Honestly, the times I’ve allowed and accepted what I was feeling in a genuine way, I’ve seen the most movement nearly instantly. When I say, genuine though, I mean I’m doing it because I just want to feel better FOR ME in my own skin at that moment. I’m not doing it so that I can have anyone or anything else. The 3d is a mirror though and how we feel about ourselves others will reflect.
YESSSS!! Exactly this! And the reflection really is instant when you’re doing it in this genuine way (SELF-FOCUSED, not 3D validation-focused). If you’re still trying to force yourself to think/feel differently and it’s more about wanting the 3D to match you as quickly as possible than it is about genuinely taking care of yourself - that’s STILL being someone who’s insecure. Still more reliant on external validation than internal validation. So insecurity will continue to push out.
You can still feel all the feelings and not to mentally label them! U get to this position when u can genuinly feel the energy neagtive or positive and still not mentally label it..all u feel is the raw energy available to you at that moment and now if u transmite it you are true alchemist but if u feel afraid to not face it ,you are deprived of energy
"He thinks it’s cute that I’m a little insecure." 😂 omg that’s so true it’s not even funny. I had this happen to me multiple times when I simply assumed that smo likes the things about me I feel insecure about and the 3D confirmed. That’s pretty much how I deal with all my flaws. Just assume they like it.
You know what helped me get sps? I realized I had an anxious attachment style which translated to me constantly needing 3d validation and when I didn’t get it I would worry, question myself and spiral. I fixed it by having positive inner conversation and mastering my self esteem within myself. I completely had experiences similar to yours. ❤️❤️❤️
100% agree! It was anxious attachment style for me also. Realizing this helped me to turn my focus around from the SP and learn to find validation within myself. That validation came by knowing myself as the operant power and one with Source along with learning the anxious feelings are ok. Sitting and allowing those feelings to pass helps the mind and body learn the feeling are not deadly and in essence nothing but sensation with a story attached to it. ❤
These comments are so helpful to me. Im in a situationship & Im constantly anxious & needing 3D reassure. But when I am self assure, loving & appreciating me he behaves so positively with me. This video & your comments are so helpfu. Thank you.
Yes. This content is the PERFECT explanation. Don’t forget, manifesting has absolutely NOTHING to do with techniques, other than self believe, a sense of self competence, and assumptions that either way, you’re going to be ok with or without what you want.
You are so right about not getting stuck in shadow work or inner child work. What we focus on, is what expands in our life. So when we’re focused on our bad childhood, or bad parents, or bad exes, etc…we’re stuck in that low vibration. It’s a good tool for awareness, just like therapy, but sitting there talking about all your past wounds just keeps you stuck in that vibration of pain, lack, and it reaffirms your insecurities. Use it as a tool to be aware, but then move on and focus on your future. Things started to flow for me when I stopped trying to “figure out” why things happened. They happened, it hurt, it’s ok, and now let’s focus on our bright future instead of our dark past ❤️
Wow, you really explained the secret on how to stop fighting yourself on positive thinking. The current trend teaches us to ignore the insecure or negative feelings, but just as your story reveals ... they will make themselves known, verbally or non-verbally. I love that you're showing us to "simply accept them!" Thank you so much, new sub! ❤🎉
I really find it interesting that the law of attraction is really just The Way (The Tao). It’s not about following a set of ritualistic thinking or actions, it’s just wherever there is stillness, there is the Tao. The trick is, every thought, every feeling that comes up- I do my best to simply accept. Awareness and acceptance. Reflection/redirection is good but you don’t have to exhaust yourself by over psycho analyzing, sometimes just listening and being mindful and aware is enough. I do my best to just listen to my thoughts and feelings! Acceptance to EVERYTHING. And if I can’t accept, I accept that too, lol! For example- I’m feeling so insecure. Acceptance. No I can’t feel insecure because I shouldn’t be feeling insecure because it’s making it worse. Acceptance. I can’t accept this right now! Acceptance. As someone with severe mental health issues, a lot of the law of attraction/assumption teachings have been so harmful.. but this is really good :D No one flows the River to flow, it just does. I do my best not to force anything, and when I do force things, I accept that, too. It really brings a sense of fulfillment and peace and serenity to a rough life. Some affirmations I use when they feel right: (sometimes they don’t, so I don’t force it) My best today is good enough. I am doing my best. I let the problem solve itself. I let the story unfold naturally. I deeply, completely, and profoundly love, accept, and forgive myself. I surrender to the flow. I also use ho’oponopono: I love you. I am sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. And my favorite! Oh, well. 🤷♀️ If anyone is interested in a book that personally changed my life and has continuously helped me through the darkest of dark times, The Tao of Pooh! It is such an easy, fun, relaxing read that will really make you feel peaceful and uplifted. I also recommend the Pixar movie Soul :D Thank you so much for your video! ❤️
This is extremely helpful and its crazy because im beginning to learn how to be okay and accept my uncomfortable emotions and this video comes up. Thank you.
This is one of my fav manifesting videos i saw from you because it’s so in alignment to what im going through right now. It’s near to impossible for me to feel good about what im going through right now. But I have to focus on self care and know that everything is working for me and I am going to get what I want because I’m so deserving!
This video might actually save my life. This has been the one thing that has been “ruining” my manifestations. I’ve recently been allowing myself to accept my anxiety not judge it, which has been really helpful, so I don’t know why I didn’t apply this same mentality to my negative thoughts & feelings. Hearing you talk about how you felt like the minute you started to invest in a man they no longer reciprocated was … it made me feel incredibly seen. Thank you so much for this message.
Thanks Genevieve, I stumbled upon this video at a time when I really needed it! I was feeling shit this morning & now I feel confident again. You're a legend!! 💪🤞👊
I’m so grateful for this video. I was trying to be super happy all the time and it made me feel worse and worse. I watched this video yesterday and when I was about to sleep I was thinking: I am not perfect but it doesn’t matter. It’s all these perfect imperfections what makes me loveable. I was singing All of me in my mind. The next morning I started the engine of my car and what was playing straight away on the radio??? All of me! I was so happy and strongly believe I could manage my first cool manifestation. Thank you so much!!!! ❤️
After a life of abuse originating from a narcissistic mother and sister, and attracting narcissistic people in pretty much every other relationship in my life, and trying my hardest for many, many years to overcome that to manifest the life that I want, this is precisely what I needed to hear right now to eliminate this final block! You have said it in just the right way that I can now hear it! Thank you, thank you, thank you! Please continue your important work in raising the vibration and clearing as many people as possible!
This is such a valuable video. I often just go along with my thoughts, passively agreeing with them. But also not giving myself permission to feel what I feel and I’ll still get xyz anyway. 🙏🏼 You are glowing too ✨
This video is proof to me that when the student is ready, the right teacher appears. Oh MY GOD ❤❤ the content in this is....damn! Right that's suppression! I've been doing really good with my affirmation routine and it did feel like suppression during these times, hence not working. And wouldn't I anyway want a partner who accepts me with my anxiety too? Damn!!
Exactly!! Who wants a relationship where you have to be perfect for your partner all the time just to maintain their love? A healthy relationship dynamic is one where there's room for humanness and, and yes, even occasional insecurities. So practice accepting that YOU can have this dynamic right now!
Thank-you for the thorough explanation, I have watched many other LOA teachers on RUclips and many are really good, however you are first LOA teacher that actually explained how to deal with strong emotions. I feel grateful you gave me and everyone else the permission to feel and to take it the next step up and accept. I sense this is the game changer that I needed and prayed for.
So much has clicked for me because of you over the past couple days. No one has ever explained this so well before. I have been running and hiding from my emotions for years since being introduced to LOA; and you’re the first person who really gave me a lightbulb moment about my anxiety and insecurities and I’ve really looked deep into how I feel about myself.
That bit you said " It's not the feelings I'm having it's what I make them mean" BOOM!! light bulb moment in my head, so powerful. Thank you so much for that moment of truth WOW! You carry so much crap around and you instantly believe them. Never challenging them re framing them
24:13 this part, amazing!! Such a lightbulb moment, how you treat yourself in those moments is the key! And you from 10 years ago? I can relate, but that’s all changing now. I’m so glad I discovered your channel, your videos have been so valuable to me in learning how to actually deal with negative emotions/feelings. Myself and so much others have struggled with that and it’s nice to have a coach that helps us truly deal with these things in a compassionate and effective way. I immediately start putting the things you talk about into practice and it’s been so helpful and honestly life changing. Thank you and keep it up! ❤️
Today is Day 17 of your Manifest your SP course-IT HAS TRULY CHANGED ME😎-and, there are ups and downs, but I got myself back! I have let go of outcomes and the 3D. I am having trouble seeing SP as the new version-but, I am really enjoying visiting the new version of the future w him-when the old version creeps in I started doing the Ho Oponopono thought to being the new back. It’s simple and something I can call on instantly! Even though there are some really tough things to work through, this is an awesome experience! Thank you!♥️
Wow this helped me sooo much. I love how many times you said “I know” I swear there’s so much power to those words. Every times I’ve got something fast. It’s when I’ve demanded “I knowwwww”
when i tell you i woke up in the middle of the night maybe 3-4 hours before you uploaded this and couldn’t sleep because i was trying to work through my negative thoughts 😭 as someone who is trying to work on reframing my thoughts in a more positive light, THANK YOU. i relate to you from 10 years ago in so many parts of my life and this video is exactly what i needed to hear today.
Wonderful advice. You described me to a T. For so many years I was very mean to myself for having feelings that I thought I shouldn't have because that's how I grew up. I got beat up physically, verbally, and emotionally for feelings. But now I'm being kind to myself like you're saying and it makes all the difference in the world.
This is exactly where I’m at, thank you so much. I’ve just started practicing accepting my feelings/non suppression but I was in this rebellious mindset of: I will care for myself and be there even if no one else is. I can see where that isn’t going to get me what I truly desire either. To be able to accept my feelings AND know that other people accept it too is taking me exactly where I want to be.
I don't really comment on videos but I just need to express how you're the thread I'm hanging onto...I'm so grateful I found your channel...I liked a guy so much it made me change my ways of thinking about myself discover the manifestation community and be aware of self concept.... I've now realised how I've always rejected the blessings just because I was scared of getting hurt...I was so caught up in reality and now I've learnt how much our thoughts matter ... I've still not achieved my manifestation but I'm a lot better now than the past few months I've spent being so overly anxious and heartbroken... If anyone reads this I'm so confused in my situation I wish I could talk to someone cuz my friends are sick of hearing his name the way I talk so much about him...also if you read it till now Please pray and manifest my sp will like me back...even if I can't have him please pray for his safety and good health
Love the content! It’s not invalidating my feelings but big shift on the idea of embracing insecurity but gave a new perspective on how we assume the other person would react.
I just love ur content so much. A few weeks ago I was having difficulties with some manifestations and I asked my inner being to give me a direction and your content showed up on my yt feed. I was a little resistent to Open it but as soon as I did all my answers started to show up. Every subject of the vídeos yt was recomanding me of yours was exactly what I was asking for clarification. Thank u gienevive for allowing your self to live your truth and sharing it with us ❤
I've watched all of your content and I am looking forward to more. I'm manifesting your self-concept course right now. Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us!
Love this, Thanks for sharing, its good to accept negative thoughts when they come in but then cancelling them out and thinking but I know I am secure and confident and everything always works out for me and these thoughts are just my brain trying to sabotage the new me and I just have to overwrite the old thought process with the new thoughts lol this is what I am gonna be telling myself from now on. Thank You
Everything you speak about is everything I've been working through for years to get to this point now in my 40's with my family. To anyone forever struggling, It's OK. I still go through loads of emotion, but it's the thing that ironically keeps me growing. Not for anyone else's approval, but my own recognition and acceptance of myself. From here it's then you begin to realize how much the world needs you to be authentic - not to just survive but to lead by example and thrive. Gl to all you wonderful souls! Great video ❤🎉
Right from the beginning, this is the most relatable video I’ve ever seen on manifestation 👏 instantly subscribed. Thank you 🙏 this really put things into perspective. I tend to be highly self aware, self critical, anxious but sometimes despite all this, I still manage to manifest what I want (and sometimes I don’t) and what you said really helps to understand the difference. Also, what a beautiful way of reaching self acceptance 🙂 not punishing yourself for the feelings but reframing them ✨
Finally a video that explains what self concept really is!!! This is extremely helpful! Thanks for posting this! Now I really understand, and you're right it has given me a completely different point of view about my inner dialogue and the way I handle that same awkward nervousness and self doubt.
Great video and thank you. I've been trying to ignore my feelings for so long and finally am allowing myself to feel, look at things from a different perspective and can move on and feel good.
Thank you sooooooo much for sharing your own experience, I can't tell you how normal it helped me feel to hear somebody else having the same experience with insecurities that can seem silly but have such big impacts on life!
I'm new to your channel. I can honestly say you've turned my life around literally overnight. I finally feel a sense of calmness. I've let go and already I've manifested. I can't believe it. I feel I got a superpower. I'm looking forward to the future at last. Thank you from the bottom of my heart x
This pattern is unfortunately familiar, and anxiety that comes when thinking about people that I feel attected to is sometimes overwhelming. It's really disturbing and usually makes people start affirming to make this feeling go away. Thank you Genevieve for sharing your story and perspective on how to deal with this stuff 👍
Just want to add... This has been the best video on manifestation I've ever seen, and I've seen a lot! I am someone who struggles with low self esteem, core belief that there's something wrong with me, fearful avoidant, limerent... So what you've shared here is a huge relief to me. Those insecure thoughts will always come, it's part of my journey, and by accepting them and then thinking "he thinks it's cute and authentic that I feel that way" or "the potential employers value human emotions and courage" I'm accepting myself fully and showing myself I'm worthy of love regardless of my insecurities and imperfections. Thank you!
You have no idea how your videos are helping me these days. I really, really, REALLY needed to hear this message. I am so grateful for your teachings, also your honesty and clarity. Im having major epiphanies watching your videos !! Like... wow... !! We are multiple beings.. how could we even suppress our emotions? You're right, true love really is about being able to acknowledge our flaws, and still hold ourselves in high regards! We'll always be a work in progress! I'm currently learning to embrace myself fully... what a journey... but its about time! 😄
sooooo agree!!!💜 embracing all the shadow, all the emotions helps to keep the flow --- often in the spiritual arenas and energy work arenas we want to bypass our humanity, our emotions...but reality our emotions when fully experienced, processed, and walked through -- leads to great awareness, wisdom and guidance ....
Thank you, such a powerful video. When waking up in the morning I'd often feel anxious and discouraged. I know that these feelings stem from an old self but I somehow have still been letting myself get talked into negative stuff. This ends now!😊
THANK YOU! For talking about suppression of emotions and how that's not the way. Acknowledging how you really feel and think and taking a step back, because we are not PERFECT. We need to remind ourselves that we deserve it all but when a trigger appears or when this kind of thoughts pop in or both at the same time we take that moment to realize that they don't hold the power over us...
WOW! Your words are a true blessing! You have a true gift of explaining and breaking it down for us. This was the most groundbreaking youtube video for me. Thank you for sharing this and your knowledge! I will definitely repeat this video.
I see myself in all of your stories. I’ve never known anyone who was as self-conscious as I was growing up😂. Great advice. Accept the feelings. I spent so much time in therapy and it definitely helped but I could’ve stopped sooner for sure. Once you have the insight you need, walk away and be your own therapist with this self- soothing you’re talking about here. Thanks for the reminder.
Great video! Thanks for sharing. I feel like there is one more missing puzzle piece in addition to the acknowledgement of the old story and reacting to it. The missing piece is to clear your energy field so that the situations don’t keep repeating. During meditation, clear your energy field from the unwanted feelings, thoughts and situations. All the best! 🎉🎉🎉
First video that popped up when I opened RUclips. Exactly what I needed to hear this morning. What a great way to wake up. Thank you so much Genevieve!
Thank you for doing this -so out of the box and so brave and a real true lesson- it's not what we feel -it's how we react and the meaning we give-thank you i love your videos
I am your new biggest fan. Thank you! I'm a hypnotherapist and had even started questioning if I'm good at my job. Because I could have a relationship. All I had was a string of 1 to 4 dates and then poof. Thank you! I had done inner child work till I started thinking I was missing something. This makes so much sense.
This is so true. Ive been doing loa for years but always surpressed bad feelings. Only recently I finally made the choice to sit with my fear and feel it and confirm i do feel scared but I'm an eternal being who can survive and turn anything into a positive experience
Well said! Couldn't agree more with what you said in this video. I used to think that if I feel a certain way or have doubts but I can still feel emotions, thoughts, and have doubt and still have my manifestation be already done. Learning to acknowledge it when it comes up and soothe it with self love really does work! Thank you for this! ❤
You are the very first person I've listened to who TRULY addresses the whole person and how to really deal with our insecurities and vulnerabilities! I just found you tiday and became a member, the story of the minute you liked a guy all your insecurities and intensity comes to the fore front.I had a guy tell me i was "Too much" and he pushed away, even though it hurt a lot bc my mom always criticized me about being too much, but i was able to turn it around it and say hey, this is great! i always believed i wasn't enough..now someone is telling me I'm too much, so what? i like that part of me! and btw, this guy and I are still friends.Anyway,THANK YOU!!!
your videos are incredible....very high level concepts in easy, true ways to work through the issues. I remember when I was younger I had a friend over and I was so nervous that it would be boring that I started telling her about all the socks in my drawer. And forget about people opening presents that I gave them at a bday party....I realized I inherited that insecurity from my mom who is actually so warm and friendly and outgoing but also subconsciously insecure about so many things. So confusing! But now Im to the point where manifesting for me looks like living my best life each day...trying to live a good life and take care of myself.
I actually really appreciate that you were so forthcoming with details like the hookup with the casual guy bc its one for one what i experience sometimes, like the overthinking and the ease that disappears in me the moment i start to energetically pursue, but the details really helped put me in your shoes and get it.
@@FreeSoul-ep6cr Think of it this way: the guy is "putting out" too. Its a transaction, is how I see it, like going out to eat together. Sex is a physical need and sure its great when its within an emotional committed relationship, but sometimes both ppl just want a quick and easy solution. Why should we have to run the gamut of first date, second date, going out to eat, discussing long term plans, etc, just to be able to take care of a physical need?
The key moment for me in this video was when you said the bit about constantly judging the insecure parts of ourselves. Immediately, that clicked with the idea that instead of judging that part, acknowledging that part, thanking it, and comforting it.
Excellent video and a great piggyback off your video on anger. I'd been experiencing loops recently of intense angry inner conversations, and then I'd start wrestling with them which would naturally make them worse. Now I'm starting to view the anger and frustration as an ally and catalyst, propelling me into my desired reality.
Wow thank you that make sense! Have room for your emotions and still believe in yourself. In other way positively embrace your negative emotions. It is okay to have insecurity, low self esteem and ect we still can get what we desire ❤ having that awareness about how to operate our system in that loving way give us understanding towards ourself and great self-confidence in your dreams. I was moved by how beautiful it is that we are becoming more and more friendly to our feelings. We're making progress! 🎉
I really needed this today. I reacted to something that occurred with my sp over the weekend and im not happy with it. It was better than the past but still didnt do what you just mentioned but im trying to stand strong in knowing everything is fine and he loves me no matter what.
Wow, this video is gold! Thank you so much for all this amazing advice. The amount of views this video has got, shows how valuable it is to so many. Thank you so much Genevieve! 🙏🏼
I discovered your channel 2 weeks ago. I don't know how old you are. However, you are a true gem. I wish you all the best. This is a great episode. Godspeed to you.
This video is everything I’ve been needing!!! …I relate to this so much & I didn’t even realize this was happening. Makes so much sense. You explained this so well. Thank you!!!!
The might be the most helpful LOA video I’ve ever watched. I always wondered why I feel these emotions and I try to override them, but this makes the most sense. Don’t give power to the intrusive thoughts and try to replace them, let them be and realize you are not your thoughts but your consciousness. Thank you so much!!!! Subscribed ❤️❤️
Crazy how whatever part you are in your awakening the next level awareness happens. Like this topic. Law of balance comes to mind and how emotions influence
You helped me see today that I still have that thought I’m not perfect yet. 😂😂😂😂 I’m glad I realized this today. Thank you so much. It’s all ok ❤. I can totally embrace that with love!!
I’ve been following the LOA community for the past three years and this is BY FAR the best video I have encountered so far. Profound. Thank you so much.
Whoa! This makes so much sense. And explains why it's so much easier to manifest basic physical things (which we rarely doubt that we merit) versus aspirational items and circumstances. Soooo helpful!!!
I really like you..and I really relate to these things. Been practicing for almost a year..it’s been extremely successful and launched my awakening. I am better with people than abundance..but I’m working on it.
Honestly, the times I’ve allowed and accepted what I was feeling in a genuine way, I’ve seen the most movement nearly instantly. When I say, genuine though, I mean I’m doing it because I just want to feel better FOR ME in my own skin at that moment. I’m not doing it so that I can have anyone or anything else. The 3d is a mirror though and how we feel about ourselves others will reflect.
YESSSS!! Exactly this! And the reflection really is instant when you’re doing it in this genuine way (SELF-FOCUSED, not 3D validation-focused). If you’re still trying to force yourself to think/feel differently and it’s more about wanting the 3D to match you as quickly as possible than it is about genuinely taking care of yourself - that’s STILL being someone who’s insecure. Still more reliant on external validation than internal validation. So insecurity will continue to push out.
Yes! this is spot on! Thank you for this!
You can still feel all the feelings and not to mentally label them! U get to this position when u can genuinly feel the energy neagtive or positive and still not mentally label it..all u feel is the raw energy available to you at that moment and now if u transmite it you are true alchemist but if u feel afraid to not face it ,you are deprived of energy
'I love myself enough to not make insecure feelings mean that someone is going to abandon me.' Wow.
"He thinks it’s cute that I’m a little insecure." 😂 omg that’s so true it’s not even funny. I had this happen to me multiple times when I simply assumed that smo likes the things about me I feel insecure about and the 3D confirmed. That’s pretty much how I deal with all my flaws. Just assume they like it.
12:32 ´´its not the feelings i have, its what i make the feelings mean that manifest!!´´ thanks for the reminder, great advice
You know what helped me get sps? I realized I had an anxious attachment style which translated to me constantly needing 3d validation and when I didn’t get it I would worry, question myself and spiral. I fixed it by having positive inner conversation and mastering my self esteem within myself. I completely had experiences similar to yours. ❤️❤️❤️
100% agree! It was anxious attachment style for me also. Realizing this helped me to turn my focus around from the SP and learn to find validation within myself. That validation came by knowing myself as the operant power and one with Source along with learning the anxious feelings are ok. Sitting and allowing those feelings to pass helps the mind and body learn the feeling are not deadly and in essence nothing but sensation with a story attached to it. ❤
For sure! The law of attraction works with the law of vibration. It’s spiritual law and no way around it.
These comments are so helpful to me. Im in a situationship & Im constantly anxious & needing 3D reassure.
But when I am self assure, loving & appreciating me he behaves so positively with me.
This video & your comments are so helpfu. Thank you.
thank you for sharing x
I'm always telling myself am loved either outloud or to myself and it has been helping me vibrate at a higher more positive frequency.
It couldn’t have been easy for you to share this story, but I hope you know that you’ve helped so many people by doing so.
Yes. This content is the PERFECT explanation. Don’t forget, manifesting has absolutely NOTHING to do with techniques, other than self believe, a sense of self competence, and assumptions that either way, you’re going to be ok with or without what you want.
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You are so right about not getting stuck in shadow work or inner child work. What we focus on, is what expands in our life. So when we’re focused on our bad childhood, or bad parents, or bad exes, etc…we’re stuck in that low vibration. It’s a good tool for awareness, just like therapy, but sitting there talking about all your past wounds just keeps you stuck in that vibration of pain, lack, and it reaffirms your insecurities. Use it as a tool to be aware, but then move on and focus on your future. Things started to flow for me when I stopped trying to “figure out” why things happened. They happened, it hurt, it’s ok, and now let’s focus on our bright future instead of our dark past ❤️
Thanks so much for this! Exactly what I needed to read. It resonates.
This 100%. I made that mistake first, and it did keep me stuck! Now focusing on my present & future 💪
I used to subscribe to this channel that focuses on C-ptsd and after seeing videos after videos pop up I put a stop to it. That’s not the way to heal.
Wow, you really explained the secret on how to stop fighting yourself on positive thinking. The current trend teaches us to ignore the insecure or negative feelings, but just as your story reveals ... they will make themselves known, verbally or non-verbally. I love that you're showing us to "simply accept them!" Thank you so much, new sub! ❤🎉
So true
I really find it interesting that the law of attraction is really just The Way (The Tao). It’s not about following a set of ritualistic thinking or actions, it’s just wherever there is stillness, there is the Tao. The trick is, every thought, every feeling that comes up- I do my best to simply accept. Awareness and acceptance. Reflection/redirection is good but you don’t have to exhaust yourself by over psycho analyzing, sometimes just listening and being mindful and aware is enough. I do my best to just listen to my thoughts and feelings! Acceptance to EVERYTHING. And if I can’t accept, I accept that too, lol! For example- I’m feeling so insecure. Acceptance. No I can’t feel insecure because I shouldn’t be feeling insecure because it’s making it worse. Acceptance. I can’t accept this right now! Acceptance. As someone with severe mental health issues, a lot of the law of attraction/assumption teachings have been so harmful.. but this is really good :D No one flows the River to flow, it just does. I do my best not to force anything, and when I do force things, I accept that, too. It really brings a sense of fulfillment and peace and serenity to a rough life.
Some affirmations I use when they feel right: (sometimes they don’t, so I don’t force it)
My best today is good enough.
I am doing my best.
I let the problem solve itself.
I let the story unfold naturally.
I deeply, completely, and profoundly love, accept, and forgive myself.
I surrender to the flow.
I also use ho’oponopono:
I love you. I am sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you.
And my favorite!
Oh, well. 🤷♀️
If anyone is interested in a book that personally changed my life and has continuously helped me through the darkest of dark times, The Tao of Pooh! It is such an easy, fun, relaxing read that will really make you feel peaceful and uplifted. I also recommend the Pixar movie Soul :D
Thank you so much for your video! ❤️
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Thank you so much for your comment!!
This is extremely helpful and its crazy because im beginning to learn how to be okay and accept my uncomfortable emotions and this video comes up. Thank you.
You got this!
@@ManifestwithGenevieve thank you
This is one of my fav manifesting videos i saw from you because it’s so in alignment to what im going through right now. It’s near to impossible for me to feel good about what im going through right now. But I have to focus on self care and know that everything is working for me and I am going to get what I want because I’m so deserving!
This video might actually save my life. This has been the one thing that has been “ruining” my manifestations. I’ve recently been allowing myself to accept my anxiety not judge it, which has been really helpful, so I don’t know why I didn’t apply this same mentality to my negative thoughts & feelings. Hearing you talk about how you felt like the minute you started to invest in a man they no longer reciprocated was … it made me feel incredibly seen. Thank you so much for this message.
Youre too hot to have anxiety. Just be sexy and relax
Thanks Genevieve, I stumbled upon this video at a time when I really needed it! I was feeling shit this morning & now I feel confident again. You're a legend!! 💪🤞👊
I’m so grateful for this video. I was trying to be super happy all the time and it made me feel worse and worse. I watched this video yesterday and when I was about to sleep I was thinking: I am not perfect but it doesn’t matter. It’s all these perfect imperfections what makes me loveable. I was singing All of me in my mind. The next morning I started the engine of my car and what was playing straight away on the radio??? All of me! I was so happy and strongly believe I could manage my first cool manifestation. Thank you so much!!!! ❤️
I love your voice tone and how you talk to us…it doesn’t sound fake like other coaches. It’s so real!
After a life of abuse originating from a narcissistic mother and sister, and attracting narcissistic people in pretty much every other relationship in my life, and trying my hardest for many, many years to overcome that to manifest the life that I want, this is precisely what I needed to hear right now to eliminate this final block! You have said it in just the right way that I can now hear it! Thank you, thank you, thank you! Please continue your important work in raising the vibration and clearing as many people as possible!
Literally 100% what I needed rn. I feel like you always upload exactly what we need which is crazy 😭
This is such a valuable video. I often just go along with my thoughts, passively agreeing with them. But also not giving myself permission to feel what I feel and I’ll still get xyz anyway. 🙏🏼 You are glowing too ✨
I don't know what to say right now, I just love this lady. You just spoke about me here. Thank you so much. Be blessed
This video is proof to me that when the student is ready, the right teacher appears. Oh MY GOD ❤❤ the content in this is....damn! Right that's suppression! I've been doing really good with my affirmation routine and it did feel like suppression during these times, hence not working. And wouldn't I anyway want a partner who accepts me with my anxiety too? Damn!!
Exactly!! Who wants a relationship where you have to be perfect for your partner all the time just to maintain their love? A healthy relationship dynamic is one where there's room for humanness and, and yes, even occasional insecurities. So practice accepting that YOU can have this dynamic right now!
you put it so perfectly I’ve also been trying to get to the end state when anxiety comes up! it really always works out for me snd my highest good
@@melchol2121 thank you! We'll get through this and manifest acceptance of ourselves and from others
Thank-you for the thorough explanation, I have watched many other LOA teachers on RUclips and many are really good, however you are first LOA teacher that actually explained how to deal with strong emotions. I feel grateful you gave me and everyone else the permission to feel and to take it the next step up and accept. I sense this is the game changer that I needed and prayed for.
So much has clicked for me because of you over the past couple days. No one has ever explained this so well before. I have been running and hiding from my emotions for years since being introduced to LOA; and you’re the first person who really gave me a lightbulb moment about my anxiety and insecurities and I’ve really looked deep into how I feel about myself.
That bit you said " It's not the feelings I'm having it's what I make them mean" BOOM!! light bulb moment in my head, so powerful. Thank you so much for that moment of truth WOW! You carry so much crap around and you instantly believe them. Never challenging them re framing them
24:13 this part, amazing!! Such a lightbulb moment, how you treat yourself in those moments is the key! And you from 10 years ago? I can relate, but that’s all changing now. I’m so glad I discovered your channel, your videos have been so valuable to me in learning how to actually deal with negative emotions/feelings. Myself and so much others have struggled with that and it’s nice to have a coach that helps us truly deal with these things in a compassionate and effective way. I immediately start putting the things you talk about into practice and it’s been so helpful and honestly life changing. Thank you and keep it up! ❤️
Today is Day 17 of your Manifest your SP course-IT HAS TRULY CHANGED ME😎-and, there are ups and downs, but I got myself back! I have let go of outcomes and the 3D. I am having trouble seeing SP as the new version-but, I am really enjoying visiting the new version of the future w him-when the old version creeps in I started doing the Ho Oponopono thought to being the new back. It’s simple and something I can call on instantly! Even though there are some really tough things to work through, this is an awesome experience! Thank you!♥️
Yessss!! So happy to hear this! Keep going, you'll naturally feel more shifts as you gently continue to practice 💓
Have you checked out Marvin's room? You both ought to collaborate!
Wow this helped me sooo much. I love how many times you said “I know” I swear there’s so much power to those words. Every times I’ve got something fast. It’s when I’ve demanded “I knowwwww”
I heard of this method before but your explanation just opened a whole new understanding of how to use it in my life, thank you.
when i tell you i woke up in the middle of the night maybe 3-4 hours before you uploaded this and couldn’t sleep because i was trying to work through my negative thoughts 😭 as someone who is trying to work on reframing my thoughts in a more positive light, THANK YOU. i relate to you from 10 years ago in so many parts of my life and this video is exactly what i needed to hear today.
Wonderful advice. You described me to a T. For so many years I was very mean to myself for having feelings that I thought I shouldn't have because that's how I grew up. I got beat up physically, verbally, and emotionally for feelings. But now I'm being kind to myself like you're saying and it makes all the difference in the world.
Im 65. You helped me today. Thank you for this video. 💗
This is exactly where I’m at, thank you so much. I’ve just started practicing accepting my feelings/non suppression but I was in this rebellious mindset of: I will care for myself and be there even if no one else is.
I can see where that isn’t going to get me what I truly desire either. To be able to accept my feelings AND know that other people accept it too is taking me exactly where I want to be.
I don't really comment on videos but I just need to express how you're the thread I'm hanging onto...I'm so grateful I found your channel...I liked a guy so much it made me change my ways of thinking about myself discover the manifestation community and be aware of self concept.... I've now realised how I've always rejected the blessings just because I was scared of getting hurt...I was so caught up in reality and now I've learnt how much our thoughts matter ... I've still not achieved my manifestation but I'm a lot better now than the past few months I've spent being so overly anxious and heartbroken... If anyone reads this I'm so confused in my situation I wish I could talk to someone cuz my friends are sick of hearing his name the way I talk so much about him...also if you read it till now Please pray and manifest my sp will like me back...even if I can't have him please pray for his safety and good health
Love the content! It’s not invalidating my feelings but big shift on the idea of embracing insecurity but gave a new perspective on how we assume the other person would react.
Wanna like this twice. That is exactly the change that I am doing that I didn’t know I was. With the same person.
I just love ur content so much. A few weeks ago I was having difficulties with some manifestations and I asked my inner being to give me a direction and your content showed up on my yt feed. I was a little resistent to Open it but as soon as I did all my answers started to show up. Every subject of the vídeos yt was recomanding me of yours was exactly what I was asking for clarification. Thank u gienevive for allowing your self to live your truth and sharing it with us ❤
I've watched all of your content and I am looking forward to more. I'm manifesting your self-concept course right now. Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us!
Love this, Thanks for sharing, its good to accept negative thoughts when they come in but then cancelling them out and thinking but I know I am secure and confident and everything always works out for me and these thoughts are just my brain trying to sabotage the new me and I just have to overwrite the old thought process with the new thoughts lol this is what I am gonna be telling myself from now on. Thank You
This message was so incredibly helpful to me. From the bottom of my heart, thank you. Thank you! ❤️
This is exactly what I needed today 😭😭 thank you so much. I understood everything and I received it.
Everything you speak about is everything I've been working through for years to get to this point now in my 40's with my family. To anyone forever struggling, It's OK. I still go through loads of emotion, but it's the thing that ironically keeps me growing. Not for anyone else's approval, but my own recognition and acceptance of myself. From here it's then you begin to realize how much the world needs you to be authentic - not to just survive but to lead by example and thrive. Gl to all you wonderful souls! Great video ❤🎉
This is perfect, exactly what we need to hear. I have had realization in your story. I will put this on practice. Thank you so much ❤
Right from the beginning, this is the most relatable video I’ve ever seen on manifestation 👏 instantly subscribed. Thank you 🙏 this really put things into perspective. I tend to be highly self aware, self critical, anxious but sometimes despite all this, I still manage to manifest what I want (and sometimes I don’t) and what you said really helps to understand the difference. Also, what a beautiful way of reaching self acceptance 🙂 not punishing yourself for the feelings but reframing them ✨
I’m so glad I found your channel! You explain these concepts and TRUTH so well. You also explain it in a way to keep us grounded and practical.
Finally a video that explains what self concept really is!!! This is extremely helpful! Thanks for posting this! Now I really understand, and you're right
it has given me a completely different point of view about my inner dialogue and the way I handle that same awkward nervousness and self doubt.
Great video and thank you. I've been trying to ignore my feelings for so long and finally am allowing myself to feel, look at things from a different perspective and can move on and feel good.
You have helped me so much and to learn how to not suppress my old feelings but to acknowledge them and learn how to deal with it.
Thank you sooooooo much for sharing your own experience, I can't tell you how normal it helped me feel to hear somebody else having the same experience with insecurities that can seem silly but have such big impacts on life!
I'm new to your channel. I can honestly say you've turned my life around literally overnight. I finally feel a sense of calmness. I've let go and already I've manifested. I can't believe it. I feel I got a superpower. I'm looking forward to the future at last.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart x
Honestly persistence is better for fast manifestations. Self concept is the best for keeping it
This pattern is unfortunately familiar, and anxiety that comes when thinking about people that I feel attected to is sometimes overwhelming. It's really disturbing and usually makes people start affirming to make this feeling go away.
Thank you Genevieve for sharing your story and perspective on how to deal with this stuff 👍
Just want to add... This has been the best video on manifestation I've ever seen, and I've seen a lot!
I am someone who struggles with low self esteem, core belief that there's something wrong with me, fearful avoidant, limerent... So what you've shared here is a huge relief to me. Those insecure thoughts will always come, it's part of my journey, and by accepting them and then thinking "he thinks it's cute and authentic that I feel that way" or "the potential employers value human emotions and courage" I'm accepting myself fully and showing myself I'm worthy of love regardless of my insecurities and imperfections. Thank you!
You have no idea how your videos are helping me these days. I really, really, REALLY needed to hear this message. I am so grateful for your teachings, also your honesty and clarity. Im having major epiphanies watching your videos !! Like... wow... !! We are multiple beings.. how could we even suppress our emotions? You're right, true love really is about being able to acknowledge our flaws, and still hold ourselves in high regards! We'll always be a work in progress! I'm currently learning to embrace myself fully... what a journey... but its about time! 😄
This makes a lot of sense. It’s about the energy you send that people feel whatever energy you send out.
sooooo agree!!!💜 embracing all the shadow, all the emotions helps to keep the flow --- often in the spiritual arenas and energy work arenas we want to bypass our humanity, our emotions...but reality our emotions when fully experienced, processed, and walked through -- leads to great awareness, wisdom and guidance ....
Wow what you described as yourself in the past is me now, totally! Thank you for sharing 💓
Thank you, such a powerful video. When waking up in the morning I'd often feel anxious and discouraged. I know that these feelings stem from an old self but I somehow have still been letting myself get talked into negative stuff. This ends now!😊
THANK YOU! For talking about suppression of emotions and how that's not the way. Acknowledging how you really feel and think and taking a step back, because we are not PERFECT. We need to remind ourselves that we deserve it all but when a trigger appears or when this kind of thoughts pop in or both at the same time we take that moment to realize that they don't hold the power over us...
WOW! Your words are a true blessing! You have a true gift of explaining and breaking it down for us. This was the most groundbreaking youtube video for me. Thank you for sharing this and your knowledge! I will definitely repeat this video.
This was actually so helpful. It reminded me that my regardless of my current situation, it's not the end of the world.
This is very helpful, and practical. You explain things exceptionally well. You are a talented uplifter.
I see myself in all of your stories. I’ve never known anyone who was as self-conscious as I was growing up😂.
Great advice. Accept the feelings. I spent so much time in therapy and it definitely helped but I could’ve stopped sooner for sure. Once you have the insight you need, walk away and be your own therapist with this self- soothing you’re talking about here. Thanks for the reminder.
Great video! Thanks for sharing. I feel like there is one more missing puzzle piece in addition to the acknowledgement of the old story and reacting to it. The missing piece is to clear your energy field so that the situations don’t keep repeating. During meditation, clear your energy field from the unwanted feelings, thoughts and situations. All the best! 🎉🎉🎉
First video that popped up when I opened RUclips. Exactly what I needed to hear this morning. What a great way to wake up. Thank you so much Genevieve!
Thank you for doing this -so out of the box and so brave and a real true lesson- it's not what we feel -it's how we react and the meaning we give-thank you i love your videos
I feel like this is exactly what I've been missing.... Thank you, sincerely!
I am your new biggest fan. Thank you! I'm a hypnotherapist and had even started questioning if I'm good at my job. Because I could have a relationship. All I had was a string of 1 to 4 dates and then poof. Thank you! I had done inner child work till I started thinking I was missing something. This makes so much sense.
This is so true. Ive been doing loa for years but always surpressed bad feelings. Only recently I finally made the choice to sit with my fear and feel it and confirm i do feel scared but I'm an eternal being who can survive and turn anything into a positive experience
I’m so grateful to have found you Gen❤
Well said! Couldn't agree more with what you said in this video. I used to think that if I feel a certain way or have doubts but I can still feel emotions, thoughts, and have doubt and still have my manifestation be already done. Learning to acknowledge it when it comes up and soothe it with self love really does work! Thank you for this! ❤
You were not wrong when you said this was a game changer!! Also thank you for the super relatable examples!!
You are the very first person I've listened to who TRULY addresses the whole person and how to really deal with our insecurities and vulnerabilities! I just found you tiday and became a member, the story of the minute you liked a guy all your insecurities and intensity comes to the fore front.I had a guy tell me i was "Too much" and he pushed away, even though it hurt a lot bc my mom always criticized me about being too much, but i was able to turn it around it and say hey, this is great! i always believed i wasn't enough..now someone is telling me I'm too much, so what? i like that part of me! and btw, this guy and I are still friends.Anyway,THANK YOU!!!
Exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you Genevieve!
your videos are incredible....very high level concepts in easy, true ways to work through the issues. I remember when I was younger I had a friend over and I was so nervous that it would be boring that I started telling her about all the socks in my drawer. And forget about people opening presents that I gave them at a bday party....I realized I inherited that insecurity from my mom who is actually so warm and friendly and outgoing but also subconsciously insecure about so many things. So confusing! But now Im to the point where manifesting for me looks like living my best life each day...trying to live a good life and take care of myself.
I actually really appreciate that you were so forthcoming with details like the hookup with the casual guy bc its one for one what i experience sometimes, like the overthinking and the ease that disappears in me the moment i start to energetically pursue, but the details really helped put me in your shoes and get it.
@@FreeSoul-ep6cr Think of it this way: the guy is "putting out" too. Its a transaction, is how I see it, like going out to eat together. Sex is a physical need and sure its great when its within an emotional committed relationship, but sometimes both ppl just want a quick and easy solution. Why should we have to run the gamut of first date, second date, going out to eat, discussing long term plans, etc, just to be able to take care of a physical need?
The key moment for me in this video was when you said the bit about constantly judging the insecure parts of ourselves. Immediately, that clicked with the idea that instead of judging that part, acknowledging that part, thanking it, and comforting it.
Excellent video and a great piggyback off your video on anger. I'd been experiencing loops recently of intense angry inner conversations, and then I'd start wrestling with them which would naturally make them worse. Now I'm starting to view the anger and frustration as an ally and catalyst, propelling me into my desired reality.
Wow thank you that make sense! Have room for your emotions and still believe in yourself. In other way positively embrace your negative emotions. It is okay to have insecurity, low self esteem and ect we still can get what we desire ❤ having that awareness about how to operate our system in that loving way give us understanding towards ourself and great self-confidence in your dreams. I was moved by how beautiful it is that we are becoming more and more friendly to our feelings. We're making progress! 🎉
This is a huge perspective shift, thank you!
Tyvm for sharing this experience. Creation is creation... this is such a great showing...
I really needed this today. I reacted to something that occurred with my sp over the weekend and im not happy with it. It was better than the past but still didnt do what you just mentioned but im trying to stand strong in knowing everything is fine and he loves me no matter what.
Wow, this video is gold! Thank you so much for all this amazing advice. The amount of views this video has got, shows how valuable it is to so many. Thank you so much Genevieve! 🙏🏼
Very good tip taking away resistance 🌹
I discovered your channel 2 weeks ago.
I don't know how old you are. However, you are a true gem.
I wish you all the best.
This is a great episode.
Godspeed to you.
This video is everything I’ve been needing!!! …I relate to this so much & I didn’t even realize this was happening. Makes so much sense. You explained this so well. Thank you!!!!
Great description. I remember how I used to be like that. I appreciate how you've explained that. Thank you. 🌈 💖🌺xx
This is such a good way to explain everything omg thank you!
The might be the most helpful LOA video I’ve ever watched. I always wondered why I feel these emotions and I try to override them, but this makes the most sense. Don’t give power to the intrusive thoughts and try to replace them, let them be and realize you are not your thoughts but your consciousness.
Thank you so much!!!! Subscribed ❤️❤️
You're describing my reality! I tend to repel what I really really want.
Crazy how whatever part you are in your awakening the next level awareness happens. Like this topic. Law of balance comes to mind and how emotions influence
Amazing content! Thank you for giving back.
This video is amazing. I appreciate your vulnerability and it truly helps
You helped me see today that I still have that thought I’m not perfect yet. 😂😂😂😂 I’m glad I realized this today. Thank you so much. It’s all ok ❤. I can totally embrace that with love!!
I’ve been following the LOA community for the past three years and this is BY FAR the best video I have encountered so far. Profound. Thank you so much.
I have been binge-watching your videos and they are some of the most helpful videos I have seen in a long time I really appreciate you
Thank you so much, the universe answered my rays by guiding me here. This is exactly where I am and this message what I really needed 🙏🏽❤blessed you
You're a really good teacher. Thank you for this video
Whoa! This makes so much sense. And explains why it's so much easier to manifest basic physical things (which we rarely doubt that we merit) versus aspirational items and circumstances. Soooo helpful!!!
This is such a terrific message! Thank you so much.❤❤❤
I really like you..and I really relate to these things. Been practicing for almost a year..it’s been extremely successful and launched my awakening. I am better with people than abundance..but I’m working on it.