THE DEMISE OF JAHMBY’S FATHER & LESSONS TO OTHER MEN
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Njambis story all along was she was raised by her mom and grandma. Never did she mention her dad......yet he contributed immensely in her life. Likely they had a strained relationship, but he did what he could . may they rest easy
I think for Njambi it wasn’t about the money but was he there when she was fighting HARD endometriosis…Nwhu sorry for judging cause who are we to judge. May God give them peace 🕊️
Also she was a stubborn kid, in her own words.
A grotesque twist of fate for a Father’s Day weekend. The “I paid for, I paid for”, signifies what men have been reduced to/ mere ATM machines, and their value is only pegged on what they can pay for.
May he rest in eternal peace.
I’ll never judge any father who is trying to support his kids, but let me say that financial support is just not enough.
I’m a divorced father to four girls. While their mother and I were going through separation and divorce several years ago, she (and her mother) made every effort to deny me access to my children. Keep in mind that I am as there since before they were born, and I was in the delivery room when they were all born. Everything was going very well until my former mother in law moved into our house (long story that I’ll share in a different forum).
I fought through a very biased legal system and the divorce judge ruled in my favor. Though I still pay child support to my ex (due to income disparity), the time I spend with my daughters can’t be compared to any financial support. We have a 70/30 type of custody (ie she has them for more days, because her mother helps with babysitting), but I have them on weekends and we have a very strong bond. I can’t imagine them growing in my absence.
I remember when my ex stated in court that she was a ‘single mother’ but the judge immediately shut her down lol. She was trying to get sympathy but it backfired because I have always been very supportive, and our divorce was a mutual agreement between the two of us, and I would never put the kids in the middle of our stupid differences.
My message to fathers: financial support is not enough. Children also need your physical and emotional support, especially girls. They tend to have a strong attachment to their fathers more than mothers, and we must guide be there for them. They will remember all the days you took them to the park or for simple picnics, and all the money that you paid for their school doesn’t matter matter to them.
saying i paid is relevant.unaweza somesha a daughter then akue spoilt by mother then wakuruke na waanze kusema hukusomesha mtoto maybe coz you never married the mother,.the narrative will go on.so saying the truth to men is right.we need to defend ourselves through pronouncing.
I wonder why she never gave her dad credit. Nobody questioned how she afforded to go to those expensive schools? I think keeping her dad away from the limelight was good for her because she was able to crowdfund for her treatment. Her dad is a wealthy man, no doubt about that. Having worked as a diplomat since the 80s means he’s accumulated a lot of wealth. I listened to jahmbys interview with mkurugenzi. She was evasive about how she afforded treatment at aga khan. She mentioned her sister and personal savings. Never mentioned how she ended up at makini school and st Christopher. I think her close relations knew about that fact but not the general public. Her not mentioning her dad really played well either her identity about growing up in ghetto. Girl knew how to work the system. RIP fyah mumma
May he rest in peace. This man was hurting. Plus from his speech, it's not like he's been fully absent in Njambi's life. He was there whenever Njambi asked for help; he felt like he needed to do more maybe he was locked out of his daughter's life you never know. And it takes a lot of courage to apologise in public.
I think he was bringing up he paid because everyone was saying he was a deadbeat father. I did suspect it was cyber bullying would have caused him to off himself.
That’s true. It’s so difficult to watch Mwaf judging this man. Jahmby never ever gave her dad credit. My thinking is she never wanted the public to know her dad was a diplomat and moneyed. She just wanted to identify herself with ghetto life plus crowd funding wouldn’t have been as successful if the public knew she came from money.
it's sickening how the modern society has normalized fatherlessness,,,
Fathers normalized fatherlessness,not the society
African men especially from our father's generation (Now in their 70's) had a different way of showing affection which was by providing. They would never tell their kids "I love you" and i highly doubt they told our mothers the same...I remember kuna time my peroz could differ or have their own issues that ata hawaongeleshani then one evening buda anakam na kuku ama nyama (Which was a rare meal on normal days in the mid 90's) or sometimes shopping ya uchumi supermarket na clearly ungeona mood yao imechange to the better...I guess that was my fathers way of saying am sorry na matha pia angecheza kama yeye
Mwaf your main problem is that you get into your emotions too much 😂
The child is the father of the man - the experiences and choices we make as children have a lasting impact on who we become as adults.
Dad's presence in a family is the most golden thing to both genders. Research has shown that girls who engage in relationships early or irresponsibly lucked a father figure when growing up
You are right.Its only a few who make it without a father.
I can't be absent to my kid but incase I happen amostly kama ni msichana ata hiyo burial siezi tokea
Others tumefiukiwa. Guys, kids are expensive, stop complaining if you have them . Heh! I fear kids
Boy is father of the man; the boy maketh the man. Your actions and experiences as a child lay foundation for whom you become as a man.
Yeah Mwaaf, Ian na Zack, the topic is good enough sending money and being there physical na mjunior anateseka which is which now,
What you might be missing is that there is a time in life when you start living for your kids, at his age he was taking pride of the daughter, but pride by both could have caused him alot of torture, he didn't know how to call the daughter and explain, and the daughter never found it necessary. It seems he loved the daughter so much that he couldn't take it that his only pride in life was taken away from him without getting an opportunity to say sorry for each other. And that fact that someone dies without saying sorry is the worst torment we can ever live with. It is like he had done all in life and without his pride in life, he didn't see the reason to live.
THE KANU government just caught a stray🤣🤣🤣🤣
Selfish man, Even in her death he wouldn't let her have the spotlight she deserves.
I hope you don't take his root,and that your demons don't get the better part of you.I hope even In pain you act strong and don't shed a tear.
African love is displayed differently unlike western european love.
Hamuezi elewa...May Baba Njambi's soul rest in peace.
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Guys hii kitu ni hard, maybe the guy alioa another woman and you know step mums. The guy was there financially,St Christopher ni ya kibabi sana, Daystar,USIU same. KBC job na UN internship the father called favours. But guys let look at our kids.
as a parent you have to draw boundaries for a step spouse so they don't mistreat your DNA. Money cannot replace the self worth that your children get from being 100% confident that you have their back and will protect them all the time. Babangu alikuwa hivyo na saa hii ananifuatilia after so many years but trusting him ni zero.
Did she have six toes??😂we might be couchie cousins
The child is the father of aman it simple means ye ndio ana lea budake sai
Black tax boss.
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Children teach the farther to farther
Rapcha Ako wapi Bana 😤
Dude of nare angewakisha hii show saidi kabisa
@@denisngetich2509 bana Amna appearance ya rapcha tangu mwaf atoke USA he makes the show humorous
You’re spewing a lot of nonsense you wasn’t there leave it to the family to solve amongst themselves
unajua this guy alilewa na mama yake coz his father kazi ilkua kukunywa pombe..anakuanga fala ju alikosa male figure kwa life yake,
Ni kama he made it about himself badala afocus on the daughter.