I don't think the sisters are completely horrible people. Their early years were awful. Both parents were alcoholics and then the girls got shoved into an orphanage. I have never heard of good, loving care in any orphanage! They did not grow up with him so they don't feel a bond with him probably. He did cause trouble and was drinking heavily when that one sister took him in but she had kids. I sure wouldn't want that behaviour around my kids either. I hope he can get his knee fixed and get his documents and then move on with his life, though he does need rehab and training really. It's a sad story. Alcohol has ruined millions of lives.
Agree with much of this. Another factor I think is with Sergei's channel becoming so big, the relatives of many he tries to help are likely to be subjected to masses of negative comments not only here on youtube, but also IRL from neighbours in their small towns and villages, as only one side of the story is told in the first video that gets uploaded. This might help explain some of the defensiveness/unwillingness to co-operate/strange behaviour we've seen from relatives in videos lately.
You are a lovely person for doing this, l hope and trust Vas he will male aiee this young am is looked after with your money. Everyone else in the video looks good and warm clothed this poor guy hasn't got much. Vas will find him somewhere t I live or buy him heating as Vas is the most heart warming man l have seen on the internet. Thank you again for helping people as much as you do.❤
What a mess! I guess there are 2 sides to every story… bottom line is everyone needs to help him get paperwork, a job and move forward. Whatever he chooses after that is up to him.
Hello from Australia , looks like it is hard for everyone . I think his family is fine , but in a hard place. thankyou for all that you do . Please help the kind lady who lives close by she seems to be so nice.
Everybody’s pointing fingers, but nobody is solving the problems. Family, huh? 🤔 Well, you see humanity as your family, Sergei. You step in when no one claims responsibility. God Bless you & your helpers. Family 🤦🏼♀️. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
There aren't enough words to say about you and all you have done for the poor and isolated people. You are a treasure. Thank you and God Bless you. I cry every time I watch you channel, sometimes for happiness and sometime for sadness.
thank you for the fantastic job you do..to help all the peoples that you gave them hope and kindness...GOD BLESS YOU ...THE WORLD OF TODAY ARE IN NEED OF MORE PEOPLES LIKE YOU...MUCH GREETINGS FROM CANADA..
I find this family to have struggled tremendously,YET still came out of it all together. His sister's also have their own struggles in life. Life is hard. At the time he may not have wanted help. But with your support and kindness hopefully find a solution to help this family. Much ❤ and prayers England.
I'm sure his sisters are really nice people. He obviously burned his bridges with his sisters. But he just needs papers. If they could help just one last time!
Oh thank God Almighty you're there for the poor and needy. I see you as a conscience for the hard hearted and jaded people. People certainly don't want to be called out when they are committing agriegous sins against others, family or not
Im the Eldest of Three and the only sister, I watch this with tears because I can not imagine giving up on one of my brothers. We have our disagreements, and have had rocky seasons, but gosh darn.. I will always be there for them. At least help get him with his documents and if they want to wash their hands of him after than so be it. He has so many praying over him and his situation.
@@sallyal5266 I recently ran across this random quote yesterday and it simply made me tear up. - Having people that love you is one thing. But having people who still love you when you’re a burden, still love you when things are a mess, still love you when you’re in the wrong…those are your people. To truly be loved is to still be loved when it’s inconvenient to love you.
I think it’s important to understand that their “bad seasons” were likely much worse than yours. Additionally, they are much older, and raised in orphanages while he had their parents. These orphanages split up the children. He is like an alcoholic stranger to them. I feel for him. But those of us who are disabled (including myself) must also be held accountable for our poor behavior. Would you let me move into your home when you could barely feed and house your own children? I grew up without running water, heat, and electricity. I know survival. And sometimes blood is not thicker than water. The STATE should be caring for their brother. NOT HIS SISTERS. Unless you have endured extreme poverty I don’t think you can fully understand.
It is clear that the whole family has not had an easy life. Just an 8 grade education, (unless a person learns things on his own), is limiting in job opportunities and harder to understand life. Thanks Sergei, for helping this man. 🍀🍀🍀❤️
God bless you 🙏🇹🇹♥️ it's your tropical friend here ,it's wonderful to all the people you gave hope and showed kindness to like I always saw THEY NEED YOU MY FRIEND MY SUBSCRIPTION TO YOUR CHANNEL IS FOREVER 🇹🇹🙏
I love you Sergei , you are a legend. Thank you for standing to all poor individuals and families, they deserved to have a good life and treated nice. As a family, let us help our brothers and sisters 🙏
Thank you for your kindness in helping this man to get better health and to persuade his sisters to help 1 more time to get his passport and documents so he can start to build his life and hopefully stay on a good path.
All these people judging the sister.. think on this. She did not have a parent, and she did not know her brother. She took responsibility for him when no one else would. Being a caregiver is hard work at the best of times. Caring for a person with mental illness, rebelliousness or substance abuse problems makes it even harder. This woman is raising her three children, her husband has died, she's had her brother living with her. I find it amazing and apparently its a universal expectation that caregivers should care for everyone else and deny Their own needs and in this instance.. the needs of her own children. I suspect the sisters will help to get the paperwork if only to get some freedom themselves. the fact they cared for him to more recent times is commendable. A test of endurance. This is why in the west we have 'facilities' (not enough of them obviously). A bit of fact here too.. caregivers have a shortened life expectancy.
Facilities are worse. The careivers there are underpaid and since they are not relatives many of them resent taking care of someone else's. Abuse and neglect are rampant. Usually it is better to make arrangements to take care of relatives even if several family members have to take turns. Relying on facilities is not a good or safe solution. I used to work as a patient advocate to investigate those places and I have seen alot of horrendous situations. In fact I had a friend whose mother got a bedsore because she was not being turned and changed often enough and it went to the bone and killed her. That is an excruciating way to die. Imagine being left to rot in your own filth. That is inexcusable and inhumane. The elderly and disabled are treated like crap in America.
@@IAMGiftbearer in Australia as well.. but as a mother if i had to make a choice between my children and my brother, it might be a hard choice but i'm pretty sure i would choose my children, try and get my brother into care and try and visit and monitor the situation for him. but not have him live with me teaching my children how not to be.
It's great that you showed kindness to this man. It's so hard for children of alcoholic parents that are then put in orphanages in Russia. As I said before, I adopted a family of 6 children from the Pskov region of Russia, and they are all full siblings. Their birthparents were alcoholics too, and the children starved and were without heat. They would be left alone at very young ages of 3 and 4 for many days while the birthparents drank. Now, these 6 children of mine are grown up, and all of them are successful. None of them drink alcohol, and they are all professionals in their job fields from scientists to business owners. I am a grandmother to 6 of their children with more to come. Their memories of Russia are difficult ones, but they are happy and free now. What you are doing for this man will make a difference in his life by giving him a chance. Thank you.
@@diane9247 Thank you very much! It was, and still is difficult with all they suffered in Russia, but it's also a complete blessing to see all of them as productive members of society with families of their own. All is not perfect with scars on their body and their spirits, but life is good and they are healing still. Blessings to you!
That will all change íñ the near future and we will have many amazíng cures released that have been hidden away as there is big money to be made by peóple being sick. Ñatural medicines are the way óf the future and some incredible technologies that will cure us of everything that ails us. Fact. So hang in there as the wórld will look a whole lot better very soon ❤
Yet you can walk into any hospital in America and get treatment for anything without insurance. It's the law of the land here. Infact it's illegal to not treat someone here.
@@Ms.Norths.Musingshere iñ Australia healthçare is all free, but if yoú çan affórd it yóu háve the option of going private . That is far from the çase in the USA.
@@Ms.Norths.Musings no, they only have to treat emergencies. hell, I do have insurance and they won't do much of anything unless I give them a card swipe.
@@debroahisaacs2452 well.. lets see how well you would manage if for sixteen years you were supporting an unwilling and rebellious teenager, while trying to care for your three children, with a dying husband and your brother is a horrendous role model for your children. it sounds like his sister has done all she can for him despite the fact that they did not have a sibling relationship because the parents were too busy drinking to provide care for their children. if there is a monster here.. I'm not going to point fingers.
I swear to you if I wasn't a single dad, I had money to give, I WOULD gladly give you so much for all you do. I'm so sorry I'm not able to give what my heart wants to give.
I think we'd all love to help and be generous. By watching his videos, liking and commenting he'll get advertising revenue and it helps with the algorithm. You're a single parent, you have to keep a roof over your kids head and food in their belly. Don't feel bad for that. Take care.
urgh horrible family. He didn't get his documents because when he was 16 years old (a child still) his mother and him went home when they were 42nd in line in a waiting queue to sort that out so sister still blames him for it. ridiculous, she's terrible and obviously seeing she came up with that, she's just looking for excuses to make him look bad. Of cause people will judge her if they see this, she doesn't even want to try to do the right thing and help him. One thing which is obvious, she holds no love at all for her brother (she may be even jealous of him seeing he didn't grow up in the orphanage like she did).
The most important thing is his health and getting his papers. After that perhaps he can live in a group home for men. Maybe get some sort of job. Once he gets his papers… he can continue to live without his Brother and Sister’s . Hopefully he can find a new better “family “ of friends. God’s blessings.
Thank you Sergei and Dima for helping Vitya.🙏 I hope that something can be done to help his leg. If his sisters are feeling guilty about what they have done for their brother, then I don't understand why they just don't go identify him so he can get on with his life. It's not like it costs them money to do this simple task.
Very stressing to watch I do find it difficult to believe that people in Russia lives in so much poverty. It’s good to hear your government are giving a huge budget to infrastructure projects and education and living accommodation. I am from 🇳🇴 I hope Russia learns to manufacture readymade houses that has high insulated and modern building materials. Made and manufactured in Russia 🇷🇺. 🙏 to you all with ❤
There are old villages in Russia from Soviet times, there are almost no inhabitants left there, everyone has left for the cities. These villages are gradually being destroyed and dying. New houses are all being built with all the amenities using new technologies. Cottage villages are growing very quickly around every city.
To be honest, the sisters have their own issues to survive, I’d imagine in the setting they are all in. Its not just in Russia that the care of the disabled is disproportionately put on the shoulders of the immediate family. The community and the state should be helping with resources for the disabled. I don’t think it was fair of you to target the sisters. No wonder they were angry. Has he any brothers you would have targeted with the same line of questions? Why should the women on his family be targeted to feel guilty about his care. They must have their own struggles too which we have to be sympathetic with.
You are so kind, Serguei. Help this guy. Life can be very sad. Even if he is wrong in his way of life, his sisters should not criticize him and throw him in a barn. It is not human.
When it comes to family blood is thicker then water. The sisters obviously have helped him in the past but now that he is disabled they should at least try to do something and not disregard the situation. At least help with his documents. Glad he was seen by a doctor.
It's a sad story.! I see only victims there & and hard-working people trying to survive.! It's good to hear the full story.! So many people in need.! Even the woman who lives next door to him, I'm sure she is on need of help. God Bless U Sergei.! I hope u can help him & whoever else is in need.! 🙏🩷
This young man has been helped in the past by his siblings, there’s only so much they can do to help their brother. I feel for his sisters as the have tried to do the best for him before and he doesn’t help himself. Please let sisters know we do not judge them and shame them. Keep up the good work you do Sergei for the unfortunate people in your country.
The sisters are normal and I do understand them,why they should have this burden on their shoulders - 32 years old irresponsible brother.They should build their lives and their childhood wasn't easy also.
This story is as bad as a tv soap. He needs help. Period. That family has full of grudges and keep thinking about it when his name comes around. Help him out and he will not be in your life anymore. 《What is there for me ...》. First sentence that came out of her mouth. Such hate family feelings are not just in Russia.
I don’t know what to think, he apparently suffers from fetal alcohol syndrome, he’s not the sharpest tool in the shed. But those sisters, darnnnnnnn it!! They are banshees, harpies. God forgive them, they were never raised as family, they’re angry because their parents kept him. It was even worse for him. You Sergei aren’t shaming them, they are doing it all by themselves. The world sees it. God bless and strengthen you not many have your heart and determination
I think this young man needs to own up for his own mistakes. He would not have been in this situation if he would not have been so rebellious as a teen. I think the sisters will help out as best as they can to solve the documentation problem. But after that, he needs to take responsibility for himself. I know he will need your help for awhile but then he needs to get on with his own life. His sister has her own family to raise and take care of, without a husband, at this point.
Sometimes even Us disabled people need to Suck It Up and figure out a way to Do what you need to Do. I get it, im in far worse condition than him... it was my Mindset that got me going, im not one to be defeated, I knew I had a long road ahead of me, knew it would take time, Years even, and it did. Took me 7-8 years of daily struggle to do basic things like getting dressed, cooking etc. Now I can walk 10km per day, I went from Crawling everywhere to being able to walk my butt around the country side. You have to learn to use what you Do have and figure it out. Once you get the mindset of "This wont stop me" then youre golden. Mind over Matter. knowing your limits and Adapting is Key. He will be alright if he stays Can and smartens up as they say here. Good Luck mate. Cheers.
It's sad how they all had to live their young lives. They probably don't feel close to him since they lived differently. I hope you can help him. I know you will
In my country the social services would be onto any parent who allows their children to be exposed to an alcoholic, family or not. I expect you have a good enough economy too to not understand the economic burden of an extra irresponsible person. They tried, he failed. It causes resentment. Being told by a stranger to jump at a moment's notice for someone who didn't try earlier is upsetting. I think they will get the documents sorted once the demand has settled down in their thoughts.
Oh my it’s very complicated isn’t it? I pray that you’ll find a way to help as you always seem to do. You are a very caring person. Hopefully there will be a way to make things better.
I feel theres a lot of negativity being directed at the sisters in the comment,s, sounds to me theyve all had a tough time, shes recently widowed, working got three kids and a full house ,she is not responsible for her brother and sounds like she does help him to a certain degree, also I know from personal experience having a difficult childhood and having to be responsible from a young age and like she said trying to work and look after everyone is too much. However I do agree that some assistance with sorting out his identity etc would enable others to help her brother thus taking the expectation the she should do so off her.I hope a solution is found and PLEASE BE CAREFUL ABOUT JUDGING OTHERS A 15 MINUTE VIDEO is a small snapshot and GOD BLESS ALL. FROM AOTEAROA/NEW ZEALAND ❤
Thank you for trying to help this guy. It was good to hear the sisters side of the story. I just hope this story doesn’t end up bad and you and the viewers getting hurt again as in so many cases in your stories. When I heard the sister say he drank it sent up a big red flag. Perhaps he’s not drinking now because he has no money or a way to get around. I guess all we can do is hope and pray for the best outcome possible.
@@crazy225h14 if he can’t get to the alcohol he can’t drink it. I’m sorry for your friend. Yes, I know alcoholism is hard to overcome but hopefully this man has had enough time away from alcohol that he will decide not to go back to it once it becomes available to him again.
it is not only the physical aspects of a person's life, and families life, it is emotional toll that builds up over the years, that lead to the small glimpse we see today. it helps to have a person who has not been involved, who is able to ask, relevant non judgmental questions, and even more importantly, is able to listen, and provide the person [s ], the opportunity to vent a range of pent up emotions.
Hi Sergei, I understand where the sisters are coming from as they had a tough life too. I think they want him to take some responsibility for himself. If he is an alcoholic, he must stop or he will die from it. I hope the doctors can fix his leg but he must continue with rehabilitation or he will end up without mobility again. You don’t get many easy cases, Sergei so good luck and thank you for caring. ❤️🇨🇦🙏
Growing up in an orphanage definitely traumatises children one way or another. My grandmother and her sisters where brought up in an orphanage run by the nuns in rural Ireland years ago .. she did NOT have pleasant memories! The nuns where violent,cold bullys . And even decade's later you could still see the toll it took on her. I can also understand the sisters frustrations, they have alot to deal with themselves and tried to help the brother and he was acting out I feel sorry for vitya but I understand where his sister's are coming from too. I have an aunty like vitya gets really drunk and then she tries to clean the house and falls down or breaks things ,gets locked out of you house. But I also feel sorry my my aunty as she is a traumatized person but there's only so much you can talk to her about her drinking she gets defensive and shouts so we don't bother anymore , we leave her to it . We will always be there if she needs us ,gets sick etc but she won't stop drinking despite the doctors telling her too. Plus you would never think by looking at her , she's super glamorous,hair and nails always done ,nice car, nice clothes , very well dressed ,very well spoken she had a really great job, travelled and lived all over the world and now's she's retired,just drunk and angry all the time . So I can understand from both sides and it's a hard situation to want to help your family but you also are angry watching them drink their life away.
THE POOR SISTERS WILL BE GETTING RIDICULED, YET THEY ARE HELPING. Change the video name, it's just cruel and click bait. I didn't think you guys would do that, you usually help...he has made them suffer.. and there Mum didn't get a pension, and yet they still help him after all of that and the drinking (CHANGE THE TITLE)
His family would make should sure they never see a penny of his money again. That's all they want. Poor old young man. The dogs get better treatment than the dogs in the family. I feel so sorry for him. Thanks Sergei. You try so hard. If I wasn't so old and unwell, I'd go take care of him as his maid and housekeeper. Bless his heart. I feel badly for him. He need help. Not dog food thrown from his pathetic families doors. He deserves help and love. I'm 68 and would treat him better. Than barn rats. Praying for you better than better barn rats get prayer for. Much love and prayers.
Those sisters are not responsable for the birth of their brother. They never asked to care for him. They are just expected to care for him and have their life ruined by a drunkard. The brothers and sisters who don't have anything to with him all are not being shamed because they don't care for this man. You could easily say the brother in Moscow should care for him. He probably has a much largeur salery
I wish you would make these videos more about the people you're helping and less about putting their families on blast. I understand though if that's what gets the most views. I hope Vitya's doctors are able to help him regain his mobility.
That is not what Sergei is doing. He is not all about views, and it is rude of you to assume this. He is simply documentíng the entire stóry, warts and all. If family wish tó act like deranged morons that is ón them. It's better that Sérgei shows us all the truth, not just glaze over it.
@@8_bit_Andy nobody is forcing you to watch dude seriously. There is no ñeed for any negativity about Sergei who is a wonderful human and humanitarian. What have you dóne lately to change someóñes life for the better ?
@@ozgal6929 I'm a pediatric physical therapist, so helping making people's lives better is pretty much my life. If you want to say Sergei is a wonderful human, I won't argue, you clearly know him personally. But you can't say he's not making the video to put Vitya's family on blast when the title is 'sisters threw a helpless brother into a barn' and not 'we help a man start his journey to being able to walk again'.
@8_bit_Andy Being a pediatric therapist is a good, well - paying job in a comfortable environment. It's hardly charitable work, nor comparable to what Sergei is doing.
Victor said that he is afraid that they might want to take his leg 😩 our 7 yr old was diagnosed with cancer osteosarcoma in his right knee 😩😩😭😭💔💔 he did chemo after chemo they did operate to put in a metal piece between the calf and thigh but they did not get all of the. Cancer so she hey said to take the leg , by this time he was 8 yrs and he told the doctors “TAKE THE LEG IT DOES NOT WORK ANYMORE “ 😩😩 and he doctors were in shock and there were 8 teenagers with a the same cancer a 2 of them were in the room and they said why do you want them to take your leg ? IT DOES NOT WORK 😭😭💔😭 children are much more stronger than grownups
So you have the problem - the State, doesn't give a guvna. but the family? People work for the State, but the State doesn't work for them. So... well, they have their own problems - their lives are hard enough without 'dead weight'. So in Soviet times, the family was everything, but that system was destroyed by the post Soviet years. People became cruel to survive. Eta Rasiya. In the 90's - Imagine if you worked as normal, but haven't been paid for months - and there's no likelihood you will be paid at all. In fact you aren't going to be paid. Some 'Raspberry Jacket' has stolen all your wages. This is going to affect your mentality - permanently. You have worked. But you will get nothing for that work - you are f**ked. Through no fault of your own. The trauma of that, you pass on to your children, and so on, and so on. Vasya, ya znayu vy ponimayetye 'Eta Rasiya' - ya prosta pindos anglichanyen, no ya panimayu vsye.
I understand Vitya's circumstances are hard, but I'm getting the feeling he's playing you. Give him, he will take, and take, and, take. He will give you back the words you want to hear, then, take some more. The sisters have lived this.
No one wants to mention it but the sisters are resentful to there little brother, he didn't place them in an orphange, they're taking there anger out on him when their Mom and Dad should have been asked those hard questions. Pray for the him and pray God touches his sisters heart.
You don't know that!! They have done a lot to help him and his drunkenness and riotous living was hard on them and the one sisters children!They did heaps for him despite there rottenwork hours and other set backs. Judging others is foolishness.
Seems that he was not so innocent!!! however, I do believe that the alcoholism of his parents damaged his brain and he, himself. worsened it by drinking himself... an other alcoholic!!! wow is more than 50% of rural people alcoholics in Russia it is a plage there?!?!?!?! 😥
His rt. leg muscle has atrophied bc he hasn't walked on it for so long. But the DR will stn. & block the knee so he can put some weight on that leg again, build up strength in it and partially move around w a Walker, Good!! Then he goes back to work and by Nov maybe you can find him a sober room-mate to share a house with?? Bless you Sergei!
Vasya can I ask how is it possible, that You are a young man and You are still be able to stay in country (I mean Youre not in "conflict" zone). I am srsly very curious. Nice content, found and subscribed today :) Greetings from Poland.
It usually takes a whole lot of turmoil and disappointment for families to turn their backs on a black sheep. "He was drinking and running wild". There's your answer.
Sergi, this isn't a case you can just throw money or physical things at. These are functioning adults that need guidance to work through the family dynamics. There needs to be a family meeting, including the two siblings from Moscow region. They need to stop all the blaming, arguing, and disagreement of the past. Figure out what's needed for the youngest's future: documents, passport, etc. Identify the resources they have or don't have and decide on responsibilities for moving forward. FAMILY includes each of them; one shouldn't just be pushed out, but if there is true reason to do so, get the brother properly assigned with the government so he will at least get disability pension.
Seems the sisters tried as much as they could to help him...but he didn't want to help himself! Hopefully he's more mentally mature now and will do the right things. Good work, Sergi!
Fuckin hell Vashya I'm intrigued by your honest and complimentary attitude. Kindness is hard to come by these days with genuine concern. Your a fuckin star dude .
I don't think the sisters are completely horrible people. Their early years were awful. Both parents were alcoholics and then the girls got shoved into an orphanage. I have never heard of good, loving care in any orphanage! They did not grow up with him so they don't feel a bond with him probably. He did cause trouble and was drinking heavily when that one sister took him in but she had kids. I sure wouldn't want that behaviour around my kids either.
I hope he can get his knee fixed and get his documents and then move on with his life, though he does need rehab and training really. It's a sad story. Alcohol has ruined millions of lives.
Alcohol is a Scourge in all societies, its unfortunate but also Preventable.
It’s a really tough problem.
Agree with much of this. Another factor I think is with Sergei's channel becoming so big, the relatives of many he tries to help are likely to be subjected to masses of negative comments not only here on youtube, but also IRL from neighbours in their small towns and villages, as only one side of the story is told in the first video that gets uploaded. This might help explain some of the defensiveness/unwillingness to co-operate/strange behaviour we've seen from relatives in videos lately.
why do you jump to conclusions ? are you sure that he was drinking heavily ?
I was thinking this too. They don't seem like bad people tbh. I'm happy people in the comments saw this too.
Please help him , his sisters and the kind lady , each a little. I am not sure how far this money will go in Russia , but I send it trusting you.
That is so nice of you. What a lovely person you are.❤
You are a lovely person for doing this, l hope and trust Vas he will male aiee this young am is looked after with your money. Everyone else in the video looks good and warm clothed this poor guy hasn't got much. Vas will find him somewhere t I live or buy him heating as Vas is the most heart warming man l have seen on the internet.
Thank you again for helping people as much as you do.❤
Thank you, you are a good soul ❤ hope the money goes to the right place 🍀
You are a Beautiful person. I donate to Vasya monthly. There is no better way to spend money than to help someone.
God bless you ❤
What a mess! I guess there are 2 sides to every story… bottom line is everyone needs to help him get paperwork, a job and move forward. Whatever he chooses after that is up to him.
Hello from New York, USA. Thank you for helping so many vulnerable people.
I also live in NY state. :-) Love seeing the people Sergei helps along the way.
Hello from Australia , looks like it is hard for everyone . I think his family is fine , but in a hard place. thankyou for all that you do . Please help the kind lady who lives close by she seems to be so nice.
Everybody’s pointing fingers, but nobody is solving the problems. Family, huh? 🤔
Well, you see humanity as your family, Sergei. You step in when no one claims responsibility. God Bless you & your helpers.
Family 🤦🏼♀️. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Literally ❤
You are an inspiration. A great man indeed.
Giving is by far better than receiving or taking.
There aren't enough words to say about you and all you have done for the poor and isolated people. You are a treasure. Thank you and God Bless you. I cry every time I watch you channel, sometimes for happiness and sometime for sadness.
thank you for the fantastic job you do..to help all the peoples that you gave them hope and kindness...GOD BLESS YOU ...THE WORLD OF TODAY ARE IN NEED OF MORE PEOPLES LIKE YOU...MUCH GREETINGS FROM CANADA..
I find this family to have struggled tremendously,YET still came out of it all together. His sister's also have their own struggles in life. Life is hard. At the time he may not have wanted help. But with your support and kindness hopefully find a solution to help this family. Much ❤ and prayers England.
You give a good light on Russia during these dark times! Thank god for people like you.
God not god. Cheers.
god not God, cheers
@alexk9646 You will bow down in the dust before His feet at your judgment. You will know then, Who He is.
Respect
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@@DanielLeybag 🙂
Switzerland!!!
Merci villmal 🍀
@@jnolette1030 fellow Swiss here 🇨🇭
I'm sure his sisters are really nice people. He obviously burned his bridges with his sisters. But he just needs papers. If they could help just one last time!
Its hard to have a concept of love and family, when they did not have that themselves when they were c hildren.
Nice people?
I think this is horrid
@deechapman4474 I'm trying to be generous with my words so if they read the comments, they might decide to help.
Oh thank God Almighty you're there for the poor and needy. I see you as a conscience for the hard hearted and jaded people. People certainly don't want to be called out when they are committing agriegous sins against others, family or not
Im the Eldest of Three and the only sister, I watch this with tears because I can not imagine giving up on one of my brothers. We have our disagreements, and have had rocky seasons, but gosh darn.. I will always be there for them. At least help get him with his documents and if they want to wash their hands of him after than so be it. He has so many praying over him and his situation.
I wish I had a sister like you! Bless your heart 🙏
@@sallyal5266 I recently ran across this random quote yesterday and it simply made me tear up. - Having people that love you is one thing. But having people who still love you when you’re a burden, still love you when things are a mess, still love you when you’re in the wrong…those are your people. To truly be loved is to still be loved when it’s inconvenient to love you.
I think it’s important to understand that their “bad seasons” were likely much worse than yours. Additionally, they are much older, and raised in orphanages while he had their parents. These orphanages split up the children. He is like an alcoholic stranger to them. I feel for him. But those of us who are disabled (including myself) must also be held accountable for our poor behavior. Would you let me move into your home when you could barely feed and house your own children? I grew up without running water, heat, and electricity. I know survival. And sometimes blood is not thicker than water. The STATE should be caring for their brother. NOT HIS SISTERS. Unless you have endured extreme poverty I don’t think you can fully understand.
It is clear that the whole family has not had an easy life. Just an 8 grade education, (unless a person learns things on his own), is limiting in job opportunities and harder to understand life. Thanks Sergei, for helping this man. 🍀🍀🍀❤️
God bless you 🙏🇹🇹♥️ it's your tropical friend here ,it's wonderful to all the people you gave hope and showed kindness to like I always saw THEY NEED YOU MY FRIEND MY SUBSCRIPTION TO YOUR CHANNEL IS FOREVER 🇹🇹🙏
@@alf2410who told you He is Norwegian or from Norway?? Or you from Norway his flag says TRINIDAD AND TOBAGO🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹
I love you Sergei , you are a legend. Thank you for standing to all poor individuals and families, they deserved to have a good life and treated nice. As a family, let us help our brothers and sisters 🙏
He's done very well for himself considering his dire circumstances. He hasn't given up! What an inspiration!! Yes!!! Thank you Vasya
Thank you for your kindness in helping this man to get better health and to persuade his sisters to help 1 more time to get his passport and documents so he can start to build his life and hopefully stay on a good path.
All these people judging the sister.. think on this. She did not have a parent, and she did not know her brother. She took responsibility for him when no one else would. Being a caregiver is hard work at the best of times. Caring for a person with mental illness, rebelliousness or substance abuse problems makes it even harder. This woman is raising her three children, her husband has died, she's had her brother living with her. I find it amazing and apparently its a universal expectation that caregivers should care for everyone else and deny Their own needs and in this instance.. the needs of her own children. I suspect the sisters will help to get the paperwork if only to get some freedom themselves. the fact they cared for him to more recent times is commendable. A test of endurance. This is why in the west we have 'facilities' (not enough of them obviously). A bit of fact here too.. caregivers have a shortened life expectancy.
Facilities are worse. The careivers there are underpaid and since they are not relatives many of them resent taking care of someone else's. Abuse and neglect are rampant. Usually it is better to make arrangements to take care of relatives even if several family members have to take turns. Relying on facilities is not a good or safe solution. I used to work as a patient advocate to investigate those places and I have seen alot of horrendous situations. In fact I had a friend whose mother got a bedsore because she was not being turned and changed often enough and it went to the bone and killed her. That is an excruciating way to die. Imagine being left to rot in your own filth. That is inexcusable and inhumane. The elderly and disabled are treated like crap in America.
@@IAMGiftbearer in Australia as well.. but as a mother if i had to make a choice between my children and my brother, it might be a hard choice but i'm pretty sure i would choose my children, try and get my brother into care and try and visit and monitor the situation for him. but not have him live with me teaching my children how not to be.
I cared for my mom with no help ever from two older sisters..she just passed mnths ago..
Thx you for confronting with his family,i never had even one person for my help with my family so i can appreciate your courage
Never sit back to help any of your relatives no matter what
@@jovialdaniel6507 unfortunately lots of disabled people are victims of a narcissist family
You're obviously strong, loving, compassionate and resilient. Obviously it's damn hard yet I sincerely hope your family appreciates you. Take care.
It's great that you showed kindness to this man. It's so hard for children of alcoholic parents that are then put in orphanages in Russia. As I said before, I adopted a family of 6 children from the Pskov region of Russia, and they are all full siblings. Their birthparents were alcoholics too, and the children starved and were without heat. They would be left alone at very young ages of 3 and 4 for many days while the birthparents drank. Now, these 6 children of mine are grown up, and all of them are successful. None of them drink alcohol, and they are all professionals in their job fields from scientists to business owners. I am a grandmother to 6 of their children with more to come. Their memories of Russia are difficult ones, but they are happy and free now. What you are doing for this man will make a difference in his life by giving him a chance. Thank you.
God bless you for adopting the kids.
That is a LOT to take on, Lisa. You are a champion!💖
@@diane9247 Thank you very much! It was, and still is difficult with all they suffered in Russia, but it's also a complete blessing to see all of them as productive members of society with families of their own. All is not perfect with scars on their body and their spirits, but life is good and they are healing still. Blessings to you!
That's an incredible story, not sure how you did it but happy you did
Thats the most incredible thin I've ever heard. Thank you.
You are a wonderful young man god bless you ❤❤❤
Sergei, your empathy and willingness to help makes my heart full💜💜💜
Families always the same no one wants the responsibility. Poor soul. Life is hard. Bless you Sergei. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Is there some money coming in for him that she recieves ? She said she is a deputy. She could at least testify of who he is.
you've got to love this guy, he's a fighter! 😀 I hate to say it, but hospitals in the US won't do anything without insurance except emergencies. 😒
That is why the emergencies are packed.
That will all change íñ the near future and we will have many amazíng cures released that have been hidden away as there is big money to be made by peóple being sick. Ñatural medicines are the way óf the future and some incredible technologies that will cure us of everything that ails us. Fact. So hang in there as the wórld will look a whole lot better very soon ❤
Yet you can walk into any hospital in America and get treatment for anything without insurance. It's the law of the land here. Infact it's illegal to not treat someone here.
@@Ms.Norths.Musingshere iñ Australia healthçare is all free, but if yoú çan affórd it yóu háve the option of going private . That is far from the çase in the USA.
@@Ms.Norths.Musings no, they only have to treat emergencies. hell, I do have insurance and they won't do much of anything unless I give them a card swipe.
You get treated poorly by those people. You have a big heart.
If we can't support with monies, let the advertisement run that would be kind.
You are a blessing to this poor soul!
Thank you for taking him to the doctor!
At least we heard more of the background of this young man. His sisters tried to help a bit in the past, you can understand their problem now.
No you are wrong. His sisters are monsters
@@debroahisaacs2452 - Do you know his sisters? What do you know that the rest of us don't? Thanks.
@@debroahisaacs2452do you know them personally?
@@debroahisaacs2452shake my head at you!
@@debroahisaacs2452 well.. lets see how well you would manage if for sixteen years you were supporting an unwilling and rebellious teenager, while trying to care for your three children, with a dying husband and your brother is a horrendous role model for your children. it sounds like his sister has done all she can for him despite the fact that they did not have a sibling relationship because the parents were too busy drinking to provide care for their children. if there is a monster here.. I'm not going to point fingers.
Thanks
I swear to you if I wasn't a single dad, I had money to give, I WOULD gladly give you so much for all you do. I'm so sorry I'm not able to give what my heart wants to give.
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I think we'd all love to help and be generous. By watching his videos, liking and commenting he'll get advertising revenue and it helps with the algorithm. You're a single parent, you have to keep a roof over your kids head and food in their belly. Don't feel bad for that. Take care.
urgh horrible family. He didn't get his documents because when he was 16 years old (a child still) his mother and him went home when they were 42nd in line in a waiting queue to sort that out so sister still blames him for it. ridiculous, she's terrible and obviously seeing she came up with that, she's just looking for excuses to make him look bad. Of cause people will judge her if they see this, she doesn't even want to try to do the right thing and help him. One thing which is obvious, she holds no love at all for her brother (she may be even jealous of him seeing he didn't grow up in the orphanage like she did).
God bless you keep helping this guy
The most important thing is his health and getting his papers. After that perhaps he can live in a group home for men. Maybe get some sort of job.
Once he gets his papers… he can continue to live without his Brother and Sister’s . Hopefully he can find a new better “family “ of friends. God’s blessings.
Thank you Sergei and Dima for helping Vitya.🙏 I hope that something can be done to help his leg. If his sisters are feeling guilty about what they have done for their brother, then I don't understand why they just don't go identify him so he can get on with his life. It's not like it costs them money to do this simple task.
Very stressing to watch I do find it difficult to believe that people in Russia lives in so much poverty. It’s good to hear your government are giving a huge budget to infrastructure projects and education and living accommodation. I am from 🇳🇴 I hope Russia learns to manufacture readymade houses that has high insulated and modern building materials. Made and manufactured in Russia 🇷🇺. 🙏 to you all with ❤
There are old villages in Russia from Soviet times, there are almost no inhabitants left there, everyone has left for the cities. These villages are gradually being destroyed and dying. New houses are all being built with all the amenities using new technologies. Cottage villages are growing very quickly around every city.
To be honest, the sisters have their own issues to survive, I’d imagine in the setting they are all in. Its not just in Russia that the care of the disabled is disproportionately put on the shoulders of the immediate family. The community and the state should be helping with resources for the disabled. I don’t think it was fair of you to target the sisters. No wonder they were angry. Has he any brothers you would have targeted with the same line of questions? Why should the women on his family be targeted to feel guilty about his care. They must have their own struggles too which we have to be sympathetic with.
@johnfinbarr: TOtally just and fair analysis of the situation! I like you!
Best comment!
Help this person. Breaks my heart. You can't save the world but you can one soul at a time
It's probably one of Putins offspring in hiding .
Go help.
To attend school he must have had documents then. Check school records.
You are so kind, Serguei. Help this guy. Life can be very sad. Even if he is wrong in his way of life, his sisters should not criticize him and throw him in a barn. It is not human.
His sisters are not human.
Thank You Uncle Sergei 🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺☮️☮️☮️☮️☮️☮️☮️☮️🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷
When it comes to family blood is thicker then water. The sisters obviously have helped him in the past but now that he is disabled they should at least try to do something and not disregard the situation. At least help with his documents. Glad he was seen by a doctor.
It's a sad story.! I see only victims there & and hard-working people trying to survive.! It's good to hear the full story.! So many people in need.! Even the woman who lives next door to him, I'm sure she is on need of help. God Bless U Sergei.! I hope u can help him & whoever else is in need.! 🙏🩷
This young man has been helped in the past by his siblings, there’s only so much they can do to help their brother.
I feel for his sisters as the have tried to do the best for him before and he doesn’t help himself.
Please let sisters know we do not judge them and shame them. Keep up the good work you do Sergei for the unfortunate people in your country.
The sisters are normal and I do understand them,why they should have this burden on their shoulders - 32 years old irresponsible brother.They should build their lives and their childhood wasn't easy also.
I HATE this! It happens all over the world. Cast away people with issues! It sucks but it’s reality.
This story is as bad as a tv soap. He needs help. Period. That family has full of grudges and keep thinking about it when his name comes around. Help him out and he will not be in your life anymore. 《What is there for me ...》. First sentence that came out of her mouth. Such hate family feelings are not just in Russia.
I don’t know what to think, he apparently suffers from fetal alcohol syndrome, he’s not the sharpest tool in the shed. But those sisters, darnnnnnnn it!! They are banshees, harpies. God forgive them, they were never raised as family, they’re angry because their parents kept him. It was even worse for him. You Sergei aren’t shaming them, they are doing it all by themselves. The world sees it. God bless and strengthen you not many have your heart and determination
Hello from Borneo, God bless us all!
Wow, Borneo. Very beautiful😊
Dari Borneo juga. Hello 😀
@@earthyaspiekiwifamily iya, hello.. Borneo sebelah mana, Sabah/Sarawak/Kalimantan?
@@brendonpaul2745 Serian, Sarawak.
@@earthyaspiekiwifamily Salam dari Kota Kinabalu Sabah, ngirup kita.. gurau saja😁😅🤝
I think this young man needs to own up for his own mistakes. He would not have been in this situation if he would not have been so rebellious as a teen. I think the sisters will help out as best as they can to solve the documentation problem. But after that, he needs to take responsibility for himself. I know he will need your help for awhile but then he needs to get on with his own life. His sister has her own family to raise and take care of, without a husband, at this point.
why are you believing the sisters ?
Can you slow down the subtitles a little. They leave the screen so fast I can't follow the conversation 😊 x
Sometimes even Us disabled people need to Suck It Up and figure out a way to Do what you need to Do. I get it, im in far worse condition than him... it was my Mindset that got me going, im not one to be defeated, I knew I had a long road ahead of me, knew it would take time, Years even, and it did. Took me 7-8 years of daily struggle to do basic things like getting dressed, cooking etc. Now I can walk 10km per day, I went from Crawling everywhere to being able to walk my butt around the country side. You have to learn to use what you Do have and figure it out. Once you get the mindset of "This wont stop me" then youre golden. Mind over Matter. knowing your limits and Adapting is Key. He will be alright if he stays Can and smartens up as they say here. Good Luck mate. Cheers.
It's sad how they all had to live their young lives. They probably don't feel close to him since they lived differently. I hope you can help him. I know you will
Thank you Sergei,you are a beautiful person and I hope you can help this man. Love and blessings from Boston.❤❤❤🇺🇸
Can you all please hit the like button, it does not cost a thing but it does help support Sergei. Thank you
Beautiful skies in Russia.
These women are viscious. I hope they never need any help - because with the way they are they will be alone !
Seems like they have helped him many times .the sisters have their own children and jobs and their own lives too.
In my country the social services would be onto any parent who allows their children to be exposed to an alcoholic, family or not. I expect you have a good enough economy too to not understand the economic burden of an extra irresponsible person. They tried, he failed. It causes resentment. Being told by a stranger to jump at a moment's notice for someone who didn't try earlier is upsetting. I think they will get the documents sorted once the demand has settled down in their thoughts.
His life would be greatly improved right away with some crutches!
I love watching all your videos the conditions of many Russians is heartbreaking thank you Sergi for helping all those in need you are wonderful
Love how you care about people. You're an Angel 😇. The world would be a much better place with more people like you. Blessings 🙌 ❤
Oh my it’s very complicated isn’t it? I pray that you’ll find a way to help as you always seem to do. You are a very caring person. Hopefully there will be a way to make things better.
I feel theres a lot of negativity being directed at the sisters in the comment,s, sounds to me theyve all had a tough time, shes recently widowed, working got three kids and a full house ,she is not responsible for her brother and sounds like she does help him to a certain degree, also I know from personal experience having a difficult childhood and having to be responsible from a young age and like she said trying to work and look after everyone is too much. However I do agree that some assistance with sorting out his identity etc would enable others to help her brother thus taking the expectation the she should do so off her.I hope a solution is found and PLEASE BE CAREFUL ABOUT JUDGING OTHERS A 15 MINUTE VIDEO is a small snapshot and GOD BLESS ALL. FROM AOTEAROA/NEW ZEALAND ❤
Thank you for trying to help this guy. It was good to hear the sisters side of the story. I just hope this story doesn’t end up bad and you and the viewers getting hurt again as in so many cases in your stories. When I heard the sister say he drank it sent up a big red flag. Perhaps he’s not drinking now because he has no money or a way to get around. I guess all we can do is hope and pray for the best outcome possible.
If he really wanted to drink he would and my freind hade alcohol problem it was worse than to b3 on hard drugs
@@crazy225h14 if he can’t get to the alcohol he can’t drink it. I’m sorry for your friend. Yes, I know alcoholism is hard to overcome but hopefully this man has had enough time away from alcohol that he will decide not to go back to it once it becomes available to him again.
Greetings from Washington State USA
Thank you for your work, and for bringing a light, to an otherwise dark situation.
You are again doing someone a good turn from the kindness of your heart.This world is a better place because of you.xx🌟🌟xx
Geez How Can These sisters Do this To a Crippled Brother Its Insane My God
it is not only the physical aspects of a person's life, and families life, it is emotional toll that builds up over the years, that lead to the small glimpse we see today. it helps to have a person who has not been involved, who is able to ask, relevant non judgmental questions, and even more importantly, is able to listen, and provide the person [s ], the opportunity to vent a range of pent up emotions.
Thank you that you do this good deed
يقول الله في القرآن الكريم.
{ بِسۡمِ ٱللَّهِ ٱلرَّحۡمَٰنِ ٱلرَّحِيمِ (1)
ٱلۡحَمۡدُ لِلَّهِ رَبِّ ٱلۡعَٰلَمِينَ (2)
ٱلرَّحۡمَٰنِ ٱلرَّحِيمِ (3) مَٰلِكِ يَوۡمِ ٱلدِّينِ (4)
إِيَّاكَ نَعۡبُدُ وَإِيَّاكَ نَسۡتَعِينُ (5) ٱهۡدِنَا
ٱلصِّرَٰطَ ٱلۡمُسۡتَقِيمَ (6) صِرَٰطَ ٱلَّذِينَ أَنۡعَمۡتَ
عَلَيۡهِمۡ غَيۡرِ ٱلۡمَغۡضُوبِ عَلَيۡهِمۡ
وَلَا ٱلضَّآلِّينَ (7) سورة الفاتحة
Good for You for supporting this man and standing up for him!! 👍🏻👍🏻❣️
Kaj je narobe z vsem svetom? Slepi all 🆔
How hard it must be to live there all alone and with his disabilities. 😢🤧
Sseregogoghi spaceblè bolshoit
Hi Sergei, I understand where the sisters are coming from as they had a tough life too. I think they want him to take some responsibility for himself. If he is an alcoholic, he must stop or he will die from it. I hope the doctors can fix his leg but he must continue with rehabilitation or he will end up without mobility again. You don’t get many easy cases, Sergei so good luck and thank you for caring. ❤️🇨🇦🙏
Growing up in an orphanage definitely traumatises children one way or another.
My grandmother and her sisters where brought up in an orphanage run by the nuns in rural Ireland years ago .. she did NOT have pleasant memories!
The nuns where violent,cold bullys . And even decade's later you could still see the toll it took on her.
I can also understand the sisters frustrations, they have alot to deal with themselves and tried to help the brother and he was acting out I feel sorry for vitya but I understand where his sister's are coming from too. I have an aunty like vitya gets really drunk and then she tries to clean the house and falls down or breaks things ,gets locked out of you house.
But I also feel sorry my my aunty as she is a traumatized person but there's only so much you can talk to her about her drinking she gets defensive and shouts so we don't bother anymore , we leave her to it . We will always be there if she needs us ,gets sick etc but she won't stop drinking despite the doctors telling her too. Plus you would never think by looking at her , she's super glamorous,hair and nails always done ,nice car, nice clothes , very well dressed ,very well spoken she had a really great job, travelled and lived all over the world and now's she's retired,just drunk and angry all the time .
So I can understand from both sides and it's a hard situation to want to help your family but you also are angry watching them drink their life away.
Please let us know how his health is in a few month's
Takk!
THE POOR SISTERS WILL BE GETTING RIDICULED, YET THEY ARE HELPING. Change the video name, it's just cruel and click bait. I didn't think you guys would do that, you usually help...he has made them suffer.. and there Mum didn't get a pension, and yet they still help him after all of that and the drinking (CHANGE THE TITLE)
His family would make should sure they never see a penny of his money again. That's all they want. Poor old young man. The dogs get better treatment than the dogs in the family. I feel so sorry for him. Thanks Sergei. You try so hard. If I wasn't so old and unwell, I'd go take care of him as his maid and housekeeper. Bless his heart. I feel badly for him. He need help. Not dog food thrown from his pathetic families doors. He deserves help and love. I'm 68 and would treat him better. Than barn rats. Praying for you better than better barn rats get prayer for. Much love and prayers.
Those sisters are not responsable for the birth of their brother. They never asked to care for him. They are just expected to care for him and have their life ruined by a drunkard. The brothers and sisters who don't have anything to with him all are not being shamed because they don't care for this man. You could easily say the brother in Moscow should care for him. He probably has a much largeur salery
❤what u do!
I wish you would make these videos more about the people you're helping and less about putting their families on blast. I understand though if that's what gets the most views. I hope Vitya's doctors are able to help him regain his mobility.
That is not what Sergei is doing. He is not all about views, and it is rude of you to assume this. He is simply documentíng the entire stóry, warts and all. If family wish tó act like deranged morons that is ón them. It's better that Sérgei shows us all the truth, not just glaze over it.
@@ozgal6929 I disagree 100%, so I guess you're the type of viewer he's making these videos for.
@@8_bit_Andy nobody is forcing you to watch dude seriously. There is no ñeed for any negativity about Sergei who is a wonderful human and humanitarian. What have you dóne lately to change someóñes life for the better ?
@@ozgal6929 I'm a pediatric physical therapist, so helping making people's lives better is pretty much my life. If you want to say Sergei is a wonderful human, I won't argue, you clearly know him personally. But you can't say he's not making the video to put Vitya's family on blast when the title is 'sisters threw a helpless brother into a barn' and not 'we help a man start his journey to being able to walk again'.
@8_bit_Andy Being a pediatric therapist is a good, well - paying job in a comfortable environment. It's hardly charitable work, nor comparable to what Sergei is doing.
Hope this all works out for this young man
Victor said that he is afraid that they might want to take his leg 😩 our 7 yr old was diagnosed with cancer osteosarcoma in his right knee 😩😩😭😭💔💔 he did chemo after chemo they did operate to put in a metal piece between the calf and thigh but they did not get all of the. Cancer so she hey said to take the leg , by this time he was 8 yrs and he told the doctors “TAKE THE LEG IT DOES NOT WORK ANYMORE “ 😩😩 and he doctors were in shock and there were 8 teenagers with a the same cancer a 2 of them were in the room and they said why do you want them to take your leg ? IT DOES NOT WORK 😭😭💔😭 children are much more stronger than grownups
So you have the problem - the State, doesn't give a guvna. but the family? People work for the State, but the State doesn't work for them. So... well, they have their own problems - their lives are hard enough without 'dead weight'.
So in Soviet times, the family was everything, but that system was destroyed by the post Soviet years. People became cruel to survive. Eta Rasiya.
In the 90's - Imagine if you worked as normal, but haven't been paid for months - and there's no likelihood you will be paid at all. In fact you aren't going to be paid. Some 'Raspberry Jacket' has stolen all your wages. This is going to affect your mentality - permanently. You have worked. But you will get nothing for that work - you are f**ked. Through no fault of your own.
The trauma of that, you pass on to your children, and so on, and so on.
Vasya, ya znayu vy ponimayetye 'Eta Rasiya' - ya prosta pindos anglichanyen, no ya panimayu vsye.
I understand Vitya's circumstances are hard, but I'm getting the feeling he's playing you. Give him, he will take, and take, and, take. He will give you back the words you want to hear, then, take some more. The sisters have lived this.
God bless you Sergei, and the work that you and your team does to help disadvantaged people..
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No one wants to mention it but the sisters are resentful to there little brother, he didn't place them in an orphange, they're taking there anger out on him when their Mom and Dad should have been asked those hard questions. Pray for the him and pray God touches his sisters heart.
You don't know that!! They have done a lot to help him and his drunkenness and riotous living was hard on them and the one sisters children!They did heaps for him despite there rottenwork hours and other set backs.
Judging others is foolishness.
Seems that he was not so innocent!!! however, I do believe that the alcoholism of his parents damaged his brain and he, himself. worsened it by drinking himself... an other alcoholic!!! wow is more than 50% of rural people alcoholics in Russia it is a plage there?!?!?!?! 😥
His rt. leg muscle has atrophied bc he hasn't walked on it for so long. But the DR will
stn. & block the knee so he can put some weight on that leg again, build up strength in
it and partially move around w a Walker, Good!! Then he goes back to work and by Nov
maybe you can find him a sober room-mate to share a house with?? Bless you Sergei!
Thank you for your help as always ❤
Vasya can I ask how is it possible, that You are a young man and You are still be able to stay in country (I mean Youre not in "conflict" zone). I am srsly very curious. Nice content, found and subscribed today :) Greetings from Poland.
It usually takes a whole lot of turmoil and disappointment for families to turn their backs on a black sheep. "He was drinking and running wild". There's your answer.
Sergi, this isn't a case you can just throw money or physical things at. These are functioning adults that need guidance to work through the family dynamics. There needs to be a family meeting, including the two siblings from Moscow region. They need to stop all the blaming, arguing, and disagreement of the past. Figure out what's needed for the youngest's future: documents, passport, etc. Identify the resources they have or don't have and decide on responsibilities for moving forward. FAMILY includes each of them; one shouldn't just be pushed out, but if there is true reason to do so, get the brother properly assigned with the government so he will at least get disability pension.
Seems the sisters tried as much as they could to help him...but he didn't want to help himself! Hopefully he's more mentally mature now and will do the right things.
Good work, Sergi!
Fuckin hell Vashya I'm intrigued by your honest and complimentary attitude. Kindness is hard to come by these days with genuine concern. Your a fuckin star dude .
To those making excuses. A famous guy said, "A person is responsible for everything he does in life. The only exception is during the death rattle."