just started my a levels, and, as I predicted, I'm planning on using all the sci guys episodes applicable for around 50% of my knowledge/understanding💀this episode has helped so much for attachment theory !!
All I'm hearing is we should have more paid parental leave so that our babies and young children grow up with better attachment styles. also, this episode was wonderful, entertaining, and informative, as always! thanks for all the effort you put into these! :)
I could definitely distinguish my daughter's cry from others right away. I woke up in the hospital because she was crying in the hallway (they were bringing her to me), but didn't wake up to any other baby. My best friend had her son a week later and we could both tell who's was crying when we were together.
Fascinating to hear that people think attachment style relates to caregivers in childhood. all the tests I have taken show that I have a secure attachment style (which surprised me, but I didn't think I related much to any of the types to be fair) which couldn't have been more opposite of my childhood caregivers (negligence, abuse, and anger were common, I didn't trust any adults until long after childhood was over). I would conclude that the development of the attachment style is more about who you're letting into your life influencing what kind of style you have - that the people you choose to engage in a relationship with (friends, family, love interests) make more of an impact than relationships you didn't choose to have (early caregivers, teachers, neighbors maybe idk), because when you choose to try to maintain a relationship, you're (trying to) learn new ways to communicate, adapt, express and process. Hope that wasn't too rambley lol
I wish you'd talked more about how the anxious reluctant attachment style forms; like what kind of parenting leads to that. It seemed like you touched on that for all the other types, but not this one. Thinking about it, I'm not sure you talked much about that one in relationships either.
My childhood attachment style was anxious-avoidant or chaotic, not sure which one. Attachment styles have been part of my trauma therapy and they really have helped me to understand my childhood better. Luckily nowdays I have a wonderful partner who has helped me so much to work on a bit more secure attachment style. Happy to hear though that secure attachment seems to be the most common one around the world. That gives a lot of hope! Excellent episode as always, thank you!
This is definitely a good intro to attachment style science, but I was hoping you'd cover any newer research on it. In this older research, a lot of it results in "your attachment style cannot change, if you weren't raised into secure attachment you're screwed". But remember! The people this research is on is baby boomers and X-ers! It's really only millennials and younger generations that are peer pressured into therapy and working on new language with the goal of being better for mental health, etc. I hypothesize (without having looked into newer research) that we can absolutely change our attachment styles towards becoming secure, we just need a bunch of therapy and good community.
I really don't understand why you guys cannot resist making harry potter comparison in your videos, every single time I try to get back into your stuff its there.
corry and noah remind me of me and my bf except theyre more capable of resisting the urge to publicly flirt than i am (my toxic trait im sorry friends esp since i hate other people's pda im a hypocrite)
35:12 My mum took me to the toilet with her when I was a baby. She's told me that, and that she was always with me. I don't know about me, but my mum was extremely clingy when I was a baby haha!
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What's your attachment style?
Avoidant type😭
Here to find out
avoidant (or perhaps just autistic)
anxious :3
God knows :D
just started my a levels, and, as I predicted, I'm planning on using all the sci guys episodes applicable for around 50% of my knowledge/understanding💀this episode has helped so much for attachment theory !!
I'm training to be a counsellor and I know we have an assignment on this topic coming up, so thank you YOU'RE ABT TO SAVE MY ASS
All I'm hearing is we should have more paid parental leave so that our babies and young children grow up with better attachment styles. also, this episode was wonderful, entertaining, and informative, as always! thanks for all the effort you put into these! :)
I could definitely distinguish my daughter's cry from others right away. I woke up in the hospital because she was crying in the hallway (they were bringing her to me), but didn't wake up to any other baby.
My best friend had her son a week later and we could both tell who's was crying when we were together.
Fascinating to hear that people think attachment style relates to caregivers in childhood. all the tests I have taken show that I have a secure attachment style (which surprised me, but I didn't think I related much to any of the types to be fair) which couldn't have been more opposite of my childhood caregivers (negligence, abuse, and anger were common, I didn't trust any adults until long after childhood was over).
I would conclude that the development of the attachment style is more about who you're letting into your life influencing what kind of style you have - that the people you choose to engage in a relationship with (friends, family, love interests) make more of an impact than relationships you didn't choose to have (early caregivers, teachers, neighbors maybe idk), because when you choose to try to maintain a relationship, you're (trying to) learn new ways to communicate, adapt, express and process.
Hope that wasn't too rambley lol
I wish you'd talked more about how the anxious reluctant attachment style forms; like what kind of parenting leads to that. It seemed like you touched on that for all the other types, but not this one. Thinking about it, I'm not sure you talked much about that one in relationships either.
Corry: *quiet boyfriend voice* I was trying to protect your emotions!
Noah: *immediately protesting* MY EMOTIONS ARE FINE 🙃
My childhood attachment style was anxious-avoidant or chaotic, not sure which one. Attachment styles have been part of my trauma therapy and they really have helped me to understand my childhood better.
Luckily nowdays I have a wonderful partner who has helped me so much to work on a bit more secure attachment style.
Happy to hear though that secure attachment seems to be the most common one around the world. That gives a lot of hope!
Excellent episode as always, thank you!
This is definitely a good intro to attachment style science, but I was hoping you'd cover any newer research on it. In this older research, a lot of it results in "your attachment style cannot change, if you weren't raised into secure attachment you're screwed". But remember! The people this research is on is baby boomers and X-ers! It's really only millennials and younger generations that are peer pressured into therapy and working on new language with the goal of being better for mental health, etc. I hypothesize (without having looked into newer research) that we can absolutely change our attachment styles towards becoming secure, we just need a bunch of therapy and good community.
I‘m not even at a fourth of this episode and so much of my childhood behaviour is suddenly making sense to me 😢
I really don't understand why you guys cannot resist making harry potter comparison in your videos, every single time I try to get back into your stuff its there.
It’s not that we “cannot resist” it’s that there’s no real reason not to? It’s not harmful to trans people to mention Harry Potter as a concept.
I just learned about this in my psychology class so thanks for explaining it in a more accessible way :)
Great episode, thanks!
corry and noah remind me of me and my bf except theyre more capable of resisting the urge to publicly flirt than i am (my toxic trait im sorry friends esp since i hate other people's pda im a hypocrite)
35:12 My mum took me to the toilet with her when I was a baby. She's told me that, and that she was always with me. I don't know about me, but my mum was extremely clingy when I was a baby haha!
this ep too good so im watching it again 5 days later
Ok wow just saw your merch link and I couldn't like it more lol. Just call me a normal citizen lol
I love this show !!
The tension in the room is really distracting mend thing on set so we know your all good…
1:04:09 is he okay
Reptiles aren’t mammals either.