Thank you, people do not want to talk about God. As soon as His Name is mentioned people run, or one gets funny looks, people pull their faces or roll their eyes. Once you get to know God, you will see who your true friends are and who are believers. "He that finds a rightious woman finds a good thing" A man and woman are made for one another. God will bless their union. A union between a man, woman and God as the most important in their lives is the strongest union. God bless you ❤️💐
People that aren’t married or have had many disappointments like divorce end up making excuses for being alone or being single. You end up creating a void to deal with it. Heal and keep hoping for that right relationship 🙏🏾
That "happy wife, happy life" is so B.S. And too many women buy into that. You better make your man happy just as much. A lot of men do ask for the divorce or leave their wife. Maybe that's why the divorce rate is so high. You better focus on your man just as much as you want him to focus on you.
I agree with that as a woman, a relationship is both ways, you both care for, love and take care of each other, but with certain relationships, if you take the chivalry route and HE asks for the FEMALE’s hand in marriage, then it just makes a little sense for him to take responsibility most of the time, so around 60/40 makes the most sense to me in that relationship
As a Christian, God commands us to love one another, not one way as "happy wife happy life " . Yes the bible also says husbands should love thier wives as Christ loved the church. It is both ways, treat each other right and you will both reap the rewards!
@@olakunleolafisoye8433 the bible addresses men and women how they need to be addressed. Men need to be reminded to show their love outwardly, with words and affection. Women forget all the time that men need love in the form of respect as well. That's why we're addressed differently lol. You're absolutely right, relationships go both ways and if one person goes unloved, eventually both will. God bless
I’m 62, I’m not married but I’ve had 2 committed relationships that ended badly when my man cheated on me! I don’t want to put my heart ♥️ out there anymore only to be broken again. After the last relationship I chose not to pursue anymore relationships beyond friendships. That doesn’t make me any less of a person because I choose to be Happily Single. I have my own life and freedom, I also have my Church.
Get over it. So you don't want a relationship because of a few assholes. So these assholes now still run your life and they are no longer around. Ridiculous
Arguing in a relationship is welcoming if and only if both parties have the clear understanding that its for the betterment of the relationship and not for "I am right". Meaning, showcasing purposes that you are always right and have monopoly over ideas. The key should be fighting for the relationship. And this can be done with Love as well.
But by the time you hit the wall, what makes you think a good man who was passed over when he was younger is going to want your used goods in any case? I've had women like that get in touch after years and I send them packing. One I used for a bit of sex before dumping her but I am not here to pick up the scraps tossed from the table of a woman's bad decisions and rude awakening that followed once she hit thirty. Telling a man you're ready to settle down after riding the c*ck carousel is just insulting and fortunately, vast numbers of men have the self-respect to value themselves more than you valued them.
@@kabelomasilela2243 how can I love myself and want a bad guy ?🤔 🤷♀️ I love someone who can treat me good with respect,guess what I am a sweet spiritual person 😊
I used to think that when I was a naive twenty year old, that bad boys are good in bed. But I was sadly disappointed several times. In fact, a lot of bad boys are over compensating for the "lack thereof". Ijs
All i learnt about 20 year old girls (im 28) is that they are dumb and easy to manipulate. Its usually their bad decision to get with bad boys that turn them into hoes the rest of their lives but they try spend their 30+ years trying to convince people they are special and innocent.lol
If a man can not say sorry, indeed he is not an alpha man. He needs someone who tiptoes around him. sorry, but that's the truth. I am in the way that I know my values and try to live accordingly an alpha woman and if I am wrong, I can always say and mean a "I am sorry..." I cannot stand people who cannot say sorry, this is often a character trait of really controlling people because they do not give the other person (their) power (back) and do not take their responsibility on their share, it somehow leaves the other person falsely wrong. It should be verbalized not hugged off or anything.... I feel for the other part who has to be fine with never getting a really meant and felt sorry...and it is not the word "sorry " I feel is important, it is more about showing that you acknowledge the others around you with their needs, values, interests, etc.
@@Avikpalui👍 I understand you now clearly: it is not true for humans. It might be confused with extrovert vs. introvert. (Or even active vs passive people)
Marriage is an institution of God. If marriage is not for you then neither is sex. People want to have sex without marriage because there is little to no commitment or probably no connection to God. In that case, to you it is cool and it is 'to each his own'.
Hailing from all the way from South Africa and catching this clip today that was aired exactly a year ago today, today being 06/06/2019, what a nice coincidence. Anyways,I'm such a huge Steve Harvey fan frm the days of his sitcoms🤣 he's such a legend and is so insightful I must say. Much love to our uncle Steve n legend.
A successful marriage depends on your decisions and the God's principles for marriage you apply, I am married and happly married on my to 2 years and to be a father for the very first time. I married virgin-it is still possible in 21 century to be pure!
Disagreements are healthy, arguments are not. A point must come in individual growth and growth in being able to communicate effectively in a marriage/long-term partner where there should be little to no arguments because you BOTH have a strong ability to communicate with one another. There is no real communication in an ”argument.” Arguments normally end in someone being forced to say I'm sorry just to put an end to the negative energy. That isn't the same as letting go of what happened. Disagreements are holistic discussions with both people having the level of individual insight to communicate, mirror their partner and come to conclusions together and actually allow whatever the disagreement was about to lay to rest.
I love that...happy spouse happy house. If more couples competed to please the other instead of competing over doninance, marriages would last a lot longer
"...marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God and that the family is central to the Creator’s plan for the eternal destiny of His children."
This whole segment is just more women power bs about always making women happy at every turn. Yet what about the man, what about his happiness? Its like men are bad and women are good but what do the facts say? This trend is the main theme of steve harveys shows and its funny and all but its getting to the point where if you even mention a mans happiness or whats good for men its like blasphemy! Did you know 80% of suicides are done by men, or how about men die 10 years earlier than women, or 60% of deaths from heart disease are men, or 99% of war fatalities are men, or 98% of work related deaths are men. But hey im guessing more women are dieing from motherhood since theres so much blatant support for them.
Wow this clip popped up at the right time! I just went out with a friend and she was so shocked that I don’t wanna get married like it’s just not a life goal I want (I’m currently still single). I just want love and happiness and to build with someone without the papers and without the wedding. She said I was being negative and need to change my mindset to positive. I said ok well maybe if the right man came along he can change my mind but my luck with men is bad and then she said “oh a man isn’t supposed to change your mind you gotta change it yourself”. I highly disagreed that not every decision in life has to be made on my own I need help changing my mind. Also she said a man doesn’t change my mind so why is SHE trying to change my mind though?
4:17 Is it healthy to argue? 7:20 Why women fall for Bad Guys? 9:05 Is really office romance, lead to marriage? 11:12 How long it takes a men to know she's The One? 15:50 How men know she is The One? *Men don't care about Freedom, when you're The One*
Isn't being independent being able to support yourself all around. I think having a family just takes it a step up. Now there are lives dependent on you. You don't seize to be independent because you got married.You seize being single.
Women love men depending on what they want at that moment.. Some want fun and so prefer bad boys but when a woman wants to be loved, appreciated,married,come on.. No one wants a bad boy. That's recipes for depression.
I live with my daughter and son in law who is wounded warrior. They also take care of son's mother who has dementia and lung cancer I am disabled. They also have 3 teens. I had business.. which I lost due to health plus husband took off with all money..we all worked in business..so we have had a hard time recoving..plus all Dr visit..son in law got a job.. daughter is looking for a job..they have a beautiful home. But foundation is falling in to the point Of parts of house is totally cracked. And falling. My son in law and daughter are very proud people. Don't want to ask for help..but we are really struggling.. what do we do? Any advice? No Christmas. And sometimes not enough of food.
I do think that men and women go for" bad girls" and "bad boys" more in general. It's often out of immaturity, craziness, lust, vanity, desperation or combinations of these things. A lot of times "bad boys" and "bad girls" in media and sometimes in real life are portrayed as way more attractive, sexier, more exciting, and more experienced in life in general. That "natural charisma" hooks almost every time *eye roll*. A lot of "nice guys" and "good girls" get played for idiots way too often and are usually labeled with qualities like boring, predictable, and unattractive. People usually do acknowledge good attributes that are associated with them (responsible, caring, considerate) but those attributes are usually underappreciated compared to the positive attributes associated with the "bad" people, or are only appreciated in a husband or wife but not a girlfriend or boyfriend (like really, how are we supposed to get to married if no one will date us?) Both my boyfriend and one of my good male friends are those genuinely nice guys that have been overlooked for no good reason. They're responsible, respectful, funny, sweet, dependable and super loving. But no, douchebags who dress better and worse were more likely to get a girlfriend. I get that these assholes are also more likely to approach women, thus increasing their chances of getting one but come on now. Same thing with me and some of the other lifelong genuinely nice/good girls I know of. Even though I was likable and fairly sociable no one really looked my way romantically or sexually in college; I'm lucky I managed to find my bf in this bs dating scene. I didn't have enough of that "sexy bad girl" edge to me, I was actually told by a few guys who made it a point to tell me why I was friend-zoned for whatever reason. I personally have NEVER gone for the bad guy, not even in high school. I wasn't about that foolishness at all; I swiftly broke up with my ex in high school when I realized he was abusive and with the other when his true colors showed a neglectful personality. As a teen girl, I didn't need anyone else diminishing my self-worth and depriving me of affection while I poured into them. Even as an adult I could see how good sex and charisma aren't the most important things in a relationship, and also how mediocre some of these bad boys and girls really are. They don't all live up to the "smooth, exciting, interesting, great in bed sexy beings" they tend to be over-hyped as. Some of them are straight up lame and abusive or neglectful from the beginning. People say they're tired of the drama but keep picking the same or obviously bad choices; people need to stop falling for the surface image and smokescreens. I know humans are creatures of habit, but then don't just complain if you're going to put yourself in the situation when you had other options and are contributing to the lack of options over time. They never learn, this phenomena has been going on for ages; men picking shallow and manipulatively selfish women, women picking abusive or lazy and immature men. There are less and less nice guys and girls in the world because no one really seems to take us seriously, not even ourselves a lot of the time. Too many of us also give in to the "bad" illusion and we need to stop because it's self-sabotaging and making us jaded. Also, don't get your heart shredded by a bad person THEN just come crawling to a good person only to pass on the pain the asshole put you through. Live with your consequences alone, keep that energy over there.
@Tiffany Nicole - I would think people these days are now passionately after pleasure in all its form. That’s why one little fault results in split or divorce. People these days have developed to love themselves so much that they do not care about the next person.
in my younger days I would be drunk and meet someone. by the time I got their number, I couldn't remember their name so I had alot of blonde at (insert bar name) in my phone back then. it was always fun being on a date with them and trying to find out their name.
Bad boys are not attractive to me cause their is nothing attractive about being taken for granted, being lied to, being cheated on, not being loved the way you deserve. I have been with a good guy as well as a bad guy and trust me girls the good guys r ohh so more better in bed 😂 what makes it better is being treated right , being loved and respected immensely and to tell you the truth 4 years down the line with a good guy I feel blessed that god send him my way😍
How do I get to Steve's show???????? He have to help me with a situation only him can tell me what to do. Lol. Steve I beep some words of wisdom from you.
I don't know if saying the woman is not the one for Russell is accurate. Three months is too early. You're still in the honeymoon stage. No one should be moving in with anybody that fast. People can really change after a few months, especially once the hormones fade. Plus Steve has said in the past that he doesn't think you should move in until marriage.
Rambling Millennial There’s something really truthful in what Steve said regardless of the 3 months. He’s either not looking to settle in with anyone at all right now OR he’s not looking to settle in with her. Either way, she’s not the one right now. I know that if I’m sleeping over regularly enough at your place there’s no way in hell I’m keeping a bag packed and stashed in the car just to freshen up in the morning. If a drawer makes you feel like you have less freedom then I can go somewhere else and you can be as free as you want!
Marriage should be 💯 teamwork on with both partners I don’t believe in happy wife happy life neither partner should ever become complacent in the relationship and take one another for granted
Wow! Thank you Steve for acknowledging that there are "a lot of good people in prison who have made mistakes". Now regarding Why Women Love Bad boys, I have a theory that I also voiced in my Psychology of Women class on the same subject. I know for my generation the movies always portrayed the bad boys as sexy who always got the girl. One example in the original Footloose video the bad boy gets in a few fights and defied the town ban on rock n roll music and dancing. and falls in love with the preacher's daughter.
None of these women are average women with average careers; their advice is crap for over 99% of regular folks. I like Steve yet he’s a totally controlled host figure when it comes to simping for feminism and their ridiculous, out of touch views of the world.
The video should have ended at 2:00 before it even began. The whole people taking your relationship seriously or not.. wtf is that about? What is this need to please everyone? Do you and to hell with what anyone else thinks.. jeez.
Tear drop also can mean somebody that was really close to them died its not always because they killed somebody and u wont know unless u ask thats up to u tho i suggest u juz mind your business but just no its not always because they murdered somebody ok ;)
Apologies are important, but doing this so your partner does too, that's silly. Marriage is only for those who have realized that your partner and you have been a whole person b4 you got together and not only have a healthy relationship with respect and you both understand each other and are willing to share the rest of your life with that person. It's not just compatibility but willing to compromise, bcz the chemistry eventual tones down but that doesn't mean you no longer love each other. This is why you aught to know each other for a while. And of course when you do realize I don't want to live the rest of your life without this person. Bad boys are just that bad boys! If you're mature enough give yourself respect and don't just go w him bcz he's a bad boy. Think, think, think before you act. Decisions are your choice, but you don't get to choose your consequences.
It could be their dating years plus married years. Not necessarily only married years. However, it’s still even possible for couples to be married for over 70 years, for instance Queen Elizabeth 2 and Prince Philip (Duke of Edinburgh).
Always remember this On your first date you don't need to take a lady to expensive restaurant to impress her Neither should you take her to Macdonalds etc My best suggestion is to meet for a coffee and something light to eat And go from there Get to know more about her and if you both are still interested in each other then let the friendship grow naturally But don't smother the friendship
Women go for crappy blokes because it's drummed into us as young girls that if a man behaves badly he's just having a bad day or under a lot of pressure and to downplay it. We are conditioned from the onset to accept bad behaviour as normal.
First they say they expect apologies from men, then they say its sexy that they dont. So which is it ladies? I personally think that if you want something and we dont give it to you, you find it sexy.
so.. i dont know any of the mens or womens that Steve Harvey just to bring to his show and his pannels back then.. i guess is cuz i am not from EE.UU tho
Jeremy isn't bad cause he went to prison, he's bad cause he cheated on his wife and left his family for the rich girl OR he and his wife are in on it and just getting that coin-either way that's what makes him bad
Steve what is a "soulmate" & what is "shacking up" more than 1...2+++ years. What I "believe" all that is NOT love at all its called "using each other"
I think we should be putting Gods principality/word in this convos, cause true wisdom is Gods wisdom.
True,without God we don't have a good life
Amen without God there is no wisdom life meaning nothing!
God.... which is out of question here, though you are hundrerd percent right.
You are right, but most people would rather do it their way instead of God's way.
Thank you, people do not want to talk about God. As soon as His Name is mentioned people run, or one gets funny looks, people pull their faces or roll their eyes. Once you get to know God, you will see who your true friends are and who are believers. "He that finds a rightious woman finds a good thing" A man and woman are made for one another. God will bless their union. A union between a man, woman and God as the most important in their lives is the strongest union. God bless you ❤️💐
My husband does what Steve does - he apologizes just like that, and I do too. We're so blessed :)
Q1
This panel of ladies are so0 classy and respectful of one another.
I have learnt so much from this program since I started watching. It's not always about what I am interested in but others and their feelings.
Steve, stupidity is catching! God determines what is!
Preach! "i'm an honest woman with or without a man" !
First ask yourself, who created marriage?
You guys clap for most things, falling for anything.
People that aren’t married or have had many disappointments like divorce end up making excuses for being alone or being single. You end up creating a void to deal with it. Heal and keep hoping for that right relationship 🙏🏾
Agree totally.
Steve is my favorite human
Hard To Love & Receive Love When You Are So Full Of Yourself.
That "happy wife, happy life" is so B.S. And too many women buy into that. You better make your man happy just as much. A lot of men do ask for the divorce or leave their wife. Maybe that's why the divorce rate is so high. You better focus on your man just as much as you want him to focus on you.
I agree with that as a woman, a relationship is both ways, you both care for, love and take care of each other, but with certain relationships, if you take the chivalry route and HE asks for the FEMALE’s hand in marriage, then it just makes a little sense for him to take responsibility most of the time, so around 60/40 makes the most sense to me in that relationship
Jonathan Collins I was thinking the same thing
As a Christian, God commands us to love one another, not one way as "happy wife happy life " . Yes the bible also says husbands should love thier wives as Christ loved the church. It is both ways, treat each other right and you will both reap the rewards!
@@olakunleolafisoye8433 the bible addresses men and women how they need to be addressed. Men need to be reminded to show their love outwardly, with words and affection. Women forget all the time that men need love in the form of respect as well. That's why we're addressed differently lol. You're absolutely right, relationships go both ways and if one person goes unloved, eventually both will. God bless
Totally agree is both ways woman keep your men happy and men keep your woman satisfied. And the end
I’m 62, I’m not married but I’ve had 2 committed relationships that ended badly when my man cheated on me! I don’t want to put my heart ♥️ out there anymore only to be broken again. After the last relationship I chose not to pursue anymore relationships beyond friendships. That doesn’t make me any less of a person because I choose to be Happily Single. I have my own life and freedom, I also have my Church.
Get over it. So you don't want a relationship because of a few assholes. So these assholes now still run your life and they are no longer around. Ridiculous
Arguing in a relationship is welcoming if and only if both parties have the clear understanding that its for the betterment of the relationship and not for "I am right". Meaning, showcasing purposes that you are always right and have monopoly over ideas. The key should be fighting for the relationship. And this can be done with Love as well.
I liked this when Steve described the ppl point at which he apologizes. Yes.
so 5:00 a man should apologize at least 80% of the time
then 7:58 its sexy when a man makes no apologies.... which is it people huh
😂😂😂
this is women they disagree with them self all the time
All these bitches are stupid MGTOW 4 life
Context
😂😂😂😂😂
I like Steve’s view. It’s reallll
Steve hit it jackpot
Been married for 34 years and arguing is a part of marriage, but as adults it is important to be respectful, even though you might disagree
Good looking bad boys! We all like them when we are younger. Older - we like good men. Less drama.
But by the time you hit the wall, what makes you think a good man who was passed over when he was younger is going to want your used goods in any case? I've had women like that get in touch after years and I send them packing. One I used for a bit of sex before dumping her but I am not here to pick up the scraps tossed from the table of a woman's bad decisions and rude awakening that followed once she hit thirty. Telling a man you're ready to settle down after riding the c*ck carousel is just insulting and fortunately, vast numbers of men have the self-respect to value themselves more than you valued them.
@G G Well done bro. And they didn't get us all pregnant btw.
So you give the bad boy your best, but when you are wrinkly and broken down you want a goodman. There is a name for this.
@@h.a.stewart2756 Yes, it is called human nature lol
I don't like bad boys, I really like nice,sweet and caring men
Same
Me, too. The sweetness gets me! 😍
LOL.... you love sweet guys until the bad boy comes
@@kabelomasilela2243 how can I love myself and want a bad guy ?🤔 🤷♀️ I love someone who can treat me good with respect,guess what I am a sweet spiritual person 😊
@@boitumelomonare8647 you are the perfect example of people that I don't like
Spot on Steve
I used to think that when I was a naive twenty year old, that bad boys are good in bed. But I was sadly disappointed several times. In fact, a lot of bad boys are over compensating for the "lack thereof". Ijs
Yep we nice guys finish last. That's because we make sure she's satisfied first!
All i learnt about 20 year old girls (im 28) is that they are dumb and easy to manipulate. Its usually their bad decision to get with bad boys that turn them into hoes the rest of their lives but they try spend their 30+ years trying to convince people they are special and innocent.lol
@@deficator750 A grown man wouldn't be proud of that brother js.
If a man can not say sorry, indeed he is not an alpha man. He needs someone who tiptoes around him. sorry, but that's the truth. I am in the way that I know my values and try to live accordingly an alpha woman and if I am wrong, I can always say and mean a "I am sorry..."
I cannot stand people who cannot say sorry, this is often a character trait of really controlling people because they do not give the other person (their) power (back) and do not take their responsibility on their share, it somehow leaves the other person falsely wrong. It should be verbalized not hugged off or anything.... I feel for the other part who has to be fine with never getting a really meant and felt sorry...and it is not the word "sorry " I feel is important, it is more about showing that you acknowledge the others around you with their needs, values, interests, etc.
U know their is no alpha or beta among humans... Hierarchy in humans are not same as wolves...
@@Avikpalui They were referring as alpha. I do not use this term.
@@rlb3726 no i get it wat do u mean... But lately these terms has been used a lot, and its nt even true...
@@Avikpalui👍 I understand you now clearly: it is not true for humans. It might be confused with extrovert vs. introvert. (Or even active vs passive people)
Marriage is an institution of God. If marriage is not for you then neither is sex. People want to have sex without marriage because there is little to no commitment or probably no connection to God. In that case, to you it is cool and it is 'to each his own'.
Hailing from all the way from South Africa and catching this clip today that was aired exactly a year ago today, today being 06/06/2019, what a nice coincidence. Anyways,I'm such a huge Steve Harvey fan frm the days of his sitcoms🤣 he's such a legend and is so insightful I must say. Much love to our uncle Steve n legend.
Oh me too 06/06/2019 all the way from Mozambique at home with family is a holiday - independence day
marriage is not about your partner blessing you its about you being a blessing to your partner if you can do that your marriage will work
Exactly
True. Selfless love
A successful marriage depends on your decisions and the God's principles for marriage you apply, I am married and happly married on my to 2 years and to be a father for the very first time. I married virgin-it is still possible in 21 century to be pure!
I 💯 agree with you
Disagreements are healthy, arguments are not. A point must come in individual growth and growth in being able to communicate effectively in a marriage/long-term partner where there should be little to no arguments because you BOTH have a strong ability to communicate with one another.
There is no real communication in an ”argument.”
Arguments normally end in someone being forced to say I'm sorry just to put an end to the negative energy. That isn't the same as letting go of what happened. Disagreements are holistic discussions with both people having the level of individual insight to communicate, mirror their partner and come to conclusions together and actually allow whatever the disagreement was about to lay to rest.
but then again - Happy SPOUSE - happy HOUSE.
I love that...happy spouse happy house. If more couples competed to please the other instead of competing over doninance, marriages would last a lot longer
BS!
That is total bs
You can't make them happy no matter what
They can end up destroying you
Don't be mr nice guy and end up getting divorce
She looks amazing for 50
I just wish every man would do what Dennis Rodman has done.
....MARRY YOUR DAMN SELF.
Marriage is necessary!!
Moyinoluwa Adesuyi
It is for me
"...marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God and that the family is central to the Creator’s plan for the eternal destiny of His children."
This whole segment is just more women power bs about always making women happy at every turn. Yet what about the man, what about his happiness? Its like men are bad and women are good but what do the facts say? This trend is the main theme of steve harveys shows and its funny and all but its getting to the point where if you even mention a mans happiness or whats good for men its like blasphemy! Did you know 80% of suicides are done by men, or how about men die 10 years earlier than women, or 60% of deaths from heart disease are men, or 99% of war fatalities are men, or 98% of work related deaths are men. But hey im guessing more women are dieing from motherhood since theres so much blatant support for them.
Steve is right if she's the one he wouldn't have a problem with her moving in.
Wow this clip popped up at the right time! I just went out with a friend and she was so shocked that I don’t wanna get married like it’s just not a life goal I want (I’m currently still single). I just want love and happiness and to build with someone without the papers and without the wedding. She said I was being negative and need to change my mindset to positive. I said ok well maybe if the right man came along he can change my mind but my luck with men is bad and then she said “oh a man isn’t supposed to change your mind you gotta change it yourself”. I highly disagreed that not every decision in life has to be made on my own I need help changing my mind. Also she said a man doesn’t change my mind so why is SHE trying to change my mind though?
4:17 Is it healthy to argue?
7:20 Why women fall for Bad Guys?
9:05 Is really office romance, lead to marriage?
11:12 How long it takes a men to know she's The One?
15:50 How men know she is The One?
*Men don't care about Freedom, when you're The One*
All I hear is feminisms “we both supposed to make one another happy”
serious facts
If your wrong... You be the one to apologise.... That's it... That's all
This a press on tattoo...😂😂😂
I love that these women aren’t too full of themselves and they work with their men and the way that they’re set up
Isn't being independent being able to support yourself all around. I think having a family just takes it a step up. Now there are lives dependent on you. You don't seize to be independent because you got married.You seize being single.
Happy man happy relationship.
An alpha male is not someone who doesn't apologise when he's wrong
It's unfortunate that some think when women say they love "bad boy" means rob a bank. 😁😂😄😆
Women love men depending on what they want at that moment.. Some want fun and so prefer bad boys but when a woman wants to be loved, appreciated,married,come on.. No one wants a bad boy. That's recipes for depression.
I was shocked when she said 50.
Lol. I was even shocked the more when she said she hasn’t found the right man yet….at 50 😳?….
I WOULD CONSIDER HOW LONG DO YOU INTEND TO BE AT THE JOB!!
felt more like this ladies come for lesson from steve
Alpha men r d ones who know when they are wrong and when their women whom they love deserve an apology.
He’s also very handsome
I live with my daughter and son in law who is wounded warrior.
They also take care of son's mother who has dementia and lung cancer
I am disabled.
They also have 3 teens.
I had business.. which I lost due to health plus husband took off with all money..we all worked in business..so we have had a hard time recoving..plus all Dr visit..son in law got a job.. daughter is looking for a job..they have a beautiful home.
But foundation is falling in to the point
Of parts of house is totally cracked.
And falling.
My son in law and daughter are very proud people.
Don't want to ask for help..but we are really struggling.. what do we do? Any advice? No Christmas.
And sometimes not enough of food.
I already told you all I have nothing to say to him so stop stimulating me and concentrate for what your here for
I do think that men and women go for" bad girls" and "bad boys" more in general. It's often out of immaturity, craziness, lust, vanity, desperation or combinations of these things. A lot of times "bad boys" and "bad girls" in media and sometimes in real life are portrayed as way more attractive, sexier, more exciting, and more experienced in life in general. That "natural charisma" hooks almost every time *eye roll*. A lot of "nice guys" and "good girls" get played for idiots way too often and are usually labeled with qualities like boring, predictable, and unattractive. People usually do acknowledge good attributes that are associated with them (responsible, caring, considerate) but those attributes are usually underappreciated compared to the positive attributes associated with the "bad" people, or are only appreciated in a husband or wife but not a girlfriend or boyfriend (like really, how are we supposed to get to married if no one will date us?)
Both my boyfriend and one of my good male friends are those genuinely nice guys that have been overlooked for no good reason. They're responsible, respectful, funny, sweet, dependable and super loving. But no, douchebags who dress better and worse were more likely to get a girlfriend. I get that these assholes are also more likely to approach women, thus increasing their chances of getting one but come on now. Same thing with me and some of the other lifelong genuinely nice/good girls I know of. Even though I was likable and fairly sociable no one really looked my way romantically or sexually in college; I'm lucky I managed to find my bf in this bs dating scene. I didn't have enough of that "sexy bad girl" edge to me, I was actually told by a few guys who made it a point to tell me why I was friend-zoned for whatever reason.
I personally have NEVER gone for the bad guy, not even in high school. I wasn't about that foolishness at all; I swiftly broke up with my ex in high school when I realized he was abusive and with the other when his true colors showed a neglectful personality. As a teen girl, I didn't need anyone else diminishing my self-worth and depriving me of affection while I poured into them. Even as an adult I could see how good sex and charisma aren't the most important things in a relationship, and also how mediocre some of these bad boys and girls really are. They don't all live up to the "smooth, exciting, interesting, great in bed sexy beings" they tend to be over-hyped as. Some of them are straight up lame and abusive or neglectful from the beginning.
People say they're tired of the drama but keep picking the same or obviously bad choices; people need to stop falling for the surface image and smokescreens. I know humans are creatures of habit, but then don't just complain if you're going to put yourself in the situation when you had other options and are contributing to the lack of options over time. They never learn, this phenomena has been going on for ages; men picking shallow and manipulatively selfish women, women picking abusive or lazy and immature men. There are less and less nice guys and girls in the world because no one really seems to take us seriously, not even ourselves a lot of the time. Too many of us also give in to the "bad" illusion and we need to stop because it's self-sabotaging and making us jaded. Also, don't get your heart shredded by a bad person THEN just come crawling to a good person only to pass on the pain the asshole put you through. Live with your consequences alone, keep that energy over there.
Well put. When there are fewer good people in the world, it will get darker and darker. Many will wish they had a good person to be with.
can believe I've read a whole paper on good and bad guys. whew.... was good though
Where I'm from the teardrop means that their mother has passed away
Now he just got through saying a man knows if she's the one at 6 months, now she ain't the one at 3 months. Damn, does no one take their time anymore?
@Tiffany Nicole - I would think people these days are now passionately after pleasure in all its form. That’s why one little fault results in split or divorce. People these days have developed to love themselves so much that they do not care about the next person.
in my younger days I would be drunk and meet someone. by the time I got their number, I couldn't remember their name so I had alot of blonde at (insert bar name) in my phone back then. it was always fun being on a date with them and trying to find out their name.
I did not argue for 15 years with relationship.
80 20 huh?
Marriage is for everybody an anybody who wants it
Bad boys are not attractive to me cause their is nothing attractive about being taken for granted, being lied to, being cheated on, not being loved the way you deserve.
I have been with a good guy as well as a bad guy and trust me girls the good guys r ohh so more better in bed 😂 what makes it better is being treated right , being loved and respected immensely and to tell you the truth 4 years down the line with a good guy I feel blessed that god send him my way😍
How do I get to Steve's show???????? He have to help me with a situation only him can tell me what to do. Lol. Steve I beep some words of wisdom from you.
Dumped by three fiances? That's a bad marriage risk right there.
TELL HER EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL!!
Happy wife happy life is an excuse for selfishness
I believe I should go both ways
Tracey is wonderful person, her relation would never end up in fiasco!!
My fb of 7 years like to think of himself as a "bad boy" but everything about him says otherwise...I just let him have it since it makes him happy 😂
A BAD BOY 👦 TENDS TO BE VERY INTERESTING HOWEVER FOR LONGTERM YOU NEED TO FEEL SAFE & COMFORTABLE!!
Can you please help us?
I don't know if saying the woman is not the one for Russell is accurate. Three months is too early. You're still in the honeymoon stage. No one should be moving in with anybody that fast. People can really change after a few months, especially once the hormones fade. Plus Steve has said in the past that he doesn't think you should move in until marriage.
i agree! 3mos is too early to know. Just have a conversation next time u find item
Rambling Millennial There’s something really truthful in what Steve said regardless of the 3 months. He’s either not looking to settle in with anyone at all right now OR he’s not looking to settle in with her. Either way, she’s not the one right now. I know that if I’m sleeping over regularly enough at your place there’s no way in hell I’m keeping a bag packed and stashed in the car just to freshen up in the morning. If a drawer makes you feel like you have less freedom then I can go somewhere else and you can be as free as you want!
Lol, "woman have it hard". Men have it hard having to live up to the world's expectations and especially the expectations of woman.
Bad Boy - Dated them because I want to be the one that tamed the hound.
HEYYY, MY NAME IS MIMI, TOO!! :D
I don't approve of office romance. You don't CRAP where you eat.
Marriage is ordained by God, so its a must! Sex before marriage is wrong
Marriage should be 💯 teamwork on with both partners I don’t believe in happy wife happy life neither partner should ever become complacent in the relationship and take one another for granted
Wow! Thank you Steve for acknowledging that there are "a lot of good people in prison who have made mistakes". Now regarding Why Women Love Bad boys, I have a theory that I also voiced in my Psychology of Women class on the same subject. I know for my generation the movies always portrayed the bad boys as sexy who always got the girl. One example in the original Footloose video the bad boy gets in a few fights and defied the town ban on rock n roll music and dancing. and falls in love with the preacher's daughter.
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as the show progresses it is getting easier and easier to tell when the random people on camera are paid actors. Laaaaaaame!!
None of these women are average women with average careers; their advice is crap for over 99% of regular folks. I like Steve yet he’s a totally controlled host figure when it comes to simping for feminism and their ridiculous, out of touch views of the world.
The video should have ended at 2:00 before it even began. The whole people taking your relationship seriously or not.. wtf is that about? What is this need to please everyone? Do you and to hell with what anyone else thinks.. jeez.
I don’t think she knows what an “honest woman” means.
Seven years is too long to date anyone, I don't care who it is!
The #1 Reason For Divorce is #Marriage 💯✔️
Tear drop also can mean somebody that was really close to them died its not always because they killed somebody and u wont know unless u ask thats up to u tho i suggest u juz mind your business but just no its not always because they murdered somebody ok ;)
Apologies are important, but doing this so your partner does too, that's silly. Marriage is only for those who have realized that your partner and you have been a whole person b4 you got together and not only have a healthy relationship with respect and you both understand each other and are willing to share the rest of your life with that person. It's not just compatibility but willing to compromise, bcz the chemistry eventual tones down but that doesn't mean you no longer love each other. This is why you aught to know each other for a while. And of course when you do realize I don't want to live the rest of your life without this person. Bad boys are just that bad boys! If you're mature enough give yourself respect and don't just go w him bcz he's a bad boy. Think, think, think before you act. Decisions are your choice, but you don't get to choose your consequences.
64 years with one person 👀
Its possible
I know... I am still taking it in
It could be their dating years plus married years. Not necessarily only married years. However, it’s still even possible for couples to be married for over 70 years, for instance Queen Elizabeth 2 and Prince Philip (Duke of Edinburgh).
Always remember this
On your first date you don't need to take a lady to expensive restaurant to impress her
Neither should you take her to Macdonalds etc
My best suggestion is to meet for a coffee and something light to eat
And go from there
Get to know more about her and if you both are still interested in each other then let the friendship grow naturally
But don't smother the friendship
Women go for crappy blokes because it's drummed into us as young girls that if a man behaves badly he's just having a bad day or under a lot of pressure and to downplay it. We are conditioned from the onset to accept bad behaviour as normal.
First they say they expect apologies from men, then they say its sexy that they dont. So which is it ladies? I personally think that if you want something and we dont give it to you, you find it sexy.
so.. i dont know any of the mens or womens that Steve Harvey just to bring to his show and his pannels back then.. i guess is cuz i am not from EE.UU tho
Prestiges remember
Jeremy isn't bad cause he went to prison, he's bad cause he cheated on his wife and left his family for the rich girl OR he and his wife are in on it and just getting that coin-either way that's what makes him bad
😂😂😂😂😂 honest women with or without a man 😂😂😂😂😂, ain’t that some bullshit!!!!
I say no due to the fact that the building looks like the white house and what happened there
So marriage ain't for everybody but sex is?
Lol. Well I feel that they’re just trying to make themselves sound good with that ideology.
MARRIAGE MAKES 💑 THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN AMAN& WOMAN 👩 BE MORE RESPECTABLE TO THE WORLD 🌎 😂!!
Tracey settled. She wanted to marry Deion years ago. He said no.
La Jo
I guess he’s redpilled, but Tracey is allowing his bad behavior until she gets tired of him😂
Oh, I never knew that. I wanted her marriage to Babyface to work out.
80/20? What kind of advice is that? Yeah I'm sure you're in a GREAT relationship lady ...
We get married cause God wants us too .
Is it only me that got pissed when they said bad boys are authentic and sexy ? Maybe thats why they hearts are being broken so much.
Steve what is a "soulmate" & what is "shacking up" more than 1...2+++ years. What I "believe" all that is NOT love at all its called "using each other"