I used to think this. Then I became a stepfather and a husband (not in that order, necessarily). Once I got divorced, since the kids were grown up, THEY thanked me… for providing something neither donor could provide them: mature logic, non-toxicity, structure, etc. It was the same for me, since I was a stepson, and just as with them, AFTER I had grown up and gained some perspective and appreciation. HOWEVER, this is the exception, rather than the rule. I could argue that I only thought I could handle it because of that late-found appreciation. It was a whole lot of work and pain, and I would not do it, again.
So I'm other words it's a thankless job like stated in the beginning, don't be a pointless female tryna explain something that we all know the answe to already. 🤦🏻♂️
@@jokrg Thank you for your comment because you actually lived it and saw the gratitude the children had for your guidance and knowledge they gained from you. I was going to say something similar but I can’t relate in every aspect of it because I’m a woman, I’m married with young children, and neither me or my husband had children before our relationship. We both did experience having step parents but I would say, on both sides, 99% of the time the step parents were role models of what NOT to do. I definitely give props to both genders for truly filling a parental role and seeing the riches that can come from it but it can absolutely be a thankless job sometimes too. I glad it was a thankful job for you and you were a great role model. You’re a good man!
Then treat them like the trash they believe themselves to be. Then they will turn to crying on social media and whine about why brothas don’t talk to em
Yeah and dude didn’t have an answer cuz at the end of the day he should’ve had a convo with her to tell her to talk to him. Because if a nigga big up on me like that all reasoning out the window so to avoid “aye talk to yo baby daddy that’s his kid, that’s not my role” but you can tell he scared to even check his wife. that’s why he in the situation he’s in, raising somebody else kid
That's the reason I don't even say anything to these women these days. Can't even pay them a compliment. You get labeled creepy. Then you have the ones that say men don't approach them anymore. Ain't got time to figure out who is who!🤔🙄
Dude in the barber shop could have gotten laid down(temporarily or permanently) in front of his son! Then what? He was way too emotional and displayed a total lack of logical thinking, more than likely a product of a broken single mother!
An older man gave me a compliment the other day at work. He told me I was beautiful and I really appreciated it. I made sure I thanked him and told him how he made my day 😊
And women still wonder why men ain’t trying to date single mothers for all he knew dude could’ve been tooled up to and his son would’ve ended up fatherless…. And on a sidenote how did the baby daddy know that they were in the barbershop in the first place?
Not having a dog in a fight means not having any opinion about or connection to something., so it does not matter to you one way or the other. Makes no sense in this context....but I agree , the stepfather didn't lose anything here , the father did.
The only decision the step dad need to make after that interaction is whether or not he want to continue to be a part of that, whatever he choose is his decision and his circumstances.
That biological father was an absolute loser, acting like a little girl, must have been raised with no father in the house. Zero self control, no respect, no responsibility, no accountability, no civility, no ability to belong in polite society. No father taught him this, just an emotional mother that coddled him and he could do no wrong likely. Dating a single mother, ahhh NOPE!!
Its so wild on many levels A barbershop let son come in there talkin crazy and thats 1 The barber....took orders from thr dude who is NOT paying He called and the bm confirmed what was said....and now he 'need' his son Blah. All wack. Stepdad. Weak. Wack All of them...trash
Loud Azz " Jody/Pookie/Tyrone " ninja wasn't about to do anything . If he put 1/10th of that energy into being a Father & raising his Son , Step Dad would've never been able to "step " into the picture in the 1st place .
Oh my God, I got secondhand embarrassment. First of all dude was mad with the wrong person. Second of all he was all in his feelings, acting just like a girl. I mean, that was absolutely femenin.
The stepfather did an incredible, almost impossible job. He kept it together for the sake of the child when the biological father did not. Witnessing that fight would’ve scarred the child for life.
It’s not always like that because to be honest a lot of fathers don’t do NOTHING for or with they kid so if you meet a woman with a kid it’s not always a mine field
Don’t give any woman any attention unless they’re your daughter, wife, mother that’s it. Say anything to them will get you locked up, fired from your job or label as a creep.
Upset because the new bf took your son to get a haircut? Not because he molested him & not because he beat the child severely! Spent time & money on YOUR child to get a haircut! The ex bf is ALL the way wrong for all of this. Nobody hurt his child OR was attempting to hurt his child. And he jumping in folks' faces & threatening & name calling & all in front of the child too. Maaannn he all the way wrong!
As someone who doesn’t get public compliments often this behavior baffles me. A few years ago my sis and I were walking in a grocery store while on vacation and got told we were pretty by some gentlemen we passed. Ya know what we did? Said thank you and all four of us went out separate ways. Sometimes people just want to be nice for the sake of being nice. Unless you get dragged into an uncomfortable convo from it, just take the compliment and go on with your day 😅
I get why the father was upset but he handled it wrong. If the child needed a haircut, the child's mother needs to contact the father. A father taking his son to get his haircut is sort of bonding between the two. If the father wants to present for his child, allow him to be present. The co-parenting needs to do better. As for the step-father, I respect him for not having a shouting match with the father and stepped aside and allow the father to act like a fool. It's bad enough for society to label black men as dangerous and violence, to see him not react and let the father and mother shout over the phone about it is a plus to me. Most likely, he was helping the mother by taking his step-son to the barber shop.
Not knowing the circumstances, if the father isn't involved in the day to day, kid just needs a simple hair cut and step dad is there? wth. it's a hair cut. step there every day. 'pop' ain't. sheezus. bonding I understand but but step dad be there for the bonding too, as in every day. right or wrong. kid just needs a hair cut, pop just making fool of himself in public. meh.
Based on what the dad said, he and the mom had an understanding and she disregarded it. I’m a single mom and I will and have NEVER put my man in a situation like this. The mom is a pity individual for that.
I have learned over the last couple years that I'm an oddity because I can NOT stand spending money!!!lol My husband always picks at me saying I'm a cheapskate but I'd rather see our nest egg get fat & juicy over having all the flashy things the world tries to push on us!😁 We have all the things we need & a decent amount of the wants so why not save the rest?! That's my motto!
This man embarrassed himself by acting feminine, he embarrassed his “baby mama” by insulting her, and most importantly he embarrassed his son by being a poor role model.
Bro, you don’t have kids do you? The only time you will come out of yourself is over your kids. I understand his frustration but it’s not how you handle that. I’m also older than him and know better. Second, you never know what he told her and the stepdad beforehand. If he said “don’t do that” and they did what he said not to do then I can see how he was going ham about that. This is why you do for your own and don’t even give a man the opportunity to do anything for your family.
@@ludotoyhunter8492the mother asked him to take her son to the barbershop. Should he say no? Why didn't the dad take him, probably broke as hell. Now the kid is walking around with half a haircut. Dad's a piece of emotional shit.
@@tommygunn2782 that’s why you don’t sign up for that BS. The only exception to the rule is when it’s older people (55+) because they are different. They act different and they think differently about that whole situation. You don’t have the same issues like when young people try this Bullshit. A small poem to remember when you meet a single mom: date and smash but don’t make it last. She can never be your future thanks to her past.
Given to her own device most women will keep you broke or in debt. Those high end purse stores in the mall are doing good business at 5-10k up per purse off non wealthy women and their man's money.
Anyone who needs a purse that cost more than a bill or two is basically worthless unless they're just stupid rich. Why does a regular broke btch need a $5k bag? She ain't got no money to carry in it!
I glanced down at a tat on the shoulder of the woman in front of me in line. I do mean glanced. Her friend started giving me crap about it. I just told her that I did glance at her friend's tat and who the hell cares?
He ain't want to contest her statement about him not being there as the actual father, but now feel some type of way when another man takes care of his responsibilities and his place.
That dude that met that "baddie" will be questioning the meaning of life. Baddie, Instagram and clubs are a chemistry equation for disaster. 900? To a wierdo? He lost it
As a bonus mom, I had the what did you do to my daughters hair experience because the mom didn’t like the style a week later when we got her back, the braids I put in were still in and she had added some style to the back of the hair, but apparently cornrows were perfectly fine 😂😂
Other women in different countries love compliments.. Guess you can't even compliment our beautiful women.. Maybe the passport bros are on to something..
Nah, he analyzed the situation. Too many guys in prison or dead over stuff like that. He got his whole life ahead of him...but I would certainly be ending things with that baby mother. Don't throw your life away over a few seconds of feeling uncomfortable. Anybody who has serves real time knows this. Anyone who hasn't served serious time can easily say "I would have done this or that" You don't get those years back brother. Be safe out there.
[Second time watching the barbershop clip, but first time watching it all with context! The father HAS rights but taking sonny-boy away with half-cut hair is doing no favors to anybody! It mite not even be the other man tyring to replace the father, it very well could've been a boyfriend to the babymama, just trying to be helpful yet respectful the whole time! Dad there was enraged with jealousy at the thought of being replaced, which is understandable! He didn't escalate the situation beyond repair, yet it still wasn't handled with the kiddo's best interests at the forefront! We know chilled-dren are sponges! Crossed fingers here that the adults didn't do too much indirect damage to that little one's maturing mind!🥃😑]
@@juanspears5567[I'm sure you are right! Yet as we were once kiddos too, sometimes even a little incident can leave lasting impressions that shape a mindset long after childhood! I will say for myself, after years of a loving home, to be thrown into loud and argumentative adults, it is jarring for growing sons! Many will overlook the incident, I would try some damage control to 'em with a heart-to-heart talk! I'm not gonna tell a parent how to parent! But I can offer advice! Take it or leave it!✌🏼😉]
@SkellyTonn oh no...I get that...I'm just saying that the dad went overboard...what if she's asked him to get their son's hair cut and he wasn't getting it done...
Simple, the stepdad measures the situation, what comes from an altercation, a record, jail, probation, possible labeled a felon, traumatic for child, vs let this grown man child yell. Ahh 100%. Yell away…….
Years ago, in a shopping center. I watched a sister reach inside her large bag to get something & her small wallet fell on the ground. I said, excuse me Ma'am & b4 I finished. She rudely said: You're not my type. Even then, I was still going to tell her. But, 2 young boys had also seen the wallet drop & they scooped it up & ran. She actually had the gall to say, why u didn't just tell me? I said I tried, but because Im not your type, you wouldn't let me. Have a good day. That was the only instant karma Ive ever seen..
Maybe when we walk past women we just say negative toxic affirmations. It's like "damned if you do damned if you don't" might well turn it into comedy.
I hate spending money! I email my husband once per month, what I need, from Amazon. Sometimes it will be something I just want his opinion on. Last month, he bought the night table I only wanted his opinion on. He surprised me, with it. I really like it, very much. I have to be careful, moving forward.
What's annoying about the first girl, if "Abuelo" was young looking she would accept the compliment or be flirty for sure, that's just how a lot of women are. Women never cared what I said to them because I'm not ugly but with more average men or ugly men they act a fool. I had this convo with my mom and told her it's real unfair how women treat men. My mom specifically dated my father because he was light skin with certain features so me and my sister came out with many of those features. He had a deep voice, a little over average height, 5'10, I'm 6ft, he was slim, I'm stocky, light colored eyes and he had good genes so he don't look too much older even now almost 60, he just out of shape. As far as the step father vid, I am 100% with the hands if it's called for. I avoid these scenario's, only dated a single mom 1 time, was no beef issue, but if she had a crazy baby daddy, I would leave her because if he come at me wrong he ending up in the dirt or the ER and I won't got time for that. If he can't be angry and discuss stuff like a mature man, it's going to be a problem.
12:36 he should have just pulled up, paid for the cut, sat with his son until it was finished, called the mother and told her he was taking his son out for the day.
he is right about stores look at macys a whole floor is dedicated to women and on another is where you have men kids perfume make up section on the same floor
What these women don't realize is a High Quality man is not going to want a woman whose speech is heavily peppered with vulgarities and crass comments. They also don't want a woman that thinks their wallet is open for her to take. To the Step-dad, if the kid said he needed a haircut and dad refused then dad has no business being upset that another man is taking care of his kid. Children are not possessions to show off and not take care of. The Bio-dad needs to get some class and put his anger where it belongs. Mom gave him permission.
I don't even care. He should have just walked his way and paid her no attention. As old as he is he hasn't figured out that such women only care for attention? Has he been living under the sea?
There is no more honor in being a step father. It’s a thankless job.
and teh ATM
there never has been.
I used to think this. Then I became a stepfather and a husband (not in that order, necessarily). Once I got divorced, since the kids were grown up, THEY thanked me… for providing something neither donor could provide them: mature logic, non-toxicity, structure, etc. It was the same for me, since I was a stepson, and just as with them, AFTER I had grown up and gained some perspective and appreciation. HOWEVER, this is the exception, rather than the rule. I could argue that I only thought I could handle it because of that late-found appreciation. It was a whole lot of work and pain, and I would not do it, again.
So I'm other words it's a thankless job like stated in the beginning, don't be a pointless female tryna explain something that we all know the answe to already. 🤦🏻♂️
@@jokrg Thank you for your comment because you actually lived it and saw the gratitude the children had for your guidance and knowledge they gained from you. I was going to say something similar but I can’t relate in every aspect of it because I’m a woman, I’m married with young children, and neither me or my husband had children before our relationship. We both did experience having step parents but I would say, on both sides, 99% of the time the step parents were role models of what NOT to do. I definitely give props to both genders for truly filling a parental role and seeing the riches that can come from it but it can absolutely be a thankless job sometimes too. I glad it was a thankful job for you and you were a great role model. You’re a good man!
She got nerve to be shaming a man for giving her a compliment when her whole face can be wiped off
So true, well lady go find Chad SMokey in the woods. men just walk away from these women, dont say a word, and a second of your time.
Then treat them like the trash they believe themselves to be. Then they will turn to crying on social media and whine about why brothas don’t talk to em
🤣🤣🤣🤣
He needs an attitude adjustment. Running up in a man's face like that......NAH.
pops out of his life, feck off.
Yeah and dude didn’t have an answer cuz at the end of the day he should’ve had a convo with her to tell her to talk to him. Because if a nigga big up on me like that all reasoning out the window so to avoid “aye talk to yo baby daddy that’s his kid, that’s not my role” but you can tell he scared to even check his wife. that’s why he in the situation he’s in, raising somebody else kid
That's the reason I don't even say anything to these women these days. Can't even pay them a compliment. You get labeled creepy.
Then you have the ones that say men don't approach them anymore. Ain't got time to figure out who is who!🤔🙄
I don't even look at most of them now. This is going to backfire on them more than any of them are prepared for.
@BIGJ-kb3vc, I don't either. I just keep it moving.
Dude in the barber shop could have gotten laid down(temporarily or permanently) in front of his son! Then what? He was way too emotional and displayed a total lack of logical thinking, more than likely a product of a broken single mother!
Obviously
Women seem to forget that looks will get the man to approached but your values and personality will make or break you.
Its always been hilarious to me when women talk about all the quality men theyve had...but are single AF
"One of y'all are going to pay me!"- Barber
An older man gave me a compliment the other day at work. He told me I was beautiful and I really appreciated it. I made sure I thanked him and told him how he made my day 😊
Great for you your not apart of the problem… women like her make us look bad sis but stay a great person❤
@@Beauts_JB thank you hun ❤️ you too
A fair exchange ain't no robbery.
And women still wonder why men ain’t trying to date single mothers for all he knew dude could’ve been tooled up to and his son would’ve ended up fatherless…. And on a sidenote how did the baby daddy know that they were in the barbershop in the first place?
I believe the barber knows the father.
@@Nashoba513if the barber knew the father then he knew what type of time this dude would be on. So the barber is as messy as the hoe on the phone.
Ol’ Boy had no dawg in the fight…. The lil homie still gon respect Mama boyfriend cuz he did stuff for him!
Not having a dog in a fight means not having any opinion about or connection to something., so it does not matter to you one way or the other. Makes no sense in this context....but I agree , the stepfather didn't lose anything here , the father did.
The step dad showed he is the better man 10 times over
The only decision the step dad need to make after that interaction is whether or not he want to continue to be a part of that, whatever he choose is his decision and his circumstances.
That biological father was an absolute loser, acting like a little girl, must have been raised with no father in the house. Zero self control, no respect, no responsibility, no accountability, no civility, no ability to belong in polite society. No father taught him this, just an emotional mother that coddled him and he could do no wrong likely. Dating a single mother, ahhh NOPE!!
That dude going to jail for kidnapping 😆
Its so wild on many levels
A barbershop let son come in there talkin crazy and thats 1
The barber....took orders from thr dude who is NOT paying
He called and the bm confirmed what was said....and now he 'need' his son
Blah. All wack.
Stepdad. Weak. Wack
All of them...trash
🤣 y’all don’t understand or jus playing she’s using the stepdad with communication with the father that was happening there’s no adults
@@WTN416 ....how does this statement make sense?
Interesting point. My son grew. up without his father because he was all things illogical, yet he possesses all the positive attributes you listed.
I’ve never had a wealthy fine man ask what I bring to the table = I’ve never had a wealthy fine man 😂
Loud Azz " Jody/Pookie/Tyrone " ninja wasn't about to do anything . If he put 1/10th of that energy into being a Father & raising his Son , Step Dad would've never been able to "step " into the picture in the 1st place .
Oh my God, I got secondhand embarrassment. First of all dude was mad with the wrong person. Second of all he was all in his feelings, acting just like a girl. I mean, that was absolutely femenin.
Moms set that barbershop shit up...thats why she aint wanna answer the phone
this should be a lesson for all men, be careful who you have children with
10:08 this why u dont mess with nobody who got a kid
THIS AND MANY MORE REASONS!!!
FACTS! Props to the gentleman for keeping his composure. He handled himself very well.
The stepfather did an incredible, almost impossible job. He kept it together for the sake of the child when the biological father did not. Witnessing that fight would’ve scarred the child for life.
social media is the new crack..
That barbershop clip should warn potential step-fathers to think twice before raising another man's child. Imagine if he had a daughter!
It’s not always like that because to be honest a lot of fathers don’t do NOTHING for or with they kid so if you meet a woman with a kid it’s not always a mine field
Don’t give any woman any attention unless they’re your daughter, wife, mother that’s it. Say anything to them will get you locked up, fired from your job or label as a creep.
I got to teach my son this
The barbershop situation is krazy on so many levels
She booked yawl for a fight and she didnt care about the child, leave women like that alone
As a man no other woman’s bills is your responsibility
Upset because the new bf took your son to get a haircut? Not because he molested him & not because he beat the child severely! Spent time & money on YOUR child to get a haircut! The ex bf is ALL the way wrong for all of this. Nobody hurt his child OR was attempting to hurt his child. And he jumping in folks' faces & threatening & name calling & all in front of the child too. Maaannn he all the way wrong!
13:00 he should've just paid for the son's haircut, dapped the BF and gave his son some love and said I'll see you later 🤷🏾♂️
4:20 she knows a lot about tables and cutlery
As someone who doesn’t get public compliments often this behavior baffles me. A few years ago my sis and I were walking in a grocery store while on vacation and got told we were pretty by some gentlemen we passed. Ya know what we did? Said thank you and all four of us went out separate ways. Sometimes people just want to be nice for the sake of being nice. Unless you get dragged into an uncomfortable convo from it, just take the compliment and go on with your day 😅
It’s so sad that this kid has to see his dad handle things so poorly.
Are you single?
I get why the father was upset but he handled it wrong. If the child needed a haircut, the child's mother needs to contact the father. A father taking his son to get his haircut is sort of bonding between the two. If the father wants to present for his child, allow him to be present. The co-parenting needs to do better. As for the step-father, I respect him for not having a shouting match with the father and stepped aside and allow the father to act like a fool. It's bad enough for society to label black men as dangerous and violence, to see him not react and let the father and mother shout over the phone about it is a plus to me. Most likely, he was helping the mother by taking his step-son to the barber shop.
Not knowing the circumstances, if the father isn't involved in the day to day, kid just needs a simple hair cut and step dad is there? wth. it's a hair cut. step there every day. 'pop' ain't. sheezus. bonding I understand but but step dad be there for the bonding too, as in every day. right or wrong. kid just needs a hair cut, pop just making fool of himself in public. meh.
Why was he upset ??? I don’t get it. ??
@@growing.grounds4054 most likely he was upset the step father was around his son. Again, I get it but wrong place wrong time.
Based on what the dad said, he and the mom had an understanding and she disregarded it. I’m a single mom and I will and have NEVER put my man in a situation like this. The mom is a pity individual for that.
@@myklo4269 he shouldn’t be. If he not with the mom then what does he expect you know
I have learned over the last couple years that I'm an oddity because I can NOT stand spending money!!!lol My husband always picks at me saying I'm a cheapskate but I'd rather see our nest egg get fat & juicy over having all the flashy things the world tries to push on us!😁 We have all the things we need & a decent amount of the wants so why not save the rest?! That's my motto!
Very smart
This man embarrassed himself by acting feminine, he embarrassed his “baby mama” by insulting her, and most importantly he embarrassed his son by being a poor role model.
Bro, you don’t have kids do you? The only time you will come out of yourself is over your kids. I understand his frustration but it’s not how you handle that. I’m also older than him and know better. Second, you never know what he told her and the stepdad beforehand. If he said “don’t do that” and they did what he said not to do then I can see how he was going ham about that. This is why you do for your own and don’t even give a man the opportunity to do anything for your family.
@@ludotoyhunter8492the mother asked him to take her son to the barbershop. Should he say no? Why didn't the dad take him, probably broke as hell. Now the kid is walking around with half a haircut. Dad's a piece of emotional shit.
Valid point. We don't know how that situation came to be.
@@tommygunn2782 that’s why you don’t sign up for that BS. The only exception to the rule is when it’s older people (55+) because they are different. They act different and they think differently about that whole situation. You don’t have the same issues like when young people try this Bullshit. A small poem to remember when you meet a single mom: date and smash but don’t make it last. She can never be your future thanks to her past.
Those damn Kieshas.
How much you wanna bet that guy in the barbershop was raised by a single mother
Momma-raised.
Right. He does have son husband energy.
Chivalry and kindness is dead in today's society
No It’s Not, It Depends Upon How The Woman Feels About Herself.
@lorithataylor7173 i feel like most women nowadays feel masculine and boss-like so even if a man is nice and kind, they'll be turned off
She's encountered all those men and never became a wife
Disgraceful and I feel sorry for his son.
I’ve said it before and I will say it again. The 4s are always the ones most outta pocket.
Given to her own device most women will keep you broke or in debt. Those high end purse stores in the mall are doing good business at 5-10k up per purse off non wealthy women and their man's money.
Anyone who needs a purse that cost more than a bill or two is basically worthless unless they're just stupid rich. Why does a regular broke btch need a $5k bag? She ain't got no money to carry in it!
❤❤❤. Thank you for guiding men in the rite direction.
That’s what that old man gets. He was lying and she knew it. She know that without that cake on her face that she is solid 3. 🤡
I glanced down at a tat on the shoulder of the woman in front of me in line. I do mean glanced. Her friend started giving me crap about it. I just told her that I did glance at her friend's tat and who the hell cares?
He ain't want to contest her statement about him not being there as the actual father, but now feel some type of way when another man takes care of his responsibilities and his place.
That dude that met that "baddie" will be questioning the meaning of life. Baddie, Instagram and clubs are a chemistry equation for disaster. 900? To a wierdo? He lost it
Right? I hope to god that reality check sunk in and he stayed his ass home.
wow
😂😂 simp power is on 9000
Loved”if you can’t beat a 15 year old in an arm wrestling match… you should not be secret service” so true!
No wonder hes just a baby daddy. I'm glad that kid actually has a step father to look up to.
Looking forward to the vid of him crying broke n blueballed.
Brother we all know it's only sexual harassment if the other person isn't cute 😂😂
They act like they want to be alone enough times and they will be 😳
6:45 bruh standing up there with the “I got caught tricking” face on!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 bruh….
As a bonus mom, I had the what did you do to my daughters hair experience because the mom didn’t like the style a week later when we got her back, the braids I put in were still in and she had added some style to the back of the hair, but apparently cornrows were perfectly fine 😂😂
Other women in different countries love compliments.. Guess you can't even compliment our beautiful women.. Maybe the passport bros are on to something..
Now now there's a few of us in America that still like compliments some of us know how to say thank you lol
How much you wanna bet he payed for the cheeks after the call anyways 😂
That Barbershop Video Was Crazy Son...It Would've Been Some Furniture Moving in That Spot....Her Baby Daddy Weak As WATER...
Nah, he analyzed the situation. Too many guys in prison or dead over stuff like that. He got his whole life ahead of him...but I would certainly be ending things with that baby mother. Don't throw your life away over a few seconds of feeling uncomfortable. Anybody who has serves real time knows this.
Anyone who hasn't served serious time can easily say "I would have done this or that"
You don't get those years back brother. Be safe out there.
😂😂😂😂😂
Listen ! As a father of two daughters.. only a father who is mostly absent would act like that fr fr. GTFOH “ stepdad “ did nothing wrong
[Second time watching the barbershop clip, but first time watching it all with context! The father HAS rights but taking sonny-boy away with half-cut hair is doing no favors to anybody! It mite not even be the other man tyring to replace the father, it very well could've been a boyfriend to the babymama, just trying to be helpful yet respectful the whole time! Dad there was enraged with jealousy at the thought of being replaced, which is understandable! He didn't escalate the situation beyond repair, yet it still wasn't handled with the kiddo's best interests at the forefront! We know chilled-dren are sponges! Crossed fingers here that the adults didn't do too much indirect damage to that little one's maturing mind!🥃😑]
Dude...it's a haircut...my kid's mom's ex used to cut my son's hair...that was a help...
@@juanspears5567[I'm sure you are right! Yet as we were once kiddos too, sometimes even a little incident can leave lasting impressions that shape a mindset long after childhood! I will say for myself, after years of a loving home, to be thrown into loud and argumentative adults, it is jarring for growing sons! Many will overlook the incident, I would try some damage control to 'em with a heart-to-heart talk! I'm not gonna tell a parent how to parent! But I can offer advice! Take it or leave it!✌🏼😉]
@SkellyTonn oh no...I get that...I'm just saying that the dad went overboard...what if she's asked him to get their son's hair cut and he wasn't getting it done...
7:00 ain’t no shame in his simppin 😂😂😂
The father is mad at the wrong person. Also something was said concerning child support.
The barber shop situation is a confrontation between an emotional crash out Pookie and Captain Save’em stepdad in training. Nasty work 🤦🏾♂️
Simp for IG model's Definition of today simp: the lights are on, but you're not home, your mind is not your own!
Simps and johns. At least johns KNOW they're paying a hooker.
Simple, the stepdad measures the situation, what comes from an altercation, a record, jail, probation, possible labeled a felon, traumatic for child, vs let this grown man child yell. Ahh 100%. Yell away…….
6:45...you sir are what we call a SuperSimp
Years ago, in a shopping center. I watched a sister reach inside her large bag to get something & her small wallet fell on the ground. I said, excuse me Ma'am & b4 I finished. She rudely said: You're not my type. Even then, I was still going to tell her. But, 2 young boys had also seen the wallet drop & they scooped it up & ran. She actually had the gall to say, why u didn't just tell me? I said I tried, but because Im not your type, you wouldn't let me. Have a good day. That was the only instant karma Ive ever seen..
All that action and he can't pay for a haircut 😂😂😂😂
By Definition of COLDHEARTEDNESS, You just described Her
Shows what kind of man YOU are for bringing the baby mama into it for no reason.
Bruh you hit the nail on the head. ATTENTION. They will do anything for it.
The guy that met the Baddy. A fool and his money will part. Look like she found her another Sponsor
If she can’t stay within the budget it’s over.
Give them space. Keep your peace. Simple.
She put his life on the line, I don't feel sorry for this step crash dummy 😂
Walk into a mall? Where, when, how? I guess as an Urbex Explorer because they're all closed and abandoned now.
im scared to like this vid in case i get called out for being a creep😂....i did like it awesome content bro
Maybe when we walk past women we just say negative toxic affirmations. It's like "damned if you do damned if you don't" might well turn it into comedy.
Lmao bro sounds like Michael Jai White😂😂😂
Why show kindness when it's only derided, never appreciated?
Thats why latinas, asians, other cultures are winning
I think I've found the SIMP Of The Year.
Just leave em alone like they said...
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Easy...
Let em move your way if they want something...
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Grizzle, Grizzle...
I hate spending money! I email my husband once per month, what I need, from Amazon. Sometimes it will be something I just want his opinion on. Last month, he bought the night table I only wanted his opinion on. He surprised me, with it. I really like it, very much. I have to be careful, moving forward.
That is real, he was scared , he can't fight
2:18 her face says it all
At 30 years old he should have 2 or 3 women on the go💪
Dude in the barber shop might not ever be the father, you know what these women are like.
Not only tht she’s da custodial parent n can call the cops on the bio thtz da law everywhere homie!!!
What's annoying about the first girl, if "Abuelo" was young looking she would accept the compliment or be flirty for sure, that's just how a lot of women are. Women never cared what I said to them because I'm not ugly but with more average men or ugly men they act a fool. I had this convo with my mom and told her it's real unfair how women treat men. My mom specifically dated my father because he was light skin with certain features so me and my sister came out with many of those features. He had a deep voice, a little over average height, 5'10, I'm 6ft, he was slim, I'm stocky, light colored eyes and he had good genes so he don't look too much older even now almost 60, he just out of shape.
As far as the step father vid, I am 100% with the hands if it's called for. I avoid these scenario's, only dated a single mom 1 time, was no beef issue, but if she had a crazy baby daddy, I would leave her because if he come at me wrong he ending up in the dirt or the ER and I won't got time for that. If he can't be angry and discuss stuff like a mature man, it's going to be a problem.
That father if he does not have custody, stiff shit for him.
17:30 plot twist... kid isn't even his 😂
I was doing coconut oil pulling when I started to watch this. That was a mistake.💀
Let’s keep it a buck homie was crashing out over the baby mama not his son. He still want his baby mama
12:36 he should have just pulled up, paid for the cut, sat with his son until it was finished, called the mother and told her he was taking his son out for the day.
he is right about stores look at macys a whole floor is dedicated to women and on another is where you have men kids perfume make up section on the same floor
Most of the time the Men’s Section Don’t Even Look Presentable
What these women don't realize is a High Quality man is not going to want a woman whose speech is heavily peppered with vulgarities and crass comments. They also don't want a woman that thinks their wallet is open for her to take.
To the Step-dad, if the kid said he needed a haircut and dad refused then dad has no business being upset that another man is taking care of his kid. Children are not possessions to show off and not take care of. The Bio-dad needs to get some class and put his anger where it belongs. Mom gave him permission.
6:33 you can hear the thirsty in this brothas voice. damn ☹️
I don't even care. He should have just walked his way and paid her no attention. As old as he is he hasn't figured out that such women only care for attention?
Has he been living under the sea?
I totally agree that the bio Dad acted very poorly in this situation!!!!
Props for the Concieted meme! Thats a new 1, i remember that battle
People seem to think they're classy even if they're trashy. Money doesn't buy class...