I Hired a Mental Coach

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  • Опубликовано: 22 авг 2024
  • It is no surprise that I struggle mentally on the golf course...so I hired a mental coach. We have done a lot of classroom work, so it was time to move to the course and put it into practice.
    Mental Coach: Ben Carnes with Mental Training Plan
    www.mentaltrai...
    Course: Broadmoor CC in Indianapolis, IN

Комментарии • 95

  • @ryang1910
    @ryang1910 Месяц назад +1

    God wants us to have confidence. Confidence isn’t pride. Pride is simply believing you are the source of the good things.
    Being humble doesn’t mean lacking confidence.
    Thanks for the video

  • @Philipo49
    @Philipo49 2 месяца назад +10

    Imagine the work this guy would have to put in to fix Sabrina’s craziness 😂

    • @seanbaines
      @seanbaines Месяц назад

      Lol. But seriously, different approach. He'd work with the nervous energy, because it isn't going away.
      Actually, Sabrina has a mental coach video up as well. It's very interesting. Worth a look.

  • @Cardroid
    @Cardroid Месяц назад +2

    You're so fun to watch cuz you make golf light hearted and fun. I watch GGG just so I can hear your giggle.. keep up the great work!!

  • @benreno4414
    @benreno4414 2 месяца назад +2

    Ton of value in this video for anyone who plays, but especially for those who play competitively. If I were a coach I'd be making every one of my players watch this.

  • @joeidaho5938
    @joeidaho5938 8 часов назад

    I play ice hockey....and the discussion about mentality really fits. You can't play nice...and be a good player. Doesn't mean you have to be nasty.....but you do have to be ferocious in the playing....and no holds barred, in regard to the effort to achieve the end goal.....scoring....whether in golf or hockey.

  • @brianbohannon3785
    @brianbohannon3785 2 месяца назад +3

    Cailyn congratulations on your Number 1 spot in this month's Golf Monthly article. This video is an example of why you're the best! I love your content!!

  • @shanewilliams1216
    @shanewilliams1216 2 месяца назад +4

    Cailyn you have SO MUCH game and you talk DOWN on yourself it truly gets in the way of your game !
    So glad you are doing this and become the FULL talented golfer you truly are !!!!

  • @stuartholmes6262
    @stuartholmes6262 2 месяца назад

    Even when you heard the comments he was making for the drill, you remained focused and in your zone. Valuable practice for the multitude of distractions both youtube and pro golf will bring you.
    This was really interesting and brave of you. Loving your work Cailyn.

  • @russellmiller9033
    @russellmiller9033 12 дней назад

    This just might be the best golfing⛳️ video I've ever watched ❤🎉😢😮😅

  • @ItsBugsy
    @ItsBugsy 2 месяца назад +1

    Here from BDS x Callaway video 🙌

    • @chendogolf
      @chendogolf  2 месяца назад +3

      Oh God bless you….I’m not sure I can even watch that video my golf was so bad hahahaha

  • @jdwhitcraft1533
    @jdwhitcraft1533 2 месяца назад +2

    Great video!!! I love your giggle and sense of humor and don't tell anyone, but you're my favorite on GGG....shhhhhhh....lol

  • @matthewwalters9980
    @matthewwalters9980 2 месяца назад +1

    Maybe the best energy and laugh in the game. She just seems so genuine.

  • @markrussellfilaroski5035
    @markrussellfilaroski5035 2 месяца назад +2

    Your swing is so solid! - Like Austin Powers would say, "just keep grooving it" - I have no doubt with all the golf you are playing you will have some great scoring rounds this summer. Keep up the great work.

  • @kevinjohnston994
    @kevinjohnston994 2 месяца назад +1

    Love your hat Chendo keep grinding and you will accomplish whatever you have your mind set to 😄

  • @vstrom4life
    @vstrom4life 2 месяца назад +1

    Lord, I sure needed that today. Sometimes golf blows my mind. Sometimes a psychiatrist is needed too! I love golf but sometimes it treats me pretty bad! Love your channel!

  • @the_danhell
    @the_danhell 2 месяца назад +1

    Holy cow, this video is so beyond helpful. I’m new to golf, but am a very athletic individual, work in the fitness industry, and struggle SO hard with the mental aspect of the game, since I’m generally a person who knows how to move my body, and I’m super result oriented. It’s so awesome to see your coach talking through all this stuff that goes on in probably everyone’s heads at some point in the course, and how to pivot and navigate around that language, it’s so so helpful. Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @user-yk3sz2vu5u
    @user-yk3sz2vu5u 2 месяца назад

    Cailyn your marvellous i have a big smile ☺ watching you play in a nice way great coach can't wait for the next video mental coach and cailyn ❤😊

  • @jackgill2501
    @jackgill2501 2 месяца назад

    Well, I guess spell check got me! Good morning Cailyn!

  • @seanbaines
    @seanbaines Месяц назад

    Very good video. Very educational, including on a personal level. I had some takeaways for my own approach.
    Your body language was much different than the GGG by the end. More relaxed, more calm, more centred, more in control. Loved seeing that for you.
    Woof!

  • @wkndwarrior4733
    @wkndwarrior4733 2 месяца назад +1

    I do love the video and aspect of mental training so don’t hate what I’m going to say. Too many steps before hitting it can be troublesome I think. It’s going to vary for different shots. Like some putts you really need to be focused solely on a vision of the line, slope, grain etc. seeing ball in hole. Too many thoughts or boxes to check will cause you to check out on the shot. It works on shots like driver because you have so much room for error you are just trying to hit a window. But for putting, you need to be one with the putt. A short, straight putt that you be nervous about missing, yes breathing may help there. Some shots you just need to be able to mentally say I got this, step up and hit the shot you know you can hit. It’s like a positive feeling in your body. All the steps are trying to override negative feelings which is also useful at times

    • @chendogolf
      @chendogolf  2 месяца назад +5

      100000000% agree with you!!!! Mental training and breathing is important, but at the end of the day you need to practice and know you can perform certain shots

    • @keernhaslem1845
      @keernhaslem1845 2 месяца назад

      It feels like the confidence on a pitch shot would be great to have on a mid iron in a cross wind, into a narrow green

    • @wkndwarrior4733
      @wkndwarrior4733 2 месяца назад

      @@chendogolf love the process! Good luck in upcoming tournaments!! It’s all going to come together 👏

  • @jakehawke8196
    @jakehawke8196 2 месяца назад +2

    Each shot is just a puzzle to solve.

  • @robertsmith4520
    @robertsmith4520 Месяц назад

    This line of thought is fantastic for life in general, fantastic video thanks.

  • @MissySkis
    @MissySkis 2 месяца назад

    Fabulous coaching, thank you for sharing!

  • @keernhaslem1845
    @keernhaslem1845 2 месяца назад

    That punch out motion on the third hole was so smooth, so present…

  • @keernhaslem1845
    @keernhaslem1845 2 месяца назад

    I cannot overstate how valuable this video is

  • @jackgill2501
    @jackgill2501 2 месяца назад

    Calling, good morning!
    I really enjoyed this; you are an absolutely a great golfer.
    Golf is such a head game and having a coach is a good thing. You have the best personality and laugh, it would be fun to watch you in person! Take care, have a great Friday, weekend and safe travels.

  • @scottpalmer1023
    @scottpalmer1023 2 месяца назад

    Watched it and immediately started watching it a second time. Thank you for creating and sharing.

  • @jasonbeisel6681
    @jasonbeisel6681 2 месяца назад

    Such a great laugh!🙂

  • @jackcohen2563
    @jackcohen2563 2 месяца назад

    that was a great video vlog ty ,for giving me some things to think about

  • @toupochur2678
    @toupochur2678 2 месяца назад

    Oh my goodness. You are such a riot. 😂❤😊

  • @TheRqbsinger
    @TheRqbsinger 2 месяца назад

    Thanks for being so vulnerable about the weakness in your game.

  • @MeetGolferDave
    @MeetGolferDave 2 месяца назад +1

    Such a great video, so much positive information, I can add to my personal game. Great job, Cailyn.

  • @keernhaslem1845
    @keernhaslem1845 2 месяца назад

    Good job Coach

  • @p.scottrice8235
    @p.scottrice8235 2 месяца назад

    Always love your videos. Once someone learns the basics of the swing, the mental game becomes more important IMHO. Keep up the videos!!

  • @russellmiller9033
    @russellmiller9033 12 дней назад

    I love that golf ⛳️ course 🎉❤😮😅

  • @1uncheels
    @1uncheels 2 месяца назад

    Watching the video of your tournament round. The pre- and post-shot discussions and process were very different and all about mechanics and results. This video will help ME and you.

  • @dennisyamasaki6830
    @dennisyamasaki6830 2 месяца назад

    I enjoyed this on many levels. The coaching is eye opening. Your interaction with your coach is cute and I love your wholesome reactions. I feel like you're going to become so awesome. Go for it Cailyn!

  • @sfmgolf
    @sfmgolf 2 месяца назад

    Love this Cailyn! I’m
    Going to use this for my game! Been struggling mentally. Your coach was great! Thank you both!

  • @shakysenior
    @shakysenior 2 месяца назад

    Really enjoyed that. Different approach to the normal golf nine hole knock (not that there’s anything wrong with them).

  • @morganbelveal
    @morganbelveal 2 месяца назад

    This is my favorite golf video! This was incredible 😍

  • @5musicman
    @5musicman 2 месяца назад

    Excellent video. I feel in the Golf Girl Games that you get out of your routine and get a little bit rushed sometimes. I get the fact that the GGG is for entertainment and fun , but all of you are competitors and have been for a long time and that will always be there with you. Now hopefully the next time I go out and play golf , I can put some of these things into practice in my own game. Thank you for doing this video.

  • @ajh21313
    @ajh21313 2 месяца назад +2

    God and Golf... That's all we need.

  • @jeffyost126
    @jeffyost126 2 месяца назад

    Thank you! This was by far the most useful sports video I have ever seen on YT. Well done...hope you achieve your golf goals.

  • @rykov813
    @rykov813 2 месяца назад

    "Oh Yeah, like try to roast me" hahaha

  • @larriedoliveira1175
    @larriedoliveira1175 2 месяца назад

    I really like the new approach to the game. I think you will get much better mentally 😊

  • @jonbradshaw1933
    @jonbradshaw1933 27 дней назад

    Best laugh on RUclips

  • @billgoble6209
    @billgoble6209 2 месяца назад

    Very educational video, I wish I had seen it years ago. It will be interesting to see how you can apply this to GGG with all of the distractions in that format. And also, your laugh makes me smile every time I hear it. Keep the content coming.

  • @laurasplicer712
    @laurasplicer712 2 месяца назад +1

    Mental game is so important. Playing confidence golf is just as important hitting mutiple golf balls..brain is giant chemical sponge and fine tuning it makes difference in end not the type of equipment a person uses as is marketed on tv..

  • @EL-mi1jc
    @EL-mi1jc 2 месяца назад

    You have such a great personality!

  • @edwardfoster6367
    @edwardfoster6367 2 месяца назад

    This was wonderful! Thank you both!

  • @paulhymel4765
    @paulhymel4765 2 месяца назад

    You got this...
    Hope you can apply these to provide you with the mental strength and calmness you desire...
    Joshua 1:9
    Psalm 37:5
    Psalm 56:3
    Proverbs 3:5
    Luke 12:28-31
    Philipians 4:3
    Phillipians 4:6
    2 Timothy 1:7
    James 1:4
    James 4:10
    1 Peter 5:7

  • @melvinschrock1998
    @melvinschrock1998 2 месяца назад

    Cailyn this was so awesome 👌

  • @mattg.7379
    @mattg.7379 2 месяца назад

    I think you are doing an excellent job focusing on the process of your pre-shot routine Cailyn. I like the fact that you are visualizing shots and reminding yourself that you are a capable player before each shot. I especially liked the segment where your coach tried to distract you. You remained focused on your pre-shot routine and you didn't let it bother you.
    (KJV 1 Corinthians 2:16) "For who hath known the mind of the Lord, that he may instruct him? But we have the mind of Christ."
    (KJV John 16:13-15) "Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth, is come, he will guide you into all truth: for he shall not speak of himself; but whatsoever he shall hear, that shall he speak: and he will shew you things to come. He shall glorify me: for he shall receive of mine, and shall shew it unto you. All things that the Father hath are mine: therefore said I, that he shall take of mine, and shall shew it unto you."

  • @lazercod
    @lazercod 2 месяца назад

    What a great video. We all can learn from this! Thank you!

  • @DougHitty
    @DougHitty 3 дня назад

    Remember, fear knocks Faith answers, and no one there

  • @marque2127
    @marque2127 2 месяца назад

    Cailyn, thank you for this video. I learned a lot today.

  • @gagefitzpatrick3853
    @gagefitzpatrick3853 2 месяца назад

    Loving the video so far. Had to stop to ask, what is a "go-to statement"? I googled "go-to statement psychology" and found like... computer programming stuff lol

  • @nicks6313
    @nicks6313 2 месяца назад

    Great personality. I love you ma’am

  • @gabrielalonzo1175
    @gabrielalonzo1175 Месяц назад

    So beautiful with the cutest giggle

  • @user-yk3sz2vu5u
    @user-yk3sz2vu5u 2 месяца назад

    Cailyn mental game video was the best u tube video ,,i watched the British women's open some of the on the putting green put a tee peg in the ground hit a few balls to the T then you won't have in your head i missed a putt ,you are a fabulous person cailyn ❤ 😊 more videos like this 😊

  • @GOLFADDICT65
    @GOLFADDICT65 2 месяца назад

    awesome awesome video thx for sharing huge golf crush on Cailyn would be a hoot to golf with you cheers from Vulcan Canada

  • @SimWithDon
    @SimWithDon 2 месяца назад

    Great video!

  • @tableshaper4076
    @tableshaper4076 2 месяца назад

    Oddly, I have no problem clearing my mind.

  • @user-xu7yj5uq6c
    @user-xu7yj5uq6c 2 месяца назад

    We all know Cailyn golf is such a mental game not all physical good days & off days just continue to laugh enjoy & ps when I hit a lucky great shot I always say thank you Jesus !! also maybe you can be my favs mental coach Sabrina haha luv GGG all your channels !!

  • @curbee6617
    @curbee6617 2 месяца назад

    "I'm a Dawg" needs to be a t-shirt

  • @curiousbystander9193
    @curiousbystander9193 3 дня назад

    maybe the good shot after the quicker preshot routine means you should have a quicker preshot routine...... does a longer preshot routine literally activate your head bone too much?

  • @sarge5121976
    @sarge5121976 2 месяца назад

    Seems like a great coach.

    • @curiousbystander9193
      @curiousbystander9193 3 дня назад

      not for nutrition and diet advice... weird, diet is so intimately connected to psychology, cerebellum functioning, executive functioning, maintaining a quiet mind when necessary, parasympathetic nervous system regulation, frustration tolerance, body temperature control, yeah and other stuff too, if you could imagine.........

  • @thomassalatas9637
    @thomassalatas9637 2 месяца назад

    Clear mind , better golf

  • @mentonish
    @mentonish 2 месяца назад

    Try doing a running commentary a loud, see what you get as a result.

  • @kylesmith1786
    @kylesmith1786 2 месяца назад

    Great video Cailyn. Please when you do the Golf Girls don't suppress the fun Cailyn until you set up shot. Go through you routine and shut Sabrina out. You can do this. Without the fun Cailyn those videos would be greatly diminished.

  • @brianjenness4289
    @brianjenness4289 2 месяца назад

    You are gifted. lol try and roasts me. ❤🎉.

  • @andyclark8991
    @andyclark8991 7 дней назад

    Cailyn
    You’re a flippin awesome golfer and cool.
    I wanted you, taller girls to have won that, you deserved to have won it. You.
    You (tall girls) have to get them back, you have to. (Beat them) shorties, and the shorties have to eat 4 times the amount you had to. 4 times amount shorties have to eat.
    Love your videos, subscribe

  • @tbenedict6335
    @tbenedict6335 2 месяца назад

    Play smart fox,sneaky difficult coyote,crush it make a putt is the wolf.

  • @chrispearce9224
    @chrispearce9224 2 месяца назад

    6:45
    The reason to ask about someone's score after their round isn't to measure performance....it's just a polite & short way to ask how the journey was.
    If you ask how someone's round was....that opens a possibility to wanting to talk about their round for half an hour explaining everything. We don't want that. Just want to politely asking how your experience was at this time. LoL.

    • @chendogolf
      @chendogolf  2 месяца назад +1

      No I agree with you🤣🤣🤣 I always ask what people shoot hahahaha it’s just something he pointed out. Thought it was interesting!

  • @user-yk3sz2vu5u
    @user-yk3sz2vu5u 2 месяца назад

    Cailyn please can the GGs you v Allison the pair of you fantastic golfers and funny ❤😊

  • @stonejohnson122
    @stonejohnson122 Месяц назад

    You said to roast you😊

  • @kenn3805
    @kenn3805 2 месяца назад

    This was VERY Interesting !!! Golf has to be most mentally challenging sport. We see it week in and week out with the Pro Golf Tours and how often it seems a certain player has His or Her game 'firing on all cylinders' and they win their first PGA or LPGA event or that person who has struggled for years making that BIG WIN !!!
    On the course I like to refer to my favorite psychologist by the name of 'Odd Ball' from a Classic Vintage Movie; 'NO NEGATIVE WAVES MAN !!!' ruclips.net/video/ncbEucjsNFU/видео.html

  • @Kaiju-Goji
    @Kaiju-Goji 2 месяца назад

    Who needs a mental coach when you look like and are as lovely as Cailyn

  • @HenriettaMRiley
    @HenriettaMRiley 2 месяца назад +1

    Im sorry you need a different mental coach, any coach that is 250lbs obviously hasnt got the necessary tools to coach anyone if he cant get himself mentally fit to keep physically fit.
    Yes he may have the qualifications, but he is asking you to get the same mental fortitude you need when he has none for himself.
    Sorry..
    ps - but i do love watching you play.

    • @barendsteenkamp5904
      @barendsteenkamp5904 2 месяца назад

      A good coach is not necessarily a good player and do not have to be a good player.

    • @HenriettaMRiley
      @HenriettaMRiley 2 месяца назад

      @@barendsteenkamp5904
      I agree, im talking about his own his own mental state of mind that he cant keep himself physically fit...something lacking there.

  • @johnsanders7273
    @johnsanders7273 2 месяца назад

    I have trouble in putting trust in a mental focus coach that won't follow his own training on not eating the wrong foods in massively wrong amounts and focus on getting healthy. His focus statement should be something like, I need to eat right, less and exercise to live. If he doesn't believe in what he teaches, why would anyone else? That's what I think anyway.

    • @user-hj4rf6hl7t
      @user-hj4rf6hl7t 2 месяца назад

      The man's ability is not defined by his weight but by his training and experience

  • @JTracy-cu9uy
    @JTracy-cu9uy 2 месяца назад

    Does he get paid for this? If so, I need a career change. My opinion is, your athletic balanced swing, great attitude, and true grit is what every golfer needs to improve their game. if being a DOG is what gets your competitive side activated then do that and commit , or be the person in your group that wants every player to do well, then do that and commit. Just keep laughing it's just golf.

  • @aceaceshuk
    @aceaceshuk 14 дней назад

    They way mental coach is breathing heavy .. he needs a dietician asap