Abuse and control is when you walk on eggshells because one day theyre nice and the next theyre controlling, demanding, mean, abusive. The minute he scared that toddler & broke her toy was the minute the wife takes the child & leaves. You never put a child through that. And at the 1st 5 years, their brain is a sponge. Her personality is being formed. Her fears are being formed and set. You destroy who 5he child could become as an adult. You traumatize them. Fiction. Or not, i get angry at the weak, naive female characters.
That James character is disgusting. He's a lazy bum, and a misogynistic bully. It's sad to believe that these men in these stories are so scared because they're without common sense.
Basically she had lost her home by being locked out. Going to sleep in front of a police station was a smart move. Safer than any parking lot. Plus it got quick help to solve her problem. The officer upon meeting her husband knew what was going on. That he was on drugs.
@margueritedavis7172 once when my dad had a drunken fit, Me, Mom and my four siblings slept in a car in a well lit parking lot. My grandma was out of town so she couldn't come to our rescue.
These are all Red Flags, I lived thru decades of abuse. Every day expecting tomorrow will be better, just as James does, erratic treatment so wife stays there.
Since when does any man use perfume? They use aftershave. Never heard of this, unless it's some modern thing? We used to hide until dad's mood was known. He ended up a paranoid dictator, a re-writer of history to make himself look better, got cranky and violent when we did not accept his new version. Would not get mwdical help for his mental problems. Horrible having to make excuses for his weird behaviour, knowing why but having to suffer through his abusive quirks. All of us left home as soon as we could and scattered, he'd hit whoever was close, not who messed up. He ended up alone, all of us are messed up.
I can relate to this. My dad was a mean nasty drunk. When Mom would kick him out ( if he would leave), he would offer us money if we would tell Mom that we wanted him back. I never did, but I wouldn't be surprised if my oldest (golden) brother did.
4 in Canada. We have a prekindergarten. Regular kindergarten kids have to already know basic skills like reading, writing, counting. Parents have to parent now.
@@ednaatluxton4918 well I don't know about you but I taught my 2 all those things before kindergarten! By 1st grade they could read on a 5th grade level by 5th grade a college level! I always read to them & with them they loved reading math science my youngest also got into doing plays, drill team, school yearbook, guitar! They enjoyed school & learning!
It depends on the country. Some pre-schools take children as young as 2. I'm thinking of France. By the way, there the pre-elementary grade is known as Maternelle.
911 kick him out press charges then divorce him and block.
You shouldn't have quit school. In today's world there are a lot of options to educate yourself and help yourself and fsmily
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Abuse and control is when you walk on eggshells because one day theyre nice and the next theyre controlling, demanding, mean, abusive. The minute he scared that toddler & broke her toy was the minute the wife takes the child & leaves. You never put a child through that. And at the 1st 5 years, their brain is a sponge. Her personality is being formed. Her fears are being formed and set. You destroy who 5he child could become as an adult. You traumatize them. Fiction. Or not, i get angry at the weak, naive female characters.
This is true.
All children go through the "No" phase, and the "why?" Phase. You have to learn to understand kids.
That James character is disgusting. He's a lazy bum, and a misogynistic bully. It's sad to believe that these men in these stories are so scared because they're without common sense.
Since when is it trendy for people to sleep in their cars. Only people who lose their homes sleep in their cars.
Basically she had lost her home by being locked out. Going to sleep in front of a police station was a smart move. Safer than any parking lot. Plus it got quick help to solve her problem. The officer upon meeting her husband knew what was going on. That he was on drugs.
Thank-you. That was my thought as well.
@margueritedavis7172
once when my dad had a drunken fit, Me, Mom and my four siblings slept in a car in a well lit parking lot. My grandma was out of town so she couldn't come to our rescue.
Change the lock ??? You know how fast a locksmith, or the police would be there.
Tenants aren't usually allowed to change the lock. Otherse, however, ask the landlord to change it before moving in or signing the lease.
Ive changed locks at every place I've lived. Bad experience with breakins. But you have to give the landlord a key.
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Like she gonna consider divorce. I woulda left first time he hit me
Good day or bad day,I can understand that feeling. Been there and done that.😊
This story shows how relationships should be formally aggreable between married partners families.
These are all Red Flags, I lived thru decades of abuse. Every day expecting tomorrow will be better, just as James does, erratic treatment so wife stays there.
Hello you have an abusive man. You both are in danger. Get help. 😢
By the way, James, changing ANYTHING in a RENTAL without the LANDLORD'S permission is ILLEGAL!
Thought they didnt have $$ to marry.? Then All of a sudden they are married??
Why not come to station now why wait till tomorrow. Why couldnt she go in house!
She couldn't get into the unit because HE changed the lock.
Since when does any man use perfume? They use aftershave. Never heard of this, unless it's some modern thing?
We used to hide until dad's mood was known. He ended up a paranoid dictator, a re-writer of history to make himself look better, got cranky and violent when we did not accept his new version. Would not get mwdical help for his mental problems. Horrible having to make excuses for his weird behaviour, knowing why but having to suffer through his abusive quirks. All of us left home as soon as we could and scattered, he'd hit whoever was close, not who messed up. He ended up alone, all of us are messed up.
Men use perfume, loads of it in the shops. Creed silver water is an exquisite high vibration perfume for men. Think Dior, for decades.
I can relate to this. My dad was a mean nasty drunk.
When Mom would kick him out ( if he would leave), he would offer us money if we would tell Mom that we wanted him back. I never did, but I wouldn't be surprised if my oldest (golden) brother did.
Once hit more will follow, must leave, divorce. Sweeping dinner off table means divorce.
Call the police right away.
Notify your parents and his.
Divorce Him. 😮
Darn! What a jerk!!! Call a lawyer.
She should have asked for the key, not stay locked out.
What a bastard. Divorce him fast!
The husband hits the wife, which is unacceptable . Then, this is an important sign that he has an affair outside.
It means divorcing or a trip to police station.
Call 911 on him Luna or Lunatic ?
Yeah! that smelly perfume is not his 🤔
DIVORCE!!!!
Are you there? Why ask if he There. She heard voices?
Who does he have in the house with him 🤔
It’s ve ry cold in a car at night, need blankets.
Permission to Marry 19 & 22? Hmm that i know of you don't need permision at 18! And kindergarten at 3? Try 5!
4 in Canada. We have a prekindergarten. Regular kindergarten kids have to already know basic skills like reading, writing, counting. Parents have to parent now.
@@ednaatluxton4918 well I don't know about you but I taught my 2 all those things before kindergarten! By 1st grade they could read on a 5th grade level by 5th grade a college level! I always read to them & with them they loved reading math science my youngest also got into doing plays, drill team, school yearbook, guitar! They enjoyed school & learning!
@@ednaatluxton4918 we call it pre-school!
It depends on the country. Some pre-schools take children as young as 2. I'm thinking of France. By the way, there the pre-elementary grade is known as Maternelle.
3 years in Aus. But my 2 year grandchild has been going to a German language preschool for 2 days a week.
Or he having affair
I hate this story
Pathetic to call himself Daddy. How about “I” *instead of baby talk. My toddler grandchild called out Hello xxxxxx ( my name)
Bipolar🤔
Ser re us ?
THE WORST STORY EVER
It isn't /un-sur-ee-us/. It's/un-SER-rius/.