назад

    Baby girl for life
    Spilling facts only
    🙌🙌🙌

  • @hugs2mama425
    @hugs2mama425 4 года назад

    Best vlog by TM, I’m happy you are telling girls the truth.

  • @khadijaali3649
    @khadijaali3649 4 года назад +1

    2021 we move with this inspiration thanks

  • @emilolapopoola6215
    @emilolapopoola6215 4 года назад

    Financial freedom 🙌🏼 yesss momma 🙌🏼
    Invest in real estate I am your landed properties plug .

  • @fynechuku3461
    @fynechuku3461 4 года назад

    well said

  • @tosindiarysession375
    @tosindiarysession375 4 года назад +7

    Thank you TM God bless you, women like you shaped me to think better. That vexed cash got me sha😆😆 like we fckn meuuve

  • @julietodianose8244
    @julietodianose8244 4 года назад

    So apt and so timely. Love you Tokstarr 😘😘😘😘

  • @zilbaribonatomjoe1510
    @zilbaribonatomjoe1510 4 года назад

    The best advise I’ve gotten in a long while. Thank you Mama

  • @preciousbrown8854
    @preciousbrown8854 4 года назад +1

    Thank you so much toke.... I love this advice, God please bless me beyond human imagination, Amen.

  • @oluwafemioluwaseun8713
    @oluwafemioluwaseun8713 4 года назад

    Toke been bursting my head every day, love you mama

  • @saranghae2808
    @saranghae2808 4 года назад

    Good stuff!!!!🙌🙌

  • @jasmineleigh9373
    @jasmineleigh9373 4 года назад

    This has been my mood for the longest time! I totally agree

  • @TheToluThompson
    @TheToluThompson 4 года назад

    I love you Toke! The message in this video is 100%

  • @tonidieumerci
    @tonidieumerci 4 года назад

    That hair is lit....I want...

  • @stacymichaels3436
    @stacymichaels3436 4 года назад

    Toke🔥🔥❤️

  • @emeribeamara1435
    @emeribeamara1435 4 года назад

    How i feel when i start hearing we've come to the end of this vlog eh..i just wanna cry. I can keep listening to TM over and over again. I love you TM♥️♥️

  • @tiwasavagenation8082
    @tiwasavagenation8082 4 года назад

    Too much sense mami ❤️

  • @deborahbosah614
    @deborahbosah614 4 года назад

    Toke i just love you. You speak my mind all the time . men are the ones that are looking for a lady that has her own. I always have vex money ooooo. I do not like unsolicited insult at all.

  • @shalommagalore783
    @shalommagalore783 4 года назад

    Yes I can defdefinitely!I'm awesome, kind,generous, loving just to mention a few

  • @letstalkaboutitwithnanaama474
    @letstalkaboutitwithnanaama474 4 года назад

    Solid

  • @adaonyeocha
    @adaonyeocha 4 года назад

    You are speaking to me ...

  • @taymeedee3915
    @taymeedee3915 4 года назад +2

    Aunty wa, leave some beauty for us na❤❤❤

  • @mslettiemathibe71
    @mslettiemathibe71 4 года назад

    You look like a doll 😍😍😍😍❤❤
    To be honest, i wouldnt date myself and i mean it lovely so, i still have some things to shed off, praying by June il be ayt!!! ready to b a gone girl for a gone boy!!!!!!!!

  • @UwaClothes
    @UwaClothes 4 года назад

    Amazing video , really motivating and Great way to start the new year , love your mindset !

  • @1960Vikky
    @1960Vikky 4 года назад

    🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @mercygodwin6419
    @mercygodwin6419 4 года назад

    Always on point, that one of the reasons love ur show sha

  • @imabong1712
    @imabong1712 4 года назад

    Topics always on point 💯

  • @godalmighty5331
    @godalmighty5331 4 года назад

    I have been looking forward to watching this all year! In a 3 week Toke fast I have thought about you from time to time and hope you doing well.
    OK to date yourself no, but nore can you live in sim having a commitment to be faithful and keeping to it with no state issued licence. Life intentions we must see as most important as when we say actions speak louder than words it's what we mean..
    The good example was Adam and Eve in the Garden, they were not pronounced husband and wife, but they were all eachother had.
    If you (metaphorical) are all that you have you are not sailing a relationship you are sailing a life boat.
    Glory to God
    CHEERS TO WONDERFUL WORLD PEACE.
    (Comment 163 (Godly Rituals totals 163) time 5:59 on the 22nd of January 2021 1Lp 1 month and 12 days in)

    • @godalmighty5331
      @godalmighty5331 4 года назад

      Happy new year!, Xx ruclips.net/video/H5kmLi26XTg/видео.html

  • @tinaiyeye775
    @tinaiyeye775 4 года назад

    true talk 100
    😆😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Juney_lov
    @Juney_lov 4 года назад +1

    Love you Toke !!❤️Happy new year!!🤗🥳🎊

  • @tunilalao1896
    @tunilalao1896 4 года назад

    I love this woman. She is wise

  • @tuttiesmakeover2080
    @tuttiesmakeover2080 4 года назад

    I can relate to this!! Thank you!!🔥🔥

  • @LoveMotunrayo
    @LoveMotunrayo 4 года назад

    Toke speaking facts againnn

  • @annaogede
    @annaogede 4 года назад

    Toke you look absolutely gorgeous, i have forgotten what you are say because i am too focused on your face, the makeup, hair, outfit... absolutely gorgeous

  • @florencemaxwellchidinma8413
    @florencemaxwellchidinma8413 4 года назад +4

    Red the new trend toke I don't even know what to say infact the table is broken

  • @iam.davidnaza
    @iam.davidnaza 4 года назад +1

    Your laugh😂😂😂

  • @safiyaabubakarno7927
    @safiyaabubakarno7927 4 года назад

    Noted tokstar

  • @estherchi08
    @estherchi08 4 года назад

    God bless you for this words toke 😘😘

  • @missginapromotestv
    @missginapromotestv 4 года назад +1

    Toks star❤️❤️🇨🇲

  • @akeredolukemisola3211
    @akeredolukemisola3211 4 года назад

    Hmmmm....God help me....,I meuvveeeee

  • @tumininurachael9994
    @tumininurachael9994 4 года назад

    Yaayyy first to comment! Love you mama 🥰🥰

  • @princess_roffy
    @princess_roffy 4 года назад

    Thank you momma 💕💕💕😘😘 I love you ❤️

  • @pemablisstv6904
    @pemablisstv6904 4 года назад +1

    TM to the world❤

  • @iamlolokings8504
    @iamlolokings8504 4 года назад

    Your so on point

  • @taongamtonga650
    @taongamtonga650 4 года назад

    I just love you Toke,you are just amazing. Someday I hope you reply to my comment😊