I'm so happy I found your channel. I said on another video that our stories are similar... after this video, I see how we are different. My mom died when I was 3. I was raised by an abusive stepmother. Beaten, belittled, humiliated, isolated.... I'm 55. I had my first 2 daughters when I was 20 and 22. At 26 I became an alcoholic. At 30 I had my 3rd daughter from an affair. At 35 I was a full blown crack addict and pill popper. At 42, I got clean and im still sober today. I want to talk about breaking the cycle... I loved my daughters so hard! They mean everything to me. But I was an addict. Thank God their dad, my husband of 35 years (he's a freaking saint) took over when I checked out. But NOW they are wildly successful. All 3 of them. They are great mothers! They love me. I'm so lucky! I have a great therapist now, im working on my inner family. It's hard. It's so hard. The trauma keeps coming and coming back. I don't have the escape anymore. It's scary. I have psoriatic arthritis. My therapist says it's from trauma. Omg... I just trauma dumped! I'm trying so hard to stop being narcissistic. Thank you for sharing your story. You reached me.
No way we have been through so much trauma it is not considered trauma dumping when we're talking to each other okay you can talk to me about anything and i can one hundred percent relate because i'm sure i went through it too. Please don't ever be afraid to talk to me. I am so happy and extremely proud of you that you broke the cycle!!! you have made so much progress and so much improvement and you are right healing is very painful. But it's better to process through it while you're sober and more stable not high.You got this babe!!!!!!!
Proud of you ❤ I saw your video about Ruby. I’m now a follower. Give yourself grace and time and forgiveness. The verbal abuse sticks around and at least for me I didn’t realize it was still there decades later. It would sneak up on me. Keep going 🙏
I'm so happy I found your channel. I said on another video that our stories are similar... after this video, I see how we are different. My mom died when I was 3. I was raised by an abusive stepmother. Beaten, belittled, humiliated, isolated.... I'm 55. I had my first 2 daughters when I was 20 and 22. At 26 I became an alcoholic. At 30 I had my 3rd daughter from an affair. At 35 I was a full blown crack addict and pill popper. At 42, I got clean and im still sober today. I want to talk about breaking the cycle... I loved my daughters so hard! They mean everything to me. But I was an addict. Thank God their dad, my husband of 35 years (he's a freaking saint) took over when I checked out. But NOW they are wildly successful. All 3 of them. They are great mothers! They love me. I'm so lucky! I have a great therapist now, im working on my inner family. It's hard. It's so hard. The trauma keeps coming and coming back. I don't have the escape anymore. It's scary. I have psoriatic arthritis. My therapist says it's from trauma. Omg... I just trauma dumped! I'm trying so hard to stop being narcissistic. Thank you for sharing your story. You reached me.
No way we have been through so much trauma it is not considered trauma dumping when we're talking to each other okay you can talk to me about anything and i can one hundred percent relate because i'm sure i went through it too. Please don't ever be afraid to talk to me. I am so happy and extremely proud of you that you broke the cycle!!! you have made so much progress and so much improvement and you are right healing is very painful. But it's better to process through it while you're sober and more stable not high.You got this babe!!!!!!!
Proud of you ❤
I saw your video about Ruby. I’m now a follower.
Give yourself grace and time and forgiveness.
The verbal abuse sticks around and at least for me I didn’t realize it was still there decades later. It would sneak up on me.
Keep going 🙏