ASMR | Positive Affirmations & Whisper Ramble (Ear to Ear)
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Damn man, this stuff couldn’t have been easy to share. Huge respect to you for speaking about a darker time in your life. Glad it’s your past and you’re getting better.
Thank you for this, Bekah. You said some things I really needed to hear lately. When I was in my late teens I survived an attempt. I was rushed to the hospital and the doctor who diagnosed me with Bipolar II was a lifesaver. He sat me down, talked to me like an adult, and helped me see there was hope, that there are things we can do, and that this didn't have to be the end. He connected me to a therapist and it's really difficult to afford, but I try my best to see a professional when I can. My family handled it differently. My mom tried to sweep my mental illness under the rug and make sure nobody else knew about it, and I was yelled at for not taking care of this quietly and sooner on my own. Some of the people in my support system mocked me, were disappointed, or at best were incredulous as to how I could be depressed. I started learning to shut people out, to fear talking about my feelings with friends or family, and avoid seeing this kind of blowback ever again. But we need to talk about these things. This video reminds me that I'm not alone, and that I need to keep trying to communicate and get help. It's really difficult lately, but I'm still trying to hold on over here. Thank you again
Some things I want to make clear, Bekah:
1. As a fan of yours, I’m proud of you
2. Excellent video as always
3. You as always, look so cute and beautiful in the video
4. I’ll always be here in your channel, supporting you no matter what.
5. Whenever I feel tense, you seem to know it somehow and upload a video like just now. And by listening to this video I feel calm and relaxed. Thank you a lot, Bekah
Blown away by this video! I really enjoy your self-awareness, and listening to you speak reflectively. You offer wonderful perspective.
And I think I can speak for all of us when I say we're glad you're still here. You're so lovely. You're an enormously strong person, and as far as I'm concerned, ASMR royalty.
Lol thank you for the tingly goodness on top of everything else.
It seems like you always ask yourself what has utility and what doesn't. You've taken so much personal responsibility for your wellbeing, and it seems like you really encourage others to do the same. You've done this in spite of every negative thing that wasn't and isn't your fault. That is very powerful to me. One day, when I can, I want to live in a way that makes the suffering actually feel worth it.
You said to do what you have to do to find those little pieces of happiness. The videos you make have provided me with lots of those. Your affirmation videos, like this one, have also helped me maintain perspective and hold onto hope. I'm holding on, so thank you for continuing to hold on even when you wonder if it's worth it. I can't thank you enough for holding on. Thank you for your bravery and even using what you've learned from your suffering to help me through mine.
I will hold on with you. I promise.
"One day, when I can, I want to live in a way that makes the suffering actually feel worth it."
That summarizes the struggles many of us go through so well. I hate to give the suffering a sense of "worth", but when we reach that point where we are finally comfortable... we will cherish it so much more because of it.
@@sia9865 Thank you. :)
@@Sebastian-lz2gu Also, thank you. I'm glad what I said made some sense to you. :)
Roleplays can be great, but this wholesome stuff is always my favorite
That was the most powerful thing I've ever seen you post. Perhaps it's the most genuine, heartfelt, direct, honest thing you've ever produced. Even for those of us who may never have experienced this kind of trauma, it's just as important and powerful. And hearing you utter, "it will get better" sounds so real and so legitimate. Don't misunderstand me; I'm not trying to say that any of your past work was not quality work. It's just that this seems to be a pivot point in terms of your self-assurance and the influence and power you've drawn on from your own continuing life experience. I'm truly in awe of this Bekah. There is no question in my mind that you will reach whatever you set out for yourself, and that you will continue to seriously inspire others to find the answers they seek and the solutions for change that they crave. I'll stop here as I've run out of adjectives to better describe this so I'll leave you with a simple honest "thank you".
Okay, I feel I need to just get this off my chest . Thanks so much for this Bekah. Due to my own childhood trauma. It felt like I lost myself and became detached from reality which was a bit scary at first when I woke up to everything going on around me. But, with your and other peoples love and guidance I'm starting to adjust.I can see the light and it brings me hope.I have a deep love and respect everyone helping me and others out, I just don't know how to express it sometimes cause I'm still in a state of shock in awe at the moment. I'm personally not used to receiving so much love and empathy when in the past all I have felt is neglected,used, or betrayed.
People like you have really restored my faith in humanity and made me become really fond of people again.I can see the beauty in life and inspires me to want to be a better person .I know things will get better and i'll accomplish my dreams eventually; but, in the meantime I will just continue to hold on to you, learn from you, dream bigger and work toward my own aspirations so I can one day repay the favor.
With all that being said, please take good care of your self. Don't take on too many other peoples burdens unnecessarily that you become bogged down yourself .I wish you nothing but happiness cause you have a big heart and deserve all the positive energy and love your sending out returned to you. 💛💛💛
After hearing your story. I'm glad that you persevered and made it through. You are such an inspiring person that managed to go through a lot and managed to create a channel with content that has such high quality.
Thank you. I'm glad I survived and was able to see things get to where they are today.
Finding happiness in helping people out with psychiatric illnesses is the best thing one could achieve.
Thank you Bekah.
*You are one of the most Wholesome ASTOUNDINGLY GORGEOUS ASMRTISTS I HAVE EVER SEEN*
It's sad I relate to this but happy I do. Old scars create deeper understanding. Love you girl.
This was deep and something I've really need to hear for a long time now.I know that feeling of being stuck and always worrying that something bad is always on the horizon I still deal with it today.... But hearing your story really does inspire me bekha and your ASMR helps me out alot. I'm so glad your hear and like you say it will get better eventually we just have to make it there
I'm very proud of you, Rebekah. I'm glad you persevered and made it through. ❤️ This must've have been easy to share... I love you so much. 🤗💕
Early Squad, checking in! Please Positively Ramble me to sleep. Thank you. *
12:00 ish - I feel that. Sometimes it's hard for those who haven't gone through it to understand, but just because I'm not still there, with those people, doesn't mean they're not still here with me. It's been more than a decade and I still hear her voice in my head on my worst days. Thank you for sharing this, and I'm glad to hear you're making progress. May you know happiness and peace one day, soon.
Your ASMR fans love you so much, we love you a lot and thank you so much for sharing. I felt like I could relate to so much of what you were saying and I could feel your pain in my heart because I’ve felt similar pain myself. You’re just simply amazing, I hope that one day all your old scars fully heal and that you truly feel at peace with everything. Thanks again for this video!
Ikr
☺️☺️☺️ i really like the rambling and affirmations!! i love this type of asmr but not many do it anymore
Just when I think it’s all just too much to handle, that the journey to wellness will go on forever, I come across this and find the motivation I needed. Thank you for sharing your courage and inspiration.
4 years later I'm still going back to your affirmations videos. Thank you so much for sharing your experiences and it just makes everything feel so much more raw and honest.
00:15 Your eyes so cute 😍😍😍, i love Rebekah excelent video
yep
It’s interesting how videos such as these simulate an intimate experience between strangers that feels genuine. I feel like you’re someone I have a close connection with, yet we don’t know each other in the least.
Kudos to you Bekah for being honest and opening up! You’ve been through a lot over the years! It’s in the past now and you’re a better person because of it. Thank you for this! You’re talking about things that I really needed to hear. I’m happy you’re still around. You’re beautiful and wholesome and you should never forget that!
Y’all are gonna think I’m weird but I personally think her outfit would be very soft and light to wear, I like it!
You are an absolute inspiration and such an uplifting force in our lives thank you!!!
Wow.. this hits pretty close to home for me. im also just now trying to take back control from the demons of my past
yes, many people go through life like this, i like to think to myself things like:
“don’t dwell on the past because it’s the one thing you can’t change”
“think about how you can make your great future an great past”
“always find the positive”
“don’t let it bother you, it’s not important”
things like these are what i tell myself now, last year was horrible but this year will be different. you said things well and i’ve learned more from this as well, thank you, i appreciate it. hope ur ok.
It was a rough day at work. I needed this.
Wow that got deep. Like damn! I have totally been in that dark place to. It sucks... Like a lot. respect for sharing this girl, glad your here and you've helped so many people sleep and with anxiety.
I love that you're paying for the therapy and sharing the love and insights. Thank you.
00:15 the eye cross lol also I love ur videos you are the best
My favorite ASMR creator, and one of my favorite video ideas. Perfection. Time to relax now.
Edit: Watched this whole video and wanted to say that you're so amazing Bekah. Thank you for being an inspiration and continuing to fight even after everything.
basically I have a double ear infection and I was watching this and it cured both my ears!!😁 thnkx bekah
I'm no stranger to pain. I respect you for this.
Most real, most vulnerable, most moving. We try to be strong by not talking - Funny how strength is built thru things like humble sharing. We all need to hear how valuable we are. The world prefers to blame and shame, but we need this message that in essence says you (we) are worthy. Proud of you for sharing. Thinking about what I blame myself for. Praying about all this bc that's what I know. Praying that strength grows from here.
Ive been feeling down alot lately. My depression has gotten worse since my ex left.
Sorry to hear that! I hope you feel better 😔👍
I hope you feel better soon. Life has its ups and its downs. Sometimes those downs feel like they're more than you can handle, but you have to persevere through it and remember that things will get better. It's just a matter of time.
I'm so sorry to hear that! But always remember that you are strong and that you CAN get through this! It's not gonna be easy but just take it easy everyday and know that you are amazing and don't forget to always keep a smile on your face no matter what😁 you can do this girl! I hope everything gets better😊💓
@@brooklyncorrell3214 thx
La vida es maravillosa, Salinas.
Thank you for this... I really really needed it! You don't know how much I appreciate your brave for speak about your experience. It is something I've been through this days and it's so touching to hear every single word you are saying. Thank you!
Wow . This relaxed me so much and got lot of tingles. You and Leah whispers ASMR are my favorite. Thanks :)
I am so glad you're still here today because you wouldn't have been helping people calm down and sleep. I tried when I was 17 after I watch my dad die when I was 12 and I suppressed my emotions and they diagnosed me with depression and bi polar. You're a very courageous and one of a kind human, thank you truly thank you.
This is great stuff - you're doing good work here. If anyone is struggling the it's definately worth facing it, I recently finished a course of CBT because I wasn't operating at my best. It took the longest time to reach out for help as I always felt showing it was weakness, I couldn't have been further from the truth. Ultimately you can never truly be at your best unless you're willing to work on it, part of that is identifying when you need to trust yourself in others and focus on making you the best you that you can be, even mentally. Just keep fighting that good fight - you've survived 100% of your worst days so far.
One of my all-time favorite types of ASMR videos (pure whispering, some what breathy), about a very relatable topic, coming from one of my all-time favorite ASMRtists. This is just what the doctor ordered today. Thank you. I love your videos, I admire you as a person, and I'm very grateful for the work you put into these videos, and for being who you are.
This is such an inspirational video. As someone who also struggles with depression it is very calming and moving to hear you share your story and reinforce us with these positive words. 💖💖
S**t happens.
Nobody deserves to be hit by the s**t.
The only person who knows how the s**t hurts, is ourselves.
Time heals all, only if we try to heal ourselves.
Thank-you Rebekah for sharing with us your road to healing.
May your scars fade, and you find internal peace.
A wise woman told me, "It's going to be okay."
You should be very proud of yourself :D You are a very calm, confident, beautiful, feminine, successful person. You're one of the few most successful ASMR artists, and your videos bless a lot of lives. I saw a few videos of you from when you were younger, and you seemed kind of kookie and erratic. Now you are a paragon of normalcy, and somehow look younger too?! You should get a gold medal for turning your life around
*whispers in left ear*. Left ramble *goes to right ear* , Right ramble
Thanks for sharing your story in such a heartfelt way. I can relate to much of what you said and your affirmations are so helpful. I really needed to hear this. I love all of your works, but this one is really special.
Thanks for sharing with us. There is a fence that separate us and shame us sometimes going to the bottom is the only way to see it. And then talking, sharing, and with compassion, we can see that every each of us has this fence, and many times those who cannot feel compassion are just running away of their feelings and don't want to look inside them, don't want to accept that this fence exist.
Thanks, I really feel you are doing something very very important, you and many people are showing the path away from shame and into compassion, and showing us what is important and what not.
I'm really glad you made this, as I have been mentally recovering from a situation I was put through in college recently. Hearing you talk about your situation really helped me think more about my own, and how I can hopefully start forgiving myself and moving on with the help of freinds and family. Thank you so much, you've really helped ease my mind.
You will always have my undying support and love, because you are the amazing.
You're so brave, honest and courageous! Thank you for using your own experiences to help others and for never giving up because you bring so much hope and comfort to so many people! Sending lots of love and positivity your way xxx 💜🌈
I have actually just recently integrated very similar lessons like this into my life as well. Said lessons have been very, very similar to the epiphanies you're describing in this video and I'm so happy to know that others are figuring these things out as well. You are discovering your gifts and your worth and are helping others to wake up and discover theirs too. You are doing amazingly good work and we all are blessed to have you (and others doing similar work) You got this. We got this. You're awesome. We're awesome. Have a great day and experience of life, Bekah :)
im so proud of you for sharing all of this. you have helped me so much with all of the stuff I've been going through. life is awful sometimes so I'm glad you're here to help. love you
Awesome video! I watched a bunch of your old videos recently I don’t think I ever watched a video of yours I didn’t like :)
There are thousands of people, Bekah, who are better because you are here. I feel for your struggles and wish you more happiness...but your life is already shining light into the lives of your viewers in ways you cannot know. Keep fighting and know you are loved.
Lástima que solo esté subtitulado al Español hasta el 11:36, quería enterarme de todo lo que hablaste. Saludos.
What!? Now wait a minute Beks I don't remember giving you permission to download my thoughts how dare you! How the flip did you know I wanted an order of whispering rambles with a side of positive affirmations?? Madness I tells ya madness I swear you have super powers or something haha! I always like it how whenever you tell me it's gonna be okay it always is, even if my day or week sucks you say everythings gonna be okay and then it magically is in the end like wow dude! :D
Great video Rebecca!!😁😁 I have been in this same position and I have survived 2 attempted overdose suicides and what should have been a lethal blood infection. Not to mention 3 rollover car accidents. I have survived 7 near death experiences and I am finally getting the help I need and this video was what I needed to see
I was captivated the entire video. I’ve been going through a somewhat similar experience. I tried and failed as well and am glad to have survived. It is hard. Mental illness sucks at times. This gave me some hope. You’re a great person. Thanks for this. 😊
Rebekah’s voice is as relaxing and tingly as gentle whispering Maria and way better than asmr darling and gibi. I still can’t figure out why she has less subscribers than them..
So many positive,intelligent thoughts in this video ... I’m sure you have helped many ppl that needed to hear exactly what you were saying... that may be going through or have gone through similar situations.... I hope you feel truly awesome... knowing you are a ray of light for others in a dark place ..... keep being you..... you are an insanely kind soul and Beautiful mind. 👍👍👍
After a big time in 6th grade class I need this
thank you so much for sharing your experiences. i MIGHT have cried a little lol. therapy saved my life. i discovered helping other people to heal actually helped ME heal. it's a work in progress. you are amazing
Heya Bekah, I was listening to this last night in bed and wanted to comment but of course I fell asleep and wasn't about to start typing a whole thing out on my phone.
Been probably the most depressed i've ever been lately. Things seem like they just aren't working out. Feel like the time has passed on many things and i've missed my chance now. Thirty two and like you feel held back by things that happened in my childhood. My trauma was more medically related (cancer, twice), and it sucks it was just a roll of the dice thing. I feel like i've never been able to catch up socially or professionally. I'm stubborn and I try, but it feels like failure is all I meet with and every time it gets harder and harder to deal with. A year or two ago I started seeing a therapist and she helped me get to a point where I thought I could go at it on my own, but now I feel like I need to start going again as i'm only in a marginally better position... but more lonely.
I'm a bit ashamed to say i've been listening to asmr for a long time now, but only recently have been watching your videos. Many people in the comments, you, and me are all in similar mental states... and we'll all get there eventually.
I've been following your RUclips channel for a while. And I have to say I'm so proud of you for having the courage to be so open in your videos like this. You really do inspire me, as well as help me get to sleep. :) Great video. I'm happy you're doing better! You made a lot of good points that I actually have to sit down myself and think about it my life. Thank you Bekah!
I’m currently processing trauma from years of holding it in, this helped me in my coping journey. Thank you so much, it’s been very difficult for me.
I really needed this video today. Thank you for making this one. ❤️
It might not mean much coming from a stranger but I'm glad that you failed. I'm glad you're still here
Just watched finished watching this.
How was it?
I dunno.
Fell asleep...
Did the job then 😅
@@softlygaloshes As ever
I can’t describe the impact you have had on my life and the love I will forever have for you. You have taken your lack of home and given us all a home through your videos. You are not just beautiful but a magical person. With that being said, I understand the dark place that makes you forget these things...and it’s okay. Forgive yourself for even that darkness and be free to be the beautiful person you are. 🙏
your just soo amazing u help me get through so much and i just get so relaxed when im deppresed and i watch ur videos
I really needed this tonight. Thank you so much for sharing you thoughts and struggles. I started crying around 16:00, I really needed to hear all this. This is all very relevant to me right now. Thank you
I wanna hug her 😭
my spring 2017 memories are filled with replaying your mental health videos (also some layered sounds with random phrases). it was the first time i had felt so understood and comforted and validated for feeling the way i did. one video had a galaxy background talking about existence and everything just felt larger than life. i remember that time because i had attempted suicide. im still struggling but thanks for doing your best in your corner of the world, wishing you happiness
Thanks for sharing, I feel like knowing that others have been through similar things and recovery is slow for all of us, somehow it just helps.
Haven't watched a video from you for a year... Back to basics. I love it. ❤️
Beautifulgaloshes
Yep, fear is a very healthy and big factor in life. Failure is the way forward, do not be afraid to make mistakes, and don't be afraid to take a break if you need to as well. Love your vids Bekah ^_^ :D
Great vid as always ❤
Thankyou I wasn't feeling good tonight this is helping 💞
I know it's sort of odd, but I love you Bekah. You just have always struck me as such a good person, even if you haven't always thought so yourself. If I knew you in person I'd very happily be a supportive friend to help you avoid those lonely times -- I know exactly how it is, I sometimes get overwhelmed when I'm alone, which recently has been most of the time. I have a couple friends I'll reach out to and in turn I'll to my best to help them when they need it.
Life can just be really hard, and my personal feeling is that it's because it's sort of meant to be, by those who would use us up for their own ends and who don't really care what that does to our mental health. And then if you have some genuinely negative, toxic, or abusive person(s) in your life it just becomes so much worse. So it really is up to us to help one another, when we can. I've been incredibly close to ending things myself, but I've been pulled away from that by someone else being in pain and so... I shouldered my own pain and then reached out a hand to help the person I cared about. It didn't make things better, but that pause caused me to reconsider things. I'm not sure if things will really get better for me -- right now there's some good hope that things will -- but I figure that I can put up with suffering if can help other people through theirs. I still have bad days... but I've pulled through so far. And most of all I just don't want others to hurt if I can help them in some way.
Anyway, love you and thank you for sharing, and for doing your best to help others. We are all stronger together... and hopefully in the near future there will be systemic change so that professional help is easier to get and being open about mental health is accepted.
I'm late to this, but I will hold on with you like an eccentric tarsier.
For what it's worth, I get my tingles reactivated every single time to just your videos, and fall asleep on every Tingle Quest. I forget to save.
Sincerely, thanks for doing these things. Thank you for being here.
This was really inspiring for me, it really hit home. Quite moving. Thank you for being so honest.
Declaro el día de softly, inaugurada!!!
Amazing people like you give me hope that people do care about each other. I hope you know how strong you are for getting through those hellish times. I wish I could give you a hug so frickin much!!! I’m glad you’re here and I know you’re telling us we’re gonna be okay, but I hope you know the same applies to you. Change is hard but we’ll always be here for you. I hope you find peace and happiness in your personal life. You may feel alone at times but we’ll always be here. You make a difference. You matter. Not just to us but as a person. You’re a beautiful, gentle gal and anyone who knows you personally should know how lucky they are to have you in their life. Much love to you from you ASMR family
These videos are very helpful and i appreciate that you make them.
You know what I don't care what anyone says whisper rambles are 1 of my favorite videos from you, the individual behind the tingles is as equally as important to me as the sounds they make. How else am I going to trust someone telling me it will be okay and believe them if I'm not really sure if they're even "real life" or not? I mean I can always assume but...actually I'd rather not do that at all if I can help it, anyway this was a BLAST! It's always great to have videos like these where you're basically just hanging out with the viewer and making em feel safe at the same time! As always I'll see ya right back here for the next video which I think will be a spanish one, until then take care dude haha. :) (P.S that thumbnail makes me think I did something, like a "I know what you did last night" type of thing it's funny haha)
I’m glad you made this video. I wish I could say more but I don’t think I could put it into words.
Thank you for making this video. It was definitely needed. You're the best. Luv u :)
I actually needed this. Thank you so much for this. I love this so much
Great ASMR, amazing. You are an extraordinary woman!!
Sometimes you are the only thing that gets me to put one foot in front of the other. Thank you so much.
Es genial que tengas subtítulos en español e inglés en todos tus vídeos, es algo pequeño, pero pienso que aumenta la calidad de los videos :)
YES THANK YOU BECCA !
Respect to you for sharing this, especially since there's a lot of viewers who probably need to hear from your perspective. That side of us that we have that wants to die, we need to let it die so we can become people who can not only live in this world but also thrive in it. Keep up the great work, you are an outstanding asmrist and a survivor.
Really needed something like this today, not been feeling the best. Thanks Bekah.
So proud of momma galoshes
Also that ending.. it got me. Hold on with me, don't let go.
After reading some comments I feel a bit bad about turning the volume down so much that this turns into unintelligible rambling, but let me tell you that it was really soothing thar way. You are looking great btw. 👍
Bekah, just know that you are an absolute queen! 🙏🏻
I am glad you are doing better now, we really enjoy your videos
Wow 👏 thank you for putting this out there 💜