I feel so bad for Jose when he said out of all his siblings, he was the only one giving up for foster care at 16 on his birthday and then now he don’t look forward for his birthday that broke my heart not to mention he been raped he have been through so much you can look and see all the pain in his eyes. I’m so happy that him and his mom is going to go to therapy
Adults that violate children have no idea the lifelong impact they make on that person’s mental health. And it’s sickening how many of us have been violated as children the numbers are astounding and disturbing.
It doesn’t matter, they don’t care about the lifelong impact, only themsleves and their temporary pleasure. I pray for all the children out here, and the adults traumatized from years ago🫶🏾🙏🏾💕
I actually think most or all adults absolutely understand the repercussions of the abuse and trauma they inflict on children which is why they do it.. Gives them a sense of power and control which is typically the cornerstone for most perpetrators.. Very disturbing
I have a feeling that the grandmother is actually a lot to blame for him going into foster care and a lot of issues between them. I think she controlled her daughter and took advantage when she was in hospital to get rid of her grandson that was gay and ‘problematic’
The way some of yall act like just because somebody is your biological parent you have to “respect & honor” them is INSANE! Knock it off. He has every right to feel how he feels & express his emotions. Yall weren’t there for how he was treated so give it a rest on how YALL think he should treat her!!!
He so handsome and hurt you can see him holding his emotions back because he felt neglected by his mother and it sad cause she only doing what her mother taught her when she needed her mom
She didn’t. The show was very confusing, but it seems that he was taken away while she was away in the hospital. I’m still not sure why only he was taken.
It was stated that he attacked someone or became violent in some way. This story was the hardest to follow. The teacher in me was itching because there was no chronological order in the storytelling. Sentences were incomplete. Mom was repeatedly interrupted, which makes me wonder if she was telling the truth and he didn't want it heard. It was just hard to follow him. I pray he gives counseling a real shot as an adult. He's not going to heal on his own.
For who? Sadly the state of being this woman is in I can only imagine who she had a baby with and he may not have been any better. He should have asked the Dad for a paternity test and ask him why he wasn’t around either.
This is a prime example of parents that do the best with what they got. What I mean is, a lot of parents are parenting with vital missing tools. Obviously she loves and cares for him. No doubt or presumptions about that. On the other hand, she was raised to shut the door and ignore the fire in the other room. Doesn’t excuse the hurt she caused her son, but it does create an understanding for me. That’s what Karamo is saying when he says give some grace.
I feel kind of lost. He was removed from the household at 16 years old while she was hospitalized. Why wasn’t he ever brought back home? She said she was told he was doing good in foster care. Does that mean she never saw him or talked to him while he was in there?
Karamo needs to address this nonsense of ppl blaming every bad thing that happens to them is because they’re gay. It’s not always the case. She loves her son. They’re both victims of circumstance.
This is probably the first time he’s been in a safe space to communicate these things to her and he wants to get it all out. Remember, we are always the parent and they are always the child. It’s her job to listen. If she gotta wait til next time to “defend” herself, then that’s just what she gotta do.
Generational trauma is a very involved situation. I know from experience, and so do my children. It can be debilitating, but healing is around the corner. It just takes lots of work, acceptance, and accountability.
He is still a MAN traumatized and he is crying he is just trying his best to hold it in.... Give the man some grace..... this is/was a tough situation!!
He was out of control. He was committing crimes. Had a probation officer before he was 18. She had other children to raise. Can we not hate on this Mother. Talking one by one didn't work with this kid at all. That is plain to see. Mother did what she felt was right at the time for her other children.
@@MrFirebomb969 iidk.....he said he was dealing with a probation officer when he was 16.....so he is been in trouble a lot before that if he is on probation at 16 already
@@stephaniecardenas652 As you sit in judgement of others......you do not know what was going on in that home. How much money in court costs is this kid costing his Mother, while she is trying to feed other children? What abuse is the kid giving the Mother and other children in the household? He was on probation but still going out and causing problems, while his MOTHER was in the hospital. I don't know what I would do....but if it came down to protecting the younger children in the household.....then YES.....100%!!!!! Sometimes there are no more options. Don't judge this women with your duckface pic!
Karam❤. Your topics and your concerns for ppl are very emotional and however well needed. A lot of us have drowned our truth in so many unhealthy trauma bond events that it's until you're much older that we see how we effected our families and what our own parents went through. I'm thkful for my mother knowing I need therapy and God to carry me to where I am today. I'm not a victim, for I survived and never stirred away frm getting help and trying to reach my children and their children that therapy, a third party that knows how to help. Thk you for all you d❤.🎉😊
How are you alive and well and make a phone call to put your child in foster care? And he was the only one. She's lucky because I'd never speak to my mother again
He was taken away when she was in the hospital. He previously stated that he had been violent. I don't think he put her in the hospital, but there were some issues, and things happened when she couldn't protect him. I believe grandma may have cause him to be taken away.
That's exactly what I thought, whilst he has experienced trauma, I wanted to know the facts of how/why things went into direction. There's two sides to every situation.
I watched the whole show but I had the feeling he was full of drama but the momma was hiding her angry too but I feel bad for the mom because he accused her of something so horrible but I know kids be switched at birth
He is annoying me so bad. I don’t know what it is, but he is working my nerves. He seems like poor me, I’m a victim. He didn’t let his mom even speak. He seems very mentally off.
He didn't let her speak because this what a lot of people do that Play victim. How can you be a disrespectful bad child that don't understand why a mother give up when she can't do it anymore. All you have to do is be respectful and go to school be successful and get out of your parents house.
as a mother there would be no way in hell i would abandon my son in the foster system. as well as he would of been out of soon as possible. you dont send one child to foster care and expect them to be okay with that??? you are annoying that you cant understand what he’s going through
@@emmanormand314 I watched a video where a young man mom was having problems with him disrespecting her. When you have other kids and you have one kid been disrespectful it teaches the other ones to behave the same. He never let his mom finish saying all the things he was doing because it would have gave people a different perspective about the situation. His mom been knew he was gay but he kept trying to use that to his advantage.
This episode was terrible…nothing makes sense…he keep saying she sent him to foster care “for being gay” but she was in the hospital while him and his siblings were with the gma soooo how is that her fault??? Like I’m genuinely confused as to how she’s at fault
@@helpkelp3595 probably because he had been violent, as they say, and he was out of control..I imagine to protect the other children, by the grandmother...
Why tf would you let your child fo to a foster home worse thing you can do as a parent idgaf kid was molested MOLESTED!!! That's torture I pray for this man I belive his life would've looked very different if she just would've made better choices for her children
It seems like she did not have any control over it. It seems like he was taken when she was gone away to the hospital. Was there another time when she sent him herself? It was a very confusing episode.
I feel the mom n I get she had alot going on and I also understand we all come from different struggles nonetheless that handsome dude is going through his own trauma as well n I'm glad he is very well and outspoken to say it too hopefully they heal together n build a stronger bond ❤❤❤
Why did the son have to reach out for a hug at first 😢, I feel like mom should’ve reached out when she first walked out especially having not talked to him in a year, & bc of his trauma he had in foster care etc. what kind of mom is she??? I’d grab my son & tell him I’m sorry etc instead of saying “I’m not perfect” who cares who is right or wrong, your baby is hurting & needs you & he feels all alone in this world!! 😡
@@tara_oscar2 my point was he reached out for a hug first , and he’s the one who been through trauma and was sent away, she is the mother & should’ve reached & gave more grace
@@lynnmoses3563 he loves & longs for his mother, it’s clear. Now SHE didn’t give him a chance by being him away, she was wrong & even if he did have a rebuttal, she should take it like a champ & keep trying.
Why are people so focused about the skin tone??? That bothers me so much . My siblings and I are all different shades of black. I will never understand. We need to educate our future children
@@helpkelp3595 should she have checked herself out the hospital and tell him to behave? This boy was acting out so the grnadma had him out the house to protect the siblings
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He seems like he just wants to be a victim and has no intention of wanting to fix anything. He wants to be hurt, he wants to lash out at his mom, and he wants to be right not fix anything.
Yep wants to be drama cause drama or be around drama it's the victim mentality tht is crippling us as the last couple of generations YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE HURT YOU ALSO HAVE THE RIGHT TO HEAL its the best revenge against the monsters you can get stay in shyt you will always be dirty/ shyty 100% and gays men tend to want to sit really sit in extremely unfortunate events in their lives I have experienced EVERY KIND OF ABUSE thruout my life I grew up in a religious cult ran away to NYC @16 because it was safer then my parents home I got into a DV marriage @17 and stayed for 14yrs I have dealt with serious health issues ALONE I had a fiance die on me a niece I considered a child ghost me I have to SEVER DV incidents ppl went to jail for yrs etc I went no contact with bio moms she so negative refuses to admit she was part of the abuse cycle I wish this man peace I went to college with a 4th grade education I became a psych nurse the biggest issue faced by ppl with psych issues is their abuse histories remove those histories and their psych won't be as severe this guest needs psych / psychological help
Maybe he should. He's hurt been raped and abandoned by his mom. Mom wants him to move on and it's all good. Bullshit.Foster care is eighty percent horrific.
I don’t think she is sincere when he needed her she kicked him to the curb he’s grown now she wants to be all involved. Sorry I’m a mother and grandmother you let NO ONE NOTHING COME BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR CHILD
This is how karmic cycles and generational curse stay prevelent Mom clearly has gone through things that she hadn’t received support/validation for nor healed from before becoming a parent Son is in the same boat but also very reluctant to seek counseling Just hope and pray they do get help and break the cycle
I love Karamo show so much because his show allows all types of genders to speak their truth. Thank you so much for doing this show, it broke my heart what he went through being put into foster care and being treated differently. I love how his mother apologised and said she would be with him all the way. Similar things happened to me when I was younger and my mother up to date refused to take accountability. I pray that he gets the help that he needs. Love you Karamo! ❣❣❣❣❣
If things happened that way for him I pray he seeks therapy because he seems to be stuck in victim mode. Everything is everybody's fault and it leads back to him being gay. Maybe he not all the way okay with it . He needs therapy either way. He coming off like a manipulator. Something not right with this story.
Two sides he was a violent and belligerent teen..his mother had other kids to raise so she let him go..he created a scenario in his mind that she must not be my mom if she could do this or allow this to happen to me.. not once did he take responsibility for behaving in a manner that made his mother choose between her mother and her son
These shows pains me so bad even though I don’t know these people it’s still pains me. I am so grateful that I know who my parents are and that it was a privilege for me. I feel too grow up with them every step of the way. They were strict, but I know they were strict.
There's so much more to the story. He was about to t the row his mother under the bus without saying he had accused her of not being mother so much more to this story
He wasn't adopted nor did she give him up because he was gay. something serious happened that legal had to get involved! apparently the mother wasn’t home due to work or running errands… since he was a minor he was taken from the home. He felt like his mother could have done more however she didn’t have the resources because as she stated, she was a young mother and she had multiple children not excusing, and the father was not there and he felt like since he was different from his siblings he had it off different. He was not allowing her to talk. This was this was a easy one.
I don’t know I just feel like she should look at him more when she’s responding to how he feels. She looks into the crowd a lot and at Koramo when she’s replying a lot and I may be wrong or she’s just looking for support. I just feel like maybe it could make Jose feel a little more loved🤷🏽♀️
That baby is numb ❤ I remember wishing I was adopted so I could take the pain better. But knowing my own flesh and blood did those things to me didn't make sense. How can our own family hurt us
Everybody have their own way of moving to accept anything,nobody need to feel like victims because of the reaction of others. Everybody need to give each other time to process any reality. She loves her son.I understand his feeling too. I hope they continue forward posotively.
I had to put my 14 yr old on the system to save him from the streets and as I’m typing this I’m going through this but I have never left him the judge in the case have recognized I’m just a mom asking for help but I have never gone for what the said I am active with him every single day I visit him I STILL HAVE THE RIGHTS TO MY CHILD but never did I just left him and didn’t looked back that was not the intention. It is working with the experience and a lot of prayers my son it’s realizing the streets is not what he wants or needs.
This episode confused me if she wasn’t there when he got removed, she was in the hospital. What was going on? He wouldn’t let her talk to herself he kept cutting her off. He seems so disappointed I thought it was numbness, but it looks like disappointment .Something off! Great job of him, expressing his feelings and great job to Mom for allowing him and not making excuses but something off! We need an update with some questions answered!!!!
@kimwilliams5933 my point is she was an unmarried teen mom at the time of his birth. Make it make sense. Why would she steal his birth certificate to hide it if he was grown 😐 and already had it in his possession.
This Mother is horrible...she gave up her Son and didn't bother with him because of a Man...yet had other kids also. If you don't want to raise children...don't have them. Karamo is ridiculous to expect a child to be more mature than the parent.
This young man has been through too much and not to have his mother made my heart break into pieces. Just because he’s gay doesn’t mean you had to put him in foster care. You should still love your child through their sexual orientation. I’m gay but I never told my parents but I did tell my stepmom and she still loves me ❤🏳️🌈🥺
Why would you let your child go to foster care at 16 ?? Unreal ! I'm sure he feels like he wasn't worthy of love . So sad now he will have to heal from the trauma of being abandoned.
What type of service plan was put in place. Why she did not work with the system to get her son out of care. Why did he go into care? There’s too much questions to this
His Mom is not willing to do the work. Karamo doesn’t understand the cultural subtext of this relationship. She’s playing it up and what she did is way more cruel than Karamo is understanding. The only reason foster care would take one child and a child that old is if that child - alone - was in danger. She had to have said something singling him out for being gay and creating an unsafe environment for him for them to take him away. It sounds like the bulk of her abuse was thrown on him so the siblings took her side - out of fear for their livelihood or for other reasons. Hopefully he can take these results and find or create a new family to be a part of. A found-family will be the answer for him.
Something in the spaghetti salad is missing. Where is the grandma? Was the mom hospitalized or institutionalized? Could she not get him back? If he was 16 when he went in how old is he now? I have too many questions.
He did something that caused harm to someone in their family or close to the family…she started speaking about the new man in her life. Was that before or after placed in foster care? This story has way more to it and it’s like he only wanted people to hear his side. Not saying he doesn’t have the right to be upset but you have to understand when there’s other siblings in the home you have to make certain decisions to keep everyone safe. I’m sure dss would have took them all if she didn’t have him removed due to whatever happened. He should have listened and let her tell her side and maybe Karamo could have helped them some of that and of course with the help of counseling.
I feel so bad for Jose when he said out of all his siblings, he was the only one giving up for foster care at 16 on his birthday and then now he don’t look forward for his birthday that broke my heart not to mention he been raped he have been through so much you can look and see all the pain in his eyes. I’m so happy that him and his mom is going to go to therapy
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@@patritiacoopermanga1692 what do you find funny about this posted please let me know
He was a trouble kid that’s why all this happened to him
@@Yo.222 and that’s no reason to send him to foster care
@@Yo.222sure
You can see his pain through his eyes, I truly hope he gets the help he needs
Adults that violate children have no idea the lifelong impact they make on that person’s mental health. And it’s sickening how many of us have been violated as children the numbers are astounding and disturbing.
Prayer, change, and never give up.
It doesn’t matter, they don’t care about the lifelong impact, only themsleves and their temporary pleasure. I pray for all the children out here, and the adults traumatized from years ago🫶🏾🙏🏾💕
I actually think most or all adults absolutely understand the repercussions of the abuse and trauma they inflict on children which is why they do it.. Gives them a sense of power and control which is typically the cornerstone for most perpetrators.. Very disturbing
I have a feeling that the grandmother is actually a lot to blame for him going into foster care and a lot of issues between them. I think she controlled her daughter and took advantage when she was in hospital to get rid of her grandson that was gay and ‘problematic’
I don't think he was gay at first, he was raped so it probably turned him that way
The way some of yall act like just because somebody is your biological parent you have to “respect & honor” them is INSANE! Knock it off. He has every right to feel how he feels & express his emotions. Yall weren’t there for how he was treated so give it a rest on how YALL think he should treat her!!!
Bullshit.because he was asshole and was acting out don't give him the right to torture your mom...anybody for that matter.take yo ass to therapy
He so handsome and hurt you can see him holding his emotions back because he felt neglected by his mother and it sad cause she only doing what her mother taught her when she needed her mom
But why would she send him to foster care & not the other kids???
She didn’t. The show was very confusing, but it seems that he was taken away while she was away in the hospital. I’m still not sure why only he was taken.
I believe he's part black that's why
@@user-zu3oq9zp7she’s not black he’s just Mexican
It was stated that he attacked someone or became violent in some way. This story was the hardest to follow. The teacher in me was itching because there was no chronological order in the storytelling. Sentences were incomplete. Mom was repeatedly interrupted, which makes me wonder if she was telling the truth and he didn't want it heard. It was just hard to follow him. I pray he gives counseling a real shot as an adult. He's not going to heal on his own.
growing up without a father is soooo painful
For who? Sadly the state of being this woman is in I can only imagine who she had a baby with and he may not have been any better. He should have asked the Dad for a paternity test and ask him why he wasn’t around either.
No its not
Sometimes it’s what’s better .. 😢
@@Ohitslenci huh
Where are we watching the same episode? lol
This is a prime example of parents that do the best with what they got. What I mean is, a lot of parents are parenting with vital missing tools. Obviously she loves and cares for him. No doubt or presumptions about that. On the other hand, she was raised to shut the door and ignore the fire in the other room. Doesn’t excuse the hurt she caused her son, but it does create an understanding for me. That’s what Karamo is saying when he says give some grace.
I feel kind of lost. He was removed from the household at 16 years old while she was hospitalized. Why wasn’t he ever brought back home? She said she was told he was doing good in foster care. Does that mean she never saw him or talked to him while he was in there?
right .. im confused myself
She said the grandma sent him but he kept interrupting her so I don’t get it
@@hms3412 ohhhhh okayyy
I’m just as confused as you are
Yes this is very confusing
Karamo needs to address this nonsense of ppl blaming every bad thing that happens to them is because they’re gay. It’s not always the case. She loves her son. They’re both victims of circumstance.
Exactly
@stephaniescott294 you're both generalizing. It's not helpful.
@@jackwalter5970you’re being divisive. That’s self serving.
how is the mother victim of circumstance when she left and abandoned her son in the system.
This !!!!
In order to heal he also needs to learn to listen. He keeps cutting her when she speaks, I can see he is hurt but so is she. God be with them both.
True but it’s understandable
This is probably the first time he’s been in a safe space to communicate these things to her and he wants to get it all out. Remember, we are always the parent and they are always the child. It’s her job to listen. If she gotta wait til next time to “defend” herself, then that’s just what she gotta do.
Generational trauma is a very involved situation. I know from experience, and so do my children. It can be debilitating, but healing is around the corner. It just takes lots of work, acceptance, and accountability.
King Karamo🤴🏾 to the rescue , as always slayin n healin 💫🦋
He doesn't know who he’ll be if he's not a victim. Its clear how depressed he is.
I never thought of it that way. Thanks for posting this cos I needed to hear that today ..... For myself and my journey. It hit home.
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I still don’t understand why he was the only child in foster care. Also something about her seems inauthentic. How tf you crying with no tears?
In him too
Probably different dads. Nothing else makes sense.
He is still a MAN traumatized and he is crying he is just trying his best to hold it in.... Give the man some grace..... this is/was a tough situation!!
@@GoodNCrazyNews I think he was referring to the mom!
He needs to move on and find people who love and accept him by choice. She stole his identity and is gaslighting him.
All I needed to see was the nose, not to mention she definitely knows who she carried for 9 months.
Exactly, same hooked nose
Me too hahah
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He was out of control. He was committing crimes. Had a probation officer before he was 18. She had other children to raise. Can we not hate on this Mother. Talking one by one didn't work with this kid at all. That is plain to see. Mother did what she felt was right at the time for her other children.
Exactly. He went to foster care because he was getting into trouble.
Did he stay in trouble all the way until 18???
@@MrFirebomb969 iidk.....he said he was dealing with a probation officer when he was 16.....so he is been in trouble a lot before that if he is on probation at 16 already
So you’d give your child to foster care cause you can’t control them ?
@@stephaniecardenas652 As you sit in judgement of others......you do not know what was going on in that home. How much money in court costs is this kid costing his Mother, while she is trying to feed other children? What abuse is the kid giving the Mother and other children in the household? He was on probation but still going out and causing problems, while his MOTHER was in the hospital. I don't know what I would do....but if it came down to protecting the younger children in the household.....then YES.....100%!!!!! Sometimes there are no more options. Don't judge this women with your duckface pic!
Karam❤. Your topics and your concerns for ppl are very emotional and however well needed. A lot of us have drowned our truth in so many unhealthy trauma bond events that it's until you're much older that we see how we effected our families and what our own parents went through. I'm thkful for my mother knowing I need therapy and God to carry me to where I am today. I'm not a victim, for I survived and never stirred away frm getting help and trying to reach my children and their children that therapy, a third party that knows how to help. Thk you for all you d❤.🎉😊
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How are you alive and well and make a phone call to put your child in foster care? And he was the only one. She's lucky because I'd never speak to my mother again
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Seriously I’m in shock. I couldn’t imagine
She was hospitalized when he went into foster care, it wasn’t her.
He was taken away when she was in the hospital. He previously stated that he had been violent. I don't think he put her in the hospital, but there were some issues, and things happened when she couldn't protect him. I believe grandma may have cause him to be taken away.
OMG her mom didn't even get a chance to talk
That's exactly what I thought, whilst he has experienced trauma, I wanted to know the facts of how/why things went into direction. There's two sides to every situation.
She hasn't shed one tear🙄... I hope he gets the healing he needs
I watched the whole show but I had the feeling he was full of drama but the momma was hiding her angry too but I feel bad for the mom because he accused her of something so horrible but I know kids be switched at birth
I feel bad for Jose
there is a HUGE gap in this story that’s not making sense? i’m so confused..? i hope in the end they work it out & love each other dearly!
Uncle karamo i will be on your show soon #Second
He is annoying me so bad. I don’t know what it is, but he is working my nerves. He seems like poor me, I’m a victim. He didn’t let his mom even speak. He seems very mentally off.
He didn't let her speak because this what a lot of people do that Play victim. How can you be a disrespectful bad child that don't understand why a mother give up when she can't do it anymore. All you have to do is be respectful and go to school be successful and get out of your parents house.
Exactly! I wanted to hear her explain what Karamo was asking her!
as a mother there would be no way in hell i would abandon my son in the foster system. as well as he would of been out of soon as possible. you dont send one child to foster care and expect them to be okay with that??? you are annoying that you cant understand what he’s going through
@@nikishamitchell9155did you watch the same video i did? what you just said is vile.
@@emmanormand314 I watched a video where a young man mom was having problems with him disrespecting her. When you have other kids and you have one kid been disrespectful it teaches the other ones to behave the same. He never let his mom finish saying all the things he was doing because it would have gave people a different perspective about the situation. His mom been knew he was gay but he kept trying to use that to his advantage.
This episode was terrible…nothing makes sense…he keep saying she sent him to foster care “for being gay” but she was in the hospital while him and his siblings were with the gma soooo how is that her fault??? Like I’m genuinely confused as to how she’s at fault
Exactly
What doesn't make sense is why he out of all his siblings was put in foster care 🤔
@@helpkelp3595 probably because he had been violent, as they say, and he was out of control..I imagine to protect the other children, by the grandmother...
Why tf would you let your child fo to a foster home worse thing you can do as a parent idgaf kid was molested MOLESTED!!! That's torture I pray for this man I belive his life would've looked very different if she just would've made better choices for her children
She didnt...she was in hospital and the grandmother did.
I'm so proud of him and his mom.
Mom made a big mistake putting him in foster care.
It seems like she did not have any control over it. It seems like he was taken when she was gone away to the hospital. Was there another time when she sent him herself? It was a very confusing episode.
Where did you hear that it was even an option ?
she is sick if she just left him there in foster care.
I feel the mom n I get she had alot going on and I also understand we all come from different struggles nonetheless that handsome dude is going through his own trauma as well n I'm glad he is very well and outspoken to say it too hopefully they heal together n build a stronger bond ❤❤❤
He needs some heavy therapy and some momma love
I hope this young man gets everything he needs to heal and have a wonderful life
Why did the son have to reach out for a hug at first 😢, I feel like mom should’ve reached out when she first walked out especially having not talked to him in a year, & bc of his trauma he had in foster care etc. what kind of mom is she??? I’d grab my son & tell him I’m sorry etc instead of saying “I’m not perfect” who cares who is right or wrong, your baby is hurting & needs you & he feels all alone in this world!! 😡
she did
He didnt give her a chance!
@@tara_oscar2 my point was he reached out for a hug first , and he’s the one who been through trauma and was sent away, she is the mother & should’ve reached & gave more grace
@@lynnmoses3563 he loves & longs for his mother, it’s clear. Now SHE didn’t give him a chance by being him away, she was wrong & even if he did have a rebuttal, she should take it like a champ & keep trying.
Karomo got him ANOTHER SON!!!!!!!!!
Why are people so focused about the skin tone??? That bothers me so much . My siblings and I are all different shades of black. I will never understand. We need to educate our future children
Her testimony she said "His mother didnt want me to have him" did she tell on herself?!
She said his father...
This poor baby. Emotionally immature parents love hiding being “not being perfect.” No one is. Be a good person, my God.
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I’m sorry I would have never forgiven her for putting me in foster care at the big age of 16. It would be clipped.
The grandmother put him there while she was in the hospital. I think he was being wild and hanging out and not listening.
@@tonyamontgomery2733that is not deserving of foster care though, you know how many kids are violated and abused in there?
So sad😢@@helpkelp3595
@@helpkelp3595 should she have checked herself out the hospital and tell him to behave? This boy was acting out so the grnadma had him out the house to protect the siblings
@@tara_oscar2 Children aren't pets you take to a pound when they misbehave
i wish i can get some free tickets to go see him i can sit in the audience
Write the show and ask that's how you get them let them know you're going to be in town and you would like free tickets to the show because you're a faithful viewer I guarantee you will get free tickets
You will love it. I did it for a few months
Me too. They never emailed me back when I requested tickets.
Their side profiles are literally identical. 😂
Allow the mother to tell her side . The son has to stay quiet for a minute
He seems like he just wants to be a victim and has no intention of wanting to fix anything. He wants to be hurt, he wants to lash out at his mom, and he wants to be right not fix anything.
Exactly 💯, it's obvious.
Yep wants to be drama cause drama or be around drama it's the victim mentality tht is crippling us as the last couple of generations YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE HURT YOU ALSO HAVE THE RIGHT TO HEAL its the best revenge against the monsters you can get stay in shyt you will always be dirty/ shyty 100% and gays men tend to want to sit really sit in extremely unfortunate events in their lives I have experienced EVERY KIND OF ABUSE thruout my life I grew up in a religious cult ran away to NYC @16 because it was safer then my parents home I got into a DV marriage @17 and stayed for 14yrs I have dealt with serious health issues ALONE I had a fiance die on me a niece I considered a child ghost me I have to SEVER DV incidents ppl went to jail for yrs etc I went no contact with bio moms she so negative refuses to admit she was part of the abuse cycle I wish this man peace I went to college with a 4th grade education I became a psych nurse the biggest issue faced by ppl with psych issues is their abuse histories remove those histories and their psych won't be as severe this guest needs psych / psychological help
The son raises his voice and doesn't listen to what his momma has to say
Maybe he should. He's hurt been raped and abandoned by his mom. Mom wants him to move on and it's all good. Bullshit.Foster care is eighty percent horrific.
RIGHT ON ❤️🖤💚✊🏽🇺🇲
she put him in foster care for being gay
He never raised his voice one time I could barely hear him through those tears! He never interrupted her not once did you watch the video?
When did he raise his voice? He's hurt and just wants to be heard.
She's playing the victim when it is him. Dreadful mother she's very cold.
Everyone needs healing from trauma wounds. Sending compassion and love to everyone
OMG!! Crying here!
I don’t think she is sincere when he needed her she kicked him to the curb he’s grown now she wants to be all involved. Sorry I’m a mother and grandmother you let NO ONE NOTHING COME BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR CHILD
Poor guy. I feel bad for him.
This is how karmic cycles and generational curse stay prevelent
Mom clearly has gone through things that she hadn’t received support/validation for nor healed from before becoming a parent
Son is in the same boat but also very reluctant to seek counseling
Just hope and pray they do get help and break the cycle
I love Karamo show so much because his show allows all types of genders to speak their truth. Thank you so much for doing this show, it broke my heart what he went through being put into foster care and being treated differently. I love how his mother apologised and said she would be with him all the way. Similar things happened to me when I was younger and my mother up to date refused to take accountability. I pray that he gets the help that he needs. Love you Karamo! ❣❣❣❣❣
Whew😢 this one was so heavy Karamo. Thank you for handling it with care.
I’m praying they both can heal from trauma and abandonment now they both know the truth. 😢
If things happened that way for him I pray he seeks therapy because he seems to be stuck in victim mode. Everything is everybody's fault and it leads back to him being gay. Maybe he not all the way okay with it . He needs therapy either way. He coming off like a manipulator. Something not right with this story.
Two sides he was a violent and belligerent teen..his mother had other kids to raise so she let him go..he created a scenario in his mind that she must not be my mom if she could do this or allow this to happen to me.. not once did he take responsibility for behaving in a manner that made his mother choose between her mother and her son
The past can hurt for any person and one thing I learn be strong and take life day by day
I watched the whole show but I had the feeling he was full of drama but the momma was hiding her angry too
I would be "full of drama" too if I out of all my siblings was put in foster care then violated
These shows pains me so bad even though I don’t know these people it’s still pains me. I am so grateful that I know who my parents are and that it was a privilege for me. I feel too grow up with them every step of the way. They were strict, but I know they were strict.
There's so much more to the story. He was about to t the row his mother under the bus without saying he had accused her of not being mother so much more to this story
Major miscommunication and false accusations
Exactly
The grand mother is at fault for getting him to foster care
He wasn't adopted nor did she give him up because he was gay. something serious happened that legal had to get involved! apparently the mother wasn’t home due to work or running errands… since he was a minor he was taken from the home. He felt like his mother could have done more however she didn’t have the resources because as she stated, she was a young mother and she had multiple children not excusing, and the father was not there and he felt like since he was different from his siblings he had it off different. He was not allowing her to talk. This was this was a easy one.
I feel so bad for this young man with his handsome self😢😢😢. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 if people only accept you the hell with them.
I don’t know I just feel like she should look at him more when she’s responding to how he feels. She looks into the crowd a lot and at Koramo when she’s replying a lot and I may be wrong or she’s just looking for support. I just feel like maybe it could make Jose feel a little more loved🤷🏽♀️
Glad that she is is biological mom. Hope that they can both heal
God is number 1. He wants us not to be condemned
they both in pain i’m in tears for both
My heart aches for this man and I pray that he gets the services he needs. Not for anything he looks like his mother.
That baby is numb ❤ I remember wishing I was adopted so I could take the pain better. But knowing my own flesh and blood did those things to me didn't make sense. How can our own family hurt us
Looks like he keep getting into trouble when he was young that how the foster care started
Everybody have their own way of moving to accept anything,nobody need to feel like victims because of the reaction of others. Everybody need to give each other time to process any reality. She loves her son.I understand his feeling too. I hope they continue forward posotively.
So many of us are products of traumatized people who don't knoe how to love their kids. I hope Jose receives the love he deserves from his mom ❤❤
This tore me up on the inside but it was good at the end. No one should go through this ❤🥺🌈
I had to put my 14 yr old on the system to save him from the streets and as I’m typing this I’m going through this but I have never left him the judge in the case have recognized I’m just a mom asking for help but I have never gone for what the said I am active with him every single day I visit him I STILL HAVE THE RIGHTS TO MY CHILD but never did I just left him and didn’t looked back that was not the intention. It is working with the experience and a lot of prayers my son it’s realizing the streets is not what he wants or needs.
Very confusing story. A lot didn't make sense. Foster care is one of the most dangerous places to leave your child. Hopefully he can find peace.
This episode confused me if she wasn’t there when he got removed, she was in the hospital. What was going on? He wouldn’t let her talk to herself he kept cutting her off. He seems so disappointed I thought it was numbness, but it looks like disappointment .Something off! Great job of him, expressing his feelings and great job to Mom for allowing him and not making excuses but something off! We need an update with some questions answered!!!!
The mom also sound like she was scared to tell some more truth to the situation
Its crazy so many of us hate our birthday
Mine is tomorrow and my phone is on do not disturb
Makes no sense he has seen his birth certificate with her name on it how can he be adopted 😮😮😮😮😮
Im adopted and my adopted parents names as well as my name change are on my birth certificate
@kimwilliams5933 my point is she was an unmarried teen mom at the time of his birth. Make it make sense. Why would she steal his birth certificate to hide it if he was grown 😐 and already had it in his possession.
@@kimwilliams5933he didn’t say anyone’s else name was on his birth certificate. This episode didn’t make any sense. At all.
This doesn't make any sense why did she do this?.
I feel for from him 😔and I hope with therapy and get a better mother siblings and him a connection ❤❤❤🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Gosh this made me emotional .. 😮💨
These men be watching these red pill podcasts and now they hate they single mothers smh.
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This Mother is horrible...she gave up her Son and didn't bother with him because of a Man...yet had other kids also. If you don't want to raise children...don't have them. Karamo is ridiculous to expect a child to be more mature than the parent.
I haven’t seen the video yet, but he looks just like her!! 😅
This young man has been through too much and not to have his mother made my heart break into pieces. Just because he’s gay doesn’t mean you had to put him in foster care. You should still love your child through their sexual orientation. I’m gay but I never told my parents but I did tell my stepmom and she still loves me ❤🏳️🌈🥺
Why would you let your child go to foster care at 16 ?? Unreal ! I'm sure he feels like he wasn't worthy of love . So sad now he will have to heal from the trauma of being abandoned.
I just want to hug him so bad !!!
A lot of people need grace in life… there is hurt but there is love a huge amount of love.
What type of service plan was put in place. Why she did not work with the system to get her son out of care.
Why did he go into care? There’s too much questions to this
She kept brushing off the fact she sent him into foster care. Her emotions are so forced.
I am so emotional about this.
Someone said something profound about trauma; the mind gets stuck at that stage.
His Mom is not willing to do the work. Karamo doesn’t understand the cultural subtext of this relationship.
She’s playing it up and what she did is way more cruel than Karamo is understanding.
The only reason foster care would take one child and a child that old is if that child - alone - was in danger. She had to have said something singling him out for being gay and creating an unsafe environment for him for them to take him away. It sounds like the bulk of her abuse was thrown on him so the siblings took her side - out of fear for their livelihood or for other reasons.
Hopefully he can take these results and find or create a new family to be a part of. A found-family will be the answer for him.
Something in the spaghetti salad is missing. Where is the grandma? Was the mom hospitalized or institutionalized? Could she not get him back? If he was 16 when he went in how old is he now? I have too many questions.
He did something that caused harm to someone in their family or close to the family…she started speaking about the new man in her life. Was that before or after placed in foster care? This story has way more to it and it’s like he only wanted people to hear his side. Not saying he doesn’t have the right to be upset but you have to understand when there’s other siblings in the home you have to make certain decisions to keep everyone safe. I’m sure dss would have took them all if she didn’t have him removed due to whatever happened. He should have listened and let her tell her side and maybe Karamo could have helped them some of that and of course with the help of counseling.