That's Not What Friends Do | Discernment | (Part 5) | Jerry Flowers

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  • Опубликовано: 17 окт 2024

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  • @aprilcrawford2340
    @aprilcrawford2340 6 месяцев назад +22

    I am so grateful that I came across Pastor Jerry Flowers RUclips!!!!
    He is God sent at an appointed time for the things I'm going and growing through 🙌🏾

  • @confessionsofatomboy9068
    @confessionsofatomboy9068 3 года назад +275

    God help me be a biblical friend and send me some who will help me grow in spiritual maturity

  • @XoxoBrazeal
    @XoxoBrazeal 3 года назад +81

    “Be mindful of the ppl who come into your life to either enhance your immaturity or disrupt your maturity.” Thank you for this message 💕

  • @strengthdignity2545
    @strengthdignity2545 3 года назад +135

    Maturity. Self control. Discernment. Wisdom. In Jesus name. Amen! Friends are patient. Friends are kind!

  • @nanettealexander3447
    @nanettealexander3447 3 месяца назад +7

    Lord I pray for biblical friends to come into my life

  • @Gator344030
    @Gator344030 Год назад +12

    Jerry Flowers, I just want to say thank you and your wife for obeying Yahweh. You have been a strategic part of my healing. I was in ministry for 25 years and in 2017 I crashed. I rebelled against my LORD for 5 years. The father came and got me out of the pigpen 8 months ago. Again I’m just grateful for your ministry.

  • @healinghubwithPraiseMercy
    @healinghubwithPraiseMercy 3 года назад +35

    Biblical friends sharpen you; they take the grave clothes off of you; they help you get the decaying stuff out of yo life. When you are friends,you BUILD EACH OTHER UP!!!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @peachsweetie91
    @peachsweetie91 3 года назад +50

    Maybe we didn't lose friends. Maybe two things happened...maybe a season changed or a category was exposed 🤯🔥 MY GOD!!!

    • @abeekuworldchanger380
      @abeekuworldchanger380 Год назад +2

      I felt that too. Makes me remember people that walked out of my life. Yet, I give thanks to God as it exposed things in them, and allowed me to seek the presence of the Holy Spirit how to be a friend to others. Sometimes, its people's departures that make your faith stronger in Christ.

    • @lionelluva
      @lionelluva Месяц назад

      @@abeekuworldchanger380💯

  • @fearlessandfocused6747
    @fearlessandfocused6747 3 года назад +173

    God Give me discernment to stop picking weeds and then label it wheat; Open the eyes of my heart!!!

  • @LoveJoyPeacePatienceKindness
    @LoveJoyPeacePatienceKindness 3 года назад +27

    You can tell this sermon had a bunch of Holy Spirit conviction, the audience barely applauded but this was 120% on POINT!! Preach!!!

  • @mikalyonsoneal9890
    @mikalyonsoneal9890 Месяц назад +1

    Heavenly Father, I pray for wisdom and discernment to not make the wrong choices out of ignorance and or to mislabel assignments as friends.

  • @ItsTamaraTaylor
    @ItsTamaraTaylor 4 месяца назад +22

    Making me think about moving to Texas so that I can join! I love online but I’m ready to have a community to hold me accountable like this! 👏🏾👏🏾 each word gets me TOGETHER!!! & he’s not “extra” + teaches Gods word!!! This is what our generation needed! We have enough pastors that’s give shows. & jump on stage to give shows/perform! But Pastor Flowers, TEACHES!!!! 👏🏾👏🏾🔥

  • @SadeWatkins
    @SadeWatkins 3 года назад +68

    Yooooo this word !!!
    MAAAANNN this finna be my online church that I tithe into. These words are on POINT

  • @MANDEE7962
    @MANDEE7962 3 года назад +49

    First 13 mins is already a word I can’t even 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @princesstodd9572
    @princesstodd9572 3 месяца назад

    Every sermon I have heard has helped me thank you father❤

  • @chariesemcduffie5280
    @chariesemcduffie5280 2 месяца назад

    I found this in Aug of 2024 and I needed this message today so bad! Thank you 🙏🏽 Pastor for this message

  • @StrongHer40
    @StrongHer40 3 года назад +65

    My discernment was at an all time low a few months ago and listen, the enemy brought a manipulative clown (who I truly felt sorry for) and an immature counterfeit (who I fell in love with) [who distracted me from what’s important] right into my life and I labeled them Wheat 🌾 when they were truly weeds according to the purpose God had and has for my life.
    Lord, please heighten my discernment in people, things, and locations.

    • @Miladan06
      @Miladan06 3 года назад +2

      Likewise girl!!!😩

    • @StrongHer40
      @StrongHer40 3 года назад +1

      @@Miladan06 But thanks be to God that the scales are and have been removed. 🙌🏾

    • @ESmith1230
      @ESmith1230 3 года назад +1

      Don’t go back sis! If he’s showed who who you are believe him and RUN!

    • @Rockstar-kw7bz
      @Rockstar-kw7bz 2 года назад

      Me too all day!!!!!!

    • @kdaniels19
      @kdaniels19 2 года назад

      Same, sister. Bless you

  • @shinebright9790
    @shinebright9790 3 года назад +89

    I sat down with God last night and we discussed a “friend” that invited me out to a party, God told me it was a hard NO. Why because she wasn’t a friend and I’m not even into parties anymore, then I woke up to this confirmation. Thank you Pastor Flowers 🌸 🙏🏾

    • @abeekuworldchanger380
      @abeekuworldchanger380 Год назад

      So interesting. I got invites from friends years ago to attend events and God kept telling me no. They loved the past and saying where they were as I was moving forward and trusting God for people in my life who actually valued Godly conversations vs just hangouts.
      When God tells us instructions, it's great when we choose obedience for the matter. It's life changing.

  • @mikalyonsoneal9890
    @mikalyonsoneal9890 Месяц назад +1

    In a lifetime of assignments there will be just a few friends.

  • @healinghubwithPraiseMercy
    @healinghubwithPraiseMercy 3 года назад +33

    Biblical friends;
    1. Loose - they won't resurrect wat God is trying to have you keep buried
    2. Love - love is better than romance; some people you have romantic feelings for won't even lay their life down for you (John 15.13)
    3. Sharpen - things in yo life get sharper coz of their presence
    4. Sacrifice - are they willing to be inconvenienced for you?
    5. Confront - they talk TO you when they have an issue with you,they don't talk ABWT you
    6. Carry - (Galatians 6.2)
    7. Cover - they will never use yo flaw as ammunition

  • @NoeThando01
    @NoeThando01 3 года назад +23

    "It's not a Trust Issue it's Discernment Issue" shuu🔥🔥🔥

  • @brita9067
    @brita9067 3 года назад +17

    “[the devil] Plants bait in the season of your life when your desire is high, but your discernment is low” 14:50

  • @gld927
    @gld927 3 года назад +11

    The enemy sends distractions when your desires are high and discernment is low🔥
    God give me discernment to stop picking weeds then label it wheat; open the eyes of my heart.

  • @AshalynChane
    @AshalynChane Месяц назад

    '' GOD HELP ME TO STOP PICKING WEEDS AND THEN LABEL IT WHEAT; OPEN MY EYES OF MY HEART!!"

  • @TheComposerRell
    @TheComposerRell Год назад

    GOD THANK YOU FOR GIVING ME DISCERNMENT TO STOP PICKING WEEDS AND LABELING IT WHEAT. THANK YOU GOD FOR OPENING MY EYES OF MY HEART IN JESUS NAME

  • @lovefelix1566
    @lovefelix1566 3 года назад +16

    There is a difference in a slave who has escaped and a slave who has been set free... 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @tootzchris
    @tootzchris 3 года назад +46

    This sermon is everything!! Thank you Sir! Just because we are in the same family doesn’t mean we have to go through the same storm!! 🗣🔥

  • @brandencote9467
    @brandencote9467 3 года назад +24

    For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but having itching ears, they shall heap to themselves teachers in accordance with their own lusts.
    I love this pastor doesn't just say the things people's itching ears want to hear. He speaks the truth.

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 2 года назад

    AMEN. THANK YOU LORD JESUS. THANK YOU PRECIOUS, BEAUTIFUL, ANOINTED, AWESOME, AND POWERFUL HOLY SPIRIT. THANK YOU LORD JESUS. THANK YOU LORD. AMEN. THANK YOU LORD. AMEN.

  • @RosyLife79
    @RosyLife79 3 года назад +20

    “Romance intoxicates good sense!” Amen!

  • @elenacalico
    @elenacalico 3 года назад +19

    God give me discernment to stop picking weeds and labeling it wheat! Open the eyes of my heart.

  • @RosyLife79
    @RosyLife79 3 года назад +17

    “Sensuality blinds spirituality!”- Amen!

  • @Noratheskindoc
    @Noratheskindoc 3 года назад +1

    God please give me the tools to be the biblical friend someone needs. God please send me biblical friends that can help me grow in the spirit and are growing with me!! Amen🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @JustJasmineJ
    @JustJasmineJ Год назад +1

    Deliverance is limited when transparency is a rarity.

  • @WinteRose_Hill
    @WinteRose_Hill 2 месяца назад

    I just fini praying with someone, and that is what they prayed that the Lord will speak to him like He did with Joseph! Thankyou for your obedience to the Lord and sharing this message! Praise God for this confirmation ❤

  • @Ruiimai
    @Ruiimai 3 года назад +1

    needed

  • @sethnuckolls29
    @sethnuckolls29 28 дней назад

    Glory to God! Great work guys 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @Donna_R.S.1167
    @Donna_R.S.1167 3 года назад +8

    I have a new word added to my vocabulary... FAKERY!!

  • @nerrissarichards
    @nerrissarichards 5 месяцев назад

    Amen, God is speaking but we on our own tempo!

  • @FrankiesXpress
    @FrankiesXpress 3 года назад +19

    Whew chile my toes hurt...Pastor Jerry stepping all over my feet

  • @kingdomwriter81
    @kingdomwriter81 2 года назад +6

    This is a word. I had to stop the message and call my biblical friend, forever sister in Christ. Loving this series.

  • @quinettaholt4991
    @quinettaholt4991 Год назад +1

    My husband always say your friends are in categories Amen
    Discernment

  • @artforchrist5065
    @artforchrist5065 2 года назад +5

    Pastor Jerry, my spirit is being fed with these messages from the Lord!!! I am so thankful to Jesus that he led me to this ministry! You never fail to come at our necks with the Word!!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥 We need this spiritual food in these times. Thank you for being an obedient servant of the Lord.

  • @mrsaros1584
    @mrsaros1584 2 месяца назад

    I needed this. I've been placing people in the wrong category and Iam left disappointed. Thank you for this. It was right on time for today. Thank you Jesus!

  • @PatriciaWilkerson-qn2tz
    @PatriciaWilkerson-qn2tz 4 месяца назад +1

    I'm recently new to to this church family &as I go threw your content Flowers you are so filled with The Holy Trinity that for sure ya calling was/is Soul saving Pastoring& you are doing very great service)an awesome Realistic! Funny Servant of God* u are*thanku very much**************** father God/christ jesus & I'm very grateful Jesus lead me to u guys & I'm spreading the word about this church, keep it goin& u are making a Big! Difference with/in lives

  • @Lukeanthony82
    @Lukeanthony82 Год назад +1

    Wow..Amen!! Cuz at the end of the day it's about what we do with our love, maturity, discernment, looking more like Christ to whomever!

  • @iambrajon
    @iambrajon 3 месяца назад

    NEEDED THIS! 👏🏾👏🏾AMEN! THANK YOU GOD🙏🏾‼️

  • @HavenInspired
    @HavenInspired Месяц назад

    When I say I needed this 🙏🏾🙏🏾 thank you

  • @theoracle888
    @theoracle888 Год назад

    My goodness.....this episode is the meat, potatoes AND bread!!! 🍗🥔🍞 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @AshalynChane
    @AshalynChane Месяц назад

    AMEN!!

  • @lmoody2825
    @lmoody2825 3 года назад +14

    Preach to me!!! I just learned this lesson. Thank you for this word.. " I would rather be slapped with the truth than kissed with a lie

  • @YourChronicIllnessAdvocate
    @YourChronicIllnessAdvocate 3 года назад +12

    Friendship is the foundation of covenant 🙏🏾😌

  • @KailaHaji
    @KailaHaji 4 месяца назад

    Romance intoxicates discernment 😭😭😭😭 yho I could cry.

  • @victoriajackson9896
    @victoriajackson9896 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for this message!!

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 2 года назад

    Thank you Holy Spirit. Thank you Lord Jesus. AMEN. THANK YOU LORD. AMEN.

  • @princesstodd9572
    @princesstodd9572 3 месяца назад

    AMEN!

  • @strengthdignity2545
    @strengthdignity2545 3 года назад +18

    We love you Pastor Jerry. Thank you for emphasizing biblical friendships. Amen! Hallelujah! Thank you for teaching and ministering the Word of God.

  • @wellspringoflifeglobalmini1215
    @wellspringoflifeglobalmini1215 3 года назад +2

    My GOD MY GOD!!! "An assignment is there because they don't care." "Assignments are not loyal to you..they are there for opportunities."

  • @shakeenasmith1193
    @shakeenasmith1193 8 месяцев назад

    Amen Black King!!

  • @K_PE
    @K_PE 2 года назад +5

    I want kingdom friends and I want to be an effective kingdom friend. Lord sent them.

  • @ysolinawilliams1293
    @ysolinawilliams1293 9 месяцев назад

    Thank You My Friend/Pastor.❤

  • @priscillacastro224
    @priscillacastro224 2 месяца назад

    My first time watching.. 3 years later.. and this message so authentically good. God, once again is right on time!

  • @cruconconfidentialllc2257
    @cruconconfidentialllc2257 9 месяцев назад

    Great message! Thanks Jerry

  • @samanthamayers
    @samanthamayers Год назад

    I love you cause thus truth has hit my heart! I love that, God chastises those He loves!! Whooooo this some real talk!

  • @brianlowe9397
    @brianlowe9397 Месяц назад

    Amen 🙏

  • @thelight1.11
    @thelight1.11 Год назад

    Jerry doesn’t sweat he shines like a diamond. The vessel!

  • @_humblekay7075
    @_humblekay7075 3 года назад +6

    “ God give me discernment to stop picking weeds, and then label it wheat. Open the eyes of my heart.”

  • @matthewmcintosh9499
    @matthewmcintosh9499 Месяц назад

    God help me to be mature and stay in character no matter what comes my way!

  • @melloniefrazier4421
    @melloniefrazier4421 2 месяца назад

    Amen

  • @staceyjairah3538
    @staceyjairah3538 3 года назад +28

    I've cried and forgiven myself and forgiven a person..and stopped regretting the timing of this educative Word of God and allowed it to heal,teach and build me up God's way 👑

  • @theresaleflore5004
    @theresaleflore5004 2 года назад

    God give me discernment to stop picking weeds and open the discernment of my heart.Amen

  • @laviniatarver7139
    @laviniatarver7139 Год назад

    Hallelujah

  • @KrystalKOwens
    @KrystalKOwens 3 месяца назад

    Amen ❤🙌🏾

  • @msO272
    @msO272 Год назад

    Yah Bless you oooooooooooo

  • @Blu_Goddess7789
    @Blu_Goddess7789 2 месяца назад

    PREACH AMEN

  • @msaverielle
    @msaverielle Год назад +5

    Stop calling people friends that are really just an ASSIGNMENT. You don’t tell your assignment your business. A assignment is there but it doesn’t mean they care. Don’t look to build a bond. Some people are just a OPPORTUNIST.

  • @gillianjephtas9634
    @gillianjephtas9634 2 года назад

    Preach preacher! Beautiful teaching. Break up the fallow ground indeed. Thank you for your obedience.

  • @kjenkins3939
    @kjenkins3939 2 года назад +2

    I got to be on God’s tempo..biblical friends is what need and need to be

  • @Gator344030
    @Gator344030 Год назад

    LORD I need some solid biblical friends 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @nataliasolakian7928
    @nataliasolakian7928 3 года назад +4

    This is TRUTH!!!! Opportunists use you. They are narcissists!

  • @extraordinaryj6526
    @extraordinaryj6526 3 года назад +1

    God Give me discernment to stop picking weeds and then label it wheat; Open the eyes of my heart! 🙌🏽👀❤️

  • @missey1044
    @missey1044 3 года назад +5

    Shut my mouth, you're helping Me. Thank you

  • @LR0620
    @LR0620 Год назад +2

    Some of us have consumed so many sugar coated sermons that we should have cavities 😂💯. Classic!!! Keep dropping that Biblical truth Pastor JF 👍🏾

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 2 года назад

    👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿

  • @he6153
    @he6153 Год назад

    Thank you, needed to hear this today

  • @julzluvzdollz
    @julzluvzdollz 3 года назад +4

    Wow! I’ve been subbed to you and your wife for a few years. Recently the lord has been speaking to me and I’ve been listening to my discernment and realizing this is God speaking to me. This is an amazing series at amazing timing. Thank you for doing God’s work! God Bless!

  • @purposeoverpreference
    @purposeoverpreference 2 года назад +3

    😭😭😭😭😭 thank you Pastor for your obedience. There was a small part of healing that was left for me & this message was the key that unlocked it. May God forever use you as his PA system.

  • @laviniatarver7139
    @laviniatarver7139 Год назад

    My God

  • @krystalnmitchell
    @krystalnmitchell 3 года назад +5

    GOD, GIVE ME DISCERNMENT TO STOP PICKING WEEDS BUT TO PICK WHEAT. OPEN THE EYES OF MY HEART LORD ❤

  • @JeanineRichardson
    @JeanineRichardson 9 месяцев назад

    WE SOOOOOOO..... NEED THIS WORD LIKE YESTERDAY LET It BURN US UP 4 the GLORY of GOD!!!!!!! 💂🕳️✝️🌌🛐🧐🤔🕳️😥💥🕳️🤍🙏🔥🤮⚖️🌪️

  • @melissagitts
    @melissagitts 3 года назад +2

    My God in heaven your son Jerry is doing the most,🤯💆😭. God we love you! We love you for everything! Thank you❤️

  • @laurenmorris1911
    @laurenmorris1911 Месяц назад

    THIS IS SO GOOD

  • @laviniatarver7139
    @laviniatarver7139 Год назад

    Preach it

  • @GraciaBelievesthatJesusSaves
    @GraciaBelievesthatJesusSaves 3 года назад +1

    Pastor Flower this Sermon has such importend parts of messages that are very importend for Liberation for His People ,and we need to hear this in a time as this but most of all so importend for when we go out in the field and we meet wounded souls its not only importend for us and helpfull but IT helps us also to understand others .📯🔥📜🗣️

  • @sundayswithmwens
    @sundayswithmwens 3 года назад +3

    Honestly one of my favourite pastors of all time! You are healing our generation! 💕 thank you for your obedience to continually share THE TRUTH!! No sugar-coated nothing. This is powerful and really blessed me 💕

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 2 года назад +1

    Yes. What I always desire isn't Holy either. When I think about it, and if I'm being totally honest. 💜💙💚

  • @laviniatarver7139
    @laviniatarver7139 Год назад

    You are blessing my soul with this powerful message

  • @lisenialasalle3975
    @lisenialasalle3975 3 года назад

    God Give me discernment to stop picking weeds and then label it wheat; Open the eyes of my heart!

  • @YourChronicIllnessAdvocate
    @YourChronicIllnessAdvocate 3 года назад +5

    Biblical friends take grave clothes off you 🙏🏾🙏🏾 Mr Flowers coming hot 🔥 it's just the intro

  • @kenyafrilot1814
    @kenyafrilot1814 2 года назад

    I thank God for this man and his words