I was married for 21 years to my beloved husband and he Transitioned on 5-10-2019. I transitioned towards 5 years of sobriety on 5-10-2020. I get to keep carrying our legacy of love and light. We had a monogamous marriage for 21 glorious years!!!! Greatest Gift we shared in our vows. When he got sick I was able to care for him and make our vow the strongest ever. No sex involved our sex was now heightened towards me being his hands and feet as he became paralyzed on the right side of his body due to a stroke. I have always used the word transition because he Transitioned from this earthly plane onto his next spiritual plane. I AM great full he no longer has to live in physical pain. Namaste 🙏
When you asked, why are we sharing this? I just wanted to say that I am SO grateful for the honesty on your podcast, Aubrey. It’s not shrouded behind spiritual wording. This is possibly the most HONEST podcast I’ve found, and for that reason it’s actually been the most profoundly impactful and helpful. Nobody truly talks about the intricacies and challenges of relationships, and so it can be very isolating when you do experience obstacles. Thank you both from the bottom of my heart. This conversation was massively expansive x
I love this content but it’s technically hard to listen to because Whitney’s voice is so much louder than Aubrey’s. I had to keep lowering the volume and then turning it up again. Just sharing so this could be tweeked for future podcasts. I love the openness and vulnerability of you guys sharing your journey. I totally agree that psychedelics are so valuable for personal and relationship development. Love you both!
These two have a lot of unfinished business. I was in a long-term relationship. We loved each other more than anything. We still do. Can you part ways or break up. And then you come back to each other but not in a relationship. But the bond is still there. And this will probably play out for them for a while. But I decided with my guy that even though I love him so much, him being around is just causing me to have some resentment. And I don’t want to resent him. And I’m not gonna be able to move on the way I deserve to if he still there. I think I finally realize that I’m so grateful for what we had. And letting him go and wishing him well does not mean I love him any less. I think it’s great when two people that were in a relationship can come back after it ends and take that relationship into a new dynamic. I think it’s part of the healing. And I think it honors the relationship. Because just because it ends doesn’t mean that you have to be enemies. You were with that person because they were a good person. It’ll become a bad person just because it ends. But I think they’re gets to a point where you do have to part ways and cut communication. These two are clearly not gonna get there for a while. LOL
Sometimes the deepest love changes form while we are still alive - it doesn't mean the love is gone on the spiritual level but the 3D physical journey takes us on different paths - thank you both for debunking the myth of separation and sharing your story.. sidenote complete withdrawal from socail media for over a year has healed me from unnecessary pain and freed up so much time for activities and spiritual growth ☯️
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Surely I'm not the only one here who finds this comedic. Sounds like two people rationalizing their inability to give up pleasure for commitment. If love costs you nothing, and requires no sacrifice of self, it's not love. Two attractive people with hot bodies who can't give up the dopamine drip of sex, then try to spin it like they're being higher minded and tapping into something meta. Grab your popcorn and enjoy the decline.
Craig Candor I agree with your point. However, too often this rhetoric encourages a sort of possessiveness that is just as corrosive, and does not allow partners to fully explore their feelings and sexualities. The underlying assumption to your post is that sex is somehow intrinsically corrosive, or suspect. I do not buy that in the slightest. To the degree humans can communicate, they can enjoy an embracing intimacy, and that joy and trust will only be increased in situations where one must let go rather than hold tight to preconceptions of what they know about their partner.
Of course you can be committed in an open relationship. Like you can have two or more friends you're loyal to. People that never tried an open relationship are always the experts, where those that are living in one often say that they don't really know where it's going, but it feels right for them. How many monogamous relationships don't work out? Let me tell you; many. Between 40 and 50% of married couples in the US get divorced, so it's not like that's a winning formula. Almost half of the time your popcorn are worth the money. A lot of people in the western world, has had more than two relationships that didn't work out, but they never question the structure of the relationship, even if it ended because of someone cheating. It must be nice to put something up so black and white, but life, love and commitment isn't always that simple. If you have a good and committed relationship that's monogamous, that's awesome for you! And I guess it's the right thing for you. I've been in a 5 year and a 4 year monogamous relationship, and even though I loved my partner at the time, it ultimately didn't work out. I, as you probably can hear, am in an open relationship with my girlfriend of 16 years and it works. Yes there are problems and obstacles and pain, like there are in all relationships. Rarely does it have anything to do with our openness. You not getting it, is fine, but chill with the judging.
I was thinking the same thing. Sounds like they made “wedding vows” (aka agreements) without the wedding. I always thought open relationships meant zero rules/agreements because neither of you “need” anything from each other. Zero conditions. Gotta really know who you are tho (from a spiritual perspective). When you truly know who you are... truly awakened to who you are... that neediness for another human being naturally dissipates and the freedom to love arises. The loving based on conditions dissipates and true freedom to love unconditionally arises. VERY few human beings can get there given the societal possessive conditioning we are raised with. All that said I thoroughly respect and honor their openness. Totally cool. I’m sure it’s helping a LOT of people.
I think it is so cool that you two can share personal truths about each other if front of the world.Thank you. Very helpful. I believe every couple goes through this, most avoid it. You two are very brave. Thank you again. Gabe
This conversation has helped me and inspired me in ways I cant even begin to describe. Thank you for your honesty and openness. This level of vulnerability takes so much strength and something 99% of the world keeps under wraps so a massive thank you to both of you for sharing, I personally have learned SO much.
I always appreciate the great honesty in these exchanges. I’m So happy Aubrey is finally done with this charade since I think he can better grow from here on now that it’s done.
trying out an open relationship in order to "see your own stuff" is like having a wound and putting salt on it to learn overcome the pain. Yes it can teach a lot, but to me it's a very weird way of "challenging" yourself. Anyways different views.
Can't purge out the desire love attraction when you have that love, connection with a women! Love the honesty! Men remember so much more then women! People think women remember sex but alot of men are like this guy! First time watching definitely going to sub. and see if everything else is this great! Fyi only found this channel so Whitney interview a fighter. She wow me! Lucky guy! Lucky girl! Hope you guys are still couple!!!
There is a consistency in relationships when you see eachother everyday, its so difficult to resolve issues when new complexities are always arising. I am fascinated and thankful for the beautiful growth that occurs everyday. But it is, without a doubt, painful.
I believe that a monogamous relationship is the highest form for conscious, and spiritually evolved people. Sacrifice being the highest form of love. Laying down our lives and our desires for another (Jesus being a living example). I believe you both did a lot of growing in polygamy, but in the end, I think you two would benefit greatly by being monogamous.
@@juanappleseed LOL how is that on the same level? because its multiple people? Thats some low level thinking. And no if you have multiple kids with a strong partner then you both can share the load and love the kids easier. You genuinely think you don't achieve more spiritual level by staying true with one individual, by building that love? If so, thats fine, USA currently has the highest amount of single parent households. Looks like its working out amazingly for USA, all that despair is amazing.
Kids can’t be measured in that way because that’s our lineage that’s our blood. The person you choose as a partner it’s not. It’s a soul agreement to one person. I think the path of open can be very beneficial but this podcast proves the detriment of it as well.
Wow, this crowd's comments are fun to read. Aubrey, Whitney, I'm amazed how much story we share. It might be my own perception only, but I've been through similar relationship transition release too. Thank you for sharing this
They're doing the work all humans just do at some point, maybe even over the course of several lives. You can learn how to be a CEO, be a virtuoso violinist, or math wiz in your teens, but the soul work takes real time on earth, no way to get a shortcut. To do this live on camera could be crazy or brave. As Joni says, I know, :no one's going to show me everything We all come and go unknown Each so deep and superficial Between the forceps and the stone" from Heijira, or as Matt Kahn says, "everything helps everything"
Aubrey didn't like her enough to give up other women, she eventually figured out that she was better off, they claim this is some kind of enlightened union when they just obscured the truth from themselves. Feel kind of sad listening to them try to justify it.
I agree 100%.I always felt listening tu I Aubrey that he was never totally happy with it. It felt like he was doi'g it for her and tried to justify it all the time
People don’t make good slaves,but they don’t mind trying to own other people. People will always try to break free whether they’re conscious of it or not. This video was very helpful.
We see what and who you both are in truth. Thank you so much for being vulnerable and opening your relationship with the world... if anything following both of your journeys has inspired this page to come about
I just discovered Aubrey and his story. I don’t know what I was expecting from his ex, but this wasn’t it. I genuinely can’t see these two people ever being together.
Wow. This is such an honest open personal conversation. Relationships are hard. Good for you both being open to work through it - it's a tumultuous journey for sure. And GO mushrooms! Better living through Psilocybin! ...Anyhow, thank you so much for sharing. Awesome.
im sorry but everything about her, i mean all sorts oof stuff, but she just screams "extremely tight sphincter mode" but maybe thats just most people lol, idk, i mean, tense face, skin cmplexin stressed, hair on point to a T, eye brown plucked down to a point, hair line immaculate, extremely itchy sweater that she just doesnt notice cuz shes normally s stressed that full body itching doesnt even register lol, her demeanor tells me comforted guard. like she knows she doesnt have to be n guard, but is anyway, for whatever reason, i could have that wrong, or all of it, but thats just whats screaming off the screen and out of my speaker. first impression 20 seconds in, final impression leaving. not even to mentin the angle of her head when she talks. like, shes fac9ng intoo the howling wind. whether thats her own judging self projected on to aubrey or what, idk, but it looks lie shes defending herself or something. very interesting conversation btw, on many levels
It takes two to tango. How can this relationship be truly evaluated without removing the drugs? Thanks for sharing, you've demonstrated a lot of useful information that'll save a lot of time for others.
Wow you guys. Courageous talk. Thank you for your honest and open share on intimate (non)relationship-relationship GOLD. Relate to so much of this, and inspired by your bravery and authentic truths. Ya’ll are both beautiful souls and humans. Best to both of you ♥️🌼
This is so confusing to me.... I just watched a podcast yesterday from August 5th 2020 where Aubrey was with his wife and “this” very podcast was from January 2020.... I feel like the women in his life are destined for pain because of his perceived confusion but I have to be honest that it seems to me like manipulation with the intent of displaying it as confusion... I also think that he knows this and doesn’t like that piece of himself and the confusion comes from why he can’t stop this pattern
And today, they are no longer together. Makes so sad :( I know Aubry met a person that he loves today but I can't help but wish these two were able to make it work. I hope they are both happy today, regardless.
I’ve listened to your discussion. You’re so intelligent Aubrey, what are you saying? In the name of “honoring” no finality. You have one life Aubrey. What ever caused you to accept less than the entire committed love of that one person who honors you as the man you are. What message are you really sending? To settle....so sad for you.
Uh, he intiated their poly life, she was against it to begin with.. I respect poly life ppls but personally, I don't get it.. & now he's married & monogamous so..... 🤔
@@pollyanna2645 because he didn't expect that she will actually do it...kinda like societal projection that its okay for a man to go ahead and do that and not acceptable for the woman
I hope these two souls find their way and heal. They are both broken (as we all are in some way) and they are trying to look to the other to fix them..... or use psychedelics or sex to fix their issues. Seems to me they are so afraid to be vulnerable and are busying trying to protect themselves from any pain or suffering they may feel from being in a relationship. Reality is...... life and relationships can be full of pain..... and we all have issues and traumas from our past that we must heal so we can accept and surrender to the unknown and enjoy true joy and happiness. We are ALL vulnerable and you can choose to keep your heart closed and protect yourself or you can open your heart and be vulnerable...... and realize that you can get through anything. Be brave and believe in yourself, the answers are not outside yourself or in another individual.
Is this whitney miller who interview fighters after there fights? She's gorgeous? Are these two together? What a lucky guy! Good looking couple! Great video can definitely been where they have been.
what was the name of the psilocybin documentary aubrey mentioned? i cant find it and cant remember the name without listening to the podcast in its entirety again
I aspire to be more like you both. You are both very evolved souls, and although I don’t know you personally, I feel like I do. Same goes for Rogan, Callen, Schaub, Theo, Cat, & even Chin😜. Aub, I’m going to Costa Rica to try Aya for the first time. I leave tmrw. I’m stoked and nervous lol. Many blessings 🙏❤️😎🤙
I’m sorry but I don’t understand the masochistic pursuit of an open relationship when it causes pain, there is nothing grandiose about overcoming something self inflicted. The engagement is a prequel to a marriage which I believe to be a commitment which includes monogamy.thats fine if you don’t believe in monogamy but why start down that path?
How long take this break up?? This podcast motivated me to keep hope to me and my ex we can have reconciliation and than figure out our future... thanks guys for share this inspirational video god bless this return
Am I wrong to assume that Audrey was never really in this...? I'm glad you are parting friends. The more I listen, this sounds like one person was never really committed. Correct me if I'm wrong, I'm on the outside looking in. Appreciate the rawness you both show, very courageous. Much respect!
Just as the other guest on his show Peter Crone says his not mother Theresa when his hsemate doesn't pay rent when he said he would, in a way there are things u can and cannot accept in another person, so to ask the other person to love u unconditionally is not common, means if u treat them like shit, if u cheat of them... Ur asking them to love u despite of all that... And I feel anyone in the right mind in favor of themselves won't chose that path unless ur super unique which would make one putting up with a those shits.... I think ppl have 2 options either love the other unconditionally putting up all the shit.. Or chose to leave and cut them off coz frankly they are jst another human, which ever quality u like in them... U can find it in yourself or others, u don't need to have scarcity mindset... U jst need to train urself..... Ppl are jst making things unnecessary complex... If that other person found so much in you, they won't be asking for open relationship.. Or maybe they feel restricted hence wants to be in open relationship.. Either way... It scream I don't want responsibility and commitment... In a way its not open relationship, it seems like the person are jst looking n seeking around while keeping a spare tire jst in case he or she can't find someone better rthan u... Then they have at least a spare tire to drive their car... Wake up people..
I've never seen a guy more in need of some pills.... You really need to understand one thing... Men love unconditionally... With women, their love is always conditional... Conditional on you making them feel safe and secure and provided for.... Once they feel this is no longer the case, she will seek out another man.... And remember, She is never yours, it's just your turn. She will always be on the lookout for a higher value man... Sad but true.
This is BS so why do men normally go for the younger and prettier woman. Men are always looking at the next hot body and if given the option will go and be with another woman. So guess who wanted an open relationship first. Whitney put up with him sleeping with other women for a while before she started doing her own thing remember that. Plus as human beings we all have conditions of course you're not gonna put up with certain things for long. The red pill movement is ridiculous. Everyone has conditions wake up men are just as guilty.
@@blackpanther-wr7mm ''Men normally go for the younger prettier woman''??? Where did you hear that? .. ''Men are always looking'' ?? What! ?? This comment is fuelled by emotion with no evidence at all behind it.
Love how you continue to go out and have conversations that most people won't have. We appreciate you for this.
I was married for 21 years to my beloved husband and he Transitioned on 5-10-2019. I transitioned towards 5 years of sobriety on 5-10-2020. I get to keep carrying our legacy of love and light. We had a monogamous marriage for 21 glorious years!!!! Greatest Gift we shared in our vows. When he got sick I was able to care for him and make our vow the strongest ever. No sex involved our sex was now heightened towards me being his hands and feet as he became paralyzed on the right side of his body due to a stroke. I have always used the word transition because he Transitioned from this earthly plane onto his next spiritual plane. I AM great full he no longer has to live in physical pain. Namaste 🙏
That is so beautiful
When you asked, why are we sharing this? I just wanted to say that I am SO grateful for the honesty on your podcast, Aubrey. It’s not shrouded behind spiritual wording. This is possibly the most HONEST podcast I’ve found, and for that reason it’s actually been the most profoundly impactful and helpful. Nobody truly talks about the intricacies and challenges of relationships, and so it can be very isolating when you do experience obstacles. Thank you both from the bottom of my heart. This conversation was massively expansive x
I love this content but it’s technically hard to listen to because Whitney’s voice is so much louder than Aubrey’s. I had to keep lowering the volume and then turning it up again. Just sharing so this could be tweeked for future podcasts. I love the openness and vulnerability of you guys sharing your journey. I totally agree that psychedelics are so valuable for personal and relationship development. Love you both!
Dude you two are phenomenal friends with benefits. We don't have to align spiritual or esoteric with this one. One love
These two have a lot of unfinished business. I was in a long-term relationship. We loved each other more than anything. We still do. Can you part ways or break up. And then you come back to each other but not in a relationship. But the bond is still there. And this will probably play out for them for a while. But I decided with my guy that even though I love him so much, him being around is just causing me to have some resentment. And I don’t want to resent him. And I’m not gonna be able to move on the way I deserve to if he still there. I think I finally realize that I’m so grateful for what we had. And letting him go and wishing him well does not mean I love him any less. I think it’s great when two people that were in a relationship can come back after it ends and take that relationship into a new dynamic. I think it’s part of the healing. And I think it honors the relationship. Because just because it ends doesn’t mean that you have to be enemies. You were with that person because they were a good person. It’ll become a bad person just because it ends. But I think they’re gets to a point where you do have to part ways and cut communication. These two are clearly not gonna get there for a while. LOL
Sometimes the deepest love changes form while we are still alive - it doesn't mean the love is gone on the spiritual level but the 3D physical journey takes us on different paths - thank you both for debunking the myth of separation and sharing your story.. sidenote complete withdrawal from socail media for over a year has healed me from unnecessary pain and freed up so much time for activities and spiritual growth ☯️
If she wasn't attractive it wouldn't be a conversation. Aubrey, you are a creator, keep creating brother.
I LOVE that you guys have the courage to share and lead. Keep doing it!
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Surely I'm not the only one here who finds this comedic. Sounds like two people rationalizing their inability to give up pleasure for commitment. If love costs you nothing, and requires no sacrifice of self, it's not love. Two attractive people with hot bodies who can't give up the dopamine drip of sex, then try to spin it like they're being higher minded and tapping into something meta. Grab your popcorn and enjoy the decline.
😂
@@timmy666 All sacrifice is pain, but not all pain is sacrifice. Carefully stitching your own self inflicted wound is indicative of idiocy, not craft.
Craig Candor I agree with your point. However, too often this rhetoric encourages a sort of possessiveness that is just as corrosive, and does not allow partners to fully explore their feelings and sexualities. The underlying assumption to your post is that sex is somehow intrinsically corrosive, or suspect. I do not buy that in the slightest. To the degree humans can communicate, they can enjoy an embracing intimacy, and that joy and trust will only be increased in situations where one must let go rather than hold tight to preconceptions of what they know about their partner.
Of course you can be committed in an open relationship. Like you can have two or more friends you're loyal to.
People that never tried an open relationship are always the experts, where those that are living in one often say that they don't really know where it's going, but it feels right for them.
How many monogamous relationships don't work out? Let me tell you; many. Between 40 and 50% of married couples in the US get divorced, so it's not like that's a winning formula. Almost half of the time your popcorn are worth the money.
A lot of people in the western world, has had more than two relationships that didn't work out, but they never question the structure of the relationship, even if it ended because of someone cheating.
It must be nice to put something up so black and white, but life, love and commitment isn't always that simple.
If you have a good and committed relationship that's monogamous, that's awesome for you! And I guess it's the right thing for you. I've been in a 5 year and a 4 year monogamous relationship, and even though I loved my partner at the time, it ultimately didn't work out.
I, as you probably can hear, am in an open relationship with my girlfriend of 16 years and it works. Yes there are problems and obstacles and pain, like there are in all relationships. Rarely does it have anything to do with our openness.
You not getting it, is fine, but chill with the judging.
They're both lying and afraid to commit
Abraham Hicks says “ I like you pretty much, let’s see where this goes “😊
Claribel Vicent exactly ! I love abraham too
I was thinking the same thing. Sounds like they made “wedding vows” (aka agreements) without the wedding. I always thought open relationships meant zero rules/agreements because neither of you “need” anything from each other. Zero conditions.
Gotta really know who you are tho (from a spiritual perspective). When you truly know who you are... truly awakened to who you are... that neediness for another human being naturally dissipates and the freedom to love arises.
The loving based on conditions dissipates and true freedom to love unconditionally arises. VERY few human beings can get there given the societal possessive conditioning we are raised with.
All that said I thoroughly respect and honor their openness. Totally cool. I’m sure it’s helping a LOT of people.
Yes!!! I love her💗
I think it is so cool that you two can share personal truths about each other if front of the world.Thank you. Very helpful. I believe every couple goes through this, most avoid it. You two are very brave. Thank you again. Gabe
Love has the power to heal the mind, body and the soul 🙏
I believe it does and I hope it happens for me one day :-) x
Man, that sweater looks comfortable. Lol
seriously
This conversation has helped me and inspired me in ways I cant even begin to describe. Thank you for your honesty and openness. This level of vulnerability takes so much strength and something 99% of the world keeps under wraps so a massive thank you to both of you for sharing, I personally have learned SO much.
I always appreciate the great honesty in these exchanges. I’m So happy Aubrey is finally done with this charade since I think he can better grow from here on now that it’s done.
trying out an open relationship in order to "see your own stuff" is like having a wound and putting salt on it to learn overcome the pain. Yes it can teach a lot, but to me it's a very weird way of "challenging" yourself. Anyways different views.
Can't purge out the desire love attraction when you have that love, connection with a women! Love the honesty! Men remember so much more then women! People think women remember sex but alot of men are like this guy! First time watching definitely going to sub. and see if everything else is this great! Fyi only found this channel so Whitney interview a fighter. She wow me! Lucky guy! Lucky girl! Hope you guys are still couple!!!
Thank you for this episode. Very helpful & healing
There is a consistency in relationships when you see eachother everyday, its so difficult to resolve issues when new complexities are always arising. I am fascinated and thankful for the beautiful growth that occurs everyday. But it is, without a doubt, painful.
Omg thank u for this.....so much of what ive been going through and what ive realised
No ones asking the important question, who makes that sweater?
That's what I need to know.
Drugs and open relationships. What a clusterfuck of shitty decisions.
I believe that a monogamous relationship is the highest form for conscious, and spiritually evolved people. Sacrifice being the highest form of love. Laying down our lives and our desires for another (Jesus being a living example). I believe you both did a lot of growing in polygamy, but in the end, I think you two would benefit greatly by being monogamous.
Do you believe having one kid is more spiritual than having multiple kids so you don't split your love amongst multiple kids?
@@juanappleseed LOL how is that on the same level? because its multiple people? Thats some low level thinking.
And no if you have multiple kids with a strong partner then you both can share the load and love the kids easier.
You genuinely think you don't achieve more spiritual level by staying true with one individual, by building that love? If so, thats fine, USA currently has the highest amount of single parent households. Looks like its working out amazingly for USA, all that despair is amazing.
@@lucedluced1349 you're right.
Kids can’t be measured in that way because that’s our lineage that’s our blood. The person you choose as a partner it’s not. It’s a soul agreement to one person. I think the path of open can be very beneficial but this podcast proves the detriment of it as well.
@@juanappleseed 😂
Love love LOVE Ecstatic dance! Just started it 3 weeks ago and it's been profound.
You guys are brave and honest. Thanks for everything!
This is such perfect timing!! A new conversation on the “new” relationship paradigm. Thank you for your open dialogue. 🙏🏻❤️🥰
Wow, this crowd's comments are fun to read.
Aubrey, Whitney, I'm amazed how much story we share. It might be my own perception only, but I've been through similar relationship transition release too. Thank you for sharing this
They're doing the work all humans just do at some point, maybe even over the course of several lives. You can learn how to be a CEO, be a virtuoso violinist, or math wiz in your teens, but the soul work takes real time on earth, no way to get a shortcut. To do this live on camera could be crazy or brave. As Joni says, I know, :no one's going to show me everything
We all come and go unknown
Each so deep and superficial
Between the forceps and the stone" from Heijira, or as Matt Kahn says, "everything helps everything"
Thank you Aubrey for always sharing such real relatable content. SO happy youre here oxo
Aubrey didn't like her enough to give up other women, she eventually figured out that she was better off, they claim this is some kind of enlightened union when they just obscured the truth from themselves. Feel kind of sad listening to them try to justify it.
Lmao 😂
I agree 100%.I always felt listening tu I Aubrey that he was never totally happy with it. It felt like he was doi'g it for her and tried to justify it all the time
What a great story. Thank you both for sharing, from the bottom of my heart. The world needs to hear more stories like this.
Love you guys and everything yalll do. Looking forward to the next book.
Damn, this conversation is way too relatable.
People don’t make good slaves,but they don’t mind trying to own other people. People will always try to break free whether they’re conscious of it or not. This video was very helpful.
Great open talk of both of you. Much truth spoken. Thanks. And... Whitney is such a beautiful woman...
this was great thank you both for sharing openly and honestly- very helpful for those trying to navigate through all types of relationships :)
We see what and who you both are in truth. Thank you so much for being vulnerable and opening your relationship with the world... if anything following both of your journeys has inspired this page to come about
I just discovered Aubrey and his story. I don’t know what I was expecting from his ex, but this wasn’t it. I genuinely can’t see these two people ever being together.
Man I'm grateful for your podcast
Wow. This is such an honest open personal conversation. Relationships are hard. Good for you both being open to work through it - it's a tumultuous journey for sure. And GO mushrooms! Better living through Psilocybin! ...Anyhow, thank you so much for sharing. Awesome.
im sorry but everything about her, i mean all sorts oof stuff, but she just screams "extremely tight sphincter mode" but maybe thats just most people lol, idk, i mean, tense face, skin cmplexin stressed, hair on point to a T, eye brown plucked down to a point, hair line immaculate, extremely itchy sweater that she just doesnt notice cuz shes normally s stressed that full body itching doesnt even register lol, her demeanor tells me comforted guard. like she knows she doesnt have to be n guard, but is anyway, for whatever reason, i could have that wrong, or all of it, but thats just whats screaming off the screen and out of my speaker. first impression 20 seconds in, final impression leaving. not even to mentin the angle of her head when she talks. like, shes fac9ng intoo the howling wind. whether thats her own judging self projected on to aubrey or what, idk, but it looks lie shes defending herself or something. very interesting conversation btw, on many levels
Dude what r u? Hahahaha same thoughts tho
I agree. There’s no feminine flow of energy there...
It takes two to tango. How can this relationship be truly evaluated without removing the drugs? Thanks for sharing, you've demonstrated a lot of useful information that'll save a lot of time for others.
Wow you guys. Courageous talk. Thank you for your honest and open share on intimate (non)relationship-relationship GOLD. Relate to so much of this, and inspired by your bravery and authentic truths. Ya’ll are both beautiful souls and humans. Best to both of you ♥️🌼
This is so confusing to me.... I just watched a podcast yesterday from August 5th 2020 where Aubrey was with his wife and “this” very podcast was from January 2020.... I feel like the women in his life are destined for pain because of his perceived confusion but I have to be honest that it seems to me like manipulation with the intent of displaying it as confusion... I also think that he knows this and doesn’t like that piece of himself and the confusion comes from why he can’t stop this pattern
And today, they are no longer together. Makes so sad :(
I know Aubry met a person that he loves today but I can't help but wish these two were able to make it work.
I hope they are both happy today, regardless.
I’ve listened to your discussion. You’re so intelligent Aubrey, what are you saying? In the name of “honoring” no finality. You have one life Aubrey. What ever caused you to accept less than the entire committed love of that one person who honors you as the man you are. What message are you really sending? To settle....so sad for you.
Uh, he intiated their poly life, she was against it to begin with.. I respect poly life ppls but personally, I don't get it.. & now he's married & monogamous so..... 🤔
@@Silvermoonscorpion If that is the case then why does he say often ......”when I found out she was with someone else.”? As if he is all surprised.
@@pollyanna2645 because he didn't expect that she will actually do it...kinda like societal projection that its okay for a man to go ahead and do that and not acceptable for the woman
So much LOVE!! Thank you.
Aubrey just seems 100% genuine and she just doesn't to me.
I hope these two souls find their way and heal. They are both broken (as we all are in some way) and they are trying to look to the other to fix them..... or use psychedelics or sex to fix their issues. Seems to me they are so afraid to be vulnerable and are busying trying to protect themselves from any pain or suffering they may feel from being in a relationship.
Reality is...... life and relationships can be full of pain..... and we all have issues and traumas from our past that we must heal so we can accept and surrender to the unknown and enjoy true joy and happiness.
We are ALL vulnerable and you can choose to keep your heart closed and protect yourself or you can open your heart and be vulnerable...... and realize that you can get through anything. Be brave and believe in yourself, the answers are not outside yourself or in another individual.
If you have ever taken a psychedelic you would know how much more in your face the pain and trauma is
I love you both so much. Peace and respect! 🙏🏼💜
Thanks for keeping it real
If you want real and wise advice, why don’t you have an older post-menopausal woman on your podcast. Authenticity at it’s finest.
Thank you guys for sharing your story ✌️
Is this whitney miller who interview fighters after there fights? She's gorgeous? Are these two together? What a lucky guy! Good looking couple! Great video can definitely been where they have been.
what was the name of the psilocybin documentary aubrey mentioned? i cant find it and cant remember the name without listening to the podcast in its entirety again
Taylor Jean I think he was referring to Fantastic Fungi
ayhuwasca DMT
I aspire to be more like you both. You are both very evolved souls, and although I don’t know you personally, I feel like I do. Same goes for Rogan, Callen, Schaub, Theo, Cat, & even Chin😜. Aub, I’m going to Costa Rica to try Aya for the first time. I leave tmrw. I’m stoked and nervous lol. Many blessings 🙏❤️😎🤙
Rolly Fingers if you think they are evolved you need more than aya. He’s a billionaires kid. She’s lost
Wow...that was passive aggressive and mean when Whitney said she didn't remember when they had sex again......I felt his embarrassment and pain.....
Thank you both ❤️❤️
A beautiful discussion.
I want him to come over and cuddle me when I'm sick
I’m sorry but I don’t understand the masochistic pursuit of an open relationship when it causes pain, there is nothing grandiose about overcoming something self inflicted. The engagement is a prequel to a marriage which I believe to be a commitment which includes monogamy.thats fine if you don’t believe in monogamy but why start down that path?
trust love no matter what but after you sign that contract
Love the aubs 💕
He said it’s been 8 years since they had been intimate? I’m confusión
Whit 350z months I believe
@@katiie7 what?
8 years since they were first intimate
Why did I picture the laughing voice of the mushroom Joe Rogan? 🍄 😂
Also
This was beautiful and so insightful
Thanks for sharing your story
1:01:45 - 1:01:56 was genuinely the funniest interaction of the whole podcast.
Beautiful love story
This was an amazing conversation, so articulate ❤
How long take this break up?? This podcast motivated me to keep hope to me and my ex we can have reconciliation and than figure out our future... thanks guys for share this inspirational video god bless this return
A girl in the office showed me you. I guess she cared. Now I've totally fucked our friendship up now I really feel shit.
Man I was done when she started talking about her vomiting ... what are people on these days? Get outta here
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Am I wrong to assume that Audrey was never really in this...? I'm glad you are parting friends. The more I listen, this sounds like one person was never really committed. Correct me if I'm wrong, I'm on the outside looking in. Appreciate the rawness you both show, very courageous. Much respect!
@ZIggy Darling Wow! Just goes to show you, you can't make a person love and want to marry you.
Nope. Mr. up there started this..
Just as the other guest on his show Peter Crone says his not mother Theresa when his hsemate doesn't pay rent when he said he would, in a way there are things u can and cannot accept in another person, so to ask the other person to love u unconditionally is not common, means if u treat them like shit, if u cheat of them... Ur asking them to love u despite of all that... And I feel anyone in the right mind in favor of themselves won't chose that path unless ur super unique which would make one putting up with a those shits.... I think ppl have 2 options either love the other unconditionally putting up all the shit.. Or chose to leave and cut them off coz frankly they are jst another human, which ever quality u like in them... U can find it in yourself or others, u don't need to have scarcity mindset... U jst need to train urself..... Ppl are jst making things unnecessary complex... If that other person found so much in you, they won't be asking for open relationship.. Or maybe they feel restricted hence wants to be in open relationship.. Either way... It scream I don't want responsibility and commitment... In a way its not open relationship, it seems like the person are jst looking n seeking around while keeping a spare tire jst in case he or she can't find someone better rthan u... Then they have at least a spare tire to drive their car... Wake up people..
Whitney's voice sounds identical to Paige Vanzant's!
Death isn't the end
I just would like to know where did he buy this jacket 😂
this was so much BS. two lost people trying to give advice. Its sad really.
Interesting
Poor guy… has no idea.
Dope!
I've never seen a guy more in need of some pills.... You really need to understand one thing... Men love unconditionally... With women, their love is always conditional... Conditional on you making them feel safe and secure and provided for.... Once they feel this is no longer the case, she will seek out another man.... And remember, She is never yours, it's just your turn.
She will always be on the lookout for a higher value man... Sad but true.
Yikes
Someone is on the red pill.
Haha he’s talking about hypergamey. Not all women fall under that assumption
This is BS so why do men normally go for the younger and prettier woman. Men are always looking at the next hot body and if given the option will go and be with another woman. So guess who wanted an open relationship first. Whitney put up with him sleeping with other women for a while before she started doing her own thing remember that. Plus as human beings we all have conditions of course you're not gonna put up with certain things for long. The red pill movement is ridiculous. Everyone has conditions wake up men are just as guilty.
@@blackpanther-wr7mm ''Men normally go for the younger prettier woman''??? Where did you hear that? .. ''Men are always looking'' ?? What! ?? This comment is fuelled by emotion with no evidence at all behind it.
I ll bet Aubrey gets married and becomes monogamous
He did already
I know every human has their own preferences, but bigamy is forbidden for the reason in the US or what?
Whitney!!!♥️
You guys seem to be very open about your past relationship & certain details. But you seem very vague when it comes to exactly why you guys separated.
She also seems like she’s trying to be okay with certain things but she isn’t.