How Does the Twin Flame Runner Experience a Separation (What They Think and Feel)

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @StarlightPrincess70
    @StarlightPrincess70 Год назад +235

    "It's their emotions and fears they are running from, not you." OMG I needed to hear that SO bad. Thank you.

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад +5

      You're so very very welcome!!!! thank you for watching! blessings of peace, love and light to you!

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад +5

      @@Miss.TJ516 Well that was a quick freak out time on his part - but this happens so much - profess their love and then poof - so sorry you're going through this - thank you for watching!

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад +4

      @hoperising538 Blessings of peace love and light - thank you for watching!

    • @pleun315
      @pleun315 Год назад +1

      Dont forget.....watching videos that they come running back.....is an illusion for most ! Giving falls hooe only 🙏❤️

    • @elgrecco8888
      @elgrecco8888 Год назад +1

      I really needed to hear that too.

  • @nhull55
    @nhull55 10 месяцев назад +136

    I "was" a chaser. Focus on yourself and your journey an SURRENDER the chase. You will then reach inner union within yourself and the gut wrenching hurt will dissappear. You will hardly think of your twin but you will have overwhelming real unconditional love for them. As long as you keep focusing on yourself it's bringing your twin closer. I promise this works!☯️💫 blessings

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  10 месяцев назад +2

      AMEN!! to ALL of this!!! Many blessings to you!

    • @roohi864
      @roohi864 8 месяцев назад +1

      Maine bhi surrender kar diya jo hoga dekha jayega I am tired 😢

    • @kew824
      @kew824 7 месяцев назад

      Thanks for the advice!❤

    • @Toranator
      @Toranator 6 месяцев назад +4

      Needed to this hear this. Thank you❤️ as a chaser, I tell
      Myself tomorrow will be easier and it hasn’t yet. However watching this video and seeing this comment gives me great hope. Blessed❤️

    • @davidkeevil5151
      @davidkeevil5151 6 месяцев назад +1

      Whats next I did the DNOS 2 months couldn't get her out of my head felt heavy...now I have clear head and heart

  • @yvettejulye4230
    @yvettejulye4230 Год назад +102

    This is the most amazing video I’ve ever seen on the Twinflame journey . We are in separation physically , but not spiritually . He connects with me in 5 D all the time . I refuse to chase him . I hold space for him daily by sending him love , light , wisdom and protection . . I focus on loving myself . That’s what happens when you manifest a Divine Feminine . Be careful what you ask for . Now , he’s intimidated. . He’ll be back in divine timing .

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад +6

      Thank you so very much !! Thank you for watching!!! blessings of peace, love and light 🌸♥️

    • @olyroad
      @olyroad 11 месяцев назад +5

      When you say he connects with you in the 5D? Can you explain?

    • @history_by_lamplight
      @history_by_lamplight 2 месяца назад +1

      I love this! ❤

  • @MimiZ174
    @MimiZ174 Год назад +34

    It hurts so bad. It’s been seven months haven’t heard from him and I can’t stop thinking about him.🥺

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад +8

      It is the hardest part of the twin flame journey - dealing with the runner - You may also want to check out our video - Why You Can't Stop Thinking About your Twin Flame - this may also help you - thank you for watching!

    • @willekex9794
      @willekex9794 9 месяцев назад +1

      Sweety i feel you ❤️‍🩹

  • @jennifernettles444
    @jennifernettles444 Год назад +111

    When my twin and I realized we were twins, me, realizing it first, him in agreement, I practically begged him not to run because I learned one twin would. He said it seemed silly to run and that he wouldn’t (see me trying to control it, lol) but he ran so damn fast and kept running, still might be running in part because my posting this is chasing, 😂
    Note to self: TRUST THE UNIVERSE

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад +10

      You note to self is PERFECT!! 🌸💜🌸💜

    • @iamangalidevi
      @iamangalidevi Год назад +7

      Same here we cannot stop the investable. It is all meant to happen the way it has is and always will. We are part of the infinite dance of fate and destiny 💃🏾 🔥🔥

    • @HeatherSinclair-g5e
      @HeatherSinclair-g5e 10 месяцев назад +10

      Me and my twin were in constant contact for 5 1/2 years. We laughed at the idea that we would ever be in separation since we felt like we couldn’t live without each other (even though in those days, I used to try to run sometimes but came back every time he asked). We were so foolishly in love lol. Now it has been almost 7 years of no contact and I can’t see him coming back even though I like to believe it is possible. I have grown a lot. Enough to know that I CAN live without him even though it has been very hard. I still love him and always will but I have released him to live the life he prefers.

    • @lily6246
      @lily6246 10 месяцев назад +5

      I can relate to this so much, and u actually made me laugh at the end even tho its not the end I would wish for u.
      I wish I found this video weeks earlier tbh.. we were so busy talking we didn't have time to think about anything else, and this is being something as a process. I'm learning it backwards now. There's so much to learn ♡ we will see who has the longest breath, this gave me peace for now lol, I need to learn- to indeed give him space coz he ran without giving me the memo, again.

    • @ace99spice
      @ace99spice 9 месяцев назад +3

      Same here… we have broken up quite a few times but have come around embracing each other until the last time when I said… please don’t run away again… let me know and we will deal with it… he ran again… 😂 I can’t complain but keep loving him bcz I love him oh so much… but finally I am learning to keep it unconditional and stay loving for him… he is my whole heart ❤ … I work on myself now and wish good for him

  • @flowinglotusart
    @flowinglotusart Год назад +23

    Thank you. This helps. The pain never stops. Strangely neither does the love. I wish things were different between us but I won't chase him. Honestly, If he cannot show up for me properly in a meaningful way, I wish he just leaves me in peace so I can move on with my life.

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад +1

      You're very welcome! no the pain doesn't seem to go away - thank you for watching - blessings of love and light 🌸💗🌸💗

  • @LadiesOfThePleiades
    @LadiesOfThePleiades 4 месяца назад +5

    He can run. And keep running. I’m not chasing. I’m not waiting for him to chase me either. I’m just happy to be a present minded being doing whatever God asks me to do. If we happen to meet up or communicate again. Great. If not, great. Either way I’m good. Not heartbroken or begging to be loved anymore. Thank you Twin for helping me learn how to love myself first.

  • @marinajones2309
    @marinajones2309 10 месяцев назад +6

    My story - so resonates!
    I've not chased - he will return when he's ready
    Thank you 🙏🙏

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  10 месяцев назад +1

      YES! YES! YES! this is truly how it is! Many blessings 🤗♥️🤗🌹

  • @Shasharinabina
    @Shasharinabina Месяц назад +2

    Thanks for the video. I hear that they don’t even think of the chaser. When the runner is running the last thing that crosses their minds is their twin flame.

  • @BlindfoldSniper
    @BlindfoldSniper Год назад +27

    It's funny. She ran. Me the INFJ, door-slammed her and walked the other direction.
    I barely knew her so it was easy to process the 'breakup' and move on. Or so I thought. 3 years later and she comes back... to complete silence 🤫 🤐
    I just swiped her message off my lock screen and went about my day. Think that was it?
    Nuh 🤬 uh.
    Two days later I wake up with my stomach in knots and feeling like I want to cry. It's like that all day until night time where I'm crying my eyes out and unable to sleep more than 2 or 3 hours at a time.
    My peace and happiness ruined just like that. The telepathy drives me crazy. It goes from limerence and daydreaming one day to my ego resisting this entire idea with all it's might the next.
    These aren't even my feelings and yet they're being thrown at me through the ether. It's maddening. At least she's dealing with the reality now and that abandonment wound of hers is writ large.
    Your video is on point. It seems to me that the entire collective is going through the same thing at the same time which makes me think that it's all for a specific event or milestone:
    ASCENSION.

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад +2

      WOW what a fascinating experience - thank you so much for sharing 💐💜

  • @KDM0426
    @KDM0426 7 месяцев назад +10

    I would like to first say thank you to the person who posted this video. I’ve always wondered what my TF runner was experiencing during our separation. He would often say that he was hurting too but I often told him he was causing us both to be in unnecessary pain.
    I’ve been involved with a TF runner for 11+ years now. In the beginning I knew our connection was deeper than any I’ve experienced. We connected on a level that I didn’t believe existed. The connection is deeper than my previous marriage.
    With that being said… It’s definitely been a journey. A never ending roller coaster ride full of excitement, thrills, heart drops, fears and laughter. Full of many emotions!
    The longest we’ve been separated was 3 months. We seem to experience a tower once or twice a year.
    I use to be a chaser and like the video states, they’ll keep running. It took years for me to stop chasing. At first he use to make me feel as if I did something wrong or he’ll get in his head about something that wasn’t remotely true. Then he’d just ghost me, block my number out of the blue. Ironically, this typically occurs when we get very very close. After we’d taken a trip or hung out with family and had a really great time.
    We’re currently separated. He ran again… This time he had various reasons. I can’t even keep up with them anymore. Our last conversation he told me he loves me deeply. However, here we are separated again and he’s no longer answering my calls or replying to my text.
    I am amazed and saddened to read some of the comments of people being away from their twin flame a year or for years. That’s sad! Life is too short to long to be with the person you love for that long without communication or any assurances.
    I don’t want that to be my fate. I rather work on breaking the connection and moving on. I’m mad at myself for being in this relationship for 11+ years. Time just got past me. When it’s good it’s absolutely great! When it bad it’s absolutely heart wrenching and awful.
    Prayers to all who is currently separated from their TF. I pray for your reconciliation or that you have the strength to move on.

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  7 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for leaving such a beautiful message!! Much love and light!

    • @StephanieTequila17
      @StephanieTequila17 5 месяцев назад

      Thank you for sharing your story! 🤍

  • @firewaterbydesign
    @firewaterbydesign Год назад +13

    *WOW!!! I have ALWAYS wondered if a certain person was my twin flame 🔥 and this just completely nailed it!! I have ALWAYS allowed him to run, because I have believed that we both had growing to do. If the universe wants for us to be together, I should not have to chase ANYTHING, as it will happen on it's own in divine timing. Imho*

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад +4

      BINGO!!!! you are so right! chasing just pushes them further away ! stand still in your power and let them grow - thank you for watching!

  • @elgrecco8888
    @elgrecco8888 Год назад +14

    Searching high and low for what the runner goes through and finally found a perfect and detailed explanation here. Thank you soooo much!

  • @michaelbrown9891
    @michaelbrown9891 Год назад +14

    Amazingly accurate. DM’s definitely have the most difficult task in awakening and being able to become more aware, and having a higher sense of perspective of what is going on in the relationship, as well as in their lives in general. DF’s generally, are first to be on their own higher spiritual journey, and have more knowledge and understanding, even though that takes several years. It’s just the way the dynamic works and separation is both protection and preparation for ultimate union at a level, we have never experienced before. 💕😇

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад +1

      such a beautiful way to explain it!! thank you for watching 🦋💙

  • @sushshesu5663
    @sushshesu5663 7 месяцев назад +13

    My twinflame run as hard as he can, it has been a hell ride for me. I chased him with desperation only to realize that it won't work out. Then i focused on myself, my healing, and my personal growth. Now it doesn't matter to me whether he runs or not because I surrendered and as i am spiritual twin i am aware of journey and his perspective. I am doing my best and believing in divine timing and now he is not running and sometimes I feel his chaotic emotions and he is experiencing the pain of his treatment towards me, may be he is healing from that pain now. God knows best as everything happens at divine time ❤❤❤️

  • @sheri_elizabeth222
    @sheri_elizabeth222 Год назад +16

    What an AMAZING channel. You provide so much support for twins on their journey no matter what level. My twin ran so many times and even cheated. Currently in separation. It was gruesome trying to not take it personally. But I'm finally just focused on me and rewriting old habits and tolerances. There's things that finally I will not accept, not even from my twin. The way he hurt me just pushed me toward the finish line of my dark night of the soul. So grateful for this astonishing content!❤❤❤

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад +2

      WOW what a wonderful thing to read first thing in the morning - you are so very welcome and we are so happy the videos help you!!! Thank you so much for watching our content - if you have a topic you would like us to cover, we are happy to do that as well - so many blessings of love and light 💜🌸

  • @Leesoulhair
    @Leesoulhair 18 дней назад

    I’m learning to surrender, and ti focus on myself day after day and it’s gut wrenching at times!! I can feel everything he feels, random waves of grief, anxiety, sadness out of the blue. But in 5D we talk all the time… heal and unconditionally love each other. I am learning to surrender the chase and only speak to him in the higher realms for now. 🙏🏼

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  17 дней назад +1

      Many blessings to you!

    • @Leesoulhair
      @Leesoulhair 17 дней назад

      @@soulmatestwinflames thank you for helping me to remember I’m not alone!

  • @nonnynzuza9939
    @nonnynzuza9939 Год назад +7

    OMG ! I keep bumping on information that I need each time and I feel so privileged, now I understand how energy goes, m very grateful and now fully getting to know and understand my twin runner. Thank you so much , that’s why I love him so deep, I love myself.

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад

      You are so welcome - thank you so much for watching 🌺🌺

    • @lily6246
      @lily6246 10 месяцев назад

      Same, I've been fed some real needed synchronicity in the last days coz my inner me went insane by times. ❤

  • @deepa.k1734
    @deepa.k1734 Год назад +6

    Runner is going through this much but never revealed he is missing d chaser...thank you so much for ur vedio❤

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад +1

      So sad they are so afraid of their emotions thank you for watching!

  • @PatriciaONeill-h9v
    @PatriciaONeill-h9v 10 месяцев назад +2

    Finally I found the thorough explanation of what happens with the twin flame runner and it resonates completely for me. It's exactly how my runner is thinking qnd behaving. I'm leaving him run now and to his own spiritual journey. I know he will be back. Amazing channel ❤❤❤

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  10 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much for watching and we are so glad to know the videos resonate with you! 🤗♥️🤗🌹

  • @Trishaliciousify
    @Trishaliciousify Год назад +12

    My twin flame is running and so i decided to stop chasing him. Hardest thing I have ever done. My heart is broken into pieces. 😢💔

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад +2

      You're surrendering to the universe and the process. Stopping chasing is the best and wisest thing to do - standing still is hard but necessary in these connections - thank you for watching

  • @nicolerice8844
    @nicolerice8844 Год назад +11

    One of the most painful yet absolutely painful journey I’ve been through thus far.. almost two years and counting.

  • @ИлинаНиколова-з1т
    @ИлинаНиколова-з1т 11 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you so much! No matter how difficult this journey is, it's also the most magical! I'm simply beyond grateful for everything about it. ♥️

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  10 месяцев назад

      You're so welcome! Thank you for watching 🤗♥️🤗🌹

  • @femkesiebers2620
    @femkesiebers2620 Год назад +1

    This is one of the most precise and meaningfull videos I have seen about why the runner runs and how they feel. Yes my twin ran from our connection but tiedes are turning now. I healed and his plan with a karmic did not work out. My future is going to be awesoome. No matter how long it takes for him to come back. He will come around💌

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад

      We are so glad you enjoyed this video - blessings of love and light to you both

  • @as.tronauts
    @as.tronauts 8 месяцев назад +1

    Im the chaser and have heal my inner core block from a relationship with my karmic last year.I decided to focus on healing myself n loving myself even more, The rest is surrendered to the universe. I can't stop crying reading this to know the runner's feeling. I miss you so much my twin. Its the purest feeling ive ever had in this lifetime and it's only for you, my twin Rachelle

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  7 месяцев назад

      Healing yourself is the right thing to do and surrendering is the o my way 🙏

  • @sedoojoyceorya9602
    @sedoojoyceorya9602 Год назад +12

    We're in separation period but this is the longest am just healing myself not chasing anymore ❤️ and🪔

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад +1

      This is the wise thing to do - heal yourself - through the TF mirror it helps them heal as well - blessings of love and ligth ♥️🌸

  • @racquelviardo9997
    @racquelviardo9997 Год назад +6

    Yes, we're in separation for 9 months now. And I am loving my spiritual journey 😊❤❤

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад

      Wonderful - by focusing on your spiritual journey - it will help you - but also help your TF - blessings of love and light to you both 🌹💗🌹💗

    • @pavanigangapuram2163
      @pavanigangapuram2163 10 месяцев назад

      Update?

  • @jessagracebernestocasanill4790
    @jessagracebernestocasanill4790 10 месяцев назад

    It's like the narrator knows what really happens in my inner self..The most exact,precise and clear things that happened to me.

  • @RenéeLyn1111
    @RenéeLyn1111 Год назад +12

    I began as the runner bc he lost his job and was leaning on other people rather than me. He then began to push me away so I ended it and blocked him. After a short period I reached out and we reconnected only for him to tell me he couldn't trust me with his heart. He's been playing push and pull with me for months and it has been agony for me especially since my mom is transitioning. I am thankful I know the universe has a divine plan and trust in it 💯. This is the long and short of it. I have done and said some things I wish I hadn't that were very hurtful. We are both fixed signs and stubborn so this is difficult. I sometimes feel him right next to me, I can hear his voice and smell him. I have felt him get into bed with me. We both are not in the best place in our lives and I know we both need to grow on our own. It doesn't make it any easier knowing this...... When we are together it is the happiest I've ever been and being in separation is the worst pain I have ever felt. I feel as though I want to just die at times. I'm never coming back to earth so I want to get this right. I know why we connected and why separated. I sometimes feel I am going to lose my damn mind bc of the synchronicities I see on a daily basis. Though we are in separation I feel him every day and hope he feels me too.......

  • @BarryKidd
    @BarryKidd Месяц назад +1

    Its been nearly three years since I met her. I also met her late in life. I was 57. It has been the most beautiful and hellish experience of my life all rolled up in one. I feel her constantly and I know she does as well. “They” say, who ever the hell they are, to relax, improve and let it go. Things are as they are intended to be. Even so, how do you not feel that!!!! How do you not feel it!

  • @flamingdude2329
    @flamingdude2329 7 месяцев назад +3

    This video covers everything its like knows the whole personal story.
    What an amazing video and inspiration. 🙏👍👍👍.

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  7 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you 🙌 Thank you for watching! Many blessings to you!

    • @flamingdude2329
      @flamingdude2329 7 месяцев назад +2

      @soulmatestwinflames God bless. I'm very glad to watch your video

  • @shekhu5556
    @shekhu5556 11 месяцев назад +1

    Yes he is running. Yes my twinflame is a runner and in a awakening process. Yes its a heart wrenching experience. Yes its take lot of strength to let go n blv in high powers plan for you n your TF. Yet this is the most beautiful experience on this earth yes and very painfull also at the same time. Thanks for helping twin flames on their journey while sharing your knowledge. Much appreciated ❤❤thanku so much.

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  11 месяцев назад

      You are so welcome and thank you for visiting!! 🩵💜🩵💜

  • @Ten1brae
    @Ten1brae Год назад +4

    Thank you for this. It brings a measure of comfort and of hope. We have been in geographical separation, and because of that, he has not allowed his heart to open. Now we are in communication separation and i feel like my heart is being ripped from my chest. It does help to know that this is part of the process.

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад +2

      You're so very welcome!! it is so hard when they are running and ghosting and no contact - it is part of the process and it is NOT YOU!!! Blessings of love and light 🌸💗🌸💗

  • @tennislyssa
    @tennislyssa Год назад +6

    Interesting! I never realized this much could affect the runner to make them run. Thank you so much!

  • @jasminsayper5001
    @jasminsayper5001 Год назад +6

    I think now he is in regret phase cause I feel it deeply in my heart,, its like he totally craves for me , I feel the pressure in his heart and dreams about him every single night 🌙

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад +1

      This does sound like the regret phase - thank you for watching - blessings of love and light 😘♥️🥰🌹

  • @mauricesomers
    @mauricesomers 11 месяцев назад +6

    It looks like I am the only one who will deny my twin flame when she decides to get back to me. I have free will in this. Seriously I have been let down in a level books don’t write about. I had an accident in 2018 which made me fight to keep my shattered leg for years. She basically gave up on me. Wich make me live in tremendous suffering, limiting all my freedom. i am gaining my freedom now. But I come from the deepest abyss. I am the strongest one of all. I can do without her. My unconditional love will be there, but I love my self more. I am the one not uniting. Its not about being afraid. I got free will in this.

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  11 месяцев назад

      So sorry you have gone through this very dark night of the soul but you are emerging a phoenix rising from the ashes and embracing the power of who you are - a divine child of the universe! Yes yo have free will and after the way you have been treated, claiming your power is the right thing Blessings of love and light 🤗

  • @freelancerider100
    @freelancerider100 2 месяца назад +2

    If they are indeed a TF, its ok to be apart... Use the time to build yourself! You cant stop whats meant to be- when the heartache hits you out of the blue, know that its their soul calling to yours-

  • @kathygerdtsnorman5629
    @kathygerdtsnorman5629 10 месяцев назад +1

    This it’s perfect. I wish the runner didn’t need to run. But I get it
    Enlightening video
    Thank you

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  10 месяцев назад

      So glad you enjoyed it - thank you for watching Many blessings 🤗

  • @saranne_wrap
    @saranne_wrap Год назад +5

    Can you please make a video on what the chaser is experiencing? I am the runner and I'd like the know what they are experiencing now.

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад +2

      this is a great topic so thank you for that suggestion and YES we will get to that!!!

  • @Rudmyster
    @Rudmyster 9 месяцев назад +2

    This hit my situation right on the head on every slide thank you for this one I’ll keep this to show it to her when we finally get together. Thank you thank you.

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  7 месяцев назад

      You’re so very welcome 🙏

    • @Rudmyster
      @Rudmyster 7 месяцев назад

      @@soulmatestwinflames Do you do phone consultations? I really just need someone to talk to about it as most people have no idea about this subject. I ran into my twin twice and there was so much emotion it could fill most people’s life time. But she is running but I can feel she knows who we are and she is sending me telepathic messages and emotions to the point it’s none stop we are in an emotional tug of emotions back and forth. This has never happened in my entire life and I’ve dated a lot in my life time. Our meeting was even strange I knew it then. And I think so did she.

  • @owellthomas
    @owellthomas 5 месяцев назад +1

    All so very true! I'm not going to chase! If she comes back I'm here! If not another lifetime!

  • @sonalmishra6147
    @sonalmishra6147 10 месяцев назад +2

    My twin is running from me since last 5 years 2019 jan and I m chasing him. But it's enough now I'm done.... From now I'll live my life and grow daily ... Thank you for this vedio ❤

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  10 месяцев назад +1

      You're so very welcome Many blessings on your jorney 🤗♥️🤗🌹

  • @neo_7864
    @neo_7864 Месяц назад +1

    the connection is so strong that I know only a divine intervention can separate it. because i tried so many times and it failed miserably

  • @chamalabesinghe1763
    @chamalabesinghe1763 Год назад +7

    What the pursuer should do to get rid of all the pains, instead of wishing for his twin flame, is to forgive him and wish him from the bottom of his heart that he may be happy wherever he is. ..wanting him to be happy even if he is with someone else..that's doing with meditation. giving up means getting that thing back to you..

  • @greensleeve8578
    @greensleeve8578 Год назад +1

    years ago, I had been throughout all these stages of this clip. And I did not know I have got a TF at all. Thanks for sharing!

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад

      You are so welcome! Thank you so much for watching! Many times a runner (I read your other comments) will not be aware of the twin flame connection - some will deny it from fear - but it seems your situation is not knowing about the spiritual connection to your twin flame thank you for watching 🌺🌸🌼🌹

    • @greensleeve8578
      @greensleeve8578 Год назад

      Sincerly thanks for your prompt response & advice@@soulmatestwinflames ! Have a nice day!

  • @iamangalidevi
    @iamangalidevi Год назад +15

    This is such a beautiful video. I cried all the way through. Because my soul knows all these words you shared with us, is the truth ❤ 💯
    We love each other so much, we are willing to be sometimes miles apart … just so we can be the healing ❤️‍🩹 force the world needs to keep dancing on the floor of infinity. Namaste 🙏🏾 🔥❤🔥

  • @gorettyrogers7109
    @gorettyrogers7109 11 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you❤ yes it took a couple years to get over the heart pain. I cannot be with any other at the moment, even after 10 years of TF Recognition.

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  11 месяцев назад +1

      You are so welcome Its hard to be with anyone once you have had a TF experience for now though focus on yourself and your own journey. It takes a while to heal that pain. Many blessings

  • @bri4926
    @bri4926 Год назад +1

    Have searched high and low for this straight forward knowledge. Than you for this. 😊 I can see parts of me in this also. I tell myself often “Wake up to yourself. Stop living in your memory of him. But every time I try the memories come back. 😩 it’s been 43 years on and off. I still can’t shake him.

  • @Capernaum-zm2tz
    @Capernaum-zm2tz Год назад +3

    ❤❤Watching and speechless. Thank you for this runner perspective God bless

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад

      You are so welcome!!! and thank you so very much for watching! 🌸💜🌸💜

  • @kew824
    @kew824 7 месяцев назад +1

    Definitely know what this is like. I'm going through this right now. Never knew anything about twin flames until now and it all makes sense!

  • @waicatz
    @waicatz Год назад +6

    Thanks for sharing. I’m a runner but I’m on my way to awakening and I’d contacted my DF yet she did not directly return my messages. All she did was creating insta story that not even mentioned to me *sigh* I’d ask her to contact me till now still nope. And I just stopped all the messages and showed no interested (Instagram posts & stories) I’m not waiting anymore and just let the universe shows me the way. She is always welcome to return whenever she’s ready. Meanwhile I just do my inner healing, continuing my awakening journey cleansing.

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад +1

      Inner healing and awakening is the key part of the journey - thank you for watching!

    • @waicatz
      @waicatz Год назад +1

      @@soulmatestwinflames Thanks for the reply. Yes understood and keep self care 😊 and go with the flow. Love this channel so much

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад

      @@waicatz We are so glad to hear you like our channel - we try to reach as many as we can with videos that can help them on their TF journey - and yes going with the flow is the only thing you can do

  • @marilynlevalley4459
    @marilynlevalley4459 5 месяцев назад

    What an accurate description of the twin flame journey.

  • @lanelothian1925
    @lanelothian1925 Год назад +4

    I ran the first time from him. I was in a real mess when I went to him & he could take my pain away almost instantly. He did something that reminded me of the pain that was in the rest of my life at the time. I ran because I couldn’t take anymore pain. This time he was in a mess when he came to me. I pulled back from him because it was impossible to be together at that time due to his circumstances. I told him if his life changed (significantly) I would talk to him. Doing that nearly broke me for a second time. I think we might be destined to be ships that pass in the night. I do trust the universe & the ball is in his court ❤

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад

      Thank your for sharing your experience with others about why twin flames run - it is so important for them to understand from your perspective. Blessings of peace, love and light

  • @Blueocean_aaria
    @Blueocean_aaria Год назад +3

    Very interesting, good to know the perspective from the DM side of things. Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @chamalabesinghe1763
    @chamalabesinghe1763 Год назад +5

    I am a person who has been on this twin flame journey. Because of him, I suffered severe pain for eight months. It is a very difficult pain for someone to bear. I thought day and night why it was so difficult for me to leave him because I had a strong mind that could forget anything and a relationship in a moment... Then I got to see the information about the journey of twin flames on the internet. now He talks to me like before but it is difficult for us to meet. We face a lot of problems. However, the twin flame journey is a spiritual journey.

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад +2

      it is very much a spiritual journey - you're very right and about the spiritual growth that you will both grow through as a result of being in each other's lives.... Blessings of peace, love and light to both you!

    • @AoY-mo1th
      @AoY-mo1th Год назад

      Can ig talking About that?

  • @Casperjasperkasperjax7456
    @Casperjasperkasperjax7456 Месяц назад

    Wow! It's so cool to finally have a name for it. This is me spot on! And what's so crazy is he works a block from where I live. And he's been chasing and I've been running for 10 yrs...
    Now I'm about to move in 3 weeks and he doesn't even know it yet. I want to give him my new info but I'm afraid of being rejected😢
    This is all so crazy i don't know what to do.

  • @annetteminuzzo6422
    @annetteminuzzo6422 Год назад +2

    THANKYOU! I really needed this reading i certainty have been very upset , as i did a runner i felt scared and over whelmed i truely did suffer ! I do hope it resolves it self, and my friend understands he such a lovely guy and yes im in love with him😘

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад

      So glad you found this helpful to your situation - thank you so much for watching!

  • @history_by_lamplight
    @history_by_lamplight 2 месяца назад

    It's been SO hard to let go and stop chasing. 😢 You can't just *distract* yourself. Before I got with my TF I was meditating for hours every day, knocking out my spiritual quest log, and now that I've been with them, I can't focus on anything. I'm so scatterbrained now. Mundane tasks aren't enough to focus on - you need spiritual tasks, and - call me crazy if you want, but - I don't think I have many more of those. 😅 No main storyline quests, anyway. But I'm pulling my energy back into me, going within, trying to do all that awesome divine feminine inner work. I'll get there, I think.
    Your video is some of the best, most penetrating, most *reassuring* insight I've found about this journey. I'm grateful for you today. Thank you so much. ❤

  • @She.33
    @She.33 7 месяцев назад +2

    It's been 4 months since my TF ran from our connection. I've tried here and there to speak to him over the past two months, and no reply. I am about to write a heartfelt letter to him and express my love. I want him to know how I truly feel, and how hard it is without him. I've done a lot of healing and grown over this time. I hope he has too. I have Faith in us and I Hope for the best. I meditate on our connection daily and send him Love and Light each morning and night.

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  7 месяцев назад +2

      Separation is a hard thing from a TF but it’s the time for both of you to grow

  • @jamilaelforis
    @jamilaelforis 5 месяцев назад +2

    yess he is running but i now he live me for the look in hes eyes ❤

  • @JoshuaFirestien
    @JoshuaFirestien Год назад +3

    Thanks, I always wondered what the runner goes through.

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад

      Glad to help! thanks for watching!

    • @chonadoria5755
      @chonadoria5755 10 месяцев назад

      And it seems this is hapoening to me???!!! I ddint know about the twin flame between two lovers.

  • @joygiawebb5202
    @joygiawebb5202 10 месяцев назад

    There is TRUTH here. It resonates completely.

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  10 месяцев назад

      So glad this resonates with you ~ many blessings 🤗♥️🤗🌹

  • @irationroyality6579
    @irationroyality6579 8 месяцев назад +1

    I was a chaser ,before I really understand the TF journey. I cant help thinking abt my Twin. I give thanks for this remembrance

  • @indervirsidhu8549
    @indervirsidhu8549 Год назад +4

    Very informative video. Much needed at this time. Thank you so much.

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад

      You are so welcome! glad it resonates with you and thank you for watching! 🌹🌸

  • @tinachatham4161
    @tinachatham4161 Год назад +35

    We are in the separation period and it is tearing me apart inside.💔

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад +4

      Ohhh it is the very hardest part of this twin flame journey - thank you for watching! 💙🌸💙🌸

    • @pedashouseoftruth
      @pedashouseoftruth Год назад +2

      I know the feeling 😢

    • @photonshot1016
      @photonshot1016 Год назад +6

      You may not believe this but you are not actually separated as your twin flame can't separate from you, a spiritual awakening allows you to see that.

    • @tinachatham4161
      @tinachatham4161 Год назад +2

      @@photonshot1016 But do you ever get back together physically?

    • @tinachatham4161
      @tinachatham4161 Год назад +1

      He stopped getting online to the Facebook I always use to talk to him too and he either changed his phone number or his number got changed. It just so happens I've got his new number because of my daughter had been talking to him.

  • @shekhu5556
    @shekhu5556 11 месяцев назад +11

    I m so happy to see all these comments n their shared part of their stories on comment. There r so many twinflames bcz earlier when i was not aware what i m feeling n on which journey i m i thought i m only one who felt in this way. What a great platforms ...shared knowledge and many beautiful twin flames r sharing their part of journey. Feel so blessed and sending tons of love n light and hugs to all twinflame on their journey. ❤❤❤❤

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  11 месяцев назад +1

      So glad you found our channel!! 🩵💜 The stories others share are truly inspirational and allow other viewers to see a reality they can also experience Many blessings 🩵💜

  • @ginaamerson921
    @ginaamerson921 Год назад +1

    This is where we are now. Since I'm awakened, I trust we will make it back. I'm working on myself, as I stayin the spirit of gratitude and confidence. I love him more than ever. I saw him experience these emotions right before break. What he said didn't ring true but he felt it would push me away. I knew he needed to do it but now I'm clearer on the why and what. He is running from he feelings, not me. He is in denial which is part of the ego driven space he's in. I've remained steadfast in the hesrt space.

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад

      This is wonderful that you're doing what you need to do for you! Blessings of love and light! and WELL DONE!

    • @lily6246
      @lily6246 10 месяцев назад +1

      Every word you wrote resonates with me. Just like this video. 🤍

  • @JuliaHolmes-q9e
    @JuliaHolmes-q9e 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks, it helps to see this explained, yes, it is a no contact

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  11 месяцев назад

      Glad it helped Thank you so much for watching Many blessings 💕🌸

  • @musikdog
    @musikdog 4 месяца назад

    This was really helpful. My twin flame disengages every time we separate for a couple days. It’s heart wrenching. 😢

  • @shaynaaak8169
    @shaynaaak8169 11 месяцев назад +1

    Yes. He is running. I'm currently going thru some things with my family so my mind is very busy. But I find myself thinking bout him out the blue 🤔

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  10 месяцев назад +1

      You may be picking up on him thinking about you as well! 🤗♥️🤗🌹

    • @shaynaaak8169
      @shaynaaak8169 10 месяцев назад

      @soulmatestwinflames wow really!!! And it's a everyday thing sometimes it goes on for hours and hours and all night mostly . When I'm not alone vs when I am alone I feel like it's worse and more heighten.

  • @Kendrashineofficial
    @Kendrashineofficial Год назад +2

    After 2 Years, I'm the Runner Now

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much for watching - blessings of love and light to you both!

  • @rarecoral212
    @rarecoral212 Год назад +5

    My whole story in short ❤

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад

      So many share this experience - thank you for watching - blessings of peace, love and light

  • @kaitlinschneider509
    @kaitlinschneider509 3 месяца назад

    No because I’ve been SO ANXIOUS THE PAST FEW DAYS and it’s not me cuz I trust he’ll come back when he’s ready, but I think I’m just tuning into his emotions because we’re both empaths.

  • @She.33
    @She.33 7 месяцев назад +3

    #1- Anxiety.
    #2- Confusion.
    #3- Curiosity.
    #4- Memories.
    #5- Hurt and pain.
    #6- Spiritual awakening.
    #7- Loneliness.
    #8- Regret.

  • @beautifulvillian405
    @beautifulvillian405 Год назад +1

    Thank you for your video. I watched it before bed time, after driving further than 200 miles to the new town. It's weird that I had to move and I knew exactly that our connection would be ended on that Sunday. I knew it without reason. I knew it from the institution. But before I said goodbye to him, he decided to run away. I think it was funny like we had the same mind.
    Anyways, this new place is peaceful and beautiful. The citizens are very nice and the food is so good. I thank the universe that took me to this place at the right time, although I didn't want to be here at first (because I wanted to be with him). I can't imagine what will happen if I don't surrender and leave. I may be sad for all my life because I won't learn anything and work with my inner self. I don't hate myself now. I'm ready to start my journey and face the fear.
    Thank you for your advices ❤❤❤

  • @vidamilinkovic2841
    @vidamilinkovic2841 Год назад +2

    I am runnar! This is absolutely the truth😢

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад

      THANK YOU so much for sharing - it helps so many to see what the runner experiences Thank you for watching! 🦋

  • @devipriyadas3440
    @devipriyadas3440 Год назад +2

    How can this be so TRUE!

  • @marydellgeorge2425
    @marydellgeorge2425 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank You
    So very much
    For this great
    Video
    I believe God
    Had me find
    This to watch
    I am in great
    Despair
    I loved watching
    This
    You put things
    Into Proper
    Perspective
    Brought mych
    Clarity❤❤❤

  • @saradaxhetri2118
    @saradaxhetri2118 5 месяцев назад

    We had separated
    I don't chase him
    Iam in the spiritual journey & i am healing
    Very informative video
    Thank u so much

  • @jsims0075
    @jsims0075 11 месяцев назад +4

    Anyone else just want to block them forever and move on with a soul mate instead? I'm a male divine feminine and I have a female divine masculine. Today is her birthday. I'm mad, sad, hurt, and tired. I'm 37 and just want a good marriage, someone who loves and respects me, and accepts my love and respect. I don't want to do this anymore. I just want happiness, to experience great partnership, and mutual dedication to where no one is running. I have started to experience my spiritual awakening this year and I'm grateful. I do wish I could be a million miles away from this connection. I think I will block her eventually and not give her a chance to come back. I feel like she deserves that feeling. I deserve the choice to block her and move on completely in this lifetime.

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  11 месяцев назад +1

      You truly deserve the choice to be happy and this one is not making you happy through her actions. Sometimes making the choice to move on and close that door is the best choice. You deserve someone who loves and respects you - Many blessings!

    • @jsims0075
      @jsims0075 11 месяцев назад

      @@soulmatestwinflames thank you 😥

    • @chonadoria5755
      @chonadoria5755 10 месяцев назад

      How many times you separated?

  • @ss-xe4jn
    @ss-xe4jn 10 месяцев назад

    Excellent !!.clear information..esp running away theory and how to deal with during separation..often ,out of desperation & pain I tend to initiate communication thereby delaying reconciliation...understood clearly..thanks much !Awaiting patiently for that divine moment though separation is killing me.........

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  9 месяцев назад

      Wonderful! Try not to reach out to them if you're seeking validation from them as you're right it can delay union. Thank you for watching Many blessings 💖

  • @CrystalTwinStar
    @CrystalTwinStar Год назад +1

    Thank you so much for this.
    The music is a little intense and repetitive, but the graphics are beautiful and the message is very true.
    🙏🙏🙏

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад

      Glad you enjoyed it! We are only allowed to use one song per video - thank you for your input! 🌸♥️🌸♥️

    • @olesyasunifbbpro
      @olesyasunifbbpro 6 месяцев назад

      I like the music intense here. Because the journey and the separation feel so intense

  • @Furblesnert
    @Furblesnert 11 месяцев назад +1

    I met who i truly believe is my twin flame. We have dated off and on for 9-10 months. She is currently "running" I am hopeful that things will work out, but i'm trying not to cling too strongly to that hope. Just working towards trusting that everything will work out as it should, either with her, or someone else (though i cannot possibly see ever finding anything remotely close to the connection she and i share)

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  11 месяцев назад +1

      If it feels like a TF, it probably is and it sounds like it with her runniing. She needs to work through her issues meanwhile you just keep focus on YOU Many blessings 🩵💜

  • @kellyhocking-xj8qw
    @kellyhocking-xj8qw 11 месяцев назад +1

    Yes he the runner , but I'm not the chaser been focusing on myself , now I can sense and feel and just know he comming back home to me soon just don't know when , in the meantime I'm just focusing on myself and living my best life and holding onto faith and trusting the universe.

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  10 месяцев назад

      THis is the perfect and empowered way to handle the runner! 🤗♥️🤗🌹

    • @kellyhocking-xj8qw
      @kellyhocking-xj8qw 10 месяцев назад

      @@soulmatestwinflames Thank you for your kind words and support much love sent your way 💕❤️🤩

  • @emily6219
    @emily6219 4 месяца назад

    Powerful ❤️‍🔥Thank you so much beautiful 🙏✨🌿🌖☀️♾️💧🩵🔥💙😇⚔️🕯️💞🌟

  • @aireenarceno2227
    @aireenarceno2227 Год назад +3

    I experienced tremendous loss the first time he run fromthe connections and soul shock the second time.its very painful😅

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад

      oh it is the most horrible thing to go through - blessings of peace, love and light 🌹💜🌹💜

  • @calanitmaron5656
    @calanitmaron5656 Год назад +1

    Waw thank you it made. Me feel better , God bless you💙🙏🏼

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад

      You are so welcome thank you so much for watching~~ 🌹💜🌹💜

  • @alisaadorno8754
    @alisaadorno8754 Год назад +1

    Wow what an amazing video, ty for sharing this information 🙏

  • @1drumsmoke
    @1drumsmoke 10 месяцев назад

    I’ve experienced this to the T, I’m overcome with emotion right now

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  10 месяцев назад

      THank you for watching - many blessings to you! 🤗♥️🤗🌹

  • @misskimm
    @misskimm Год назад +3

    Yup.. currently in our umpteenth separation. He’s ghosting me ever since breaking up. Before breaking up we decided to go on holiday to Greece, which should have been last week. I’ve learned from a free eind that he went on holiday last week, to… Greece. It’s all so weird.

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад

      WOW just WOW - I just made the pick a card reading for tomorrow and was saying how some twin flames separate multiple times - so sorry you're going through this - blessings of peace and love

  • @KyrstinLavelle-el6yv
    @KyrstinLavelle-el6yv Год назад +1

    Very informative, Thank you! 😊

  • @mamphokhuduga5328
    @mamphokhuduga5328 6 месяцев назад +2

    We have a baby together and during conversation,I realized most of the things they wrote there ,he asked me and admitted the feeling is mutual.he still feeling the same way although he is in😊 denial 😅😊I like the fact that he growing spiritual and he appreciates some of my advice when we talk

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  6 месяцев назад +1

      wonderful! Many blessings of love and light to you both~!

  • @Strawberryfield0182
    @Strawberryfield0182 Год назад +3

    Guys I am a TW, I am a woman, I am have the divine masculine polarity, I was with my TF in a relationship for about a year, I was the chaser and very recently out of nowhere I instigated the breakup, he reinforced it, now I am in the runner dynamic and let me tell you it is awful!! I hate running but I can’t help it, my anxiety got the best of me, I am in meds for it, and my physical symptoms of the separation are driving me nuts and sick, I feel nauseous all day from the meds sometimes and sometimes because of the separation. I do love my twin flame but I can’t deal with this anymore, I don’t know why… I want this to end and I don’t know how… we are in contact though and it is like a part of me wants it and another part of me doesn’t want it, it is a constant fight or confusion inside of me, It is much better to be the chaser I swear!! I feel exhausted too, maybe too much running in another dimension who knows! I want this to be easier though 😢 I only pray for this phase to end and reunite but something inside of me just runs away… but I love my twin so much!!! Ugh!!! Does this whole thing neutralise at some point and can we be normal people in a normal union?

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад +3

      WOW thank you so much for sharing your story as it will help many of the twin flame chaser see and understand things from the runner perspective. At some point, as the two of you balance out - and the connection balances again - it will neutralize allowing you to come into union. Thank you so much for watching -blessings of love and light to you both

    • @lily6246
      @lily6246 10 месяцев назад

      What helps me is finding out the difference between 3D and 5D thinking. Your connection with your twin is 5D. Triggers and fears are 3D. The world we live in. U need to get to your 5D🤍🙏🏻

  • @remillajagersar4897
    @remillajagersar4897 2 месяца назад

    So true...surrender to the Universe ..❤

  • @elainestewart8487
    @elainestewart8487 11 месяцев назад +2

    Mines been running for 23 years. I'm tired of it now ❤

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  10 месяцев назад

      Oh nooo that's horrible!! Sometimes we just have to decide to let it go and move on - many blessings to you!🤗♥️🤗🌹

  • @strawberryqqq
    @strawberryqqq Год назад +1

    I feel all those, though I am seemed to be a chaser. I ran first, then I came back and tried to chase.

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад

      Many times the runner and chaser switch roles - blessings of peace love and light to you both 💜🌹💗🌹

  • @brucebanner6147
    @brucebanner6147 Год назад +2

    Chaser here....
    My runner has been in denial since Dec. 2022 and it hit its first apex July 2023. No matter what Se comes back.
    I" just" came to the realization that we're never leaving each other.
    May the SOURCE/GRAND ARCHITECT give u strength. I'm so glad Her and I chose this journey 🙏

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад

      Thank you for watching!!! blessings of peace, love and light 🌸♥️

  • @sophiacecil1699
    @sophiacecil1699 Год назад

    I want him back in my life Universe❤ I know he will be back soon!

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад

      Keep that faith in the universe, yourself and your connection Blessings of love and light! 💖💫

  • @thetruenguyen
    @thetruenguyen 5 месяцев назад +2

    I really really miss him. 😢

  • @yvonnetaber1859
    @yvonnetaber1859 Год назад +1

    Awesome video, difficult experience. 😆

    • @soulmatestwinflames
      @soulmatestwinflames  Год назад

      yes it can be - thank you so much for watching 🥰🌹🌟♥️